00:00I often question the very concept of the double bed itself.
00:03Why must there be this kind of a compulsion to sleep together?
00:08Meet when the weather is fine.
00:10Otherwise, you have your life to live and you have your own room to live.
00:14Even being in the same house,
00:16why should make it a compulsion to continuously snore by the other side?
00:23And who likes that?
00:24Nobody can enjoy that.
00:26But that has become some kind of an institution.
00:28The double bed is an institution and just habitually and compulsorily, sleeping together is a ritual.
00:34When that will happen, then marriage is nothing but a burden.
00:40See, the only genuine relationship two human beings can have,
00:44irrespective of gender or whatever, is friendship.
00:47Let's face it, apart from friendship, no relationship can have deep foundations.
00:53The thing will be shaky, the thing will be seasonal.
00:56And friends give ample room to each other.
01:01They are available, right?
01:03But not dominant.
01:04Yes, I am available.
01:05But I am not omnipresent.
01:07We want to play gods and goddesses to our people, our partners.
01:12We want to be omnipresent for them, right?
01:14Carry me as your wallpaper.
01:16I mean, everything.
01:18Everything.
01:18Let's eat together.
01:20This, that.
01:21Spend quality time with each other and then leave each other free, both physically and psychologically.
01:27Don't demand or expect that you would be present in the other's mind all the time.
01:32Let there be well-defined limits.
01:34Spend quality time with just one Force.
01:35Spend quality time with each other.
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