00:00I am a teenager so I fell in love with a boy that was there for like one month after
00:05that
00:05it was taking up a lot of my attention so I told him I need a break I'm sorry I'm
00:10doing this to
00:10you but we can just be friends for now I didn't call him for the say call my brother today
00:15and
00:16he said please make her call me I need to talk to her so I picked up the phone and
00:19I spoke to him
00:20and he's like how can you be so selfish you're just thinking about yourself now this relationship
00:25seems to have a strong flavor of attachment that's a problem that's a big problem all these things
00:32you broke my heart I'm missing you stalking calling somebody's brother you don't really have to drop
00:39it in a cruel way yeah so I told him that we can just be friends yes that's right and
00:45and even now
00:45he's like how can you do this to me so I what are you doing to him I'm just being
00:49friends with him
00:50and he can't take it and that's no offense that's no cruelty upon anyone I told him that this does
00:56not have to just brave then you have to see what all this implies where is it that the fellow
01:01is
01:01seeing a difference between just being friends and being more than friends then you will probably see
01:08the role of lust as well and then you will come upon another aspect of ego it is very very
01:16body
01:16identified and because it is body identified it looks at the other as a body and that is not love
01:24and again there is no need to just denounce it or ridicule it or condemn it it's an opportunity to
01:31understand it it's an opportunity to see how we are as human beings and we all are like that
01:36just be very alert be on a watch out
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