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00:02this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:14is possible will you pique my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village all
00:48what happens next is up to them keep it would you like to see each other again romantically
01:01yeah i would too oh jesus christ i was gonna have a hat i do my hair toss check my
01:08nails baby how you
01:10feel are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute future
01:18did
01:18that run not much needs to be done to this you can polish do you have any strategy when it
01:28comes to
01:28a date none whatsoever none i'm going in blind it's just that thing of like just rocking up and just
01:36going for it like i do my hair washed and i pour have a bit of tan because i think
01:42whatever about
01:43your hair and makeup if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things that remind
01:46me like alice you're great you got this you got this girl you got this brocco we look gorgeous thanks
01:57some people just can't get enough attention but ms not one of them she's maxed out do you get chatted
02:05up
02:05sometimes i do go out and i'm just like can people just leave me the alone i'm like just off
02:14sometimes i look at them and i'd be like where are you coming from i'm coming from clerny
02:19you know what's wrong with the kerry men there's just something wrong with them especially the clerny men
02:25really something wrong with them what hobbies have you what hobbies have i i like to go to the gym
02:33i
02:33like to go for hot girl walks what's a hot girl walk so it's when you put on your sunglasses
02:38you chew
02:39a piece of gum and you look straight and you walk you walk like you own the town
02:45describe yourself in three words for me pretty a tad bit obnoxious and funny so would you say that you
02:53are particular like do you need a person i guess that has things or is successful and has to be
02:59a
03:00certain way definitely okay okay so what would you deem as a successful person someone i guess
03:05it was a good job has their life together knows what they want is able to drive 100 yeah i'm
03:13built
03:14to be a passenger princess if you don't have a full license you don't have a care i'm like immediately
03:19no i'm not driving you around the place i'm sorry not at all it can't be a car for apollo
03:25they give me
03:27the a what are you looking for like a bentley or not step martin if one wants to go my
03:31way then like so
03:32can you find me one well i'll try find myself one first then i'll get you one after
03:39wow okay god love the person coming in you should ask them that straight away
03:44all my friends hi i'm jack i'm 21 and i'm from kerry the low rider is a little higher boy
03:55racer or
03:57trusty pickup you'll be the judge from the first day's restaurant to find my new woman to find a bit
04:03of love it's a bit uh a bit exciting a bit exciting i could chat to a wall ah it's
04:12it's all the charm the
04:13charm is my biggest thing uh compliments first and then a bit of laughter and that always works
04:18hello how are you mr how are you how are you nice to meet you jack nice to meet you
04:24jack how are you
04:25yeah like that you like that beautiful for you and you have success with that i like to think so
04:32but uh
04:33not often i wouldn't be i wouldn't be too busy on the old dating scene so it's that is what
04:39it is
04:39okay you're ready to do this ready to bring it to the bar your date is at the bar yeah
04:44all right
04:45all right get your shit together yeah i've met people before that have you know i've brought the
04:54confidence out and and i like that that's what i love make people happy and you know feel confident
04:59about themselves but i'd love to meet someone who's confident themselves hi hi how are you
05:06jack is nice to meet you it's nice to meet you what's your name sorry mim mim yeah so i
05:11got you
05:12a little uh i would say definitely i am a tough cookie i am hard to impress definitely where you
05:20from
05:20i'm from clarney no way yeah who yourself yeah i'm from clarney clarney told me yeah right here
05:28what i'm um just like castle island castle island just outside yeah only down the road so how did you
05:35come up uh drove up i stayed in mace uh last night uh family uh okay journey up is working
05:42my carriage you
05:42drive let's hear it no you go first now what do you drive i drive for fast
05:50no i have a few a few a few so i suppose i've gone into cars when i was about
06:0011 or 12 through my
06:02father and uh car collection has just grown okay let's hear them all i have a few japanese cars okay
06:08um but i dated bmw oh wow okay
06:21the pain is long
06:26for old school romantic liam love is the gift that keeps on giving oh life could be a dream
06:34if i look to me you do happen for somebody you care about them you have interest in them
06:43you want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you
06:48welcome how's it going very good mr yourself great your name please name mateo nice to meet you liam
06:54nice how is everything everything is great yeah everything is good hopefully it'll get better yeah
06:59yeah yeah yeah if the attraction is there initially brilliant i'm not going to try and impress them
07:05purely to impress them as i used to do i like that there they'll give a bit of a gift
07:10there
07:11be nice to cuddle up to somebody at times just like the intimacy that'd be nice it's not for you
07:21i've actually stopped focusing on the chocolate that's not good i know that's what i'm saying
07:25it's not for you yeah oh that's a decent box of chocolates as well is it oh god yeah absolutely
07:31chance though fair play to you smart as i said you can't eat flowers i got married in 86
07:37they split up in 96 i was in another relationship after a few years for a few years
07:45and i have not been in any relationship since then listen at least you put yourself out there
07:51that's very number one yeah absolutely we see what happens we see what happens
07:56nothing stops esther putting herself out there certainly not the neighbors
08:04i'm 64 i'm not doing too bad like i wouldn't care to opens i go into the back garden in
08:10my bikini
08:10if somebody's didn't want to look at me i couldn't care less
08:21i suppose i'm not the normal nanny yeah that's what they tell me i would like somebody to get
08:29their knickers in a knot over nothing no time for that life's too short
08:43but it doesn't define your night ahead oh i so didn't want to get that wrong i used to be
08:50very
08:50confident i think i need to get my competence back no don't be but you're a gorgeous lady why would
08:56you be nervous why would you be nervous but he's gonna be nervous when you come back can i look
09:01around
09:01she know he can't no be cool okay be cool be cool she's beautiful is she she's very beautiful yeah
09:07yeah
09:08they've done well here they're doing well they're doing well they're doing well i can't stop looking
09:12at your eyes i'm blue same like yours oh my god no yours is so blue anyway i need to
09:20behave myself okay
09:21i think you're ready you do okay good yeah let's do it i suppose it'd be exciting i kind of
09:29like to get
09:30i don't know you know i'll go out there and fail terrible esther you don't look half that all right
09:37now
09:37hello hello how are you doing i'm good how are you great i'm liam how are you are you
09:45nice to see you look fantastic beautiful dress do you like chocolates i do
09:57oh my god i do indeed somebody kind of that looks okay hair no hair whatever you know we're all
10:07getting a little bit older here will you have a drink i surely will um a little bit of everything
10:13that you have one glass with about 12 straws i'll have a glass of wine that's what white red uh
10:22white
10:22please what are you having i just sparkly water oh yeah yeah yeah that's a baby so
10:33so how many siblings have you two sisters okay yourself i just have one older brother one older brother
10:39how old is he he's 22 we're just like a year and like nine months apart we would be close
10:45but we
10:45still do absolutely kill each other till this day and is he living with you yeah four of you in
10:51the house
10:51no my parents divorced so my parents got divorced when i was like maybe like eight or nine so it's
10:56just
10:56myself my mom my brother oh okay do you mind me asking should you talk to that no i haven't
11:03spoken to
11:03him i'd say like five or six years that's mad yeah no like we live in the same town and
11:07everything
11:07like there's no hate no nothing we just don't talk yeah that's just i'm the same you're the same
11:12it's great fact yeah i live with my dad okay so you live with your dad then so uh yeah
11:16i haven't
11:16talked to my mom in nine years okay and how old were you when they kind of got separated and
11:22stuff
11:22uh 12 well they separated when i was very young uh i can't even remember it's probably a toddler like
11:28and then i live with my mom until i was about 12 okay and uh with them we followed him
11:34when i was
11:3413 my father just he took me in he taught me everything you know i i was a proper little
11:41scumbag
11:42when i was younger like and uh oh it's just i'm happier way more respect for everything you know i
11:49feel
11:49like i'm a nice person now because of him and yeah he changed me 100 percent but my brother is
11:55still
11:55in the environment so it's uh it's his fault i am in the cares you know yeah i like her
12:01but i love it
12:02so is it just the two of you living at home just two we'll say yeah that's not right
12:10are you divorced or you passed or i'm divorced i'm married i was um i met my husband when i
12:18was
12:1915 yeah and we married when i was 18
12:25and then we separated after 15 years yeah and it was a hard breakup yeah yeah yeah but we have
12:34the
12:35best relationship that's great at the end it didn't work out and it was a difficult breakup but all we
12:43had been doing was just trying to keep stuff together it wasn't working and we were doing it for the
12:48kids
12:48and i'll tell you i am so glad i married yeah yeah yeah because i have two daughters yeah yeah
12:57yeah
12:57and i have grandchildren yeah yeah yeah it's brilliant that you get on so well now oh yeah yeah yeah
13:03he drives me bad yeah he would not be with me for all the tea in china yeah yeah and
13:11i wouldn't be with
13:11him but you see the relationship you have is both yeah grateful yeah yeah yeah how about you
13:19myself and myself and my ex though we could hardly be in the same room oh yeah sure that happens
13:28introducing kevin from leash well that's one way to describe him then here's another
13:33uh okay just a basic old game man that's all yeah
13:42i'm always the one doing the chasing usually i like i want to do like a full research
13:51i thought maybe if i take it out with my own hands it might make the situation a bit easier
13:58welcome hello how's everything i'm good thanks how are you when you get a little bit older you
14:03realize that love is not all rainbows and lollipops and fizzes in your tummy all right mister no it's
14:10about who's your lobster what's your name calvin nice to meet you nice to meet you calvin yeah like
14:16the county like the county you probably get that all the time do you where's that look it's a
14:20conversation starter isn't it yeah um my grandmother is from calvin okay and then there's everyone that
14:25calls me kevin and kelvin and calvin and gavin and i'm just like yeah no problem yeah call me tom
14:30if you if it makes you happy i don't know it just doesn't bother me where are you from uh
14:35leash
14:35strabelly oh i'm from joro very good fellow leash man yes tough isn't it dating's not that good though
14:43it's not no no no that's why i'm standing here a few small kids as well so they keep me
14:49occupied
14:50how many kids i have three how old are they so 13 11 and eight so you've only recently come
14:57out kind
14:57of really you're like recent as uh like january 21 that's pretty recent
15:17how do you feel about the field or how do i feel inside
15:22how do you feel about the field no i'm talking about the field no no no no no no no
15:29no no no no
15:29i'm so i'm fussy fussy i'm a fussy eater yeah don't eat onions tomatoes uh peppers okay when
15:39i get pizza red onion is a must yeah but we can get a half and half
15:46in the grand scheme of things marching believes that size really matters I'm looking for love a
15:54big love I'm very soft inside when I have a bad day I have a bad day if I want
16:04to cry I do cry so
16:06I like someone who's gonna come and hug me and say everything's gonna be okay instead of coming
16:10to me and say grow up you're a big man I like man kind of bigger maybe both maybe beard
16:18not skinny
16:22come and compose how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you too your name please
16:26much much in spolsky suppose how is everything good yeah stress a little bit just follow your
16:34instincts man they got you so far your date is at the bar oh really so I'm on the second
16:41either
16:42BJ may in a gym out to breathe and breathe out I'm gonna be very shy at the start I'm
16:49actually
16:50even thinking don't bring me a very hot car hi hi how are you how are you nice to meet
16:58you nice to meet
17:04you you nervous I am little bit what I was thinking like if I'm gonna sit down have a drink
17:08then it's
17:08gonna be up here you know yeah that'll be fine where you come from I live in Dublin okay I
17:14live in
17:15in Chicago but I'm from Poland okay originally I live here 20 years very good where are you from leash
17:20leash
17:20never been leash yeah I don't even know actually where it is well it's like right in the middle I
17:26feed
17:26our vibes and look even if it's not somebody that I match with I mean let's have dinner and have
17:34a
17:34drink and have a laugh tell me your name sorry Calvin Calvin one more time I'm sorry I'm so that's
17:41okay
17:41don't be stressed and so to enjoy your job I do I kind of fell into it when I was
18:00like 17 I was like
18:01Christmas staff so I started working in pharmacy when I slowly made my way up sometimes it can be
18:06stressful but at the most times advice you like interacting with people from all types of
18:10backgrounds did you go to college or no no no no straight forward yeah same for myself okay yeah
18:15yeah so I built wind turbines because we go into the back ass of nowhere what I do is I
18:23take them
18:23down and put them back up right so those big windmills the big windmills right this week now I got
18:29thrown in Tipperary the week okay but I have the choices like staying overnight I'm coming back here
18:33there okay and where do you usually stayed I'm on my own so I just stay away there's no point
18:38going
18:38home if I had a reason to go home I go home hello the lads you know it's like a
18:44second family the views as
18:46well when you're working make go up there two o'clock in the morning and then you hit the sunset
18:51at five or
18:52six in the morning it's beautiful how long have you been doing nothing I think two years though okay
18:58what age are you 21 21 yeah when's your birthday September I'm 20 I'll be 21 like a week and
19:06a half
19:06I'm 13 she's not gonna get caught for birthday presents only oh wow I have your steak oh thank you
19:24and the chicken supreme lovely thank you another good choice enjoy thank you I'd like to be so many
19:31with similar values as myself I believe happiness is be grateful for what we have instead of being
19:37miserable about what we haven't got so what do you do then for the pleasure enjoyment are you like me
19:48you
19:49what do you do for car I do I get annoyed myself and I didn't do something yeah I'm doing
19:57a couple of
19:58walking lately because I've booked the Camino and you have not my life only started when I gave up
20:05drinking maybe 20 years ago this year since I gave her up and it's the best thing I ever did
20:11in my life
20:12my greatest achievement no I wasn't happy I wasn't happy it was fair from happy and I used to go
20:27to
20:27the pub for three or four points and that was the story of my life but I never left after
20:33three or four
20:43points relationships when I was younger people I grew with people women and it wouldn't last long
20:49and did all tell me I'm a lovely person bush they never told me the bush but I am convinced
20:56now that
20:56both was I was an alcoholic something I want to do I'm totally on my own I think I never
21:02really went
21:03anywhere without people before there was somebody with me or whatever and it's meant to be a
21:09spiritual kind of journey yeah it's able to be comfort zone totally you know but it's a challenge
21:17well done you I haven't done it yet doesn't matter when I got married I found a girl that loved
21:24me
21:26and I was afraid to let her go because I believed nobody else is gonna love me
21:33and that's part of the reason I married I get you know I'm so insecure of myself and that I
21:41put all
21:42that down to alcoholism I've learned to be comfortable on me own be happy yeah I'm content I've learned to
21:50like myself I think I never liked myself too much but since I've been on me own I've learned to
21:58like
21:58myself that I'm not that part of her so really believe it or not I give you reward
22:11my sister with me she lives with me now oh I brought her here two years ago good good you
22:18have a
22:19siblings I have two brothers and a sister yeah who is the oldest I'm the oldest you're the oldest are
22:25you're taking care of everything so yeah yeah I'm not nervous about being rejected but sometimes
22:31people are not willing to date and men that have kids and that's fine that's on them but I feel
22:39like
22:39it's not something that I need to declare but then sometimes they're a bit shocked like oh you didn't
22:44say hi kids and like well did that did I need to and so I also have three kids you
22:51have tricky
22:52kids yeah so they keep me busy too nice to hear yeah yeah and do you like kids or I
22:57do like kids
22:58and I have some oh do you yes well that's the another reason I came to Ireland yeah is he
23:04here yes
23:06and how old is he he's 21 years old right now he lives in Leeson Varna okay so after one
23:13year when I
23:13got the job and everything and I was feeling safe yeah I brought his mother and him and does she
23:21still
23:21live in Leeson Varna we're still there with him we've been friends forever and we still not love
23:26each other I can't say love each other but like you know what I mean like we've been in this
23:29together
23:30that's a you know what I mean yeah so I have one song you know but you have three like
23:35so you have
23:35fun yeah they're they're they're great kids I want to know more and they're they're they're the love of
23:42my life okay we have a lot of fun so when I do when I see them I really make
23:47the most and we do stuff
23:48but then I like I won't lie I get really lonely then when they leave and I don't want it
23:56to be just me
24:06what would you say you're looking for then what am I looking for yeah it's a cool question that yeah
24:13um uh I'm just looking for someone someone I can like uh be around it's not like put the foot
24:26knife and fork down no I get a bit serious like okay no I'm looking for someone I can come
24:34home to
24:35do you know what I mean yeah when I'm working or something so I want someone to give my free
24:39time
24:39and look after them like I know what I want and when I do find someone who has everything I
24:44want
24:45I'll go for it until then I won't like what are your interests like clothes so you like dressing up
24:52well you look lovely that's all right I'll give you that one I'd say people think right off the bat
24:57that I'm like so like self-obsessed and just like a bitch really but like like once you get to
25:02know me
25:03people do think I'm lovely well you look after yourself that's the main thing that's lovely yeah like I like
25:08to look done up every day yeah like I wake up at 5 45 most mornings I start work at
25:12like half seven
25:13so I like to have like my hair and makeup done for like half seven in the morning so you
25:18wake up
25:18just under two hours before work to get ready yeah I gotta look perfect every day yeah I think I
25:25drive you mad do you wash your face in the morning don't even answer it I don't know I don't
25:31want to hear it
25:31anymore ew I'm hardy like I'll tell you auntie now I will come back here tomorrow for that study
25:40it's lovely sweet cheese lovely it's gorgeous and the pepper sauce sorry my teacher can want to use
25:47here for me don't worry about it I have that problem as well don't worry about it you're grand
25:57what's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on we met and we had dinner which was quite nice and
26:03it was lovely and he said can I give you a kiss and I said yeah okay I said we'll
26:08have to buy him
26:08dinner or whatever I'll have to give him a kiss if I'm at home now they come out I don't
26:12have to be
26:13what okay obviously wear them but when I'm at home they come out oh I would not would you not
26:19I would not
26:22he kissed me and he says to me I have a present for you in the car
26:29and he went did he come out with a bag of fish
26:36do you know he was fixing it I do when you start eating it seems to come loose
26:41top or bottom top maybe yeah yeah yeah maybe I'm doing something wrong no you're not used enough
26:50I said gone are the days of the military and roses I'm faking bag of fish
26:57if you'll excuse me I'm going to leave and stick them back in
27:13how does a penguin build a house he glues it together
27:19why do the Norwegians put barcodes on their ships so when they dock they can Scandinavian
27:27did you hear about the cheese factory that uh exploded in France the brie was everywhere
27:35will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian it's all in the delivery
27:41hey how's it going man with a gift absolutely 100% how's that how are you
27:47nice to meet you you know well well I've never dated in secondary school I just didn't feel
27:51like anybody like me that sounded really bad but like I had no flirting game whatsoever
27:58how do you feel buddy I'm a little nervous but like I think they're good nerves as I've grown
28:03up a bit I've kind of become more confident in myself and uh just trying to put myself out
28:08there a little bit now you know and what's your regular type or do you have a type that's
28:12a great question I don't necessarily have like a particular type um just somebody who
28:17I can just get on with it's a bit of a yapper like someone who loves to talk maybe someone
28:21who shares the same obsession for football as I do you know ah yes the beautiful game until
28:27that is cuiva starts handing out red cards since 2022 I have been compiling like an ick list
28:36someone who doesn't like garlic dip now that's a strong one Malibu and milk being your choice
28:41to drink on a night out apparently it's like called a Malibu or something
28:49make you proud of yourself now you didn't do it properly that's like the scariest part
28:53hey hey hey hey hey hey how are you I'm cuiva cuiva what they're nice with you well look at
28:58yourself yeah girl you look lovely thank you so much you look lovely our kids gonna be very nervous
29:03when he sees you well so what kind of person then are you looking to meet tall handsome family
29:11orientated a kind considerate person but also is willing to listen to me yeah he's looking over
29:19there in a mirror so he's getting nervous so let's go there enjoy it okay all right how are you
29:29how are you
29:29how are you how good I'm cuiva watching Will how's it going cuiva happy to meet you I got you
29:33some chocolates
29:34oh that's so sweet you're very welcome no worries at all is there anything that you definitely want to find
29:40out about them
29:41oh that's a great question uh their football alliance I go back and forth to the UK quite a bit
29:46what part for football matches just like different areas okay now who do you support because this is
29:50going to be like a deal breaker now is it oh my goodness so I'm a Chelsea fan okay it's
29:55not too bad
29:56who do you support Liverpool that's actually okay yeah like that's if you said like United or I
30:02yeah if you said Spurs or Arsenal how old are you how old do you think I'm 40 you're 40
30:13I'm 39 39 yeah
30:15you're behind the corner yeah just about exactly and the sir like steak oh brilliant thank you so
30:23thank you so much but do you feel bad that you're getting old older like it's funny like I feel
30:30um I
30:31feel a lot better now I feel like I look better and I feel a lot more confident because I
30:37think I'm a
30:37bit more me now I'm so happy to be 40 and sometimes I even think like if I'm gonna be
30:4345 I'm gonna be even
30:44better than that I'll be 50 I'm gonna be like on the top of the world like people used to
30:49say I wish
30:50I'll be younger I would like to go back to being 30 never I think I was so stupid I
30:55was 30 years old
30:56well you know not the same like I think my priorities are different like for my 20s and for a
31:04lot of for
31:05half of my 30s I feel like I just I had my head down I was married I was trying
31:12to raise babies you know I
31:14just didn't have time to think about anything but I I definitely know more now than I did when I
31:22was in
31:22my 30s I had said my situation is a little bit easier I would say because when my son's mother
31:31got
31:31pregnant she knew that I'm gay but oh I told her that I don't want to be gay we're all
31:37here take it
31:38away from right I have to be honest I was so in love with her I was we were together
31:43for like four
31:44years and I was I got very protective about her yeah I loved her to bits okay as a human
31:52you know
31:53what I mean you you need to kind of learn from your mistakes and and grow the mistake you learn
32:00those
32:00mistakes for the reason you know it brought you here you know hi area would you like sour
32:13sweet stuff so sweet yeah knowing your sweet none chocolate sweet right we'll say it movie night
32:22thank right what are we in like a pack of fingers I can inhale a pack of fingers are you
32:29feeling that's
32:29no shooting I've never had the fingers fingers like a pack of Cadbury fingers right then we're gonna
32:34have a pack of Cadbury fingers yeah lovely she's gorgeous you were nervous well yeah nervous and I
32:43don't get nervous um no she uh but she she brought it out of me she brought it out of
32:48me like I'd say
32:50it kind of more go for like crisps than popcorn she's what do we have the opposite to attract it's
33:00I'd say the biggest problem is not deciding if I want to go on a second date but deciding what
33:04to do
33:04on the second days I'm happy you came oh yeah yeah deadly yeah yourself oh no no no you can't
33:10roll
33:10your right no I didn't roll my eyes I didn't would you like to see each other again romantically we
33:18go
33:18three two one yeah one okay three two one yeah yeah yeah yeah thank you so much for that
33:31you guys don't worry about my choice just a fellow is us feeling I think you're very down-to-earth
33:38you're very like humbled and like down to you're like the opposite of me whereas I'm like very
33:42jumpy and like intimidating whereas you're more like I wouldn't say you're intimidating I feel like
33:46you're an honest person I feel like you'd be good at communicating now yeah yeah that's really nice
33:53what does it say beautiful for you don't look the label don't look at it wait till you get home
33:58stay
33:58with me forever you guys fancy each other yeah yeah lovely he did win my heart over like he's so
34:12much
34:12time for people and stuff like and like the main thing is really finding someone who has time for someone
34:38of course white wine all good it's absolutely gorgeous brilliant
34:47and how's the company yeah lovely man yeah it can be something that will lead
34:59to something else yeah which you can yeah I do in teaching in college I was
35:11like when I was like five because my mom works in a school yeah she'd like bring
35:15home like little like stamps and so I like always pretend to play school I qualified as an SNA there
35:22oh my god did you my mom's an SNA stop it no way yes yes what got you do SNA
35:29I do um like voluntary
35:31work uh with Barrettstown oh my god so um yeah then kind of that led me to doing like the
35:37special needs
35:37kind of yeah but like I don't do it per se I just have the qualification still trying to find
35:43my
35:43feet do you know that way like I think that's the same way everybody around my age it's like
35:46you're still trying to find out what you really are passionate about you know I applied actually
35:51for a firefighter paramedic a couple of days ago so see how that goes that could be another route as
35:57well you know what do you do in your spare time that's a great question what do i do in
36:01my spare
36:01time um hanging out with mates obviously the boys um the boys the boys yeah the boys the lads
36:08definitely feel like i'm better in person i'm shocking a texting for the life of me like i can't
36:14text at all like i love just going for like ice cream or something like with the girls i love
36:18a sweet
36:18treat yeah at easter i love mini eggs mini eggs are like my you like do not say you don't
36:25like them
36:25i love mini eggs okay i thought you're gonna say you don't like so at easter i stockpile stop no
36:31we're the same person i do the exact same exact same i'd rather it be like you swiped and then
36:38all of
36:39a sudden they're right in front of you and you're on the day right there and then because then you
36:42actually get to know the person you know what is your favorite food that's a great question i love
36:47a bit of coleslaw do you yeah would you have on everything now if i'm making like a toasty or
36:51something
36:51i thought you were going to say like you get a spoon and eat it i was like no no
36:54no i wouldn't
36:55just get a top of coleslaw slamming in front of me instead of a spoon and earn it to my
36:58mouth like
36:58stop you i'm just imagining you you know what you want i don't know i haven't been looking at it
37:12to be i just goes glass in the conversation in the moment to be honest take as long as you
37:18need
37:18can we have one more minute is that okay yeah of course you can have as long as you need
37:20thank
37:21you thank you thank you great conversation you're interrupting sorry sorry and so what made you come
37:28to dublin then uh i was looking for life right and i wanted to have some kind of gay scene
37:34as well
37:35yeah which i'd never seen before did you go out on the same much very no very shy so i
37:40was trying and
37:41trying and trying but still very shy are you going like like the gate yeah like i i'm i'm still
37:47relatively new to this um i used to go to the bar beside the george yeah i could hear the
37:55phone
37:55inside but i was too nervous to go in there by myself but i always had to be a little
38:00bit drunk to
38:00walk in and especially panty bar because you know how you walk in yeah it's a bit don't all eyes
38:07on you you know what i mean it's like a walk yeah you know i couldn't live my life in
38:13poland as a gay
38:14person so that was the first main reason why i left the place i i lived you know it was
38:20like a gangs
38:21everywhere drugs everywhere everybody expect for me to prove what a man are you you know everybody would
38:27fight with you and everything and i was none of that and i was pretending to be someone else for
38:34a long
38:34time and it was painful to hide how soft i was inside i had to become you know so i
38:42was like
38:42i'm doing all of these bad things and everything but inside me i was terrifying okay you know every
38:48day was a challenge for me just because i was scared that if they will see that softness inside me
38:53i'm gonna be in trouble so then after work after school when i was going back home and there was
38:58nobody at home closing the door and britney spears straight away yeah hit me baby one more time
39:10oh my god what was i saying there i don't care what you said i'm just eating a bloody raspberry
39:17you don't like them i don't know beautiful you'll have people out there over there and say i want
39:25whatever she's having yeah she looks all right she's a lovey lovey woman good crack good crack are you
39:36driving i am not where do you have to watch um i have to get the lewis from here yeah
39:43to bus iris
39:45yeah and then i get a bus i'll escort you back to the jars if you want that'd be great
39:51because i'm
39:52getting loose as well so that'd be great yeah i'd appreciate that there's a little something there
39:58you know but i didn't like the day i wouldn't give up on the romantic bit thank you so much
40:06thank you
40:08and everything was lovely thank you oh it was just perfect i'm so happy to hear that
40:13would you guys like to see each other romantically again i'm not answering
40:20i'd like to see yesterday again i'm 50 50 on the romantic bit but i don't mean any offense
40:26that in any way same yeah that's good no i would like to see you again good cool i think
40:36he's a
40:36lovely guy you know i am yeah oh are you so thank you again so much thank you have you
40:48oh thank you
40:49thanks all right bye now thank you you think if you were to have a friendship meetup what would you
40:56do
40:57we'd discuss that on the lewis back to passars
41:01jesus
41:14jesus
41:15last year i went to Liverpool three times haven't been this year yet need to go
41:20i try and get there at least once every season i try and get off into stanford bridge at least
41:24once
41:24did your family like kind of bring you up into liking football or something that you did that was my
41:29granddad gone kind of five years now but like that memory but having those memories of being able to go
41:35there with them i do find it emotional my mom like she'd be one of my best friends like i
41:40could tell
41:40her anything really that's why i love and she's never judged me like like she definitely she would
41:45be like my role model she's someone i look up to really yeah oh yeah that's so nice i love
41:51my family
41:52my mom is like my best friend my mom got sick when i was young that was definitely a bit
41:57of a oof
41:57then she got sick again and they're like okay i remember as well the second time me and my brother
42:04moved in with my nanny and it was my birthday and she just got chemo so i couldn't spend it
42:09with her
42:10i couldn't even give her a hug and i suppose like i think that's maybe why i love birthdays so
42:15much
42:15now because i missed that one little birthday do you have many siblings just the one brother oh
42:21he's older than me oh yeah yeah we're chill that's class but we're very different really he's so
42:26introverted i'm so extroverted yeah my dad brother they used to watch matches when i was younger i was
42:34like turn that off like i want to watch telly but now then since i've got like an interest in
42:39that
42:39we've become closer as well what's your dream date dream date that's a great question
42:45it really depends i suppose like for me ideally like i'd love to do like an activity date so it's
42:50like you go bowling or you go play a couple games of pool or something and then like maybe go
42:54for
42:54something to eat after what about you what's like your dream date my top top date yeah i'm going
42:59to a match going to a match all right yeah that is that like that would be like top of
43:04my list i mean
43:05second date started now but all right like are you coming to armfield or am i going to have to
43:09like i mean because they're off a daily in my own park and watch the balls first and then
43:13and then go over there yeah you're going to introduce me to the league of ireland yeah
43:24yeah thank you so much it looks sexy and the chocolate heart enjoy thank you so much thank you
43:33no where do you like to holiday uh usually every year i'm going to gran canaria i went most recently
43:43in may or april and the the second one is um citrus i was just about to say like you
43:53would go there and
43:54have old dublin standing in front of you yeah i'm going to stitches in september are you yeah me too
43:59really i am for bear week yes we're so basic aren't we yeah i know
44:09what is your like more far away place we've ever been i've been to canada to uh play rugby
44:16we play rugby yeah i didn't really show me your tights
44:21i like the way i look i think i've done the best with what i have you look good you
44:26look you have
44:26a good shape thank you i like your tattoos thank you bus somebody could be hitting on me
44:32and i am completely oblivious on her thank you i'm just like wasn't that a really nice person
44:41to come up and chat to me okay bye
44:45would you like no sorry thank you i should have asked you
44:55it's absolutely pleasure i have to tell her to meet you oh thank you so much it's been a total
45:01pleasure to meet the two of you too thank you
45:07so moment of truth yeah would you like to see each other again romantically
45:14you you want to go first or would i go first i can go first okay uh yes yes i
45:21would like to see you
45:22again okay um for me not romantically okay no that's okay yeah how has everything been overall it was
45:31lovely yeah good food yeah right good company yeah you're a great guy yeah i really enjoyed speaking with
45:37you you're handsome guy so it was it was really enjoyable yeah i suppose i just didn't feel a spark
45:43yeah yeah thanks again so thank you i was kind of pretty sure you would say no
45:49uh but i was still wanted to say uh yes
45:57i do like him and i would definitely want to meet him again but
46:01it's like i don't feel devastated or hurt by that you know what i mean it's fine
46:13it's going really well yeah i think it's gone from my perspective anyway i think it's going really
46:18well excellent she's lovely she's honestly she's gorgeous girl the moment she walked in i was like
46:23yeah definitely it's definitely been the easiest day day i've ever had like it's just been so smooth
46:29like so you're a happy man i'm very happy man yeah but game face on absolutely yeah yeah play it
46:35cool
46:35now thank you thank you thank you i've never been with a girl that's kind of been as much as
46:40my type as
46:41she has conversation was just so natural she was just such a yapper which i love humor as well which
46:48is
46:48always good just so nice just such a wonderful person like you know that way
46:55but uh where where were we where were we that's a great question hello hi
47:06i'm going to get no no no no please no no no we can split it's okay no let me
47:11get this honestly
47:12no you don't have to but i want to please let me get this
47:19would you two like to see each other again romantically ladies first
47:28yes i would yes i would
47:33thank you so much
47:34i had a ball good vibes from the onset i felt very comfortable he's very cute
47:48mini eggs as well that's a huge huge plus for me i'd share a bag of mini eggs with you
47:53i would as well
47:58where will the second day be a balls match
48:01okay oh yes bring me to go watch the balls you're gonna bring me to anfield now then
48:05of course i am we'll do the stadium tour i've already done the stadium
48:08and i'm afraid of i told you what no there you you kept this quiet something to talk about now
48:13ah i just woke up from my dream because you guys had great crack yeah absolutely
48:21enjoy it yeah yeah it was yeah i think so and i don't know what it all means
48:28but since i survived i realized
48:32are you gonna bring them on a hot girl walk
48:35so you can chew gum two airpods these ones will be free and walk straight with a bit of music
48:41going
48:41and what's she say
48:42just
48:42so i'm gonna love you every night like it's the last night
48:57do you want to maybe go and like go for a drink maybe afterwards
49:01yes
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