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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03Chloe has given up everything.
00:05And I'm just worried that you haven't really changed.
00:10I've learned my lesson and now I really want to take this seriously.
00:14You know, she's young and she's like, I'm in love, I want to get married.
00:17And I'm like, oh God.
00:19I don't want to let her, nor her mom, nor you down.
00:30I grew up with anxiety around money all the freaking time.
00:38Mama, the stress that you put me with the blue card in the magazines.
00:43Oh, the card, she refused.
00:45Imagine the stress.
00:48But Tia, her lifestyle has been fast money, fast living.
00:53How is she going to be happy here?
00:55If I were to go home for like six months and dance.
01:00I wouldn't be okay with that.
01:01You only just got here.
01:03You're just like running off to dancing already.
01:05I wanted to commit to us being together, but you didn't want to commit.
01:10Have you started learning your signature yet?
01:13To sign those checks?
01:14Almost.
01:15Almost, almost.
01:16I married the same kind of person and it's not easy.
01:22You're going to be marrying my son, but the two weeks that he's been here, it's a joke.
01:28Is this really what you want?
01:30You're going to be the only thing that we're looking for.
01:35If you don't control it, then what do you say?
01:38Rule?
01:38Rule is not.
01:38It's a control.
01:39I don't know.
01:40Nothing is wrong.
01:41You don't even want to be the only one.
01:43I'm going to be the only one.
01:43I'm going to be the only one.
01:44I'm going to be the only one.
01:44This is how it's always going to be with her.
01:48Screw that.
01:50You're not going to be American.
01:51I'm not going to be American.
01:52I'm going to be the only one.
01:53Why am I going to be American?
01:53Don't be American at the same time.
01:54Someone needs to put her in her place.
02:19Oh, my gosh, we have too much, Anthony.
02:21Are you? What are you?
02:23You're not even going through stuff like you said you were?
02:25Oh, my Lord.
02:26Oh, it was all folded.
02:28No, it was not folded.
02:30I just can't wait to be at our own place.
02:32Yeah, me too. I cannot wait.
02:33That's all.
02:34It feels good to live.
02:36After leaving for a few months in this shoebox
02:39in my parents' house,
02:41we finally found the perfect house.
02:44It's two hours away.
02:46It's definitely the countryside,
02:48but it's such a huge space,
02:50and there's a lot of potential.
02:52Look, we have to move today,
02:54and nothing's ready.
02:55I'd say you just throw it all in a plastic bag
02:57and call it a day.
02:58You want to put my clothes in garbage bags?
03:01Clean garbage bags.
03:02I'm very grateful to be able to buy a house,
03:05but now that we invested our entire savings
03:08into that house,
03:09this move feels permanent,
03:12and it's freaking me out.
03:14I'm stressed.
03:16I'm taking my antidepressant again
03:18because I'm going freaking cuckoo here.
03:20I have a lot of things to think about,
03:23but I'm excited to live.
03:25I'm not going to lie.
03:26I'm excited to live.
03:27I'm happy you find a job.
03:29It's going to be good for you.
03:32Against all the odds
03:34and Manon saying it was impossible,
03:37I got a job in France,
03:39working with kids from the UK at a camp.
03:42I'm just going to be doing stuff in nature,
03:44like leading activities
03:46and canoeing down the Yardash River.
03:48I'm really excited
03:50because I think I'm going to love the job,
03:52and it requires me to speak English.
03:54So, even better.
03:57Also, what's making it, like, more stressful,
04:01it's the money thing, right?
04:03Like, there's nothing on our bank accounts
04:06anymore in the US.
04:07It's over with.
04:08We're packing to go.
04:09Yeah, but we lost everything.
04:10That's also very overwhelming and stressful for me
04:12because how I'm going to buy a bigger mattress?
04:15Like, my mom is giving me this one, thank God.
04:17How are we going to buy the fridge and everything?
04:18Put everything on credit cards, credit cards.
04:20It's a lot of debt, you know?
04:22I have a job.
04:24You get to stay home and cultivate
04:26that relationship you wanted with Ben.
04:28Since being here, that's already improved.
04:31Like, how do you not see all of this coming together?
04:34The thing is, like, we bought our house, like, pretty fast.
04:38It was such a great price,
04:40and the loans were so hard to get,
04:42so we could not pass on this opportunity.
04:44I know I said it's what I want,
04:46and I was thinking this day will have never come,
04:49but I've been, like, so worried about money
04:54since we gave everything into the house.
04:56I'm in debt, no savings.
05:00It's a whole different game now.
05:04It's just scary to me, Anthony,
05:06because I'm not going to have a car.
05:08I'm not going to be making money.
05:09Honey, you're not going to have a car for, like, one month.
05:13I feel I'm going to be, like, stuck in the house.
05:17I feel I'm going to become someone
05:19that I've never was before and never wanted to be.
05:22That's just not me.
05:23I'm going against my own nature, I feel.
05:26Okay, but you've expressed how you wanted me
05:28to make all the money so that you could do that before.
05:31You know, honestly, living here,
05:35Ben has gotten way closer.
05:37He comes up for kisses, for hugs.
05:40Like, he'll come to you instead of coming to me sometimes.
05:43Yeah, I know, I know.
05:46I love how positive you are.
05:48That's why I love the way you are,
05:50but you cannot also, like, deny completely
05:52that what I'm seeing is real too.
05:57I'm freaking out a little bit,
05:58but right now I have no other option
06:00than just let it happen and let's try.
06:03But Anthony has to remember,
06:05I would have never seen myself moved in the countryside
06:07ever in my whole life,
06:09and it's going to be a huge adjustment for me.
06:11I need a moment to feel.
06:13You know, like, heal, process.
06:17It's just how I am, you know?
06:19I need to be in my feelings for a moment.
06:22We're going to make it work.
06:23Add it.
06:24Let's get it done.
06:28What the heck?
06:34Hey, Chloe.
06:35Can you come help me out?
06:36You ready for this?
06:41Start from the top, go to the bottom.
06:43Like that? See?
06:48You know, you got to wash your car every week here in Aruba
06:49because it's so salty and Chloe is like,
07:01I'll just take my car to the car wash.
07:03Hey, that's 30 bucks you could save.
07:05That's money, you know?
07:06That's like, for the day, you're a fool,
07:08you know what I mean?
07:09Enough!
07:10Enough!
07:11Am I supposed to watch the lights this way?
07:13Better already.
07:15What do you have something to say?
07:16Stop!
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07:44Hey, I had a conversation with my mom today about our paper situation.
07:46OK.
07:47You know, she's just upset that we still haven't made any...
07:51Decisions yet.
07:53Decisions is a better word.
07:54Like, we've made progress in the sense that we went to the appointment
07:57and got the information that we needed, but now I think she's like,
07:59OK...
08:00Now what?
08:01Why have you not just done it already?
08:02You know what I mean?
08:03She's like, what are you...
08:04...waiting for?
08:05It's like, if, you know, this is what we want and I'm saying, like, I'm ready, it's like, I don't know what, I don't know what we're waiting for.
08:19I feel like the first step is your partnership papers.
08:23So that's your decision then?
08:27Chloe, we can also get married, but we have to talk seriously about that.
08:30Well, this is a conversation I'm trying to have.
08:33Like, if we have to have a sit down and be like, okay, like, neither of us are ready, which, I mean, I said I was.
08:38It's easy to say you're ready.
08:40You're ready.
08:40If what?
08:40Because I'm not helping you around more.
08:43I mean, you don't help me out.
08:44Like, small things, they wash the dishes, you know, but like, if you're not going to do anything for me now, what makes me think that you're going to do something for me in the future?
08:52You want to together, collectively, help me, I will help you around the house, fine, but that should not decide whether you're ready to get married or not.
09:00That's like, it's such a minuscule problem.
09:03I'm not asking you to do all of them, I'm just saying you to help me.
09:05Look, I washed the dishes, I washed up.
09:08No, it's not just going to be you.
09:09I do it, I do, but I do it.
09:11I just got here.
09:12Yeah, I know, that's what I'm saying.
09:13That's all I need you to show.
09:16That's it.
09:17Okay, but that's the thing.
09:18If you're not ready to do it now, then that doesn't help me because I'm already putting myself in bad standing by sitting here having this conversation and not doing action and going to fix it.
09:26So that's your main issue then?
09:28Of course, because I'm going to be with you every single day and you're not willing to help me with certain things.
09:33It's going to, of course, it's going to affect me.
09:34But no one said I wasn't willing.
09:35Ever since we met with the lawyer, Jonathan's been taking these little digs at me about how I should act in marriage.
09:48And cooking and cleaning is not usually in my agenda at home.
09:51Not because I don't know how to do it, because I do and I will, but it's definitely not at the top of my list to do.
09:59And it's like, all of a sudden, I feel like he's being very nitpicky and he wants me to start, like, folding towels and cooking and cleaning and doing all those things that weren't ever mentioned prior.
10:11So, um, I'm having a tough time understanding where he's coming with all that.
10:16I don't know.
10:18I feel that I obviously have given up a lot.
10:22And I think that does, like, show my commitment to you.
10:27My friends, they're like, you know, I just don't want to see you get hurt.
10:30Like, I think they see how much I care.
10:32They see how much effort I've put in.
10:34Maria flat out asked me, like, all the struggles Jonathan and you have, like, overcome, do you think that you trust him now?
10:41And I'm like, yeah, I do.
10:43Like, I try to stay positive about it because I actually do believe in you.
10:48And that is something a lot bigger than cooking and cleaning in my eyes.
10:53Okay, I agree with that.
10:55I just want to see how good we are compatible together.
10:58We have to do this together.
10:59But do you understand?
11:00I understand we have to do it together.
11:02Fine.
11:03Like, you just have a different view on it.
11:05I'm sitting here saying I'm giving up so much I'm willing to do these things that, yeah, I'm not thrilled to do.
11:09I don't want to do them.
11:10I don't, but I would to do them for you, especially just I gave everything up.
11:14I did it all so I could come here and we could be together.
11:17And now you're like, yeah, well, you're not cooking and cleaning for me, so I'm questioning things.
11:23Yeah, but you can't be like, yeah, you owe me everything because I left everything at home.
11:27And now I have to be on my knees and give you everything.
11:29No one's owing.
11:30No, but you're saying in that way.
11:32No.
11:32You want me to just marry you and all that, and I know you for a year.
11:35It's not that simple.
11:37Like, I'm going to have to give my life commitment.
11:38I marry you, it's a life commitment.
11:41And if I can't see that you can't help me with certain things and you give me ads about certain things, it does make me question it.
11:48The bigger picture is because I'm not currently in your kitchen does not mean I'm not ready.
11:53You can say you give me a trial period, if I'm like an app you're trying out, if that's what you want me to do.
11:59But I'm not going to do these traditional things just so we can sit here and play house.
12:02Like, that's not what I'm interested in doing.
12:04I've made it very clear to Jonathan that I'm ready to get married, but it seems like he's changing the scenario and flipping it on me almost as if he's the one that's not ready to get married.
12:16I wish he could just rip his ego off and be honest about what he's actually feeling because, I mean, the clock's ticking at this point.
12:25I'm not used to this, you know, the arguments and the fighting.
12:35Earlier today, the situation was really bad.
12:38Somehow we have to make the cafe run.
12:40I can't have a boss.
12:42I'm not going to just follow mom's orders.
12:45I got to figure out a way to get us out of there.
12:47You spoke to me today about you wanting to be on the deed on the property.
12:53I need to make sure I have something for my children.
12:56You're silly.
12:57You're silly thinking that.
12:59I can't believe how he can to say that.
13:02He don't make me feel insecure about getting married to look.
13:08No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.
13:17We work so hard and when we get a day off, we want to have a good family time.
13:38What happened today?
13:39I think it was already, it was there somewhere in the mind, but it just got vented out today.
13:47Maybe because she had us all together in one place.
13:50Yes, possibly.
13:50So it just came out.
13:53Earlier today, the situation was really bad.
13:56I was trying to stand up for Jenny and I told my mom that she needed to stop controlling everyone, but mom got mad.
14:04For me, this is very hard because this is my first time living with your parents.
14:11I'm not used to this, you know, the arguments and the fighting.
14:16It's a difficult situation.
14:19I want to live with my family forever.
14:22I try to do everything right.
14:24I'm trying to run a business.
14:26I'm trying to bring the entire family together.
14:28And, like, we have to figure it out, how we can keep mother calm.
14:33Because she's an important member, like, she's the head of the family.
14:36And if she's upset and mad, this is our responsibility to just fix it.
14:40I think nobody should change anyone, but sometimes the situation comes when others need to adjust because of one motive.
14:48And here we have a motive, a family cafe.
14:51Yeah.
14:51And if we start having, like, disagreements, then how we will be able to run the cafe work together in order to make our cafe proper working, we have to, like, adjust with mother.
15:06Yeah.
15:06Yeah.
15:07I don't know.
15:08I'm too old for this.
15:09I have to say I can't have a boss.
15:13I do understand.
15:15But the thing is, if you don't like to follow much, but maybe you have to, because Indirectly is connecting with family plus family cafe.
15:27And somehow we have to make the cafe run.
15:30And there's no alternative.
15:32What the hell is going on here?
15:35I'm ready to get out of this craziness.
15:38I mean, it's only been a couple of weeks and mom's already exploding.
15:43And now they're all just agreeing that we need to let our bosses around for the sake of the cafe.
15:50Like, what?
15:52I just suggest to you that if things impact you, like, impact you in a way that it makes you mad, then try to, like, avoid that situation.
16:03We'll try to keep up the peace as much as possible.
16:05Listen from one ear and take it out from the other ear.
16:08I want the cafe to be successful because we need the income, but I'm not going to just follow mom's orders.
16:17That's not what I signed up for.
16:20Smith has a fantasy of living with his parents forever, but I got to figure out a way to get us out of there.
16:27I really hope that the things will be settled down with us.
16:32Absolutely.
16:33All sacrifices are for a family cafe.
16:35You're going to be marrying my son.
16:51The two weeks that he's been here, it's f***ing hard.
16:54I love it to spend the rest of my life with him, and I think I make a choice to really love him.
17:16Nobody was, but, you know, like, the relationship, we don't are perfect, and I get a little bit scarce.
17:26What happened two weeks ago with the stripper, the trust I have in him, he's lasted a little bit.
17:33I don't, I'll be honest, really.
17:35He's committing to marry you tomorrow.
17:37Yeah, I love it that.
17:39You should have no doubts in your mind.
17:41Yeah.
17:42He has cheated, but when he was younger.
17:49One thing I can promise you, he hasn't even thought about cheating.
17:53When he takes after me like that, I was like that.
17:56But when I found the right one, that was the end.
17:59I've never cheated on my wife, ever.
18:04You just told me he cheated before.
18:07Oh, you're asking me for a trust.
18:09Because, like, you don't make the same case.
18:12Really, this made Mimi so worried.
18:15One people do it something like that one time, he continues to do it forever.
18:19Hijo de tigre sale pintado.
18:23We are in a decent relationship.
18:26So the trust is so difficult to get, but so easy to last.
18:30You're never going to have to know exactly what is the other.
18:32That's where your lack of trust is eating at you.
18:35Exactly.
18:35Well, I can assure you, he loves you like he's never loved anything in his life.
18:40And there's no one else, and there will never be anyone else.
18:44Do you think you can learn to trust him?
18:49Um, they think it's a process.
18:53You can't ever say that to him anymore.
18:55It's off.
18:57Okay.
18:57That's got to end.
18:59Yeah.
18:59That's bullsh**.
19:00That's got to end.
19:01You're going to be one item tomorrow.
19:07Her jealousy is a terrible thing, because it makes you distrust people,
19:12even when there's no reason to distrust them.
19:16And in the end, it can tear a relationship apart.
19:21You know he's made some bad decisions.
19:23The best decision he's made is wanting to marry you.
19:30And the property, I think that's a good decision.
19:33There's one thing on that subject.
19:37He spoke to me today when we were viewing the property,
19:40about you wanting to be on the deed on the property.
19:43Legally, and I'm not doing this, I'm not trying to do this to cut you out,
19:47or I'm just telling you, you're not married yet.
19:50So legally, it's his.
19:52None of it is yours.
19:52But he's given everything he has to you already.
19:57I know that.
19:58So don't, just don't put the pressure on him.
20:01He's under enough pressure.
20:03I got you.
20:04What do you say to that?
20:05But, like, my point or my perspective about is,
20:10I always respect him and what is coming from him.
20:13But if we plan to have children, it's me, like, who want to protection our future too.
20:18Because I don't know, for example, one day, maybe he don't love me anymore.
20:23Oh, something happened and we don't be together.
20:26Like, I need to make sure I have something for my children.
20:29Believe me, I understand that.
20:31But you're silly.
20:32You're silly thinking that.
20:35You're forgetting he's given up us.
20:37This is family.
20:38Yeah.
20:39A very good future in his business in America.
20:43He's prepared to give all that up for you.
20:45So all I'm trying to say is don't doubt his loyalty.
20:50He's got more to lose than you have.
20:53Yeah.
20:54And I don't mean that disrespectfully.
20:55Yeah, I know.
20:56He's worried about losing you.
20:59And if he does, he's lost everything.
21:04No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.
21:10For you.
21:12And I don't agree with that.
21:16This is not far at all.
21:18He don't realise.
21:20I give and give and give so much to him, son.
21:24And he's never going to have to find out in other people.
21:28I can't believe how he can't say that to me the night before our wedding.
21:34Right now, he don't make me feel insecure about getting married to look tomorrow.
21:41Be more open-minded.
21:43Don't just look at your situation.
21:46Look at his situation as well.
21:48Yeah.
21:49Remember that, Mrs. Berry?
21:51Yeah.
21:54Oh, away we go.
21:58Patia said she wants to go back to the U.S. and go back to dancing.
22:02Could we get closer?
22:03Go right to her, love.
22:04It's eating out of my hands.
22:06But I want this to work.
22:09When something's meant to be, it always finds a way.
22:12I don't want to be around him.
22:15Like, I don't want to see him.
22:17I don't think I've ever experienced this much hurt from someone ever in my life.
22:25I put my whole life on pause to be here with him.
22:28And he ruined it.
22:29Oh, my love will lead you like a map down every road.
22:40Oh, my love flows wherever you go.
22:50World's longest single chairlift span.
22:53Yeah.
22:53Are you afraid of all this?
22:55I don't know.
22:55I've never done anything like that.
22:57Okay, we're about to find out then, aren't we?
23:00I've been here for a month now, and things have not changed.
23:04Dylan is still talking to his mom.
23:06My debt has not been paid off.
23:08What the hell am I doing?
23:10I'm just going to come up underneath you and sweep up your legs.
23:13We have a pattern of, like, just sweeping everything under the rag for the past 12 years.
23:18And this is why it's been 12 years.
23:19And I'm still hanging on, hoping.
23:24But I don't know what.
23:25Miracle?
23:27Oh.
23:27Oh, there we go.
23:30Wee!
23:31That's cool, huh?
23:32Today, I'm taking Patia to a very special place called the Cataract Gorge.
23:38It's always been my favorite place to go when I was growing up as a kid.
23:42We are really high up.
23:45Whoa, whoa.
23:47Stop.
23:47Can you feel that?
23:48Yes, I don't like that.
23:49The vibrations?
23:50Yeah.
23:51Stop swinging your feet.
23:52I'm happy.
23:53It says, don't swing.
23:54There's a sign.
23:55No swinging.
23:57The other night, Patia said she wants to get back to the U.S. and go back to dancing.
24:01And honestly, I really want to show her how much I want this to work.
24:07Little mini waterfall right there.
24:09Look, babe.
24:09Hi, the rapids.
24:11Oh, gosh.
24:12So beautiful.
24:14I love this.
24:16So cool.
24:22Oh, look at that view.
24:24Oh, babe.
24:26So romantic.
24:29I'm so excited to see a place that's very special to Dylan.
24:33I mean, it's just so picturesque.
24:35Mountains and rivers.
24:37Oh, my God.
24:39And wallabies.
24:40Oh, I got to see wallabies.
24:42They're so cute.
24:44Want some food?
24:45She's a little cutie, that one.
24:46Yeah.
24:47Come here.
24:49Come here.
24:50Can we get closer?
24:51Go right to her, love.
24:52It's eating out of my hands.
24:57What do you think about that, love?
24:58That's so neat.
25:01It's so cute.
25:02Out, out.
25:04Out.
25:04Hey.
25:05Hey, don't peck him.
25:07They're like pecking him.
25:08They're getting all the flies off him.
25:09Oh, they are?
25:09They're doing him a favor.
25:11Oh.
25:12You ready, babe?
25:12Smile.
25:14Awesome.
25:16They're so cute.
25:19I love that tree.
25:21That's a sequoia.
25:22They can live 3,000 years.
25:25Wow.
25:26How old do you think these rocks are?
25:27I have no idea, love.
25:30Well, you're from here.
25:35No.
25:37Right.
25:41When two souls are destined to be together...
25:45Babe?
25:48They're bound by an invisible thread.
25:50That thread may stretch, it may tangle, but it will never break.
26:01Because when something's meant to be, it always finds a way.
26:07Are you doing what I think you're doing?
26:11This ring symbolizes that thread.
26:16But now that thread is no longer invisible.
26:19Hey.
26:20It's in plain sight for everyone to see.
26:22Oh, my God.
26:23I wish you would have told me I would have dressed better.
26:35Latia.
26:37Will you marry me?
26:41Yes.
26:42It's this hand, sweetie.
26:46Oh, my God, babe.
26:50Oh, babe.
26:50Oh, babe.
26:51Sorry I got lipstick all over you.
26:59It's the kiss.
27:01Oh, my God, I waited for this.
27:10Twelve years.
27:11Come here.
27:11Come here.
27:12Oh, my God.
27:13Oh, my God.
27:14Oh, my God.
27:15Oh, my God.
27:20I'm engaged.
27:21I'm engaged, finally.
27:23I'm so happy.
27:26I'm never taking this ring off.
27:29Oh, my gosh.
27:30It's so beautiful.
27:33Oh, my goodness, babe.
27:35I'm just happy.
27:36I'm just happy this day has finally come.
27:40And my dreams finally came true in Tasmania.
27:43Latia.
27:46Am I dreaming?
27:47This is so romantic.
27:52You are full of surprises.
27:55I'm just so relieved.
27:58Even though things aren't perfect, she's made a massive step moving here to Australia.
28:04So I just feel like if I can give Patia a solid commitment, all the resentment and the agitation that she has will fade away.
28:13She'll feel more confident in our relationship and things will work a lot better.
28:19Ready to stay here with me in Australia.
28:23Yes, essentially, your fiancé.
28:26Bye.
28:37Waving us off.
28:38Bye.
28:39Today's the day.
28:40We are finally moving to our home sweet home.
28:44Oh, my gosh.
28:45You just stalled again.
28:47Oh, my.
28:48We're on a hill.
28:50Awkward.
28:56Faut attention les marchands.
28:58Ah, la jeunesse, c'est beau.
29:00Les hommes forts.
29:02Petit bisou, petit baiser.
29:05Si tu savais comme tu me plais, que j'aime t'en rater.
29:10Bon, mais ça y est, c'est le dernier jour, hein?
29:12Ben oui, hein.
29:13Et Ben, il part avec vous?
29:16Non, on aurait bien gardé Ben.
29:17Ah ouais, ça c'est le seul truc que tu aurais bien gardé, ouais.
29:19Désolé, mais non.
29:22Ah, ça va, vous êtes pas loué.
29:24Today's the day.
29:25We are finally moving to our home sweet home.
29:27It's in the assail of France, but at least it's two hours away from my parents, so it's a silver lining.
29:32Bon, mais merci beaucoup, super.
29:34On se rejoint à la maison.
29:35I won't feel I'm 16 again, no more, and no sleeping in the tiny, tiny bed in their house.
29:40Thank God.
29:42Benny.
29:42Bon, bon, merci, hein?
29:45A big tour, très big tour.
29:47Ah, à bientôt, ouais.
29:48Ok, on y va.
29:49Bye, bye, bye.
29:50Bye, merci.
29:52You're waving us off.
29:54Bye.
29:55Ok, merci pour tout.
29:57C'était très bien petit.
30:00Oh my gosh, you just stalled again.
30:03Oh my f***.
30:04We're on a hill.
30:08Awkward.
30:10Ok, bye.
30:11Woo-hoo.
30:14Woo-hoo.
30:18Ah, finally, finally.
30:21I'm glad that we are leaving, but also, I remember where I'm going, and I'm like, oh, but is it for something better, though?
30:28Because over there, it's tiny as f***.
30:30There's no food deliveries, no taxi, nothing modern and stuff.
30:35I don't know anyone there, so it's giving me anxiety.
30:38I'm just super happy that I'll go in there.
30:41Oh, I know you are.
30:43It's not the American dream anymore.
30:45You're living your French dream now.
30:48Our house.
30:49The little village with Saint-Victor de Malcap, or so you know what it means, right?
30:52No.
30:53Saint-Victor, it's a name.
30:54Malcap means a bad summit, or a bad hill, or a bad, very hard to get to.
31:01Yeah, in the assholes of France.
31:06Maybe these assholes of France that you talk about are really just, like, the hidden gems of France, you know?
31:12I'm just scared, because it's very limited over there, and there's really not a lot around, you know?
31:17Like, in the village, everybody knows everybody.
31:19It's the same people.
31:21I just never imagined myself living in this type of tiny village, ever.
31:27Yeah, well, you also never imagined yourself with a kid, and you never imagined yourself with a dweeb like me.
31:33So, there you go.
31:33Yeah, life is full of surprises.
31:36You're going to be shirtless when you're going to unpack that truck?
31:46You know how much I think you're sexy when you're, like, sweating?
31:50Can you be shirtless?
31:52Sure.
31:52I love when you're, like, like, you're, like, sweating and, you know, kind of, like, walking out.
31:57It's so cute.
31:59Ooh, I love when your body's shiny.
32:02From all that sweat.
32:03Ooh.
32:05Ooh.
32:06I feel like our life is really starting here.
32:10We've kind of just been, like, just waiting and waiting and waiting for six months, and now it really begins.
32:17Saint-Victor de Malkap.
32:19Here we go.
32:19There it is.
32:21Ah, there it is.
32:22Our house.
32:24Ugh.
32:24On the corner.
32:26Our house.
32:27Our house.
32:27Oh.
32:30You're home, Benjamin.
32:32Fully in for the first time.
32:36Hey, first time.
32:38First time getters.
32:41It's really nice going to our new house, and it's nice that things are really starting to go our way, but I just hope that her buyer's remorse fades away.
32:49Here we go.
32:50Because, historically, in our relationship, if Manon's not happy, nobody's happy.
32:56Come on into your house, bud.
32:57Here you come, Ben.
32:59Yeah.
32:59Here we go.
33:00Yeah.
33:01Yeah.
33:02Yeah.
33:03Yeah.
33:04Woo-hoo.
33:05Woo-hoo.
33:06This feels awesome.
33:07We're home.
33:08Look at that view.
33:11It is a beautiful view.
33:12It is a beautiful view.
33:13Love it.
33:14Finally, we're here in our home sweet home.
33:16Yeah, it is cute.
33:17I like it.
33:18When we visited the house, Anthony just fell in love with it.
33:20I could see Anthony's eyes like sparkling.
33:21He was like, wow, that's such a beautiful one, it's huge, it's big, the land is like huge, I can have goats in there.
33:25I was like, stop it, you're going too far, but anyway.
33:27What a joke.
33:28Someone's having fun in their new house.
33:29We signed a paper on the spot.
33:30You should have seen Anthony's eyes when you saw Tony's eyes.
33:31Yeah, it is cute.
33:32I like it.
33:33I like it.
33:35When we visited the house, Anthony just fell in love with it.
33:36I could see Anthony's eyes, like sparkling.
33:37I could see Anthony's eyes, like sparkling.
33:38He was like, wow, that's such a beautiful one.
33:39It's huge.
33:40It's huge.
33:41It's big.
33:42The land is like, huge.
33:43I can have goats in there.
33:44in their new house we signed the paper on the spot you should have seen in Tony's eyes when
33:51he was inside that house I love the house that's true I do love the house it's very nice yeah yeah
33:58mommy's right yeah I'm gonna make it work and I'm gonna make it mine but better even better
34:03Jonathan got a new phone and he left his old phone on his nightstand I mean the first thing I found
34:18was a message he said to a girl saying that he missed her
34:22I was doing fine caught up in the bliss of my ignorance moving through life
34:31without a worry I was killing it
34:35oh now the key's stuck okay
34:41that's a small drawer that's okay we're gonna work with what we have right now because we're in
35:01shambles last night I stayed with my friend and today I'm checking into my rental until I can
35:08figure out my way home Jonathan got a new phone because I guess his wasn't working and he left
35:18his old phone on his nightstand and I woke up and he had left to go to his friend's house and he's
35:25gonna come back he said in like an hour or two so me having the trust issues that I already do
35:31respectively went through it I mean the first thing I found was a message he sent to a girl
35:41saying that he missed her and then I kept digging and it was like three or four just emojis to other
35:49girls swiping up on the stories stuff like that then I started seeing really weird messages from this one
35:57girl on social media the girl had actually been messaging me for months saying that I was so
36:02pretty like you know how do you know Johnny and I did my investigating and he had actually been messaging
36:09that girl while we were filming interviews literally when I'm to this much distance away from him asking her to send nudes
36:24asking you know that he missed her that he missed having sex with her and I was right there and I had
36:31asked him about her thousands of times and then the more I kept digging I found a whole sexual interaction
36:40with a different girl in May which of course is long ago but I had asked him about that girl multiple
36:48times and he had lied and said he never had been with her and there's a whole video and then to make
36:53it worse when I caught him and I took photos of the phone and sent them to him and left his house and
37:00was like I am done with you I'm absolutely disgusted then the only thing he said was you went behind my phone
37:09behind my back how was that your first response when I picked up my whole entire life to to be here
37:19so it's terrible like it's so sad I don't want to be around him like I don't want to see him
37:28and now I'm I can't even like I can't even look at this place I don't want to see that boat again like I don't want to see
37:37anything to do with him I don't want to see it online I don't want to see him at all I can't even like I have loved this
37:45island and like he has made me hate it because I put my whole life on pause to be here with him and he ruined it
37:55I guess you live and you learn I hope because I'm never I'm not doing this again
38:02I don't think I've ever experienced this much hurt from someone ever in my life
38:11I mean it's crazy to think that a few days ago we were talking about getting married
38:19and truly this is probably the last thing that I thought I like that would happen I never thought
38:25I would be in this state
38:27so what's been going on with him has he said anything has he reached out to you at all
38:33he has not once asked if I had a place to stay if I was okay if I needed anything
38:41nothing he had texted me and said come get your now I said I don't want to be alone near you
38:51like I don't want to look at you he goes okay I'm gonna throw it out
38:54it's so it's like mean it's so mean it's like are you that heartless like you're supposed to be in
39:03love with this girl like it just doesn't make sense it just sounds like typical Johnny though
39:08like we wanted him to change we wanted him to be someone he wasn't but it's so on brand for him
39:13when I look at how much I gave up I mean I left my family I left my friends I left my job
39:23I gave up so much and I didn't listen to so many people and the only thing I was really asking for
39:31was to be loyal and to see that I couldn't get that it's more than devastating it's like an
39:38unimaginable stab in the back to see how he actually didn't love me because you don't do that
39:46to people you love
39:48none of this is your fault you couldn't have done anything else for this man
39:55next time on 90 day fiance the other way
40:02smith and I are gonna move back to our apartment where we were happy
40:07you are not going to leave you have to live with us
40:14we are depending on them right now we cannot move out of there
40:18I already told your parents we're moving out if you don't want to go with me I guess I'll have to
40:23move out by myself I I don't know what to emotionally prepare for I am open to have
40:30a conversation with him it's been three days since Greta left for a hotel
40:36today is my first day of work it's very tiny yeah this is a new house in a new village I don't know
40:53anybody around I don't have a car
40:56there's nothing here man
41:00I have anxiety right now
41:04I'm headed to Jonathan's house to get all my stuff it's just over
41:14I did something really stupid being a guy I did ask a woman for her news I'm very sorry for it and
41:20it's up to her if she wants to forgive me or not
41:23you
41:29you
41:31you
41:33you
41:35you
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