00:00You know, one day you're going to realize that the same person doesn't come around twice in a lifetime, and
00:05by then, they might be gone.
00:08We live in a world that moves extremely fast, a world that tells you, just find someone new.
00:14There's always another one.
00:15But here's a truth that most people don't want to admit.
00:18Not everyone is replaceable.
00:20Some people come into your life and connect with your soul in a way that no one else ever will.
00:26And when you lose them, that space that they used to fill, it stays empty.
00:31You're going to look for them in other people, in smiles, in laughs, in hugs, and it just doesn't feel
00:36quite right that they won't be there.
00:38Because that kind of connection, it was once in a lifetime.
00:43We hurt the people that are closest to us.
00:46Not always on purpose, but with neglect, with pride, with silence.
00:51And we assume.
00:53We assume that there'll be time to fix it.
00:56Here's how you can tell the difference between a man who is healthy and a man that's toxic.
01:01The man that's healthy is looking to be of service.
01:04The man that's toxic is looking to be served.
01:08So, if I am a man that's only looking to be served, I'm not going to see you.
01:15Because I'm only going to see you through the lens of how you service me.
01:19If I'm looking to serve and be of service, then I'm going to see you.
01:25What's your need?
01:26What's your thoughts?
01:28What are your dreams?
01:29What are your hopes?
01:30What do you want to do?
01:31How do you want to do it?
01:32Well, why do you think that?
01:33Why do you feel that?
01:34Oh, wow.
01:35You put some lashes on today.
01:36Oh, okay.
01:37You got some extensions in.
01:38Like, because I'm looking to be of service.
01:41So, I'm actually evaluating what's in front of me and identifying how I can make a benefit
01:45or make a contribution versus looking at it from like, what's in it for me?
01:50See people as they are, not as how you'd like them to be.
01:55You can't break a person who isn't afraid to eat alone.
01:58Who isn't afraid to be rejected.
02:00Who isn't afraid to lose friends in the process.
02:03Because that person has already faced the silence.
02:06They've already sat with loneliness.
02:08They've already learned how to clap for themselves.
02:11You can't bring down someone who stopped waiting for validation.
02:15Who turned their pain into power.
02:17Who turned their wounds into wisdom.
02:18That kind of person is held up by something stronger than applause.
02:22They're fueled by something even greater.
02:24Self-love.
02:25And once you learn to stand on your own, they can try to push you, but you won't fall.
02:31If you can't take care of yourself, you can't take care of anyone else.
02:37Don't borrow anything you can't afford to replace.
02:42Trust is built over the life of a relationship.
02:46But can be lost in an instant.
02:48If you're not careful, protect and defend those that are incapable of doing it themselves.
02:57If you're interested in a girl, see what her mother looks like.
03:01That's how she will turn out after marriage.
03:05Brush your teeth before you put on your tie.
03:22And if your word ever loses that value, it will be hard to get it back.
03:28The world owes you nothing.
03:31It's too big and has too much going on to care about you.
03:36Nothing is ever as easy as it seems.
03:39Always go out into public dressed, like you're about to meet the love of your life.
03:46Women fall in love with what they hear.
03:49Men fall in love with what they see.
03:52That's why women wear makeup and men lie.
03:57Don't let emotions affect your life.
04:00No matter if those emotions are your own or someone else's.
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