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00:00:12You
00:00:16Best defender I've seen in a minute don't do tricks. I don't know. That's not a trick. That's normal
00:00:25Look at you
00:00:30I get so scared
00:00:38Yeah, our marriage license is easy peasy
00:00:49Here comes the spin now you can take her nice up turn out that was beautiful
00:00:56And then just together. Oh, yeah, I like it
00:01:00Let's fall in love
00:01:01Oh
00:01:02Oh, did you get me flowers? I did
00:01:20Oh
00:01:22God
00:01:24Thank you. Of course. So today we are as you can hear
00:01:31They love to show off. I love that got a nice dinner plans final date before the weddings kind of
00:01:37crazy
00:01:39Meeting your fam
00:01:41I was like one of the best nights of my life
00:01:42How Tina and Brandon opened up their home like he wanted to share his bourbon collection and like Tina's like
00:01:47go upstairs and we have fresh towels
00:01:48We have this and we have that it's like
00:01:51How they showed up for us in that moment is how I expect like us to show up for others
00:01:57to as a household
00:01:58You want someone to feel at home in your home
00:02:01It's so important to me to like create a home like that same
00:02:07So a g-man I try to call mr. McNeese I
00:02:11Knew he was gonna be like oh my gosh. I have to come in like
00:02:16The iron fist of like breeze dad and like my baby girl is getting married like I need to be
00:02:22so critical
00:02:24I
00:02:24You're cheesing like are you laughing at me? Are you happy?
00:02:28I'm so like it's just like so weird for me. I'm like being so honest
00:02:31I feel like weirdly me and him are like a lot more like than
00:02:36Either must whatever you maybe admit even just a little mannerisms. It's like slightly look over make sure like you're
00:02:42good and just like always
00:02:44Hold the door paying for stuff. I don't know. I feel like
00:02:48He can see me as a normal guy. It was just really nice. We just kept
00:02:52Talking about stuff and he's like oh, she'll do that. Yep. Oh
00:02:56You already know that and I think you just said at one point is like I trust you kids like
00:03:00even like when we were leaving
00:03:01He's like well might need to get a tux or something here soon, don't we?
00:03:04I do know what I want and I was I wanted it to be us
00:03:08You are just like a boss bitch
00:03:10And you do what you want when you want and the fact that you can choose me everyday
00:03:15Makes me even feel confident more about myself
00:03:18Because like I am like I know what I want
00:03:20You have so much in your plate
00:03:21You know what you want
00:03:21And like so like you're like I want this man so like that makes you feel like hell yeah she
00:03:25wants me
00:03:26Yeah, it does
00:03:27That's interesting
00:03:28Because like you are not getting the best of me
00:03:31Like I'm not myself right now
00:03:33And it's crazy that you're falling in love with this part of me because like this is not my best
00:03:37self
00:03:37There's gonna be some days where you need your resets that believe me
00:03:43I won't
00:03:45Ever take offense to it
00:03:46You're grinding your ass off going to work and I can just see
00:03:50Obviously and just feel some of the stresses that you've been under but you
00:03:54Even if you come home like tired exhausted you still at least like give me a hug, give me a
00:03:58kiss, at least a little smile
00:04:00I think even on some of my worst days
00:04:02You know how to talk to me
00:04:04The moments that I have
00:04:07I've needed you you've been there
00:04:09And that means like the world to me
00:04:11I feel like I even fall in love with you like more and more each day
00:04:15Stop, okay
00:04:19Like each night we get to go to sleep and I'm just like this is awesome
00:04:23Each time I wake up even though you're like I need you to get me up earlier
00:04:27Those five minutes in the morning when we finally let me cuddle you because you wanted to be away from
00:04:32me all night
00:04:33Not that
00:04:33Not all night, ayo
00:04:35But um, it's just like those little moments I'm like, feels like a forever thing
00:04:41I know you're gonna be a good mom
00:04:42And especially since we're dreamers, that's all I'm thinking about right now
00:04:44And I'm just like, yeah, our little left footed midfielder playing well
00:04:49And you on the sidelines cheering them on
00:04:54All lists are endless
00:04:55If it's a six hour train ride, I can feel the time of why you'd be a good wife
00:04:59Okay, stop it
00:05:03Well, let me just like talk about why the reasons I love Connor
00:05:06Okay
00:05:07I have heard my friends talk about dating
00:05:09I've heard them talk about marriages and like all these things
00:05:13And everybody kept saying like, when you know, you know, talking to you
00:05:17Like and I literally had butterflies, heart palpitations, everything in between
00:05:22Like it was just like, I physically was like unwell
00:05:26Like I was like, oh my god, this is the feeling they're talking about
00:05:29Like I'm insane, like this is crazy
00:05:31Yeah, I was like done
00:05:32She's getting married, put it all on Connor
00:05:35I fell in love with you
00:05:36If it wasn't you, it was nobody
00:05:38And what's crazy is I know what it's like to feel loved now
00:05:45Like you fucking love me
00:05:49I know you do
00:05:51You love me
00:05:52Like you bring me flowers every day
00:05:55You run down to the garage to greet me on my way home from work
00:06:02You sometimes are my punching bag and you're like, you're so cute when you do that
00:06:07Like I'm being a bitch
00:06:10Like you love me
00:06:13I'm a psycho
00:06:16I'm crazy
00:06:18You even call me, you're like, you're a lunatic
00:06:20I was like, I know, and you love me
00:06:21You're my lunatic
00:06:23I don't have to be anybody who I'm not
00:06:25Never
00:06:26I can be me
00:06:27You loving me has opened up my eyes to be like, I am deserving of this
00:06:32I should have somebody that loves every bit of me, every piece of me
00:06:37And to find somebody like that is insane
00:06:39You really taught me like, what love is
00:06:45To our last date in this experiment
00:06:50It's crazy
00:06:51Finding my favorite person ever
00:06:53I want to feel some kind of old
00:06:57I want to realize
00:07:03Well, Africa events
00:07:08I gotta go play with the monkey
00:07:09I gotta go play with the monkey
00:07:11I'm returning you to center
00:07:15Bringing me home
00:07:16Bringing you home
00:07:18Sunshine
00:07:20Good times
00:07:22Blue skies
00:07:23Hi
00:07:24How are you?
00:07:25Oh my God
00:07:26Good
00:07:26Hello
00:07:26Oh my God, it's fun
00:07:29Anything you don't want slobber on, remove mouth
00:07:31Okay
00:07:32So here at the Columbus Zoo, we have 17 giraffe
00:07:35We have quite a few
00:07:36This is Bobby
00:07:37Hi, handsome
00:07:39He is actually our breeding bull of the herd
00:07:42Oh
00:07:42All right, Bobby
00:07:43He's got four lovely ladies in the house
00:07:45Look, it's you
00:07:47And here she comes
00:07:48One of them right now is Zuri
00:07:50As you can see, they don't think they get fed at all
00:07:53You are a lot of people
00:07:56You are a, you know, you are
00:07:58Emma, you gotta control your mans
00:08:00You gotta control your mans
00:08:08There you go, buddy
00:08:10You're my best friend
00:08:12Wow
00:08:12Another head of lettuce, please
00:08:15He's like, give me the rat
00:08:16Just give it all
00:08:18All gone
00:08:26Hey, this is so cool
00:08:27That was really cool
00:08:30I've never done anything like that, so
00:08:32Oh shit
00:08:33Oh
00:08:34Is that my boy?
00:08:35Probably
00:08:36Holy
00:08:36This is so cool
00:08:37This is so cool
00:08:38This is a great finale date before our wedding
00:08:41It is
00:08:43Smell like giraffe
00:08:45Do you?
00:08:45A little bit
00:08:46What does that smell like?
00:08:47Come on over
00:08:50Feeding giraffes
00:08:51For our anniversary
00:08:52Every year we like pick something on our bucket list
00:08:54And like
00:08:56Do something super like cool and wacky
00:08:58And whether the cool shit is like
00:09:00Literally walking around the zoo together
00:09:02And like getting
00:09:03Getting Culver's and a sweet treat
00:09:07I want to be able to like have shared experiences before we start a family and then like when that
00:09:13family comes like then it's like you get to do cool experiences with them in the Disney world and just
00:09:20like all of that stuff but it's like I want to do things with us that we can do while
00:09:25we're young
00:09:25Right
00:09:26Than do stuff
00:09:28Most
00:09:29Right
00:09:30I mean I that's
00:09:31I couldn't agree more
00:09:32Yeah
00:09:32Like is that
00:09:35I don't know you said with family and stuff like you've been thinking more on that
00:09:38I have been thinking about it and like
00:09:43I
00:09:46Like I a hundred percent think you are the right partner
00:09:49Like I
00:09:52Don't
00:09:54Like
00:09:54Like I don't think like I just I picture like
00:09:57What a second
00:09:58Oh you're laughing so I'm sorry
00:10:00No
00:10:00No I um
00:10:01And but like the way like I feel with you like safe and stable and like confident like
00:10:06It's one in a million like I
00:10:11Am continuing to be open-minded
00:10:12Yeah
00:10:13That's right
00:10:14You just brought it up this way
00:10:15No no
00:10:16Like you're thinking about it
00:10:17But I am thinking about it
00:10:18I want to show you I'm thinking about it
00:10:19Cause like I
00:10:19I am like and I see
00:10:23I see it like I do see a family with you and I see
00:10:27Um
00:10:29Sorry I was like what is that
00:10:30Um
00:10:30The drops are talking
00:10:36Go on
00:10:37I see
00:10:37I see you
00:10:38It's like in Cabo and I can't stop laughing
00:10:40Um
00:10:41No I
00:10:42Like I see that with you
00:10:43But I
00:10:45I think that will like
00:10:47Also continue just to go with time
00:10:49Sure
00:10:52Sure
00:10:52I get it
00:10:53Yeah
00:10:54You're not good
00:10:57You're very cute
00:11:01No
00:11:11It doesn't feel like it's only been a month and a half
00:11:14Like I feel like I've known you for way longer than that
00:11:17Yeah, that feels like so long ago.
00:11:20To see how far we've come, it's just crazy how much, like, has happened in a matter of six weeks.
00:11:28A lot can change in six weeks.
00:11:31You had 16 girlfriends and I had 16 boyfriends.
00:11:34Oh, that was nice.
00:11:36Shut up.
00:11:37This is the only time I'll be able to do that.
00:11:40Ever.
00:11:41Take me back, honestly.
00:11:43That was when life was good.
00:11:46I can't stand you.
00:11:49Oh, man.
00:11:50What a ride.
00:11:52What a ride.
00:11:53We're going to get married in a week.
00:11:58It's crazy when you say it like that.
00:11:59Yeah.
00:12:02Oh, wow.
00:12:05Let's go sit by the fire.
00:12:06I guess I haven't had this pressure before of, like, the marriage has more been in a relationship
00:12:11where it's like you can just kind of drag things out.
00:12:13What we have, like, foundation-wise, can last a lifetime.
00:12:18Yeah.
00:12:19You are the first person I've met that I felt like it's worth giving up my independence.
00:12:26Yeah.
00:12:27Well, that's good.
00:12:28I would say I'm definitely, like, worried about it.
00:12:30You were snoring last night legitimately.
00:12:33Stop it.
00:12:35You sound like a lumberjack.
00:12:36I'm a cute sleeper.
00:12:38To each their own.
00:12:42So you're still going to choose me, even though I snored like you?
00:12:46I don't know.
00:12:46You kind of sounded like Godzilla last night.
00:12:48Stop it.
00:12:50Did I really?
00:12:52Oh, yeah.
00:12:53Paul Bunyan.
00:12:54That's your nickname.
00:12:55Stop talking.
00:12:59My mind, like, at night has been racing.
00:13:01I haven't been able to, like, sleep.
00:13:03Of course we can say yes, but it's just, like, it's a lot.
00:13:08And it's definitely been weighing on me.
00:13:10Yeah.
00:13:11I need to, like, get away.
00:13:13Everything is, like, great and amazing, but I'm just trying to, like, really, like, process it.
00:13:17I need, like, time to just, like, really sit because it's, like, it is a big decision.
00:13:21I feel like it's starting to, like, weigh on me, like, in a good way.
00:13:25But it's, like, I've got to really sit with my thoughts and kind of, like, literally go ghost.
00:13:30I'll probably do, like, a day where I'm just, like, unreachable.
00:13:34So completely off the grid.
00:13:36It's, like, completely, like, complete dark day.
00:13:39Like, phone probably won't even be on.
00:13:42Do you feel like you're not certain if you're going to say yes?
00:13:47Like, I'm, like, obviously, I would say, like, I'm 98% there.
00:13:52I told you my biggest fear is getting to the aisle and it being, like, a no.
00:13:57Yeah.
00:13:58I can see myself saying yes.
00:14:00Yeah.
00:14:00I wouldn't have my family come here if I didn't, if I wasn't going to say yes.
00:14:05Even though I already had a wedding dress, like, trying on wedding dresses again,
00:14:09when I tried it on this time, it was, like, exciting because I'm, like, I can see myself
00:14:16mirroring you.
00:14:18I can be a wife and, like, have a husband.
00:14:22It does kind of feel like we're just in this fairy tale.
00:14:25Trust me, I get it.
00:14:28You're saying yes at the altar.
00:14:31Well, there is one thing that I want to talk about.
00:14:35Someone told me that, like, the dress fitting day, they heard that I don't, like, kiss you
00:14:42enough or tell you you're pretty enough and to, like, remind me to do that.
00:14:46I was pissed because I was, like, oh, I'm being talked about again in a negative way.
00:14:51They asked what Devante is going to say when he sees you in this dress and he said, well,
00:14:56he's a man, a few words, I don't know what he's going to say.
00:14:59Yeah.
00:15:00I think everybody knows, like, how I feel about you and it's very obvious.
00:15:05Yeah.
00:15:06But I know you're not somebody that's ever going to be, like, gushing over me.
00:15:10Yeah.
00:15:10It's, like, not your personality and that's something that, like, I've had to come to terms
00:15:14with, of, like, accepting that, like, that's not, like, how you show me that you think that
00:15:21I'm pretty.
00:15:22That makes sense.
00:15:23Obviously, I would like for you to tell me that you think that I'm pretty.
00:15:27Right.
00:15:27But I also know that that's not how you are.
00:15:32There's one more thing.
00:15:34I know the sacrifices that I've made to get to where I'm at.
00:15:38I don't ever want to lose that, lose half of that or a lot of that and, like, I don't
00:15:43know.
00:15:44So, prenups, and I don't think that was, like, something we even talked about in the pods.
00:15:49So, I'm not saying that's directed towards you.
00:15:53That is more for, like, where I feel good in my, my own space.
00:16:00You're entitled to feel how you feel.
00:16:01Yeah.
00:16:02Like, obviously, you have worked very hard to get where you are.
00:16:05Yeah.
00:16:05To build the life that you have.
00:16:07But, I don't know.
00:16:12I don't want to be married to somebody that feels like they have to protect themselves
00:16:16from me.
00:16:17I don't think people intend to be spiteful until they have the opportunity to do it.
00:16:21I'm not spiteful.
00:16:23Like, that's not who I am.
00:16:24That's never going to be who I am.
00:16:26I don't know.
00:16:26I guess it's just how I feel.
00:16:29Sometimes you don't know why you feel the way you feel.
00:16:36But, yeah.
00:16:37So, is this you saying you want one?
00:16:42I think it would make me feel comfortable.
00:16:48I wish you would have brought this up sooner.
00:16:50Well, the reason I didn't is because I was, like, not going to jump right into this when
00:16:55it's, like, we don't even know what everything else looks like.
00:17:00So, if I didn't feel comfortable with the prenup, is that...
00:17:08I don't know.
00:17:11I guess it's just something I'll have to decide.
00:17:13If I sign that paper, will I be able to not think about the fact that there's that in
00:17:21the background?
00:17:22Yeah.
00:17:23It just feels like you have a plan to not always fight for it.
00:17:33Well, I can tell you one thing, that I'm still here for a reason.
00:17:37You know that I'm not a quitter.
00:17:39I'm not asking you to make a decision right this second.
00:17:43Sleep on it.
00:17:44But if we're going to be life partners, we've got to have everything out on the table.
00:17:47I've stayed because you actually, like, want to be here.
00:17:52Mm-hmm.
00:17:53You know, you said actions speak louder than words, and your actions...
00:17:57Your actions have definitely shown me...
00:18:00Okay.
00:18:01...that it's worth staying.
00:18:03I didn't come this far to come this far.
00:18:05Were you planning on having this conversation tonight?
00:18:07Yeah.
00:18:07Oh.
00:18:08Yeah, tonight.
00:18:10Save the best for fast.
00:18:13Because you knew that I wouldn't take it well.
00:18:15That's why.
00:18:16See, I know you.
00:18:20I think we should pray.
00:18:21When in doubt.
00:18:22What we need.
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:26Dear Heavenly Father, I thank you for this day.
00:18:28I thank you, um, for Devante.
00:18:31We trust you, and, um, you know, if we do choose to get married,
00:18:36God, I pray blessings over our marriage, over our future, over our kids, over our finances.
00:18:42I just thank you for Devante.
00:18:45I thank you for everything that you've brought us through, um, and that you'll continue to bring us through.
00:18:51Thank you that we're going to be able to celebrate with our family next week.
00:18:54And I just thank you for the journey.
00:18:57Amen.
00:18:58Amen.
00:19:01Are you going for a high five there?
00:19:03I don't know how I was going for it.
00:19:07Oh.
00:19:10It's going to be okay.
00:19:12The sun will rise again tomorrow.
00:19:14Mm-hmm.
00:19:15Oh, not here.
00:19:17Not in a while.
00:19:20The clouds will rise again tomorrow.
00:19:23Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:19:27Oh, let me go inside of love.
00:19:31Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:19:34Oh, let me go inside of love.
00:19:37Go.
00:19:38We're here.
00:19:40Yay.
00:19:40All right.
00:19:41I'm excited.
00:19:42Me too.
00:19:43The world is Emma and I's favorite place to go.
00:19:46When I told Emma I was coming here with Jordan,
00:19:49which she has not met him yet, she's going to meet him Saturday,
00:19:51she was like, I want to go, I want to go,
00:19:53and I was like, we will definitely come back here with him.
00:19:56Emma was playing with my ring, and she has this little stuffed animal,
00:20:00and she had put it, like, literally right there.
00:20:04I found it in her toy box, and I was like, yeah, let's just not do that again.
00:20:09Maybe never do that again.
00:20:10Ever.
00:20:18Ready?
00:20:19Yeah, what do you got? What do you got?
00:20:24Oh, yeah, this one's for me.
00:20:26Oh, man, I'm going to ram into a mirror in here.
00:20:28I know, isn't this crazy?
00:20:30So fun.
00:20:31Yeah.
00:20:33This is so pretty.
00:20:34Yeah, thanks for bringing me.
00:20:40They'll hear about us on device.
00:20:45So don't make me tell you why.
00:20:50Let, let, let me up, oh.
00:20:52Let, let, let me up, oh.
00:20:55Cheers.
00:20:57Cheers.
00:20:57Good games.
00:20:58Yes.
00:21:00Oh, yes.
00:21:01Oh, yes.
00:21:01Oh, yes.
00:21:02Oh, yes.
00:21:02So we have a little penny bag.
00:21:04But the grand prize is for you.
00:21:08Oh, my God.
00:21:09We will ever see this.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:13Getting to meet Emma's finally.
00:21:15Yeah.
00:21:16That'd be awesome.
00:21:16Saturday, yeah.
00:21:17I finally have a plan to meet Emma, which is going to be cool.
00:21:20So I wouldn't say that I have any reservations about the wedding,
00:21:24because I know Amber and I are on the same page.
00:21:26We're just looking forward to planning a life together.
00:21:29Can't wait to see what Emma has to say about that.
00:21:32Actually, you know what?
00:21:35Maybe I'll have you bring it to her Saturday.
00:21:37Mmm.
00:21:39I have another little thing for her.
00:21:41So maybe you can bring both.
00:21:42Okay.
00:21:43That'd be really cute.
00:21:44Okay.
00:21:44That's a good plan.
00:21:45We could fall in love.
00:21:48I'm excited.
00:21:50Me too.
00:22:02Ready?
00:22:03Is this where I get murdered?
00:22:05No.
00:22:06Are you proposing?
00:22:07Again?
00:22:08You know I get surprises.
00:22:10Trust me.
00:22:10Okay, okay.
00:22:11All right.
00:22:12So that's kind of what we got going on tonight.
00:22:14Oh, my gosh.
00:22:15Pretty cool, yeah.
00:22:16This is so cute.
00:22:17I'm obsessed.
00:22:18Yeah?
00:22:18Oh, my God.
00:22:19Yeah.
00:22:19Can I go sit?
00:22:20Absolutely.
00:22:21This is so beautiful.
00:22:23Did you plan this?
00:22:24All of it.
00:22:25Yeah.
00:22:25It's like the most romantic thing.
00:22:27I love it.
00:22:29Want some champagne?
00:22:30Sure.
00:22:37We need a cheers.
00:22:38Do you like an ice?
00:22:38Cheers, Dad.
00:22:40Dad's expert.
00:22:40Seven years.
00:22:42I don't want that.
00:22:43Sit down.
00:22:44We don't need that.
00:22:45Mm-mm.
00:22:45What are you most excited for on the wedding day?
00:22:47You running?
00:22:49No.
00:22:50No.
00:22:51Just spending time with you.
00:22:52Like, obviously.
00:22:53Wedding day?
00:22:53Yeah.
00:22:54I need to sit back.
00:22:55You're going to fall asleep.
00:22:56No, I'm not.
00:22:57What are we doing for our first Christmas?
00:22:59We'll be here before we know it.
00:23:00Do you see that globe right there?
00:23:01Yeah.
00:23:02You know that, like, bottom tip?
00:23:04It's called Antarctica.
00:23:05No.
00:23:05We're going to go there for our first Christmas.
00:23:07No.
00:23:07If anything, we would first of all go to the North Pole for Christmas.
00:23:10It makes no sense.
00:23:11That's where Santa lives.
00:23:13You do make good arguments.
00:23:14Obviously.
00:23:15Okay.
00:23:15So, for real, what are we doing for Christmas?
00:23:17Switzerland.
00:23:19Um, St. Moritz?
00:23:20I don't know.
00:23:21We've got to go somewhere warm.
00:23:22A beach would be nice.
00:23:24We'll make that work.
00:23:25What's one thing you want to do in our first year of marriage?
00:23:28What's a goal we should have?
00:23:31We have to travel out of the country at least once.
00:23:33Yeah.
00:23:34I guess I would just love for us to, like, obviously know where, like, our home is.
00:23:39Oh, for sure.
00:23:39At least where we want to be for a while.
00:23:41Whether it's Florida, Arizona, wherever, starting to have those roots.
00:23:46And, like, I don't want to, like, scare you when I say these things, like, you know, planting roots and,
00:23:50like, staying grounded.
00:23:51That doesn't thrill me, like, as much as I feel like you think it might.
00:23:53But I do want it to be in a place where I'm not thinking about other places.
00:24:02How do you want to celebrate your first birthday as a married man?
00:24:05Oof.
00:24:06I don't know.
00:24:07What about you?
00:24:08I normally like to go, like, on a trip somewhere, to be honest.
00:24:11It's got to be warm, though.
00:24:12Mmm.
00:24:15No promises.
00:24:16You don't want me to be happy.
00:24:19What other questions you got for me?
00:24:22Mmm.
00:24:23Mmm.
00:24:24Mmm.
00:24:25Um.
00:24:29I just asked one.
00:24:31What'd you ask?
00:24:33Uh, I thought I just asked one.
00:24:36No.
00:24:36Did I not?
00:24:37No.
00:24:37No, did you?
00:24:38We were talking about birthdays.
00:24:39Oh, that's right.
00:24:39That is right.
00:24:41Um.
00:24:47I'm trying to think.
00:24:47What about your new dress?
00:24:48You have to be excited about it.
00:24:50I got emotional putting on a dress.
00:24:52Did you?
00:24:53Mm-hmm.
00:24:53I know.
00:24:53Shocking.
00:24:54Um.
00:24:55No, it was like a very real moment.
00:24:57Um.
00:24:58Yeah?
00:24:59Yeah.
00:25:01Thinking about what you were going to think or say when you saw me.
00:25:04Well, all the girls were there and my friends were there and just think how pretty I was.
00:25:09Stop it.
00:25:10Go on.
00:25:11My job.
00:25:11It's my job.
00:25:12Stop it, but go on.
00:25:14That's funny.
00:25:14No, but it was sweet.
00:25:16They asked, like, what's your dad going to think when he sees you?
00:25:19And I just started crying.
00:25:20I was like, he's not invited.
00:25:21Like, he's no longer invited anymore.
00:25:23No, I'm sure I'll support you.
00:25:26We'll see.
00:25:31What's your mom going to think?
00:25:33I think she'll be excited.
00:25:34Like, she's probably pushing more for grandkids at this point.
00:25:37Oh, my God.
00:25:37Really?
00:25:38I think so.
00:25:39Oh, my God.
00:25:39No, she's excited, though.
00:25:42What do you say, like, when someone asks you, like, tell me about Ashley.
00:25:44What do you say?
00:25:45Oh, I love her authenticity.
00:25:46The confidence and the competitive spirit that she shows is huge.
00:25:49I do love the fact that you're willing to put yourself out there.
00:25:53Um, try new things.
00:25:55What do you tell your friends?
00:25:57My friends hate you.
00:25:59I know.
00:26:00Ridiculous.
00:26:01I'm just kidding.
00:26:02I tell them that your golf swing needs a lot of work.
00:26:06It's true.
00:26:07No.
00:26:07That's just what you tell your dad.
00:26:09I did tell him that you need some work.
00:26:11Okay.
00:26:12Um, no, I tell them that you're very well-traveled.
00:26:15You're very passionate about soccer and day trading.
00:26:18It seems like your friends and family have nothing but good things to say about you.
00:26:23I think you'll be, like, a good husband, a good father, just based off of, like, your experiences.
00:26:30I love that.
00:26:31I love that.
00:26:32And I think when you, like, have something in your mind, you put everything you have in
00:26:37to it, so that's why I think you've been successful in this experiment.
00:26:40Mm-hmm.
00:26:41No, not tooting my own horn or anything, but, like, you got really lucky.
00:26:44I did.
00:26:44With who you chose.
00:26:46So you know how to make a really good decision.
00:26:48I do.
00:26:51How are you feeling about having to make a decision?
00:26:54How confident, I guess, are you?
00:26:56I feel good about it.
00:26:57I feel kind of like we're where we should be.
00:27:01Um, obviously, like, we're crushing it.
00:27:04Like, we've done...
00:27:04Crushing it.
00:27:05We've done very well.
00:27:06We've been on the same page for a long time, it seems like.
00:27:08So there's excitement there for sure.
00:27:10I know it's a big, big day.
00:27:12It's obviously, like, a life, you know, changing decision.
00:27:16But everything for me goes back to soccer.
00:27:18Like, you can't plan out how the game's gonna go.
00:27:20You just play it.
00:27:21Like, you're in that game and you're a part of it and obviously doing your best, but you
00:27:27don't necessarily control the outcome.
00:27:29And this is one of those things that I control part of it, but it's an outcome that is going
00:27:36to happen how it was meant to happen is the way I look at it.
00:27:38Stoicism helps out as well in the sense of, like, keep the emotions in check.
00:27:42I feel confident in the end product as well.
00:27:47Yeah.
00:27:48The fear of the unknown always gets me, you know that.
00:27:51I'm sure you got the vibe.
00:27:52I was, like, attracted to you because you were so confident in, like, your decision to
00:27:56choose me.
00:27:56Like, I've been second best so many times.
00:28:00Mm-hmm.
00:28:00And when you work, like, I want it to be you.
00:28:03Yeah.
00:28:03That is when I was like, this guy's got it.
00:28:06That was it for me.
00:28:07I love that.
00:28:08I love that.
00:28:10Choose me and finish this?
00:28:11Finish?
00:28:12My God.
00:28:12Mm-hmm.
00:28:13You didn't make eye contact.
00:28:14Mm-hmm.
00:28:16I did in my head.
00:28:17So you're having bad sex for seven years.
00:28:19Oh, you're having it with me then.
00:28:21I will be having good sex.
00:28:22I've looked in your eyes.
00:28:23Did you?
00:28:23Anyways, we have a wedding, people.
00:28:26I'm excited for it.
00:28:28For you, I'd steal the sun so I could light your sun.
00:28:35For you, I'd stop the world from spinning just so we could have some time.
00:28:45Aw.
00:28:47Aw.
00:28:47How cute.
00:28:49How's this morning?
00:28:50Pretty.
00:28:52I can't wait for wedding day.
00:28:54Like, I'm on countdown in my head, but I'm just trying to remind myself to slow down
00:28:59and to take in every last moment that I get with Vic.
00:29:02Toast to many more memories, our future, and love.
00:29:09Into one chapter and all the books to write to come.
00:29:13I like that one.
00:29:14Salud.
00:29:16Mm.
00:29:18Every phase of this has felt like an eternity in the best way.
00:29:24Yeah.
00:29:25You know it all.
00:29:26And you accept me for who I am.
00:29:28You love me for who I am.
00:29:30I don't think I've ever felt as confident about anything in my life, especially something
00:29:34so serious as this.
00:29:36And I know it's not even just, like, my decision, right?
00:29:38I mean, you're great in love, but I've been praying for you for a lot longer than I've
00:29:45known you.
00:29:46Same.
00:29:47I can see and I can feel how much you love your family, how much you love your friends,
00:29:53how much you love your job, how much you love what you get to do and the change you
00:29:57get to be a part of, how much you love God, how much you love me.
00:30:03You just pour yourself out in, like, the best way.
00:30:06And it's a way that, like, fills you.
00:30:08And it's like, that's the part that I love.
00:30:11Mm-hmm.
00:30:11How, like, filling it is for you to love so much.
00:30:14Mm-hmm.
00:30:15You're an amazing woman and you know that.
00:30:17I don't even have to tell you everything about you.
00:30:21Your selflessness, the love you have in you.
00:30:23You're smart.
00:30:25Like, I think you're brilliant.
00:30:27I love hearing your stories.
00:30:29You know what I mean?
00:30:31I know you'll make an excellent partner.
00:30:34Sometimes I get speechless around you because of, it's just like, I get this, this, like,
00:30:41this wow feeling that happens.
00:30:44You're gonna make me cry already.
00:30:46I love you.
00:30:47I love you too.
00:30:58You're somebody that I be and I am very, very, very proud to know and to love and to call
00:31:10you my husband and for you to be the father of my kids someday.
00:31:18I love you very, very much.
00:31:20I love you deeply, baby.
00:31:22Deeply.
00:31:24Deeply, deeply, deeply, deeply.
00:31:26And you're just everything that I could want in so many ways.
00:31:30I mean, even just down to your hobbies and snacking on your cashews and just like the little habits that
00:31:35you have.
00:31:35And I think we're gonna complement each other.
00:31:38Mm-hmm.
00:31:39And push each other, push me to be better.
00:31:42And vice versa.
00:31:43Yeah.
00:31:43You're gonna push me too, I know that.
00:31:44Yeah.
00:31:45I've never felt like this in my life.
00:31:47Mm-hmm.
00:31:48Yeah.
00:31:49Me too.
00:31:50And it just makes so much sense.
00:31:52You know, you look back at every single little stepping stone of your life.
00:31:56Even the hard times, you know.
00:31:57I'm just like, I would do those things a million times over if it got me here.
00:32:02Mm-hmm.
00:32:03Yeah.
00:32:04I'm saying.
00:32:05You're an answer prayer.
00:32:06So are you.
00:32:07Mm-hmm.
00:32:09So are you, baby.
00:32:10I love it.
00:32:11I love you.
00:32:11Everything.
00:32:12Mm-hmm.
00:32:13I do.
00:32:14I'm so excited.
00:32:16So happy.
00:32:16So grateful.
00:32:18So, so grateful.
00:32:20Me too.
00:32:24I had a great day with you, huh?
00:32:25Yeah.
00:32:26I want more.
00:32:27Great.
00:32:28Mm-hmm.
00:32:29Last first date.
00:32:30Last first date.
00:32:32Mm-hmm.
00:32:35I want more.
00:32:36I want more.
00:32:37I want more.
00:32:39I want more.
00:32:46This is the most bizarre, exciting, expansive, coolest thing I've ever done.
00:32:52And I couldn't have done it without you.
00:32:55And I wouldn't have done it without you.
00:32:57Like, there's no chance.
00:32:59I mean, we fell in love not even looking at each other.
00:33:01I know.
00:33:02It's crazy.
00:33:03It really is.
00:33:04But you're not getting the best of me right now because I have just been grinding.
00:33:12What's really sad is, like, I know I can give so much more.
00:33:17When I see my friends and family tell you that you're not getting the best version of
00:33:21me and this isn't me right now, it really hurts.
00:33:25That's really tough to say out loud.
00:33:27I mean, it's powerful.
00:33:30It's a testament to you.
00:33:31So even in maybe your worst version, I'm still obsessed with you.
00:33:38You really do love me for the good, bad, the ugly.
00:33:41Yeah.
00:33:45Even as we're seeing each other every single day, when you text me at, like, 5.05,
00:33:49you're like, can I call you?
00:33:50I get so happy.
00:33:54I'm gonna start getting emotional.
00:33:58Like, I just can't wait to, like, we've had so many nights where after the longest day,
00:34:03we still just sit in bed and talk for, like, two hours.
00:34:05Yeah.
00:34:05Those are, like, my favorite moments with you.
00:34:08If this is who you are right now, and this is how much I'm obsessed with you.
00:34:14Stop.
00:34:14I think once you get back into what you call your normal stay, it's like,
00:34:18I think you're gonna be able to give more love, too.
00:34:20So I'm excited for not only me, how much more I even might love you, which is, I don't know
00:34:26if it's possible.
00:34:27Yeah.
00:34:27But, like, you also to give off that love and accept it more, too.
00:34:30Yeah.
00:34:30Like, I'm so excited to see that kind of transition.
00:34:32I know, me too.
00:34:34Do you think you are ready for marriage?
00:34:36I am ready for it.
00:34:38I think I'll be a good husband, a good father.
00:34:42Transparently, when I came into your house and I see your car and I'm like,
00:34:44this guy doesn't give a shâ like, he doesn't give a shit about anything.
00:34:47What does this mean about, like, how he's gonna show up for, like,
00:34:51a presentation of, like, our house and our family and, like, his job?
00:34:54And is he proud of it?
00:34:55Like, I know, like, it's such a silly thing about a house and a car,
00:34:59like, what clothes you wear and, like, how you present yourself.
00:35:02It doesn't have to be, like, high-end, crazy things, but just, like,
00:35:06have pride and, like, that's a reflection of you.
00:35:09It just makes me feel like it's lazy.
00:35:11Like, there's no pride.
00:35:12There's no, like, hustle.
00:35:13There's no grit.
00:35:14There's no, like, pride to this.
00:35:16And, like, it just made me feel like, who is this guy?
00:35:20Is he just gonna be a liability?
00:35:22Like, I don't know.
00:35:24I'm just so used to someone that's out-elf on me.
00:35:27Like, he's been the leader.
00:35:29It's not like you're coming in and being, like,
00:35:32I'm gonna make, like, five times more money than you.
00:35:35I live in a nicer house than you.
00:35:37I do this.
00:35:37Like, it wasn't, like, this extravagant, like, in-your-face, like, out-elf on me.
00:35:43You don't have the big energy where you're talking over me
00:35:46or ordering at the restaurant or, like, the confidence to be, like,
00:35:49she'll take this.
00:35:50Like, you're kind of looking at me, like, what should we order?
00:35:53Like, what?
00:35:53And it was just, like, this weird energy that I'm not used to.
00:35:56And it's actually interesting because we talk about challenge
00:35:59and challenge shows up so differently.
00:36:01Like, is it challenging me to get up at 6 o'clock and go to the gym
00:36:04and, like, be disciplined about that?
00:36:06Maybe.
00:36:07That's something that I would love for someone to encourage me to do.
00:36:10But, like, also is the challenge of, like, being able to accept
00:36:14just being in love for who I am.
00:36:16Some people think I don't care about a lot of things
00:36:18because there's not, like, a lot of, I guess, material things that, like,
00:36:23yeah, I would love a nice car.
00:36:24Yeah, I'd love a nice house.
00:36:25And I can't wait for those things someday.
00:36:27And that's why I do work and support you and a family someday.
00:36:31But a lot of people will sometimes just see, like, the keg on the outside
00:36:35or something or that I haven't cleaned up.
00:36:38And I just don't love talking about myself.
00:36:42And just, like, listening more is kind of who I've been.
00:36:44You've actually seen more of me.
00:36:47And I'm just very glad that you took the time
00:36:50because not everybody does.
00:36:51My dad and I have had conversations.
00:36:53He's like, maybe that's you've been chasing the wrong thing
00:36:56and you need to shift into something like that
00:36:58where, like, you can still lead,
00:37:00but you find somebody that's complementary
00:37:02and leads you in other ways.
00:37:04I just feel like I've been so critical and so analytical
00:37:08and, like, trying to figure out if this is my husband
00:37:11that I've, like, lost sight of, like, literally the whole concept
00:37:14of it is love-blind.
00:37:16Because had I seen all those things,
00:37:20I maybe have passed judgment on things that weren't true.
00:37:23And I did.
00:37:25Yeah.
00:37:26And, like, that's, like, the whole point of this experiment, right?
00:37:29I know you hustle.
00:37:30And I know that you're proud of what you've built for yourself.
00:37:33And I know you take pride in that.
00:37:35And I hated that I watered that down because I do, like...
00:37:38It is incredible.
00:37:39You own a house.
00:37:40You have an established career.
00:37:41I know you've worked your ass off to get where you're at.
00:37:43And, like, you are thinking about the future
00:37:45and, like, what you could do with your career
00:37:47to support a family and do all those things.
00:37:49Like, you have absolutely shown up for me
00:37:52in ways I have never been...
00:37:54I've never experienced before.
00:37:56I know that you love every piece of me.
00:37:59The way that you make me feel loved is insane.
00:38:02Even on my darkest days
00:38:03or even when I'm, like, literally feeling the most disgusting,
00:38:06like, you think I'm the most beautiful person in the world.
00:38:08However I show up to you is enough.
00:38:12I'm trying to decide,
00:38:14are you the total package
00:38:16or are you in my life to teach me how to be loved?
00:38:19Is this my person for the rest of my life?
00:38:21Is that true love?
00:38:25I can't go up to the altar and be like,
00:38:29yeah, question mark?
00:38:32Am I ready to walk down the aisle?
00:38:35No.
00:38:42If I were to go down the aisle today, it would be no for me.
00:38:46But that makes me question, like, why...
00:38:49Why is it no?
00:38:51Because if it is the right person,
00:38:52I'm, like, so deeply in love,
00:38:55and it's, like, my person for life,
00:38:57like, would it matter?
00:39:02I think I would have said yes to you.
00:39:03You would have gone to the altar and said yes.
00:39:05Yeah.
00:39:06So had I been in a different space,
00:39:08we would be at our wedding day.
00:39:10Yeah, I would have, on Monday, said yes.
00:39:13And I've been open about that.
00:39:14I've no issue saying that.
00:39:17Um, and I'm not gonna be ashamed of that.
00:39:19And I know you don't think anything less of me
00:39:21because I wanted to marry you.
00:39:25So...
00:39:27What the fuck am I doing?
00:39:33If we can get through this,
00:39:35like, I hope that it's not a no forever.
00:39:37So do you see yourself marrying me someday?
00:39:40I hope.
00:39:47Yeah.
00:39:49Take me down into the dust.
00:39:55What a ride.
00:39:57What an absolute craziest month of my life.
00:40:00Month?
00:40:01It's been, like, years.
00:40:02That's true.
00:40:03Can I sit on the couch or something?
00:40:05Is that okay?
00:40:06I can't say with certainty that he's not my person.
00:40:09Like, that's the hard part.
00:40:10I hate that I have to say,
00:40:11no, I'm not ready.
00:40:13I hate to be saying things like,
00:40:15are you a lesson to learn,
00:40:17or are you the love of my life?
00:40:19It's really hard to understand why I'm going backwards.
00:40:21I don't know why.
00:40:22It sucks that we aren't getting married Monday,
00:40:24because of just the way I feel.
00:40:26And, uh,
00:40:27did I want to come here and just teach you how to be loved more?
00:40:31Yeah.
00:40:32No.
00:40:33But I think any time before this,
00:40:36if somebody had said that they aren't ready to marry me
00:40:39and I'm ready to marry them,
00:40:40I would have freaked out.
00:40:41Why do you think that's different?
00:40:43Because of how much we do love each other.
00:40:48I am optimistic,
00:40:49and I know you're not going to run.
00:40:52You've consistently proven that you're going to be there for me.
00:40:55You are never, never, never alone.
00:40:58You're never, never, never alone.
00:41:01I would have said yes.
00:41:02Never, never, never alone.
00:41:05You're never, never, never alone.
00:41:07As life, you've told me you're wise this whole time.
00:41:10You've directly communicated where you were at.
00:41:13I've never had that in my entire life.
00:41:15And that's why, like, I'm more excited to continue to grow,
00:41:20continue to prove that I'm going to be there for you.
00:41:22I mean, there's a reason that we fell in love sight unseen.
00:41:27That's something I'll remember forever in my entire life,
00:41:29and hopefully it's a connection that brings us
00:41:34even to the altar someday.
00:41:36I love her with all my heart,
00:41:37and I knew that before even seeing her.
00:41:40So, yeah.
00:41:43I think love is blind.
00:41:51This has been the ride of a lifetime.
00:41:55So, thank you.
00:42:03Yeah.
00:42:20Monster Jam.
00:42:21Oh, yeah.
00:42:22This is going to be so fun.
00:42:35It's Monster Jam.
00:42:38It's Bachelor night.
00:42:40Monster trucks.
00:42:42Good vibes.
00:42:43Good friends.
00:42:43Damn near family at this point, man.
00:42:45Feeling good.
00:42:48Very Ohio.
00:42:49Kudos to whoever set that up.
00:42:55Let's go!
00:42:57Come on, come on, come on!
00:42:58Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:43:03So, today's The Bachelet party,
00:43:05and I'm feeling really excited.
00:43:07Fire me now!
00:43:08I'm looking for a shot!
00:43:11Turn down for what?
00:43:12Hey!
00:43:13Hey!
00:43:14Oh, my God!
00:43:15What?
00:43:16Turn down for what?
00:43:17What?
00:43:18Oh, my God!
00:43:19That is the killer!
00:43:21Turn down for what?
00:43:21This is so funny.
00:43:23We are at the casino,
00:43:24celebrating our last night of single life.
00:43:27Hopefully win some money,
00:43:28help me for the weddings.
00:43:29No, just kidding.
00:43:30Turn down for what?
00:43:31What?
00:43:32I'm gonna be Alex Henderson's wife
00:43:34in a couple days,
00:43:35and that is a crazy thing to say.
00:43:37I'm gonna be a wife.
00:43:38Turn down for what?
00:43:39You're betting on love.
00:43:40I'm all in.
00:43:41First Bachelet party.
00:43:43Woo!
00:43:50This is how I'm practicing,
00:43:51walking down the aisle.
00:43:54I'm just standing there with Alex.
00:43:55I do.
00:43:57Jordan, he's the best man I've ever met.
00:43:59What I'm hopeful for is, like,
00:44:01tomorrow when he meets Emma,
00:44:03that he'll realize it's not that scary.
00:44:05And I think that will fulfill his life so much
00:44:07in ways that, like,
00:44:09he can't even understand yet.
00:44:11I feel very goofy trying to walk sexy.
00:44:17Amber's got the legs.
00:44:20All right, let's hit it, baby.
00:44:23Yeah, Jordan!
00:44:23Damn!
00:44:25Damn!
00:44:28There's no way the girls are having this much fun.
00:44:31They just can't be.
00:44:32Amber texted me a little bit ago
00:44:34and asked if I wanted pizza.
00:44:35I said, we're not done.
00:44:37I wish she didn't get pizza, though.
00:44:38I'll eat the rest later.
00:44:39Why? She's probably asleep.
00:44:41I hope she takes my dog out.
00:44:45Ooh, 40.
00:44:47Jesus Christ, man.
00:44:50Now you're getting me killed as a quarterback.
00:44:52I am excited to get to the altar
00:44:54and to see her in her dress.
00:44:56We do have question marks in terms of children.
00:44:58It does sound like she's coming around,
00:44:59but I don't know what she's gonna say.
00:45:01Excited?
00:45:02Yeah.
00:45:03Excited? Nervous?
00:45:04It's a good, good time.
00:45:06I love sports.
00:45:08Woo, woo, woo, woo!
00:45:10Yeah.
00:45:11Oh!
00:45:11Give me that.
00:45:13Oh, my daisy can.
00:45:14Let's serve.
00:45:155-0.
00:45:16Oh, my God.
00:45:18I think Ashley's a phenomenal person.
00:45:20But when I close my eyes and picture my wife,
00:45:22in five years, I see myself living in Florida
00:45:24with a phenomenal house,
00:45:26potential trust in Dubai,
00:45:27and a safe house in Queenstown, New Zealand.
00:45:29I see myself very happy with a wife and kids,
00:45:31or kids on the way at that point.
00:45:33Game point.
00:45:34It's a good, good girl.
00:45:35All my days.
00:45:36Here's a toast to everybody finding a husband.
00:45:39Woo!
00:45:41It's a good girl.
00:45:42Toast to love.
00:45:43Come here, come here.
00:45:44Happiness.
00:45:45Toast to marriage, God damn it.
00:45:46And marriage, God damn it.
00:45:48Hold them all, man.
00:45:49See you.
00:45:49Bye, later.
00:45:51It's so good, good.
00:45:54I've been waiting all my life
00:45:57Just to get it right
00:46:00And we made it to the good life
00:46:04I've been waiting all my life
00:46:07Today's my wedding day,
00:46:09and I'm so excited.
00:46:12Big day.
00:46:13I'm, like, really in my head right now.
00:46:17Really?
00:46:18Yeah.
00:46:21Children and, like, all the thoughts and, like...
00:46:23It's a big decision.
00:46:24Yeah.
00:46:25I just don't want to make the wrong.
00:46:27Yeah.
00:46:28Have you talked to Mike at all today?
00:46:29No.
00:46:30I texted him, it's our motherfucking wedding.
00:46:32And he goes, like, he thumbs it,
00:46:34and he's like, I'm very late.
00:46:35I was like, I am too.
00:46:37We just had, like, fun last night, too.
00:46:39You know, it's like, we never talked about anything.
00:46:41Yeah.
00:46:42Did you guys end up staying together last night?
00:46:43Or did you?
00:46:44No.
00:46:44No, I, like, we went to our hotels.
00:46:46I love him for you.
00:46:48Yeah.
00:46:49Mom loves him.
00:46:51I've never felt this way about someone before.
00:46:54Yeah, he's very comfortable.
00:46:57He fits in really well.
00:46:58He makes me feel so happy and so comfortable.
00:47:05I just really haven't felt this light and free
00:47:13with someone before.
00:47:15When all at once were golden like the sun.
00:47:24You and I, all this vibrant.
00:47:32Today's the big day.
00:47:33Getting married.
00:47:34It's wild.
00:47:35We're in this forever.
00:47:36You know, until death do us part.
00:47:38How you feeling, man?
00:47:40Feeling good.
00:47:41Feeling nervous.
00:47:42Feeling a little nervous?
00:47:43Yeah.
00:47:44I mean, I don't know if she's going to say yes or no.
00:47:47Oh.
00:47:47It's scary.
00:47:48What's the rest of the family thinking?
00:47:50They're supportive.
00:47:51Nobody understands fully just kind of what we've talked about
00:47:53and what we've gone through.
00:47:54Yeah, you got it.
00:47:55That's the thing.
00:47:56You're getting married.
00:47:56It's a lot.
00:47:57But it feels like forever.
00:47:59Exactly.
00:48:00The hearts of thousands of women are going to break today.
00:48:03I'm in jail.
00:48:13Hi.
00:48:14Hi.
00:48:14I'm like, hello.
00:48:16You guys look so beautiful.
00:48:20Hi.
00:48:20This is my sister, Hannah.
00:48:21I'm Hannah.
00:48:22Hi, Hannah.
00:48:23Nice to meet you.
00:48:24And this is my best friend, Kayla.
00:48:26Hi, Kayla.
00:48:26Hi.
00:48:26Nice to meet you, honey.
00:48:28I'm Patty.
00:48:29Hello, beauty.
00:48:30Are you nervous?
00:48:30I'm excited.
00:48:32Good.
00:48:34I feel so happy and calm.
00:48:37Oh, Emma.
00:48:39Stop, Emma.
00:48:40No.
00:48:41Don't.
00:48:42She just did your makeup.
00:48:43I know.
00:48:43I was like, I'm a glibbering mess, but yeah.
00:48:48I feel just excited.
00:48:52Good.
00:48:52Good.
00:48:54Everybody is.
00:48:54How are you feeling?
00:48:55I'm good, thank you.
00:48:56Happy birthday.
00:48:57First day of 28.
00:48:59How's mom and dad?
00:49:00Good.
00:49:01They're also kind of emotional, too.
00:49:02But they're really good.
00:49:03They love him so much, too.
00:49:06They, like, think he fits perfect in your family.
00:49:09Hannah's like, Hannah, what's your verdict?
00:49:12100% yes.
00:49:14That man makes me feel so safe and so secure.
00:49:18And it makes me feel comfortable, like, in my own skin.
00:49:23But it's a big decision.
00:49:24Right.
00:49:25Something I don't take lightly.
00:49:29Oh, what do you think?
00:49:31Look at this guy.
00:49:32I put the button and everything in.
00:49:33Yup.
00:49:34Have you been working out?
00:49:35I hate you.
00:49:38Put lipstick on me.
00:49:39Big.
00:49:39Uh-huh.
00:49:40Oh, yeah.
00:49:40I'm gonna be on my heart falling apart.
00:49:44In your arms.
00:49:47Best friends forever and new from the start.
00:49:50Bracelet?
00:49:51The bracelet might be too much, but...
00:49:53Bracelet's too much?
00:49:54I like the bracelet.
00:49:55My sister has the same bracelet.
00:49:56I like the bracelet a lot, but...
00:49:58Bill.
00:49:59No, Bill, all right?
00:50:01This guy.
00:50:02Exciting day.
00:50:03You got good men by your side.
00:50:05Looking forward to the future.
00:50:06Cheers.
00:50:07Cheers, fellas.
00:50:07Cheers.
00:50:08Thank you, guys.
00:50:10Here we go.
00:50:14Oh!
00:50:14Oh!
00:50:15Oh!
00:50:16Where's my boy?
00:50:17Look how spiffy you look.
00:50:19You look so beautiful, Ma.
00:50:20Thank you, my son.
00:50:22Oh, my God.
00:50:23You look fantastic.
00:50:24I love you.
00:50:25You look beautiful.
00:50:28Boy, you look good, hon.
00:50:30Sorry.
00:50:31Look at that.
00:50:32What?
00:50:34How are you feeling?
00:50:36Good.
00:50:37Good.
00:50:37You excited?
00:50:38Excited.
00:50:38Nervous, yeah.
00:50:39They let Mommy and Callie go by Emma.
00:50:42Oh, you were over there?
00:50:43Nice.
00:50:44How was it?
00:50:45She was emotional.
00:50:46Is she crying already?
00:50:48Mm-hmm.
00:50:48She said she was gonna cry.
00:50:49Let's sit down.
00:50:50Sit down.
00:50:51I'm just concerned about you.
00:50:53Okay.
00:50:54I want to make sure you're okay.
00:50:55I know you're stressed out.
00:50:56Yeah.
00:50:57I mean, I talked to you maybe, what, three times?
00:51:00Every single time you had an attitude.
00:51:02Yeah.
00:51:02Which is understandable.
00:51:04Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:51:04I shouldn't take it out on you.
00:51:05It's just, you always call it the worst time, Ma.
00:51:09So, it's actually unreal.
00:51:10It really is.
00:51:12She's uncanny for that.
00:51:13It really is.
00:51:14Are you happy?
00:51:15Yeah.
00:51:15I'm happy.
00:51:15I just want you to be happy, so.
00:51:17You're happy, I'm happy.
00:51:19Yeah.
00:51:19You're miserable, I'm miserable.
00:51:21Okay.
00:51:22Which I was.
00:51:23Yeah.
00:51:23So.
00:51:24There's only so much crying we can do in the house.
00:51:26Oh, yeah.
00:51:29I relaxed.
00:51:30I relaxed on the crying.
00:51:31Her.
00:51:31I relaxed.
00:51:32Mainly.
00:51:32I learned a lot more about this whole thing, so.
00:51:35You know, Mike, this is a, it's like a whirlwind.
00:51:39You don't know detail.
00:51:41You know what I mean?
00:51:42And, you know, me, as parents, and you'll notice hopefully one day, we love you, and we just
00:51:53want the best for you, and, you know.
00:51:57Understanding now, I'm understanding now, that you make the decisions, so.
00:52:01Right.
00:52:01You're your own man, and as long as you're happy.
00:52:04You instilled that in me, so.
00:52:05At the end of the day, we just want you to be happy.
00:52:08And, uh.
00:52:09Yeah.
00:52:10I want different experiences.
00:52:11You know that.
00:52:12We and Mommy dated for five years.
00:52:15Before we got, before I asked her to marry me.
00:52:17Mm-hmm.
00:52:18Mm-hmm.
00:52:18You know.
00:52:19So that's, you know, that's why we were taken off guard a little bit in the beginning,
00:52:23right?
00:52:24Mm-hmm.
00:52:24Yeah.
00:52:26Yeah.
00:52:26But if she's the one for you.
00:52:28Making sure you're doing the right thing.
00:52:29And you feel that way deep in your heart.
00:52:31Then, you know, we're behind you.
00:52:33Like, you know.
00:52:35I love her.
00:52:36I think she's great.
00:52:37I appreciate it.
00:52:38She's a good kid.
00:52:39Yeah.
00:52:40I mean.
00:52:41She definitely fits in.
00:52:43Yeah.
00:52:46It's a lot to take in.
00:52:47I'm gonna be honest with you.
00:52:48Like, just to think about starting off on the pod, then turns into the rest of my life.
00:52:52The rest of our lives.
00:52:54We raised you right.
00:52:55I know that.
00:52:56I'm happy for you.
00:52:57If you're happy, I'm happy for you.
00:52:59Yeah.
00:52:59It looks so good.
00:53:00Okay.
00:53:01Bye.
00:53:04All right.
00:53:04I love you.
00:53:04All right.
00:53:06All right, baby.
00:53:07Yeah.
00:53:07See you guys there.
00:53:09Yeah.
00:53:09All right?
00:53:10Yeah.
00:53:11She has the question marks in terms of children.
00:53:15And that's our biggest thing.
00:53:16So I would love for her to go first to see what that answer is.
00:53:20If she can overcome that and say yes, that means she's really thought about it.
00:53:24And she's like, I can see a future with Mike with children.
00:53:27So I would love to hear her say yes.
00:53:30Like, okay, that's the biggest thing in my mind is children.
00:53:33You just check that off.
00:53:34Like, let's do it.
00:53:35Let's dive in.
00:53:35I hope I'm the one who gets to stand beside you.
00:53:44I'd never let you go.
00:53:49Wow.
00:53:50I hope I'm the one who gets to stand beside you.
00:53:56We love you.
00:53:59Sweet girl.
00:54:00Oh, you look amazing.
00:54:02Oh, my God.
00:54:03You look so beautiful.
00:54:04Now I'm going to cry.
00:54:05You look so beautiful.
00:54:06Just wait for the veil, Mom.
00:54:08Stop.
00:54:09Don't cry.
00:54:12So, my pearl earrings.
00:54:16My dad gave them to me for my wedding.
00:54:21Oh, my God.
00:54:30Oh, my God.
00:54:30I know.
00:54:31There's my son.
00:54:33There's something old.
00:54:36Here's my something old.
00:54:41Oh, my God.
00:54:44it's it's magical and it's beautiful she's meant to wear a veil yeah look at her you look so pretty
00:54:58if you can picture yourself in any situation with him and having him still makes you happy
00:55:02that's the one we are here no matter what you decide just make yourself happy trick
00:55:08yeah okay final cheers final cheers we love you we love you cheers good decisions
00:55:30oh don't cry oh don't cry
00:55:38i'm behind you 100 thank you okay i love you more than you know okay yeah nervous
00:55:50a lot to take in you know we're all behind you i know
00:56:20oh
00:56:20Longing for
00:56:26Left behind the things I know
00:56:32Cause once in a lifetime
00:56:36Oh God, here she comes
00:56:42You look beautiful
00:56:44I'll try not to wrinkle you
00:56:48Are you ready?
00:56:52Okay?
00:56:54Love you, sweetie
00:56:59This dress is beautiful
00:57:01Wow
00:57:02Oh my God, I'm gonna have one frickin' faint
00:57:05I guess it's okay
00:57:06It's okay
00:57:07I'm gonna just...
00:57:22Oh my God, how cute
00:57:26Please rise
00:57:34When you're ready
00:57:35Holy
00:57:36Holy
00:57:37Holy
00:57:57That was funny
00:57:59So that was beautiful
00:58:04How do you look so gorgeous?
00:58:08Nice to meet you.
00:58:10How do you look gorgeous?
00:58:12Great.
00:58:13It's all right.
00:58:14I get your phone.
00:58:16I know. Is it straight?
00:58:19Please be seated.
00:58:23Yeah, no.
00:58:27Good evening and welcome.
00:58:30I'd like to thank everyone in this room for being here today
00:58:32as we celebrate Emma and Mike
00:58:34and the journey they've been on together so far.
00:58:37Today, the two of you are taking the first step of your new chapter
00:58:41and in many ways, a whole new life.
00:58:44Loving someone in marriage is a reason to stretch beyond our limits,
00:58:48to become more for the sake of the other.
00:58:51It is to look into the soul of your beloved and accept what you see,
00:58:56yet hold space for all that they're going to become.
00:58:59As you join today, you're announcing to the world
00:59:02that you're welcoming that challenge
00:59:03and all the joys that come with it.
00:59:09Emma, our journey has been amazing.
00:59:13And it wasn't easy.
00:59:15We have so many questions with the kids.
00:59:17And throughout our whole experience,
00:59:20you have been open and understanding
00:59:24to hearing my journey and my story.
00:59:26But I really just, I want to know
00:59:28that you wanted to start a family with me.
00:59:30Hmm.
00:59:33I know you've been thinking about it,
00:59:35and it's not fair for you to have to choose now.
00:59:38But one of the biggest things that I love about you
00:59:40and I love about us
00:59:41is that we are able to communicate
00:59:43and we'll always be genuine with one another
00:59:47and get to the bottom of anything.
00:59:50So thank you for that.
00:59:51And thank you for making it easy on me
00:59:54to love such an amazing person inside and out.
00:59:57Because I can't wait to see what the future holds for us.
01:00:05Mike?
01:00:07Yeah?
01:00:08I knew that I was doing this for a reason.
01:00:12And being here, my reason is you.
01:00:17You've made me feel safe and seen and comfortable.
01:00:22We have gone through a lot.
01:00:25I know.
01:00:25You have made me feel
01:00:31so special
01:00:32and empowered me to
01:00:34march to the beat of my own drum
01:00:36and not sacrifice who I am in the process.
01:00:40And I can't ask for a better partner, like,
01:00:43throughout my life.
01:00:45I love that.
01:00:50Emma and Mike, you chose to get engaged
01:00:52and spend the rest of your lives together
01:00:54based on a deep emotional connection.
01:00:57Looks, age, finances,
01:00:59and all the superficial things of the world
01:01:01were not a factor for you two.
01:01:03Now is the time to decide
01:01:06if love is blind.
01:01:13Will you get married
01:01:14and commit to facing life together
01:01:16as husband and wife?
01:01:29Emma, do you take Mike to be your lawfully wedded husband,
01:01:34to have and to hold from this day forward,
01:01:37for better or for worse,
01:01:39for richer or for poorer,
01:01:41in sickness and in health,
01:01:44to love and cherish,
01:01:46forsaking all others
01:01:48for all the days of your life?
01:01:50If so, say,
01:01:52I do.
01:02:01I've been thinking a lot
01:02:04about this decision.
01:02:13There's a lot of things
01:02:16that we still need to
01:02:19go through,
01:02:22whether that's today
01:02:23or whether that's two years from now.
01:02:28Oh.
01:02:32I've been thinking about
01:02:36how you make me feel,
01:02:39and I can't.
01:02:41I can't.
01:02:46I can't
01:02:48see
01:02:49a future without you.
01:02:51Yeah.
01:02:53Yeah.
01:02:57And I love you.
01:02:59I really, really do.
01:03:01And if that was a yes.
01:03:05That's it.
01:03:06Oh.
01:03:18Mike,
01:03:19do you take Emma
01:03:20to be your lawfully wedded wife,
01:03:22to have and to hold
01:03:24from this day forward,
01:03:26for better, for worse,
01:03:27for richer or for poorer,
01:03:30in sickness and in health,
01:03:32to love and cherish,
01:03:34forsaking all others
01:03:35for all the days of your life?
01:03:42If so,
01:03:43say,
01:03:43I do.
01:04:08I will find you.
01:04:12It's a wedding day.
01:04:14Everything is, like, great.
01:04:15I can see my life being with you.
01:04:18I know Christine.
01:04:19I know all the parts of her, and she knows all the parts of me.
01:04:22It's a lot of pressure.
01:04:25How do you think your sister's going to take care of everything?
01:04:27This is strange, like, meeting on the day of.
01:04:29Really?
01:04:30What are y'all doing?
01:04:31This is like the calm before the storm.
01:04:33I'm ready.
01:04:34Now is the time to decide if love is blind.
01:04:39She flat out calls him a liar.
01:04:42Oh, you're so strong.
01:04:45You're so strong.
01:04:47Every stone will make a fire.
01:04:52Every heart will feel desire.
01:04:59Every love will raise me higher.
01:05:06There's something inside.
01:05:08I'm gonna let it go.
01:05:09You're so strong.
01:05:26You're so strong.
01:05:27Thanks again.
01:05:28Bye.
01:05:28Bye.
01:05:29Bye.
01:05:31Bye.
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