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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 14
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:07Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:11Didn't have one.
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex.
00:00:30You keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:35I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:00:37to be introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:06Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but.
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16It's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see, it's like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any, because when I tell you to do something,
00:01:28you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:39You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:01:42Don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:48I love you so much.
00:01:50But stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him, and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:07It's not, it's not as bad as.
00:02:10Don't come close to me.
00:02:18Yeah, I can feel your energy
00:02:23is passing through me.
00:02:25I feel so alive.
00:02:38Good morning.
00:03:08Hi.
00:03:08How are you?
00:03:08Okay.
00:03:08I'm feeling the mess, so, you know.
00:03:11You're such a good boy.
00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend Joshua for the first time face to face.
00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the
00:03:26night.
00:03:27I was coughing, I was shivering, and he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of
00:03:32me all night.
00:03:33It just feels like it's like a sinus infection almost, like it's just like swollen here.
00:03:38Maybe you can go get me like nose spray.
00:03:42Yeah.
00:03:44I am a needy bitch, especially when I'm sick.
00:03:47I need my man to attend to me like a golden retriever puppy like running, like catching a ball.
00:03:53Joshua does that.
00:03:55I feel a little better now with like all the water you've been making me drink, and I took my
00:04:00medicine.
00:04:01That's good, it's probably a good start.
00:04:04What is it?
00:04:05It's regimen.
00:04:06What's that?
00:04:07You have to try it.
00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:10It smells like sardines.
00:04:13There's no fish in it.
00:04:16Just take a big bite.
00:04:22Suck!
00:04:22Is it good?
00:04:24It's not bad.
00:04:26No, I don't like it.
00:04:27I don't like it.
00:04:30Joshua, what is that?
00:04:32Is that fish?
00:04:33It's not fish.
00:04:36Do you want a tissue?
00:04:38It's a condiment.
00:04:40I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:41And you love it?
00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:44You're not Australian if you're not eating Vegemite.
00:04:46It tastes like .
00:04:48I hated it.
00:04:53All right, take this Vegemite away from me.
00:04:56All right, there's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:00Yes.
00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see
00:05:06Bondi.
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:07All right, well, don't make me sick.
00:05:11I feel like you are, I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:16Well, we might get Toms too then.
00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:25This is it.
00:05:26Oh my God, all the guys that wear the what's the speedo thing.
00:05:30I can't, I can't, I can't.
00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:38Very different than Miami.
00:05:39It's like really soft.
00:05:43Do you want to go in?
00:05:44Yep.
00:05:45Wait, I have to change.
00:05:47Towels in my bag.
00:05:49So let's figure this out.
00:05:51So here's to cover me.
00:05:53Okay.
00:05:55How about this?
00:05:57Well, this one, I can just go like this.
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:02My top is off.
00:06:05Hold me.
00:06:06Hold me.
00:06:06How do you do this part?
00:06:08All right, so now we're going to go down.
00:06:09Yeah.
00:06:10So, how are you going to do that now?
00:06:18I'm losing it.
00:06:20Hold it.
00:06:23Voila!
00:06:24Well done.
00:06:28That was pretty impressive.
00:06:31Are you going to protect me if they're sharks?
00:06:34Yeah, I'll do my best.
00:06:35Let's go, ready?
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:37Okay.
00:06:38Crookin' that skin.
00:06:39No, hold on.
00:06:40Hold on, hold on.
00:06:40I'm holding it.
00:06:41Crush it like a ocean.
00:06:44I'm gonna have it.
00:06:46Can I kiss you in slow motion?
00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours, and it's so natural.
00:06:56There's a lot of sexual chemistry there.
00:06:59We're so touchy-feely, but he seems a little reserved, so I'm just trying to feel him out.
00:07:09I mean, I do have three weeks here, and I came here to find my potential husband.
00:07:14So, getting to be alone with Joshua, it's nice, because I want to get into the deeper stuff, for sure.
00:07:22Holy moly, I'm cold.
00:07:25It's funny, um, you see adults, you know, they're freezing, and then you see, like, little kids,
00:07:30and they're just, like, following around for hours.
00:07:32I think when I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach.
00:07:36We'd be swimming in the pool every morning.
00:07:38Okay.
00:07:39But then, in the afternoons, we'd be, like, doing the board training every single afternoon.
00:07:45I love learning about you.
00:07:47I want to get to know everything about you.
00:07:49Yeah, you're good.
00:07:49I want to know the heart.
00:07:50Like, I want you to open up.
00:07:51I feel like you're reserved.
00:07:55Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:07:58Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship.
00:08:00I was, yeah.
00:08:02One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up,
00:08:04and then having it use, like, against me, you know.
00:08:13My previous relationship, we dated for seven years, but I never felt secure.
00:08:19I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
00:08:23She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful.
00:08:27And I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she would walk away.
00:08:32So I was always living in fear, I guess.
00:08:35She could just end it at any time.
00:08:38Ultimately, I had my heart broken, and I'm closed off because of that.
00:08:44I was always thinking, like, it's something on your mind, or, like, it's just...
00:08:48Yeah, I'm always thinking.
00:08:50Always, always thinking.
00:08:51What's your top thought right now?
00:08:54This is...
00:08:54I like that you're sort of asking these questions, but, you know, it's scary at the same time.
00:09:00Because it's opening up and being vulnerable.
00:09:03No, I get it.
00:09:04Like, opening up can be scary.
00:09:08But, you know what?
00:09:09You made me feel safe already.
00:09:11Really?
00:09:12That's, like, an early, early call.
00:09:14So, hopefully I'll do the same thing.
00:09:17Yeah, I feel safe with you, too.
00:09:21Hi.
00:09:21Hi.
00:09:28I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually.
00:09:30Like, guys have said a lot of things to me, but feeling safe is not one I've heard.
00:09:35It feels good.
00:09:37I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable.
00:09:42So, yeah, the plan was to wait.
00:09:45But, like, he's so sweet to me.
00:09:47He's so attentive to me.
00:09:48He's letting his guard down.
00:09:49Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well.
00:09:52So, we'll see.
00:10:07It's not...
00:10:08It's not as bad as...
00:10:10Don't come close to me.
00:10:13Daniel.
00:10:15You're telling me you have been a lesbian?
00:10:19Listen.
00:10:20Don't, don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:22Listen to...
00:10:22Don't even come, don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:24Listen, I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.
00:10:30I want it all out.
00:10:31That's why I said I needed another day.
00:10:33I wanted you to know everything.
00:10:39Daniel.
00:10:41Daniel.
00:10:42Don't come close to me.
00:10:43Please try to understand.
00:10:47You don't know how hard it was to...
00:10:49You have a lot of secrets.
00:10:50I have no more secrets.
00:10:52Just listen, please.
00:10:54I'm trying to tell you who I am.
00:10:57Jesus Christ.
00:10:58I'm not a lesbian.
00:11:00I'm not straight.
00:11:01I'm not bisexual.
00:11:03I just believe that people should love people.
00:11:06People should love people by their soul.
00:11:08And people should love people for who they are on the inside,
00:11:11not on what is on the outside.
00:11:16I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:11:18You told me you have had serious of, you know, relationship.
00:11:21I didn't know it's your fellow women.
00:11:23Same sex.
00:11:26Yes.
00:11:28And you have been lying to me.
00:11:31I'm sorry.
00:11:34You are evil.
00:11:37I'm not evil.
00:11:38You know me.
00:11:39I take care of people.
00:11:40And I feel I'm taking care of you.
00:11:42I'm not evil.
00:11:44I have a good heart.
00:11:45And I'm a good person.
00:11:46What makes you a good person?
00:11:49Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:11:50That doesn't make me evil.
00:11:53I'm still the same person you fell in love with.
00:11:57The same person who tell lies and keep secrets.
00:12:00I love you.
00:12:02I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.
00:12:04I love you.
00:12:05Don't, don't, don't say that again.
00:12:07You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.
00:12:10I am in love with you, Daniel.
00:12:12That's why I'm coming clean to you.
00:12:14I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.
00:12:17But I'm telling you.
00:12:19Shut your mouth.
00:12:19You have been beaten by a woman.
00:12:21Not even woman.
00:12:22Women.
00:12:26You are a liar.
00:12:29I'm just a person who has been lost.
00:12:36Can you hold it?
00:12:37Can you hold this ring?
00:12:38No.
00:12:40Hold the ring.
00:12:43I've seen that from your head to toe is full of secrets and lies.
00:12:48So you're full of evil.
00:12:51I'm not full of evil, Daniel.
00:12:55I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:13:09I thought I've seen it all because she keep on vomiting secrets.
00:13:15No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:13:21I didn't think he called me evil.
00:13:23I'm not evil.
00:13:26I just believe a person loves a person.
00:13:28And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:13:35Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
00:13:38You know what?
00:13:40F*** him.
00:13:41F*** him.
00:13:45Jesus.
00:13:54You're officially on the jeepney.
00:13:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:13:59And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.
00:14:02So I have to be very clear here.
00:14:05If you file today for the K1 visa, it will be denied.
00:14:17We are like me!
00:14:31This one's right out so we can see we are here I'm tired let's get a rest
00:14:57so this is like a gonna be like a village environment right yeah yesterday we travel
00:15:04from Nusibet for Dauphin my hometown we arrived late so we stay in a hotel and now we are going
00:15:14for my family's village for a few days can't forget my baby wipes I don't know how you guys wash
00:15:21your
00:15:21ass in the village we use the water we had a big fight last night I still love him and
00:15:32I want him
00:15:33to meet my family but I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick I don't want
00:15:43to run this vacation but the way you talked to me yesterday I don't like
00:15:53I went a little overboard I'm sorry for that I'm sorry for raising my voice to you
00:16:02it's just I was so frustrated you know hearing about your your ex-boyfriend constantly
00:16:09I mean I can't move forward if you're gonna keep going back
00:16:18okay I promise I'm not gonna talk about my ex
00:16:26okay we are going to see my family and I don't want to go there in a bad mood I
00:16:33want them to accept you
00:16:35because I want this relationship work I do too
00:16:42I overreacted yesterday it seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows
00:16:49that I'm insecure about then it just totally set me off I want to be here and um
00:16:57I want to really give this a chance yeah there's definitely a strong connection between her and I
00:17:05and I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me
00:17:13so I think we can like get a quickie in before we go what since we're no
00:17:23let's go let's go now
00:17:29nice tuk tuk right here
00:17:31yeah it's nice
00:17:44it's quiet you see not much people
00:17:48not what I expected
00:17:53rough roads
00:17:57the roots are made of aluminum let's get noisy when it rains huh
00:18:02yeah
00:18:08I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village everything is just simple there is no
00:18:17running water no fancy toilet but everybody are kind in my village and it's beautiful
00:18:27do you think they're going to be happy to see yeah to see me
00:18:31what about me
00:18:34they're going to be happy to see me babe
00:18:39they're happy because I bring a boyfriend
00:18:41and they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not
00:18:51yeah I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast
00:18:57I feel a little bit scared my family won't accept rick
00:19:05men in my tribe is very strong when they don't like something
00:19:11they are really aggressive rick thinks he can handle any situation but he can't
00:19:19i'm worried he doesn't know what he's in for
00:19:25this is it right here yeah it's here there's no turning back
00:19:41so we're gonna have to call a jeepney i'm super duper nervous about riding one
00:19:46oh you're gonna have to how's that how's that work well you can see those signboards
00:19:50uh-huh just have to find the right location so then we just have to go
00:20:01so here oh here yes
00:20:05all right we're officially on the jeepney
00:20:12oh there it is
00:20:28it's been a couple days since i proposed to sheena and we are just over the moon in love with
00:20:35each
00:20:35other but not everyone's happy my mom is still mad at me because i proposed to sheena against her
00:20:44guidance and the vibe in the condo is just really awkward so sheena and i have been trying to do
00:20:53our
00:20:53own thing oh my gosh so this is the ball here all right here we go we're getting off yeah
00:21:00thank you
00:21:01well it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself right now is not the time to put the
00:21:06brakes on things i only have a week left here in the philippines and i don't want to waste any
00:21:11time
00:21:11in bringing sheena to america good morning do you have an appointment with mr alexander kane please
00:21:20now that we're finally engaged i called an immigration lawyer in manila just so we can get
00:21:25a consultation oh hi sir hi good morning hi hi nice to meet you nice to meet you nice to
00:21:34meet you
00:21:35yeah good afternoon good afternoon welcome to our office and welcome to the philippines thank you
00:21:42i've been enjoying my stay okay so for for this uh consultation i would like to you know uh make
00:21:48an
00:21:48assessment of course if you are eligible for the k1 visa yeah now how long have you been in this
00:21:56uh
00:21:56in this relationship seven years seven years seven years and you have never been convicted of any
00:22:02crime in the u.s no okay speak clean yeah when i walk you can hear yeah so uh are
00:22:10you uh working right
00:22:11now currently i'm not working but i can prove that i'm getting paid monthly okay i'm receiving uh disability
00:22:22benefits which is it's a good enough amount to have me you know live my basic life and you know
00:22:30get an
00:22:30apartment and get food all that good stuff i see so i have to um uh be very clear here
00:22:39you know disability
00:22:42benefits is not an income you know you cannot consider it as income the annual income for petitioners for
00:22:51uh k1 visa is more or less 26 500 usd now is that shared between no it's only the petitioner
00:23:00okay
00:23:03so um if you will file today for example it will be denied
00:23:14my suggestion is you build your financial capacity you know find again full employment then
00:23:19uh you can proceed i am in complete shock right now i feel devastated to find out that my disability
00:23:30payments that i get monthly does not count towards the amount that i need to bring shade into the united
00:23:36states to be honest because of my autism i am terrified about working full-time and starting a job
00:23:47in the past i've had jobs that ended
00:23:52awfully because i didn't understand or i messed up but my back is at a wall right now that if
00:24:01i don't
00:24:02get a job our entire dream of bringing sheena to the united states is done so let's say you know
00:24:09i go back home yeah and i instantly start working yeah how long is enough to have the stable form
00:24:16of
00:24:16income you know before the k-1 is actually granted so yeah uh you need probably a year uh employment
00:24:25history okay and then uh you will meet another year uh at least uh to have the petition approved and
00:24:34bring
00:24:34your fiance to the u.s yeah it's quite frustrating for me that i'm the only one who's been working
00:24:45if he happened to have a job then he could have acquired the cave of visa sooner i'm worried that
00:24:54since forest have a disability it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a job long term
00:25:01um is there other any other options so depending on your goal here in the
00:25:09philippine immigration we have a straightforward process if you get married here and he comes to
00:25:15the philippines and live here there is no requirement of financial capacity okay okay so
00:25:20there will be a hundred percent chance that the petition will be approved okay okay
00:25:28so these options will depend on your goal
00:25:34at this point it's sounding almost impossible for forest to bring me to the u.s
00:25:40i know it's going to be difficult but i think he's going to have to consider other options
00:25:55i don't know i'm just real pissed off and at this moment i'm at a crossroads i don't know how
00:26:11to move forward
00:26:12can i at least have my wallet no okay don't talk to me don't come to me
00:26:26you think you can just treat me this way humiliate me all the time all right i'm gonna just give
00:26:31you
00:26:31a little bit of space all right
00:27:01Um, I'll just...
00:27:05I'll just...
00:27:06I'll just leave my husband there.
00:27:14That's him.
00:27:21Oh?
00:27:33I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:27:37But, just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:27:42He promised a really good day.
00:27:45But of course, he needs to ruin the moment.
00:27:48Because it's not Juban if he doesn't.
00:27:58Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:28:00Anna?
00:28:18We're just gonna leave him for now.
00:28:20Just give her space, man.
00:28:22So she can just calm down.
00:28:25We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:28:29I just feel really hopeless with Anna.
00:28:33Because I'm putting in massive effort to show Anna that I can be romantic.
00:28:40And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place and it's just...
00:28:45I don't know, I'm just real pissed off that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:28:50And, at this moment, I'm at a crossroads. I don't know how to move forward.
00:28:56Mama, your day good?
00:28:59It's okay.
00:29:02Every time we're having a good time, he would do this to me.
00:29:07Right in front in public. It's so humiliating.
00:29:12I don't think it's powerless.
00:29:14The fact that he could upset me this much definitely has our obvious relationship.
00:29:24Hello?
00:29:25Hello?
00:29:27How's your baby?
00:29:29Nana's baby?
00:29:32I'm inisak with John.
00:29:34Why?
00:29:35It's a bad trip because...
00:29:37Why?
00:29:38Because he wants our relationship with him.
00:29:40He's a dominant woman.
00:29:42He's like this, this, this, this.
00:29:44I don't want to be like this.
00:29:46I'm inisak.
00:29:49I don't want to see that.
00:29:55Ay.
00:29:55You are already, I'm inisak.
00:29:57Do you talk to me, talk to me?
00:29:58I don't want to.
00:29:59I don't want to talk to you because a person is a dude.
00:30:01What's wrong?
00:30:05Don't get blamed for your relationship.
00:30:09I am so, so, so tired of it.
00:30:12Yeah, but.
00:30:12I have to be this timid.
00:30:14Anna,
00:30:15I'm not trying to get you to change.
00:30:17Self-spoken woman.
00:30:18It's like I'm like,
00:30:21sacrificed a lot of my life
00:30:23so you can be happy.
00:30:25And even when I do the things you want me to do,
00:30:27it's something else you want me to do.
00:30:31So I was like, look, I just give up.
00:30:34There's nothing else that I can do
00:30:36to make you, you know, happy.
00:30:41I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:30:52I'm so cold.
00:30:53Can I have a shower with me?
00:30:55Okay.
00:30:57I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:30:59Maybe.
00:31:01But I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:04I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:07Ha ha!
00:31:33I'm so cold.
00:31:35Come have a shower with me?
00:31:37Okay.
00:31:39Never thought you would ask.
00:31:41Ha ha!
00:32:03I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:05Maybe.
00:32:07But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross
00:32:10from the ocean.
00:32:11And I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:32:14I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:32:17Ha ha!
00:32:19I'm trying to control myself,
00:32:21but Josh is just, like, so hot,
00:32:23and we've been making out all day.
00:32:26You know, in the back of my mind,
00:32:27I do have some questions,
00:32:29and I do want to see more of him
00:32:31and more of his life.
00:32:32But, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:32:35So I bought some massage oil,
00:32:38and then I think there's some wine.
00:32:39Maybe we can have a glass and relax?
00:32:41I love it.
00:32:42Okay, perfect.
00:32:53Hi, are you coming?
00:32:55Yeah.
00:32:59Everything feels really natural.
00:33:01Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:04We just draw on to each other,
00:33:05which is, you know, really exciting.
00:33:08We had an amazing day together,
00:33:10and I want to pamper Elise.
00:33:12Now's the time to pour some wine,
00:33:15you know, light a candle,
00:33:16and, you know,
00:33:17show that I've got skills.
00:33:24Wow.
00:33:25Look at this.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:31Welcome to Sydney.
00:33:32Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:37Cheers.
00:33:37Cheers.
00:33:41Feel like a massage?
00:33:42Yeah, I would love one.
00:33:44I'm going to light it up.
00:33:45This doesn't mean you're necessarily
00:33:46sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:33:48It's a cow.
00:33:48I didn't sleep yet.
00:33:51Lay on your stomach.
00:33:53Okay.
00:34:00Is that a lot?
00:34:02That's okay.
00:34:05Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:34:09You can go harder.
00:34:11Harder.
00:34:12Wait.
00:34:14You should go down lower.
00:34:17You're, like,
00:34:18trying to be, like, a little
00:34:20respectful, but
00:34:21come on.
00:34:22Do me a little bitch.
00:34:24Give me, like, everything.
00:34:25Slap on the ass?
00:34:26Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:34:27Like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:34:30I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:34:32Rip me around a little bit here.
00:34:35Wow.
00:34:37It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:34:41Are you nervous?
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:43Shaking.
00:34:44I can feel it.
00:34:46You reckon?
00:34:46Uh-huh.
00:34:54All right, guys.
00:34:59What the f*** are you doing?
00:35:03Oh, my God.
00:35:06The timing on me.
00:35:08Hi, Chris.
00:35:09Yeah, hi.
00:35:10Nice.
00:35:11Now it's a party.
00:35:12Now it's a party.
00:35:14I can't stop on my car.
00:35:15I'll get another wine glass.
00:35:19I did not see that coming.
00:35:21I did.
00:35:22I'm a f***ing hot.
00:35:23Naked right now.
00:35:24But, you know, there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area.
00:35:29Half naked massage.
00:35:30Yeah, you know what?
00:35:31You're absolutely right.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:32But, um, you know, I think I was just blind to the last.
00:35:36Ew.
00:35:37Who would have to say it so weird for, bro?
00:35:43All right.
00:35:44Well, I'm going to go to my room.
00:35:48Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:35:50This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:35:56Can you button me back up?
00:35:58I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:02Showing your skin to other people?
00:36:04Who is that?
00:36:05Not me.
00:36:06No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:36:08Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:36:09We know that.
00:36:10But, like, Chris f***ing walks in as your hands are groping my body.
00:36:14And it's, like, such a sexual, nice night.
00:36:16And, like...
00:36:16Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:36:18Not my finest hour.
00:36:21Sorry, baby.
00:36:22Well, that f***ing killed the mood.
00:36:24For now.
00:36:27Okay.
00:36:36Andres?
00:36:36Oh, this is the shower?
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:41Oh, hell no!
00:36:50Yeah.
00:36:53This is paper to write on.
00:36:55You wipe this?
00:36:57Yes!
00:36:58Stop it.
00:37:19Well, babe, this is where you grew up?
00:37:22Yeah, it's here.
00:37:34Hey.
00:37:36Yeah.
00:37:37Yeah.
00:37:37That your rooster?
00:37:38No, not mine, but my neighbors.
00:37:40Oh, okay.
00:37:42We just got to the area of Trish's family home.
00:37:45I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:37:52Oh, this is a journey.
00:38:18Oh, this is a journey.
00:38:29Nice to meet you.
00:38:33Nice to meet you.
00:38:34And who is this?
00:38:35My brother.
00:38:36Oh, this is your brother?
00:38:37Yes.
00:38:41Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:47Yes.
00:38:51Nice to meet you.
00:38:56Oh, this is your brother.
00:38:58Oh, this is your brother.
00:39:00Okay.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:02Oh, how are you?
00:39:04My sister.
00:39:05This is your sister?
00:39:06Yes.
00:39:06So nice to meet you.
00:39:08You look like my grandmother.
00:39:10I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:39:13You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:39:18Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:39:21There's more people coming.
00:39:23Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:39:28Bye-bye.
00:39:44My dad says, you sleep down?
00:39:48Oh.
00:39:49And me, I'm sorry.
00:39:51Okay.
00:39:53The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister.
00:39:57I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age.
00:40:02But I respect her dad and their culture.
00:40:11Oh, this is the shower?
00:40:15Yeah.
00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:40:20There's no running water coming up.
00:40:23To wrench you off.
00:40:24No.
00:40:25And where does this water come from?
00:40:28From the river?
00:40:29Like, something under the ground.
00:40:32A well?
00:40:33Yeah.
00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:40:37Okay.
00:40:37Yeah.
00:40:38Oh, man.
00:40:39I smell something already.
00:40:41Out of the toilet.
00:40:43Oh, hell no!
00:40:45Yeah.
00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it, huh?
00:40:52Wait, wait, wait.
00:40:57This is paper to write on.
00:40:59You wipe this with this?
00:41:02Break.
00:41:02Stop it.
00:41:03That's how I...
00:41:04Sit, sit, sit.
00:41:05Finish.
00:41:06Oh, good.
00:41:07Oh.
00:41:07That's it.
00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:41:15But I'm not surprised.
00:41:18Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.
00:41:24Don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:41:27And they just leaving me down like this without refrigeration?
00:41:32These are tight quarters right here, baby.
00:41:35Kind of squished.
00:41:37It's hot.
00:41:37I hope it's not going to be this hot in those events.
00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:41:44You are the only bougie here afraid of something.
00:41:47Oh, my God.
00:41:48Terrible.
00:41:52This is the living room?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55Yeah, this is the living room.
00:41:59What is this, like a family meeting or something?
00:42:05Yeah.
00:42:15Yeah.
00:42:18So they approve that you are here.
00:42:21And it's going to give us a blessing.
00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:42:31Okay.
00:42:32In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents' acceptation.
00:42:41Like, it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:42:44No.
00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.
00:42:52It's a spring blessing.
00:42:54That's it, too big.
00:42:55It is a silver.
00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.
00:43:01It's a silver.
00:43:03There's nothing.
00:43:05It's a silver häopedia.
00:43:07I bought a illnesses.
00:43:12So that's how my dad thought about it is,
00:43:17Also, the flesh should admit it.
00:43:19It is a woman in school.
00:43:22And it's why I got married, danse,
00:43:26why?
00:43:29And I got married,
00:43:42I'm so sorry.
00:43:46Thank you for this.
00:43:52Oh, is that his?
00:43:58Yeah, his wrist.
00:43:59OK.
00:44:24Until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving
00:44:28up hope.
00:44:29I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.
00:44:32I believe that if he just gives me a chance, he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:44:39Same sex is a disgrace.
00:44:40This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:44:42Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us, or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:45:24I feel miserable.
00:45:28Numb.
00:45:31I'm really sad.
00:45:35But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:45:39I just don't know what happens from here.
00:45:44Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:45:47I told him everything.
00:45:48There are no more secrets.
00:45:52And he didn't react good.
00:45:53He called me evil.
00:45:55He didn't talk to me.
00:45:57He looked at me with disgust.
00:45:58He's not accepting who I am.
00:46:01So he slept on the sofa.
00:46:02I slept in the bedroom.
00:46:05I'm mad.
00:46:06And I'm angry.
00:46:07And I'm hurt.
00:46:09But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:46:15My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:46:18I'm cutting the trip short.
00:46:20There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again and that he's going to leave me.
00:46:23But until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving
00:46:28up hope.
00:46:31Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:46:35I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore about me lying about still
00:46:40being married.
00:46:41But I believe that if he just gives me a chance, looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a
00:46:47person he
00:46:47fell in love with those months ago, that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:46:53I still want to be with Daniel.
00:46:55But now it's up to him.
00:47:02How do you feel?
00:47:04Lisa is full of lies.
00:47:06I don't think her lies is over because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:47:12Why did you call her evil?
00:47:15Because she's evil.
00:47:16Keeping all these secrets.
00:47:18I've been taking away of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.
00:47:24That she has not been divorced.
00:47:27Not knowing that she has been in a relationship with her fellow women.
00:47:31She's been practicing same sex.
00:47:34So I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:47:37It's against our tradition.
00:47:47Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:47:52Just allow me to be.
00:47:54Like we have to talk.
00:47:55You can't ignore me forever.
00:47:58Please.
00:48:00You need to give me time.
00:48:02I have to thank.
00:48:06Can you grab your bags?
00:48:08I can't carry everything to the car.
00:48:12I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:48:19I'm not happy.
00:48:20Another love gone bad again.
00:48:23Bad again.
00:48:24Bad again.
00:48:25Bad again.
00:48:25Bad again.
00:48:26But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:48:29I love Lisa.
00:48:31I want to forgive her.
00:48:33But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.
00:48:36I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:48:39You're on your own.
00:48:40Hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside.
00:48:42Driving you insane.
00:48:52And I will love past my shoulder.
00:48:56Cause it can't hurt anymore.
00:49:00Hurt anymore.
00:49:02And it's already done.
00:49:14So are you ever going to talk to me?
00:49:17I am totally confused.
00:49:20We dated for six months.
00:49:22You have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me.
00:49:25But you never did.
00:49:27I was scared.
00:49:28Why didn't you tell my uncle?
00:49:31Because this is between me and you.
00:49:33Why does he need to know anything?
00:49:36Anything.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:37You called it anything.
00:49:38Yeah.
00:49:39Same sex is a disgrace.
00:49:41To any family that is involved in it.
00:49:45It's against our tradition.
00:49:47But it's not against American tradition.
00:49:50But you are in my country.
00:49:51You are in my tribe.
00:49:52This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:49:56My uncle has to be involved.
00:49:59Are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex?
00:50:03Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you for the rest of my life.
00:50:07There's not going to be another woman.
00:50:09If I'm with you, I'm with you.
00:50:12Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us?
00:50:15Or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:50:17I don't know.
00:50:19I don't think I will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes.
00:50:24I should have told you.
00:50:26I should have told you before I came.
00:50:28And then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me.
00:50:32And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.
00:50:34And there wouldn't be all this struggle.
00:50:36I should have just told you I was scared to tell you.
00:50:39And I was scared to lose you.
00:50:43I'm scared of losing you.
00:50:46This all comes down to his uncle.
00:50:48When he finds out that I lied about me being with women for 21 years,
00:50:53I'm worried that his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me,
00:50:58and this relationship will be over.
00:51:02I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes.
00:51:05Please.
00:51:23That does not hurt.
00:51:25That really hurts?
00:51:27It's not happening.
00:51:27That's how you know I'm so sexually attracted to you because I love popping your pimples.
00:51:31I'm good.
00:51:41Did you sleep well?
00:51:43I'm pretty tired.
00:51:45I can't believe after six months I had sex.
00:51:48I feel like I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:51:52Like, I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer, but it felt right.
00:51:57It was a lot of fun.
00:52:00Do you think Chris hurt us?
00:52:05Possibly.
00:52:06How many times did you have sex last night?
00:52:09Twice.
00:52:11It was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just felt like it flowed.
00:52:15It was, like, missionary.
00:52:17It was great.
00:52:18And then, like, to the side was the other one.
00:52:22Did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above?
00:52:24I forgot that painting was in the room.
00:52:26Well, you didn't even f*** me doggy style.
00:52:28I couldn't even see the painting last night.
00:52:31Yeah.
00:52:34I feel like we're an old married couple.
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:36Like, I'm so comfortable with you.
00:52:38Like, usually, like, at home, like, if I, like, sleep with a guy, like, I just want to, like, go
00:52:43leave the next day.
00:52:45But, like, I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you.
00:52:47And then, like, I'm happy that I'm here.
00:52:49And, like, I came.
00:52:51You know, did you?
00:52:53I did.
00:52:56Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massage, that definitely brought the mood down.
00:53:00He had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex, and he definitely made it
00:53:04up.
00:53:04It was everything I could have dreamed of him more.
00:53:08Everything about this man is so f***ing sexy, except the uncircumcised .
00:53:14This is the first f***ing uncircumcised.
00:53:18It's a little weird.
00:53:19It's like, you know, but, also, there's not, like, a dictionary on, like, how to use extra skin.
00:53:27But, like, like, I'm not complaining about it.
00:53:32I can deal with that.
00:53:35I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly.
00:53:42I did.
00:53:43I'm like, one part of me is, like, super happy, but the other part of me is like, f***, I
00:53:47should have, I should, I want to know more.
00:53:49And then, but whatever, like, I shouldn't be so hard on myself.
00:53:52Just ask anything you want.
00:53:54Do anything you want.
00:53:55Say anything you want.
00:53:56Yeah?
00:53:57Okay, I'll start asking.
00:53:58Don't hate me.
00:53:59Okay, go.
00:54:01So, I'm confused about this rental situation.
00:54:04Like, a little annoying that Chris, like, walked in during that.
00:54:08Like, why is he even here with you renting it in the first place?
00:54:12Because last I knew is you lived with your parents.
00:54:17Um, I mean, like, we were living together and then we sort of had to get out.
00:54:21After we moved out, I dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week.
00:54:25But then, you know, I, um, I've been living with Nat.
00:54:32I've been staying at hers because, you know, she lives a lot closer to work.
00:54:37So, why?
00:54:39I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to, like, navigate this, like, detective puzzle because you've confused me
00:54:44so much.
00:54:46I know Nat, we've talked on the phone a few times, but living together?
00:54:51I think their relationship's a little weird.
00:54:54If it's so platonic and you're just friends, why would you have to lie to me about it and tell
00:54:58me you're living with your parents?
00:55:00This just smells fishy to me.
00:55:04Um, I just, I mean, to me, it's a little weird that you're living with a girl.
00:55:11And, like, you talk about her a lot, too.
00:55:14And, like, I just, I don't know.
00:55:18She's my friend.
00:55:19You're here.
00:55:20You're my girlfriend.
00:55:21So, it's exactly the same as Chris.
00:55:23I would treat her exactly the same as I do Chris, you know?
00:55:26Like, do you guys, like, share a bathroom?
00:55:28Like, does she see you naked?
00:55:29Like, how does that work?
00:55:31Why is that funny?
00:55:32No, it's funny because, you know, I get it.
00:55:35That's, you know, I get why you would ask those questions.
00:55:37Um, yeah, of course we share a bathroom, but, um, she hasn't seen me naked.
00:55:42Her and I are just friends.
00:55:43She's like, you know, she's a really good friend, but, you know, she knows about you and that you're my
00:55:48partner.
00:55:48And, you know, um, I really want you guys to get along because it's important for me.
00:55:52Well, you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her.
00:56:00Maybe it was a part of me, you know, not wanting you to get, you know, jealous and back out
00:56:04of this before you got here.
00:56:06And how do I know you're telling me the truth?
00:56:08Well, that's your job to believe me and it's my job to prove it to you.
00:56:14I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight, including Nat.
00:56:18So I need to take advantage and get the whole picture of him.
00:56:21I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her, see what she says to me.
00:56:24If there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that I'm going to find out.
00:56:29It's like, what else do I not know that I shouldn't know?
00:56:33I want to give Joshua the benefit of the doubt, but I don't fully trust him after this.
00:56:38At the end of the day, like, you know, you're, you know, you're mine and you're my number one priority,
00:56:43so.
00:56:50How old are you?
00:56:52Oh.
00:56:54I'm 52.
00:56:5752.
00:56:5952.
00:57:0353.
00:57:0553.
00:57:0653.
00:57:0753.
00:57:1253.
00:57:2054.
00:57:2254.
00:57:2954.
00:57:3655.
00:57:5755.
00:57:5750.
00:57:59I don't know if I can hold my legs like this.
00:58:02I'm going to sit like your aunt when we try that.
00:58:12Only women are allowed to sit like this?
00:58:15She's not going to sit like this till the end, just serving the food.
00:58:20So far, everything is seen pretty good with Rick and my family.
00:58:25Even though he's acting like an old man.
00:58:31My father said you have to use to do it.
00:58:36But I know my family is going to be asking him a lot of questions.
00:58:40And I don't know how Rick is going to respond.
00:58:51Like, what is the intention to me?
00:58:57I look at her as being a prospective wife-to-be.
00:59:06I love her very much and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.
00:59:28I don't know what you're saying.
00:59:32What is it?
00:59:36Genau.
00:59:37How old are you?
00:59:38Oh.
00:59:53You have the same age as him.
01:00:24You have married?
01:00:28Yes, I've been married two years.
01:00:33But now I'm not married.
01:00:39Do you have a child?
01:00:41Yes.
01:00:42I have two babies and then I have three adults.
01:00:52Five years.
01:01:09They want babies.
01:01:19Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids and I'm just
01:01:27not ready to make that decision yet.
01:01:49They want respect and as a mother, we get married.
01:01:58And I have a child.
01:02:03I have a child.
01:02:29I understand that.
01:02:30And now that I see how important this is, it's going to be the forefront of my mind.
01:02:45And when are you going to decide it?
01:02:52Before, you know, I come to your father and ask for your hand in marriage, I will make
01:02:59a decision.
01:03:10Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt about having kids.
01:03:17But now the heat is on and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:03:21My feelings have grown so much for Trish that I couldn't picture a life without her at this point.
01:03:29But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:03:35I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:03:41Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:03:43I thought you knew that.
01:03:45I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:03:48I've tried that.
01:03:48It's never succeeded for me.
01:03:49I have so many guy friends.
01:03:51Let's put two and two together.
01:03:53Josh lied to me about living there.
01:03:56Something's fishy.
01:03:56Something's shady.
01:03:58So are you jealous of me?
01:04:31Shhh!
01:04:33I'm so frustrated with Javon but it makes me feel good when I look good so just
01:04:39gonna do my own thing and we talk
01:04:54that's all we do talk so frustrating
01:05:02I'm really starting to feel hopeless that we're never gonna resolve this problem
01:05:09really can't do this submissive thing I'm afraid that he's trying to change me
01:05:19but I mean this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just back
01:05:25out we're married so I just can't ignore him forever especially now that he's in my house
01:05:39hey
01:05:41hey
01:05:45I like your outfit
01:05:50thanks
01:05:51I mean do you want to talk any about yesterday
01:06:00sometimes I just can't take your arrogance Javon
01:06:09I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard you know I know you want
01:06:13to come off like
01:06:14you know I'm not gonna be pushed around you're gonna hear me it it causes more fights than it solves
01:06:24I get what you're coming from but this is what you married
01:06:29I am not the type of woman who would just say yes just to have peace
01:06:36ever since I was a child I felt like I was voiceless and I saw my mom you know
01:06:42she gone through this domestic abuse in the past
01:06:46the goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused
01:06:52and I promised myself that's not gonna happen to me
01:06:58every time
01:07:00you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes I mean we argue my initial
01:07:07reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to
01:07:14I know but Anna you understand I'm not your father I don't raise my voice at you and I'm not
01:07:20this person that's trying to like dominate you I know you're not my dad the point is you're hard on
01:07:28me
01:07:28I'm hard on you but I'm not aggressive with it you know I know I've married a strong woman but
01:07:34you you're a little bit too strong and that can that can sometimes work against you rather than for you
01:07:42I grew up with an abusive father
01:07:47he died long time ago but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad
01:07:55I learned from a very young age when to speak up if I'm not comfortable I should know how to
01:08:02express
01:08:02my feelings and set boundaries but maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without
01:08:09blushing out
01:08:15I'm sorry because I haven't realized that I was
01:08:23and I'll do my best to you know
01:08:28I guess just not be so you know sarcastic and arrogant okay all right deal all right
01:08:39come on be all right
01:08:43work it out okay
01:08:47oh let's go to the room where it's cool man
01:08:50I just know
01:08:56you know whatever issues that me and Anna have had I'm very proud to be worried thank you so much
01:09:02boo boo thank you
01:09:05I don't know what it is but every time we make up
01:09:09he starts to look hot oh yeah
01:09:15yeah yeah take me a minute
01:09:31I get the feeling that we're going all the way
01:09:35because we fall in deep boy and I got so much to say baby do I look okay absolutely perfect
01:09:43but it might get a bit cold at night so maybe
01:09:48grab a
01:09:49something yeah and guess what what I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly
01:09:54so I have to carry it yeah that's not great
01:10:04oh god it's a little nippley out
01:10:14okay so where do you want to sit oh is there upstairs
01:10:19the plan for today is we're gonna go and meet my friends to get her out in the city in
01:10:23the harbor
01:10:24I am excited but nervous more so I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat and she
01:10:30was not happy about it but I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:10:50it's just like stunning like not what I expected
01:10:54it's nice huh it's beautiful
01:10:57thank you babe I love how you hold my purse
01:11:03walking into this I'm afraid of a lot like I'm afraid you know am I going to catch him in
01:11:07any more
01:11:07lies I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me is he going to be attentive is he
01:11:11going
01:11:11to make me feel comfortable it's really important to be accepted into the friend group but on the
01:11:16same time like I came here for answers I want answers and I want to figure out his life and
01:11:19like
01:11:19I don't want to be like I don't want to be like you
01:11:31i'm tall
01:11:32i'm not
01:11:33no i meant y'all not tall
01:11:34hey how are you
01:11:35how are you
01:11:36i'm Steve
01:11:36nice to meet you finally
01:11:38nice to meet you
01:11:39hi
01:11:40hi
01:11:40oh
01:11:43keep back
01:11:44keep back
01:11:45What's it, Leo?
01:11:46Did you rock it?
01:11:48Where are we all sitting?
01:11:50We're all sitting.
01:11:50We're all sitting, I guess.
01:11:52We'll get attacked by Sagals, but.
01:11:53Mostly, no one can look up my skirt.
01:11:57Just everyone, man.
01:11:58Yeah, sorry.
01:12:00This is great.
01:12:01Oh, my favorite people.
01:12:05I need this.
01:12:06Thank you so much.
01:12:07To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:09I don't know why that's so funny.
01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:12:13It's like.
01:12:14Okay, do you want to go for Elise?
01:12:18Like, yeah.
01:12:20Fish!
01:12:22I've spoken to Elise before,
01:12:24and she comes across lovely,
01:12:27but she comes across very Miami.
01:12:29Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:12:31Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:12:34Yeah, well, very skimpy for Sydney, right?
01:12:35Yeah, yeah, correct, correct.
01:12:36But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:12:37Yeah.
01:12:4016 hours, I'm so jet lagged.
01:12:42I'm in this way.
01:12:43You guys, I don't like, I don't like,
01:12:45they're sitting too far away, so.
01:12:46Yeah, I know.
01:12:46Wrap up, please, other bar.
01:12:47Yes, let's do it.
01:12:48Okay, let's go.
01:12:52Are we gonna go in here?
01:12:54Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:12:55Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:12:56Yeah.
01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is,
01:12:59they're all nice.
01:13:03But when I see Nat,
01:13:05and I think my boyfriend lives with her,
01:13:07I'm like, is there something,
01:13:09like, I'm not understanding?
01:13:10Because I don't think there's a sexual connection,
01:13:12but, like, I think it's weird.
01:13:13I think it's so weird.
01:13:16Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:13:20Okay.
01:13:21So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.
01:13:25I would love that.
01:13:27Are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29Bond Ivy.
01:13:30I'm staying in a rental
01:13:32that Joshua and Chris have.
01:13:35Yep.
01:13:37Because today I found out
01:13:38that he was living with you.
01:13:39Yeah.
01:13:40I thought you knew that.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41He was staying in a rental a little bit.
01:13:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:13:48Like, how did this happen?
01:13:50He was kind of between places,
01:13:52and I was like,
01:13:52why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:13:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:13:56And, you know, to be honest,
01:13:58I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:14:00And I needed comfort.
01:14:03I needed someone there to...
01:14:04Support.
01:14:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:14:06So, it worked out well.
01:14:09Yeah.
01:14:09I mean, look, as I said,
01:14:10like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.
01:14:16I don't think that guys and girls
01:14:17can be friends without hooking up.
01:14:18I've tried that.
01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:14:20I have so many guy friends.
01:14:21Oh, yay!
01:14:22I have so many guy friends.
01:14:24And this is probably Australia.
01:14:26It's probably a little bit different.
01:14:27It's a culture.
01:14:27It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:28It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:30Or, like, back,
01:14:31we're a bit more easy about it.
01:14:32We trust more, I think.
01:14:34Yeah, we trust.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:14:39Yes.
01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.
01:14:40Yes.
01:14:41I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:14:42He's my brother to me.
01:14:44So, I find it very weird.
01:14:46Yeah.
01:14:46I think about lies and insecurities,
01:14:48and hopefully they'll grow together
01:14:50and grow through that.
01:14:51Yeah.
01:14:51And that's how trust is built.
01:14:56I think that he's gonna have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have to be completely
01:15:02honest.
01:15:07So, are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:15:11Yeah.
01:15:11I feel uneasy about it.
01:15:14Yeah.
01:15:14Well, look, I get it.
01:15:15And hopefully that can change, you know.
01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.
01:15:19Yeah.
01:15:20I guess the question I have, are you paying, like, are you letting them lay there for free?
01:15:25I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:15:29Great, but, um...
01:15:29You have been generous.
01:15:30I've been generous.
01:15:31I'm a generous person and I love doing that for my friends.
01:15:34Yeah.
01:15:34Yeah.
01:15:34Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of...
01:15:41No.
01:15:41No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:15:42No, I don't.
01:15:43No, that's...
01:15:44No.
01:15:45That...
01:15:45See, that...
01:15:46That offends me.
01:15:52She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:15:54So, yeah, you could say it financially.
01:15:56Help me there.
01:15:56But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:15:58Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:16:00Well, I should have been more clearer and I should have been more transparent.
01:16:04Let's put two and two together.
01:16:06Joshua's struggling financially.
01:16:08He's lied to me about living there.
01:16:11Something's fishy.
01:16:12Something's shady.
01:16:13I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by anybody.
01:16:16Another girl that's disgusting and weird.
01:16:19Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?
01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country,
01:16:39we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:16:43Sorry.
01:16:44I'm so sorry, Ashin.
01:16:46I'm so sorry, Ashin.
01:16:46Oh, oh.
01:16:57So that was eye-opening.
01:17:00Yeah, I know.
01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.
01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:17:17Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer, and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States
01:17:30and everything figured out.
01:17:31But now, after hearing that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take
01:17:38years, this is the biggest setback ever.
01:17:45There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:17:52Well, for me, it's like, I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:18:00Plus, you're going to have another two or three years while you find a job and save enough money for
01:18:05the K-1 visa.
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:12I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:18:16But why do we have to live in your country? That's my good question.
01:18:22It's easier for me to stay here, got a Filipino visa.
01:18:27And I'm a professional here.
01:18:29If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:33Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:18:36I think that's the best option for us.
01:18:42I still have my worries about that, though.
01:18:45With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom.
01:18:52But I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:58What makes you upset is like, he loves his mom, his family.
01:19:03I understand that.
01:19:04But what about me?
01:19:05I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:19:14So I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.
01:19:30I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:19:33I was expecting you.
01:19:35That I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:19:44I don't know.
01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...
01:19:57I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:20:10I'm so sorry.
01:20:14Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day...
01:20:21I, I feel kind of stuck.
01:20:22Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.
01:20:30this
01:20:32this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make
01:20:35she's my second half
01:20:37I know she's the one for me
01:20:39and
01:20:40just being with her, being able to
01:20:42talk, joke, have
01:20:44everything, I don't want to lose that
01:20:46I won't give it
01:20:48I won't keep trying
01:20:58next time
01:20:59on Before the 90 Days
01:21:01teamwork makes the dream work
01:21:03I'm sorry
01:21:04you're kind of turning me on
01:21:06I did not know
01:21:09rolling some kind of 30
01:21:10could be sexy
01:21:12I'm so hungry
01:21:13you have pregnancy clearance
01:21:15I haven't gotten my period yet
01:21:19how would you feel
01:21:20if I was
01:21:25tell me you love her
01:21:27if I was in love with her
01:21:28I would have made a move
01:21:30dude, you made a move, you blow it
01:21:32no, no, no, no, no, no
01:21:34Laura made a move on me
01:21:36I am thinking about sharing my life
01:21:38and you are keeping secret from me
01:21:41because it is betrayal
01:21:50saying this water is cold
01:21:51ha, you can survive
01:21:54I hope Trish's family can see
01:21:56that I'm trying
01:21:57and that I am a good partner for Trish
01:22:10going to Casablanca right now
01:22:11to see Mohammed
01:22:12it's kind of surreal
01:22:13I mean, I have my engagement ring
01:22:15Mohammed gave to me
01:22:17when he proposed
01:22:19putting this ring back on
01:22:20is actually bringing up old feelings
01:22:23but I don't know
01:22:25how this meeting is going to go
01:22:27my heart's racing
01:22:34why did you just leave
01:22:37so you don't care that I'm upset
01:22:41so you just walk away from me
01:22:43after what I found out about Nat
01:22:46my mind is just in so many directions
01:22:48and I'm freaking out
01:22:51I don't know
01:22:51what the f*** is going on right now
01:22:55I want to go home
01:22:56Trish will be super
01:23:00she has gotten married five times
01:23:03and from 21 years
01:23:05she has been in a relationship
01:23:06with several women
01:23:09why am I hearing this one now?
01:23:12this is an abomination
01:23:13no, I can't help what my past is like
01:23:16I am willing to do whatever it takes
01:23:18to be with Daniel
01:23:19I can't believe you
01:23:22because of this
01:23:23the marriage will be over
01:23:24I can't breathe
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