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00:02this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:14is possible will you pique my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village all
00:48what happens next is up to them keep it would you like to see each other again romantically
01:01yeah i would too oh jesus christ i was gonna have a hat i do my hair toss check my
01:08nails baby how you
01:10feel are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute future
01:18did
01:18that run not much needs to be done to this you can polish do you have any strategy when it
01:28comes to
01:28a date none whatsoever none i'm going in blind it's just that thing of like just rocking up and just
01:36going for it like i do my hair washed and i pour have a bit of tan because i think
01:42whatever about
01:43your hair and makeup if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things that remind
01:46me like alice you're great you got this you got this girl you got this brocco we look gorgeous thanks
01:57some people just can't get enough attention but ms not one of them she's maxed out do you get chatted
02:05up
02:05sometimes i do go out and i'm just like can people just leave me the alone i'm like just off
02:14sometimes i look at them and i'd be like where are you coming from i'm coming from clerny
02:19you know what's wrong with the kerry men there's just something wrong with them especially the clerny men
02:25really something wrong with them what hobbies have you what hobbies have i i like to go to the gym
02:33i
02:33like to go for hot girl walks what's a hot girl walk so it's when you put on your sunglasses
02:38you chew
02:39a piece of gum and you look straight and you walk you walk like you own the town
02:45describe yourself in three words for me pretty a tad bit obnoxious and funny so would you say that you
02:53are particular like do you need a person i guess that has things or is successful and has to be
02:59a
03:00certain way definitely okay okay so what would you deem as a successful person someone i guess
03:05it was a good job has their life together knows what they want is able to drive 100 yeah i'm
03:13built
03:14to be a passenger princess if you don't have a full license you don't have a care i'm like immediately
03:19no i'm not driving you around the place i'm sorry not at all it can't be a car for apollo
03:25they give me
03:27the a what are you looking for like a bentley or not step martin if one wants to go my
03:31way then like so
03:32can you find me one well i'll try find myself one first then i'll get you one after
03:39wow okay god love the person coming in you should ask them that straight away
03:44all my friends hi i'm jack i'm 21 and i'm from kerry the low rider is a little higher boy
03:55racer or
03:57trusty pickup you'll be the judge from the first day's restaurant to find my new woman to find a bit
04:03of love it's a bit uh a bit exciting a bit exciting i could chat to a wall ah it's
04:12it's all the charm the
04:13charm is my biggest thing uh compliments first and then a bit of laughter and that always works
04:18hello how are you mr how are you how are you nice to meet you jack nice to meet you
04:24jack how are you
04:25yeah like that you like that beautiful for you and you have success with that i like to think so
04:32but uh
04:33not often i wouldn't be i wouldn't be too busy on the old dating scene so it's that is what
04:39it is
04:39okay you're ready to do this ready to bring it to the bar your date is at the bar yeah
04:44all right
04:45all right get your shit together yeah i've met people before that have you know i've brought the
04:54confidence out and and i like that that's what i love make people happy and you know feel confident
04:59about themselves but i'd love to meet someone who's confident themselves hi hi how are you
05:06jack is nice to meet you it's nice to meet you what's your name sorry mim mim yeah so i
05:11got you
05:12a little uh i would say definitely i am a tough cookie i am hard to impress definitely where you
05:20from
05:20i'm from clarney no way yeah who yourself yeah i'm from clarney clarney told me yeah right here
05:28what i'm um just like castle island castle island just outside yeah only down the road so how did you
05:35come up uh drove up i stayed in mace uh last night uh family uh okay journey up is working
05:42my carriage you
05:42drive let's hear it no you go first now what do you drive i drive for fast
05:50no i have a few a few a few so i suppose i've gone into cars when i was about
06:0011 or 12 through my
06:02father and uh car collection has just grown okay let's hear them all i have a few japanese cars okay
06:08um but i dated bmw oh wow okay
06:21the pain is long
06:26for old school romantic liam love is the gift that keeps on giving oh life could be a dream
06:34if i look to me you do happen for somebody you care about them you have interest in them
06:43you want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you
06:48welcome how's it going very good mr yourself great your name please name mateo nice to meet you liam
06:54nice how is everything everything is great yeah everything is good hopefully it'll get better yeah
06:59yeah yeah yeah if the attraction is there initially brilliant i'm not going to try and impress them
07:05purely to impress them as i used to do i like that there they'll give a bit of a gift
07:10there
07:11be nice to cuddle up to somebody at times just like the intimacy that'd be nice it's not for you
07:21i've actually stopped focusing on the chocolate that's not good i know that's what i'm saying
07:25it's not for you yeah oh that's a decent box of chocolates as well is it oh god yeah absolutely
07:31chance though fair play to you smart as i said you can't eat flowers i got married in 86
07:37they split up in 96 i was in another relationship after a few years for a few years
07:45and i have not been in any relationship since then listen at least you put yourself out there
07:51that's very number one yeah absolutely we see what happens we see what happens
07:56nothing stops esther putting herself out there certainly not the neighbors
08:04i'm 64 i'm not doing too bad like i wouldn't care to opens i go into the back garden in
08:10my bikini
08:10if somebody's didn't want to look at me i couldn't care less
08:21i suppose i'm not the normal nanny yeah that's what they tell me i would like somebody to get
08:29their knickers in a knot over nothing no time for that life's too short
08:43but it doesn't define your night ahead oh i so didn't want to get that wrong i used to be
08:50very
08:50confident i think i need to get my competence back no don't be but you're a gorgeous lady why would
08:56you be nervous why would you be nervous but he's gonna be nervous when you come back can i look
09:01around
09:01she know he can't no be cool okay be cool be cool she's beautiful is she she's very beautiful yeah
09:07yeah
09:08they've done well here they're doing well they're doing well they're doing well i can't stop looking
09:12at your eyes i'm blue same like yours oh my god no yours is so blue anyway i need to
09:20behave myself okay
09:21i think you're ready you do okay good yeah let's do it i suppose it'd be exciting i kind of
09:29like to get
09:30i don't know you know i'll go out there and fail terrible esther you don't look half that all right
09:37now
09:37hello hello how are you doing i'm good how are you great i'm liam how are you are you
09:45nice to see you look fantastic beautiful dress do you like chocolates i do
09:57oh my god i do indeed somebody kind of that looks okay hair no hair whatever you know we're all
10:07getting a little bit older here will you have a drink i surely will um a little bit of everything
10:13that you have one glass with about 12 straws i'll have a glass of wine that's what white red uh
10:22white
10:22please what are you having i just sparkly water oh yeah yeah yeah that's a baby so
10:33so how many siblings have you two sisters okay yourself i just have one older brother one older brother
10:39how old is he he's 22 we're just like a year and like nine months apart we would be close
10:45but we
10:45still do absolutely kill each other till this day and is he living with you yeah four of you in
10:51the house
10:51no my parents divorced so my parents got divorced when i was like maybe like eight or nine so it's
10:56just
10:56myself my mom my brother oh okay do you mind me asking should you talk to that no i haven't
11:03spoken to
11:03him i'd say like five or six years that's mad yeah no like we live in the same town and
11:07everything
11:07like there's no hate no nothing we just don't talk yeah that's just i'm the same you're the same
11:12it's great fact yeah i live with my dad okay so you live with your dad then so uh yeah
11:16i haven't
11:16talked to my mom in nine years okay and how old were you when they kind of got separated and
11:22stuff
11:22uh 12 well they separated when i was very young uh i can't even remember it's probably a toddler like
11:28and then i live with my mom until i was about 12 okay and uh with them we followed him
11:34when i was
11:3413 my father just he took me in he taught me everything you know i i was a proper little
11:41scumbag
11:42when i was younger like and uh oh it's just i'm happier way more respect for everything you know i
11:49feel
11:49like i'm a nice person now because of him and yeah he changed me 100 percent but my brother is
11:55still
11:55in the environment so it's uh it's his fault i am in the cares you know yeah i like her
12:01but i love it
12:02so is it just the two of you living at home just two we'll say yeah that's not right
12:10are you divorced or you passed or i'm divorced i'm married i was um i met my husband when i
12:18was
12:1915 yeah and we married when i was 18
12:25and then we separated after 15 years yeah and it was a hard breakup yeah yeah yeah but we have
12:34the
12:35best relationship that's great at the end it didn't work out and it was a difficult breakup but all we
12:43had been doing was just trying to keep stuff together it wasn't working and we were doing it for the
12:48kids
12:48and i'll tell you i am so glad i married yeah yeah yeah because i have two daughters yeah yeah
12:57yeah
12:57and i have grandchildren yeah yeah yeah it's brilliant that you get on so well now oh yeah yeah yeah
13:03he drives me bad yeah he would not be with me for all the tea in china yeah yeah and
13:11i wouldn't be with
13:11him but you see the relationship you have is both yeah grateful yeah yeah yeah how about you
13:19myself and myself and my ex though we could hardly be in the same room oh yeah sure that happens
13:28introducing kevin from leash well that's one way to describe him then here's another
13:33uh okay just a basic old game man that's all yeah
13:42i'm always the one doing the chasing usually i like i want to do like a full research
13:51i thought maybe if i take it out with my own hands it might make the situation a bit easier
13:58welcome hello how's everything i'm good thanks how are you when you get a little bit older you
14:03realize that love is not all rainbows and lollipops and fizzes in your tummy all right mister no it's
14:10about who's your lobster what's your name calvin nice to meet you nice to meet you calvin yeah like
14:16the county like the county you probably get that all the time do you where's that look it's a
14:20conversation starter isn't it yeah um my grandmother is from calvin okay and then there's everyone that
14:25calls me kevin and kelvin and calvin and gavin and i'm just like yeah no problem yeah call me tom
14:30if you if it makes you happy i don't know it just doesn't bother me where are you from uh
14:35leash
14:35strabelly oh i'm from joro very good fellow leash man yes tough isn't it dating's not that good though
14:43it's not no no no that's why i'm standing here a few small kids as well so they keep me
14:49occupied
14:50how many kids i have three how old are they so 13 11 and eight so you've only recently come
14:57out kind
14:57of really you're like recent as uh like january 21 that's pretty recent
15:17how do you feel about the field or how do i feel inside
15:23i don't want to say that would be tea to come loose
15:32i'm fussy i'm a fussy eater yeah don't eat onions tomatoes peppers okay when i get pizza
15:39red onion is a must yeah but we can get a half and half
15:46in the grand scheme of things martin believes that size really matters i'm looking for love a big love
16:00i'm i'm very soft inside when i have a bad day i have a bad day if i want to
16:04cry i do cry so i like
16:06someone who's gonna come and hug me and say everything's gonna be okay instead of coming to
16:10me and say grow up you're a big man i like man kind of bigger maybe bald maybe beard not
16:20skinny
16:22come and compose hello how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you nice to meet you too
16:26your name please martin martin spolski spolski how is everything good yeah stress a little bit
16:33just follow your instincts man they got you so far your date is at the bar oh really so i'm
16:40the
16:40on the second either bj may in a jam out breathe in breathe out i'm gonna be very shy at
16:48the start
16:49i'm actually even thinking don't bring me a very hot car
16:55hi hi how are you how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you how are you what's
17:00your name
17:00calvin calvin yes march in my night nice to meet you love you you nervous i am a little bit
17:06why i was
17:06thinking like if i'm gonna sit down have a drink then it's gonna be up here you know yeah it'll
17:10be fine
17:11where you come from uh i live in dublin okay i live in in sugar but i'm from poland
17:16okay originally i live here 20 years very good where are you from uh leash leash yeah never been
17:21leash yeah i don't even know actually where it is well it's like right in the middle i feed off
17:26vibes
17:27and look even if it's not somebody that i match with i mean let's have dinner and have a drink
17:34and
17:34have a laugh uh tell me your name sorry calvin calvin one more time i'm sorry i'm so that's okay
17:41don't be
17:42stress
17:42um so
17:57do you enjoy your job i do i kind of fell into it when i was like 17 i was
18:01like christmas staff
18:02so i started working in pharmacy when i slowly made my way up sometimes it can be stressful but
18:07at the most times i do like interacting with people from all types of backgrounds did you go to college
18:11or no no no no straight forward yeah same for myself okay yeah yeah yeah so i built wind turbines
18:18because we go into the back hours of nowhere what i do is i take them down and put them
18:24back up right
18:25so those big windmills the big windmills right this week now i got thrown in tipperary the week okay
18:31but i have the choices like staying overnight i'm coming back here today okay and where do you usually
18:35stay i'm on my own so i just stay away there's no pain going home if i had a reason
18:39to go home i go
18:40home i know it the lads you know it's like a second family the views as well when you're working
18:47like go
18:48up there two o'clock in the morning and then you hit the sunset at five or six in the
18:52morning it's beautiful
18:53so how long have you been doing that i think two years now okay what age are you 21 21
19:00when's your birthday
19:03september i'm 20 i'll be 21 like a week and a half i'm 13. she's not gonna get caught for
19:09birthday
19:09presents all right okay oh wow so i have your steak oh thank you and the chicken supreme lovely thank
19:26you another good choice enjoy thank you i'd like to be somebody with similar values as myself i believe
19:34happiness is being grateful for what we have instead of being miserable about what we haven't got
19:41so what do you do then um for be it pleasure enjoyment are you like me you do all
19:51i do it i get annoyed myself when i didn't do something i'm sure yeah i'm doing a couple of
19:58walking lately because i've booked the camino and you have not oh yeah my life only started when i gave
20:05up
20:05drinking it will be 20 years ago this year since i gave it up and it's the best thing i
20:10ever did in
20:11my life my greatest achievement no i'm not doing a whole lot of it why why it's too long i
20:22wasn't happy
20:23i wasn't happy it was far from happy and i used to go to the pub for three or four
20:28points
20:30and that was the story of my life but i never left after three or four points have you ever
20:35done it
20:35i have not and i never will i'll be second taken off you must be joking me relationships when i
20:44was
20:44younger people i grew up with people women and it wouldn't last long and they'd all tell me i'm a
20:51lovely person but they never told me the bush but i am convinced now that both was i was an
20:57alcoholic
20:59something i want to do i'm totally on my own i think i never really went anywhere without people
21:04before there was somebody with me or whatever and it's meant to be a spiritual kind of journey
21:10yeah it's how to become for his own totally you know but it's a challenge well done you i haven't
21:19done it yet it doesn't matter when i got married i found a girl that loved me and i was
21:26afraid to let
21:27her go because i believed nobody else is going to love me and that's part of the reason i married
21:34that
21:37it you know i'm so insecure in myself and that's how i put all that down to alcoholism
21:45i've learned to be comfortable on my own be happy yeah yeah i'm content i've learned to like myself
21:52i think because i never liked myself too much but since i've been on my own i've learned to like
21:58myself that i'm not that fat of a person really believe it or not i'll give you a reward
22:11i have my sister with me she lives with me now oh i brought her here uh two years ago
22:17good good
22:18you having a siblings i have um two brothers and a sister yeah who is the oldest i'm the oldest
22:24you're
22:25oh you're taking care of everything yeah yeah um i'm not nervous about being rejected but sometimes
22:31people are not willing to date um men that have uh kids and that's fine that's on them but i
22:39feel
22:39like it's not something that i need to declare but then sometimes they're a bit shocked like oh you
22:44didn't say you had kids like well did i need to um so i also have um three kids you
22:51have three kids
22:52yeah so they keep me busy too nice to hear yeah yeah um do you like kids or i do
22:58like kids and i
22:58have son as well do you yes wow that's the another reason i came to ireland yeah is he here
23:04yes and how
23:06was he uh he's 21 years old right now he lives in leeson varna okay so after one year when
23:13i got the
23:14job and everything and i was feeling safe yeah i brought his mother and him and does she still live
23:21in
23:21mr varna we're still there with him we've been friends forever and we still not love each other
23:26i can't say love each other but like you know what i mean like we've been in this together let's
23:30say
23:30you know what i mean yeah so uh i have one song you know but you have three like so
23:35you have fun yeah
23:36yeah they're they're they're great kids i want to know more um they're they're they are the love of my
23:42life yeah we have a lot of fun uh so when i do when i see them i really make
23:47the most and we do stuff
23:48but then like i won't lie i get really lonely then when they leave and i don't want it to
23:56be just me
24:06what would you say you're looking for then what am i looking for yeah it's a cool question that yeah
24:13um
24:18uh i'm just looking for someone someone i can like uh be around yeah put the foot knife and fork
24:26down
24:26no i get a bit serious like okay i'll put it on too go
24:32no i'm looking for someone i can come home to do you know what i mean yeah when i'm working
24:36or something
24:37yeah so i want someone to give money free time to them and look after them like i know what
24:42i want
24:42and when i do find someone who has everything i want i'll go for it until then i won't like
24:48what are
24:48your interests like clothes so you like dressing up and you look lovely that's all right i'll give you
24:54that one i'd say people think right off the bat that i'm like so like self-obsessed and just like
24:59a
25:00bitch really but like like once you get to know me people do think i'm lovely well you look after
25:06yourself
25:06that's the main thing that's lovely yeah like i like to look done up every day yeah like i wake
25:10up
25:10at 5 45 most mornings i start work at like half seven so i like to have like my hair
25:15and makeup done
25:16for like half seven in the morning so you wake up just under two hours before work to get ready
25:22yeah i gotta look perfect every day yeah i think i drive you mad do you wash your face in
25:27the morning
25:29don't even answer it i don't know i don't want to hear it anymore ew i'm hardy like
25:37i'll tell you auntie now i will come back here tomorrow for that stay it's lovely sweet cheese
25:42lovely it's gorgeous and the pepper sauce sorry my teacher come on a little shelf
25:49don't worry about it i have that problem as well don't worry about it your grand
25:57what's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on we met and we had dinner which was quite nice and
26:03it was lovely and he said can i give you a kiss and i said yeah okay i said we'll
26:08have to buy him
26:08dinner or whatever i'll have to give him a kiss if i'm at home now they come out i don't
26:12have to me
26:13what okay obviously wear them but when i'm at home they come out oh i would not would you not
26:20i would
26:21not he kissed me and he says to me i have a present for you in the car
26:29and he went did he come out with a bag of fish
26:36do you not use fixing it i do when you start eating it seems to come loose
26:41top or bottom top really yeah yeah yeah maybe i'm doing something wrong no you're not used enough
26:50i said god are the days of the military and roses i've been getting back a fish
26:57if you'll excuse me i'm going to go and take them back
27:13how does a penguin build a house he glues it together
27:19why do the norwegians put barcodes on their ships so when they dock they can scandinavian
27:27did you hear about the cheese factory that exploded in france debris was everywhere
27:35will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian
27:40it's all in the delivery hey how's it going
27:42men with a gift absolutely 100% how's that how are you nice to meet you well well well i'd
27:49never
27:49dated in secondary school i just didn't feel like anybody like me that sounded really bad
27:55but like i had no flirting game whatsoever how do you feel buddy i'm a little nervous but like i
28:01think they're good nerves as i've grown up a bit i've kind of become more confident in myself
28:06and uh just trying to put myself out there a little bit now you know and what's your regular
28:11type or do you have a type that's a great question i don't necessarily have like a particular type
28:15um just somebody who i can just get on with it's a bit of a upper like someone who loves
28:19to talk maybe
28:20someone who shares the same obsession for football as i do you know ah yes the beautiful game until
28:27that is cuiva starts handing out red cards since 2022 i have been compiling like an ic list
28:36someone who doesn't like garlic dip now that's a strong one malibu and milk being your choice to drink
28:42on a night out apparently like called a malib moo or something
28:49i've made you proud of yourself now you didn't do it properly that's like the scariest part
28:53hey hey hey hey how are you i'm cuiva cuiva what they want to ask me to look at yourself
28:58yeah girl
28:59you look lovely thank you so much lucky's gonna be very nervous when he sees you
29:04so what kind of person then are you looking to meet tall handsome family orientated
29:13a kind considerate person but also is willing to listen to me yeah
29:19he's looking over there in the mirror so he's getting nervous so let's go there enjoy it okay
29:27all right hey how are you how good i'm will
29:30what's in will how's it going to meet you i got you some chocolates oh that's so sweet
29:36you're very welcome no worries at all is there anything that you definitely want to find out about them
29:41oh that's a great question uh the football alliance i go back and forth to the uk quite a bit
29:46for
29:47football matches just like different areas okay now who do you support because this is going to be
29:50like a deal breaker now is it oh my goodness uh so i'm a chelsea fan okay it's not too
29:55bad
29:56who do you support liverpool that's actually okay yeah if you said like united or yeah if you said spurs
30:04or
30:10how old are you how old are you how old are you how do you think i'm 40 you're 40
30:13i'm 39 39 yeah
30:15you're behind the corner yeah just about exactly and the sir like thank you so thank you so much
30:25but do you feel bad that you're getting old older like it's funny like i feel um i feel a
30:31lot better
30:32now i feel like i look better and i feel a lot more confident because i think i'm a bit
30:38more me now
30:39i'm so happy to be 40 and sometimes i even think like if i'm going to be 45 i'm going
30:44to be even better
30:44than that i'll be 50 i'm going to be like on the top of the world like people used to
30:49say oh i wish
30:50i'll be younger i would like to go back to being 30 never i think i was so stupid i
30:55was 30 years old
30:57well not the same like i think my priorities were different like for my 20s and for a lot of
31:04for half
31:05of my 30s i feel like i just i had my head down i was married i was trying to
31:12raise babies you know i
31:14just didn't have time to think about anything but i i definitely know more now than i did when i
31:22was
31:22in my 30s i had said my situation is a little bit easier i would say because when my son's
31:31mother got
31:31pregnant she knew that i'm gay right oh i told her that i don't want to be gay please take
31:38it away from
31:38me right i have to be honest i was so in love with her i was we were together for
31:43like
31:44four years and i was i got very protective about her yeah i loved her to bits okay as a
31:51human
31:52you know what i mean you you need to kind of learn from your mistakes and and and grow
31:58you learn those mistakes for the reason you know it brought you here you know
32:09hi how are you would you like sour sweets now sour sweets yeah no one gets sweetened on chocolate
32:18sweets right we'll say movie night bang right what are we getting like a pack of fingers i can inhale
32:27a
32:27pack of fingers i feel like that's luxury then i've never had the fingers fingers like a pack of cadbury
32:33fingers right then we're gonna have a pack of cadbury fingers yeah lovely she's gorgeous you were
32:41nervous well yeah nervous and i don't get nervous um no she uh but she she brought it out of
32:47me she brought it
32:48me like i'd say i'd kind of more go for like crisps than popcorn she's what do we have an
32:55opposite
32:57opposite to attract it's uh i'd say the biggest problem is not deciding if i want to go on a
33:02second
33:02day but deciding what to do on the second days are you happy you came oh yeah yeah deadly yeah
33:08yourself
33:08oh no no no you can't really write no i didn't grow my eyes i didn't would you like to
33:15see each other
33:15again romantically we go three two one yeah go on okay three two one yeah yeah yeah
33:33i think you're very down to earth you're very like humbled and like down to you're like the
33:41opposite of me whereas i'm like very jumpy and like intimidating whereas you're more like
33:44i wouldn't say you're intimidated i feel like you're an honest person i feel like you'd be good at
33:48communicating now yeah yeah that's really nice what does it say beautiful for you don't look the
33:56label don't look at you wait till you get home stay with me forever do you guys fun to each
34:02other yeah
34:09lovely he did win my heart over like he's so much time for people and stuff like and like the
34:14main
34:14thing is really finding someone who has time for someone hello how are you how are you how are we
34:20getting
34:37all good
34:38my last wine please of course white wine all good it's absolutely gorgeous brilliant and how's the company
34:48yeah yeah he's a lovely man yeah yeah like he's so sweet he brought me chocolates it can be something
34:57that will lead to something else yeah which you can yeah i do in teaching in college oh wow yeah
35:06secondary school i love her do you i've always wanted to be a teacher like yeah i was like when
35:12i was like
35:12five and something and because my mom works in a school yeah yeah she'd like bring home like little
35:16like stamps and stuff i love and i used to like always pretend to play school i qualified as an
35:21s and a
35:22there oh my god did you do my mom's an s and a stop yeah no way yes yes what
35:28got you do s and a
35:29i do um like voluntary work uh with barrettstown oh my god so um yeah then kind of that led
35:36me to
35:36doing like the special needs kind of thing yeah but like i don't do it per se i just have
35:41the
35:41qualification still trying to find my feet do you know that way like i think that's the same way
35:45everybody around my age it's like you're still trying to find out what you really are passionate
35:49about you know i applied actually for a firefighter paramedic a couple of days ago so see how that goes
35:56that could be another route as well you know what do you do in your spare time it's a great
36:00question
36:01what do i do in my spare time um hanging out with mates obviously the boys um the boys the
36:06boys yeah
36:06the lads definitely feel like i'm better in person i'm shocking at texting for the life of me like i
36:14can't text at all like i love just going for like ice cream or something like with the girls i
36:18love a
36:18sweet treat yeah at easter i love mini eggs mini eggs are like my you're like do not say you
36:25don't
36:25like them i love mini eggs okay i thought you're gonna say you don't like so at easter i stockpile
36:31stock no we're the same person i do the exact same exact same yeah i'd rather it be like you
36:38swiped and then all of a sudden they're right in front of you and you're on the day right there
36:41and
36:41then because then you actually get to know the person you know what is your favorite food that's
36:45a great question i love a bit of coleslaw do you yeah would you have on everything now or if
36:50i'm making
36:50like a toasty or something like you get a spoon and eat it i was like no no no i
36:54wouldn't just get a
36:55top of coleslaw slamming in front of me instead of spooning it and it's my mouth like
36:58stop
37:05i'm just imagining you
37:09you know what you want i don't know i haven't been looking at it to be i just goes lost
37:13in the
37:13conversation in the moment to be honest take as long as you need we have one more minute is that
37:19okay
37:19yeah yeah of course you can have as long as you need thank you thank you thank you great conversation
37:23you're interrupting actually sorry sorry and so what made you come to dublin then uh i was looking
37:30for life right and i wanted to have some kind of gay scene as well yeah which i'd never seen
37:36before
37:37did you go out on the same much very no very shy so i was trying and trying and trying
37:42but still very
37:43special are you going like like the gay yeah like i i'm i'm still relatively new to this um i
37:50used to
37:51go to the bar beside the george yeah i could hear the phone inside but i was too nervous to
37:57go in there
37:58by myself but i always had to be a little bit drunk to walk in and especially panty bar because
38:04you know
38:04how you walk in yeah it's a bit don't all eyes on you yeah you know what i mean it's
38:08like a walk yeah you
38:09know i couldn't live my life in poland as a gay person so that was the first main reason why
38:17i left
38:18the place i lived you know it was like a gangs everywhere drugs everywhere everybody expect for
38:24me to prove what a man are you you know everybody will fight with you and everything and i was
38:30none of
38:30that and i was pretending to be someone else for a long time and it was painful to hide how
38:39soft i was inside i had to become you know so i was like i'm doing all of these bad
38:44things and
38:44everything but inside me i was terrifying okay you know every day was a challenge for me just because
38:50i was scared that if they will see that softness inside me i'm gonna be in trouble so then after
38:56work after school when i was going back home and there was nobody at home closing the door and
39:00britney spears straight away yeah hit me baby one more time
39:10oh my god what was i saying there i don't care what you said i'm just eating a bloody raspberry
39:17you don't like them i don't know beautiful you'll have people out there over there and i'll say
39:25i want whatever she's having yeah she looks all right she's a lovely lovely woman good crack good
39:35crack are you driving i am not where do you have to watch um i have to get the lewis
39:42from here yeah
39:43to bus iris and then i get a bus i'll escort you back to bus iris if you want that'd
39:51be great
39:51because i'm getting loose as well so that'd be great yeah i'd appreciate that there was a little
39:58something there you know but i didn't like the day i wouldn't give up on the romantic bit
40:05thank you so much thank you and everything was lovely thank you oh it was just perfect i'm so happy
40:12to hear that would you guys like to see each other romantically again i'm not answering
40:20i'd like to see yesterday again i'm 50 50 on the romantic bit but i don't mean any offense in
40:26that in
40:26anyway same yeah yeah of course no i would like to see you again good cool i think he's a
40:36lovely guy
40:38you know i am yeah oh are you so thank you again so much thank you have you oh thank
40:49you thanks bye now
40:51thank you you think if you were to have a friendship meetup what would you do we discussed that on
40:58the
40:58lewis back super service
41:11jesus
41:16last year i went to the pool three times haven't been this year yet
41:19need to go i try and get there at least once every season i try and get off into stanford
41:23bridge
41:24at least once did your family like kind of bring you up into like football or something that you
41:29that was my granddad gone kind of five years now but like that memory but having those memories of
41:34being able to go there with them i do find it emotional my mom like she'd be one of my
41:39best
41:40friends like i could tell her anything really that's why i love and she's never judged me like like she
41:44definitely she would be like my role model she's someone i look up to really yeah
41:48oh yeah that's lovely that's so nice i love my family my mom is like my best friend my mom
41:55got
41:55sick when i was young that was definitely a bit of a oof then she got sick again and then
41:59we're like okay
42:01i remember as well the second time me and my brother moved in with my nanny and it was my
42:07birthday and
42:07she just got chemo so i couldn't spend it with her i couldn't even give her a hug and i
42:12suppose like
42:12i think that's maybe why i love birthdays so much now because i missed that one little birthday do you
42:18have many siblings just the one brother oh he's older than me oh yeah yeah we're chill that's class but
42:24we're very different really he's so introverted i'm so extroverted really yeah yeah my dad brother
42:32they used to watch matches when i was younger i was like turn that off like i want to watch
42:36telly
42:36but now then since i've got like an interest in that we've become closer as well what's your dream date
42:43dream date that's a great question it really depends i suppose like for me ideally like i'd love to do
42:49like an activity date so it's like you go bowling or you go play a couple games of pool or
42:53something
42:53and then like maybe go for something to eat after what about you what's like your dream date my top
42:58top date yeah i'm going to a match going to a match all right yeah that is that like that
43:03would be like
43:04top of my list i mean that's second date started now but all right like are you coming to anfield
43:08or
43:08am i gonna have to like i mean because they're off a daily own park and watch the balls first
43:12and then
43:13and then go over there yeah you're going to introduce me to the league of ireland yeah
43:25thank you so much it looks sexy and the chocolate heart enjoy thank you so much thank you
43:36where do you like to holiday uh usually every year i'm going to rancanaria
43:42i went most recently in may or april and the the second one is um citrus i was just about
43:52to say
43:53like you would go there and you have old dublin standing in front of you yeah i'm going to
43:56stitches in september are you yeah me too really i am for bear week yes
44:04we're so basic aren't we yeah i know
44:09what is your like more far away place we've ever been i've been to canada to uh play rugby we
44:16were playing rugby yeah i didn't really show me your tights i like the way i look i think i've
44:23done
44:23the best with what i have you look good you look you have a good shape thank you i like
44:28your tattoos thank
44:29you but somebody could be hitting on me and i am completely oblivious thank you i'm just like
44:39wasn't that a really nice person to go up and chat to me okay bye
44:45would you like no sorry thank you i should have asked you
44:55it's absolutely pleasure i have to tell that to meet you oh thank you so much it's been a total
45:01pleasure to meet the two of you too thank you
45:07so moment of truth yeah would you like to see each other again romantically
45:14you you want to go first or will i go first i can go first okay uh yes yes i
45:21would like to see you
45:22again okay um for me not romantically okay that's okay yeah how has everything been overall it was
45:31lovely yeah good food yeah right good company yeah you're a great guy yeah i really enjoyed speaking
45:37with you your handsome guy so it was it was really enjoyable yeah i suppose i just didn't feel a
45:43spark
45:43yeah yeah thanks again so thank you i was kind of pretty sure you would say no but i was
45:51still
45:51wanted to say uh yes i do like him and i would definitely want to meet him again but it's
46:01like i don't feel
46:02devastated or hard by that you know what i mean it's fine it's going really well yeah i think it's
46:15going bad from my perspective anyway i think it's going really well excellent she's lovely she's honestly
46:20she's gorgeous girl the moment she walked in i was like yeah definitely it's definitely been the easiest
46:26day day i've ever had like it's just been so smooth so you're a happy man i'm very happy man
46:32yeah but
46:33game face on absolutely yeah yeah play it cool now thank you thank you thank you i've never been with
46:38a
46:38girl that's kind of been as much as my type as she has conversation was just so natural she was
46:44just
46:44such a yapper which i love humor as well which is always good just so nice just such a wonderful
46:51person
46:51like you know that way but uh where where were we where were we that's a great question hello hi
47:06i'm going to get no no no no please no no no we can split it's okay no let me
47:11get this honestly
47:12no you don't have to but i want to please let me get this
47:19would you two like to see each other again romantically ladies first
47:28yes i would yes i would
47:33thank you so much
47:34i had a ball good vibes from the onset i felt very comfortable he's very cute
47:48mini eggs as well that's a huge huge plus for me i'd share a bag of mini eggs with you
47:53i would as well
47:58where will the second day be a bows match
48:01okay oh yes bring me to go watch the boss you're gonna bring me to anfield now then
48:05of course i am we'll do the stadium tour i've already done the stadium
48:08and i'm afraid of i told you what no there you you kept this quiet something to talk about now
48:13i just woke up from my dream because you guys had great crack yeah absolutely
48:21it was enjoyable yeah yeah it was yeah i think so and i don't know what it all means
48:29but since i survived i realized
48:32are you gonna bring them on a hot girl walk
48:35so you can chew gum two airpods these ones will be free and walk straight with a bit of music
48:41going
48:41what she said
48:42so
48:57do you want to maybe go and like go for a drink maybe afterwards
49:01yes
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