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00:01this romance is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:13okay breathe is possible will you pique my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing
00:21they're cool an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it the match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village all moth what
00:54is up to them would you like to see each other again romantically yeah i would too
01:02oh jesus christ i was gonna have a heart i do my hair toss check my name baby how you
01:10feel
01:11are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute
01:17you should be sure did that run not much needs to be done to this you can polish
01:23do you have any strategy when it comes to date none whatsoever
01:31none i'm going in blind it's just that thing of like just rocking up and just going for it like
01:38i do my hair wash the night before have a bit of tan because i think whatever about your hair
01:43and
01:43makeup if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things that remind me like alice you're
01:48great you got this you got this girl you got this brocco you look gorgeous thanks
01:57some people just can't get enough attention but mince not one of them she's maxed out do you get chatted
02:05up
02:05but sometimes i do go out and i'm just like can people just leave me the alone i'm like just
02:10off
02:14sometimes i look at them i'd be like
02:17where coming from you i'm coming from clerny
02:19you know what's wrong with the kerry men there's just something wrong with them especially the clerny men
02:25really something wrong with them
02:27what hobbies have you what hobbies have i i like to go to the gym i like to go for
02:34hot girl walks
02:35what's a hot girl walk so it's when you put on your sunglasses you chew a piece of gum and
02:40you
02:40look straight and you walk you walk like you own the town
02:45describe yourself in three words for me pretty a tad bit obnoxious and funny so would you say that you
02:53are particular like do you need a person i guess that has things or is successful and has to be
02:59a
03:00certain way definitely okay okay so what would you deem as a successful person someone i guess it was a
03:06good job has their life together knows what they want is able to drive a hundred percent yeah i'm
03:13built to be a passenger princess if you don't have a full license you don't have a car i'm like
03:18immediately no i'm not driving you around the place i'm sorry not at all it can't be a car for
03:25a ball they give me the a what are you looking for like a bentley or austin martin if anyone
03:30wants to
03:31go my way then like so can you find me one well i'll try find myself one first then i'll
03:37get you one
03:39wow okay god love the person coming in you should ask them that straight away
03:44all my friends hi i'm jack i'm 21 and i'm from kerry the low rider is a little higher boy
03:55racer or
03:57trusty pickup you be the judge from the first day's restaurant to find my new woman to find a bit
04:03of
04:03love it's a bit uh a bit exciting a bit exciting
04:09i could chat to a wall ah it's it's all the charm the charm is my biggest thing uh compliments
04:16first
04:16and then a bit of laughter and that always works hello how are you nice to meet you jack nice
04:23to
04:23meet you jack how are you yeah beautiful for you and you have success with that i like to think
04:32so
04:32but uh not often i wouldn't be i wouldn't be too busy on the old dating scene so it's that
04:38is what it
04:39is are you ready to do this ready to bring it to the bar your dick is at the bar
04:43yeah all right all right
04:46all right get your shit together let's enjoy i've met people before that have you know i've brought the
04:54confidence out and and i like that that's what i love make people happy and you know feel confident
04:59about themselves but i'd love to meet someone who's confident in themselves hi hi how are you
05:06jack nice to meet you it's nice to meet you what's your name sorry mim mim yeah jack
05:11i got you a little uh i would say definitely i am a tough cookie i am hard to impress
05:19definitely where you from i'm from clarney no way yeah who's up yeah i'm from clarney clarney's home
05:26me yeah right here what i'm just like castle island castle island just so safe yeah only down the
05:34road so how would you come up uh drove up i stayed in nice uh last night uh family yeah
05:40okay journey
05:41up is working my car to drive let's hear it wait no you go first now what do you drive
05:46i drive for flash
05:48oh no no i have a few i have a few a few i suppose i've gone into cars when
06:00i was about 11 or 12
06:02through my father and uh car collection has just grown okay let's hear them all i have a few japanese
06:07guys okay um but i date a bmw oh wow okay the pin is launch
06:26for old school romantic liam love is the gift that keeps on giving oh life could be a dream
06:35if i look to be you do happen for somebody you care about them you have interest in them
06:44you want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you welcome how's it going
06:49very
06:50good mr yourself great your name please name mateo nice to meet you liam nice how is everything
06:55everything is great yeah everything is great hopefully you'll get better yeah yeah yeah if the
07:01attraction is there initially great i'm not going to try and impress them purely to impress them as i
07:07used to do i like that there a bit of a gift there be nice to cuddle up to somebody
07:13at times just like
07:15the intimacy that'd be nice it's not for you i've actually stopped focusing on you i'm focusing on the
07:23chocolate chocolate chocolate yeah oh that's a decent box of chocolate as well is it oh god yeah absolutely
07:32chance though fair play to you smart as i said you can't eat flowers i got married in 86
07:38split up in 96 i was in another relationship after a few years for a few years
07:46and i have not been in any relationship since then listen at least you put yourself out there
07:51that's very number one yeah absolutely we see what happens we see what happens nothing stops esther
07:58putting herself out there certainly not the neighbors
08:04i'm 64 i'm not doing too bad like i wouldn't care to opens i go out into the back garden
08:10in my bikini
08:10if somebody's didn't want to look at me i couldn't care less
08:21i suppose i'm not the normal nanny yeah that's what they tell me i wouldn't like somebody to get
08:29their knickers in a knot over nothing no time for that life's too short
08:43but it doesn't define your night ahead oh i so didn't want to get that wrong i used to be
08:50very
08:50confident i think i need to get my confidence back no don't be but you're a gorgeous lady why would
08:56you be nervous oh why would you be nervous but he's gonna be nervous when you come there can i
09:01look
09:01around no he can't no be cool okay be cool be cool she's beautiful she's very beautiful yeah yeah
09:08they done well here they don't want they don't want i can't stop looking at your eyes
09:14blue same like yours oh my god no oh yours is so blue anyway i need to behave myself okay
09:21i think
09:22you're ready you do okay good yeah let's do it i suppose it'd be exciting i kind of like to
09:30get don't
09:31up you know you know and go out there and feel terrible esther you don't look half that all right
09:37hello hello hello hello how are you i'm good how are you great i'm liam how are you are you
09:44all right it's nice to see you look fantastic beautiful dress do you like chocolates i do
09:56oh my god i do indeed somebody kind of looks okay hair no hair whatever you know we're all getting
10:07a
10:08older here will you have a drink i surely will um a little bit of everything that you have one
10:14glass with
10:15about 12 straws i'll have a glass of wine that's what white red uh white please what are you having
10:25i just sparkly water oh yeah yeah that's a baby so how many siblings have you two sisters okay yourself
10:37i just have one older brother one older brother how old is he he's 22 we're just like a year
10:42and like
10:43nine months apart we would be close but we still do absolutely kill each other till this day and is
10:48he
10:48living with you yeah four of you in the house no my parents divorced so my parents got divorced when
10:54i was like maybe like eight or nine so it's just myself my mom my brother oh okay do you
11:00mind me
11:00else you should talk to that no i haven't spoken to him i'd say like five or six years that's
11:05mad yeah
11:06no like we live in the same town and everything like there's no hate no nothing we just don't talk
11:09yeah that's just the same you're the same it's great fact yeah i live with my dad okay so you
11:16haven't touched my mom in nine years okay and how old were you when they kind of got separated
11:22and stuff uh 12 well they separated i was very young uh i can't even remember it's probably a
11:28toddler like and i live with my mom until i was about 12 okay and then my father then when
11:34i was
11:3413. my father just he took me in he taught me everything you know i i was a proper little
11:41scumbag when
11:42i was younger like and uh oh it's just i'm happier way more respect for everything you know i feel
11:49like
11:49i'm a nice person though because of him and yeah he changed me 100 percent but my brother is still
11:56iron with him so it's uh it's his fault i am in the cars you know yeah i like her
12:01but i love it so
12:02was it just the two of you living at home just two of us yeah yeah that's not right
12:09are you divorced or are you passed or i'm divorced i'm married i was um i met my husband when
12:18i was
12:1915 yeah and we married when i was 18 and then we separated after 15 years yeah and it was
12:32a hard
12:32breakup yeah yeah yeah but we have the best relationship that's great at the end it didn't
12:39work out and it was a difficult breakup but all we had been doing was just trying to keep stuff
12:45together it wasn't working and we were doing it for the kids and i'll tell you i am so glad
12:52i'm married yeah yeah because i have two daughters yeah yeah yeah and i have grandchildren yeah yeah
12:59it's brilliant you get on so well now oh yeah yeah yeah he drives me bad he would not be
13:06with me
13:08for all the tea in china yeah yeah and i wouldn't be with him but you see the relationship you
13:13have is
13:14grateful yeah yeah yeah how about you is myself and my ex though we could hardly be in a separate
13:21oh oh yeah sure that happens yeah yeah introducing calvin from leash well that's one way to describe him
13:33and here's another okay just a basic old gay man that's all yeah
13:42i'm always the one doing the chasing usually i like i want to do like a full research
13:51i thought maybe if i take it out with my own hands it might make the situation a bit easier
13:58welcome hello how's everything i'm good thanks how are you when you get a little bit older you realize
14:03that love is not all rainbows and lollipops and fizzes in your tummy all right mister no it's about
14:11who's your lobster what's your name calvin nice to meet you nice to meet you calvin yeah like the
14:17county like the county you probably get that all the time do you where's that look it's a conversation
14:21starter isn't it yeah um my grandmother is from calvin okay and then there's everyone that calls me kevin
14:26and kelvin and calvin and gavin and i'm just like yeah no problem yeah call me tom if you if
14:31it makes you
14:31happy i don't know it just doesn't bother me where are you from uh leash strabelly oh i'm from
14:37duro very good fellow leash man yes tough isn't it dating's not that good though it's not no no no
14:44that's my why i'm standing here a few small kids as well so they keep me occupied how many kids
14:50have
14:51three how old are they so 13 11 and eight so you've only recently come out kind of really you're
14:58well like
14:58recent as uh like january 21 that's pretty recent
15:17how do you feel about the food or how do i feel inside
15:26i know the same then will be tea to come loose
15:32i'm fussy fussy i'm a fussy either yeah don't eat onions tomatoes peppers okay when i get pizza
15:39red onion is a must yeah but we can get a half and half
15:46in the grand scheme of things martin believes that size really matters i'm looking for love a big love
16:00i'm i'm very soft inside when i have a bad day i have a bad day if i want to
16:04cry i do cry so i like
16:06someone who's going to come and hug me and say everything's going to be okay instead of coming
16:10to me and say grow up you're a big man i like man kind of bigger maybe both maybe beard
16:18not skinny
16:22come and compose how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you too your name please martin martin
16:28spolski spolski how is everything good yeah stress a little bit just follow your instincts man they
16:35got you so far your date is at the bar oh really so i'm the on the second either pjma
16:43in a jma out
16:44breathe in breathe out i'm gonna be very shy at the start i'm actually even thinking don't bring me a
16:51very hot car hi hi hi how are you how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you
16:59how are you what's
17:00your name calvin calvin yes marching my nice nice to meet you love you you nervous i am a little
17:05bit
17:06well i was thinking like if i'm gonna sit down have a drink then it's gonna be okay you know
17:09yeah
17:09it'll be fine where are you coming from i live in dublin okay i live in in sugar but i'm
17:15from poland
17:16okay originally i live here 20 years very good where are you from uh leash leash never been leash
17:21yeah i don't even know actually where it is well it's like right in the middle i feed off vibes
17:27and look even if it's not somebody that i match with i mean let's have dinner and have a drink
17:34and have
17:35a laugh uh tell me your name sorry calvin calvin one more time i'm sorry i'm so that's okay don't
17:41be
17:49stressed and so
17:57enjoy your job i do i kind of fell into it when i was like 17 i was like christmas
18:02style
18:02so i started working in pharmacy when i slowly made my way up sometimes it can be stressful but at
18:07the
18:07most times i do like interacting with people from all types of backgrounds did you go to college or
18:11no no no that's straight for it yeah same as myself okay yeah yeah yeah so i built wind turbines
18:17because
18:18we go into the back ass of nowhere what i do is i take them down and put them back
18:24up right so those
18:26big windmills the big windmills right this week now i got thrown in tipperary the week okay
18:31live the traces like staying overnight i'm coming back every day okay and where do you usually
18:35stayed i'm on my own so i'll just stay away there's no pain going home if i had a reason
18:40to go home i go
18:40home i love the lads you know it's like a second family the views as well when you're working like
18:47go up
18:48there two o'clock in the morning and then you hit the sunset at five or six in the morning
18:52it's beautiful
18:54so how long have you been doing that then i think two years now okay what age are you 21
19:00yeah when's
19:01your birthday september i'm 20 i'll be 21 like a week and a half on the 13th she's not gonna
19:09get
19:09caught for birthday present so i'm like okay oh wow so i have your steak oh thank you
19:24and the chicken supreme lovely thank you another good choice enjoy thank you i'd like to be somebody
19:31with similar values as myself i believe happiness is be grateful for what we have instead of being
19:37miserable about what we haven't got so what do you do then um for the pleasure enjoyment are you like
19:48me
19:48you do you do all
19:51i do it i get annoyed myself and i didn't do something
19:54i'm so walking yeah i'm doing a good bit of walking lately because i've booked the camino
20:01and you have not oh yeah my life only started when i gave up drinking
20:07it'll be 20 years ago this year since i gave it up and it's the best thing i ever did
20:11in my life
20:12my greatest achievement no i don't do the whole lot of it why it's too long i wasn't happy i
20:24wasn't
20:24happy it was fair from happy and i used to go to the pub for three or four points and
20:30that was the
20:32story of my life but i never left after three or four points have you ever done it i have
20:36not and i
20:37never will i'll be second taken off you must be joking me relationships when i was younger people
20:46i grew up with people women and it wouldn't last long and they'd all tell me i'm a lovely person
20:52but
20:52they never told me the bush but i am convinced now that both was i was an alcoholic
20:59something i want to do i'm totally on my own i think i never really went anywhere without people
21:04before there was somebody with me or whatever and it's meant to be a spiritual kind of journey
21:10yeah it's how to become for his own totally you know but it's something a challenge well done you
21:18i haven't done it yet it doesn't matter when i got married i found a girl that loved me
21:26and i was afraid to let her go because i believed nobody else is going to love me
21:33and that's part of the reason i married that girl
21:37you know i'm so insecure in myself and that i put all that down to alcoholism
21:45i've learned to be comfortable on my own be happy yeah yeah i'm content i've learned to like myself
21:52i think i never liked myself too much but since i've been on my own i've learned to like
21:58myself that i'm not that part of hers really believe it or not i'll give you a reward
22:12my sister with me she lives with me now oh i brought her here uh two years ago good good
22:18you have a nice siblings i have um two brothers and a sister yeah who is the oldest i'm the
22:24oldest you're
22:25the oldest oh you're taking care of everything yeah yeah um i'm not nervous about being rejected but
22:31sometimes people are not willing to date um men that have uh kids and that's fine that's on them
22:38but i feel like it's not something that i need to declare but then sometimes they're a bit shocked
22:43like oh you didn't say you had kids i'm like well did i need to um so i also have
22:50um three kids
22:51you have three kids yeah so they keep me busy too nice to hear yeah yeah um do you like
22:57kids or i do
22:58like kids and i have son as well do you yes wow that's the another reason i came to ireland
23:03yeah is
23:04he here yes and how old is he uh he's 21 years old right now he lives in leeson varna
23:10okay so after
23:13one year when i got the job and everything and i was feeling safe yeah i brought his mother and
23:19him
23:20and does she still live in this environment still there with him we've been friends forever and we still
23:25not love each other i can't say love each other but like you know what i mean like we've been
23:29in
23:29this together let's say you know what i mean yeah so uh i have one song you know but you
23:34have three
23:35like so you have fun yeah they're they're they're great kids i want to know more um they're they're
23:41they're the love of my life yeah we have a lot of fun uh so when i do when i
23:46see them i really make
23:47the most and we do stuff but then like i won't lie i get really lonely then when they leave
23:54and i don't want it to be just me
24:06what would you say you're looking for then what am i looking for yeah it's a cool question that yeah
24:13um
24:18uh i'm just looking for someone someone i can like uh be around you know like put the foot life
24:26and forth i don't know i get a bit serious like okay i'll put it on too go
24:32no i'm looking for someone i can come home to do you know what i mean yeah when i'm working
24:36or something
24:37yeah yeah so i want someone to give money free time to and look after them like i know what
24:42i want
24:42and when i do find someone who has everything i want i'll go for it until then i won't like
24:48what are
24:48your interests like clothes so you like dressing up and you look lovely so i'll give you that one i'd
24:55say
24:55people think right off the bat that i'm like so like self-obsessed and just like a bitch really but
25:01like like once you get to know me people do think i'm lovely well you look after yourself that's the
25:06main
25:06thing that's lovely yeah like i like to look done up every day yeah like i wake up at 5
25:1045 most
25:11mornings i start work at like half seven so i like to have like my hair and makeup done for
25:16like
25:16half seven in the morning so you wake up just under two hours before work to get ready yeah i
25:23gotta
25:24look perfect every day yeah i think i drive you mad do you wash your face in the morning
25:29don't even answer it i don't know i don't want to hear it anymore ew i'm hardy like
25:37i'll tell you auntie now i will come back here tomorrow for that steak it's lovely sweet cheese
25:42so it's gorgeous and the pepper sauce sorry my teeth i don't want to lose here
25:49don't worry about it i have that problem as well don't worry about it you're grand
25:57what's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on we met and we had dinner which was quite nice and
26:03it
26:03was lovely and he said can i give you a kiss and i said yeah okay i said we'll have
26:08to buy him dinner
26:08or whatever i'll have to give him a kiss if i'm at home now they come out i don't have
26:12to be what
26:13i won't care you obviously wear it but but when i'm at home they come out oh i would not
26:19would you not
26:20i would not he kissed me and he says to me i have a present for you in the car
26:29and he went did he come out with a bag of fish
26:36do you not use fixing it i do it doesn't when you start eating it seems to come loose
26:41top or bottom top really yeah yeah yeah maybe i'm doing something wrong no you're not used enough
26:50i said god are the days of the military and roses i'm begging back a fish
26:57if you'll excuse me i'm going to live and take them back
27:13how does a penguin build a house
27:16he glues it together
27:19why do the norwegians put barcodes on their ships so when they dock they can scandinavian
27:27did you hear about the cheese factory that exploded in france the brie was everywhere
27:35will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian it's all in the delivery
27:41hey how's
27:42it gone man with a gift absolutely 100 percent has the best area well well i've never dated in
27:50secondary school i just didn't feel like anybody like me that sounded really bad i felt like i had
27:57no flirting game whatsoever how do you feel buddy i'm a little nervous but like i think they're good
28:02nerves as i've grown up a bit i've kind of become more confident in myself and uh just trying to
28:07put
28:08myself out there a little bit now you know and what's your regular type or do you have a type
28:12that's a great question i don't necessarily have like a particular type um just somebody who i can
28:17just get on with it's a bit of a offer like someone who loves to talk maybe someone who shares
28:21the
28:21same obsession for football as i do you know ah yes the beautiful game until that is cuiva starts
28:29handing out red cards since 2022 i have been compiling like an ik list someone who doesn't like garlic
28:37dip now that's a strong one malibu and milk being your choice to drink on a night out apparently it's
28:44like called a malib moo or something
28:49i bet you're proud of yourself now you didn't do it properly that's like the scariest part
28:53hey hey hey hey how are you how are you i'm cuiva cuiva what's that nice to meet you well
28:57look at
28:58yourself yeah girl you look you look lovely thank you so much he's gonna be very nervous when he sees
29:04you
29:04so what kind of person then are you looking to meet tall handsome family orientated a kind
29:14considerate person but also is willing to listen to me yeah he's looking over there in a mirror so he's
29:21getting nervous let's go there enjoy it okay all right hey how are you how are you all good i'm
29:30believe i'm watching will i'm happy to meet you i got you some chocolates oh that's so sweet you're
29:37very welcome no worries at all is there anything that you definitely want to find out about them oh
29:41that's a great question uh their football alliance i go back and forth to the uk quite a bit for
29:47football
29:47matches just like different areas okay now who do you support because this is going to be like a
29:51deal breaker now is it oh my goodness so i'm a chelsea fan okay it's not too bad who do
29:57you support
29:58liverpool that's actually okay yeah like that's if you said like united right yeah if you said spurs
30:10how old are you how old are you how old are you how do you think i'm 40 you're 40
30:13i'm 39 39 yeah
30:15you're behind the corner yeah just about exactly and the sir light steak oh brilliant thank you so thank you
30:23so much do you feel bad that you're getting old older like it's funny like i feel um i feel
30:31a lot better
30:32now i feel like i look better and i feel a lot more confident because i think i'm a bit
30:38more me now
30:39i'm so happy to be 40 and sometimes i even think like if i'm gonna be 45 i'm gonna be
30:44even better than
30:44that to be 50 i'm gonna be like on the top of the world like people used to say oh
30:50i wish i'll be younger
30:51i would like to go back to being 30 never i think i was so stupid i was 30 years
30:56old well not the same
30:58like i think my priorities were different like for my 20s and for a lot of for half of my
31:0530s i feel
31:07like i just i had my head down i was married i was trying to raise babies you know i
31:14just didn't have
31:14time to think about anything but i i definitely know more now than i did when i was in my
31:2230s i had
31:24my situation is a little bit easier i would say because when my son's mother got pregnant she knew
31:33that i'm gay right oh i told her that i don't want to be gay please take it away from
31:38right i have to be
31:40honest i was so in love with her i was we were together for like four years and i was
31:46i got very
31:46protective about her yeah i loved her to bits okay as a human you know what i mean you you
31:55need to kind
31:55of learn from your mistakes and and grow you don't trust the mistakes you learn those mistakes for the
32:00reason you know it brought you here you know
32:09how are you would you like sour sweets now sour sweets yeah no one gets sweetened on chocolate sweet
32:20right we'll say it movie night bang right what are we getting like a pack of fingers i can inhale
32:27a
32:27pack of fingers i feel like that's luxury then i've never had the fingers fingers like a pack of cadbury
32:33fingers right then we're gonna have a pack of cadbury fingers yeah lovely she's gorgeous you were
32:41nervous well yeah nervous and i don't get nervous um no she uh but she she brought it out of
32:47me she
32:48brought it out of me like i'd say it kind of more go for like crisps than popcorn geez what
32:55do we have
32:57opposites do attract it's uh i'd say the biggest problem is not deciding if i want to go on a
33:02second
33:02day but deciding what to do on the second days are you happy you came oh yeah yeah deadly yeah
33:08yourself
33:09oh no no no you can't really write no i didn't grow my eyes oh i didn't would you like
33:15to see each
33:15other again romantically thank you so much for that yeah go on okay three two one yeah yeah yeah
33:25yeah yeah you're very like humbled and like down to you're like the opposite of me whereas i'm like very
33:42jumpy and like intimidating whereas you're more like no one's here i feel like you're an honest
33:47person i feel like you'd be good at communicating now yeah yeah that's really nice what does it say
33:54beautiful for you don't look at the label don't look at i am wait till you get home stay with
33:58me forever
34:01you guys fancy each other yeah yeah he's lovely he did win my heart over like he's so much time
34:12for
34:12people and stuff like and like the main thing is really finding someone who has time for someone hello how
34:18are
34:19you how are you how are we getting on
34:37could i have a glass of wine please of course white wine all good absolutely gorgeous brilliant and how's
34:47the company yeah he's a lovely man yeah like it was so sweet he brought my chocolates it can be
34:56something that will lead to something else yeah which you can yeah i do in teaching in college oh wow
35:06yeah secondary school i love that do you i've always wanted to be a teacher like i was like when
35:12i was
35:12like five and because my mom works in a school yeah she's like bring home like little like stamps and
35:17stuff i love and i used to like always pretend to play school i qualified as an s and a
35:22there oh my
35:22god did you my mom's an s and a stop yeah no way yes yes what got you to do
35:28s and a i do um like
35:30voluntary work uh with barrettstown oh my god so um yeah then kind of that led me to doing like
35:37the
35:37special needs kind of yeah but like i don't do it per se i just have the qualification still trying
35:43to
35:43find my feet do you know that way like i think that's the same way everybody around my age it's
35:46like you're still trying to find out what you really are passionate about you know i applied actually
35:51for a firefighter paramedic a couple of days ago so see how that goes that could be another route as
35:57well you know what do you do in your spare time it's a great question what do i do in
36:01my spare time
36:02um hanging out with mates obviously the boys um the boys the boys yeah the boys the lads definitely
36:09feel like i'm better in person i'm shocking at texting for the life of me like i can't text at
36:14all
36:15like i love just going for like ice cream or something like with the girls i love a sweet treat
36:18yeah at easter i love mini eggs mini eggs are like my you're like do not say you don't like
36:25them i love
36:25mini eggs okay i thought you're gonna say you don't like so at easter i stockpile stop no we're the
36:31same person i do the exact same exact same yeah i'd rather it be like you swiped and then all
36:39of a
36:39sudden they're right in front of you and you're on the day right there and then because then you actually
36:42get to know the person you know what is your favorite food that's a great question i love a bit
36:47of coleslaw do you yeah would you have on everything now if i'm making like a toastie or something
36:51i thought you were going to say like you get a spoon and eat it i was like no no
36:54no i wouldn't
36:55just get a top of coleslaw slamming in front of me instead of a spoon and earn it to my
36:58mouth like
36:59stop that's sick ew i'm just imagining you
37:09you know what you want i don't know i haven't been looking at it to be i just was lost
37:13in the
37:13conversation in the moment to be honest take as long as you need can we have one more minute is
37:19that okay
37:19yeah yeah of course you can have as long as you need thank you thank you thank you great conversation
37:23you're interrupting actually sorry sorry and so what made you come to dublin then uh i was looking
37:30for life right and i want to have some kind of gay scene as well yeah which i never seen
37:36before
37:37did you go outside on the scene much very no very shy so i was trying and trying and trying
37:42but still
37:42very shy are you going like like the gay yeah like i i'm i'm still relatively new to this
37:48um i used to go to the bar beside the george yeah i could hear the fun inside but i
37:56was too nervous to
37:57go in there by myself i always had to be a little bit drunk to walk in and stuff you
38:02know especially
38:02panty back because you know how you walk in yeah it's a bit don't all eyes on you yeah you
38:07know what
38:08i mean it's like a walk yeah you know i couldn't live my life in poland as a gay person
38:14so that was the
38:15first main reason why i left the place i i lived you know it was like a gangs everywhere drugs
38:22everywhere everybody expect for me to prove what a man are you you know everybody would fight with
38:28you and everything and i was none of that and i was pretending to be someone else for a long
38:34time
38:34and it was painful to hide how soft i was inside i had to become you know so i was
38:42like i'm doing all
38:43of these bad things and everything but inside me i was terrifying okay you know every day was a
38:48challenge for me just because i was scared that if they will see that softness inside me i'm gonna
38:53be in trouble so then after work after school and i was going back home and there was nobody at
38:59home
38:59closing the door and britney spears straight away yeah hit me baby one more time
39:10oh my god what was i saying there i don't care what you were saying i'm just eating it bloody
39:17raspberry you don't like them i know beautiful you have people out there over there and i said i want
39:25whatever she's having yeah so sorry she's a lovey lovey woman good crack
39:34don't crack don't crack are you driving i am not where do you have to um i have to get
39:41the lewis
39:42from here yeah to bus iris and then i get a bus i'll escort you back to bus iris if
39:50you want
39:50that'd be great because i'd like to get the lewis as well so that'd be great yeah yeah i'd appreciate
39:56that
39:57there was a little something there you know but they like did they i wouldn't give up on the
40:03romantic bit thank you thank you and everything was lovely thank you oh it was just perfect i'm so
40:12happy to hear that would you guys like to see each other romantically again i'm not answering
40:20i'd like to see esther again i'm 50 50 on the romantic bit but if i don't mean any offense
40:26to that in
40:27any way same yeah yeah that's good yeah no i would like to see you again good good i think
40:36he's a lovely
40:37guy you know i am yeah oh are you so thank you again so much thank you oh thank you
40:49thanks all right
40:50bye now thank you you think if you were to have a friendship meetup what would you do
40:57we discussed that on the lewis specs of the service
41:16last year i went to three times haven't been this year yet need to go i try and get there
41:21at least
41:21once every season i try and get over the stanford bridge at least once did your family like kind of
41:25bring you up into like in football or is that something that you that was my granddad gone kind
41:31of five years now but like that memory but having those memories of being able to go there with them
41:36i do find it emotional my mom like she'd be one of my best friends like i could tell her
41:41anything
41:41really that's why i love and she's never judged me like like she definitely she would be like
41:45my role model she's someone i look up to really yeah that's lovely that's so nice i love my family
41:52my mom is like my best friend my mom got sick when i was young that was definitely a bit
41:57of a oof
41:58then she got sick again and then we're like okay i remember as well the second time me and my
42:04brother
42:04moved in with my nanny and it was my birthday and she just got chemo so i couldn't spend it
42:09with her
42:10i couldn't even give her a hug and i suppose like i think that's maybe why i love birthdays so
42:15much
42:15now because i missed that one little birthday do you have many siblings just the one brother oh he's
42:21older than me oh yeah yeah we're chill that's class but we're very different really he's so introverted
42:28i'm so extroverted really yeah yeah my dad brother they used to watch matches when i was younger i was
42:34like turn that off like i want to watch telly but now then since i've got like an interest in
42:39that
42:39we've become closer as well what's your dream date dream date that's a great question it really
42:46depends i suppose like for me ideally like i'd love to do like an activity date so it's like you
42:51go bowling or you go play a couple games of pool or something and then like maybe go for something
42:55to eat after what about you what's like your dream date my top top date yeah going to a match
42:59going to a match all right yeah that is that like that would be like top of my list i
43:05mean that's
43:05second date sorted now but all right like are you coming to anfield or am i going to have to
43:09like
43:10i mean because they're off at daily room park and watch the balls first and then
43:13and then go there yeah you're going to introduce me to the league of ireland yeah
43:25thank you so much it looks sexy and the chocolate heart enjoy thank you so much thank you
43:33no where do you like to holiday uh usually every year i'm going to gran canaria i went most recently
43:43in may or april and the the second one is um citrus i was just about to say like you
43:53would go there and
43:54you have old dublin standing in front of you yeah i'm going to stitches in september are you yeah me
43:59too
43:59really i am yeah for bear week yes we're so basic aren't we what is your like more far away
44:11place
44:12we've ever been i've been to canada to uh play rugby you play rugby yeah i didn't really show me
44:19your
44:19tights i like the way i look i think i've done the best with what i have you look good
44:26you look you have
44:26a good shape thank you i like your tattoos thank you bus somebody could be hitting on me and i
44:33am
44:34completely oblivious thank you i'm just like wasn't that a really nice person to go up and chat to me
44:42okay bye would you like no sorry thank you i should have asked you
44:55it's absolutely pleasure i have to tell her to meet you oh thank you so much it's been a total
45:01pleasure to meet the two of you too thank you
45:07so moment of truth yeah would you like to see each other again romantically
45:14you you want to go first or will i go first i can go first okay uh yes yes i
45:21would like to see you
45:22again okay um for me not romantically i hope that's okay yeah how has everything been overall it was
45:31lovely yeah good food yeah right good company yeah you're a great guy yeah i really enjoyed speaking
45:37with you your handsome guy so it was it was really enjoyable yeah i suppose i just didn't feel a
45:43spark
45:43yeah yeah thanks again so thank you i was kind of pretty sure you would say no ah but i
45:51was still
45:51wanted to say uh yes i do like him and i would definitely want to meet you megan but it's
46:01like
46:01i don't feel devastated or hard by that you know what i mean it's fine
46:13it's going really well yeah i think it's going well from my perspective anyway i think it's going
46:18really well excellent she's lovely she's honestly she's gorgeous girl the moment she walked in i was
46:23like yeah definitely it's definitely been the easiest day i've ever had like it's just been so smooth
46:30like you know that way so you're a happy man i'm very happy man yeah but game face on absolutely
46:34yeah
46:34yeah yeah play it cool now thank you thank you i've never been with a girl that's kind of been
46:39as much
46:40as my type as she has conversation was just so natural she was just such a yapper which i love
46:46humor as well which is always good just so nice just such a wonderful person like you know that way
46:55but uh where where were we where were we that's a great question hello hi
47:06i'm going to get this no no no no please no no no we can split it's okay no let
47:11me get this honestly
47:12no you don't have to but i want to please let me get this
47:20would you two like to see each other again romantically ladies first
47:28yes i would yes i would
47:33thank you so much thank you bye
47:37i had a ball good vibes from the onset i felt very comfortable he's very cute
47:48mini eggs as well that's a huge huge plus for me i'd share a bag of mini eggs with you
47:53i would as well
47:58where will the second day be a balls match
48:01okay oh yes for you to go watch the balls you're gonna bring me to anfield now then
48:05of course i am we'll do the stadium tour i've already done the stadium tour
48:10what no there you you kept this quiet something to talk about now
48:18because you guys had great crack yeah absolutely enjoy one yeah yeah it was yeah i think so
48:24and i don't know what it all means but since i survived i realized are you gonna bring him on
48:34a hot girl walk
48:35two gum two airpods these ones will be free and walk straight a bit of music going what she said
48:42so i'm gonna love you every night like it's the last night like it's the last night
48:48if the world was ending i'd want to be next to you
48:58do you want to maybe go and like go for a drink maybe afterwards yes
49:01john yes
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