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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 8 - Please Remain Seated
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04We put it there?
00:00:06Oh, what?
00:00:09I may not be able to give you everything you want,
00:00:12but everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:00:15Do you think that I'm enough for you?
00:00:18Sure.
00:00:19That's what I need to feel, that I'm enough for her.
00:00:23I really do want this to work.
00:00:25You do love me.
00:00:26Of course, baby.
00:00:29I just want the world for your daughter,
00:00:31and I was hoping I could get your blessing to marry her.
00:00:36Well, Forrest, you have my blessing.
00:00:40I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
00:00:44I feel like Chena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
00:00:48Even though her family needs her help with money,
00:00:51what I've seen, the way they live,
00:00:54it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
00:00:58So I'm really worried that tomorrow,
00:01:00my mother is going to basically flip out.
00:01:05We had that argument, and you called my sister,
00:01:09and you were a little bit unhinged.
00:01:11I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:01:17I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful.
00:01:21Here we go again.
00:01:23I thought the reason we were fighting so much
00:01:26was because we were in a long-distance relationship,
00:01:29but we're still fighting.
00:01:31What does it say about our marriage?
00:01:34I don't trust Michael.
00:01:39I want you to cut him out of your life.
00:01:42He's just my friend,
00:01:44and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
00:01:47I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
00:01:54I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me.
00:01:58It absolutely feels like a sight of him
00:02:00that I haven't seen yet, and I really don't like.
00:02:03Michael.
00:02:06The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:02:09If your uncle does not give you the blessing,
00:02:11does that mean that we are not getting married?
00:02:14That's it.
00:02:16I have to try to impress his uncle,
00:02:18but what kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:02:20I'm worried I may have to reveal things
00:02:22that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:02:24I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:02:36nhi
00:02:59Yesterday, I arrived at Sheena's family home
00:03:02in the province.
00:03:03And even though the family accepted me,
00:03:05What I've learned is just leaving me confused and bothered.
00:03:14First off, I believe that the entire time I was coming here to save Sheena from horrific evil monsters,
00:03:21and it turns out her family has this nice, beautiful home and are just normal, caring people.
00:03:27So last night I tried to talk to Sheena.
00:03:30You have to be honest with me.
00:03:32You described your family as almost like terrible monsters that were stealing from you.
00:03:37Are they just, are they just, is this an act for me?
00:03:41No, they're not an act. They're great people.
00:03:45But they're not really great people if they're mistreating their daughter.
00:03:49You don't have to think anything about worry.
00:03:52They gave their blessings to you even though it's the first meeting.
00:03:56So it's a good thing.
00:03:59Boom.
00:04:00Boom.
00:04:01I wish her answers were more, you know, answers and not more like dodging around.
00:04:08Now I'm left with more questions than what I started with.
00:04:13I feel like I know bits and pieces of the most important parts of the story, but there's still many other things that need to be uncovered.
00:04:21I do believe my mom is going to show up and she's going to see the nice place.
00:04:26She's going to see this, this, and she's going to say, why did you need a bunny in the first place?
00:04:31And she's going to express herself and say exactly what's on her mind.
00:04:35I'm kind of relieved that my mom is coming because she can get the third perspective and see what's really going on.
00:04:43Coffee time, guys.
00:04:44Get my coffee time.
00:04:45Sheena's family seems to be under the impression that she's going to financially support them going forward.
00:04:52So I still want to tell Sheena's family that we are cutting them off.
00:04:55And hopefully my mom and Dev can back me up and kind of just get past the big hurdle that is impending.
00:05:05That's a strong cup of joe right there.
00:05:12Okay, Sheen.
00:05:13They should be here any second.
00:05:15Okay.
00:05:16Come on, dude.
00:05:17Okay.
00:05:18Yeah.
00:05:25Are you nervous, baby?
00:05:26Yeah, so nervous.
00:05:28I don't know what's going to happen today.
00:05:31I know Molly will bring up the finances and it's a conversation that we need to have.
00:05:37But Forrest wanted to impress my family, so he is kinder.
00:05:42I'm quite worried Molly would act not as nice.
00:05:49Oh, yes.
00:05:50Moment of truth.
00:05:55Oh.
00:05:56Oh, boy.
00:05:58Wow.
00:06:00Hey, guys.
00:06:01Wow.
00:06:02Hi, Mom.
00:06:03Hi, Deb.
00:06:04Mm-hmm.
00:06:05This is so beautiful here.
00:06:06Oh, thank you.
00:06:07Wow.
00:06:09Wow.
00:06:10Right off the bat, alarm bells are going off in my head.
00:06:17My family is out right now.
00:06:19So come here, guys.
00:06:20I'll give you a tour.
00:06:22Here's the garden and stuff.
00:06:23Man.
00:06:26Sheena's told me that her family runs this struggling bed and breakfast.
00:06:31So I'm expecting something kind of quaint and rough around the edges.
00:06:36We had different kinds of plants here.
00:06:38We have fruit-bearing trees, red palm, orchids.
00:06:41Huh.
00:06:42I don't know this plant, but this is very rare to have flowers.
00:06:46Oh.
00:06:47My first reaction, holy .
00:06:50Sheena, who did your grass?
00:06:53Yes.
00:06:54Actually, before Winnie got this place, it doesn't have anything.
00:06:58So you guys did all of this?
00:06:59Yes.
00:07:00From no scratch.
00:07:04Sheena's expecting me to believe that if they don't take her money, that they're gonna starve.
00:07:10I mean...
00:07:11They're living better than Forrest and I back in the United States.
00:07:16This is not adding up at all.
00:07:21And this is the pool area.
00:07:23Oh.
00:07:24Then if it's around the night time, it would have different color, light color.
00:07:28Well, would you look at that.
00:07:31So when do I get to meet your family, Sheena?
00:07:34At dinner?
00:07:35Yes, Mom.
00:07:36Okay.
00:07:37I'm definitely going to tell Sheena's family every single thing that Sheena has told me,
00:07:44this whole story of the past seven years.
00:07:47And then I want to see how they react.
00:07:49I want to see if they're gonna be shocked or if they're part of it or whatever.
00:07:55Yeah, thank you for giving me the grand tour.
00:07:58It's just beautiful.
00:07:59Yeah.
00:08:00Tonight, I will get the truth for Sheena.
00:08:02I think I'm just gonna go put my legs up for a bit until dinner.
00:08:06Okay, Mom.
00:08:07This is a wrapper.
00:08:09I wish I can tie it to my waist.
00:08:11You can.
00:08:12Show me.
00:08:13You have to spread your leg.
00:08:14You know, I don't have much waist, so...
00:08:15I don't.
00:08:16You're tight.
00:08:17Okay.
00:08:18On the side?
00:08:19Yeah, on the side.
00:08:20I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:21You look beautiful.
00:08:22Oh la la.
00:08:23You have to forage a little bit.
00:08:24On the first one, the inner one is shorter than the...
00:08:25You have to forage a little bit.
00:08:26The inner one is shorter than the...
00:08:27The inner one is shorter?
00:08:28The outer one, yes.
00:08:29You have to forage a little bit.
00:08:30Okay.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:32It's okay.
00:08:33It's okay.
00:08:34Okay.
00:08:35It's okay.
00:08:36Okay.
00:08:37It's okay.
00:08:38Okay.
00:08:39Okay.
00:08:40I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:41I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:42You look beautiful.
00:08:43Oh la la.
00:08:44You have to forage a little bit.
00:08:45On the first one, the inner one is shorter than the...
00:08:46The inner one is shorter?
00:08:47The outer one, yeah.
00:08:48Okay.
00:08:49It's okay.
00:08:50It's okay.
00:08:51Beautiful.
00:08:52Look at me.
00:08:53It is not a kiss.
00:08:54Mmm.
00:08:55Yeah.
00:08:56Daniel and I are going today to meet his uncle and get a blessing so we can get married.
00:08:59And...
00:09:00And...
00:09:01And...
00:09:02I'm nervous.
00:09:03I don't know the traditions, I don't know the culture and I don't know what his uncle's
00:09:21gonna ask me.
00:09:22I'm scared I'm not gonna get the blessing and Daniel will blame me.
00:09:26You will be the one to hold your wine.
00:09:28Okay?
00:09:29When you kneel down there, you give me the wine.
00:09:31I will be the one to present it to my uncle.
00:09:33Okay?
00:09:34But I kneel with it first.
00:09:35Yes.
00:09:36I will be kneeling down with you.
00:09:39Okay?
00:09:40Good.
00:09:41You give it to me.
00:09:42Then I will hand it to my uncle.
00:09:44Okay?
00:09:45Lisa is from another country.
00:09:48She don't understand our culture.
00:09:50I have to instruct her on what to do so she doesn't prefer my uncle.
00:09:55That's all.
00:09:56Let's try.
00:09:59Sorry.
00:10:07Daniel wants me to have traditional attire to meet his uncle.
00:10:11And I'm expected to learn how to put it on myself.
00:10:14I think I'm gonna look like a clown.
00:10:16I can't hear anything because the hair tie is like plastic and it's rattling in my ears.
00:10:21But he's telling me this is Igbo traditional attire and this is what I must wear.
00:10:25So this is gonna be pretty interesting.
00:10:28Maybe my bangs should be back.
00:10:31I don't mean to laugh, honey.
00:10:32I just got kicked.
00:10:33All right, let me try again.
00:10:34Good.
00:10:35What are you doing, baby?
00:10:36It doesn't look too bad.
00:10:37Oh, my God.
00:10:38All right.
00:10:39Can you help me?
00:10:40I didn't have a mirror.
00:10:41Where was my mirror to watch her?
00:10:42I had my head and I was holding it.
00:10:43You must help me.
00:10:45Oh my God.
00:10:46Lisa doesn't know how to put on their attire.
00:10:47Thank God.
00:10:48All these things, I know them from when I was older.
00:10:50I'm the only one.
00:10:51I'm actually done making it.
00:10:52I'm actually done so.
00:10:53You have to put on it.
00:10:54It's gonna have to walk me by the time to watch some people.
00:10:56He can't get out.
00:10:57I'm the only one.
00:10:58I'm the only one.
00:10:59You have to walk a little bit.
00:11:00I'm the only one.
00:11:01What are you doing, baby?
00:11:03I'm gonna bring my hair.
00:11:04I'm going to look too bad.
00:11:06Oh my God.
00:11:07All right, can you help me?
00:11:08But you were...
00:11:09The woman was teaching you yesterday.
00:11:10I didn't have a mirror.
00:11:11Where was my mirror to watch her?
00:11:12All these things, I know them from when I was growing up,
00:11:15when my mom was alive.
00:11:17I used to see her when she started, and I remembered.
00:11:20But I never knew that someday I would be the one
00:11:23to help my girlfriend to tie her up her.
00:11:27You have to make it hot, or it's going to fall off.
00:11:35You got this.
00:11:37OK.
00:11:38OK, how do I look?
00:11:39That's good.
00:11:40You look good.
00:11:41I'm nervous.
00:11:53Why are you nervous?
00:11:56Because I am.
00:11:57This is a big deal.
00:12:00I want to impress her.
00:12:01First miracle?
00:12:02Yes, I want to give a good, I want
00:12:04to put my best foot forward.
00:12:08I'm scared less.
00:12:10And you're not telling me anything except to kneel in front of him.
00:12:13I don't know what he's going to ask me.
00:12:15I will do my best.
00:12:16My uncle will not ask you what you don't know.
00:12:18So don't lie to him.
00:12:19I know, but what you're considering a lie and what I
00:12:21consider a lie might be two different things.
00:12:23I'm from America.
00:12:24America, my culture is different than yours.
00:12:25Baby, lie is lie.
00:12:31I want to show him that I am willing to go above and beyond
00:12:34to be a good...
00:12:35Ibu wife.
00:12:36Ibu wife.
00:12:37Ibu wife.
00:12:39Ibu wife.
00:12:40Ibu wife.
00:12:41Ibu wife.
00:12:42I'm trying to be positive about Lisa meeting my uncle, but I'm nervous.
00:12:54I told my uncle a little bit about Lisa, but not only her vaping, there are some other
00:13:02things she told me, and it's a big, big sin.
00:13:05She told me that she has changed for good, but I want to make sure she's being honest.
00:13:11And I, I am worried that my uncle will not give us the blessing if she cannot explain
00:13:18herself, and I will have to walk away.
00:13:28Remember what you promised me, that you're not going to talk to her again.
00:13:32Yeah.
00:13:33I need you to show me that you keep your promise.
00:13:36I've been very concerned ever since it's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:13:43They really encourage cheating.
00:13:45Can I see your phone now?
00:13:49So, we're going to go meet your friends.
00:13:54I do not think this is an ideal time to meet Memo and Tuba, but part of me really wants
00:14:00to ask them questions because there's a lot more I need to learn about BeerCon.
00:14:06Tell me something interesting about BeerCon.
00:14:09I'm so sorry.
00:14:10I'm so sorry, my dad.
00:14:36I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now,
00:14:54and me and Natalyn are on our way overdue honeymoon.
00:14:59It's a strange feeling to have all these firsts with me and my wife.
00:15:04After three years of being married, first time sleeping together, first time eating together,
00:15:09first time waking up beside each other together, and then we had our first in-person fight.
00:15:17So right now it seems like I'm in the doghouse.
00:15:25Okay, she made her side of the bed.
00:15:28And, uh, last night things got a little bit tense because I told Anna not to call my sister
00:15:38and vent about our issues in our marriage.
00:15:41Last night during our couple's massage, I am trying so hard to show him a good time trying
00:15:49to be romantic, but he's always trying to find ways to criticize me.
00:15:56I would rather Anna come to me about our issues in our marriage.
00:16:01Why can't I reach out to his sister?
00:16:03She's my family too.
00:16:04So why can't I confide to her when he can confide to any bitch?
00:16:16What?
00:16:17Are you going to brush her teeth or are you just going to look at me?
00:16:21I mean, Anna, are we going to talk?
00:16:23Talk about what?
00:16:24I mean, about last night.
00:16:25I mean, I apologize for, you know, bringing that up at the wrong time.
00:16:33I want to enjoy the trip.
00:16:35Can we do that?
00:16:42Okay.
00:16:44All right, we're good?
00:16:46Okay, I hope it's all right.
00:16:48I'm happy that he apologized, but that doesn't mean all is good.
00:16:57Last night, it wasn't just really about him criticizing me.
00:17:02It's way deeper than that.
00:17:05It's about him doing things that's giving me trust issues.
00:17:12Now that I'm in person with my husband, there are things that I question about him.
00:17:17I noticed that it's beautiful out today.
00:17:21Yeah.
00:17:22You want to head to the beach?
00:17:24Yes.
00:17:24Okay.
00:17:30But I don't want to waste this moment, especially this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:17:39What's going on over there?
00:17:42Kayaking?
00:17:43Yeah, and this one is like a bicycle.
00:17:46Yeah.
00:17:47This one is so cool.
00:17:49We're definitely going to do these.
00:17:51Are we interested in renting this?
00:17:53Yeah, you can do this one.
00:17:54Okay.
00:17:55Have you been in one of these before?
00:17:57No.
00:17:59Are you excited?
00:18:00I'm excited.
00:18:01All right.
00:18:03Woo-hoo!
00:18:04Bye-bye.
00:18:05It's going out this way.
00:18:09It's so fun.
00:18:10Yeah.
00:18:10I just love this.
00:18:15Just remember this moment.
00:18:19Look at my face!
00:18:22It's so long.
00:18:26It's like a stork.
00:18:27It's pedaling.
00:18:28The aqua bike is a little bit uncomfortable because I'm so tall.
00:18:34I couldn't...
00:18:35You have long legs.
00:18:36Yeah.
00:18:37It's difficult.
00:18:40Yeah.
00:18:43They're not built for people over six foot.
00:18:47Maybe jet skis next time.
00:18:53Oh, my God.
00:18:54That was so fun.
00:18:58Cheers.
00:18:58Cheers.
00:19:05It's pretty good.
00:19:06So, you know, this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:19:15Mm-hmm.
00:19:16So, we're about to go back home really soon.
00:19:19You're going to meet my mom.
00:19:22But there's something I want to talk about.
00:19:26Okay.
00:19:27You know what we argued about last night?
00:19:31That was about my sister.
00:19:33Yeah, also because you remind me why I did what I did.
00:19:36Because you talked to this person, I don't want you to.
00:19:44I need to make sure that you keep your promise.
00:19:50Remember what you promised me when you were on the phone before you came down here.
00:19:56That you're not going to talk to her again.
00:19:59Yeah.
00:20:00But I need you to show me that you keep your promise.
00:20:04Okay.
00:20:05So, can I see your phone?
00:20:10Now?
00:20:14Okay.
00:20:15I know that checking Yvonne's phone is bad.
00:20:21I wish I don't have to do that.
00:20:23But having an online marriage, we are not together physically for me to know what he's really doing.
00:20:30I have been very concerned ever since he's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:20:39Because they really encouraged cheating.
00:20:44Are you okay?
00:20:46Yeah.
00:20:47Are you nervous?
00:20:47They really say that if he cheats, it's okay, as long as he provides.
00:20:56It really scares me a little bit.
00:20:59So, for my peace of mind, I need to be totally sure that there's nothing going on.
00:21:05So, for me, you're just going to leave me in a hut in a village.
00:21:15You're just going to leave me in a hut in a village.
00:21:29You're just going to leave me in a hut in a village.
00:21:31You're just going to leave me in a hut in a village.
00:21:33You're just going to leave me in a hut in a hut in a hut in a hut in a hut.
00:22:03I'm unsure of everything right now.
00:22:07After keeping some pretty big secrets from me, BeerCon has a lot of balls to try to tell me who I can and can't be friends with.
00:22:17I knew that BeerCon had a lot of issues with my relationship with Michael.
00:22:22But to tell me he wants me to cut my best friend out of my life, this is a whole new controlling side of him.
00:22:30And it's really concerning to me.
00:22:33You left me sitting in a hut alone.
00:22:38Because I don't like him.
00:22:40Actually, I have nothing in common with him.
00:22:42Okay?
00:22:43You both care about me.
00:22:45You have that in common.
00:22:46I think he's more than caring about you.
00:22:50But you always said you trust me.
00:22:52Yeah.
00:22:52You have to trust me on this because man knows man.
00:22:59Okay?
00:23:00Step back and see your relationship with him.
00:23:06And so you think he has some sort of intention that's other than just being my friend?
00:23:12Yeah, exactly.
00:23:15I don't agree.
00:23:17Okay.
00:23:17So, we're going to go meet your friends.
00:23:23And I want to do that.
00:23:25I would like for you to give me that same respect.
00:23:28So, could you at least, at some point, be open to meeting him or calling him?
00:23:36You are pushing my will.
00:23:42I'm not trying to push your will.
00:23:43I'm trying to make you see the hypocrisy in it.
00:23:47Because otherwise, it feels like you just get to determine who's important in our lives.
00:23:52In our lives.
00:23:53I do not think this is an ideal time to meet Memo and Tuba.
00:24:08But part of me really wants to take the opportunity to meet them, to ask them questions.
00:24:14Especially since the last few days have proven that there's a lot more I need to learn about BeerCon.
00:24:23So, this is my usual table.
00:24:37Maybe we should sit here.
00:24:39Okay.
00:24:39You know everyone.
00:24:41Yeah, I know.
00:24:46It's so good to meet you.
00:24:50I'm Laura.
00:24:51I'm Puba.
00:24:52Nice to meet you.
00:24:52Nice to meet you.
00:24:56Even though I am feeling bad about the argument, I think this is the best time for Memo and Tuba to meet Laura.
00:25:05Because they're the best two people can teach her that I'm not a bad guy.
00:25:12I'm just trying to protect the one I love.
00:25:15I will translate.
00:25:17You guys are going to mix up and...
00:25:20And I'm going to ask lots of questions about you.
00:25:22Okay.
00:25:24Yeah, this sounds like a threat.
00:25:26It's not a threat.
00:25:26Yeah, it's a threat.
00:25:27It's not a threat.
00:25:28Okay.
00:25:28Okay.
00:25:30Okay.
00:25:30Laura hakkında çok samimi ve cana yakın olduğunu düşünüyorum.
00:25:35Ben Laura'nın yaşına oranla genç göründüğünü düşünüyorum.
00:25:40How long have you known BeerCon?
00:25:42Kaç yıldır beni tanıyorsunuz?
00:25:44Üç sene.
00:25:44Üç sene oldu.
00:25:45Üç sene oldu.
00:25:48Birka'nın Laura'yı gerçekten bir şeyler hissettiği için birlikte olmak istediğini düşünüyorum.
00:25:54Ve hala tam anlamında bir şeyleri Laura'ya tam anlamıyla anlatmamış olabilir.
00:25:59Bu da beni korkutuyor Laura'yla problemler çıkartması açısından.
00:26:04Thank you, sir.
00:26:08Birka'nın hayatı.
00:26:10She said.
00:26:11Life of Birka'nın hayatı.
00:26:12He said.
00:26:13No, this is my life actually.
00:26:15Oh.
00:26:15This is actually what I do every day.
00:26:18This is something for relaxing.
00:26:20It's like medication.
00:26:21I have my tea.
00:26:22I have my shisha.
00:26:23I will be fine.
00:26:25While it's fun to see this side of beer con
00:26:28hanging out with his friends,
00:26:30it's also kind of eye-opening.
00:26:32He knew everyone when we walked in.
00:26:35He has a regular table.
00:26:37And now I'm hearing that he comes here
00:26:39literally to smoke shisha every day.
00:26:42I mean, he just told me about this massive amount of debt
00:26:46that he has.
00:26:47I feel like he should be doing something
00:26:49more productive with his time.
00:26:52Tell me something interesting about beer con.
00:26:57That's a new translator here.
00:27:00Nice job.
00:27:07People can't reach the inner me, you know?
00:27:10That's why people think I'm tough.
00:27:12And I am angry 24-7.
00:27:15Aslında içinde çok yumuşak bir insandım.
00:27:18Inside, I have a little cheek.
00:27:23But I also like the dark parts and the protective nature.
00:27:28Aynı zamanda karanlık ve koruyucu olmasını seviyorum.
00:27:33It's a good combination.
00:27:34Aslında...
00:27:36Aslında...
00:27:37Birka'nın bilinmeyen bir yanı var.
00:27:47Ben söyleyeyim.
00:27:51Çok da saklama ama.
00:27:56What?
00:27:57You know that I want my aunt kids.
00:28:05So this is the time to talk about it.
00:28:07I can't put a time frame on that.
00:28:10I'm 52 years old.
00:28:12Getting up there in age,
00:28:13so I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:28:17What do you want?
00:28:18Oh, my mouth is watering.
00:28:24Ooh.
00:28:26I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:28:29Am I going to get the nice sweet mom?
00:28:31Or am I going to get hard nose, rock hard,
00:28:33battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:28:34I want to talk about Sheena.
00:28:36There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:28:38I love you, my vision.
00:28:40I love to see that smile on your face.
00:29:10Today we're taking a boat to Nosy Coma to see some lemurs.
00:29:38This is something that I've been looking forward to because I think that Madagascar is the only place that you can find lemurs.
00:29:45You're here, huh?
00:29:47Also, for a long time that's the only thing I knew about Madagascar from the movie.
00:29:54So I'm really excited to see them in person.
00:30:01So cute! Look at the black one.
00:30:09Look at the black one.
00:30:10There's three of them.
00:30:11So do they ever come down?
00:30:13Yeah, they run like this everywhere.
00:30:16And what do they eat?
00:30:18Whenever they see the fruits like that, they eat all of it.
00:30:21Oh, really?
00:30:22Huh.
00:30:23These lemurs.
00:30:24They're cute and they're strange at the same time.
00:30:28To me, they act similar to monkeys, but they're not as human as, like, monkeys are.
00:30:35They look like squirrel monkeys.
00:30:38Oh!
00:30:39That's our second!
00:30:40Oh!
00:30:41Wow!
00:30:42This one right next to us!
00:30:43Hey, man!
00:30:44What's that noise you're making, baby?
00:30:45That's their…
00:30:47Is that their language?
00:30:49I can't even...
00:30:52I sound like a big...
00:30:55You close your mouth and do it like that.
00:30:57Monkey!
00:30:58Monkey!
00:30:59Is it monkey or what do you say?
00:31:01Maki!
00:31:02Maki.
00:31:03Maki.
00:31:04Maki-maki.
00:31:05Maki-maki?
00:31:06Yes.
00:31:07You see?
00:31:08Oh, he's looking around.
00:31:09Let's get a picture.
00:31:10Come on, let's get one together.
00:31:16Man, the kids will love this.
00:31:18Yeah.
00:31:19My boys, I miss them.
00:31:22But it'll be worth it if I can bring the step mommy home.
00:31:26Yeah.
00:31:27I'll be there.
00:31:29I envision that we can have this family unit.
00:31:32Just the four of us.
00:31:38You know that.
00:31:39I love your kids, right?
00:31:40But I cannot just, you know, being a step mom.
00:31:45Like, forever.
00:31:47I want to have my own.
00:31:52I mean, I love kids.
00:31:54But, like, right now, I'm not in a position to have another child.
00:31:59What's the issue?
00:32:03Well, there's...
00:32:06I know it's a hard time, but I know what it is.
00:32:09I know.
00:32:10I know.
00:32:11I took care of my little brother and sister without any help.
00:32:15Like, my dad going to work, and only them and me was in the house.
00:32:22And before, when I told you that I want my own kids, then you say,
00:32:26Oh, we should talk about it when you're coming here.
00:32:30So this is the time to talk about it.
00:32:34You should decide.
00:32:38You want what you don't want.
00:32:39I don't know, Trish.
00:32:41I'm not ready to make that decision right now.
00:32:48At this point in my life, I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:32:54I'm 52 years old, and I'm getting up there in age.
00:32:58So having another child is going to be, like, starting all over again.
00:33:03And it's hard enough, as it is, dealing with my two little ones.
00:33:11And I haven't even told her about what I did in Columbia.
00:33:17She might not even want a child with me after she finds that out.
00:33:24What do you want?
00:33:27I mean, I'm not totally closing the door on the idea of having a child.
00:33:34For how long you decided, like, okay, now I want to have kids.
00:33:40I can't put a time frame on that.
00:33:45I wish he would stop making excuses and tell me what he really wants.
00:33:51I need to know, and it's very important, and not only for me, but for my family.
00:33:58In my culture, it's very important to have kids, and it's not a question.
00:34:06I'm going to take Rick to my hometown in a few days, and I'm worried.
00:34:11If he decided he does not want to have kids anymore, I'm not sure if I will be able to stay with him.
00:34:20I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:34:35She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would threaten her and mistreat her.
00:34:46You forced her.
00:34:47Do you just hate it?
00:34:48Do you just hate it?
00:34:49Do you just hate it?
00:34:52Oh, big объ...
00:35:08It's not very ripe.
00:35:22Hello.
00:35:23Hello.
00:35:24Hello.
00:35:25Mom, Dev.
00:35:26And this is my sister, Katrina, and my dad, Steve.
00:35:29Hello.
00:35:30Hello.
00:35:31This is my mom, Molly, and my dad, Dev.
00:35:33So very nice to meet you, sir.
00:35:35This is Dev.
00:35:36Hello.
00:35:37Good to meet you.
00:35:38Steve, Dev.
00:35:39Steve.
00:35:40Dev.
00:35:41Dev.
00:35:42Dev, yeah.
00:35:43Hi.
00:35:44I'm Molly.
00:35:45So very nice to meet you.
00:35:46It's a pleasure.
00:35:47I'm Katrina.
00:35:48Nice to meet you.
00:35:49Good to meet you, Katrina.
00:35:50Hi, Forrest.
00:35:51Dev.
00:35:52Hey, Pops.
00:35:53How's it going?
00:35:54Yeah.
00:35:55So, Mom, we're just trying to show you how we make jackboots.
00:35:57That is a knife.
00:35:58Yeah.
00:35:59Tonight, I'm worried about, you know,
00:36:02everything that's going to happen.
00:36:03Anyone want to try?
00:36:04Oh, I sure do.
00:36:05Oh, thank you.
00:36:07I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:36:10Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom who loves and cares
00:36:12everybody?
00:36:13Or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard, battle,
00:36:15battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:36:17Want to go sit down for a while?
00:36:20Oh, yeah.
00:36:21That'd be great.
00:36:22Yeah.
00:36:23But at the same time, I'm starting to get kind of tired
00:36:26and overwhelmed with learning new things every single time
00:36:28about Sheena.
00:36:30So I'm hoping that we can get the truth all out on the table.
00:36:36Oh, look at that.
00:36:38So these are banana leaves.
00:36:39We use this as a buddle fight.
00:36:41Very traditional.
00:36:43This usually was practiced in the military when they went up to the mountains.
00:36:48Yeah.
00:36:49So no plates, just the banana leaves and all the food.
00:36:53All natural stuff.
00:36:54Yes, it's wonderful.
00:36:55A buddle fight is like a traditional Filipino culture
00:37:00of everyone to eat in one whole giant leaf.
00:37:04So it's like this.
00:37:05They have to do like this in a line.
00:37:07Ah.
00:37:08I just thought Molly would really enjoy this
00:37:11because she's interested in learning about my culture,
00:37:15especially when it comes to food.
00:37:17Ooh, my mouth is watering.
00:37:19Ooh.
00:37:20I hope that the buddle fight is the only fight that would happen tonight.
00:37:24Next batch.
00:37:27Next batch, the whole thing.
00:37:29Seafood.
00:37:30Ooh, shrimp.
00:37:31Oh, my gosh.
00:37:32Those look delicious.
00:37:33Mussels.
00:37:34The big fish goes in the middle.
00:37:37Yes.
00:37:38My first impression of Sheena's family was they're hospitable.
00:37:42They're very welcoming.
00:37:44I mean, I've never quite seen a spread as nice as this.
00:37:48Usually make a rice ball.
00:37:51Just pick around.
00:37:52Scoop it in your mouth.
00:37:53Shove it in your mouth.
00:37:54Shove it in your mouth.
00:37:55Shove it up.
00:37:56Shove it up.
00:37:57Shove it up.
00:37:58Shove it on up.
00:37:59Mmm.
00:38:01Mmm.
00:38:02That be told, that does not line up at all
00:38:05from what I heard about them from Sheena.
00:38:07God, the flavors that just come through.
00:38:11Mmm.
00:38:12Mmm.
00:38:13I was under the impression that they were these money-grubbing, cruel people that pretty
00:38:23much locked Sheena away and wouldn't let her out only to go to work and then to hand over
00:38:28her check.
00:38:29That's what I was led to believe.
00:38:31I just wanted to say this meal that you prepared is just incredible.
00:38:38I'm just so grateful.
00:38:40Mmm.
00:38:41And you have created such a beautiful home, I must say.
00:38:44Thank you, thank you.
00:38:46It must have been so expensive.
00:38:53But I was actually quite surprised to see how it really is.
00:38:58I expected something very different.
00:39:01But you guys made us feel very, very welcome and I appreciate that so much.
00:39:07So I wanted to ask, are you guys okay with Sheena moving to the United States?
00:39:14Actually, that is already her dream years ago, to work there in the U.S.
00:39:23Oh.
00:39:24Okay.
00:39:25That's interesting.
00:39:30Yes.
00:39:31But yesterday, Forrest made it clear that he's a little low on budget also and so I don't
00:39:40know what the situation is, you know.
00:39:42So...
00:39:43Actually, let's put Forrest's finances to the side and I want to talk about Sheena.
00:39:52There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:39:55And I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:40:10And she told us that if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would threaten her and be cruel to her and mistreat her.
00:40:27That you forced her.
00:40:28No.
00:40:29Did you say that?
00:40:30No.
00:40:31Did you say that?
00:40:32No.
00:40:33Did you say that?
00:40:34No.
00:40:35Did you say that?
00:40:36No.
00:40:37No.
00:40:38No.
00:40:39No.
00:40:40No.
00:40:41No.
00:40:42No.
00:40:43No.
00:40:44No.
00:40:46No.
00:40:47No.
00:40:48No.
00:40:49No.
00:40:50Is she mentally Hearing?
00:40:51I腳 m extremat制.
00:40:52He doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:40:54I'm here to make sure that Lisa is a good woman.
00:40:59It is our tradition.
00:41:01You are not an Igbo woman.
00:41:04Tell me, do you drink?
00:41:06Do you smoke?
00:41:07Are you a practicing Christian?
00:41:09I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:41:24Wow.
00:41:32A lot of photos here.
00:41:45It's all Zoey's photo.
00:41:50My dog.
00:41:52Mm-hmm.
00:41:54I was ready to find something to prove that I can't trust him.
00:42:00Instead, I found a bunch of cute photos of his dog.
00:42:07And photos of me that I sent him.
00:42:10Actually, lots of photos of me.
00:42:13I'm realizing that maybe I should cut him some slack.
00:42:19But I guess I'm still learning how to trust him.
00:42:25Well, for now, I don't see any red flag, honestly.
00:42:32You know, I told you I was going to stop talking to that person.
00:42:37And I did.
00:42:39I mean, did you think I wasn't telling the truth?
00:42:42I think I never know.
00:42:47Well, now you know.
00:42:48It's a little bit offensive that she feel like she needs to look through my phone in order
00:42:56to feel comfortable.
00:42:58Anna's supposed to trust me regardless.
00:43:01She's actually supposed to trust me before, you know, we got married, you know.
00:43:09But at the same time, I watch a lot of relationship podcasts, and one of the hosts, he sometimes
00:43:15makes good points about a little paranoia is healthy.
00:43:20I mean, most women only act right when they feel like they can be replaced.
00:43:27So, I'm not saying go out and cheat, but a little bit of paranoia, a little bit of fear
00:43:32is healthy.
00:43:33Yeah.
00:43:34Are we good?
00:43:36I do want to trust you, but I'm not going to lie, I'm not still like 100%.
00:43:48Mm-hmm.
00:43:50And if you talk to her again, I'm going to break this phone.
00:43:57I don't care.
00:43:58I mean, Anna, just look at it this way.
00:44:00I mean, I passed all your tests.
00:44:02For now.
00:44:03OK, for now.
00:44:04For now.
00:44:05For now.
00:44:06Do you want to go through my luggage up in the room?
00:44:08Yes, I will.
00:44:09All right.
00:44:11Do you have extra phone?
00:44:13I'm just kidding.
00:44:14Not at all.
00:44:15I'm with you.
00:44:16I'm just kidding.
00:44:17I'm just kidding.
00:44:40As soon as I go in, do I kneel down before him?
00:44:44Yes.
00:44:46OK.
00:44:47Stop being nervous, OK?
00:44:48OK.
00:44:49OK.
00:44:50I am in a very uncomfortable situation.
00:44:53I'm sitting next to the man I love and he doesn't know about me.
00:45:00He doesn't know that I'm still married.
00:45:03He has no idea I've only been with women for 21 years.
00:45:06And right now, I'm feeling scared because I don't want to lie to his uncle,
00:45:11but I don't want to tell him any of my secrets.
00:45:13I want us to have this blessing more than anything in the world.
00:45:17I want to be with Daniel.
00:45:26We're going to do this.
00:45:27If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:45:30Hey.
00:45:31Uncle.
00:45:32What is that?
00:45:33What is that?
00:45:34Stop.
00:45:35Get down there.
00:45:36Get down.
00:45:37Don't you know that culture?
00:45:38Get down there.
00:45:39Get down.
00:45:40Don't you know that culture?
00:45:41Get down there.
00:45:42Get down.
00:45:43Don't you know that culture?
00:45:44Hey, Uncle, what are you doing, sir?
00:45:53Come on.
00:45:55You're down there.
00:46:00You're down.
00:46:01Don't you know I call you?
00:46:02I'm here to make sure that Lisa is a good woman.
00:46:17Before I give them the approval to go ahead and fire it.
00:46:23It is our tradition.
00:46:27Stand up. Come and have your seat.
00:46:32Come on.
00:46:43You're very well.
00:46:49This is the one.
00:46:55This is the one.
00:46:56My good lady, how are you?
00:47:03Nervous, Uncle. I'm very nervous today.
00:47:08Yes.
00:47:09Yes.
00:47:12You are not an Igbo woman.
00:47:15I want to know you more.
00:47:18I will ask you some pertinent questions.
00:47:24Tell me who are you.
00:47:27I am Native American.
00:47:30I am part Irish also.
00:47:33I come from a mother who gave me up for adoption at a very young age.
00:47:38I have a family that adopted me and they took very good care of me.
00:47:43I am a hard worker.
00:47:45I make sure I take care of my household.
00:47:47I make sure when Daniel needs money that I take care of his household.
00:47:53Are you a practicing Christian or Christian by name?
00:47:58I am a practicing Christian.
00:48:01I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:48:05But Daniel makes me into a better woman.
00:48:07He makes me into a stronger Christian.
00:48:13Do you drink?
00:48:15I do drink very, not a lot, but I do drink some, yes.
00:48:21Do you smoke?
00:48:23I do not smoke.
00:48:25I have smoked in the past.
00:48:27I have given it up.
00:48:28Are you or were you a lesbian?
00:48:38Do you practice Libyaism?
00:48:46I am very happy.
00:48:48Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:48:54I don't want to make things bigger.
00:48:56I don't want to make things bigger.
00:49:04Wait, what did she say?
00:49:05What did she say?
00:49:16Aslında...
00:49:18Birka'nın bilinmeyen bir yanı var.
00:49:27Ben söyleyeyim.
00:49:30Çok da saklama ama.
00:49:35Birka hızlıyor.
00:49:36El revıc BYHKM
00:49:45Bir Milli Gözde
00:49:47Ne o gün yuk五 z socio innovative ya da ya maliklerin hem de çıkmak istin.
00:49:50to find money and when I'm not working and I can't find a job the gambling comes in here
00:49:57I gamble every day every opportunity I have it's what I do for a living
00:50:04Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt I don't want to make things bigger
00:50:14but what
00:50:19birkanın kumara olan düşkünlüğü diyelim birkan boşluktayken bir kumar bağımlısı birkan boşlukta
00:50:34kaldığı zamanlarda kumar oynayan bir insan orayla bu konuda konuşması gerekiyor
00:50:40bence çok da uzatma sakladığın süreyi sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek
00:50:48bence
00:50:48orası için
00:50:50farklı bir şey söyleme herhangi bir şey
00:50:55çok baskı yapılmasını sevmiyorum
00:51:02çok baskı yapılmasını sevmiyorum
00:51:04birkan onu yapma birkan bunu yapma
00:51:08birkan don't do this
00:51:10birkan don't do this
00:51:11birkan don't do this
00:51:13good to know
00:51:17this is really awkward because the three of them are just having this conversation in Turkish
00:51:22and nobody is translating for me or filling in any of the gaps
00:51:28This definitely feels kind of off and a little shady.
00:51:32I'm already feeling unsure.
00:51:35And now I definitely think it's possible
00:51:38that he's hiding something else that his friends know about.
00:51:41And for whatever reason, no one's telling me.
00:51:45And I don't like that.
00:51:58So we're having a picnic.
00:52:11Is that the blanket we're laying on?
00:52:15Your splash pad.
00:52:16I mean, it's kind of...
00:52:17That would have been better.
00:52:22The splash pad would have definitely been better.
00:52:28Is this what we're going to eat?
00:52:31Yeah.
00:52:33Wow.
00:52:34Fried fish.
00:52:36They put some garlic and ginger and a little salt.
00:52:41And that's what they're stirring in now?
00:52:43Yeah.
00:52:44The ginger and the salt.
00:52:45They mix it up like this.
00:52:47It makes me miss home,
00:52:49because we are doing the same thing like this when we're home.
00:52:53Got some nice big ones in here, bae.
00:52:54Mm-hmm.
00:52:55So whatever you catch is on the menu.
00:52:58Yeah.
00:53:08This type of food stands on the beach are very common in here.
00:53:12I love them since they have fresh seafood.
00:53:16This is how my family prepare food also.
00:53:20Lighting a fire and making a barbecue or frying something.
00:53:26So, it's nice to have a reminder of home.
00:53:31You want to try?
00:53:32Try what?
00:53:33How to cook it.
00:53:35I don't know anything about...
00:53:36You've never done that?
00:53:37Nah, I've never been fishing either.
00:53:39So, I've never dealt with, you know, live fish.
00:53:42I'm going to teach you, and when you are in my hometown,
00:53:45you can do the same thing to impress my family
00:53:48like you know how to do it.
00:53:49I mean, that sounds like kind of a good idea, you know?
00:53:53I'm nervous that Rick is going to meet my family.
00:53:57I hope they will love him.
00:54:00But the conversation we had earlier about kids
00:54:04is making me doubt that it's possible.
00:54:06And also, there are other things working against us
00:54:11that Rick doesn't know about.
00:54:15Is Zoma using it?
00:54:18Yeah.
00:54:19Are you used to squatting like this a long period of time?
00:54:24Yeah.
00:54:25What's your problem, Rick?
00:54:28You don't even help.
00:54:29I mean, I'm old.
00:54:30I'm not used to being in this type of position
00:54:32for a long period of time.
00:54:34In my home, I'm not used to be in this type of position
00:54:36You will sit on the ground like this.
00:54:39I'm a city boy, baby.
00:54:41You're a village girl.
00:54:43You want to sit on a chair?
00:54:45If there's a chair available, yeah.
00:54:47That'd be nice.
00:54:48What?
00:54:49You complain a lot.
00:54:53So what can I expect when I meet the family?
00:54:56They will ask you some questions.
00:54:58Who are you?
00:54:59What do you want from my daughter?
00:55:02What's your plan for her?
00:55:04OK.
00:55:05Hi.
00:55:06I know that this is a big step, and I feel honored
00:55:10that you want to introduce me to your family.
00:55:13Yeah.
00:55:16And when I'm about the same age as your dad, right?
00:55:19You're older than my dad.
00:55:23How old is your dad?
00:55:2450.
00:55:27But your father does know how old I am, right?
00:55:30Mm-hmm.
00:55:31You haven't told your dad my age?
00:55:33No.
00:55:35Mm.
00:55:37I didn't say that she already married twice.
00:55:42I didn't say that she have kids.
00:55:45Aw, Trish.
00:55:47My dad, he doesn't want a man older than me, and a man who
00:55:54have a lot of kids, and a man who already been married,
00:56:00divorced.
00:56:00So that's why I didn't tell my dad much about rape.
00:56:06Otherwise, I think my father would just refuse to meet him.
00:56:11But blessing for my dad, it means a lot for me.
00:56:15So what's going to happen to us if your dad doesn't accept me?
00:56:22My dad would say, oh, you have to choose then
00:56:26between you and my dad.
00:56:30And if you don't have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:56:36It's really important to my family.
00:56:40I'm being put in such a disadvantage.
00:56:45She hasn't given her family any information about me.
00:56:48They don't know my age.
00:56:50They don't know that I've been married, have kids,
00:56:53nothing at all.
00:56:55I'm just getting thrown into the lion's den.
00:56:58They really want Trish to have a baby.
00:57:01And that's the part that I'm most worried about.
00:57:05Because at this point, I don't know
00:57:07if I'm ready to make that decision.
00:57:13I just want to go in there and be as open and honest as I can.
00:57:19And show them that I'm a good person,
00:57:23that I'm a loving father.
00:57:25And that I'm here for their daughter.
00:57:28And I'm going to treat her well and do the best that I can
00:57:32to make you happy.
00:57:34I mean, hopefully that's enough for him to accept me.
00:57:43I know that this trip is very important.
00:57:46I know that I need to meet her family, get to know them,
00:57:50and get to know more about Trish through her family.
00:57:53But I feel even worse about not telling Trish about spending time
00:58:00with my ex in Columbia.
00:58:03I have to tell Trish before we meet her family.
00:58:07And I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:58:16Welcome to the Alo Alo Bar.
00:58:17We have sweet potato and gulaman, some cheese, and corn.
00:58:22I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
00:58:25Most Americans would find that very weird.
00:58:29This is just a very delicious dessert.
00:58:32It's not like an execution.
00:58:34There's a real issue.
00:58:37It's an aberration.
00:58:39And it is not in our blood.
00:58:41Uncle.
00:58:42She told me this was one time chain.
00:58:46Do you lie?
00:58:50Is she saying the truth?
00:58:51You're telling me.
00:59:11You hear those waves?
00:59:13Yeah, I do.
00:59:15Oh, did they break?
00:59:17They break.
00:59:18Oh, .
00:59:19Well, you can be my first charming and carry me.
00:59:29In your dress?
00:59:31Like, oh, if you don't want to, that's fine.
00:59:34I mean, I want to, but it's like you're in a dress, though.
00:59:39Well, just so...
00:59:41What?
00:59:41You're the most unromantic guy I've ever met.
00:59:43Okay.
00:59:44It's like you've never been with a woman before.
00:59:47Tonight is the last night of our honeymoon.
00:59:50And I'm glad that we were able to work through some trust issues
00:59:53because after this, we're going to Cavite, where Anna Lynn lives.
01:00:00And while I'm there, we're going to have our vow renewal
01:00:02with our family and friends, and hopefully that'll be good.
01:00:06Well, I can still walk with one straw, but it's just...
01:00:09You sure?
01:00:10Yeah.
01:00:11I'm not really unhappy that our honeymoon is ending,
01:00:14because I think the real test for us is day-to-day life.
01:00:19Are we able to live in the same space for long periods of time
01:00:23without trying to kill one another?
01:00:26You know, we'll see.
01:00:27Hey, sell halo-halo.
01:00:31Yes.
01:00:31They have a halo-halo set up.
01:00:33Okay.
01:00:34Welcome to the halo-halo bark.
01:00:37We have the sweet potato and gulaman.
01:00:40We have purple yam and some cheese and corn.
01:00:44Okay.
01:00:45Halo-halo is a popular Filipino dessert.
01:00:49Halo-halo in English means mix-mix.
01:00:52So you have to mix all the ingredients together with the milk and ice.
01:00:59It doesn't count unless I put the cheese in it.
01:01:02No, cheese and corn, okay?
01:01:04Okay.
01:01:09This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:01:12It's not like an execution.
01:01:14I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
01:01:21Most Americans would find that very weird.
01:01:25I'm not forcing you to do something you don't like.
01:01:27However, I wish you will be more open-minded
01:01:30that when I suggest something, you will try it at least once.
01:01:34Just once.
01:01:35I mean, I try almost anything just once,
01:01:39but cheese and corn and ice cream and jelly?
01:01:42Really?
01:01:43Yeah.
01:01:44But I'm willing to accept the challenge.
01:01:47Yeah.
01:01:49So cold.
01:01:51Is it?
01:01:51Uh-huh.
01:01:52But you enjoying it, though.
01:01:54Enjoy it.
01:01:59So we just mix it, right?
01:02:01Uh-huh.
01:02:02All right.
01:02:04Mmm.
01:02:05Oh, my God.
01:02:07Do you realize this is our first hallo-hallo together?
01:02:11Yes.
01:02:12Really nice.
01:02:14All right.
01:02:17Man, I know there's a lot going on in here.
01:02:20Mm-hmm.
01:02:21But it is good, though.
01:02:24Excuse me, ma'am.
01:02:24I'm sorry.
01:02:25Do you need anything else?
01:02:26Ah, yeah.
01:02:27Can we just take a photo of us?
01:02:29Sure, ma'am.
01:02:30We're at the honeymoon.
01:02:32Okay.
01:02:33Is that okay?
01:02:34Yes, ma'am.
01:02:34And one, two, three.
01:02:39There you go, ma'am.
01:02:40Uh-huh.
01:02:42I hope you knew you had a hallo-hallo, ma'am.
01:02:43I'm sorry.
01:02:44Look at that.
01:02:45Yeah.
01:02:46Oh, yeah.
01:02:47That's a good photo.
01:02:47I don't think so, but okay.
01:02:53What's wrong?
01:02:56You know, the face that you're giving me, you look miserable.
01:03:00You know I don't mean to, though.
01:03:05But I don't believe.
01:03:06You don't believe it?
01:03:07This is your thing.
01:03:09Whining and being unromantic.
01:03:12Uh-huh.
01:03:13I mean, how am I unromantic, though?
01:03:17Like the faces that I make?
01:03:18Yeah, and then, you know, how you say things.
01:03:25Okay.
01:03:27For example, on our second anniversary, I said, hey, boo, you know what it is?
01:03:33You're like, oh, yeah.
01:03:36And then you just move on.
01:03:38Oh.
01:03:38I mean, I work 15 hours a day, so it's kind of a luxury that you can, you know, keep up
01:03:50with days like that, because you're just sitting at home.
01:03:53I don't have that luxury, and I'm just so drained all the time.
01:03:58Some other people are working, too, but they don't do that.
01:04:03They still have time to be sweet to their wives.
01:04:07Well, I'm sorry.
01:04:10Maybe I'm just not a good husband.
01:04:20It's frustrating, because for me, this is love.
01:04:24I'm showing up.
01:04:24I'm providing.
01:04:25I mean, I thought that meant something.
01:04:28But Anna, seeing it through the female lens, she has this perception built up in her head
01:04:35that I have to be just over-the-top romance for her living in a fantasy.
01:04:39I don't know.
01:04:40My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation.
01:04:45I always make sure that my partner knows that I find him attractive.
01:04:50But just because you are supposed to provide and protect doesn't mean you always have to
01:04:56have this machismo energy, like you can't show vulnerability, you're still a human being.
01:05:01I am afraid that Jubon is never going to understand me and my needs.
01:05:08He hears me, but he doesn't really listen.
01:05:11I just want you to have just more understanding, because what I do is not easy.
01:05:17I mean, is that not romantic, like making sure your lights is on because, you know, you're at home
01:05:24and then I'm working.
01:05:26I'm getting tired of this.
01:05:27Okay.
01:05:28Every time you do something for me, you throw me to my face.
01:05:32Because you have to remind me that you're the man.
01:05:36That's what man does.
01:05:39I'm not trying to, Anna.
01:05:40I'm just trying to get you to understand, like, what I do is just not easy,
01:05:44and I can't remember everything, you know?
01:05:47Anna, why are you so emotional?
01:05:56Something you will never understand, because you don't have that.
01:06:03Well, I mean, I'm sorry, Anna.
01:06:06Seem like I can't do anything right around you, so.
01:06:10From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
01:06:17I will never mistreat any of my children.
01:06:22Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:06:25Sorry.
01:06:27Your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just, like, throwing it in the trash can.
01:06:34She told us, if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would mistreat her.
01:06:56No.
01:06:57Do you say that?
01:06:58She said that you guys mistreated her if you didn't give her the money, that you were...
01:07:08I don't know how mistreated her.
01:07:09Well, that you, um, that you called her names and you threatened to throw her out and make her homeless.
01:07:18What?
01:07:19No.
01:07:20No.
01:07:22You sure you didn't say anything that would have been...
01:07:26I will never mistreat any of my children.
01:07:30Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:07:33Sorry.
01:07:38Why do you feel like you have to lie all the time?
01:07:46I want to admit that I lie.
01:07:49Just to cover things up so I don't want to lose for us because it is hard for me to save money.
01:08:01I try to help you guys because you need all the help, but every time that I want to save, it's not even enough for me to get the visa.
01:08:08I cannot save enough.
01:08:10Yours is so hard for me.
01:08:12It is absolutely insane that Sheena would lie about her family in the first place.
01:08:20It makes no sense.
01:08:22And the hysterical theatrics aren't helping at all to clear any of this up.
01:08:27I'm just disappointed that we got told that we were kind of abusing you.
01:08:34I'm sorry, Bill.
01:08:35I do.
01:08:37And I do humbly apologize.
01:08:39I just don't understand why she would tell us stories that she's given every penny to you guys.
01:08:55Well, actually, it's, you know, she gave it to us and it's all listed, you know.
01:09:01So when the time she needs it, we can, I don't know, give it back to her.
01:09:08Really?
01:09:08Of course.
01:09:10Sheena, I'm really kind of surprised.
01:09:24Here I thought they were mistreating you and taking all your money and finding out that they were just borrowing it.
01:09:30It's a way different story than everything you told me.
01:09:34No, I'm sorry.
01:09:38But now I'm feeling even worse because your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just like throwing it in the trash can.
01:10:05And I haven't told you the right things because I'm worried that you might give up on me.
01:10:10Shenebraith, I know that you've been trying hard.
01:10:22I don't approve of the stories and keeping everything hidden from everybody.
01:10:26That's not something that's not something that was cool.
01:10:28But for years, you've been fighting for yourself and sort of, unfortunately, got all mixed up.
01:10:36We knew that she was trying to save up for a visa, but we didn't know how would she even acquire that.
01:10:42She doesn't tell us what's the process.
01:10:46We're not going to guess it.
01:10:47She wasn't really telling us the real truth, you know, what's really happening.
01:10:55Sheen, you need to make sure to say I'm never going to lie to anybody again and I will be open with everybody.
01:11:04To everyone, I promise I would never lie again for whatever I said to you guys.
01:11:15I regret for doing everything.
01:11:17I'll do my best to be much more open up to you guys.
01:11:20It hurts to find out that for the last seven years, Sheena had, you know, lied about everything with her family and the money situation.
01:11:31I thought she had more faith in me, but I'm glad that everything is out of the open now.
01:11:37And I hope that we can finally work towards our future.
01:11:43I think I'm going to jump in here.
01:11:47Pops, let me understand here.
01:11:48So, you mentioned that you're borrowing the money, right?
01:11:53Yes.
01:11:54So, how long would it take to provide, you know, if she asked for her money back?
01:12:02You haven't given us, asked us for a certain amount.
01:12:06So, we don't know.
01:12:09I'd say about maybe $4,000.
01:12:10I was surprised because if they plan to get married, it's a guy who should provide for her.
01:12:29We didn't expect she'll be asking us for that amount, ano?
01:12:34Yeah, nagulat nga din ako noong unang sinabi niya, na-mesyo niyo.
01:12:38But, kasi nungalingan regarding us, it's painful for us.
01:12:44First impressions, Molly and the stepfather.
01:12:48If she came and said, hey, I can't keep, you know, giving you guys a loan, would you guys not be taking the loan?
01:13:03I think, uh, if it's, uh, you know, if it's feasible, you know, that for us not getting any help, we would do that, you know?
01:13:21But, I, I just wish that she'd talked to us and explained it to us more.
01:13:29See, after all these years, Shane, we could have just came and did this.
01:13:33Instead of going and, you know, making stories, putting things around about.
01:13:37I lie because I fear of losing him.
01:13:42Shane, you're going to lose me if you don't.
01:13:45Stop lying.
01:13:46You gotta be honest with us.
01:13:47Yes.
01:13:48I'm very, very sorry.
01:13:52And I'm trying to strive my best to work hard for me to save.
01:13:56That's all I wish.
01:14:01I'm relieved that the truth is out.
01:14:03But I'm afraid that Forrest is taking everything he heard tonight at face value.
01:14:08Now, it's just to the point where I gotta just say, you need to think about what's happening in this relationship that all she's doing is lying.
01:14:18Maybe someday, she'll come down the road and tell us some other secret that we don't know.
01:14:22That will tear the relationship apart.
01:14:25I don't trust her as far as I could throw her.
01:14:27But, time will tell.
01:14:29If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture.
01:14:47There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:14:50Please tell me the truth.
01:14:52I am so guilt-ridden.
01:14:55I just want to be open and honest and see if he'll take me for who I am.
01:14:59Are you okay?
01:15:00Do you practice lesbianism?
01:15:20Daniel told me that Lisa protested lesbianism in the past.
01:15:25I know lesbianism is rampant in America.
01:15:31Here, we don't do it at all.
01:15:33If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture and tradition.
01:15:42Please, my young lady, don't be offended.
01:15:46I am not insulting you, but lesbianism is an aberration, and it is not in our blood.
01:15:57There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:16:02Please, tell me the truth.
01:16:07What the is happening?
01:16:08I am shocked by the question.
01:16:15I don't know what to say about it.
01:16:18My sexuality, being called an aberration, hurts me a lot.
01:16:23I am who I am, and I'm not ashamed of it at all.
01:16:27And I just want to be honest and tell the truth.
01:16:30But I'm struggling inside with what's right and what's not right and what I want to do and what I don't want to do.
01:16:35It's an inner battle.
01:16:38I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
01:16:52You don't practice it anymore?
01:16:56No, sir.
01:16:59It was a fling.
01:17:00It was one time.
01:17:06Do you lie?
01:17:08I think everybody says a fib once in a while.
01:17:13That doesn't make it right.
01:17:16I have lied in the past, but I am not a liar.
01:17:25Is she saying the truth?
01:17:29Tell me.
01:17:30Yes, uncle.
01:17:31She's telling the truth.
01:17:32Okay.
01:17:36I am not a liar, uncle.
01:17:38Okay.
01:17:40But I will tell Daniel to monitor you.
01:17:43To make sure you never do that again.
01:17:45Why does your uncle ask me if I partake in lesbianism?
01:17:53Why would he ask me that?
01:17:55I told him that you have done it before.
01:17:58But it was a mistake.
01:17:59Yeah.
01:18:00You told him everything.
01:18:01You told him everything.
01:18:03That wasn't for you to tell anybody.
01:18:04That was between us.
01:18:05No, no, no, no, no.
01:18:06No, no, I have to.
01:18:07You're wrong.
01:18:08This is my uncle.
01:18:08I don't care if it's the Pope of the Catholic Church.
01:18:11You don't tell anybody.
01:18:11Are you trying to insult him?
01:18:12I'm not insulting anybody.
01:18:14I'm telling you, you don't tell people certain things.
01:18:16My uncle is like father to me.
01:18:17So I have to discuss everything with him.
01:18:19You don't even tell me what you've already spoken to your uncle about.
01:18:22I ask you what kind of questions he's going to ask me.
01:18:25And you're like, I don't know.
01:18:27I don't know.
01:18:28I don't know.
01:18:28I don't know if to tell you.
01:18:29You don't want me to know, but you want him to know everything.
01:18:32Oh, my God.
01:18:33Yes.
01:18:34Oh, my God.
01:18:36Are you OK?
01:18:39Yes, uncle.
01:18:59Oh, my God.
01:19:10Come on.
01:19:11I am Galo.
01:19:22So.
01:19:33I've been hearing from you.
01:19:35And I will give you guys my blessing.
01:19:45Thank you, son.
01:19:48Thank you, uncle.
01:19:54I am thrilled.
01:20:05I have the blessing.
01:20:08But I feel guilty as all hell.
01:20:10Because he kept bringing up the fact, are you a liar?
01:20:14We do not lie.
01:20:16We do not.
01:20:17And that's making me feel guilty because I am lying.
01:20:22Amen.
01:20:26Amen.
01:20:31Amen.
01:20:31Amen.
01:20:32Amen.
01:20:35I want Daniel, but I have the secret that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
01:20:41I have the secret that I'm married still to a woman.
01:20:45But it's 21 years.
01:20:47It's not a mistake.
01:20:48It's who I am.
01:20:48And I'm so scared he's not going to understand that.
01:20:52Stop crying.
01:20:53Daniel is yours.
01:20:55You are his rule.
01:20:59I am so guilt-ridden because I love this man.
01:21:02And I just want to be open and honest and get this over with and see if he'll take me for who I am.
01:21:08But it's getting harder and harder as the time goes on.
01:21:10I don't know how I'm going to tell him.
01:21:24Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:26I get to be the princess and now in the castle.
01:21:29Now I'll always be a princess.
01:21:31We're on this surprise romantic getaway, but I'm honestly having mixed feelings about it.
01:21:37I'm worried he's hiding more secrets.
01:21:40Can you tell me where your debt came from?
01:21:42Do you want the truth?
01:21:44Yeah.
01:21:46When the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
01:21:49I find another way to pay that debt.
01:21:52Do you realize everything you said about me since I got here has been negative?
01:21:58It makes me feel like we're never going to get married.
01:22:01We're never going to get engaged.
01:22:02This whole trip was a waste of my time.
01:22:06I'm just at my breaking point.
01:22:08I deserve some answers.
01:22:10Am I the girl that you want to be with?
01:22:13It's glued on to the point where my wig is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.
01:22:19I have to take it off.
01:22:21Oh, my God.
01:22:22I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
01:22:27I have no idea what he's going to think.
01:22:30But if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
01:22:34Hey.
01:22:36Oh, my God.
01:22:38What are you, ladies?
01:22:41All I hear is like you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
01:22:47I mean, you tell me I'm a downer.
01:22:49You tell me I'm not romantic.
01:22:51Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines and I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
01:22:59I mean, Anna, do you regret, like, marrying me?
01:23:03I mean, there's something I've been keeping from you.
01:23:10Explain yourself.
01:23:12In those five days when you weren't talking to me, I decided to book a trip to Colombia and be with my ex.
01:23:22Shut up.
01:23:23It was a mistake.
01:23:23Shut up.
01:23:24Ah, Jesus.
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