Amaya Espinal on Reality Romance, Exes, and Standing Ten Toes Down | Solicited Advice | Marie Claire - video Dailymotion

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Amaya “Papaya” Espinal shares her solicited advice with Marie Claire — from finding love on a reality show to dealing with people who say you’re a little too extra. We’re taking notes

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00:00I have all my 10 toes, okay? Not one missing, and neither do you guys. Even if you do have

00:05less toes missing, how many toes you got, baby? Just be standing on your feet, period.

00:09Hi, I'm Marie Claire. It's Amaya Papaya, and we are here with solicited advice.

00:16Okay, let's see. First question. What's a go-to clapback I can use when someone tries to come

00:22for me? I have a lot. If I'm not your cup of tea, don't drink it. And if I'm too much for you,

00:29find something that's less. I'm taking a trip to New York City. What's your advice for having the

00:36best day there, according to a logo? Ooh, yeah, yeah, I already know. Just explore the whole city.

00:41There's always something to do here. It's a city that never escapes. It's literally a concrete

00:46jungle. There's so much diversity here, so many different types of culture. So just really indulge

00:52in your whole day, and you know, you can always go to TikTok and find a good restaurant. Amaya,

00:58how do I know if my crush really likes me? You would know if your crush really likes you

01:04if he puts an effort into pursuing you and getting to know you. He plans dates. He talks

01:10to you nice, and he also tries to understand you. I feel like in a relationship, it's all

01:15about understanding each other and just meeting each other at a middle ground. If he's not meeting

01:20you in the middle ground, baby, this is not an earthquake. So let him fall through his cracks,

01:24okay? Amaya, I've never been in a serious relationship. Should I apply to a reality dating

01:34show? I feel like you should do anything that you naturally want to do. So if you feel like

01:41you want to go on a dating show and you're in the right mental place and have the confidence

01:46and you know that you don't need validation from anybody, then that's your perfect opportunity

01:52to go on a dating show. Because it's not guaranteed that you will find someone, but regardless,

01:59you'll leave for your heart in full whether you leave with someone or not. That's the real tea.

02:04What's your advice for keeping your Dominican blowout intact all week? Baby, that doobie. You sleep

02:15with your hair scarf on in the nighttime and you wake up silky, all fresh. But yeah, that's the real

02:22advice right there. So if you guys don't know about Dominican doobies, now you know. Next question.

02:27What's your spiciest advice for heating things up in the room? I have a lot, okay? Whenever I'm in

02:35the bedroom, you need to make sure the AC is on because that's how much we spice things up there,

02:41okay? My spiciest advice is to just really be sexy. Like be open to exploring any like options that

02:49make you feel comfortable and also a little sweet talk in the air, okay? That's okay. That candy brush

02:56is okay. Brian can let you know what I be telling him. What's your advice for dealing with someone

03:02who thinks I'm too extra? Oh my God. Okay. Well, as you guys know, I'm a little extra myself. So this

03:09is a perfect question for me. If someone thinks you're too much, go find lesbate. We're not in math.

03:14I'm not going to be subtracting anything about myself. Be you to the fullest. There's nothing wrong

03:19with being too extra. The more extra you are, the more pluses you get. When is it time to put

03:26an ex on the permanent block list? Once you're my ex, you're exed out my life. Like that's just

03:31my policy for real. There's no need to be friends. It's okay to be casual and cordial with them

03:36and mature civilians. But if you were once my romantic partner and we never even had that

03:42platonic friendship to begin with, why do I need to have you in my life? Amaya, I wish I had your

03:48compliments. Oh, yours are too cute. What's your advice on standing 10 toes down? Just always being true

03:54to yourself and never bend in your boundaries. You know, just be very linear with it and just

04:01know what you stand for. Because last time at Shack, I have all my 10 toes, okay? Not one

04:06missing. And even if you do have less toes missing, how many toes you got, baby? Just be standing

04:11on your feet, period. Amaya, I need your advice for creating the perfect breakup voice memo.

04:17Can you help me? Let me think. Can you help me? Of course I can.

04:23The perfect breakup voice memo is I'm done and just block that. Once you get to that point

04:28of a breakup that you truly know that you're, you're just done and you don't have to provide

04:34any explanation like going further. What's your advice for navigating the world as a sensitive

04:41gangster? Being true to your emotions. It's okay to show emotions. We're human and we all

04:47have the right to feel the way that we do, but also knowing what to stand your ground when

04:51needed to be and speaking up for yourself. Because if you don't advocate for yourself,

04:56then no one will. You have to always have your own back. The gang is growing. So if you

05:00assist the gangster too, what's up? Hello. Welcome to the gang. For more of my solicited advice,

05:07make sure you're going to tune in for the Love, Ida, and U.S. Aben Union, premiering and

05:12streaming on Peacock, August 25th.

05:15That was a horrible show. Should I do that again?

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