00:00You ever seen two people who shouldn't fall for each other
00:05but can't help it anyway?
00:08He's the bad boy running from his past,
00:10she's the one who refuses to let him hide from it.
00:12Together, Nekonoa turned chaos into connection
00:15and heartbreak into something that actually lasts.
00:18Their story is messy, magnetic,
00:20and full of lessons about what real love looks like when it's tested.
00:23This is your Culpa Trilogy Dating Handbook,
00:2510 Lessons We've Learned from Nekonoa About Love That Refuses to Quit.
00:28Tip number one, love can happen before you're ready.
00:32Nekonoa meet at the worst possible time.
00:35When Nekonoa marries Nekonoa's mom,
00:50they can't stand each other at first,
00:52but then they can't stay away from one another.
00:54Their titching is instant, confusing, and impossible to ignore.
01:05Sometimes love doesn't wait for you to be ready.
01:07It just crashes in and rewrites everything you thought you knew about yourself.
01:11You can laugh and say,
01:13I didn't see this coming,
01:14or admit, I'm fighting it, but I'm still falling.
01:17Or even tease,
01:18you make my life harder, but I kind of like it.
01:21Tip number two, keep your identity even when you're in love.
01:24You know when a relationship starts to take over your whole life?
01:31I'll always take it.
01:32Always.
01:36I'm going to give you my heart, Picasso.
01:39Please, don't break it.
01:43Never.
01:43That's Nick and Nekonoa.
01:45For Nekonoa, school, friends, and the city she knew disappear the moment she moves into that mansion.
01:52She loses more than a home.
01:53She loses a version of herself that she used to be.
01:56Meanwhile, Nekonoa starts drifting away from the life he had before
02:00because he's too focused on keeping her safe.
02:12It is at that stage where love feels so big, it blocks out everything else.
02:16But if being together means losing yourself, that is not love.
02:20That's a warning sign.
02:21The best kind of love lets you stay you.
02:24You can joke,
02:24I still need my own life.
02:26Thanks.
02:27Or admit,
02:28I love you,
02:28but I miss me too.
02:30Tip number three.
02:31Honesty hurts less than secrets.
02:33Nick and Nekonoa don't keep their relationship a secret for fun.
02:36They're scared of what people will think, especially their parents.
02:40Their friends kind of understand.
02:51But at home, it's complicated.
03:02Keeping it quiet felt safer,
03:04like they were protecting what they had.
03:06But secrets build walls,
03:08even between the people you love most.
03:10When the truth finally comes out,
03:11it blows everything up worse than honesty ever could have.
03:16Will, we have to do something.
03:18Whatever it is, but this has to end.
03:20Yeah.
03:21You can admit,
03:22I was scared to tell the truth,
03:24but hiding it hurt more.
03:25If love's real,
03:26it can handle the truth.
03:28Tip number four.
03:29Jealousy isn't proof of love.
03:31Jealousy hits Nick and Noah hard.
03:33He doesn't trust the people around her,
03:35and she starts doubting where she stands with him.
03:37It's messy,
03:38and it feels passionate in the moment,
03:40but it starts to chip away at the trust they build.
03:42Nick starts asking questions
03:44when Noah's counselor is seen leaving her apartment late one night,
03:47and that doesn't go over too well.
04:17The thing is,
04:18jealousy can look like caring,
04:20but it's really fear in disguise.
04:22When love turns into control,
04:24it stops feeling like love at all.
04:26You can remind yourself,
04:27if I have to prove I'm loyal,
04:29you don't really trust me.
04:30Or say,
04:31love doesn't mean control,
04:32it means confidence.
04:34Tip number five.
04:35Not everything broken needs fixing.
04:37Every time Nick and Noah fall apart,
04:44they rush to make up before they even understand what went wrong.
04:47It's like they're afraid of silence,
04:49so they fill it with quick apologies instead of real change.
04:52Just like when they hadn't seen each other in over four years,
04:55they'd immediately jump back into bed
04:56instead of talking about what broke them up in the first place.
04:59It takes distance for them to realize
05:01that some things don't need fixing right away.
05:03Sometimes you need space to understand
05:05what you're actually trying to repair.
05:07No, no, no, espera.
05:09No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
05:10no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
05:19You can say,
05:20maybe we just need a pause,
05:22not a patch,
05:23or admit,
05:23I'm not trying to fix you,
05:25I'm trying to understand us.
05:27Tip number six.
05:29Don't let family secrets break you.
05:31Nick and Noah's relationship
05:32doesn't just deal with their own problems
05:34and inherits everyone else's too.
05:36Their families are tangled in secrets that split right into their love story.
05:40Affairs, lies, and old mistakes start shaping how they see each other
05:44before they even get a chance to figure out things for themselves.
05:47Noah is fresh out of a relationship when she meets Nick,
05:50and her ex shows up at her door trying to win her back.
05:59Nick's dad lies to him about why his mom left,
06:02and that betrayal sticks with him.
06:06Nick, you have to know that I didn't leave your father.
06:09There was another then.
06:11Right, Rafaela?
06:13Did you know you before?
06:17Then Briere, Nick's old flame, randomly ends up as Noah's college roommate,
06:22dragging the past right into their present.
06:25Where is Noah?
06:26You're late, Romeo.
06:28What have you told me?
06:29What am I going to tell you?
06:30You're amazing.
06:32I feel a lot about the accident.
06:33Really?
06:34You didn't even wait until you get out of the hospital.
06:36You left there.
06:37Pulled.
06:38With more than 20 fractures.
06:39And on top, being like I was.
06:41Being like?
06:43Embaraged.
06:45They realize that being honest from the start matters more than protecting each other from the truth.
06:50Love only works when you stop blaming someone new for the pain someone else caused.
06:54You can say,
06:55I'm not your past and you're not mine.
06:57Or admit,
06:58Let's be honest now so we don't end up like them.
07:01Tip number seven.
07:02Forgetting is not the same as forgiving.
07:04Nick and Noah try to move on by pretending everything's fine.
07:08But what they ignore always finds its way back.
07:11It's not until they face what hurts them that things start to change for real.
07:14Although four years pass between their breakup and when they reunite at Lyon and Gina's wedding,
07:20you can instantly tell their chemistry is still intact.
07:29But Nick is still walking around with some ill feelings towards Noah he can't seem to get over.
07:33Forgiveness doesn't mean pretending something never happened.
07:37It means remembering it,
07:38learning from it,
07:39and choosing to move forward anyway.
07:42You don't feel anything about him.
07:45I know.
07:48Look, if you don't know how to forgive,
07:49learn how to fit.
07:52Sometimes the fish will also escape.
07:56You can say,
07:57I remember what hurt,
07:59but I still choose you.
08:00Or admit,
08:02I'm not forgetting.
08:03I'm healing and moving with you.
08:05Tip number eight.
08:07You can't carry the weight alone.
08:08Nick keeps trying to protect Noah from his past,
08:11and she keeps taking on guilt that isn't hers.
08:14In the process,
08:15they both end up feeling alone.
08:18Noah tries to intervene by helping to repair the relationship between Nick and his mother.
08:43And Nick doesn't understand the struggle Noah is having with losing her father,
08:47even though he kidnapped her.
08:59Remember that real love doesn't mean carrying everything for each other.
09:03It means sharing the weight so neither person breaks under it.
09:06You can admit,
09:07you don't have to carry it by yourself.
09:09I'm here.
09:10Tip number nine.
09:12Even messy love can teach you something.
09:14Their relationship is a roller coaster.
09:15It's full of fights, mistakes, and make-ups,
09:19but every moment shapes who they become.
09:23I want to start from zero.
09:26You and me alone.
09:28Both alone.
09:31That's impossible.
09:32Nick holding onto resentment towards Noah almost pushes her to the point of officially leaving him.
09:37But when he realizes he can't do life without her,
09:40he races to catch up and is willing to do anything to win her heart.
09:46You can't leave me at the margin.
09:48You can take your 55 genes and take them.
09:51In total, you won't notice a lot.
09:53Damn.
09:56Even the hardest parts of their story teach them something about love,
10:00forgiveness,
10:01and who they want to be.
10:02You can say,
10:03we're a mess,
10:04but we're our mess.
10:06Or admit,
10:07thank you for the chaos because I found myself in it.
10:10Tip number 10.
10:11Real love grows with you.
10:13By the end,
10:14Nick and Noah's love looks nothing like it did at the start.
10:17It's calmer,
10:18more grounded,
10:19and built on choice instead of impulse.
10:22What starts as something hidden and low-key forbidden,
10:25ends up beautiful and with a new addition to their family.
10:31It's incredible.
10:33I didn't know if the babies would relax so much.
10:36It's perfect.
10:38Their wedding scene at the end left us all in tears
10:41because we finally got to see the two people we were rooting for
10:44with their happy ending.
10:46Asi pues,
10:47yo os declaro marido y mujer.
10:57Real love grows up with you.
10:59It's not about how intense it starts,
11:01but how strong it becomes when the drama fades.
11:04When it's all said and done,
11:05you can say,
11:06we're not who we were,
11:07and that's the best part.
11:09Or admit,
11:10I choose you now,
11:11and I'll choose you tomorrow.
11:12And that's the Culper Trilogy Dating Handbook.
11:1410 Lessons from Naked Noah about how love evolves,
11:18heals,
11:18and lasts.
11:19Which of these lessons hit home for you?
11:21Comment below and tell us what Culper Moment felt the most real to you.
11:25Be sure to stream Culper Mia, Culper Tuya,
11:27and Culper Nuestra,
11:29now on Prime Video.
11:30And that's what we're doing.
11:33But I've had great information on a Friday.
11:33Let's spend better time.
11:34I'm sorry.
11:34I'm sorry.
11:34I'll be right back.
11:34I'll be right back.
11:34Bye-bye.
11:34I'll be right back to my school.
11:36And I'll be right back.
11:38And I'll be right back.
11:40Bye-bye.
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