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00:00:01Do you see me as the mother-father of your children?
00:00:03Yes, I do see you as the father of my children.
00:00:06After seven weeks of marriage,
00:00:09Feedback Week brought some couples closer together.
00:00:12Only the best for my wife.
00:00:14Thank you for setting tasks that really understand Stephen and I
00:00:18and what we needed.
00:00:20But for others...
00:00:21Sure, I'll take that on board.
00:00:23Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:00:24I'm not getting defensive of having a conversation.
00:00:26Tensions were at an all-time high.
00:00:29I'm not doing it.
00:00:30No thanks.
00:00:33Um...
00:00:34It was just, um...
00:00:36As Scott avoided any critical feedback,
00:00:39opting to keep the peace in his marriage.
00:00:42I knew if I went too deep,
00:00:44I'd be over the balcony.
00:00:47You're absolutely pissing me off.
00:00:49Danny struggled to give Beck a straight answer.
00:00:52Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:56Um...
00:00:57At the dinner party...
00:00:58After weeks of being caught in the crossfire...
00:01:01Oh, God.
00:01:03Alyssa tried to put a full stop to the feud between Gia and Beck.
00:01:07Stop using me!
00:01:09Stop using me as a pawn.
00:01:11And Beck and Danny spiralled.
00:01:14I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:01:16Two months ago, Daniel.
00:01:17Okay, that was ten years ago.
00:01:18I want out now.
00:01:20I'm wasting my time at a dinner party talking about abusive text messages.
00:01:25I'm here for a wife and a relationship. I'm not here for drama.
00:01:28Do not sit there in front of everyone and not show solidarity to me.
00:01:32Just pretend for two minutes.
00:01:37Tonight, it's the second last commitment ceremony.
00:01:40You ask the question of like, alright, if we go outside the experiment, how quick would you expect like a
00:01:45proposal?
00:01:46I say the sooner the better.
00:01:48Wow.
00:01:48And some are already locking in plans for married life outside of the experiment.
00:01:53My man is leaving and he is actually starting to show me what my life here in Sydney could look
00:01:59like.
00:02:00And then...
00:02:01So last week you said that the noise from the group and around Gia doesn't affect your relationship.
00:02:08Do you still believe that?
00:02:10Will Scott speak up and confess how he feels in front of Gia?
00:02:15I will admit like...
00:02:19The question, what was it like?
00:02:22It was a bit...
00:02:22Could you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:02:24Yeah.
00:02:25Why is Danny dodging the question?
00:02:30Um...
00:02:34In one of the most confronting couch sessions ever seen.
00:02:39It's a pretty black and white question.
00:02:44Before the blind side...
00:02:49That will leave the room speechless.
00:02:52I just can't believe it.
00:03:08It's the morning of the second last commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:03:12And despite a tense ending to last night's dinner party, one couple continued to shine bright.
00:03:23Good morning.
00:03:24Morning.
00:03:26It's the long black.
00:03:28Hopefully you don't burn the roof of your mouth.
00:03:29No, she'll be fine.
00:03:30You know.
00:03:31Last night for Stella and I, yeah it was great.
00:03:34We were just sitting there, united, chilling out, smooching whilst the drama's happening.
00:03:39We tend to do that when people are kicking off, we're just kissing each other.
00:03:43And then, yeah, we're staying out of it for the most part.
00:03:45I think we are out of the trenches with the drama.
00:03:49I doubt it but I'm very, very hopeful.
00:03:52I'm very hopeful.
00:03:52Some people cannot help themselves.
00:03:55I've seen the blokes like Danny and Scott and they're just ready to not talk about high school shit.
00:04:03Like, Scott is not his usual self.
00:04:05He was just...
00:04:07His light was dimmed.
00:04:08He was just not there.
00:04:09He's dimmed, yeah he's dimmed at the moment.
00:04:11He's just not there.
00:04:12Danny as well, definitely.
00:04:13Yeah.
00:04:14I always look at him and he's just so withdrawn and just...
00:04:16They dissociate.
00:04:17They just dissociate and they just go to another realm.
00:04:20They just leave the place.
00:04:21They're just like this.
00:04:22Yeah.
00:04:25I just wish that people like Becca and Gia can stop saying sorry and just don't do it from now
00:04:32on.
00:04:33Don't be sorry and go I take accountability and just don't do it.
00:04:37How about we try that and then we don't have to keep talking about this BS.
00:04:47While our couples are putting on the final touches for tonight's commitment ceremony,
00:04:52one participant who is not looking forward to seeing the experts is Gia.
00:04:58Last one I walked out.
00:04:59I don't like commitment ceremonies one bit because I hate being vulnerable and talking about my feelings and commitment ceremonies
00:05:07don't go great for me all the time.
00:05:09Last week I feel like I was getting in so much trouble for the screenshots.
00:05:12They didn't at all question back.
00:05:15It was just me for sending them.
00:05:16I just felt like I was just attacked and it was unfair last week.
00:05:19It's not fair that I'm always taking the heat for that sort of stuff.
00:05:23I admit I was wrong for sending them but I'm not the one who said the vulgar things in those
00:05:28screenshots.
00:05:28Bec was.
00:05:29I think it's just going to be more of a rehash of like what you're saying.
00:05:32Feedback week.
00:05:33Feedback week.
00:05:33Also why'd you walk out which it would just be a discussion of that.
00:05:37Yeah.
00:05:38I adore and I really am falling for Gia but like this whole experiment has been very tough in regards
00:05:45to the drama side of things.
00:05:47There was so many days where there was just so much heat and heaviness.
00:05:52Tonight like I'm nervous seeing the experts because this is something that I find is a problem and I'm going
00:05:57to address it.
00:05:59I'm not looking forward to how she's going to feel about it but I can only be honest.
00:06:09One couple that everyone will have their eyes on tonight is Bec and Danny who had a tense argument at
00:06:15the end of last night's dinner party.
00:06:18Don't sit here and say I want us to have a good relationship but we don't because of drama identified
00:06:25it.
00:06:26I just want you to be wary about what you say.
00:06:30I'm very wary. I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:06:35I'm done. I'm not going back in. I'm done.
00:06:38He says oh we're ride or die, we're ride or die, we're not.
00:06:42Just pretend for two minutes.
00:06:44And this morning there has been yet another unexpected development in their relationship.
00:06:51How are things with you and Danny after last night's dinner party?
00:06:55Really good.
00:06:58There's so much love and adoration within this relationship.
00:07:03We had like a tiny little bit of crosswords last night.
00:07:06Danny sort of had a little wibble wobble.
00:07:08He was like I'm so good at the drama.
00:07:10And at the end of the day we've actually come out on top, you know.
00:07:13Even though it's kind of crappy for a little while, we always come back together, talk about it and end
00:07:23up with a better understanding of each other and in a stronger place in our relationship.
00:07:27Do you agree?
00:07:28Hmm.
00:07:29I became a girlfriend as well.
00:07:31Still happy with that decision boo?
00:07:33Still happy with the decision.
00:07:35I feel great.
00:07:36I feel absolutely fantastic.
00:07:37Like I'm not only a wife, I'm a girlfriend and I know that everything's hunky-dory.
00:07:41Me telling you at the commitment ceremony that I love you and obviously I'm in my own head as well
00:07:48because it's like shit, like that's a lot for me to do, ever.
00:07:54Like you're the first man I've ever told that I love first, ever.
00:07:58Feedback week, Danny, how's it been?
00:08:01Been an alright week to be honest, like alright is how I'd describe it, not amazing, just alright.
00:08:07Obviously the question task, Bec was just overreacting a little bit there, we know that, that's a fact.
00:08:14Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:08:18Probably.
00:08:20I'd assume I will, yeah.
00:08:22Am I there yet? No.
00:08:27So it has sort of scared me that she's got stronger feelings to me than I have to her.
00:08:34Up until last week when she told me she loved me, I didn't realise she was feeling that strongly towards
00:08:38me.
00:08:39She'd never even told me like little soft things to like soften it.
00:08:43It was just like, that come out of nowhere.
00:08:46That's why when she told me on the sofa on the couch I was a bit like shocked.
00:08:50My feelings are extremely, extremely strong for Daniel.
00:09:00F*** it.
00:09:01I love you.
00:09:03CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:09:07CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:09:09Seriously.
00:09:12Do you think that you will get there or are you still not sure?
00:09:15It's hard to tell, to be honest, it's very hard to tell.
00:09:19In regards to intimacy, it's not like I don't want to do it, but it's not like I'm craving to
00:09:28do it as well, like I'm United Mean.
00:09:31Because of constant drama with Bec.
00:09:34So yeah, that's probably one of the things, the main reason that's holding me back.
00:09:40MUSIC
00:09:59Greetings gents.
00:10:01Hello, come on in.
00:10:03Good to see you all.
00:10:04Good evening.
00:10:05Good evening.
00:10:06Hi guys.
00:10:20Hi.
00:10:21Hello, welcome.
00:10:25Settling.
00:10:30Well, greetings everyone to the second last commitment ceremony.
00:10:35We are very much nearing the pointy end where you have to size up your relationship and really drill down
00:10:44on whether or not you can see a future outside of this experiment with the person that you've been matched
00:10:52with.
00:10:52Now it gets real.
00:10:55Now it gets real.
00:10:56Now in saying that, next week, it is home stays.
00:11:00This is done so that all of you can have a look at your partner's life as it exists outside
00:11:06of the experiment.
00:11:07And it gives you an understanding, a glimpse of whether you can fit into it.
00:11:14This is really a reality check.
00:11:17In fact, it is absolutely pivotal for you when it comes to your final decision.
00:11:25Take it very seriously.
00:11:27Now the past week of course has been feedback week.
00:11:31It's been a real test of how each and every one of you responds to feedback, but also how each
00:11:37of you gives feedback.
00:11:39So we'll be really interested to drill down into how that's gone for each of you and to see what's
00:11:44been the impact on your relationships.
00:11:47And of course, we saw some of that last night at the dinner party.
00:11:52It was actually quite shocking to see some of the behaviours that occurred at last night's dinner party.
00:11:58And we certainly want to get into all of that.
00:12:03Well, let's get our first couple up.
00:12:06Jira and Scott.
00:12:10Good to see you both.
00:12:12Yes, John, I'm still here. Are you happy about it?
00:12:15I'm very happy.
00:12:16Oh, I thought you wouldn't be.
00:12:18Yeah, particularly because last time you actually walked off.
00:12:22I did.
00:12:25So, let's go back to what actually happened there.
00:12:29Because we didn't get a chance to talk to you about that.
00:12:33Because we were talking about your relationship and where you're at and what a good place you're in.
00:12:38And it was positive.
00:12:40But then something happened.
00:12:42What was it?
00:12:47I was getting in trouble for the screenshots involving Alyssa.
00:12:51But the other person wasn't getting in trouble for what was written in the screenshots.
00:12:55It felt very against me.
00:12:59And I just felt like attacked.
00:13:05And I just felt like it was a bit unfair, to be honest.
00:13:09I just felt like, what about the screen? What was she was saying?
00:13:12Like, just me, me, me.
00:13:13I just cannot.
00:13:15So, I had to remove myself.
00:13:17I didn't want to have another argument.
00:13:19I didn't want any more volatile situations.
00:13:22I just, I had to remove myself.
00:13:26All right, so let's break it down.
00:13:28There are two parts to this.
00:13:31One part is what was said in the text.
00:13:36Which came out at the dinner party last night.
00:13:39The specifics of it.
00:13:43And there's no getting around that.
00:13:45It's abhorrent.
00:13:47Those words, those phrases, towards another member in this experiment, was appalling.
00:13:59I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:16I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:17What was said in the text, which came out at the dinner party last night.
00:14:22The specifics of it.
00:14:26And there's no getting around that.
00:14:28It's abhorrent.
00:14:30Those words, those phrases, towards another member in this experiment, was appalling.
00:14:42I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:51Regardless of what bad place you were in, the way in which you did that was malicious and extremely hurtful.
00:15:00And we don't condone it.
00:15:06That's the first part.
00:15:08The second issue is how they were used.
00:15:13And that's where you come into this, Gia.
00:15:15Yep.
00:15:17It was very high school.
00:15:21Trying to really get at somebody while hurting another person in the process.
00:15:30It's about choices.
00:15:32It's about choices in terms of what you write in the text.
00:15:36Then it's choices about what you want to do with that in terms of sending it on or not.
00:15:43I know I was wrong.
00:15:45Looking back now, I wish I never sent the screenshots to Juliet.
00:15:48I was doing the wrong thing.
00:15:50I mean, it was like something happened to me, like, that affected me and to defend myself.
00:15:56I was like, well, let me send some screenshots to do something to that person.
00:16:00And it was just like childish behavior, to be honest.
00:16:02So it was an eye for an eye.
00:16:03Yeah.
00:16:04Yeah.
00:16:05Okay, we do not want to revisit this ever again.
00:16:10And I'm sure Alyssa doesn't want to either.
00:16:13It is being put to bed as of right now.
00:16:20But, Gia, one of the things I wanted to ask you was, when you left last week, Scott was sitting
00:16:26here, kind of not really knowing what was going on.
00:16:30And I just wondered whether he was featured in your thinking in that moment.
00:16:37I told him before I ran out, I said, I feel sick, I'm going to leave.
00:16:42Scott, how did you feel when you realized Gia had left?
00:16:50Well, at the time, I was sitting there and going to myself, she's not left me.
00:16:54I just, because I know how close we are.
00:16:56So I'm like, there's no excuse for her to just bail.
00:16:57But then obviously, the only thing I was just a little bit annoyed was just not being told what was
00:17:02going on.
00:17:04Just communication, that's all.
00:17:07But deep down, I knew she didn't run away from me.
00:17:11So, yeah.
00:17:14So last week, you said that the noise around your relationship from the group and around Gia doesn't affect your
00:17:22relationship.
00:17:23Do you still believe that?
00:17:28Last week was probably one of the most heaviest weeks we've had in this whole experiment.
00:17:32More so for Gia.
00:17:33She's had a lot to take on herself, not wanting to be here for a few reasons.
00:17:41There's only so much, you know, I'm here to protect her and cater for her and make sure she's okay
00:17:45and give her reassurance.
00:17:46But there was a lot that happened pretty much every day and I will admit, like, it does make me
00:17:53not be myself.
00:17:58What do you mean?
00:18:00My energy dropped and I just...
00:18:03So I'm just trying to be positive.
00:18:05And it's hard sometimes.
00:18:08But feedback week, yeah, it was pretty hard.
00:18:11What was hard about feedback week?
00:18:13Obviously the commitment ceremony was, you know, I walked out and I wasn't good.
00:18:17You know, that and I just, I was just feeling off, right?
00:18:21So then I get told I have a feedback date and I'm like, oh my God, I can't do this.
00:18:27I cannot put myself in a situation like this again, where I'm arguing with somebody and I'm like, you know
00:18:33what, I don't want to go on the date.
00:18:35So what did you choose to do?
00:18:36I didn't go on the date.
00:18:40With these challenges that we set, you are certainly taken out of your comfort zone, but they're done for a
00:18:47reason.
00:18:49Here we go.
00:18:50It's alright, it's not.
00:18:52It's always about everything but our relationship.
00:18:57God, like how many more times am I going to get, like, attacked?
00:19:02It's not, it's not.
00:19:03That's what the vibe I'm getting.
00:19:04It's not.
00:19:06I've been apologising, I've been accountable, I've been changing my behaviour.
00:19:10I just feel like the feedback letter, I felt like it was an attack on me.
00:19:17The tasks that we received to do, I just found were just like, like not nice.
00:19:23Number one is Gia, remove yourself from any group chats that you're in.
00:19:29Number two, detox from all social media till final vows.
00:19:33Number three, no physical touch for 10 days.
00:19:37And I was like, I took it, this is how I took it, he took it different.
00:19:41I took it as an attack of like, oh my God, like another thing against me.
00:19:50Why do you feel like people are attacking you?
00:19:52I don't know.
00:19:54You have no idea.
00:19:55Well, that was Stella and Phillip, so I'm not sure why.
00:20:00There's just one thing I like to outlay is like, whether something's negative or bad,
00:20:05or like something you don't want to hear or see, we don't need to hold on to it.
00:20:10Because sometimes I feel it does hurt you in a way, deep down, where it's got to be said out
00:20:16loud,
00:20:17or people need to know I hate it, or like, sometimes I feel like you hold on to it for,
00:20:20with a bit of power behind you and you want to deliver it back to someone.
00:20:25And I feel if we can let go of things a lot easier, we can move past that,
00:20:30and then just focus on the other stuff.
00:20:33Because I see the light in everything, all the time.
00:20:35Like these things that are said, letters, it doesn't matter how bad it is,
00:20:38it's not like we're bad people, people just see what, they have an opinion for it.
00:20:42Right, this is your perception though.
00:20:43For me, for my own personal reasons and what I've been through in life, I felt attacked.
00:20:56I walked into this experiment, I said even my audition, I don't like negative stuff,
00:21:00I don't like drama, I don't like any of that, I don't want it in my life.
00:21:03And I know G has been involved in some of it and we had an agreement.
00:21:06Can you make a promise to me not involve yourself in drama for the rest of this experiment?
00:21:11There's been a few difficult things inside the experiment and I have to know whether it's the pressure in here,
00:21:17or whether this is outside as well.
00:21:21Nothing has really affected me in this experiment, the only thing is just the drama stuff.
00:21:24I just, I don't like it.
00:21:26And I just want to make sure and be reassured there's not going to be that shit outside of this,
00:21:29because I won't tolerate it, that's it.
00:21:32For me, I don't want someone who's going to retaliate in really bad behaviour, that's what I mean.
00:21:37It's about how you carry yourself as well.
00:21:38Just common knowledge, I would never do that.
00:21:40That's what I'm saying, from the stuff that's happening in the experiment,
00:21:42I don't want to see that outside the experiment.
00:21:44That's all it is, I'm not saying anything bad, it's just what I've seen.
00:21:46Yeah, just, you don't know me well enough then.
00:21:49Babe, I'm only helping.
00:21:50It's just not who I am, I just do not do that in life.
00:21:54I do nursing, like, I'm a kind person, I would never, but anyway.
00:21:58I'm not saying you're like that, I'm trying to just say what I'm feeling.
00:22:06She's not going to be happy with you playing that, I guarantee you.
00:22:12Scott's just talking about his experience with you, what he's seen.
00:22:17He can only work with what he's seen.
00:22:20And he has seen you rise to the drama.
00:22:22So he's not saying he knows that that's what you're going to do on the outside.
00:22:27He's saying he knows that that's what you have done within the experiment.
00:22:31So surely that's reasonable.
00:22:33Yeah.
00:22:38Oh no, we're getting slammed, Chris.
00:22:40Yeah.
00:22:41You're not getting slammed, babe, it's nothing.
00:22:45No, I'm all good.
00:22:46I'm sorry, I'm all good, all good.
00:22:47I don't like to cry, you know, just, I'm fine.
00:22:51Let's just finish this, please, yep.
00:23:08You're all right?
00:23:09Sorry, I'm here.
00:23:11Gia, do you feel secure in this relationship?
00:23:14Yeah.
00:23:16What makes you say that?
00:23:18Um, because even when I say I'm going to leave, he's like, no, you can't leave.
00:23:24Like, when I, like, lose my mind and, like, spiral, he's always there to, like, be positive
00:23:31and try and turn my mood around, and I feel like he's got me.
00:23:35Yeah.
00:23:36And I can feel like, yeah, I feel secure in this relationship.
00:23:39What about you, Scott?
00:23:43Well, the thing is, like, yes, we face these hard things, and we're not perfect people.
00:23:49But I see so many good things about you, and that's why I'm here.
00:23:54Like, you're such a beautiful person.
00:23:56Like, we've had a rough week, but we always come back to each other.
00:23:58So you feel secure in this relationship?
00:24:01100%, yeah, I feel secure.
00:24:03We just have these little hurdles to get through, understand one another, you know, and keep pursuing our life together.
00:24:12All right, well, let's go to the decision.
00:24:15Let's go with you first, Scott.
00:24:18I'm grateful that we're still here together, and then we got through, and we're still smiling, and I cannot wait
00:24:23for home stays.
00:24:24It's all right to stay, and happy two months to my beautiful wife.
00:24:27Aw. That's cute.
00:24:29Gia, stay or leave?
00:24:31Um, I know I need to work on some things, and I'm committed to doing that because, like, he's worth
00:24:36it, and I need to, like, grow as a person.
00:24:38I can't keep doing these behaviours that I've been doing, and I know I'm wrong for that.
00:24:42So, um, I'm just going to be positive this week and move forward, and we're going to be in our
00:24:47swimsuits at the beach on the Gold Coast.
00:24:50Little 40s.
00:24:52I've got square boobs, I don't know why, but that's a bikini.
00:24:55That's a bikini.
00:24:56Okay, well, I know that that was a very intense session, and it's so important for you guys to not
00:25:03brush things under the carpet.
00:25:06I know, Scott, you've mentioned that you like to look on the bright side of life, move forward as fast
00:25:12as you can, leave the past behind.
00:25:14Problem is, if you do that all the time, you don't address the issues that are there.
00:25:20And rather than saying, it's just going to be okay, forget about it, actually instead go, well, tell me more.
00:25:27And for you, Gia, what's really important is that if there's an issue that comes up from Scott, that you
00:25:33stay with it.
00:25:34Rather than look at it as a personal attack, this is just feedback about a behaviour.
00:25:40And I can sit here and talk about that behaviour, and then as a team, we can do something different
00:25:46moving forward.
00:25:47That'll help us a lot, to be honest.
00:25:49Because sometimes I want to bring things up, and then I get a bit scared because I don't want you
00:25:54to get the wrong ideas if I'm trying to attack you.
00:25:57It's because I genuinely care, and I just want to fix a few little things that'll help both of us.
00:26:02So I really love what you just said.
00:26:05Now with that, have a great week, and we'll see you next time.
00:26:07Thanks, guys. Appreciate it.
00:26:08Well done, guys.
00:26:09Cheers.
00:26:09Have a great week.
00:26:19I'm sick again.
00:26:27Still to come, what has Sam in tears?
00:26:35And later...
00:26:36Did you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:26:39Danny is put in the hot seat.
00:26:42I think I misinterpreted the question.
00:26:45Because it's a pretty black and white question.
00:27:02Next up, Rachel and Steven.
00:27:09Hello.
00:27:10Welcome.
00:27:11Welcome, welcome.
00:27:13It's nice to see you.
00:27:14Oh, yeah.
00:27:15Feedback Week.
00:27:17Tell us about Feedback Week.
00:27:19Um, I actually think Feedback Week was great for Steven and I.
00:27:23We started off with the first tasks of questions.
00:27:26The question of, you know, saying,
00:27:29can you see yourself falling in love with me at some point?
00:27:33We both had a big resounding yes.
00:27:36And so that was really nice, because in terms of the way we view our lives in the future,
00:27:43they're very much aligned.
00:27:45And so, yeah, it was really good.
00:27:48It was just a really great task.
00:27:51Feedback Week has been, you know, amazing.
00:27:55I got some really good advice from Alyssa of trying to be a bit more of a leader.
00:28:01Which we saw.
00:28:02We saw.
00:28:03We were very impressed.
00:28:04Oh, you saw that?
00:28:05Yes.
00:28:06At the dinner party.
00:28:07You did have a moment at the dinner party where you stood up to the group and you spoke on
00:28:13behalf of the relationship in such a mature, such a take charge, such a masculine, such a all there kind
00:28:22of way.
00:28:25We were very impressed and we were literally cheering that on.
00:28:29It was a really, really good moment to see Rachel beaming, because you were beaming, you were so proud of
00:28:36your man speaking up to the group.
00:28:41Setting those boundaries for the group and for the two of you.
00:28:44Well, I'm going to implement that not just for one day, it's going to be just in the relationship, going
00:28:48to put my captain's socks, undies and hat on.
00:28:52And, yeah, take a bit of charge and leadership.
00:28:57Captain, I like it.
00:28:59Captain Stevo.
00:29:00I'm going to get a hat for him.
00:29:04How did it feel in the moment to speak to the group the way that you did and to ascertain
00:29:09those boundaries and make yourself be heard so clearly?
00:29:14I know I'm pretty quiet in the dinner parties and I sort of like to keep things to myself because
00:29:19I feel like it's just a little bit easier to keep your mouth closed.
00:29:23In some situations, I guess it was good to, you know, finally be heard.
00:29:30I can imagine so.
00:29:34You guys have really been a bit of a slow burn, but every week we start to see something emerge,
00:29:42the intimacy, the speaking up.
00:29:44There's a lot of change in the two of you that I see, and it's on a week by week
00:29:49basis.
00:29:51What's it doing to you, Stevo, in terms of how you're feeling about this lovely woman?
00:29:59I feel really connected to Rachel.
00:30:01We're getting closer.
00:30:02I feel like, as well, saying to Rachel, I feel like I've come such a long way from the wedding
00:30:07and the ups and downs that we've had.
00:30:09So, feeling, yeah, really good.
00:30:11Rachel, for you towards him, what's going on inside of you?
00:30:16So, I really like Steven.
00:30:19I've been very clear about that.
00:30:21I'm very connected with Steven.
00:30:23It's just so comfortable to be ourselves and have fun and, you know, it's just amazing.
00:30:29And so, I'm at the point now where my man is leaving and he is actually starting to show me
00:30:35what my life here in Sydney could look like.
00:30:41That really shows through your body language is just how close and comfortable you are with one another and loving,
00:30:53dare I say it.
00:30:55Are we reading this correctly?
00:30:57Does it feel comfortable to be sitting like that?
00:30:59This is all, this is common, you know, in the apartment.
00:31:02You know, it's...
00:31:03Now you're showing off.
00:31:09So, with that in mind, we're going to go to a decision.
00:31:12Let's kick it off with you, Rachel.
00:31:17This is a huge shock, I know, but I've written stay and I put, like, the sun and, like, that's
00:31:23water from our little beach days.
00:31:26Cute.
00:31:27And Steve-O.
00:31:28I like where this is going, so why would I do anything else besides stay?
00:31:38Good on you guys.
00:31:39Thank you so much.
00:31:40Well done.
00:31:41Great.
00:31:42Thank you so much.
00:31:50High fives.
00:31:51It's a nice one.
00:32:06Our next couple on the couch.
00:32:11Chris and Sam.
00:32:17Hello, you two.
00:32:18Howdy, how are you?
00:32:19Hello, guys.
00:32:21How are we doing?
00:32:23Well, I've got to say, this is a very different energy from the two of you.
00:32:28Not what we're used to at all.
00:32:31So you're like a very different couple right now.
00:32:33Yeah.
00:32:36Do you want to let us in?
00:32:40Chris, you don't look very happy.
00:32:42No, I'm just like, um, like, first of all, you asked me a question last week.
00:32:48Are you starting to envision a life outside of the experiment?
00:32:51I thought it was admirable that I was actually thinking after the experiment and I said,
00:32:55perhaps, potentially, Sam based himself in Sydney.
00:32:57It came from a really good place.
00:33:00But Sam was upset that I didn't consult him before answering the question that you asked me.
00:33:05And then he said to me, ten minutes prior to the dinner party, your three apologies weren't genuine enough.
00:33:10I'm going to bring it up in front of the group.
00:33:13We could have facilitated that in the apartment in a more private, controlled environment.
00:33:19I feel like I've, um, you know, been dragged through the coals.
00:33:22I'm just going to go to Sam because there's something I just want to clarify here.
00:33:26Why was it that you felt the need to bring this up in that group context?
00:33:31I wanted feedback from the group. I can go talk to my friends.
00:33:35You can go talk to your friends and we can try and, like, see if we can move past this.
00:33:40Because I just couldn't see getting to a conclusion with just the two of us because I was just getting
00:33:44shut down.
00:33:46That's why.
00:33:49There are some pretty big lifestyle changes ahead of the two of you.
00:33:55Chris has got children coming.
00:33:56Yeah.
00:33:56You know, Chris has the farm.
00:33:58Yeah.
00:33:59And, you know, clearly, life's going to be very much rooted around Chris's existing world.
00:34:05Yeah.
00:34:06And a lot of movement and compromise on your part, Sam.
00:34:10Is this the elephant in the room here for the two of you?
00:34:16Does it feel like it'll be you making all of the sacrifice?
00:34:22I'll be making big moves.
00:34:24Yeah.
00:34:24So 90% of the sacrifice would be on me to, like, fit into Chris's life, which is fine.
00:34:29Like, I know that.
00:34:31I'm prepared to do that if we fall for each other.
00:34:33But I just didn't want to feel like I had no say in even how that would look.
00:34:39I just feel like there could be a bit more empathy around the fact that there's a lot that I
00:34:43have to change.
00:34:44And I would have really liked if you discussed that with me before.
00:34:49How does that sit with you, Chris?
00:34:51Yeah.
00:34:54My answer to you was coming from a good place.
00:34:58That question that you asked me, are you thinking about life outside of this experiment?
00:35:01Which I thought was such a cute question.
00:35:04That question has now, like, spiraled into something so much bigger than what we had anticipated.
00:35:11And it's, um, put a huge rift between us, obviously.
00:35:13And, um, yeah.
00:35:15Sam.
00:35:17I've been watching you and you look a bit withdrawn.
00:35:22What has all this, do you feel, Sam, done to your relationship?
00:35:27To be honest, like, it's, it's really sad.
00:35:30Because you guys saw me at the last commitment ceremony.
00:35:32And I even wrote in my journal afterwards that a life with Chris could be magical and amazing.
00:35:37Um, and it's just, like, taking the feet out from underneath me.
00:35:41Um, yeah.
00:35:44It sucks.
00:35:47Chris, one of the things I said to you, very curious, because essentially you were in a great place a
00:35:54week ago.
00:35:55And then Sam has brought something up gently to just say, you know, I felt a little bit excluded.
00:36:00I thought that would have brought you closer.
00:36:04But in fact, the reaction he got pushes him away rather than brings him close.
00:36:11Yeah.
00:36:13And one of the things I went to is, did you take Sam's reaction as some, something of a rejection?
00:36:24Because what I'm thinking is that your anger was coming from hurt and fear, and it often does.
00:36:32You've taken it very personally, and I want to put that to you.
00:36:36If that's the case, what might that be about?
00:36:42Maybe just unsuccessful relationships, um, in the past, you know, like, yeah, and I have been hurt a lot.
00:36:51But here's the thing, he's bringing this conversation up in front of the group.
00:36:58Not because he wants to throw you under the bus, but because he wants to be able to talk to
00:37:02you, and he feels like he can't.
00:37:04To the point where he's too scared to bring up a conversation with you, and he needs to take it
00:37:09to a larger group.
00:37:11That has got to get you starting to look at yourself and how you're talking.
00:37:18This is a real moment of truth for you.
00:37:22Because a communication style has contributed to the real crisis that you're in now.
00:37:31That doesn't mean that you can't recover.
00:37:34And tonight is one of those absolute key crossroads for you, Chris.
00:37:39Mm-hmm.
00:37:40Yep.
00:37:45All right, let's go to the decision.
00:37:48Let's go with you first, Chris. Stay or leave?
00:37:51I've been going back and forth the last couple of days, um, and I've actually decided that I need and
00:37:57I want to go put my dad hat on, and I would like to leave.
00:38:21I've been going back and forth the last couple of days, um, and I've actually decided that I need and
00:38:27I want to go put my dad hat on, and I would like to leave.
00:38:44Baby, no. No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:38:52it's a huge turnaround from last week
00:38:56yeah
00:38:59I just think that I need to concentrate on this next thing that's coming and
00:39:04he's an amazing guy and he'll be amazing for someone
00:39:07I just don't think it's me for the moment
00:39:22Sam what's going on for you right now
00:39:30I just didn't see that coming I thought
00:39:36I thought you know this is the first hiccup we've had and we'd both come into this
00:39:41ready to take on feedback
00:39:44and then try and implement that and see if that could help
00:39:49and it just hurts to be like you've just given up
00:39:54because it got tough for a few days
00:40:00so yeah I just can't believe it
00:40:05let's go to your decision then Sam what have you got
00:40:08as much as Chris gave up a lot to be here I gave up a lot and I was
00:40:11I wanted to leave here with absolutely no regrets either way
00:40:15like 100% knowing if Chris was the guy for me
00:40:18right now I feel like I would have regrets and I wouldn't know completely if
00:40:22we could have made it work like I was prepared to take on anything you guys had to say
00:40:38well as you know in this experiment the rules are if one person says stay and the other person says
00:40:43leave the couple stays for another week and they work on the relationship it might seem like a lost cause
00:40:51but frankly we see
00:40:53we see couples absolutely turn things around in one week
00:41:01but it will require some heavy lifting from the both of you
00:41:10I mean the one thing about you two right now is that it's not friendly
00:41:14so when you think about how you're going to take on this week
00:41:17to start talking to one another
00:41:19yeah
00:41:20in a respectful way and acting in a considerate way
00:41:23and from there you can start to see how it changes your relationship
00:41:30let me remind you it was only a week ago that you were loved up on that couch excited about
00:41:35the future
00:41:40but with a weenus can come change
00:41:44and all you've got to do is treat each other in a friendly way
00:41:52all right thank you both
00:41:54thank you
00:41:55good work tonight well done that was hard
00:42:09well done guys
00:42:15I'll just be a guy
00:42:21okay
00:42:21okay our next couple on the couch
00:42:23Alyssa and David
00:42:25hello you two
00:42:29hello
00:42:31welcome
00:42:34how was feedback week for you guys
00:42:36so obviously feedback week started with some receipts from Juliet
00:42:41from last couch session that we had
00:42:44that was the start of our feedback week
00:42:47which was kind of negative
00:42:49you hear about oh just the messages
00:42:51but they were actually really vicious
00:42:54yeah it wasn't okay
00:42:56it was it definitely was a fresh
00:42:57it was fresh hurt for David and I
00:43:00yeah look um
00:43:01seeing those text messages
00:43:03just reopened wounds
00:43:05that were obviously closing over
00:43:08obviously it was a negative vibe to feedback week
00:43:11we didn't want to see that but it came to us so
00:43:13yeah um yeah moving on from that
00:43:18feedback week actually went really well
00:43:20because we managed to talk about um
00:43:23something
00:43:23yeah we talked about a plan for when we left the experiment
00:43:26what that was going to look like
00:43:28you know a bit of long distance maybe
00:43:29and then uh figure out like if we're moving to maybe Adelaide
00:43:36so obviously you know getting to an age
00:43:39in the next couple of years I want to have a family
00:43:41and I want to be in Adelaide for that
00:43:45and that was something that I hadn't talked to David about
00:43:48but he was amazing
00:43:49he was like I understand if you need to be with your family
00:43:52and you need extra support
00:43:53then we're going to move to Adelaide
00:43:54and I understand raising kids is not an easy task
00:43:57so you know she's obviously got her family there her mom and her mom's a legend
00:44:03Alyssa would be a fantastic mother
00:44:05she notices everything about me
00:44:06you know what I'm saying
00:44:07like she she helps me a lot
00:44:09I did say though I did say
00:44:12you did say something
00:44:13I did say though she reminds me of my mother
00:44:16she might be like don't wear that shirt
00:44:17it doesn't like it doesn't look good on you
00:44:20like just straight to the point and direct
00:44:22that's what my mother would do
00:44:24so that's what makes me know that she's got deep feelings
00:44:26then she cares
00:44:27because like she tells me things that challenge me
00:44:30you know and she doesn't just settle
00:44:32like she's always looking to grow
00:44:34she brings out the best in me as well
00:44:36and I think that's someone I need in my life
00:44:38someone who's always going to push me to be better
00:44:40hmm
00:44:41so you're in a good place guys
00:44:43I feel like we're
00:44:45we're the strongest we've ever been
00:44:47yeah
00:44:47I would agree
00:44:48right now
00:44:48we are
00:44:49we definitely are
00:44:49that's great
00:44:50yeah
00:44:51brilliant
00:44:52let's go to the decision
00:44:54Alyssa
00:44:54what'll it be
00:44:55well obviously
00:44:56got an exciting week
00:44:58coming up
00:44:58homestay
00:44:59homestay
00:45:00I'm about to convince you
00:45:01that you might like Adelaide
00:45:03so
00:45:04stay
00:45:05fabulous
00:45:06show you around
00:45:10so
00:45:11I wrote stay
00:45:12I go to little planes
00:45:14oh
00:45:15you're getting adventurous
00:45:17take me home baby
00:45:18I love it
00:45:19ready to go
00:45:20yeah
00:45:20there has been some really
00:45:23tough times
00:45:24for you guys
00:45:25and you've just turned toward each other
00:45:28backed each other
00:45:29and supported each other
00:45:30like a real team
00:45:31thanks guys
00:45:33well done
00:45:43coming up
00:45:44frankly when I watch you on the couch
00:45:47you seem uncomfortable
00:45:49the experts apply the pressure to Danny
00:45:52if you could do it over again
00:45:53how would you answer it
00:45:56I'd just say yes
00:45:58yes what
00:45:58I could see myself all my love
00:46:00yeah
00:46:01that's as simple as that
00:46:02and would that be the truth
00:46:18our next couple up on the couch
00:46:23Philip and Stella
00:46:28hello
00:46:29hello
00:46:29hello
00:46:30welcome
00:46:33last week was a little bit tough
00:46:36for you two on the couch
00:46:37I see such a different energy
00:46:40just walking up to the couch
00:46:44I really want to thank Mel for her advice
00:46:46focus on the emotional safety
00:46:48that he's providing and giving me
00:46:51and it's such a simple thing when you think
00:46:53but I didn't think about it
00:46:55and that was just like a penny drop moment for me
00:46:58I really want to thank you guys
00:47:00because I think if not the confinements of the experiment
00:47:03probably would be a different story at the end of the day
00:47:06so yeah thank you
00:47:08it's these uncomfortable chats that need to happen
00:47:10it's not you having a go
00:47:12it's just
00:47:12yeah
00:47:13it helps
00:47:14it helped us this week
00:47:15tremendously
00:47:17great to hear
00:47:18we ended up having a good week
00:47:19like she was a lot more gentler
00:47:21like you know
00:47:21coming and leading with kindness
00:47:23she's just been a little bit more gentle
00:47:25just with her delivery
00:47:25I can see sometimes she just
00:47:27as she sometimes starts talking
00:47:28she'll just stop
00:47:29and then she'll just go a little bit softer
00:47:32just things like that
00:47:33you know
00:47:33just little subtle differences
00:47:34that you can tell
00:47:35like yeah don't get me wrong
00:47:36Stella's still stellar
00:47:37but you know
00:47:38but she's a little bit
00:47:39yeah
00:47:40moving on
00:47:41a little bit different energy
00:47:43and we actually had a really really good week
00:47:45go ask the question of like
00:47:46alright if we go outside the experiment
00:47:48how quick would you expect
00:47:49like a proposal or something like that
00:47:51just to like fully escalate things
00:47:53you know you're just asking randomly
00:47:54just throw it out there
00:47:55it's a free question
00:47:57I said
00:47:586 to 12 months
00:47:59and Stella was just like ASAP
00:48:01so it's just kind of like
00:48:02I said the sooner the better
00:48:04wow
00:48:07sometimes I thought that like
00:48:08I was fully over invested
00:48:09and I was showing too much
00:48:11because that's a general trade of mine
00:48:12I just go all in
00:48:13you know
00:48:14I show all my cards
00:48:15here they are
00:48:15you know
00:48:16I never really hold back
00:48:17that's kind of like a trade of mine
00:48:19but it was good to get the reassurance
00:48:21but yeah
00:48:22can I just point out something
00:48:23that's quite stark for you Stella
00:48:27last week
00:48:28you were essentially pushing him away
00:48:30and creating that space
00:48:32and this week
00:48:33you're saying
00:48:34you want a real life proposal
00:48:37well let's put it that way
00:48:38I didn't say
00:48:39I would like a proposal
00:48:40that was a free question
00:48:41let's clarify
00:48:42and I got really shy
00:48:44I got really uncomfortable
00:48:45and I said the sooner the better
00:48:46you know
00:48:47sooner the better
00:48:47yeah
00:48:48but still
00:48:48the stark contrast
00:48:50I guess from last week
00:48:51how does that feel
00:48:51from your perspective
00:48:53like I'm crazy
00:48:56it's going to be confusing
00:48:57no it's good enough
00:48:57being crazy
00:48:58but it's just
00:48:59it's extreme
00:48:59can't really give up
00:49:00isn't it
00:49:00it's extreme
00:49:01and it has an emotional impact
00:49:03so I'm just wondering
00:49:04how that feels for you
00:49:05it's good
00:49:05it shows that she's forward thinking
00:49:08she sees me in her future
00:49:09and that she's like
00:49:10the real deal
00:49:10you know
00:49:11when you think about the future
00:49:13is this something
00:49:14that you can see
00:49:15for the two of you
00:49:16yeah yeah
00:49:16definitely
00:49:17most definitely
00:49:18so yeah
00:49:18pretty pretty confident
00:49:22I guess it's interesting
00:49:23tonight
00:49:24the first thing I noticed
00:49:25was the way you looked
00:49:26at him again
00:49:26oh
00:49:27yeah I'm in love again
00:49:29you were back into that
00:49:30sort of starry eyed
00:49:32interaction
00:49:32where you gaze at him
00:49:34in extended ways
00:49:37oh you're going to make me cry
00:49:40we lost that last week
00:49:42yeah
00:49:43I would say
00:49:44I just fell back
00:49:45into my feelings
00:49:46into my body
00:49:47into showing up for myself
00:49:48and then showing up for him
00:49:49because if I don't show up for myself
00:49:51I can't show up for him
00:49:52and that's the main difference
00:49:53and ultimately
00:49:54I think you had to get out of your head
00:49:56and into your heart
00:49:58which is ultimately
00:50:00what we were trying to get you to do
00:50:03alright well with that being the case
00:50:05let's go to the decision
00:50:06stay or leave
00:50:07the decision is very simple
00:50:09and being back into my heart
00:50:12have a beautiful stay
00:50:14excellent
00:50:15look at that ey
00:50:15perfect
00:50:16love it
00:50:17and Philip
00:50:18it's a
00:50:19it's a
00:50:19stay
00:50:20strong
00:50:21strong stay
00:50:22strong stay
00:50:23strong stay
00:50:24strong stay
00:50:25well thank you
00:50:26we really
00:50:26I personally really appreciate the advices
00:50:29that you guys give
00:50:29good work
00:50:30thank you
00:50:31will do
00:50:31thank you
00:50:32thanks again
00:50:41and our final couple up on the couch
00:50:44Bec and Danny
00:50:46oh I'm scared
00:50:55right
00:50:56feedback week
00:50:57how was it
00:50:59do you want to
00:50:59you talk
00:51:00I'll talk
00:51:00it's been good
00:51:01it was challenging to begin with
00:51:04but it ended
00:51:05really really well
00:51:06why was it challenging
00:51:09so
00:51:11obviously like I told Danny
00:51:13that I'm in love with him
00:51:15the last commitment ceremony
00:51:17you certainly did
00:51:19it's how I feel
00:51:20so I'm going to say it
00:51:24and I meant it
00:51:26but when we sort of did the questions
00:51:29there was one question that came up was
00:51:31can you see yourself falling in love with me
00:51:35and Danny didn't say no
00:51:36but he sort of umdenied a little bit
00:51:38and I just spiralled
00:51:42so what was his exact answer
00:51:46uh potentially yes I assume so
00:51:51so how did that feel
00:51:52um I was upset
00:51:54I was hurt
00:51:55and I was kind of embarrassed
00:52:01I thought that he
00:52:03would have said
00:52:05not I'm not there yet
00:52:06but yes
00:52:07I just thought that it
00:52:09that he would be a little bit further along
00:52:12than potentially yes
00:52:13I assume so
00:52:14but I need to
00:52:16allow Daniel to
00:52:18be on his journey
00:52:20in this relationship
00:52:22and I'll be on mine
00:52:23and don't regret it
00:52:24be me
00:52:27I'm in love
00:52:29he's not there yet
00:52:30don't allow that
00:52:31fact
00:52:32to ruin
00:52:33how good it feels
00:52:35for me
00:52:44Danny
00:52:48let's go to that discussion
00:52:49shall we
00:52:50and when the question
00:52:51got asked
00:52:52tell us again
00:52:53what you said
00:52:54and then why you said it
00:52:56well
00:52:58the the questions
00:52:59asked sometimes
00:53:00I struggle with
00:53:00to be honest
00:53:02I think I misinterpreted
00:53:04the the question
00:53:07but the question
00:53:09what was it like
00:53:09it was a bit
00:53:10could you see yourself
00:53:10falling in love with me
00:53:11yeah
00:53:13because it's a pretty
00:53:14black and white question
00:53:25if you want to know
00:53:26what I looked like
00:53:2712 months ago
00:53:28this is it
00:53:29this is the last time
00:53:31I went surfing
00:53:31basically
00:53:32it was overhead height
00:53:33but I realised
00:53:34the surf's a bit
00:53:35beyond my level
00:53:35I tried pulling off
00:53:37the wave
00:53:37I could see a sandbank
00:53:39and I went straight down
00:53:41head first
00:53:42onto my fin
00:53:43I was surprised
00:53:44I came out alive
00:53:46to be honest
00:53:47surfing is a beautiful thing
00:53:49but honestly
00:53:49I've just been too scared
00:53:50to get back out there
00:53:51I remember
00:53:52you were walking up
00:53:53and I don't know
00:53:54if it was that
00:53:55you could see the blood
00:53:55or something
00:53:56but you started running
00:53:57well I got closer
00:53:58and the dude said to me
00:53:59I was like
00:54:00what'd she do
00:54:00and he's like
00:54:01dude she has the most
00:54:02gnarly fin chop
00:54:02I've ever seen
00:54:0419 stitches
00:54:05honestly I looked like
00:54:06Harry Potter
00:54:07the doctors in hospital
00:54:08said you cannot have
00:54:09a knock like this again
00:54:10the concussion you had
00:54:12next time
00:54:13it won't be okay
00:54:18fear for me
00:54:18in gymnastics
00:54:19actually ended up
00:54:20stopping me
00:54:20I would pull out
00:54:22of skills
00:54:22where you like
00:54:23think you're going
00:54:24to commit
00:54:24you say to yourself
00:54:25like I can do this
00:54:27and in the middle
00:54:28you're like
00:54:29I'm too scared
00:54:29and you literally
00:54:30land on your head
00:54:31like you're actually
00:54:32hurting yourself
00:54:33but you're not
00:54:34trying to hurt yourself
00:54:36and I was getting
00:54:36severely injured daily
00:54:38I saw sports
00:54:38psychologists
00:54:39and no matter
00:54:40what they said
00:54:40I couldn't stop
00:54:41that was a mental
00:54:42challenge I couldn't
00:54:44overcome
00:54:44because I knew
00:54:45gymnastics was going
00:54:46to be taken away
00:54:46from me
00:54:47I learned to
00:54:48accept it in
00:54:49gymnastics
00:54:49but like I'm not
00:54:50accepting this in
00:54:51surf
00:54:51I have a background
00:54:52in fitness coaching
00:54:53counselling
00:54:54I'm always trying to
00:54:54show to people
00:54:55you can do anything
00:54:56and so it's a little
00:54:58bit like your imposter
00:54:59because there's one
00:55:00part of you
00:55:01that you can't get
00:55:02past but you'd expect
00:55:03that from others
00:55:04I'm a go-getter
00:55:05I don't let anything
00:55:06stop me
00:55:06and this is the one
00:55:07thing that's stopping
00:55:08me so if I can do
00:55:10this today
00:55:11I can get back
00:55:13on that path
00:55:13but yeah I am
00:55:15a bit nervous
00:55:20I feel incredibly
00:55:22apprehensive
00:55:24the fluttering chest
00:55:25is not stopping
00:55:26and I'm just hoping
00:55:28that today's going
00:55:29to be okay
00:55:29the worst thing
00:55:31that can happen
00:55:31is a redo
00:55:33of last year
00:55:34and that better
00:55:35not happen today
00:55:37my confidence
00:55:38can't
00:55:38my confidence
00:55:39can't handle it
00:55:41I can't have
00:55:42another crash
00:55:42like that
00:55:43like
00:55:44it really
00:55:45really impacted
00:55:46my confidence
00:55:48and that's
00:55:49not like me
00:55:50like I'm known
00:55:51as a person
00:55:51that's a go-getter
00:55:52and doesn't stop
00:55:53and doesn't let
00:55:54fear stop them
00:55:54so I can't
00:55:56have a knock
00:55:57like that again
00:55:58I'm really scared
00:56:00I just don't want
00:56:01to be near people
00:56:03because people
00:56:04see me as this
00:56:04confident person
00:56:05they don't get
00:56:08I am petrified
00:56:19I think I misinterpreted
00:56:21the question
00:56:24but the question
00:56:25what was it
00:56:26like it was a bit
00:56:26could you see yourself
00:56:27falling in love with me
00:56:28because it's a pretty
00:56:29black and white question
00:56:39from my point of view
00:56:41I don't feel
00:56:42as a man
00:56:44like
00:56:44if I
00:56:45if I give back
00:56:46my word on something
00:56:47I'm always going to
00:56:47stand to that
00:56:50and
00:56:50I don't think
00:56:52saying
00:56:52yes
00:56:53I can 100%
00:56:54fall in love with you
00:56:55would be the right
00:56:56thing to say
00:56:57because it's almost
00:56:58making a promise
00:56:59which I don't think
00:57:00you can promise
00:57:00that before
00:57:01you're in love
00:57:01with someone
00:57:04but let's just
00:57:05remind ourselves
00:57:06the question
00:57:07wasn't
00:57:08do you promise
00:57:09that you will
00:57:10fall in love
00:57:10with me
00:57:11yeah I know
00:57:11John
00:57:11100%
00:57:12it was
00:57:13can you see
00:57:14yourself
00:57:14falling in love
00:57:16with me
00:57:18yeah
00:57:19and do you know
00:57:20what
00:57:20like
00:57:21I can't sit here
00:57:22and make excuses
00:57:22I just answered
00:57:23the question
00:57:24shockingly
00:57:25you know
00:57:25what I mean
00:57:28it was a mistake
00:57:29I made a mistake
00:57:30I'm only human
00:57:32like I didn't
00:57:33I didn't mean
00:57:34to make Bec feel
00:57:35like that
00:57:35it wasn't
00:57:36my intention
00:57:39when we revisited
00:57:40it
00:57:41I um
00:57:42we talked about
00:57:43we talked about
00:57:43it
00:57:45and we patched
00:57:46it up
00:57:46you know
00:57:50um
00:57:50yeah
00:57:51I just
00:57:52I made a mistake
00:57:53it's alright baby
00:57:58Danny
00:57:59I've got a question
00:58:00because I'm curious
00:58:02frankly when I
00:58:03watch you
00:58:04on the couch
00:58:05you seem
00:58:06uncomfortable
00:58:09I do find this
00:58:10uncomfortable
00:58:10to be honest
00:58:11it's not something
00:58:12I'm good at
00:58:12what's uncomfortable
00:58:12about it
00:58:14just sitting here
00:58:15talking about your feelings
00:58:17I turn up and do it
00:58:19because obviously
00:58:20it's more for Bec
00:58:22if I had it my way
00:58:23I wouldn't be here
00:58:23no chance
00:58:24but we need this baby
00:58:25but is it more for Bec
00:58:29100%
00:58:33like a lot of blokes
00:58:34do things they don't
00:58:35want to do
00:58:36because of their
00:58:36hold on a second
00:58:37doll
00:58:37one second babe
00:58:39adore you
00:58:41so much
00:58:41I love you
00:58:42actually
00:58:43but
00:58:44this is not all
00:58:45for me doll
00:58:46no I know
00:58:46that they're like
00:58:47you're being
00:58:47they're helping you too
00:58:48trust me
00:58:52these couch sessions
00:58:53are not just for Bec
00:58:54you signed up
00:58:55to the experiment
00:58:56on your own
00:58:58saying that you
00:58:59wanted to break
00:58:59some patterns
00:59:01so this is the chance
00:59:02for you to do that
00:59:03and that's your part
00:59:04where you have to rise
00:59:05to the occasion
00:59:06and choose to do that
00:59:08with enthusiasm
00:59:10enthusiasm
00:59:11thank you
00:59:11thanks Alessandra
00:59:12you're welcome
00:59:13no but it's true
00:59:14you want your partner
00:59:15to want to
00:59:17and that's the game changer
00:59:18when somebody really
00:59:19wants to be there
00:59:20for you
00:59:21and chooses
00:59:22to make you a priority
00:59:23day in and day out
00:59:24wow that's the game changer
00:59:26it would be for you
00:59:27it certainly will be
00:59:29for Bec
00:59:33and what you know now
00:59:34is when you're
00:59:35particularly talking
00:59:36about commitment
00:59:37future
00:59:39feelings
00:59:41you do have to
00:59:42choose your words
00:59:43very carefully
00:59:46you do indeed
00:59:48if you could do it
00:59:49over again
00:59:50how would you
00:59:51answer it
00:59:52I'd just say yes
00:59:56yes what
00:59:57I could see myself
00:59:58all in love with you
00:59:59yeah
00:59:59that's as simple as that
01:00:02and would that be the truth
01:00:07of course
01:00:07I wouldn't say
01:00:08if it wasn't the truth
01:00:09so yeah
01:00:11I just answered it wrong
01:00:16I think the best thing
01:00:18with Daniel and I
01:00:19and I've learnt
01:00:19is that you know
01:00:21we always come out
01:00:22better and stronger
01:00:23because now
01:00:25moving forward
01:00:26we're in this together
01:00:27and
01:00:28it makes me feel like
01:00:29I'm not
01:00:30going to get hurt
01:00:33it means so much
01:00:34and like for example
01:00:36he planned this date
01:00:38and I walked into
01:00:39our apartment
01:00:40and there was candles
01:00:41lit everywhere
01:00:42and all over the
01:00:43apartment was post-it
01:00:45notes
01:00:46telling me
01:00:47how he felt
01:00:47about me
01:00:50so he's learning
01:00:51guys
01:00:52he's learning
01:00:52I'm not all bad
01:00:53am I
01:00:54and then
01:00:55we went up
01:00:56and he asked me
01:00:57to be his girlfriend
01:01:02I know you're married
01:01:03but what
01:01:04inspired you
01:01:05to ask Beck
01:01:05that question
01:01:07I'm trying to think
01:01:10like
01:01:10it was important
01:01:12to Beck
01:01:13you know
01:01:13because like
01:01:14why was it important
01:01:15to you
01:01:22because it gives
01:01:24Beck security
01:01:26but why is it important
01:01:27to you Danny
01:01:31well I'm married to Beck
01:01:32do you know what you mean
01:01:33so it's like
01:01:34but like
01:01:35I think it
01:01:36it was more
01:01:41yeah I think Beck
01:01:43just wanted that added
01:01:43security
01:01:44that like
01:01:44do you
01:01:45but why was it important
01:01:46to you
01:01:46to ask her that
01:02:07yeah I think Beck
01:02:09just wanted that added
01:02:09security
01:02:10that lied to you
01:02:11but why was it important
01:02:12to you
01:02:12to ask her that
01:02:23because I know
01:02:24it'd be special
01:02:25to Beck
01:02:27but why was it important
01:02:29to you
01:02:41because I wanted to be
01:02:42my girlfriend
01:02:42like
01:02:44you know
01:02:46yeah that's why I'd
01:02:47done it
01:02:49cute
01:02:56how did it feel
01:02:58so good
01:03:03it's really special
01:03:04to me
01:03:08all right
01:03:08well on that note
01:03:09we're going to go
01:03:09to a decision
01:03:10Beck
01:03:12I wrote
01:03:13stay
01:03:13and then I wrote
01:03:14boyfriend
01:03:14he he
01:03:15oh
01:03:18yeah
01:03:19boyfriend
01:03:21Danny
01:03:23leave
01:03:23can you imagine
01:03:26so I've just done
01:03:27a cheeky stay
01:03:30that's lovely
01:03:30where's the love part
01:03:31this week
01:03:32he's in a rush
01:03:33oh okay
01:03:36this week
01:03:37I think
01:03:38for you Danny
01:03:40clearly
01:03:41and plainly
01:03:43let her know
01:03:44how you feel
01:03:45about her
01:03:46everything that you
01:03:47wrote on those
01:03:48post-it notes
01:03:49translate that
01:03:50into your verbal
01:03:51communication
01:03:51with her
01:03:52this week
01:03:52because it worked
01:03:53it's been the best
01:03:54week of my life
01:03:58you got a big
01:03:59thumbs up for that
01:04:00so do more of that
01:04:01make her that
01:04:02priority
01:04:08thank you both
01:04:09thank you
01:04:10appreciate you
01:04:11appreciate you
01:04:50getting started
01:04:55I think I'm
01:04:56I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed her
01:05:03oh hang on my vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive and I'm here to
01:05:11protect her Stella's outspoken guests from her wedding day are back so like
01:05:16I'm getting excited after you I'm getting some not so confident vibes from
01:05:22over here and then welcome Scott shows off to Gia his waterside home oh it's
01:05:29bit messy so random weird this wouldn't be big enough be better if that wasn't
01:05:35there is Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen my house is
01:05:41way cleaner yeah I couldn't I couldn't live here if the roles were reversed and I
01:05:46was at Gia's house I wouldn't say anything but nice things
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