00:00When you demand commitment from your husband or wife or kids or boyfriend or
00:05girlfriend, you are demanding something impossible. Even if that person wants to,
00:10he or she cannot be committed. The problem is structural. With somebody at
00:18your own level or at a level lower than you, you can have at most a deal, an
00:24exchange, a limited agreement of providing each other some kind of
00:29assurance or service. That much is possible. But if you want commitment, which in
00:34popular words is called loyalty, you are demanding the impossible. Your husband or
00:38wife cannot be committed to you. It's impossible. Therefore, don't be
00:42heartbroken and don't try to break into his or her phone. It's already certain what
00:46you will find there. So, let the drama continue.
00:52Commitment is another thing altogether. Commitment is possible only, only to
01:00something high, at least higher than yourself.
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