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00:00Markeisha, what's going on?
00:02Well, I'm here to get answers today.
00:04My boyfriend of 14 months have...
00:08I just have suspicions.
00:09Like, he has been calling his so-called girl, his cousin named Tashima.
00:16Just so happened his phone went off one day and there was a text message from her.
00:19And it was like, hey, babe, here's the code to pay your cell phone bill.
00:23What is she paying your cell phone bill for?
00:25You've got a job. You pay your own cell phone bills.
00:27Like, then one day, message came again.
00:31And it was like, you know, hey, babe, inviting you over for Thanksgiving dinner.
00:35Oh.
00:35I'd bake you a special dessert.
00:37Like, what is that special dessert?
00:39Like, is it you?
00:41Oh, yeah.
00:43Maybe she wants her turkey stuffed.
00:45I don't know.
00:46She probably will.
00:48But she will not get it.
00:49So, your boyfriend of, you know...
00:5714 months.
00:58Yeah.
00:59You think he's messing around with this other woman.
01:01I do.
01:02Because they're sending all the...
01:03Now, when you say that to him, what does he say?
01:05He's still claiming, oh, that's my so-called cousin, so-called cousin.
01:10Cousins don't call each other bae.
01:11I'm just sorry.
01:12That's what you call somebody you're in a relationship with.
01:14Yeah.
01:15Okay.
01:15Well, you got a point.
01:16So, I tell you what, why don't we bring him out and find out what the deal is.
01:20Here is your boyfriend, Steve.
01:22Steve, how are you?
01:38How you doing, Jerry?
01:39Yeah, nice to meet you.
01:41Yes, she apparently has some suspicions, because you talk to your cousin in sexy ways.
01:47Well, we've been, we had this conversation more than one time.
01:53I see.
01:54So, like, she, she knows the situation.
01:57But there's no reason she should be calling you bae.
01:59Bae is something you call somebody in a relationship with, like...
02:03Okay, well, I understand that, and I know your definition for bae before anybody else,
02:08but her calling me that, I don't know.
02:12It could mean anything.
02:13I don't know.
02:14It can't mean no anything.
02:16Like I said, that's not no meaning anything.
02:19That's something you call somebody in a relationship with.
02:21I want answers, though, like...
02:24So, so you're saying people just don't walk around and call other people things?
02:29No, they don't.
02:30Why don't they?
02:31People do it every day.
02:32Okay, well, well, babe, let me ask you this.
02:41Are you messing with her?
02:42Regardless of what she calls you or you call her, is there anything going on, is what you're trying to find out.
02:48Right.
02:48Like, yeah.
02:49I mean, ain't nothing going on.
02:52So why is she calling you bae?
02:55Like, you don't...
02:56Yeah.
02:58You are so insecure.
03:00You're so jealous.
03:01Yeah, I'm supposed to be, because it's not the first time.
03:02It's, like, the third time.
03:03But, like, when I first...
03:04It's other females texting and calling, like, nude pictures, everything.
03:09Nude pictures.
03:10Okay, I don't know nothing about that.
03:13But anyway, I don't know nothing about no nude pictures.
03:16But my thing is you taking the smallest thing and just making it into something is not, like...
03:20I just want answers.
03:21Like, this just...
03:21If you sleeping with her or not, like, that's all I want to know.
03:25It's a simple yes or no question.
03:26You've been sleeping with her.
03:27Like, because ain't nobody, your cousin, going to call you bae.
03:30Like, just inviting you over to this thing.
03:33Well, look, look, I'm going to put it to you like this.
03:36I'm going to put it to you like this.
03:38Yeah, I did.
03:39Yeah, I did.
03:42Are you kidding me right now?
03:46Like, how could you...
03:47Like, you really...
03:50Like, I really what?
03:52But you bought this...
03:52But you take my son...
03:53But you bought this on yourself, man.
03:55You take my baby to somebody's house.
03:56You are so insecure.
03:58You are so jealous.
03:59Let me be insecure.
03:59You did this to yourself.
04:00This is why.
04:02If everything was so...
04:03I didn't do nothing to myself.
04:04You didn't do nothing.
04:05No, I didn't.
04:05What you mean you ain't do nothing?
04:07Like, every time I leave this house, it's where you're going.
04:10I cook your chicken...
04:11So you claim them.
04:12Like, you go through...
04:13Your chicken...
04:14A chicken breast.
04:15Like, you always accusing me of doing something that I'm not.
04:18Of course, like, because it's not the first time.
04:19So now...
04:19And then you've been doing this to me for months.
04:22So now I feel like you're pushing me away and you made me do it.
04:25So that's what I feel about.
04:27Like, so you bought it on yourself.
04:29If somebody keep accusing you of something that's going on for months and months and
04:33months and months and months, eventually, I felt like, why should I just do it?
04:37At least make it true.
04:38I feel like you wanted to do it just because.
04:40Yeah, that way you want to keep blaming me.
04:42At least it's true, man.
04:44You're doing it because you want to do it.
04:46You did it because you want to do it.
04:47So you basically were seeking honesty.
04:49Yeah.
04:50I came out like...
04:50You sought the truth.
04:52Yeah.
04:53Come on.
04:53I mean, she came out here.
04:55She asked me.
04:56Yeah.
04:57I avoided the question at first.
04:59I saw that part.
05:00Now I'm telling you...
05:01Now I'm telling you...
05:01But now he's coming for you.
05:02He said he did it.
05:03Like, I ain't hiding nothing from you.
05:05Like, why?
05:06Why for somebody...
05:06Because if everything was so perfect, which it was in the first eight months...
05:10Kiki, when I first got with you, it was glorious.
05:13Eight glorious months.
05:16We did stuff together.
05:17We went places.
05:18We never argued for, fight, or disagreed on nothing.
05:21The first time we ever went out in public or kissed in public is just two weeks ago, Jerry,
05:26when his mother invited him to Golden Corral and told him to bring me along.
05:31That was a shock to me.
05:33Why was it a shock to you?
05:35Because we ain't never been to wear it public like that.
05:36I took you to breakfast.
05:37Like, this is...
05:39And obviously...
05:40For the first time in 14 whole months...
05:43You're saying he doesn't take your...
05:44You don't take your house?
05:45And obviously I took you to breakfast because you won't get up and cook it.
05:48Nothing.
05:49That's a lie.
05:50I cook pancakes, bacon, and eggs every morning.
05:53Really?
05:53When the last time you cooked pancakes, bacon, and eggs?
05:57Every morning.
05:57Just day before...
05:58When the last time you did that?
05:58Just what?
05:59Four days ago.
06:00Four days ago.
06:01Four days ago.
06:02You lying.
06:03I cook breakfast, I cook lunch, and I cook dinner that same day.
06:08Lunch isn't even an option.
06:09When is the last time you done that?
06:11I cook chicken breast for you that you call your chicken...
06:14That was three weeks ago.
06:17No.
06:17That was just...
06:18I don't know two weeks or definitely not four days ago.
06:21No, that was four days ago.
06:23How could you?
06:23Like, and then you take my son around her and have playdates with her baby.
06:28Like, who does that?
06:30Well, they do go to school together.
06:32So what?
06:32They're going to see each other regardless.
06:33But you've been sleeping with her the whole time.
06:35The whole time.
06:36There was no whole time.
06:38It only happened one time.
06:39Would you like to know when it happened?
06:40I can tell you one day.
06:41Yeah!
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06:47It was one day last month.
06:48I went to her house about seven o'clock.
06:50When was this Monday?
06:51It was October 15th.
06:52It was October 15th.
06:55I went to her house to watch the game.
06:58Anyway, I get over there.
07:00We're watching some of the game.
07:01What game?
07:02Football game.
07:04Who played?
07:06The Redskins and the Redskins and...
07:10I don't remember the other team.
07:11But anyway.
07:12But it was the Redskins or somebody.
07:14So anyway.
07:15Well, they usually play someone.
07:17We drank a little bit.
07:20We was drinking some Hennessy.
07:21No.
07:22And, you know, we was a little tipsy.
07:24Something he don't need to be doing.
07:25So we went outside.
07:26Oh.
07:27We kicked it a little bit with the neighbors.
07:28But the game was on, wasn't it?
07:30Then we came back inside.
07:31Back back.
07:32We watched the rest of the game till the game went over.
07:34It was late now.
07:35It's like 11.30 now.
07:36Oh, yeah.
07:37It was a night.
07:37It's like 11.30.
07:39Yeah.
07:39And he know my house rules.
07:40My daughter don't come back at 10 o'clock at night.
07:41Everybody in her house is asleep.
07:43Everybody in her house is asleep.
07:44I sit on the couch.
07:45She can't sit on the couch.
07:47She got close.
07:49And she put her hand on my shoulder.
07:51And then?
07:52And then her hand kept going down.
07:54And then?
07:55I'm pretty sure everybody no way had stopped that.
07:57Oh.
07:58She's.
08:00Oh.
08:01I'm pretty sure everybody no way had stopped that.
08:04I'm pretty sure you could have stopped it.
08:05Like, oh, I got a .
08:07And you know what happened after that?
08:10I'm pretty sure you could have stopped it, too.
08:13You pretty sure I could?
08:14I'm thinking about your family at home.
08:15Hey, do you know what?
08:16This is your girlfriend.
08:18Do you love her?
08:20Man, yeah.
08:20But a man could take so much.
08:22Not going cheating on him.
08:23I could only take so much.
08:24If you accuse somebody for cheating for like five months,
08:28and you know it's not happening, and then you tell me again,
08:32like three other times, so now I'm like, well, screw it.
08:35Of course.
08:36At least it's true, man.
08:37Other tense messages coming from different guys.
08:38At least you're not accusing me of nothing.
08:41Like, I messed up.
08:42I'm wrong.
08:43Like, I ain't lying to you about it.
08:45Do you want to be with this other woman?
08:47I mean, nah.
08:48Why don't we bring her out, find out what she got here?
08:50Here's Tashima.
08:56Both of y'all sound pathetic.
08:58Like, why are you out here lying to this girl?
09:00You know it happened more than one time.
09:01This has been going on for one year.
09:03You're just as nasty.
09:03You sound pathetic.
09:04You're just a trifling bitch for even sleeping.
09:06You know he got a family at home.
09:07It does not matter.
09:08Like, my kids go to school together.
09:09That's just childish.
09:10Girl, they only go to school together because we stay
09:11in the same neighborhood.
09:12If not, then we probably not even see each other.
09:13OK, that doesn't matter.
09:14You walk from the neighborhood.
09:15You speak hi, everything.
09:16That's phony and fake.
09:17I'm only associated with you.
09:18That's phony and fake.
09:19Like, OK.
09:20I'm only associated with you.
09:21I only deal with you on account of him.
09:22OK.
09:23But you need to realize I'm going to be around regardless
09:25whether he breaks up with you today, tomorrow, whatever.
09:26I'm going to be around.
09:27I'm not going nowhere.
09:28I'm always going to be here.
09:29I'm always going to be here.
09:30I'm always going to be here.
09:31I'm always going to be here.
09:32I'm always going to be here.
09:33You have to respect the family.
09:34Like, we have a whole family.
09:35You should have thought about that.
09:36He don't even respect your family.
09:37So how you respect your family?
09:38Yeah, because you're a charming ass dog himself.
09:39Exactly.
09:40So why are you being his doormat?
09:41Like, you be in my face smiling at the school,
09:42everywhere.
09:43Like, come on.
09:44You speak.
09:45You're being a doormat.
09:46What do you want to say to her?
09:47OK.
09:48What do you want to say to her?
09:49Man, I don't even know why you out here.
09:51I don't even know why you're out here.
09:53I don't even know why you're out here.
09:54Kicking them lies to them people.
09:55Like, that was a one night thing.
09:56Like, I don't even know where you're going with this.
09:57So it was only one night.
09:58So what happened to him when we was at the crib
10:00and it was Netflix and chill?
10:01Netflix and chill.
10:02That's what it was.
10:03We all know what Netflix and chill means.
10:04Yeah, I know what Netflix and chill means.
10:05I know what it means now.
10:06Sit around and watch this movie.
10:07No, that tattoo on your neck.
10:08And I was like, oh, I like your tattoo.
10:09Can I see it?
10:10And I came over and I kissed you.
10:11And it went from there.
10:12And I was like, oh, I like your tattoo.
10:13Can I see it?
10:14And I came over and I kissed you.
10:15And it went from there.
10:16And it went from there.
10:17And you got a mush.
10:18You got a mush.
10:19Come on now.
10:20So long.
10:21Don't let that stress you.
10:22But you.
10:23Do you want to be with him?
10:24I don't want to ruin our friendships.
10:25And that I wouldn't want to take it further with him.
10:26I just I'm enjoying my life.
10:28I'm only 22.
10:29I, yeah.
10:30Out here having fun.
10:31Some you need to do, but instead,
10:32you lay at home all day like,
10:46Why should I have fun? I'm a mother of two.
10:48Okay, and I'm a mother too, and I take good care of my son.
10:50Two kids with bad health conditions and everything.
10:52I'd rather be with my kids than to be out clubbing like a little whore.
10:56You don't always have to be out clubbing.
10:58You don't always have to be out clubbing.
11:00You don't always have to be out clubbing.
11:02You only have one. I have two. That's the difference between me and you.
11:05I have two. You only have one.
11:06You can provide a babysitter for just one.
11:08I can't provide for two.
11:10I don't see what's so hard about it.
11:12I don't have family like you do.
11:14You have a support system.
11:16I don't.
11:17Well, don't let that stress you. You need to go find it.
11:19I mean, because you just sitting in the house nagging him constantly.
11:22What did you expect him to do?
11:23But like you said, this one the first time, this one the second time.
11:26So why do you keep taking him back?
11:28Because first of all, him and my kids have a big connection.
11:32But you can continue to be unhappy just to be with him?
11:35When you're listening to this and you see that she's obviously in pain,
11:39what's going through your mind?
11:40I mean, like, I feel for, like, I do my...
11:43He don't care. He knows what I've been through in my past relationships.
11:46I do want to be with her.
11:47But it's like she can't keep accusing me of doing stuff that I'm not doing.
11:54Especially if I go to work and I come home and I sit in the house all day.
11:58I sit in the house all day long with her and her kids.
12:01He just sitting here lying like...
12:03Ain't nobody lying, man.
12:04You go out...
12:05I come home.
12:06I can't even come in the house and kick my shoes off,
12:09sit down and light a cigarette before you asking eight million questions.
12:13Babe, can you do this?
12:14Babe, can you do that?
12:15Babe, can you go over here for me?
12:17No, I can't.
12:18I just got off work.
12:19I'm tired.
12:20And how do you think I feel?
12:21You had me run errands all day.
12:22Run errands all day?
12:23How I had you run errands all day?
12:25If I go to work at 9 o'clock...
12:26If I go to work at 9 o'clock and I get home at midday,
12:31how do I have you run errands all day?
12:33How do I do that?
12:34Are you going to stay with her?
12:35I mean, if she tighten up, I'll stay.
12:38But if not, I'm going.
12:39Let's see how that works out.
12:41You want to take him back?
12:43I got to think about it, Jerry.
12:45We'll be back.