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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04We put it there.
00:00:06Oh, what?
00:00:09I may not be able to give you everything you want,
00:00:12but everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:00:15Do you think that I'm enough for you?
00:00:18Sure.
00:00:19That's what I need to feel, that I'm enough for her.
00:00:23I really do want this to work.
00:00:25You love me.
00:00:26Of course, baby.
00:00:29I just want the world for your daughter,
00:00:31and I was hoping I could get your blessing to marry her.
00:00:36Well, Forrest, you have my blessing.
00:00:40I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
00:00:44I feel like Chena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
00:00:48Even though her family needs her help with money,
00:00:51what I've seen, the way they live,
00:00:54it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
00:00:58So I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to basically flip out.
00:01:05We had that argument, and you called my sister, and you were a little bit unhinged.
00:01:11I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:01:16I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful.
00:01:20Here we go again.
00:01:22Huh.
00:01:23I thought the reason we were fighting so much was because we were in a long-distance relationship.
00:01:29But we're still fighting.
00:01:31What does it say about our marriage?
00:01:34I don't trust Michael.
00:01:39I want you to cut him out of your life.
00:01:42He's just my friend, and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
00:01:47I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
00:01:52I am shocked that Birkon decides to walk out on me.
00:01:58It absolutely feels like a sight of him that I haven't seen yet, and I really don't like.
00:02:03Michael.
00:02:04The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:02:09If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
00:02:14That's it.
00:02:16I have to try to impress his uncle, but what kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:02:21I'm worried I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:02:25I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:02:33I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:03:01Yesterday, I arrived at Sheena's family home in the province, and even though the family accepted me, what I've learned is just leaving me confused and bothered.
00:03:17First off, I believed that the entire time I was coming here to save Sheena from horrific evil monsters, and it turns out her family has this nice, beautiful home and are just normal, caring people.
00:03:31So last night, I tried to talk to Sheena.
00:03:33You have to be honest with me. You described your family as almost like terrible monsters that were stealing from you. Are they just, are they just, is this an act for me?
00:03:44No, they're not an act. They're great people.
00:03:48But they're not really great people if they're mistreating their daughter.
00:03:52You don't have to think anything about worry.
00:03:56They gave their blessings to you, even though it's first meeting. So it's a good thing.
00:04:01I wish her answers were more, you know, answers and not more like dodging around.
00:04:11Now I'm left with more questions than what I started with.
00:04:16I feel like I know bits and pieces of the most important parts of the story, but there's still many other things that need to be uncovered.
00:04:26I do believe my mom is going to show up and she's going to see the nice place.
00:04:30She's going to see this, this, and she's going to say, why did you need a bunny in the first place?
00:04:34And she's going to express herself and say exactly what's on her mind.
00:04:40I'm kind of relieved that my mom is coming because she can get the third perspective and see what's really going on.
00:04:47Coffee time, gotta get my coffee time.
00:04:51Sheena's family seems to be under the impression that she's going to financially support them going forward.
00:04:56So I still want to tell Sheena's family that we are cutting them off and hopefully my mom and Dev can back me up and kind of just get past the big hurdle that is impending.
00:05:10That's a strong cup of joe right there.
00:05:18Okay, Sheen, they should be here any second.
00:05:20Okay.
00:05:22Come on, babe.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Are you nervous, baby?
00:05:32Yeah, so nervous.
00:05:35I don't know what's going to happen today.
00:05:38I know Molly will bring up the finances and it's a conversation that we need to have.
00:05:44But Forrest wanted to impress my family, so he is kinder.
00:05:48I'm quite worried Molly would act not as nice.
00:05:55Oh, yes.
00:05:56Moment of truth.
00:06:01Oh.
00:06:02Oh, boy.
00:06:04Wow.
00:06:06Hey, guys.
00:06:07Wow.
00:06:07Hi, Mom.
00:06:08Hi, Dev.
00:06:09Mm-hmm.
00:06:10This is so beautiful here.
00:06:12Well, thank you.
00:06:13Wow.
00:06:15Wow.
00:06:17Right off the bat, alarm bells are going off in my head.
00:06:24My family is out right now.
00:06:26So come here, guys.
00:06:27I'll give you a tour.
00:06:29Here's the garden and stuff.
00:06:30Man.
00:06:31Man.
00:06:33Sheena's told me that her family runs this struggling bed and breakfast.
00:06:38So I'm expecting something kind of quaint and rough around the edges.
00:06:43We had different kinds of plants here.
00:06:45We have fruit-bearing trees, red palm, orchids.
00:06:49Huh.
00:06:49I don't know this plant, but this is very rare to have flowers.
00:06:53Oh.
00:06:54My first reaction, holy .
00:06:57Sheena, who did your grass?
00:07:01Actually, before when he got this place, it doesn't have anything.
00:07:06So you guys did all of this?
00:07:07Yes, from no scratch.
00:07:12Sheena's expecting me to believe that if they don't take her money, that they're going to starve.
00:07:18I mean, they're living better than Forrest and I back in the United States.
00:07:23This is not adding up at all.
00:07:29And this is the pool area.
00:07:31Oh.
00:07:32Then if it's around the nighttime, it would have different color, light color.
00:07:36Well, would you look at that?
00:07:40So when do I get to meet your family, Sheena?
00:07:42At dinner?
00:07:44Yes, Mom.
00:07:45Okay.
00:07:45I'm definitely going to tell Sheena's family every single thing that Sheena has told me,
00:07:53this whole story of the past seven years.
00:07:56And then I want to see how they react.
00:07:58I want to see if they're going to be shocked or if they're part of it or whatever.
00:08:03Yeah, thank you for giving me the grand tour.
00:08:07It's just beautiful.
00:08:08Yeah.
00:08:09Tonight, I will get the truth for Sheena.
00:08:12I think I'm just going to go put my legs up for a bit until dinner.
00:08:16Okay, Mom.
00:08:17This is a wrapper.
00:08:32I wish I can tie it on my waist.
00:08:34You can't.
00:08:35Show me.
00:08:36You have to spread your leg.
00:08:38You know, I don't have much waist, so.
00:08:40I don't.
00:08:41You're tight.
00:08:42Okay.
00:08:43On the side?
00:08:43Yeah, on the side.
00:08:44I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:46You look beautiful.
00:08:48Oh, la, la.
00:08:54You have to fold it a little bit.
00:09:01On the first one, the inner one is shorter than the...
00:09:05The inner one is shorter?
00:09:06The shorter one, yeah.
00:09:09Okay.
00:09:11It's okay.
00:09:13It's okay.
00:09:15Beautiful.
00:09:16Look at me.
00:09:17He deserve a kiss.
00:09:19Mm-mm.
00:09:20Yeah.
00:09:21Daniel and I are going today to meet his uncle and get a blessing so we can get married.
00:09:26And, and I'm nervous.
00:09:28I don't know the traditions.
00:09:30I don't know the culture.
00:09:31And I don't know what his uncle is going to ask me.
00:09:34I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
00:09:35And Daniel will blame me.
00:09:37You will be the one to hold the wine.
00:09:40Okay.
00:09:40When you kneel down there, you give, you give me the wine.
00:09:43I will be the one to present it to my uncle.
00:09:45Okay.
00:09:45But I kneel with it first.
00:09:46Yes.
00:09:49I will be kneeling down with you.
00:09:50Okay.
00:09:52Good.
00:09:52He'll give it to me.
00:09:53Then I will hand it to my uncle.
00:09:56Okay.
00:09:57Lisa is from another country.
00:10:00She don't understand our culture.
00:10:02I have to instruct her on what to do so she doesn't offend my uncle.
00:10:07Headside.
00:10:08Let's try.
00:10:12Sorry.
00:10:12Daniel wants me to have traditional attire to meet his uncle.
00:10:23And I'm expected to learn how to put it on myself.
00:10:26I think I'm going to look like a clown.
00:10:29I can't hear anything because the hair tie is like plastic and it's rattling in my ears.
00:10:34But he's telling me this is Igbo traditional attire and this is what I must wear.
00:10:38So this is going to be pretty interesting.
00:10:40Maybe my bangs should be back.
00:10:47I don't mean to laugh, honey.
00:10:49I just got scared.
00:10:53All right.
00:10:53Let me try again.
00:10:54Good.
00:10:59What are you doing, baby?
00:11:01It doesn't look too bad.
00:11:03Oh, my God.
00:11:05All right.
00:11:05Can you help me?
00:11:07But you were there when the woman was teaching you yesterday.
00:11:10I didn't have a mirror.
00:11:11Where was my mirror to watch her?
00:11:13I had my head and I was holding it.
00:11:15You must help me.
00:11:17Oh, my God.
00:11:22Lisa doesn't know how to put on the attire.
00:11:25Thank God.
00:11:26All these things, I know them from when I was growing up.
00:11:29When my mom was alive, I used to see her when she started.
00:11:32And I remember.
00:11:35But I never knew that someday I would be the one to help my girlfriend to tie her up.
00:11:41You have to make it tight or it's going to fall off.
00:11:49You got this.
00:11:52Okay.
00:11:53Okay.
00:11:54How do I look?
00:11:55You look good.
00:11:55I'm nervous.
00:12:09Why are you nervous?
00:12:11Because I am.
00:12:12This is a big deal.
00:12:15I want to impress her.
00:12:16Impress my uncle?
00:12:17Yes.
00:12:17I want to give a good...
00:12:19I want to put my best foot forward.
00:12:21I'm scared and you're not telling me anything except to kneel in front of him.
00:12:29I don't know what he's going to ask me.
00:12:31I will do my best.
00:12:32My uncle will not ask you what you don't know.
00:12:34So don't lie to him.
00:12:35I know.
00:12:35But what you're considering a lie and what I consider a lie might be two different things.
00:12:39I'm from America.
00:12:40My culture is different than yours.
00:12:41Baby, lie is lie.
00:12:42I want to show him that I am willing to go above and beyond to be a good Igbo wife.
00:12:58Igbo wife.
00:13:00Igbo wife.
00:13:06I'm trying to be positive about Lisa meeting my uncle.
00:13:10Brian loves us.
00:13:12I told my uncle a little bit about Lisa, but not only her weapon.
00:13:19There are some other things she told me.
00:13:21It is a big, big sin.
00:13:23She told me that she has changed for good, but I want to make sure she's being honest.
00:13:29And I am worried that my uncle will not give us the blessing if she cannot explain herself.
00:13:36And I will have to walk away.
00:13:38Remember what you promised me, that you're not going to talk to her again.
00:13:50Yeah.
00:13:50I need you to show me that you keep your promise.
00:13:55I've been very concerned ever since it's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:14:01They really encourage cheating.
00:14:03Can I see your phone now?
00:14:06So, we're going to go meet your friends.
00:14:11I do not think this is an ideal time to meet Memo and Tuba.
00:14:17But part of me really wants to ask them questions because there's a lot more I need to learn about beer con.
00:14:24Tell me something interesting about beer con.
00:14:26I'm going to go meet your friends.
00:14:56I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now, and me and Natalyn are on our way overdue honeymoon.
00:15:20It's a strange feeling to have all these firsts with me and my wife.
00:15:25After three years of being married, first time sleeping together, first time eating together, first time waking up beside each other together, and then we had our first in-person fight.
00:15:39So right now it seems like I'm in the doghouse.
00:15:47Okay, she made her side of the bed.
00:15:50And, uh, last night things got a little bit tense because I told Anna not to call my sister and vent about our issues in our marriage.
00:16:02Last night during our couple's massage, I am trying so hard to show him a good time, trying to be romantic, but he's always trying to find ways to criticize me.
00:16:18I would rather Anna come to me about our issues in our marriage.
00:16:23Why can't I reach out to his sister? She's my family, too.
00:16:27So why can't I confide to her when he can confide to any bitch?
00:16:33I mean, Anna, are we gonna talk?
00:16:46Talk about what?
00:16:47I mean, about last night.
00:16:49I mean, I apologize for, you know, bringing that up at the wrong time.
00:16:53I want to enjoy the trip.
00:16:59Can we do that?
00:17:05Okay.
00:17:08All right, we're good?
00:17:09Okay, I hope.
00:17:10It's all right.
00:17:13I'm happy that he apologized, but that doesn't mean all is good.
00:17:19Last night, it wasn't just really about him criticizing me.
00:17:26It's way deeper than that.
00:17:29It's about him doing things that's giving me trust issues.
00:17:36Now that I'm in person with my husband, there are things that I question about him.
00:17:42I noticed that it's beautiful out today.
00:17:46Yeah.
00:17:47You want to head to the beach?
00:17:48Yes.
00:17:49Okay.
00:17:56But I don't want to waste this moment, especially this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:18:05What's going on over there?
00:18:07Kayaking?
00:18:08Yeah.
00:18:09And this one is like a bicycle.
00:18:11Yeah.
00:18:12This one is so cool.
00:18:14We definitely gonna do these.
00:18:16Are we interested in renting this?
00:18:18Yeah, you can do it, sir.
00:18:20Okay.
00:18:21Have you been in one of this before?
00:18:23No.
00:18:24Are you excited?
00:18:25I'm excited.
00:18:27All right.
00:18:28Woo-hoo!
00:18:29Bye-bye.
00:18:31Going out this way.
00:18:34Oh, it's so fun.
00:18:36Yeah.
00:18:37Oh.
00:18:37I just love this.
00:18:41Just remember this moment.
00:18:42Look at her face.
00:18:46It's so long.
00:18:52You're like a stork.
00:18:53It's pedaling right here.
00:18:55The aqua bike is a little bit uncomfortable because I'm so tall.
00:19:00I couldn't...
00:19:01You have long legs.
00:19:02Yeah.
00:19:03Here's...
00:19:04This is difficult.
00:19:06Yeah.
00:19:09They're not built for people over six foot.
00:19:14Maybe jet skis next time.
00:19:20Oh, my God.
00:19:20That was so fun.
00:19:21Cheers.
00:19:25Cheers.
00:19:28Good.
00:19:33It's pretty good.
00:19:34So, you know, this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:19:43Mm-hmm.
00:19:43So, we're about to go back home really soon.
00:19:47And you're going to meet my mom.
00:19:49But there's something I want to talk about.
00:19:53Okay.
00:19:55You know what we argued about last night?
00:19:59That was about my sister.
00:20:00Yeah, also because you remind me of why I did what I did.
00:20:07Because you talk to this person, I don't want you to.
00:20:12I need to make sure that you keep your promise.
00:20:18Remember what you promised me when you were on the phone before you came down here.
00:20:25That you're not going to talk to her again.
00:20:27Yeah.
00:20:28But I need you to show me that you keep your promise.
00:20:33Okay.
00:20:34So, can I see your phone?
00:20:38Now?
00:20:43Okay.
00:20:44I know that checking Yvonne's phone is bad.
00:20:50I wish I don't have to do that.
00:20:52But having an online marriage, we are not together physically.
00:20:56For me to know what he's really doing.
00:20:59I have been very concerned ever since he's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:21:08Because they really encourage cheating.
00:21:10They really say that if he cheats, it's okay as long as he provides.
00:21:26It really scares me a little bit.
00:21:28So, for my peace of mind, I need to be totally sure that there's nothing going on.
00:21:35Wow.
00:21:39Just going to leave me?
00:22:00You're just going to leave me in a hut in a village.
00:22:02And you are making conversation about Michael, person I hate.
00:22:14I don't care about Michael.
00:22:18You don't care about a lot, do you?
00:22:19No.
00:22:20BeerCon's plan for us today was to make evil eye beads and then go meet his friends, Memo and Tuba.
00:22:31But I'm just really unsure of everything right now.
00:22:39After keeping some pretty big secrets from me, BeerCon has a lot of balls to try to tell me who I can and can't be friends with.
00:22:48I knew that BeerCon had a lot of issues with my relationship with Michael.
00:22:54But to tell me he wants me to cut my best friend out of my life, this is a whole new controlling side of him.
00:23:02And it's really concerning to me.
00:23:06You left me sitting in a hut alone.
00:23:10Because I don't like him?
00:23:12Actually, I have nothing in common with him.
00:23:15Okay?
00:23:16You both care about me.
00:23:17You have that in common.
00:23:18I think he's more than caring about you.
00:23:22But you always said you trust me.
00:23:24Yeah.
00:23:26You have to trust me on this.
00:23:29Because man knows man.
00:23:32Okay?
00:23:33Step back and see your relationship with him.
00:23:37And so you think he has some sort of intention that's other than just being my friend?
00:23:46Yeah, exactly.
00:23:48I don't agree.
00:23:50Okay.
00:23:50So we're going to go meet your friends.
00:23:56And I want to do that.
00:23:58I would like for you to give me that same respect.
00:24:01So could you at least, at some point, be open to meeting him or calling him?
00:24:10You are pushing my will.
00:24:11I'm not trying to push your will.
00:24:12I'm not trying to push your will.
00:24:17I'm trying to make you see the hypocrisy in it.
00:24:21Because otherwise, it feels like you just get to determine who's important in our lives.
00:24:26In our lives.
00:24:28I do not think this is an ideal time to meet Memo and Tuba.
00:24:42But part of me really wants to take the opportunity to meet them, to ask them questions.
00:24:49Especially since the last few days have proven that there's a lot more I need to learn about beer con.
00:24:58So this is my usual table.
00:25:12Maybe we should sit here.
00:25:14Okay.
00:25:15You know everyone.
00:25:16Yeah, I know.
00:25:17So good to meet you.
00:25:24I'm Laura.
00:25:26I'm Puba.
00:25:27Nice to meet you.
00:25:28Nice to meet you.
00:25:29Hi.
00:25:30I'm Laura.
00:25:31Nice to meet you.
00:25:32Nice to meet you.
00:25:33Even though I am feeling bad about the argument, I think this is the best time for Memo and Tuba
00:25:39to meet Laura because they're the best two people can teach her that I'm not a bad guy.
00:25:48She's trying to protect the one I love.
00:25:52I will translate.
00:25:53You guys are going to mix up and...
00:25:56And I'm going to ask lots of questions about you.
00:25:58Okay.
00:25:59Okay.
00:26:00Yeah, this sounds like a threat.
00:26:02It's not a threat.
00:26:03It's not a threat.
00:26:04Okay.
00:26:05It's not a threat.
00:26:06Okay.
00:26:07It's not a threat.
00:26:08It's not a threat.
00:26:09It's not a threat.
00:26:10It's not a threat.
00:26:11It's not a threat.
00:26:12I think a lot of you have known your own man.
00:26:15How long have you known Birkan?
00:26:19How long have you known?
00:26:20Three years.
00:26:21Three years.
00:26:23Three years.
00:26:24Thank you sir. Thank you.
00:26:45Life of Birkan, he said.
00:26:50While it's fun to see this side of Birkan hanging out with his friends, it's also kind of eye-opening.
00:27:10He knew everyone when we walked in. He has a regular table.
00:27:15And now I'm hearing that he comes here literally to smoke shisha every day.
00:27:21I mean, he just told me about this massive amount of debt that he has.
00:27:25I feel like he should be doing something more productive with his time.
00:27:30Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
00:27:36That's a new translator here, Aaron.
00:27:38Oh, nice job.
00:27:43People can't reach the inner me, you know?
00:27:48That's why people think I'm tough and I'm angry 24-7.
00:27:54But I also like the dark parts and the protective nature.
00:28:12It's a good combination.
00:28:15We've got fun.
00:28:16We're trying to Obrigada.
00:28:18We're trying to
00:28:31get started.
00:28:32On other hand, we just heard him shout out to you.
00:28:37加油
00:28:39And also I will repeat that.
00:28:42You know that I want my own kids,
00:28:45so this is the time to talk about it.
00:28:47I can't put a time frame on that.
00:28:50I'm 52 years old, getting up there in age,
00:28:53so I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:28:57What do you want?
00:29:02Ooh, my mouth is watering.
00:29:04Ooh!
00:29:06I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:29:09Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom,
00:29:11or am I going to get hard nose, rock hard,
00:29:13battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:29:15I want to talk about Sheena.
00:29:17There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:29:41Oh, baby, I love to see that smile on your face.
00:29:51The lemurs here are kind.
00:29:53You just bring banana, and you just give them,
00:29:56and you're playing with you.
00:29:57Sound like fun.
00:29:58Do lemurs make good pets?
00:29:59Yeah.
00:30:00You know, like a cat or a dog.
00:30:01Oh, no, no.
00:30:02That's illegal with you.
00:30:03Oh, it's illegal.
00:30:04Okay.
00:30:05Today we're taking a boat to nosy coma to see some lemurs.
00:30:12This is something that I've been looking forward to,
00:30:14because I think that Madagascar is the only place
00:30:18that you can find lemurs.
00:30:20You're here, huh?
00:30:21Ooh.
00:30:22Also, for a long time,
00:30:23that's the only thing I knew about Madagascar,
00:30:25from the movie.
00:30:26So I'm really excited to see them in person.
00:30:29Ooh.
00:30:30Oh, oh my.
00:30:33So cute.
00:30:53There's three of them.
00:30:54So do they ever come down?
00:30:57Yeah, they run like this everywhere.
00:31:01And what do they eat?
00:31:02Whenever they see the fruits like that,
00:31:05they eat all of it.
00:31:06Oh, really?
00:31:07Huh.
00:31:08These lemurs.
00:31:09They're cute and they're strange at the same time.
00:31:13To me, they act similar to monkeys,
00:31:16but they're not as human as, like, monkeys are.
00:31:20They look like squirrel monkeys.
00:31:24Oh, look.
00:31:25Wow, this one's right next to us.
00:31:29Hey, man.
00:31:30What's that noise you're making, baby?
00:31:32That's their...
00:31:33Is that their language?
00:31:35I can't do that.
00:31:39I sound more like a big...
00:31:41You close your mouth and do it like that.
00:31:44Monkey, monkey, monkey.
00:31:46Is it monkey or what do you say?
00:31:47Maki.
00:31:48Maki.
00:31:49Maki, Maki.
00:31:50Maki, Maki.
00:31:51Yes.
00:31:52You see?
00:31:53Oh, he's looking around.
00:31:54Let's get a picture.
00:31:55Come on, let's get one together.
00:32:01Man, the kids will love this.
00:32:03Yeah.
00:32:04My boys, I miss them.
00:32:07But it'll be worth it if I can bring a step mommy home.
00:32:11Yeah.
00:32:12I'll be there.
00:32:13I envision that we can have this family unit, just the four of us.
00:32:20You know that I love your kids, right?
00:32:26But I cannot just, you know, being a step mom, like, forever.
00:32:33I want to have my own.
00:32:36I mean, I love kids.
00:32:40But, like, right now, I'm not in a position to have another child.
00:32:46What's the issue?
00:32:50Well, it's...
00:32:52I know it's a hard time, but I know what it is.
00:32:56I know.
00:32:57I took care of my little brother and sister without any help.
00:33:02Like, my dad going to work and only them and me was in the house.
00:33:09And before, when I told you that I want my own kids, then you say,
00:33:13oh, uh, we should talk about it when you're coming here.
00:33:17So this is the time to talk about it.
00:33:22You should decide...
00:33:26you want what you don't want.
00:33:30Oh, Trish, I'm not ready to make that decision right now.
00:33:33At this point in my life, I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:33:42I'm 52 years old, and I'm getting up there in age.
00:33:46So having another child is going to be, like, starting all over again.
00:33:53And it's hard enough, as it is, dealing with my two little ones.
00:33:59And I haven't even told her about what I did in Columbia.
00:34:06She might not even want a child with me after she finds that out.
00:34:13What do you want?
00:34:16I mean, I'm not totally closing the door on the idea of having a child.
00:34:21For how long you'll be, you'll decided, like, okay, now I want to have kids.
00:34:29I can't put a time frame on that.
00:34:34I wish he would stop making excuses and tell me what he really wants.
00:34:41I need to know, and it's very important, and not only for me, but for my family.
00:34:46In my culture, it's very important to have kids.
00:34:53And it's not a question.
00:34:56I'm going to take Rick to my hometown in a few days, and I'm worried.
00:35:02If he decided he does not want to have kids anymore,
00:35:07I'm not sure if I will be able to stay with him.
00:35:19I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:35:27She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys,
00:35:34that you would threaten her and mistreat her.
00:35:38You forced her.
00:35:40Do you just hate it?
00:35:56Oh, big cut!
00:36:10Okay.
00:36:12Wow.
00:36:14It's not very ripe.
00:36:15Hello.
00:36:17Hello.
00:36:19Mom, Dev.
00:36:21This is my sister, Katrina, and my dad, Steve.
00:36:23Hello.
00:36:25This is my mom, Molly, and my dad, Dev.
00:36:27So very nice to meet you, sir.
00:36:29There's Dev.
00:36:30Hello. Good to meet you.
00:36:32Steve, Dev.
00:36:34Dev.
00:36:36Hi, I'm Molly. So very nice to meet you. It's a pleasure.
00:36:39I'm Katrina.
00:36:41Good to meet you, Katrina.
00:36:42Hi, Forrest.
00:36:44Hey, Pops. How's it going?
00:36:45Yeah.
00:36:47So, Mom, we're just trying to show you how we make jackboots.
00:36:50That is a knife.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:53Tonight, I'm worried about, you know, everything that's going to happen.
00:36:58Anyone want to try it?
00:36:59Oh, I sure do.
00:37:00Oh, thank you.
00:37:02I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:37:04Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom who loves and cares everybody,
00:37:07or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard, battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:37:12Want to go sit down for a while?
00:37:15Oh, yeah, that'd be great.
00:37:16That'd be great, yeah.
00:37:18But at the same time, I'm starting to get kind of tired and overwhelmed
00:37:21with learning new things every single time about Sheena.
00:37:25So I'm hoping that we can get the truth all out on the table.
00:37:31Oh, look at that.
00:37:33Yeah.
00:37:34So these are banana leaves.
00:37:35We use this as a buddle fight.
00:37:37Very traditional.
00:37:39This usually was practiced in the military when they went up to the mountains.
00:37:44Yeah.
00:37:45So no plates, just the banana leaves and all the food.
00:37:49Yes, it's wonderful.
00:37:51A buddle fight is like a traditional Filipino culture of everyone to eat in one whole giant leaf.
00:38:00So it's like this.
00:38:01They have to do like this in a line.
00:38:04Ah.
00:38:05I just thought Molly would really enjoy this because she's interested in learning about my culture, especially when it comes to food.
00:38:14Ooh, my mouth is watering.
00:38:16Ooh.
00:38:17I hope that the buddle fight is the only fight that would happen tonight.
00:38:22Next batch.
00:38:23Next batch.
00:38:24Next batch, the whole thing.
00:38:25Seafood.
00:38:26Ooh.
00:38:27Oh, shrimp.
00:38:28Oh, my gosh.
00:38:29Those look delicious mussels.
00:38:32The big fish goes in the middle.
00:38:34Yes.
00:38:35My first impression of Sheena's family was they're hospitable.
00:38:39They're very welcoming.
00:38:42I mean, I've never quite seen a spread as nice as this.
00:38:46Usually, uh, make a rice ball, for instance.
00:38:48Just pick around then.
00:38:49Scoop it in your mouth.
00:38:50Shove it in your mouth.
00:38:51Shove it up.
00:38:52Shove it up.
00:38:53Shove it up.
00:38:54Shove it up.
00:38:55Shove it on up.
00:38:59That be told, that does not line up at all from what I heard about them from Sheena.
00:39:06God, the flavors that just come through.
00:39:09Mm.
00:39:10Mm.
00:39:13I was under the impression that they were these money-grubbing, cruel people that pretty much locked Sheena away.
00:39:21And wouldn't let her out only to go to work and then to hand over her check.
00:39:27That's what I was led to believe.
00:39:28I just want to say this meal that you prepared is just incredible.
00:39:36I'm just so grateful.
00:39:38Mm-hmm.
00:39:39And you have created such a beautiful home, I must say.
00:39:45It must have been so expensive.
00:39:50But, um, I was actually quite surprised to see how, how it really is.
00:39:56Um, I expected something very different.
00:39:59But you guys made us feel very, very welcome and I appreciate that so much.
00:40:06Uh, so I wanted to ask, um, are you guys okay with Sheena moving to the United States?
00:40:13Uh, actually, uh, that is already her dream years ago, to work there in the U.S.
00:40:22Oh.
00:40:24Okay.
00:40:25That's interesting.
00:40:26Yes.
00:40:29But, uh, yesterday, uh, Forrest made it clear that, uh, you know, he's a little low on budget also.
00:40:38And so, I don't know what the situation is, you know?
00:40:41So, uh...
00:40:42Actually, let's put Forrest's finances to the side and I want to talk about Sheena.
00:40:48There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:40:55And I had, I, um, had heard that you guys had been, um, taking the, all of Sheena's earnings.
00:41:05And she, uh, told us that, um, if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would threaten her and be cruel to her and mistreat her.
00:41:27That you forced her.
00:41:36No?
00:41:37Did you say that?
00:41:48If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:41:51Dear Dan, don't you know your culture?
00:41:56I'm here to make sure that Lisa is a good woman.
00:42:01It is our tradition.
00:42:03You are not an Igbo woman.
00:42:06Tell me, do you drink?
00:42:07Do you smoke?
00:42:09Are you a practicing Christian?
00:42:11I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:42:14Wow.
00:42:36Wow.
00:42:46A lot of photos here.
00:42:49It's all Zoe's photos.
00:42:54My dog.
00:42:57Mm-hmm.
00:42:59I was ready to find something to prove that I can't trust him.
00:43:04Instead, I found a bunch of cute photos of his dog.
00:43:11And photos of me that I sent him.
00:43:15Actually, lots of photos of me.
00:43:17I'm realizing that maybe I should cut him some slack.
00:43:23But I guess I'm still learning how to trust him.
00:43:27Well, for now, I don't see any red flag, honestly.
00:43:36You know, I told you I was going to stop talking to that person.
00:43:41And I did.
00:43:45I mean, did you think I wasn't telling the truth?
00:43:47I think I never know.
00:43:51So...
00:43:53Well, now you know.
00:43:57It's a little bit offensive that she feel like she needs to look through my phone in order to feel comfortable.
00:44:04Anna's supposed to trust me regardless.
00:44:07She's actually supposed to trust me before, you know, we got married, you know.
00:44:14But at the same time, I watch a lot of relationship podcasts.
00:44:19And one of the hosts, he sometimes makes good points about little paranoia is healthy.
00:44:24I mean, most women only act right when they feel like they could be replaced.
00:44:33So, I'm not saying go out and cheat, but a little bit of paranoia, a little bit of fear is healthy.
00:44:41Are we good?
00:44:43I do want to trust you, but I'm not going to lie.
00:44:47I'm not still, like, 100%.
00:44:55Mm-hmm.
00:44:57And if you talk to her again, I'm going to break this phone. I don't care.
00:45:03I mean, Anna, just look at it this way. I mean, I passed all your tests.
00:45:10For now.
00:45:12Okay, for now.
00:45:13For now.
00:45:14For now.
00:45:15Do you want to go through my luggage up in the room?
00:45:16Yes, I will.
00:45:17All right.
00:45:19Do you have extra phone?
00:45:22I'm just kidding.
00:45:23I'll with you.
00:45:24I didn't piss you off.
00:45:25I didn't piss you off.
00:45:26Shhhh!
00:45:27Oh, shit!
00:45:28There's a clue.
00:45:29There's Frankять's going on.
00:45:31His role is nacional.
00:45:33أنjee with hisité snowflake.
00:45:36IAFETRE Jagua.
00:45:38I bladder me.
00:45:39I Nachanjee.
00:45:45No.
00:45:46As soon as I go in, do I kneel down before him?
00:45:55Okay.
00:45:56Stop being nervous, okay?
00:45:57Okay.
00:46:00I am in a very uncomfortable situation.
00:46:03I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know about me.
00:46:10He doesn't know that I'm still married.
00:46:12He has no idea I've only been with women for 21 years.
00:46:16And right now, I'm feeling scared because I don't want to lie to his uncle,
00:46:21but I don't want to tell him any of my secrets.
00:46:23I want us to have this blessing more than anything in the world.
00:46:27I want to be with Daniel.
00:46:35We're going to do this.
00:46:37If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:46:46Hey.
00:46:55Hey.
00:46:57Uncle.
00:46:59What is this, sir?
00:47:04Come on.
00:47:06Hey, Dan, dear.
00:47:11Hey, Dan.
00:47:12Don't you know your culture?
00:47:23I'm here to make sure that Issa is a good woman.
00:47:29Before I give them the approval to go ahead and fire it.
00:47:34It is our tradition.
00:47:38Stand up.
00:47:40Come and have your seats.
00:47:43Come on.
00:47:55It's very warm.
00:47:56Sit in.
00:48:01This is the wine.
00:48:02My good lady, how are you?
00:48:16Nervous, Uncle.
00:48:18I'm very nervous today.
00:48:21Yes.
00:48:24You are not an Igbo woman.
00:48:28I want to know you more.
00:48:29I will ask you some pertinent questions.
00:48:37Tell me who are you.
00:48:40I am a Native American.
00:48:43I am part Irish also.
00:48:46I come from a mother who gave me up for adoption at a very young age.
00:48:51I have a family that adopted me, and they took very good care of me.
00:48:55I am a hard worker.
00:48:59I make sure I take care of my household.
00:49:01I make sure when Daniel needs money that I take care of his household.
00:49:07Are you a practicing Christian or Christian by name?
00:49:11I am a practicing Christian.
00:49:14I have not always been a very good Christian, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
00:49:22He makes me into a stronger Christian.
00:49:24Do you drink?
00:49:30I do drink very, not a lot, but I do drink some, yes.
00:49:35Do you smoke?
00:49:37I do not smoke.
00:49:39I have smoked in the past.
00:49:42I have given it up.
00:49:43Are you or were you a lesbian?
00:49:53Do you practice libyanism?
00:50:01Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:50:08I don't want to make things bigger.
00:50:19Wait, what did she say?
00:50:20Do you want to make it?
00:50:33Aslında...
00:50:33Birka'nın bilinmeyen bir yanı var.
00:50:43Ben söyleyeyim.
00:50:47Çok da saklama ama.
00:50:49What?
00:50:53Good.
00:51:04Because I'm still in debt, we always have to try to find a new way to find money.
00:51:09And when I'm not working and I can't find a job, the gambling comes in here.
00:51:17I gamble every day, every opportunity I have.
00:51:21It's what I do for a living.
00:51:24Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:51:29I don't want to make things bigger.
00:51:37But what?
00:51:47Let's say something different.
00:51:49Let's say something different.
00:51:51Let's say something different.
00:51:53I don't like it.
00:51:55I don't like it.
00:51:57I don't like pressure.
00:51:58I hate it.
00:51:59I don't like pressure.
00:52:00I hate it.
00:52:01I don't like pressure.
00:52:02I hate it.
00:52:03Birkan, don't do that.
00:52:04Birkan, don't do that.
00:52:05Birkan, don't do this.
00:52:06I hate it.
00:52:07Good to know.
00:52:09This is really awkward.
00:52:10I don't like it.
00:52:11It's like, Birkan, don't do that.
00:52:12Birkan, don't do that.
00:52:13Birkan, don't do this.
00:52:14I hate it.
00:52:15Good to know.
00:52:16This is really awkward, because the three of them are just having this conversation
00:52:42in Turkish, and nobody is translating for me or filling in any of the gaps.
00:52:48This definitely feels kind of off and a little shady.
00:52:53I'm already feeling unsure, and now I definitely think it's possible that he's hiding something
00:53:00else that his friends know about, and for whatever reason, no one's telling me.
00:53:06And I don't like that.
00:53:12It's in there.
00:53:15One, two, three.
00:53:16Two, three.
00:53:17Two, three.
00:53:19Two, three, three.
00:53:22One, two, three.
00:53:24Two, three, three.
00:53:27One, two, four.
00:53:28Two, three, four.
00:53:31Two, three, four.
00:53:32See we having a picnic.
00:53:33Is that the blanket we're laying on?
00:53:36Your splash bag.
00:53:38I mean, it's kinda.
00:53:39Woah!
00:53:40That would have been better.
00:53:43The splash pad would have definitely been better.
00:53:52Is this where we're going to eat?
00:53:54Yeah.
00:53:55Wow.
00:53:56Fried fish.
00:53:58They put some garlic and ginger and little salt.
00:54:03And that's what they're stirring in now?
00:54:05Yeah.
00:54:06The ginger and the salt.
00:54:07They mix it up like this.
00:54:10It makes me miss home because we are doing the same thing
00:54:13like this when we are home.
00:54:15Got some nice big ones in here, bae.
00:54:17Mm-hmm.
00:54:18So whatever you catch is on the menu.
00:54:21Yeah.
00:54:31This type of food stands on the beach are very common in here.
00:54:36I love them since they have a fresh seafood.
00:54:40This is how my family prepare food also, lighting a fire,
00:54:45and making a barbecue, or frying something.
00:54:49So it's nice to have a reminder of home.
00:54:55You want to try?
00:54:56Try what?
00:54:57How to cook it.
00:54:59I don't know anything about it.
00:55:00You never do that?
00:55:01Nah, and I've never been fishing either.
00:55:03So I've never dealt with, you know, live fish.
00:55:06I'm going to teach you.
00:55:07And when you are in my hometown, you
00:55:10can do the same thing to impress my family
00:55:12like you know how to do it.
00:55:13I mean, that sounds like kind of a good idea.
00:55:16You know?
00:55:17I'm nervous that Rick is going to meet my family.
00:55:22I hope they will love him.
00:55:24But the conversation we had earlier about kids
00:55:28is making me doubt that it's possible.
00:55:32And also, there are other things working against us
00:55:37that Rick doesn't know about.
00:55:39I'm a city boy, baby.
00:55:40You're a village girl.
00:55:41You want to sit on a chair?
00:56:09If there's a chair available, yeah, that'd be nice.
00:56:13What?
00:56:15You complain a lot.
00:56:18So what can I expect when I meet the family?
00:56:22I will ask you some questions.
00:56:23Who are you?
00:56:24What do you want from my daughter?
00:56:28What's your plan for her?
00:56:30OK.
00:56:31I know that this is a big step.
00:56:34And I feel honored that you want to introduce me
00:56:38to your family.
00:56:42And when I'm about the same age as your dad, right?
00:56:44You're older than my dad.
00:56:49Older is your dad?
00:56:50Fifteen.
00:56:53But your father does know how old I am, right?
00:56:57Yeah.
00:56:58You haven't told your dad my age?
00:57:01No.
00:57:04All right.
00:57:06I didn't say that she already married twice.
00:57:09I didn't say that she have kids.
00:57:12Aw, Trish.
00:57:16My dad, he doesn't want a man older than me,
00:57:20and a man who have a lot of kids,
00:57:23and a man who already been married, divorced.
00:57:29So that's why I didn't tell my dad much about rape.
00:57:33Otherwise, I think my father would just refuse to meet him.
00:57:38But blessing for my dad, it means a lot for me.
00:57:42So what's going to happen to us if your dad doesn't accept it?
00:57:46My dad would say, oh, you have to choose then between you and my dad.
00:57:57And if you don't have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:58:04It's really important to my family.
00:58:09I'm being put in such a disadvantage.
00:58:12She hasn't given her family any information about me.
00:58:16They don't know my age.
00:58:18They don't know that I've been married, have kids, nothing at all.
00:58:23I'm just getting thrown into the lion's den.
00:58:26They really want Trish to have a baby.
00:58:30And that's the part that I'm most worried about.
00:58:33Because at this point, I don't know if I'm ready to make that decision.
00:58:41I just want to go in there and be as open and honest as I can.
00:58:48And show them that I'm a good person, that I'm a loving father.
00:58:54And that I'm here for their daughter.
00:58:57And I'm going to treat her well.
00:59:00And do the best that I can to make you happy.
00:59:06I mean, hopefully that's enough for him to accept me.
00:59:12I know that this trip is very important.
00:59:16I know that I need to meet her family, get to know them,
00:59:19and get to know more about Trish through her family.
00:59:23But I feel even worse about not telling Trish about spending time
00:59:30with my ex in Colombia.
00:59:33I have to tell Trish before we meet her family.
00:59:37And I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:59:40I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
00:59:56Most Americans will find that very weird.
00:59:58This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:00:02It's not like an execution.
01:00:04There's the realism.
01:00:08It's an aberration.
01:00:10And it is not in our blood.
01:00:12Uncle, she told me this was one time chain.
01:00:17Do you lie?
01:00:21Is she saying the truth?
01:00:22It's always in my life.
01:00:32It's a nice night.
01:00:33It's a nice night.
01:00:34Yeah.
01:00:39Do you hear those waves?
01:00:41Yeah, I do.
01:00:43It seemed like they're louder at night.
01:00:45Oh, my shoes.
01:00:49Did they break?
01:00:50They break.
01:00:51Oh, .
01:00:52Well, you can be my first charming and carry me.
01:01:03In your dress?
01:01:05Like, oh, if you don't want to, that's fine.
01:01:07I mean, I want to, but it's like you're in a dress, though.
01:01:13We're just so, you're the most unromantic I've ever met.
01:01:17Okay.
01:01:17It's like we've never been with a woman before.
01:01:21Tonight is the last night of our honeymoon,
01:01:24and I'm glad that we were able to work through some trust issues
01:01:27because after this, we're going to Cavite, where Anna Lynn lives,
01:01:34and while I'm there, we're going to have our vow renewal
01:01:37with our family and friends, and hopefully that'll be good.
01:01:40Well, I can still walk with one straw, but it's just...
01:01:43You sure?
01:01:44Yeah.
01:01:45I'm not really unhappy that our honeymoon is ending
01:01:48because I think the real test for us is day-to-day life.
01:01:54Are we able to live in the same space for long periods of time
01:01:58without trying to kill one another?
01:02:01You know, we'll see.
01:02:01Hey, sell Halo-Halo.
01:02:06They have a Halo-Halo set up.
01:02:08Okay.
01:02:10Welcome to the Halo-Halo bar.
01:02:12We have the sweet potato and gulaman.
01:02:15We have purple yam and some cheese and corn.
01:02:19Okay.
01:02:21Halo-Halo is a popular Filipino dessert.
01:02:25Halo-Halo in English means mix-mix.
01:02:27So you have to mix all the ingredients together
01:02:31with the milk and ice.
01:02:35It doesn't count unless I put the cheese in it.
01:02:38No.
01:02:38Cheese and corn, okay?
01:02:40Okay.
01:02:45This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:02:48It's not like an execution.
01:02:53I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
01:02:56Most Americans will find that very weird.
01:03:00I'm not forcing you to do something you don't like.
01:03:03However, I wish you will be more open-minded
01:03:06that when I suggest something,
01:03:08you will try it at least once.
01:03:10Just once.
01:03:12I mean, I try almost anything just once,
01:03:15but cheese and corn and ice cream and jelly?
01:03:19Really?
01:03:20Yeah.
01:03:21But I'm willing to accept the challenge.
01:03:23Yeah.
01:03:24Mm-hmm.
01:03:25Mm-hmm.
01:03:26It's so cold.
01:03:28Is it?
01:03:28Mm-hmm.
01:03:29But you enjoying it, though.
01:03:31Enjoy it.
01:03:32Mm-hmm.
01:03:36So we just mix it, right?
01:03:38Mm-hmm.
01:03:39All right.
01:03:41Mm-hmm.
01:03:42Oh, my God.
01:03:44Do you realize this is our first Halo-Halo together?
01:03:48Yes.
01:03:49Really nice.
01:03:50Really nice.
01:03:52All right.
01:03:54I mean, Anna, there's a lot going on in here.
01:03:57Mm-hmm.
01:03:59But it is good, though.
01:04:00Mm-hmm.
01:04:01Excuse me, ma'am.
01:04:02I'm sorry.
01:04:02Do you need anything else?
01:04:04Ah, yeah.
01:04:05Can we just take a photo of us?
01:04:06Sure, ma'am.
01:04:08We're on a honeymoon.
01:04:09It's okay.
01:04:10Is that okay?
01:04:11Yes, ma'am.
01:04:12And one, two, three.
01:04:17There you go, ma'am.
01:04:18Uh-huh.
01:04:20I hope you knew you had a Halo-Halo, ma'am, sir.
01:04:22Look at that.
01:04:23Yeah.
01:04:24Oh, yeah.
01:04:25That's a good photo.
01:04:28I don't think so, but okay.
01:04:31What's wrong?
01:04:34You know, the face that you're giving me,
01:04:38you look miserable.
01:04:42You know I don't mean to, though.
01:04:44But I don't believe you.
01:04:45You don't believe?
01:04:46This is your thing.
01:04:48Whining and being unromantic.
01:04:51Uh-huh.
01:04:52I mean, how am I unromantic, though?
01:04:56Like the faces that I make?
01:04:58Yeah, and then, you know, how you say things.
01:05:04Okay.
01:05:04I mean, I work 15 hours a day, so it's kind of a luxury that you can, you know, keep up with days like that because you're just sitting at home.
01:05:32I don't have that luxury, and I'm just so drained all the time.
01:05:39Some other people are working, too, but they don't do that.
01:05:43They still have time to be sweet to their wives.
01:05:48Well, I'm sorry.
01:05:50Maybe I'm just not a good husband.
01:05:52It's frustrating because, for me, this is love.
01:06:04I'm showing up.
01:06:05I'm providing.
01:06:06I mean, I thought that meant something.
01:06:08But Anna, seeing it through the female lens, she has this perception built up in her head that I have to be just over-the-top romance for her living in a fantasy.
01:06:20I don't know.
01:06:21My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation.
01:06:26I always make sure that my partner knows that I find him attractive.
01:06:31But just because you are supposed to provide and protect doesn't mean you always have to have this machismo energy.
01:06:40Like, you can't show vulnerability.
01:06:42You're still a human being.
01:06:43I am afraid that Jubon is never going to understand me and my needs.
01:06:50He hears me, but he doesn't really listen.
01:06:54I just want you to have just more understanding because what I do is not easy.
01:07:00I mean, is that not romantic?
01:07:02Like, making sure your lights is on because, you know, you're at home and then I'm working.
01:07:08I'm getting tired of this.
01:07:09Yeah.
01:07:10Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
01:07:16Because you have to remind me that you're the man.
01:07:19That's what man does.
01:07:21I'm not trying to, Anna.
01:07:23I'm just trying to get you to understand, like, what I do is just not easy and I can't remember everything, you know?
01:07:36Anna, why are you so emotional?
01:07:38Something you will never understand because you don't have that.
01:07:46Well, I mean, I'm sorry, Anna.
01:07:49Seem like I can't do anything right around you, so.
01:07:53From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
01:07:56I will never misdead any of my children.
01:08:06Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:08:08Sorry.
01:08:11Your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just, like, throwing it in the trash can.
01:08:18She told us, if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would mistreat her.
01:08:42No.
01:08:42Did you say that?
01:08:43She said that you guys mistreated her if you didn't give her the money.
01:08:53I don't know how to mistreat her.
01:08:55Well, that you called her names and you threatened to throw her out and make her homeless.
01:09:02You sure you didn't say anything that would have been sweet?
01:09:13I will never mistreat any of my children.
01:09:16Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:09:19Sorry.
01:09:20Why do you feel like you have to lie all the time?
01:09:33I want to admit that I lie.
01:09:39Just to cover things up so I don't want to lose more,
01:09:43because it is hard for me to save money.
01:09:46I try to help you guys, because you need all the help.
01:09:51But every time that I want to save, it's not even enough for me to get the visa.
01:09:56I cannot save enough.
01:09:57Yours is so hard for me.
01:10:02It is absolutely insane that Sheena would lie about her family in the first place.
01:10:07It makes no sense.
01:10:09And the hysterical theatrics aren't helping at all to clear any of this up.
01:10:17I'm just disappointed that we got told that we were kind of abusing you.
01:10:22I'm sorry, Bill.
01:10:23I do.
01:10:25And I do only apologize.
01:10:27I just don't understand why she would tell us stories that she's given every penny to you guys.
01:10:43Well, actually, it's, no, she gave it to us, and it's all listed, you know.
01:10:49So when the time she needs it, we can, I don't know, give it back to her.
01:10:55Sheena, I'm really kind of surprised.
01:11:13Here I thought they were mistreating you and taking all your money and finding out that they were just borrowing it.
01:11:19It's a way different story than everything you told me.
01:11:23But now I'm feeling even worse, because your lives are just taking our perfect,
01:11:52happy relationship and just, like, throwing it in the trash can.
01:11:56I haven't told you the right things, because I'm worried that you might give up on me.
01:12:00Sheena Braith, I know that you've been trying hard.
01:12:12I don't approve of the stories and keeping everything hidden from everybody.
01:12:17Yes.
01:12:17That's not something that was cool.
01:12:19But for years, you've been fighting for yourself and sort of, unfortunately, got all mixed up.
01:12:26We knew that she was trying to save up for a visa, but we didn't know how would she even acquire that.
01:12:33She doesn't tell us what's the process.
01:12:37We're not going to guess it.
01:12:39She wasn't really telling us the real truth, you know, what's really happening.
01:12:47Sheen, you need to make sure to say, I'm never going to lie to anybody again, and I will be open with everybody.
01:12:56To everyone, I promise I would never lie again for whatever I said to you guys.
01:13:07I regret for doing everything.
01:13:09I'll do my best to be much more open up to you guys.
01:13:12It hurts to find out that for the last seven years, Sheena had, you know, lied about everything with her family and the money situation.
01:13:23I thought she had more faith in me, but I'm glad that everything is out of the open now.
01:13:29And I hope that we can finally work towards our future.
01:13:36I think I'm going to jump in here.
01:13:39Pops, let me understand here.
01:13:41So, you mentioned that you're borrowing the money, right?
01:13:46Yes.
01:13:47So, how long would it take to provide, you know, if she asked for her money back?
01:13:55You haven't given us, asked us for a certain amount.
01:13:59So, we don't know.
01:14:02I'd say about maybe $4,000.
01:14:04We'll have to check our finances.
01:14:16I was surprised because if they plan to get married, it's a guy who should provide for her.
01:14:23We didn't expect she'll be asking us for that amount, no?
01:14:28Yeah.
01:14:28I was surprised at the first time she said that she mentioned it.
01:14:32But, because it's so painful for us, it's painful for us.
01:14:39First impressions, Molly and the stepfather.
01:14:43First impression of us is, of course, it's like that.
01:14:47It's like that, it's like that, it's like that.
01:14:48If she came and said, hey, I can't keep, you know, giving you guys a loan, would you guys not be taking the loan?
01:14:57I think if it's, you know, if it's feasible, you know, that for us not getting any help, we would do that, you know?
01:15:18But I just wish that she talked to us and explained it to us more.
01:15:22See, after all these years, Sheen, we could have just came and did this.
01:15:29Instead of going and, you know, making stories, putting things around about.
01:15:34I lie because I fear of losing him.
01:15:37Sheen, you're going to lose me if you don't.
01:15:41Stop lying.
01:15:42You've got to be honest with us.
01:15:43Yes.
01:15:46I'm very, very sorry.
01:15:47And I'm trying to strive my best to work hard for me to save.
01:15:52That's all I wish.
01:15:57I'm relieved that the truth is out.
01:15:59But I'm afraid that Forrest is taking everything he heard tonight at face value.
01:16:05Now, it's just to the point where I got to just say, you need to think about what's happening in this relationship that all she's doing is lying.
01:16:14Maybe someday, she'll come down the road and tell us some other secret that we don't know.
01:16:19That will tear the relationship apart.
01:16:22I don't trust her as far as I could throw her, but time will tell.
01:16:26You practice laborism?
01:16:37If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture.
01:16:44There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:16:47Please tell me the truth.
01:16:49I am so guilt-ridden.
01:16:53I just want to be open and honest and see if she'll take me for who I am.
01:16:57Are you okay?
01:16:57Do you practice laborism?
01:17:19Daniel told me that Lisa practiced lesbianism in the past.
01:17:24I know lesbianism is rampant in America.
01:17:30Here, we don't do it at all.
01:17:33If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture and tradition.
01:17:42Please, my young lady, don't be offended.
01:17:47I'm not insulting you for lesbianism.
01:17:51It's an aberration, and it is not in our blood.
01:17:57There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:18:03Please tell me the truth.
01:18:07What the is happening?
01:18:08I am shocked by the question.
01:18:16I don't know what to say about it.
01:18:18My sexuality, being called an aberration, hurts me a lot.
01:18:24I am who I am, and I'm not ashamed of it at all.
01:18:28And I just want to be honest and tell the truth.
01:18:30But I'm struggling inside with what's right and what's not right, and what I want to do, and what I don't want to do.
01:18:36It's an inner battle.
01:18:41I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
01:18:44You don't practice it anymore?
01:18:57No, sir.
01:19:01It was a fling.
01:19:02It was one time.
01:19:07Do you lie?
01:19:08I think everybody says a fib once in a while.
01:19:15That doesn't make it right.
01:19:18I have lied in the past, but I am not a liar.
01:19:28Is she saying the truth?
01:19:31Tell me.
01:19:32Yes, uncle.
01:19:33She's telling the truth.
01:19:34I am not a liar, uncle.
01:19:41Okay.
01:19:43What I will tell them to monitor you.
01:19:45You make sure you never do that again.
01:19:52Why has your uncle asked me if I partake in lesbianism?
01:19:56Why would he ask me that?
01:19:57I told him that you have done it before.
01:20:01But it was a mistake.
01:20:02Yeah.
01:20:03You told him everything.
01:20:05You told him everything.
01:20:06That wasn't for you to tell anybody.
01:20:08That was between us.
01:20:09No, no, no, no.
01:20:09Yes.
01:20:10I have to.
01:20:10You're wrong.
01:20:11It's my uncle.
01:20:12I don't care if it's the Pope of the Catholic Church.
01:20:14You don't tell anybody.
01:20:15Are you trying to insult him?
01:20:16I'm not insulting anybody.
01:20:17I'm telling you, you don't tell people certain things.
01:20:19My uncle is like father to me, so I have to discuss everything with him.
01:20:23You don't even tell me what you've already spoken to your uncle about.
01:20:26I ask you what kind of questions he's going to ask me, and you're like, I don't know.
01:20:30I don't know.
01:20:31I don't know what to tell you.
01:20:32You don't want me to know, but you want him to know everything.
01:20:36Oh, my God.
01:20:37Yes.
01:20:37Oh, my God.
01:20:40Are you okay?
01:20:43Yes, uncle.
01:20:44Oh, my God.
01:21:05I'm sorry.
01:21:35I've been hearing from you, and I will give you guys my blessing.
01:21:51I am thrilled I have the blessing, but I feel guilty as all hell, because he kept bringing
01:22:17up the fact, are you a liar?
01:22:21We do not lie.
01:22:23We do not, and that's making me feel guilty, because I am lying.
01:22:27Go, it shall be well with you.
01:22:35In the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, it shall be well with you.
01:22:43I want Daniel, but I have the secret that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
01:22:48I have the secret that I'm married still to a woman.
01:22:52But it's 21 years.
01:22:54It's not a mistake.
01:22:55It's who I am.
01:22:56And I'm so scared he's not going to understand that.
01:23:00Stop crying.
01:23:01Daniel is yours.
01:23:01You are his.
01:23:03Go.
01:23:04I am so guilt-ridden because I love this man, and I just want to be open and honest and
01:23:12get this over with and see if he'll take me for who I am.
01:23:15But it's getting harder and harder as the time goes on.
01:23:19I don't know how I'm going to tell him.
01:23:33I am on before the 90 days.
01:23:34I get to be the princess now in the castle.
01:23:37Now I'll always be a princess.
01:23:39We're on this surprise romantic getaway, but I'm honestly having mixed feelings about
01:23:45it.
01:23:46I'm worried he's hiding more secrets.
01:23:48Can you tell me where your debt came from?
01:23:50Do you want the truth?
01:23:52Yeah.
01:23:53Do you realize everything you said about me since I got here has been negative?
01:24:07It makes me feel like we're never going to get married.
01:24:10We're never going to get engaged.
01:24:11This whole trip was a waste of my time.
01:24:15I'm just at my breaking point.
01:24:17I deserve some answers.
01:24:19Am I the girl that you want to be with?
01:24:23It's glued on to the point where my wig is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.
01:24:28I have to take it off.
01:24:30Oh my God.
01:24:32I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
01:24:37I have no idea what he's going to think, but if he's going to marry me, he has to get
01:24:42used to it.
01:24:43Hey.
01:24:44Oh my God.
01:24:47What are you like this?
01:24:52All I hear is like, you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
01:24:57I mean, you tell me I'm a downer and you tell me I'm not romantic.
01:25:03Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines and I don't know how to navigate around the
01:25:08landmines.
01:25:09I mean, Anna, do you regret like marrying me?
01:25:14Baby, there's something I've been keeping from you.
01:25:21Explain yourself.
01:25:22In those five days when you weren't talking to me, I decided to book a trip to Columbia
01:25:29to be with my ex.
01:25:31Shut up.
01:25:32It was a mistake.
01:25:33Shut up.
01:25:34It was a mistake.
01:25:35It was a mistake.
01:25:36Shut up.
01:25:37God.
01:25:38Jesus.
01:25:39God bless.
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