00:00When I have been dating people, you always give your advice.
00:03Well, I do because I saw some red flags in a lot of the people.
00:07Hey, I'm Kim.
00:08And I'm Grandma Gail.
00:09You bring the dilemma, we bring the advice.
00:12Welcome to Excuse My Advice.
00:15I really am not a fan of my brother's girlfriend,
00:18but I put in the effort.
00:19What should I do?
00:20I think you voice your opinion.
00:22If you see a habit that you don't like
00:24and that's disturbing and disrupting of the family unit.
00:27Unless she's a mass murderer,
00:30it's really his choice to pick who he likes.
00:32When I have been dating people, you always give your advice.
00:36Well, I do because I saw some red flags in a lot of the people.
00:39But you weren't in a permanent relationship.
00:42If you're the family members who have an issue
00:45with that person that your child is dating,
00:48say it once in the beginning
00:50and do not say it 500 times
00:53over the next however long of this relationship.
00:56Well, sometimes they don't hear.
00:56No, I feel that they, me, hears.
01:01I think people take it in
01:03and they are obviously making the active decision
01:07to either continue seeing that person or not.
01:09And it just strains the family relationship
01:11when you keep beating someone down
01:13about the decisions that they're making.
01:15What families might say is,
01:17is this person good for you in the long run?
01:20And that should be a conversation
01:22if you're close with your family and you want their opinion.
01:25If you don't want their opinion, you're going to do whatever you want anyway.
01:28Modern problems.
01:29Classic solutions.
01:30Got a situation?
01:31We've got opinions.
01:33Send it in.
01:33We're going to do an answer to the questions.
01:35Bye-bye.
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