- 10 minutes ago
Category
📺
TVTranscript
00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:05Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was, one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I landed at the airport.
00:00:19I'm here.
00:00:23Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:32So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35So, I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:44Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if you would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05Okay.
00:01:07We should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So, you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that we were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26I mean, Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:35I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's there is camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51It's going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:01:59So, you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy before you.
00:02:04Because you're lying to me, I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:14You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:16You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:19You're an asshole.
00:02:21I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:24and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:02:35Oh, my God!
00:02:38Come on.
00:02:58What are you feeling?
00:03:02I hung over.
00:03:11I couldn't sleep.
00:03:12I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:20And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:24No, no.
00:03:26Last night I told Daniel that I was married five times and I'm still married.
00:03:32He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:35So I decided to get another room.
00:03:38I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:40I've lost respect.
00:03:42I feel hopeless.
00:03:44What am I going to do now?
00:03:48I tried to call him.
00:03:50And then about 11.08 p.m., I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:54He says, I don't think you do.
00:03:57Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:03:59I said so many fears.
00:04:01He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:02And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:05He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:07He has not said he wants to be with me.
00:04:11Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:16I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now, what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:29Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days and we're supposed to
00:04:34leave today.
00:04:35Really bad timing for me to tell him all this when I've already paid me plans to take him somewhere
00:04:40special and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:44So, what I'm hoping is seeing him, telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for and hopefully he'll
00:04:53come with me and hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:03Last night, I couldn't sleep because of what transpired.
00:05:08She was drunk.
00:05:11And she left the room, so I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:23She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:25Um, I will talk to her, but I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:32I'm kind of like on a mission.
00:05:35I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:38I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way shows that he's desperately in love with me and he's heartbroken.
00:05:46So I'm going to wipe the tears and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:50I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:05:55This one is good and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:14I can't say it enough.
00:06:17I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:25Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:28No.
00:06:30Around 5 a.m.
00:06:31Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:34Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:39I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:42I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:44I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:47Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:06:59I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:03Okay?
00:07:04But, um, you have to talk to my uncle.
00:07:11This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:13um, you and I have defined the rules, the law, because I have been sleeping with another man's
00:07:20wife. I'm asking you to work with me. I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in
00:07:29everything, because it's not going to end well. I'm asking you, you.
00:07:39I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:43But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved. I don't understand.
00:07:50It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:07:55We have to talk to my uncle. If I didn't talk to my uncle about this, the ancestors, they might
00:08:01come after me.
00:08:08Well, don't call your uncle just yet. I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway,
00:08:16and I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:31I had already planned it. It wasn't... It's... There's no agenda. It's just me and you together.
00:08:41I planned it. I paid for it. I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it, and
00:08:45I don't have much
00:08:46more money left, Daniel.
00:09:00I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:04Well, I still love Lisa.
00:09:07She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:09She spent the money, and she told me that she have not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:16It's been a long time.
00:09:18So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:22You should start packing.
00:09:24The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:34Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:41I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing, and then have to go back and tell
00:09:45him again.
00:09:45Let's go.
00:09:47Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:10Oh, I love mountains.
00:10:12I do, too.
00:10:14This is the mountain by me.
00:10:16This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:18I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:22From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:28You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:31Boobs bounced.
00:10:40I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:10:47I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:10:51So sweet of you.
00:10:52We are mixing everything.
00:10:53History, art, holiday, vacation.
00:10:56Love, everything evolves.
00:10:58Everything on this trip.
00:11:00It's fantastic.
00:11:02Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:09And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:28I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:33But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:40It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:43And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:11:48And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:11:55Okay.
00:11:56Okay.
00:11:57Oh, my God.
00:11:58This is amazing.
00:12:03Today, we visit Ephesus.
00:12:06They have obsession with marble.
00:12:11It's like so peaceful through here too.
00:12:17It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Texas into ADC.
00:12:24Yeah.
00:12:25That's adorable.
00:12:28The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:35This place is huge.
00:12:37This place trying to talk.
00:12:40Nobody to listen.
00:12:42I love this place.
00:12:44I love this place too.
00:12:46Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:12:51And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:12:54So good.
00:12:56Every single surface is like carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:02The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:06Let's take a picture.
00:13:07Okay.
00:13:08With the hearts.
00:13:10Well, it's mine's heart.
00:13:11Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:12There it is.
00:13:12There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:15Love it.
00:13:16That's adorable.
00:13:16I like it.
00:13:21Hey, kitty kitty.
00:13:26I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:31You know?
00:13:31Yeah.
00:13:32Chats.
00:13:33You want to have a seat?
00:13:34Okay.
00:13:37Okay.
00:13:39It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:41Yeah.
00:13:46I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:13:58But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:07So, the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:13Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:22You have concerns?
00:14:25You have concerns?
00:14:26You have concerns?
00:14:26About our relationship?
00:14:28I have concerns.
00:14:29And now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:31I have concerns because you are still communicating with Michael.
00:14:38And talking about our relationship.
00:14:42He has no place in our relationship.
00:14:49Well, he wants to come here.
00:14:53Perfect.
00:14:57No, there is no point.
00:15:02He already bought a flight.
00:15:10He is coming.
00:15:15Yeah.
00:15:18Without asking.
00:15:20Without telling anything.
00:15:23Nothing.
00:15:24This is ridiculous.
00:15:31You know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:15:34Yeah.
00:15:34But, um, you know, I'm glad you came.
00:15:36Because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:38Cheers.
00:15:39Cheers.
00:15:40I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:15:44Yeah, it was.
00:15:45Thank you for coming.
00:15:46I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:15:50Who does that?
00:15:54So you ready to meet my family?
00:15:56I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:00I told you, yes.
00:16:02So what else do you want?
00:16:04Seems like you are hesitating.
00:16:06Just tell me.
00:16:19Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:21Maybe put that little one in the bag.
00:16:24Maybe you should offer to open the door for me so I can get in the car because I'm really
00:16:28full.
00:16:28Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:30I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:31Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:35Thank you, boys.
00:16:37That's why I have two of you.
00:16:39Two boyfriends.
00:16:40Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:16:41We could be a trio.
00:16:43Jesus Christ.
00:16:44You give, give, give me your heart.
00:16:49You're pumping through my veins.
00:16:51You make me feel alive.
00:16:54Elise, you're going to have to give me a horse number.
00:16:56I'll back it for you.
00:16:57And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not watching it.
00:17:01You're an idiot.
00:17:02What do you mean?
00:17:03I'm going to win.
00:17:04No one ever wins in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:05Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:06I'll give you the names, and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:09Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:10Okay, what's the name?
00:17:12Chevalier Rose, Presage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa, Buckaroo.
00:17:18I like Buckaroo.
00:17:20That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:21Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:22Yes, I do.
00:17:24It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:28Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:30I can touch and kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:17:35I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:17:37So we're taking her out on the town to see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne
00:17:41Cup.
00:17:43But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:17:46Traffic today sucks.
00:17:49What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:17:51It's cute.
00:17:52Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:17:54Oh, you scared the out of me.
00:17:56No, we're not.
00:17:57We're in Australia.
00:17:59F***ing hell.
00:18:00I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:02Oh, that scared me.
00:18:04Elise, 200 metres to our rise, the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:08What metres?
00:18:10Oh, you guys working feet.
00:18:12F***ing hell.
00:18:13I don't know.
00:18:14I'm excited to see it.
00:18:20You're f***ing ding-dong.
00:18:22Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup, Rose.
00:18:24Oh.
00:18:26But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:27Good.
00:18:29Well, I'm down 1,000.
00:18:31I'm going to get drunk.
00:18:34We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:18:39We're here.
00:18:40But honestly, I don't care.
00:18:43I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:18:49There'll be another one next year.
00:18:50Think about me for a moment.
00:18:51I lost money.
00:18:53I came to the airport for now.
00:18:54I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:55Nah.
00:18:59Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:01I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:03That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:06Like a game.
00:19:07They're very bullshit.
00:19:08Yeah.
00:19:09Perfect.
00:19:20Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:22Yep.
00:19:23We're not that, we're not that down.
00:19:24We're not that third world.
00:19:25Third world?
00:19:26We have healthcare.
00:19:36This is much needed.
00:19:38Yo.
00:19:39Thanks.
00:19:40Thanks.
00:19:40Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:19:42Yeah, my cheers is, I was about to do it.
00:19:44So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:47But, you know, I'm glad you came because you're one of my best friends and, you know, as soon
00:19:56as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:00And so, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:03Cheers.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05Cheers.
00:20:08I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:12Yeah, it was.
00:20:13Thank you for coming.
00:20:14Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:16I'm like, hold on.
00:20:19I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:20:24I'm lost.
00:20:25Like, who does that?
00:20:27Okay.
00:20:28I'll start again.
00:20:28I know how far you've travelled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to
00:20:33get here.
00:20:34So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:20:37So, this cheers is to you.
00:20:41To you.
00:20:44Thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:20:48I didn't realise it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:20:50It's a national thing.
00:20:51We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:20:52It's the rules.
00:20:54I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:20:56It is wild.
00:20:57I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:20:59But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed
00:21:03down.
00:21:04Don't get me wrong.
00:21:05Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:09Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:13Um, I could party a bit, yeah.
00:21:18Like, I socialise a lot.
00:21:20It's part of my job.
00:21:22He's, he's, he's out, you know, he's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:25His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:21:29Okay.
00:21:30I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:21:33I think I've found it.
00:21:35Yeah?
00:21:36Yeah.
00:21:39Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:21:43But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with me
00:21:47and my cat and snuggling, and I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:21:53On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially,
00:21:59but he parties a lot.
00:22:00I'm, like, I'm concerned.
00:22:01Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:04I just got here.
00:22:05I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that, yeah.
00:22:10Yeah, all right.
00:22:11Cheers.
00:22:12Cheers.
00:22:13To not party anymore.
00:22:16I'm not choosing to that.
00:22:39How is he?
00:22:41He's okay.
00:22:42Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:22:52He seems better today.
00:22:55Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:22:58Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:01A little dirty.
00:23:03We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom,
00:23:06but my cat Mito got sick, so we had to run him to the vet.
00:23:12I look at you and your comb.
00:23:14You don't like the comb.
00:23:15Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:18Yeah, obviously.
00:23:19Unless it's ice cream comb.
00:23:21I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:23:26And so today my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:23:31and finally get to know Giovanni more.
00:23:35Oh.
00:23:38Giovanni!
00:23:41What?
00:23:42Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:23:46It's clog.
00:23:49What happened?
00:23:50What did I do wrong?
00:23:52No tissues in the toilet.
00:23:54It's not going to flush.
00:23:56I don't remember doing that.
00:23:58Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:03Why?
00:24:03I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:07Are you crazy?
00:24:09Okay, my bad then.
00:24:12First the thing, the papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:18Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:21I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:24:28That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:24:31How do I do it?
00:24:32Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this and then I just...
00:24:38Yes, that's the point of the water.
00:24:41Water was created to clean your butt.
00:24:46I'm going to go wash off mama's house.
00:24:49All right.
00:25:02Oh, ma, you cooked.
00:25:05Looks good.
00:25:08Morning.
00:25:09Yeah, good morning.
00:25:10It's a lot of food.
00:25:12Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:13Yes.
00:25:14Oh, okay.
00:25:17You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:20Tilapia.
00:25:21Okay.
00:25:23And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:25:28Oh, okay.
00:25:29And, of course, we have some rice.
00:25:31Okay.
00:25:32Dig it.
00:25:34This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:25:37I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:25:40But the food is great and I'm so happy to finally be getting this one quality.
00:25:45time with my mother-in-law.
00:25:47Jigon.
00:25:48Hmm.
00:25:49Mosta naman yung tulag mo kagabi.
00:25:51My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:25:55My sleep was okay.
00:25:56The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:25:59The rooster.
00:26:01The karaoke.
00:26:02Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:04Yeah.
00:26:04Tapit bahay.
00:26:06Yeah.
00:26:07Pero saya na ako na nandito ka na.
00:26:10She's happy that you're here.
00:26:12Okay.
00:26:19I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:26:23Ang bilis naman na, no?
00:26:25She said it's too fast.
00:26:26I don't know.
00:26:28I don't know.
00:26:28Why not one year?
00:26:32Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:26:33Kailangan pa rin kasi umu.
00:26:35I don't want to.
00:26:36Al, naman tong anak ko.
00:26:37What's about my daughter?
00:26:40Sama mo na to.
00:26:45Saya ako na nakarating na si Jigon dito, sa Pilipinas, sa bahay namin.
00:26:52Pero ang nararamdaman ko, simpre, ang tagal niyang dumating dito sa Pilipinas.
00:27:00Na, ang iniisip ko kasi kung paano na yung anak ko.
00:27:07Sa six years na paghihintay ng anak ko, alalang-alala ako para sa kanya.
00:27:13She said for six years that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:18I was so worried about her.
00:27:20Wala na rin siyang pag-aasaad ako.
00:27:23Because she was sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:27:26And also me.
00:27:28I'm sorry it took so long though, but I'm gonna make it up.
00:27:32I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:27:34I promise, okay?
00:27:36Alright?
00:27:36I don't know, mom.
00:27:38Oh?
00:27:39Maraming na kasing ganang nangyari.
00:27:41Na ano?
00:27:42Na pa nga kung nakapako.
00:27:47Kung nasasakta ng anak, mas masakit sa ina.
00:27:52I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:27:56I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:28:00And we've been married for three years.
00:28:02And we still don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:08He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:12What does that mean?
00:28:15We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship
00:28:19for the rest of our lives.
00:28:21I don't want to.
00:28:22Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:28:31Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:28:36Don't be mad, but don't be mad.
00:28:44Who is it?
00:28:45Mohammed?
00:28:46Oh, my God.
00:28:46And?
00:29:15What does that mean?
00:29:21It's been a couple of days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:29:28I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with the Ed.
00:29:32It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:29:37Luckily I was able to make some calls.
00:29:41I'm looking for a Riyadh and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:29:50Just one person, I just got dumped.
00:29:56Thankfully the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:08And somehow I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:30:17But now I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:30:33Emma!
00:30:34Maddie!
00:30:35Hi!
00:30:36I miss you!
00:30:38You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:30:40I miss you so much!
00:30:43What's up?
00:30:44What's wrong?
00:30:45What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:30:47Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:30:49No, I'm like really sad.
00:30:51I like don't want to...
00:30:52Wait, I don't want to cry already.
00:30:53Hold up.
00:30:56Sorry.
00:30:57What happened?
00:30:58Um, so yesterday, basically I like told Ziyad everything about like Muhammad.
00:31:08And it literally Maddie went to .
00:31:11Like we got into a huge fight.
00:31:13And it ended up with him like fully breaking up with me.
00:31:17And leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:31:21This is odd.
00:31:22Yeah.
00:31:25Like I knew he...
00:31:26That one there is crazy behavior.
00:31:30To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:31:35Yeah.
00:31:35No.
00:31:36Like he obviously doesn't care about you and he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:31:40He's been sending me like, like rage texts.
00:31:45Like saying that I'm like a demon and like a liar.
00:31:50And like this horrible monster.
00:31:55And it's just like really annoying.
00:31:57Like I'm really upset about it.
00:32:00You know, it's like I did all this like again and like just to get like treated like a piece
00:32:07of like what, like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:10You're a catch and for him to like act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:32:15Why does he act like he's just like Ryan Gosling as like Morocco?
00:32:22Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:32:29Don't be mad.
00:32:33But don't be mad.
00:32:34What?
00:32:36So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:32:43Emma, Emma.
00:32:44Maybe.
00:32:55Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:32:58I mean, I don't know.
00:33:00I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me like go back to
00:33:04Mohammed.
00:33:05Because.
00:33:06That was terrible.
00:33:07Because he was just as bad.
00:33:10Yeah.
00:33:11But like the last time I was here, like this was like a happy moment for us.
00:33:15Like when I was in Marrakesh.
00:33:17So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:33:19Are you going to go see him?
00:33:22If he wants me to.
00:33:24Oh my God.
00:33:26Okay.
00:33:26What are your intentions out of seeing him?
00:33:29I mean, is your, are you going there to get closure or are you going there with the intent
00:33:34of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:33:39I don't know.
00:33:40My mind is like everywhere right now.
00:33:43I mean, I don't know.
00:33:44I'm like getting emotional for you.
00:33:47Stop, Maddie.
00:33:49I just want you to get hurt again.
00:33:52Like this happens to you all the time.
00:33:54Stop.
00:33:54I just don't get it.
00:33:55Like it makes it so sad.
00:33:58Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:00You deserve that.
00:34:02Mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:04It's like, I just, I just want you to come home.
00:34:08Please don't cry.
00:34:09I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:34:12Yeah.
00:34:13I don't know.
00:34:15I guess we'll see.
00:34:26Uh, Emma, interview, I'll take one.
00:34:31Who is it?
00:34:32Mohammed.
00:34:33Mohammed.
00:34:36I'm going to answer it just one second.
00:34:40Hello?
00:34:42Hey.
00:34:45No?
00:34:47I don't have a boyfriend.
00:34:51I swear I don't.
00:34:53Why?
00:34:53You want to see me?
00:34:56So do you want to talk?
00:34:57We can get like lunch or something.
00:35:02All right.
00:35:03Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:35:07You too.
00:35:08Bye.
00:35:15What did he say?
00:35:18So Mohammed just asked me.
00:35:20Oh my God.
00:35:21Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:35:24Really?
00:35:24I don't know.
00:35:25Because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:35:26So it's like, um, he sounded cute.
00:35:33He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:35:36I told him no.
00:35:37He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:35:39I said no.
00:35:41He wants to see me.
00:35:43He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:35:48I don't know.
00:35:49It's just like a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:35:53Me and Mohammed have been through a lot and we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:00So that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:04And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:36:12I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex.
00:36:16You keep bringing him up after.
00:36:18I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:36:21I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:36:27So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:36:46So you ready to meet my family?
00:36:48I think I'm ready.
00:36:50Well, I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:36:53Just relax.
00:36:55You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:36:58Hmm.
00:37:00It seems like you are not happy.
00:37:02Are you sure you want to go?
00:37:05Are you sure you want me to go?
00:37:07Yeah.
00:37:08I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want.
00:37:10to be introduced to your family.
00:37:14I told you.
00:37:15I told you, yes.
00:37:16So what else do you want?
00:37:26It's like you were hesitating.
00:37:28Just tell me.
00:37:29Make things clear, Rick.
00:37:31Please.
00:37:34I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex.
00:37:38You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:39I thought that was the past.
00:37:46Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosy Bay to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her
00:37:51family.
00:37:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around and she gets to talking about this
00:37:58great place that her ex took her to when they were here.
00:38:02That upset me.
00:38:03I feel like Trisha's bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what
00:38:09I did.
00:38:12All you're trying to do is just make me jealous and it's a game for you.
00:38:18Shut up.
00:38:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you.
00:38:24Yeah, because you said like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you and this is cheap.
00:38:30I like it.
00:38:31I like the place.
00:38:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:38:34Because I like it.
00:38:36I love it.
00:38:37I enjoy it.
00:38:38But do you think I want to hear that?
00:38:41Where's the problem with that?
00:38:42That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what
00:38:47I've done.
00:38:48That's what it is.
00:38:49So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:38:55I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:39:00I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:39:01Oh, OK.
00:39:01I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:39:03Because that's what you did.
00:39:05And I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:39:07I'm not.
00:39:07I will never be back to that ex.
00:39:11I'd rather.
00:39:11Then leave him alone.
00:39:13Then stop talking about him.
00:39:14I don't want to hear it.
00:39:16Because you had your ex?
00:39:17No.
00:39:17I don't want to talk about my ex.
00:39:19And I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:39:21Because you hiding your ex.
00:39:22No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:39:24You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:39:25I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:39:28I'm trying to work on us.
00:39:29I want a relationship with you.
00:39:33That's the goal.
00:39:38You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:39:42You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:39:47This is so ridiculous.
00:39:50I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:39:57That's it.
00:39:58It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him or I'm still with my ex.
00:40:05I didn't cheat on him.
00:40:08That's his action, not me.
00:40:13So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:40:16If you want to stay, stay here.
00:40:20I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:40:26If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:40:38Okay.
00:40:43I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:40:49But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:40:55Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me.
00:41:02After what I did, and the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too
00:41:11much.
00:41:12I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:41:16This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:41:26I am miserable.
00:41:28Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:41:32I just feel frustrated right now.
00:41:35She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:41:38You don't respect me.
00:41:40That's not true at all.
00:41:41And now I have doubts.
00:41:43This, us, could be a mistake.
00:41:52Michael, he's coming.
00:41:53Yeah?
00:42:09He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:42:19I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming, but I woke up this morning to a
00:42:25bunch of texts from him
00:42:27saying that he already booked a flight.
00:42:33The other night in Cheshmay, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:42:40relationship with Birkan.
00:42:42I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:42:48and said he booked his flight.
00:42:52Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:43:00Birkan and I have made.
00:43:03But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:43:09If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:43:16This is not normal.
00:43:19Something's wrong with him.
00:43:21Is he out of his mind?
00:43:22Is he out of his mind?
00:43:24Yeah.
00:43:24No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation.
00:43:29Or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have this.
00:43:35Am I right?
00:43:37Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:43:41He's very logical.
00:43:43He's very insightful.
00:43:45And I value his opinion.
00:43:49Your friends have scoped me out.
00:43:52So why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends meet you and have you get
00:43:57along with them?
00:43:58My friends?
00:43:58My friends doesn't want to **** me.
00:44:02He made that move.
00:44:04It's over.
00:44:05He has no chance.
00:44:09Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:44:15And he said that I am the obstacle, those two having a relationship.
00:44:20I took it as a move.
00:44:23She said that it was meaning just friends.
00:44:26But I don't trust Michael.
00:44:30This is his opportunity to break us up.
00:44:32While she is confused about our relationship, this is a strategy.
00:44:40Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:44:47I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:44:55Maybe you should try to, like, calm down and just meet him.
00:45:05I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:45:13Okay.
00:45:15Okay.
00:45:19I just feel frustrated right now.
00:45:24I feel like I have no choice.
00:45:27He's already **** coming.
00:45:28She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:45:32I just hope that Michael doesn't **** up my entire future and my relationship.
00:45:41Let's go.
00:45:42We have a reservation.
00:45:45Okay.
00:45:56You can speak Turkish.
00:45:58Maybe I can speak English.
00:46:00Okay.
00:46:01You know, will the Turkish say cheers?
00:46:03How?
00:46:04Cheers.
00:46:05Oh, just cheers.
00:46:06Sherefe.
00:46:07Yes, perfect.
00:46:08To your honor.
00:46:09Sherefe.
00:46:10Sherefe.
00:46:13Cheers.
00:46:18Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:46:21Yeah.
00:46:22After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:46:27We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins.
00:46:34But BeerCon's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:46:43You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:46:45You're like pounding it like a shot.
00:46:47Yeah.
00:46:48That's not a wine tasting.
00:46:50Yeah.
00:46:52I am miserable.
00:46:53You're miserable.
00:46:54I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:47:01This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:47:05This one is that.
00:47:06Three different to Turkish grape.
00:47:09Okay.
00:47:10Let's try.
00:47:10Cheers.
00:47:11You're welcome.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:13Do you want to talk about this?
00:47:17Okay.
00:47:19There was no heads up.
00:47:22You declined my existence in this relationship.
00:47:28You just decide whatever you want.
00:47:31You are not respecting the person in your life.
00:47:37You don't respect me.
00:47:38That's not true at all.
00:47:39And now I have doubts.
00:47:43When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:47:48That could be my worst mistake.
00:47:51I don't know.
00:47:53What could be your worst mistake?
00:47:55This.
00:47:57Us.
00:48:01Here we are.
00:48:03It's a nice place, I hope.
00:48:05I have booked a resort.
00:48:07The pictures online looked really nice.
00:48:10So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:48:13and can help us reconnect.
00:48:14What is it?
00:48:16It's moving!
00:48:17Kill it.
00:48:19Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside.
00:48:22No!
00:48:24Daniel!
00:48:34Guys, where are we going?
00:48:36Left here and we're there.
00:48:38Just up here on the left.
00:48:40Here we are.
00:48:41Well, it looks super cute!
00:48:51I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:48:54We'll show you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:48:59Cute!
00:49:00Wow!
00:49:01Hey!
00:49:03At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up and I am completely delirious, completely foggy.
00:49:09I put a game face on, I went to the mother bar, and now I am beyond thankful we're at
00:49:14the rental and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:49:16Guys, I really have to pee.
00:49:19Where's the bathroom?
00:49:20And then you can show me around.
00:49:21I'm really excited.
00:49:22Someone didn't make their bed.
00:49:23Joshua?
00:49:24Someone else?
00:49:26Oh!
00:49:27Her!
00:49:27Oh my God, this is the bathroom we're sharing?
00:49:29Oh no!
00:49:31This is too small!
00:49:34I'm going to die here.
00:49:36You will not die.
00:49:38I'm trying to put my best foot forward and be positive and show him that I'm not a complainer.
00:49:43It's small as .
00:49:45Sounds positive.
00:49:47I'm super appreciative of, like, Josh getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:49:52Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial and, like, I would have settled for a smaller place without
00:49:58a roommate.
00:49:58Like, no offence, love you Chris.
00:50:00This is your room.
00:50:04Wait, wait, wait.
00:50:05What?
00:50:06It's the Moaning Lisa, we call it.
00:50:08You wanted this picture.
00:50:09Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:50:10No, I put it up.
00:50:12Did I?
00:50:12Yeah.
00:50:14Why would you let him do that?
00:50:17Oh, I didn't let him do that, but I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:50:20So, like, what?
00:50:21When we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:50:23That's weird.
00:50:24When we have sex, it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:50:29Yeah?
00:50:30Yeah.
00:50:34So, I'm really confused.
00:50:36Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:50:38Didn't have one in such high def.
00:50:40I mean, all over my social media.
00:50:43It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:50:46She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone.
00:50:49So, it'll be interesting to see how, you know, we both react to living together.
00:50:55Where do I put everything?
00:50:57I'll find space.
00:50:59I asked you to get a steamer.
00:51:01Did you get a steamer?
00:51:02Steamer?
00:51:02Yeah.
00:51:04Do you think we should get, like, a closet organizer here?
00:51:08Do you not, do you just have a dryer?
00:51:13Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:51:17There's, like, literally only one towel in here.
00:51:21I'm gonna need more pillows.
00:51:24Uh, we can organize that.
00:51:27Pillows, steamer in the morning.
00:51:29We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:51:32I'll write it down.
00:51:32Set yourself up for success.
00:51:33I'll write it down, promise.
00:51:34Okay.
00:51:35Let's go to bed.
00:51:36Okay.
00:51:36Come on.
00:51:37Alright, guys.
00:51:39Goodnight!
00:51:40Alright.
00:51:42This is your bed.
00:51:43Okay.
00:51:44I just wanna get comfy clothes on.
00:51:46Yep.
00:51:46And go to bed.
00:51:47Okay, perfect.
00:51:48I'm on the couch.
00:51:49Okay.
00:51:51Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow.
00:51:54So, he's gonna sleep on the couch.
00:51:56That way we're both avoiding temptation.
00:51:59Okay.
00:52:02Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:52:03Like, he's hot.
00:52:04Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:52:06But, like, I came here wanting to do things differently.
00:52:09Like, not leading with sex.
00:52:10But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know,
00:52:13see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
00:52:22Josh!
00:52:28Are you gonna come say goodnight?
00:52:30Absolutely.
00:52:32Why such a serious look?
00:52:34Because it's, uh...
00:52:37You know why?
00:52:38You look like someone killed you.
00:52:41Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:52:42Painful.
00:52:43Alright, well, come take a night to me.
00:52:57Goodnight.
00:52:58Goodnight.
00:53:00It's gonna be hard sleep on the couch.
00:53:02But, yeah.
00:53:03It's good to try and connect more on that emotional level
00:53:05than the sexual level off the bat.
00:53:07I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:53:10But would you want to have sex?
00:53:13In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:53:15As soon as I saw it, I would.
00:53:16Rolled on the airport floor, but, um, you know.
00:53:20I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection
00:53:23straight away from the moment we met.
00:53:26But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with Elise yet.
00:53:29I'm a bit worried that she might, you know,
00:53:31find out some things, you know, parts of my life
00:53:33that she's not exactly happy with.
00:53:35I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person,
00:53:37you know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:53:39And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:53:57Okay, we have to pack.
00:54:10Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:54:13Um, yeah.
00:54:15Yeah, sure.
00:54:31I don't know.
00:54:32I don't know.
00:54:32I don't think so.
00:54:33I think we're good.
00:54:34Yeah.
00:54:35This is going to be difficult, but I will try my best to have a good time.
00:54:49Long ride.
00:54:51We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:54:53What is the place like?
00:54:55It's a lake.
00:54:56Yeah, there'll be a lot of nature in the area to look at, and lots of activities to do.
00:55:02So, I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:55:08You're welcome.
00:55:12I'll have mercy on you, baby.
00:55:16I'll have mercy on you.
00:55:19You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:55:22You know what we call these in America?
00:55:24The boonies.
00:55:25What is she?
00:55:26The boondocks.
00:55:27Where there's no real civilization, it's just woods.
00:55:35Here we are.
00:55:36It's a nice place, I hope.
00:55:41I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:55:45It's the western part of Lagos.
00:55:48The pictures online looked really nice, and it's in my price range.
00:55:53So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:55:59Oh, wow.
00:56:00I like it.
00:56:02What do you think?
00:56:05Nice little space, right?
00:56:07It's nice.
00:56:07It's fine.
00:56:08It's nice, huh?
00:56:09Oh, my God.
00:56:12What is it?
00:56:15No!
00:56:17That could be poisonous.
00:56:23I have.
00:56:25I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:56:27I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:56:30This thing is in Africa.
00:56:32This could be dangerous.
00:56:34Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:56:40Is it dead?
00:56:41Just much.
00:56:42It's moving!
00:56:45Kill it.
00:56:46Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside.
00:56:48No!
00:56:52Daniel!
00:56:53All right, stop.
00:56:55Leave it.
00:56:55I will kill it myself.
00:56:58No!
00:56:58Don't kick it again!
00:57:00Stop!
00:57:00Stop kicking it!
00:57:05Where'd it go?
00:57:06Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:57:09Okay.
00:57:10Don't kick it at me.
00:57:12I have a phobia of spiders.
00:57:14It's just spider.
00:57:16No, it's not just a spider.
00:57:18It was huge.
00:57:19It was like tarantula-sized spider.
00:57:22You are so rude.
00:57:25I am terrified of spiders.
00:57:26I told you to kill the spider.
00:57:28Is that bad?
00:57:28Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:57:30I have spandled arms.
00:57:31Just spider.
00:57:31Ordinary spider.
00:57:32It's not an ordinary spider.
00:57:33It's a vicious spider.
00:57:35This is the room you paid for.
00:57:36You know where the spider's coming from.
00:57:38Kill the spider.
00:57:38Kill it.
00:57:39No, you kill it.
00:57:42We're here now, right?
00:57:45So, what are we here for?
00:57:49It's a romantic getaway.
00:57:51Romantic?
00:57:52Yes.
00:57:52Yes.
00:57:57She wants us to have a romantic trip, but it's very hard for me.
00:58:03I am feeling tense because I don't know what my uncle is going to do.
00:58:10whether he will cancel this marriage.
00:58:13I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:58:16You should enjoy it.
00:58:18You came.
00:58:19Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:58:21Honest.
00:58:22You know why I'm here, right?
00:58:23No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:58:26You don't have idea?
00:58:26No.
00:58:26No.
00:58:27I'm here because, um, I didn't want the money you paid to be, um, to be a West.
00:58:35That's the only reason why you came.
00:58:40So, no, um, no sex, no kissing.
00:58:45Auntie, I call my uncle, and I want him to consult, you know, the Oracle, the ancestors.
00:58:50Why don't you just wait a couple days?
00:58:53Just a couple days.
00:58:54We can, we can make this work for a couple days.
00:58:58Daniel, I need a couple days.
00:58:59To do what?
00:59:00Just to get my head together, and then we call your uncle.
00:59:07I need a couple days because I have to come clean to Daniel about the rest of everything
00:59:11before he goes to his uncle.
00:59:14But he's already so angry with me.
00:59:18How am I going to get through it?
00:59:20I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out.
00:59:25I need a day or two.
00:59:27That's all I'm asking for.
00:59:29I want to have a day or two with you.
00:59:32Fine.
00:59:37This, this one never ends.
00:59:40Why do you do this?
00:59:41Is your mom always his bossy?
00:59:44You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:59:49I'm just done with this conversation.
00:59:51You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and...
00:59:54You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:59:56Don't be a asshole.
01:00:07To wake up at all.
01:00:12I have nothing.
01:00:17No, we're complaining.
01:00:21We all see something and we have to improve our best.
01:00:21Go RV VEX.
01:00:37What's wrong?
01:00:39Really?
01:00:41Yeah, really.
01:00:42You don't help me with anything.
01:00:45Like this, laundry, and this.
01:00:47This one never ends.
01:00:49Why do you do this?
01:00:51What the f**k?
01:00:55It's been nice having Javon in my house,
01:00:58but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern
01:01:02about our long-distance relationship.
01:01:05On top of that,
01:01:07now that Javon and I are living together in one house...
01:01:11Slowly, a baby!
01:01:15I get to see how he is.
01:01:18He's very messy, and he just puts the clothes and the towels everywhere.
01:01:25I feel like I have a toddler, and I always have to pick up stuff.
01:01:30From male to male, is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:35What? I heard that.
01:01:37We just haven't got time.
01:01:39I heard that!
01:01:41No, me too loves me.
01:01:43Yeah, well, I love you too, Nana.
01:01:45I mean, it doesn't mean that you're not bossy.
01:01:48What's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks?
01:01:51There's nothing wrong with that, Anna.
01:01:53It's how you're delivering, Anna.
01:01:55What do you want from me?
01:01:56Instead of coming in the room and saying,
01:01:58Javon, pick up your stuff!
01:02:00You know, you can just say,
01:02:02Boo, if you don't mind, could you just pick up your stuff?
01:02:07Javon, no matter how much I put it,
01:02:09if you really would like to pick up that socks,
01:02:12you would have...
01:02:14See? You don't see that.
01:02:15I do, actually.
01:02:17You do, but you don't do it.
01:02:18No.
01:02:22And, like, every time I talk to you, you leave the room.
01:02:36All we do is talk.
01:02:39That's all we do.
01:02:40All right.
01:02:41Well, I'm going to try a little action today.
01:02:44Would you like to go get, like, a manicure,
01:02:47like, our feet done?
01:02:52Well, you definitely need a pedicure.
01:02:55We're...
01:02:56Okay.
01:02:57Okay.
01:03:04I feel sorry for whoever's going to clean your feet.
01:03:08Dang, how bad do you think my feet is?
01:03:13Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough.
01:03:16But it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot.
01:03:22Still, I thought it'd be a good idea to do something nice for Anna,
01:03:26to show her, you know what, I appreciate what you do.
01:03:29Hi.
01:03:29Good afternoon.
01:03:30Hello.
01:03:31Hello, Paul.
01:03:31I just hope that she sees that I'm making a real effort here.
01:03:35Mmm.
01:03:36So?
01:03:37It's like Barbie threw up in here.
01:03:41Switches you so well.
01:03:42Look at you.
01:03:44Yeah.
01:03:45Sitting like a queen.
01:03:46It's all pink.
01:03:48I like it.
01:03:49I know you do.
01:03:52There you go.
01:03:53Yeah.
01:03:56Yeah.
01:03:58See, I told you.
01:04:01It just feels weird.
01:04:03Oh, that's nice.
01:04:05Oh, my God, boo.
01:04:07That's a lot.
01:04:09You doing okay over there?
01:04:12I'm so tired.
01:04:18Is this being romantic?
01:04:21Yeah.
01:04:21Did I pass the test today?
01:04:23Kind of.
01:04:23Okay.
01:04:24Yeah.
01:04:25Some cool points.
01:04:26I like that.
01:04:28Mm-hmm.
01:04:30You still have to be nicer to me, though.
01:04:32And I'll do more nice things.
01:04:35Like, if I leave, like, underwear or socks on the floor,
01:04:40you know, will you be nice?
01:04:43No.
01:04:44No?
01:04:45I mean, you can be nice to me,
01:04:47but not dropping them on the floor.
01:04:53I know, but Anna, you know,
01:04:55you used to be a lot softer and sweeter
01:04:57and, you know, more patient with me.
01:05:00You know what I think it is?
01:05:02It's just I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere
01:05:04and you got comfortable.
01:05:08Being too comfortable is not a good thing
01:05:11because you feel like, okay, well,
01:05:13I got this person.
01:05:14I don't have to try anymore, you know.
01:05:16He's always going to be there no matter what.
01:05:20Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
01:05:27I don't understand where did this come from.
01:05:30Do you get it from those videos that you've been watching
01:05:34about masculinity and all the things?
01:05:38No, that's my, that's, that's, that's all my idea.
01:05:41I take full credit for that.
01:05:46It's just odd because I feel like
01:05:48over the couple of years watching all these videos,
01:05:52you've changed and I love who you are.
01:05:57Anna, this is who I was when you first met me.
01:06:00No, you're not.
01:06:01You were not that prideful before.
01:06:04I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
01:06:08You see it like a power.
01:06:10I don't have any.
01:06:12That's the problem.
01:06:13Like, I feel like.
01:06:13That's the problem.
01:06:14You need to feel powerful.
01:06:15No.
01:06:15And you're not going.
01:06:16I feel like I have all the responsibility
01:06:18with no authority.
01:06:20Because when I tell you to do something,
01:06:21you don't listen to me.
01:06:22So what are you talking about?
01:06:26You want traditional roles when it,
01:06:28when it applies to you.
01:06:30I always have to take care of everything financially.
01:06:33So as your husband, I feel like having to say is nice.
01:06:37You know, it just means you're just respectful.
01:06:42Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:06:49Why did you bring me here?
01:06:52Well, I wanted you to have a good time.
01:06:55Yes!
01:06:55But if you were going to.
01:06:56Do I look like I'm having a good time?
01:06:57But you set me up.
01:06:58You asked me questions,
01:07:00and I just answered them honestly.
01:07:02You ever heard the term, you know,
01:07:04you don't want to hear the answers,
01:07:05so cease from asking dumbass questions?
01:07:09You ever think about that?
01:07:09And you don't want to bitch your wife.
01:07:12Don't be a asshole.
01:07:16I can just sit here and get my feet done.
01:07:18Like, I don't have to.
01:07:20Then they should stay here, okay?
01:07:22Don't come home.
01:07:23You need to calm down.
01:07:29I don't want to see you ever again.
01:07:33Don't come home.
01:07:35Ever.
01:07:37Jerk.
01:07:40You're disgusting.
01:07:44Hey, I will see you soon.
01:07:46All right.
01:07:47I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:07:52He said to tell you hi.
01:07:54I'm not saying hi.
01:07:57You want to open it?
01:08:00Hey!
01:08:01Hi, friend.
01:08:02Oh, my God.
01:08:16Oh, my God.
01:08:21I have a phone call.
01:08:28Hello.
01:08:30Hey, good morning.
01:08:32Good morning.
01:08:33How are you?
01:08:36Are you doing well?
01:08:38Oh.
01:08:38My hotel won't be ready until, like, 2 o'clock.
01:08:41Uh, is there any chance to before you bye?
01:08:44Say hello.
01:08:48Hello?
01:08:48You're totally fine with me.
01:08:49I mean...
01:08:50I was just going to say, I pin-drop you my location.
01:08:54Okay, I will, uh, I will see you soon.
01:08:57I wish for walking your direction.
01:08:59All right.
01:09:00Be careful.
01:09:02Thanks.
01:09:03Bye-bye.
01:09:03Bye.
01:09:13I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here.
01:09:16Now, now that this is real and he actually showed up in Turkey,
01:09:21my stomach is about to explode on itself.
01:09:25I'm incredibly nervous and I feel like I'm about to die.
01:09:30Bye.
01:09:32Bye.
01:09:32Bye.
01:09:33Bye.
01:09:33Hey.
01:09:35Hey.
01:09:37That was Michael.
01:09:39What is he saying?
01:09:41He said to tell you hi.
01:09:44What?
01:09:46Why?
01:09:47Because he...
01:09:48I'm not saying hi.
01:09:51Well...
01:09:51He's going to be here at this apartment.
01:09:56This apartment?
01:09:57And about...
01:09:58Turkey is okay, but this apartment...
01:10:01Ten minutes.
01:10:07I cannot believe that Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:10:12He dropped everything to get on a plane for me.
01:10:16I mean, it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that,
01:10:21but it is definitely wild.
01:10:24And complicated.
01:10:33I think he's just concerned about me.
01:10:37Yeah, sure.
01:10:41That's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other.
01:10:44Yeah, I believe him.
01:10:47He's such a good heart.
01:10:54I'm not five years old.
01:10:56I don't eat that...
01:10:59Your friend is trying to this connection, and you're like, yay!
01:11:05Okay.
01:11:07It's like, I don't get it.
01:11:10I never wanted him to come, and I still don't want him to come.
01:11:15I think he's coming in Turkey to mix up Laura's mind.
01:11:20Maybe talk some about me.
01:11:22Give Laura more doubts.
01:11:25But if our relationship is going to end because of Michael,
01:11:32I don't blame Michael.
01:11:33Well, I will blame Laura.
01:11:40You want to open it?
01:11:43Yeah, I do, actually.
01:11:50Hey!
01:11:51Hi, friend.
01:11:52Oh, my God.
01:11:53I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:11:56Is it safe to come in?
01:11:58Yes, this is...
01:11:59Oh, my God.
01:11:59Why the whole...
01:12:00Oh, my God.
01:12:02Are you making a palatine?
01:12:09I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:12:11I know.
01:12:12This is amazing.
01:12:14The most spontaneous thing I've ever done in my life.
01:12:15I have never done that.
01:12:16And I do it for you.
01:12:18I do it for you.
01:12:21So...
01:12:21Oh, my God.
01:12:23Absolutely.
01:12:24Oh, wow.
01:12:25Yeah, this is fantastic, right?
01:12:28I hope my hotel room looks like this.
01:12:29Holy cow.
01:12:31Hi, Michael.
01:12:33Nice to meet you, finally.
01:12:35I've heard so much about you.
01:12:36Yeah, you probably heard.
01:12:38I...
01:12:40Okay.
01:12:46Make yourself at home.
01:12:48Okay.
01:12:49You want something to drink?
01:12:51Tea?
01:12:51Yeah, anything like that?
01:12:53Okay.
01:12:53Just have a seat right here.
01:12:54I don't know how it works.
01:12:55So do the women make tea here, or do the boys do it?
01:12:59Boys?
01:13:00The boys make the tea?
01:13:02They call men if they are grown up.
01:13:04Oh, okay.
01:13:08Um, would you like anything?
01:13:12Nope.
01:13:13I am perfect.
01:13:27So, buddy, what you watching?
01:13:31Scarface.
01:13:36Do you like American classic movies?
01:13:39No.
01:13:43I like mob stuff.
01:13:45I enjoy pretty much violence.
01:13:53Do you like?
01:13:55Do I like this movie, or...?
01:13:58Violence.
01:14:05Golly, I...
01:14:06I'll be honest with you.
01:14:07I don't know what to make of beer con.
01:14:09I know I just kind of dropped it on him,
01:14:11but he's talking about violence to me on the couch.
01:14:14If that's truly who he is,
01:14:15then I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura.
01:14:19My first impression of beer con
01:14:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:14:22than I think beer con and she are.
01:14:24So I want to make sure that she makes the right choice.
01:14:34I love you so much.
01:14:36But stop telling me that.
01:14:38Stop with hurting some secrets.
01:14:40All I can think about
01:14:41is how there is more to tell him,
01:14:44and I have to get it said
01:14:45before he goes to his uncle.
01:14:47It has to be tonight.
01:14:48So I have more to tell you then.
01:14:51More to tell me?
01:14:57Is this really how it ends?
01:15:01Can we go back to where it all began?
01:15:07All I really want for this
01:15:10is to go back to where you love me again.
01:15:15Good morning.
01:15:17Good morning.
01:15:21I'm going to sleep.
01:15:22You're going to sleep or I...
01:15:23You're going to keep me awake
01:15:24all the time tonight.
01:15:25I know.
01:15:26I didn't mean to keep you awake.
01:15:28I couldn't help it.
01:15:28I was sad.
01:15:29You're almost away in the bed with tears.
01:15:32When I ever find another room...
01:15:37Why were you crying?
01:15:39I feel bad about everything that transpired,
01:15:43but I feel better this morning.
01:15:46Yeah, because I cuddled you, right?
01:15:49And you were crying so loud,
01:15:50so I have to...
01:15:51I have to cuddled you, you know?
01:15:56Last night, I cried myself to sleep,
01:15:58and all I could think about
01:16:00is how I have to tell Daniel my secret,
01:16:02and I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever.
01:16:05But Daniel held me all night,
01:16:07so I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful.
01:16:10Today is a new day,
01:16:12and I'm hoping that we can explore
01:16:14and have some fun together.
01:16:16So, where are we breathing?
01:16:18I'd like to look at the lake,
01:16:19and I'd like to walk around
01:16:20and see what else there is.
01:16:22That's fine.
01:16:23All right, let's get dressed.
01:16:35Come on.
01:16:36Let's go down towards the water.
01:16:40Oh, my gosh.
01:16:43This is a whole resort,
01:16:45and there's nobody here.
01:16:52It's not like it's pictures.
01:16:56It's pretty desolate, actually.
01:17:00And it's a bit run down.
01:17:03Can you smile a little bit?
01:17:05No.
01:17:06But maybe that it's desolate
01:17:08is going to help me with Daniel.
01:17:13Maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:17:15for the two of us.
01:17:18Wow.
01:17:19Water is so big.
01:17:21It's so big, the water?
01:17:26Oh, look at this.
01:17:27This is neat.
01:17:28Let's have one.
01:17:30Two, please.
01:17:34I feel that things are going back to normal.
01:17:36Like, this guy is trying to rebuild
01:17:38our relationship.
01:17:41Oh, wow.
01:17:43Delicious.
01:17:44Let's go for a bike ride.
01:17:46Can you ride a bike?
01:17:48I don't know.
01:17:49I will try.
01:17:51To me, I welcomed it.
01:17:53I want us to be together
01:17:54because I love her.
01:17:59You know, it takes muscle to pull this.
01:18:01Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling
01:18:03and I'm doing the steering.
01:18:05Look at the pace.
01:18:07No, not that fast.
01:18:08I think you're maybe not that fast.
01:18:12Don't go so fast.
01:18:16I feel so light
01:18:17and so good in this moment with Daniel.
01:18:20He is having fun,
01:18:21and seeing the smile on his face
01:18:23as he's doing it,
01:18:24I really feel like we're reconnecting.
01:18:27Are you having fun?
01:18:29Yes, I am.
01:18:30See, this is exactly what we needed.
01:18:34I want to just enjoy myself,
01:18:36but I can't
01:18:36because all I can think about
01:18:38is how there is more to tell him,
01:18:40and I have to get it said
01:18:42before he goes to his uncle.
01:18:43It has to be tonight.
01:19:06It's a bonfire, honey.
01:19:08We're dancers.
01:19:10I'm enjoying the sun.
01:19:14This is beautiful.
01:19:16Have a seat.
01:19:17Let's watch him.
01:19:19Let's enjoy it.
01:19:22It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:19:29Woo!
01:19:32This is nice.
01:19:34Are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:19:39I'm enjoying spending time with you.
01:19:41This is what this few days is about.
01:19:44Do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit?
01:19:47I really want us to reconnect.
01:19:50You know, I miss the way we used to be,
01:19:54but I'm trying to respect our tradition.
01:19:57We have to call my uncle.
01:20:00When I call him,
01:20:01I will beg on our behalf.
01:20:03I love you.
01:20:04I love you.
01:20:05I want to make you...
01:20:07I want to, you know, love you forever,
01:20:11but stop telling me that
01:20:12it's stopped with hurting some secrets.
01:20:16Okay?
01:20:17I understand.
01:20:19Okay.
01:20:21So I have more to tell you then.
01:20:24More to tell me?
01:20:29What do you mean?
01:20:32So, like, in Nigeria,
01:20:34it's not legal for men to marry men
01:20:38or women to marry women, right?
01:20:40It's not legal?
01:20:40It's not, yeah.
01:20:41In America, it is.
01:20:44Yes, I've heard of that.
01:20:49So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
01:20:55I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
01:20:59And I've been with more than one woman.
01:21:04You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
01:21:12Because, um...
01:21:17It's not...
01:21:18Don't...
01:21:19It's not as bad as...
01:21:20Don't come close to me!
01:21:25Next time on Before the 90 Days...
01:21:33Having female friends can be hard to juggle,
01:21:36but I want to prove to her
01:21:37that she has nothing to worry about.
01:21:38Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:21:40Yeah.
01:21:40Yeah, I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:21:43that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:21:45Financial hold, big words.
01:21:47Are you jealous of me?
01:21:49And our relationship?
01:21:54We're officially on the GP.
01:21:57I only have a week left here in the Philippines,
01:21:59and I don't want to waste any time
01:22:02in bringing Sheena to America.
01:22:04So, I have to be very clear here.
01:22:07If you file today for the K-1 visa,
01:22:11it will be denied.
01:22:16I just feel really hopeless
01:22:19because I'm putting in massive effort.
01:22:22And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
01:22:25I don't know how to move forward.
01:22:32I'm excited to see my family.
01:22:35Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:22:36Yeah, to see me.
01:22:38What about me?
01:22:39I don't know.
01:22:40I feel scared.
01:22:43My family won't accept Rick
01:22:46when they don't like something.
01:22:49They are really aggressive.
01:22:51Rick doesn't know what he's in for.
01:22:54They want babies.
01:23:05You have a lot of secrets.
01:23:08I have no more secrets.
01:23:10Shut your mouth.
01:23:10You don't have to.
01:23:11You have been touched by a woman.
01:23:12Not even woman.
01:23:13Women.
01:23:16What do you range?
01:23:19Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
01:23:22You know what?
01:23:24him.
01:23:25him.
01:23:28Jesus.
01:23:30Jesus.
Comments