00:00We are a couple since almost eight years already and we're gonna have a baby really soon.
00:05I personally like to share my pregnancy journey but I don't wanna share any details about my baby
00:13because unfortunately we get a lot of online harassment.
00:18Why you didn't use protection for baby? How will it accept you as a mom?
00:23I got a message from a guy. I pray your baby. I'm a really, really sensitive person. I just want
00:31to protect my baby.
00:34I think this little beer hat is so cute. I think it's a bear. Ah, bear. Yeah, not beer.
00:42I'm Jessie Bunny. I'm 24 years old. I'm Diana. I'm 25 years old. And we're gonna have a baby really
00:50soon.
00:53I always wanted to become a young mom. I always wanted to have kids so I was really happy when
01:01I got pregnant really quick.
01:05I would love to have like three or four kids but let's see how the first one is going.
01:10I think I will have a more gentle parenting style.
01:14Honestly, I just want to be a loving mom and just give the kids support.
01:20Yeah, I'll think the same. I think it's important for me to give the child room for self-development.
01:27I wouldn't force my child getting their sick surgeries.
01:30No. They should just go their way and find their way in life.
01:35Something that's really important for me is that my child becomes a good human.
01:40That it's a kind person, a caring person and a person with an open heart.
01:46You're gonna be a really great mom.
01:48Thank you, you too.
01:50I was 17 when we met so there was not a lot of dating before.
01:54Jessie is my first girlfriend and hope the last.
01:58Awww.
01:58We met with our s**ts. We both have been flat.
02:01Vienna was not transitioned for this time and I had a double A cup.
02:06I figured out during Covid that I am trans.
02:10One day Vienna said like, hey, she's not feeling happy. And then she came out as trans. And then
02:16everything went really quick. Within half a year, you've been a completely new person.
02:21I know we look different than other people, but we are a completely usual couple. We are in a
02:27relationship for almost eight years. It was just a question of time.
02:31Our family reacted really good that we're gonna have a baby. It's the first grand baby on
02:36all the sides of the family.
02:38The only hate and harmful comments we got have been online.
02:41I personally like to share my pregnancy journey, but I don't wanna share any details about my baby
02:49that's gonna stay private. Because unfortunately we get a lot of online harassment.
02:55We also got really disgusting comments about a refugee s**t or an unborn child.
03:02I got so many messages when I announced I'm pregnant. One time I got a message from a guy,
03:08I pray your baby s**t so I can make you pregnant after. It was so disgusting. I just want to
03:15protect
03:15my baby from all these internet creeps I have to say, unfortunately.
03:20Are you pregnant in the story or your kids? Why? You didn't use protection.
03:27Baby went upstairs. Poor baby. How will it accept you as a mom?
03:33You desperately need to fix your s**t cheeks. They are gross looking like cottage cheese.
03:41Should have fixed the s**t before getting pregnant.
03:44The body is changing and that's okay. I don't think something you should do is
03:50writing a pregnant woman to getting her s**t cheeks. Then we also have some friendly comments like
03:56Looking good mama. The most attractive you have ever been.
04:01That's a comment that makes me happy. People always comment like, oh, your baby is gonna have
04:07problems during pregnancy. What s**t? And I was really worried about that honestly. And then we talked about
04:14my doctor about this and she just lost. And told me, no, we don't need to worry about that.
04:21In online generally, they know everything better, even there. I watched a YouTube video and now I'm an
04:26expert on plastic surgery. This should be illegal. I understand if it would be a health risk, everything,
04:33but as long as it is just me wishing for my body how to look, I don't think it should
04:39be illegal.
04:40When we are meeting people in real life, maybe at first people are a little surprised by our looks.
04:46Every time people start talking to us, they figure out that even if we look extreme, we are a lovely
04:54couple.
04:54I think that's more like an online thing or people who just know us from online that say,
04:59just see how we look like. And of course, because of that, they judge us. You can have 100 positive,
05:08friendly comments and then you can have two bad, mean comments and then you're just focusing on the
05:13bad and mean comments. Some people just want to get rid of their own frustration. I'm a really,
05:20really sensitive person and sometimes it's really hard. They also cried a few times because of comments.
05:26So I try to focus on the positive comments. And for me, like the bad comments are mostly funny because
05:36for example, they call me like a fish that is cleaning the windows and I think that's really,
05:42that's really a cute fish. I like the fish. Or also call me a duck and I like ducks. And
05:48so it's not
05:49really insulting for me. People think it's okay to attack us because of our plastic look. And I think
05:57that's a problem. These hate comments also in the long term made us stronger in our relationship.
06:03People always ask me if I got too far. I know I look extreme, but look at me. What extreme
06:11features
06:11do I have right now? My . I like how it makes me look, but it's not that I couldn't
06:16live without
06:16the big . I'm not living for everybody. I'm living for myself. I think I'm not too extreme. I want
06:22to go
06:23even more extreme. And I think what I really like about getting plastic surgery is that it gives me
06:29the opportunity to change my body into shapes that wouldn't be possible like 50 years ago. And so I can
06:37become the person I want to be and don't have to rely on like genetics or anything like that.
06:45Without Jessie, I think I wouldn't have started the whole transition process. Her support was like
06:51everything that decided everything for me. And I wouldn't have any thought. That's something
06:56that changed so much for me. And also I think you made me a better person, so.
07:02Aww, I love you. I love you too. You're like my best friend.
07:08And we do everything together and are still not annoyed of each other.
07:13We have a lot of people who judge us. They should look at themselves because I really think that every
07:21person has something that they want to change on themselves or that makes them unhappy. And just
07:27because we change these things doesn't make us bad persons. People who are judging my mommy are evil
07:33and they should leave. That's his opinion.
08:01my brother.
08:02And we're just gonna try to overcome that whole thing.
08:02You know, we have no one.
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