00:00I don't know what Kelly's issue is with me really truly but I've always tried to
00:05be supportive but I feel like you know that's what you get girl I mean I didn't
00:09do it I don't know why she's mad at me I didn't close the rehearsal right now
00:15Virtual Reality
00:18Drew Cedora and Chanel Nicole Scott we are so excited to have you in
00:22there's so much to talk about Drew it's always a vibe when you stop by
00:25you guys are already laughing this tourist to tourist connection
00:29oh my god I'm the odd man out you guys I'm an Aquarius and I know that might be
00:34triggering for you yeah my daughter's in Aquarius okay good you're good okay for
00:39that thank God but this is a perfect time to chat with you two lover girls because
00:47kicks in conversation an immersive experience where you're helping people
00:51get their love lives together what is what's going on so kicks in conversation
00:56is actually my 10-year anniversary for comministry a relationship platform and
01:00that's the television show that was featured on Fox Soul and in the black
01:03network and so it's a celebration but we are going to have a moment where we have
01:07the conversation it's going to be speared off of my new card game attachment
01:10styles well it's a why do we respond to to love the way that why do we react to
01:15love the way we do and so a lot of times it's because of our attachment style and so
01:20we're going to talk a little bit about that and do the card game and just have
01:23some relationship talk but it's more of a celebration for the 10-year
01:26anniversary I'm obsessed with attachment style theory and everything like that
01:29what are we both I'm anxious anxious are you yeah I'm anxious yeah I'm working on
01:36it because you could be any of the well I would say between secure and
01:40attachment not so much avoidant or a fearful avoidant but I'm definitely
01:44anxious trying to work on building secure attachment style
01:47Drew how about you attachment yeah which one are you attachment no which one
01:52what do you mean
01:54she's just not fearful what am I you might need to help me discover
01:57because there's avoidant anxious secure and fearful avoidant it's four
02:03oh so are you anxious in your relationship or
02:07yeah so it could be
02:10everybody yeah do you feel safe no I didn't feel safe did you have a lot of
02:15anxiety I did okay you didn't give mixed signals because you were married so
02:18right no I was all in yeah it was anxious because there was a lot of like
02:22toxicity there I mean if you know you know
02:25it was just kind of there and so yeah but thanks see that's why we're friends
02:29because she helps me and we bounce all of this relationship conversation off of
02:34each other is the toxicity still there because of course last season
02:39rouse of Atlanta fans saw the basement saga and you guys trying to meet in the
02:45middle at some parts of it how are we doing that with Ralph we are focusing on a
02:50healthy co-parenting relationship now right yeah so I think like after a while you just
02:54get tired like we don't want to keep arguing every season every day we've got kids so
03:01literally like now I can say we're in a space of just putting more focus on
03:04them and we have a lot of new developments in our case that are
03:07happening so we're almost like through this prop this three-year process oh my
03:12god three years crazy so what have you changed about your dynamic is it a style
03:18of communication that you've altered and has Chanel helped with any this as a
03:23relationship expert look I learned something in every conversation and I
03:27asked a lot of questions but I have been on a journey of like healing yeah you
03:31know and you guys have kind of seen that just going through everything focusing
03:34more on me putting myself first getting back to my career yes putting out an
03:39album which helped me so much that was like my therapy and just getting back to
03:44my purpose in life yeah you know I think for so long because of the anxiety and the
03:49anxiousness I was like submissive and wanting to do whatever I could to make it
03:53work where I kind of lost myself and my voice which you guys saw a lot play out on the
03:57Real Housewives of Atlanta so now I'm just in a place of like this is me this
04:01is who I am you know and I'm getting back to my love which is acting and music
04:05yeah the music has been so good I was just telling you before we started
04:09batter is like my absolute anthem it is so good produced by Dennis too or listen
04:15that was produced by ghost kid producer he's like billboard charting producer so
04:19from my album I've had the opportunity to work with so many great producers and
04:23artists now working on my second album so that was like a little tease to check the
04:27temperature like do people really still want music for my top 25 playlist it was
04:33the number one played song and the family when you posted about everyone on
04:37social media was obsessed with that I love you I love y'all like thank you for
04:41this we love you so so much so new music you're gonna batting it back into acting
04:45what about your your love life are we like are we trying to date you'll see on
04:49next season me try to date and you're gonna see how that goes for Ralph feel about
04:57you trying to date and do you care yeah I don't care I say this is my selfish
05:05season you know even doing my album and like when people were confused about me
05:09and Dennis I was like I'm standing on it because this is something that actually
05:12was positive in my life and I think you guys saw so much negativity and so much
05:16emotion and tears I was like this is actually making me happy you know the music
05:20and Dennis was the vehicle so I was grateful for that so I think now that was my
05:24selfish season I chose something for me that didn't make sense and now we're
05:29like everyone is in a better place you know and as a relationship expert for
05:32someone getting back into the field of dating and everything have you noticed is
05:36there a major trend of make things people should not do that they kind of
05:40fall into habits of doing you know what I mean I think and I always advocate for
05:43purpose you heard her say purpose before you even consider being in a
05:47relationship you need to know your purpose right so that you don't live
05:50vicariously through someone else and you put more value on them and not
05:54yourself so she's putting herself first that's so important I love that because
05:58I feel it is a thing where people put so much into the relationship where it's
06:01their identity yeah and they're like who am I without it exactly they're stuck in
06:05it when it's not serving them right so you know your purpose if you if you
06:09disappoint me okay I'm disappointed but I'm moving on I'm not falling apart I'm
06:12not losing myself because I'm good with me and now it's time for love bites a VRT
06:17segment brought to you by Sonic and in honor of love bites we kind of need an
06:20update on your friendship with Porsche and also Porsche's new boo I mean I'm
06:24wearing the drew wig when I saw the go naked drew collab I was like what happened
06:30what shifted like how did you guys get to a good spot because y'all were
06:34absolutely not in a good spot absolutely not it was so hard like that season was
06:39so hard for me because I was so excited like my girl's back and then to find
06:43ourselves in this and I'm like girl what's going on like it just wasn't
06:46adding up for me but as you saw like we got to the other side of it she took
06:51ownership which I wish some of the other ladies would take note of it's so much
06:55easier when you take ownership she apologized and after that it's like let's
06:58just move on you know and and make money together and laugh again and we're
07:02doing all the things so I also love for taking ownership of how she loves and who
07:06she loves to like having her kind of really come into her own in this new
07:10relationship that she's like loud and proudly proclaiming and everything it
07:13must be so beautiful to kind of watch her step into that I love this for her
07:16and I love that she's putting herself out there like unapologetically and when
07:20you like are around her now you like I got my girl back like I'm like this is
07:24the Porsche that I knew and that I love and she's just a lot of fun so I think
07:29that's what you'll see you know this season is just a lot more laughs a lot more
07:33less tears I think we were all just crying laughs have the two of y'all met
07:37Patrice Portia's new boo yes okay and how do we how do we you haven't met
07:41Patrice yet okay but how do you feel about Patrice so cool yeah she seems like
07:45a good time like you guys will see too you know on the season like she's just
07:49there as a support for her and whoever's around Portia is going to feel that and
07:54she looks out for everyone you know who's around but she's like you need
07:57anything just a servant and I'm like wow she's gonna take great care of my girl
08:00and oh I love that you see her kind of being a support system yeah for Portia do you
08:05have a dream type of man for Drew a dream because you've talked to her all the time
08:09about anything and everything yeah you know what what's your dreams and no I'll
08:15say this so I mean we talked about it a little bit but I always felt like the
08:20outer appearance mattered the most but I feel like now right right then we talked
08:26about that that's a bonus that's about it but it's about similar goals similar
08:31purposes compatibility is so important right because you have chemistry with a
08:35lot of different people right but you got to be compatible and it's gonna have
08:38longevity like we have to have some things in common yeah you know and I feel
08:42too like compatible for like when life gets life you know what I mean not the fun
08:46stuff right not about the pretty face that's an added bonus but it's about what
08:51we're gonna do together yeah and when it comes to like core values do you know what
08:56you're looking for yet like someone who is blank blank and blank oh god they got to
09:01believe in you know what you don't want I sometimes we don't know that we have
09:19haven't had those experiences you know because we do look at the outer appearance
09:23and what someone looks like but when you go through a relationship a marriage and a divorce
09:27now you know okay so that doesn't work for me yes and I'm not gonna do that again yeah I'm
09:33also
09:33assuming you based on social media you don't want to be seeing Kelly anytime soon oh well I can I
09:39tried to when there was a lockbox on the door like were you really trying to get some chicken and
09:45waffles or what no I one thing I've always done is eating the chicken and waffles okay let's just put
09:51that out there I'm gonna what I want to do is eat and
09:53my kids you know they love the chicken and waffles so it's like I'm gonna do it for the kids
09:57um we were at the target which is in you know the same well it was I don't even know
10:03what it
10:03because it ain't there no more and I was like oh we're right here boom boom boom and I was
10:06just like
10:07wow you know and I think this is the thing as much as she's come for me and given me
10:12all this well I
10:12don't know what Kelly's issue is with me really truly um but I've always tried to be supportive but I
10:18feel
10:18like you know that's what you get girl I mean I didn't do it I don't know why she's mad
10:23at me I
10:23didn't close the restaurant down were you were you shocked that she did like multiple instagram stories
10:30about you it was like she's bothered like it was almost like obsessed a little bit I was like girl
10:35you okay like spicy chihuahua it was just like you know I'm always surrounded by like dogs and puppies
10:41for some reason I don't know what's going on am I just like I mean y'all know I got
10:47dog bones
10:47like what's up I don't know I mean you repaired things with Portia do you think that there is a
10:52path to peace with Kelly moving forward and Chanel could you perhaps help her because friendships
10:58are relationships too yeah they are they are but I mean what's the dynamic like what's the relational
11:05dynamic listen because she because she was new so I don't understand the bee like what the issue
11:10is I just feel like she came in really trying to find her place you know she came in having
11:15to look
11:16up a lot and she was just trying to figure it out like where where do I fit and she
11:19decided to come
11:20for me yeah I am always an open book I'm I'm always willing to try which I have you know
11:26with
11:26you open because but because if you could come back from that was the first or second episode with
11:31Portia and I don't remember anything else from that season I remember that scene okay if you can
11:39if you could come back from that you can come back from anything the expert has spoken and we don't
11:44have that much time left with uh you both but so attachment styles is going to be the big focus
11:48yes
11:48what else can people expect look we're going to celebrate right we're going to have all types of food
11:54we're going to have funnel cakes milkshakes we'll have a ballerina Johnny Blaze is going to perform
12:00what wow and Tyler Lepley he's also going to be the male voice on the during the conversation
12:06very cool that's going to be exciting forward to I mean because every time is a party with you both
12:14because this is such a fun dynamic I'm so excited and thank you guys for stopping by thank you
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