00:00When a girl born in an Indian society, the first thought come in the parents' mind, the marriage.
00:06Not what she want, how we can give her a good life.
00:09At 22 or 25, men and women themselves are ready in the biological sense to become a mother and a
00:17father.
00:17Why are you still talking of your own mother and father?
00:20And at your age, when you are in your 20s, mid 20s, 30s or 40s,
00:25the relationship with parents must be that of maturity.
00:30Two adults relating to each other.
00:34No, it can't be a mother-child relationship.
00:38In India, we take just too long.
00:40Even at 35 or 40, we remain Tinku and Pinku and Bablu.
00:44And that's a disservice even to the parents.
00:48Because you are still psychologically dependent on them.
00:51Relieve them now. They have done their job.
00:53Give them adult, able, mature company as friends.
00:59That's your responsibility as a daughter now.
01:02Mama, now I come to you not as a child, but as an adult.
01:07As somebody who can talk conscious stuff to you.
01:12That is the right relationship.
01:13If they are not ready for that, conscious stuff.
01:15That's fine. That's their decision then.
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