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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03Chloe has given up everything.
00:05And I'm just worried that you haven't really changed.
00:10I've learned my lesson and now I really want to take this seriously.
00:14You know, she's young and she's like, I'm in love, I want to get married.
00:17And I'm like, oh God.
00:19I don't want to let her, nor her mom, nor you down.
00:30I grew up with anxiety around money all the freaking time.
00:38Mama, the stress that you put me with the blue card in the magazines.
00:43Oh, the card, she refused.
00:45Imagine the stress.
00:48But Tia, her lifestyle has been fast money, fast living.
00:53How is she going to be happy here?
00:55If I were to go home for like six months and dance.
01:00I wouldn't be okay with that.
01:01You only just got here.
01:03You're just like running off to dancing already.
01:05I wanted to commit to us being together, but you didn't want to commit.
01:10Have you started learning your signature yet?
01:13To sign those checks?
01:14Almost.
01:15Almost, almost.
01:16I married the same kind of person and it's not easy.
01:22You're going to be marrying my son, but the two weeks that he's been here, it's a joke.
01:28Is this really what you want?
01:30This is how it's always going to be with her.
01:48Screw that.
01:49Someone needs to put her in her place.
02:19Oh, my gosh, we have too much, Anthony.
02:22Are you? What are you? You're not even going through stuff like you said you were?
02:25Oh, my Lord.
02:27Oh, it was all folded.
02:29No, it was not folded.
02:30I just can't wait to be at our own place.
02:32Yeah, me too. I cannot watch.
02:33That's all.
02:35It feels good to live.
02:37After living for a few months in this shoebox in my parents' house, we finally found the perfect house.
02:45It's two hours away.
02:46It's definitely the countryside, but it's such a huge space, and there's a lot of potential.
02:53Look, we have to move today, and nothing's ready.
02:56I'd say you just throw it all in a plastic bag and call it a day.
02:59You want to put my clothes in garbage bags?
03:02Clean garbage bags.
03:04I'm very grateful to be able to buy a house, but now that we invested our entire savings into that house,
03:10this move feels permanent, and it's freaking me out.
03:15I'm stressed.
03:18I'm taking my antidepressant again because I'm going freaking cuckoo here.
03:22I have a lot of things to think about, but I'm excited to live.
03:27I'm not going to lie.
03:28I'm excited to live.
03:28I'm happy you find a job.
03:31It's going to be good for you.
03:32Against all the odds and Manon saying it was impossible, I got a job in France, working with kids from the UK at a camp.
03:43I'm just going to be doing stuff in nature, like leading activities and canoeing down the Ardash River.
03:50I'm really excited because I think I'm going to love the job, and it requires me to speak English.
03:56So, even better.
03:57Also, what's making it, like, more stressful, it's the money thing, right?
04:05Like, there's nothing on our bank accounts anymore in the U.S.
04:08It's over with.
04:09We're packing to go.
04:10Yeah, but we lost everything.
04:11That's also very overwhelming and stressful for me because how I'm going to buy a bigger mattress?
04:16Like, my mom is giving me this one, thank God.
04:18How are we going to buy the fridge and everything?
04:19Put everything on credit cards, credit cards.
04:21It's a lot of debt, you know?
04:24I have a job.
04:25You get to stay home and cultivate that relationship you wanted with Ben.
04:29Since being here, that's already improved.
04:32Like, how do you not see all of this coming together?
04:36The thing is, like, we bought our house, like, pretty fast.
04:39It was such a great price, and the loans were so hard to get.
04:43So, we could not pass on this opportunity.
04:46I know I said it's what I want, and I was thinking this day will have never come.
04:50But I've been, like, so worried about money since we gave everything into the house.
04:58I'm in debt, no savings.
05:01It's a whole different game now.
05:05It's just scary to me, Antoni, because I'm not going to have a car.
05:09I'm not going to be making money.
05:10Honey, you're not going to have a car for, like, one month.
05:14I feel I'm going to be, like, stuck in the house.
05:18I feel I'm going to become someone that I've never was before and never wanted to be.
05:23That's just not me.
05:24I'm going against my own nature, I feel.
05:27Okay.
05:27But you've expressed how you wanted me to make all the money so that you could do that before.
05:32You know, honestly, living here, Ben has gotten way closer.
05:38He comes up for kisses, for hugs.
05:41Like, he'll come to you instead of coming to me sometimes.
05:44Yeah, I know, I know.
05:46I love how positive you are.
05:50That's why I love the way you are.
05:51But you cannot also, like, deny completely that what I'm saying is real, too.
05:57I'm freaking out a little bit.
05:59But right now, I have no other option than just let it happen and let's try.
06:04But Antoni has to remember, I would have never seen myself moved in the countryside ever in my whole life.
06:10And it's going to be a huge adjustment for me.
06:11I need a moment to feel.
06:14You know, like, heal, process.
06:18It's just how I am.
06:19You know, I need to be in my feelings for a moment.
06:23We're going to make it work.
06:24Ali, let's get it done.
06:28What the heck?
06:33Hey, Chloe.
06:36You going to come help me out?
06:45You ready for this?
06:47Start from top, go to bottom.
06:52Like that?
06:53See?
06:56You know, you got to wash your car every week here in Aruba because it's so salty.
07:01And Chloe is like, I'll just take my car to the car wash.
07:05Hey, that's 30 bucks you could save.
07:07That's money, you know?
07:07That's like, for today, you're a fool, you know what I mean?
07:10You know what I mean?
07:18Enough!
07:19Enough!
07:21Am I supposed to watch The Life in this place?
07:23I think it looks better already.
07:35What else are you going to say?
07:38Stop.
07:39Stop around.
07:41Hey, I had a conversation with my mom today.
07:43Mm-hmm.
07:44About our paper situation.
07:47Okay.
07:47You know, she's just upset that we still haven't made any...
07:52Decisions yet.
07:54Decisions is a better word.
07:55Like, we've made progress in the sense that we went to the appointment and got the information
07:58that we needed, but now I think she's like, okay...
08:01Now what?
08:01Why have you not just done it already?
08:03You know what I mean?
08:03She's like, what are you...
08:04Yeah, waiting for.
08:06It's like, if, you know, this is what we want, and I'm saying, like, I'm ready, it's like,
08:11I don't know what...
08:13I don't know what we're waiting for.
08:19I feel like the first step is your partnership papers.
08:23So that's your decision, then?
08:27Chloe, we can also get married, but we have to talk seriously about that.
08:30Well, this is a conversation I'm trying to have.
08:33Like, if we have to have a sit-down and be like, okay, like, neither of us are ready,
08:36which, I mean, I said I was...
08:38It's easy to say you're ready.
08:40You're ready, but...
08:40What? Because I'm not helping you around more.
08:43I mean, you don't help me out.
08:44Like, small thing, they wash the dishes, you know, but, like, if you're not going to do
08:47anything for me now, what makes me think that you're going to do something for me in the
08:51future?
08:52You want to together, collectively, help me, I will help you around the house, fine, but
08:57that should not decide whether you're ready to get married or not.
09:00That's, like, it's such a minuscule problem.
09:03I'm not asking you to do all of them, I'm just saying to help me.
09:05Like, I wash the dishes, I wash the...
09:08No, it's not just going to be you.
09:09I do, but I do it...
09:11I just got here.
09:12Yeah, I know, that's what I'm saying.
09:13That's all I need you to show.
09:16That's it.
09:17Okay, but that's the thing.
09:18If you're not ready to do it now, then that doesn't help me because I'm already putting
09:21myself in bad standing by sitting here having this conversation and not doing action and
09:25going to fix it.
09:25So that's your main issue then?
09:28Of course, because I'm going to be with you every single day and you're not willing to
09:32help me with certain things.
09:33It's going to, of course, it's going to affect me.
09:34But no one said I wasn't willing.
09:35Ever since we met with the lawyer, Jonathan's been taking these little digs at me about
09:43how I should act in marriage.
09:46And cooking and cleaning is not usually in my agenda at home, not because I don't know
09:52how to do it, because I do and I will, but it's definitely not at the top of my list to
09:58do.
10:00And it's like, all of a sudden, I feel like he's being very nitpicky and he wants me to
10:04start, like, folding towels and cooking and cleaning and doing all those things that
10:08weren't ever mentioned prior.
10:11So, um, I'm having a tough time understanding where he's coming with all that.
10:18I don't know.
10:18I feel that I obviously have given up a lot.
10:22And I think that does, like, show my commitment to you.
10:27My friends, they're like, you know, I just don't want to see you get hurt.
10:30Like, I think they see how much I care.
10:32They see how much effort I've put in.
10:34Maria flat out asked me, like, all the struggles Jonathan and you have, like, overcome, do you
10:39think that you trust him now?
10:41And I'm like, yeah, I do.
10:44Like, I try to stay positive about it because I actually do believe in you.
10:48And that is something a lot bigger than cooking and cleaning in my eyes.
10:53Okay, I agree with that.
10:55I just want to see how good we are compatible together.
10:58We have to do this together.
10:59But do you understand?
11:00I understand we have to do it together.
11:02Fine.
11:03Like, you just have a different view on it.
11:05I'm sitting here saying I'm giving up so much.
11:07I'm willing to do these things that, yeah, I'm not thrilled to do.
11:09I don't want to do them.
11:11I don't.
11:11But I would to do them for you.
11:13Especially just I gave everything up.
11:14I did it all so I could come here and we could be together.
11:17And now you're like, yeah, well, you're not cooking and cleaning for me.
11:19So I'm questioning things.
11:21Yeah, but you can't be like, yeah, you owe me everything because I left everything at home.
11:27And now I have to be on my knees and give you everything.
11:29No one's owing.
11:30No, but you're saying in that way.
11:32No.
11:32You want me to just marry you and all that.
11:34And I know you for a year.
11:35It's not that simple.
11:37Like, I'm going to have to give my life commitment.
11:38I marry you, it's a life commitment.
11:39And if I can't see that you can't help me with certain things and you give me ads about
11:45certain things, it does make me question it.
11:48The bigger picture is because I'm not currently in your kitchen does not mean I'm not ready.
11:54You can say you give me a trial period as if I'm like an app you're trying out if that's
11:58what you want me to do.
11:59But I'm not going to do these traditional things just so we can sit here and play house.
12:02Like, that's not what I'm interested in doing.
12:05I've made it very clear to Jonathan that I'm ready to get married.
12:08But it seems like he's changing the scenario and flipping it on me almost as if he's the
12:14one that's not ready to get married.
12:16I wish he could just rip his ego off and be honest about what he's actually feeling because,
12:22I mean, the clock's ticking at this point.
12:30I'm not used to this.
12:32You know, the arguments and the fighting.
12:35Earlier today, the situation was really bad.
12:37Somehow we have to make the cafe run.
12:40I can't have a boss.
12:42I'm not going to just follow mom's orders.
12:45I got to figure out a way to get us out of there.
12:49You spoke to me today about you wanting to be on the deed on the property.
12:53I need to make sure I have something for my children.
12:56You're silly.
12:57You're silly thinking that.
12:58I can't believe how he can to say that.
13:02He don't make me feel insecure about getting married to or look.
13:08No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.
13:13We work so hard and when we get a day off, we want to have a good family time.
13:38Maybe because she had us all together in one place.
13:50Yes, possibly.
13:50So it just came out.
13:52For me, this is very hard because this is my first time living with your parents.
14:11I'm not used to this, you know, the arguments and the fighting.
14:16It's a difficult situation.
14:19I want to live with my family forever.
14:22I try to do everything right.
14:24I'm trying to run a business.
14:26I'm trying to bring the entire family together.
14:28And like we have to figure it out, how we can keep mother calm.
14:33Because she's an important member, like she's the head of the family.
14:36And if she's upset and mad, this is our responsibility to just fix it.
14:40I think nobody should change anyone.
14:42But sometimes the situation comes when others need to adjust because of one motive.
14:48And here we have a motive, a family cafe.
14:51Yeah.
14:52And if we start having like disagreements, then how we will be able to run the cafe.
14:59Work together in order to make our cafe proper working, we have to like adjust with mother.
15:06Yeah.
15:07I don't know.
15:08I'm too old for this.
15:09So I have to say, I can't have a boss.
15:13I do understand.
15:15The thing is, if you don't like to follow much, but maybe you have to.
15:20Because Indirectly is connecting with family plus family cafe.
15:26And somehow we have to make the cafe run.
15:30And there's no alternative.
15:31I just suggest to you that if things impact you, like impact you in a way that didn't make you mad, then try it.
15:48Like avoid that situation.
15:49We'll try to keep up the peace as much as possible.
16:05We'll listen from one ear and take it out from the other.
16:08Yeah.
16:08I want the cafe to be successful because we need the income.
16:13But I'm not going to just follow mom's orders.
16:17That's not what I signed up for.
16:19Smith has a fantasy of living with his parents forever, but I got to figure out a way to get us out of there.
16:27I really hope that things will be settled down with us.
16:31Absolutely.
16:32All sacrifices are for family cafe.
16:35You're going to be marrying my son.
16:50The two weeks that he's been here, it's f***ing hard.
16:54I love it to spend the rest of my life with him and I think I make a choice to really love him.
17:16Nobody was bad, but you know like the relationship we don't are perfect and I get a little bit scarce.
17:26What happened two weeks ago with the strippers, the trust I have in him is lasted a little bit.
17:33I don't, I'll be honest really.
17:35He's committing to marry you tomorrow.
17:37Yeah, I love it that.
17:39You should have no doubts in your mind.
17:41Yeah.
17:42He has cheated, but when he was younger.
17:49One thing I can promise you, he hasn't even thought about cheating.
17:53When he takes after me like that, I was like that.
17:55But when I found the right one, that was the end.
17:59I've never cheated on my wife.
18:02Ever.
18:04You just told me he cheated before.
18:07How are you asking me for a trust?
18:09Because like, you don't make the same case.
18:12Really, this made Mimi so worried.
18:14One people do something like that one time, he continues to do it forever.
18:18Hijo de tigre sale pintado.
18:24We are in a distant relationship.
18:26So the trust is so difficult to get, but so easy to last.
18:30You're never going to have to know exactly what is the other.
18:32That's where your lack of trust is eating at you.
18:34Exactly.
18:35Well, I can assure you, he loves you like he's never loved anything in his life.
18:40And there's no one else, and there will never be anyone else.
18:44Do you think you can learn to trust him?
18:49Um, they think it's a process.
18:53You can't ever say that to him anymore.
18:55It's off.
18:56Okay.
18:57That's got to end.
18:58Yeah.
18:59That's bullshit.
19:00That's got to end.
19:01You're going to be one item tomorrow.
19:08Jealousy is a terrible thing, because it makes you distrust people even when there's
19:13no reason to distrust them.
19:16And in the end, it can tear a relationship apart.
19:21You know he's made some bad decisions.
19:25The best decision he's made is wanting to marry you.
19:30And the property, I think that's a good decision.
19:33There's one thing on that subject.
19:37He spoke to me today when we were viewing the property about you wanting to be on the
19:41deed on the property.
19:43Legally, and I'm not doing this, I'm not trying to do this to cut you out, or I'm just
19:48telling you, you're not married yet.
19:50So legally, it's his.
19:52None of it is yours.
19:54He's given everything he has to you already.
19:57I know that.
19:58So don't, just don't put the pressure on him.
20:01He's under enough pressure.
20:03I got you.
20:04What do you say to that?
20:05But, like my point or my perspective about is I always respect him and what is coming
20:12from him.
20:13But if we plan to have children, it's me like who want to protection our future too.
20:18Because I don't know, for example, one day maybe he don't love me anymore.
20:23Or something happened and we don't be together.
20:26Like I need to make sure I have something for my children.
20:29Believe me, I understand that.
20:31But you're silly.
20:32You're silly thinking that.
20:34You're forgetting he's given up us.
20:37This is family.
20:38Yeah.
20:39A very good future in his business in America.
20:43He's prepared to give all that up for you.
20:45So all I'm trying to say is don't doubt his loyalty.
20:49He's got more to lose than you have.
20:52Yeah.
20:53And I don't mean that disrespectfully.
20:55Yeah, I know.
20:56He's worried about losing you.
20:58And if he does, he's lost everything.
21:04No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.
21:10For you.
21:11And I don't agree with that.
21:14This is not far at all.
21:17He don't realize.
21:19I give and give and give so much to him, son.
21:24And he never gonna have to find out in other people.
21:27I can't believe how he can to say that to me the night before our wedding.
21:33Right now, he don't make me feel insecure about getting married to look tomorrow.
21:40Be more open-minded.
21:42Don't just look at your situation.
21:45Look at his situation as well.
21:48Yeah.
21:49Remember that, Mrs. Berry?
21:51Yeah.
21:52Oh, there we go.
21:58Patia said she wants to go back to the U.S. and go back to dancing.
22:02Can we get closer?
22:03Go right to her, love.
22:04It's eating out of my hands.
22:06But I want this to work.
22:08When something's meant to be, it always finds a way.
22:13I don't wanna be around him.
22:15Like, I don't wanna see him.
22:17I don't think I've ever experienced this much hurt from someone ever in my life.
22:25I put my whole life on pause to be here with him.
22:28And he ruined it.
22:32Oh, oh, oh, oh.
22:37My love will eat you like a mac down every road.
22:40Oh, oh, oh, oh.
22:43My love flows where you will go.
22:50World's longest single chairlift span.
22:53Yeah.
22:54Are you afraid of hollets?
22:55I don't know.
22:56I've never done anything like that.
22:57Okay.
22:58We're about to fall in and then, aren't we?
23:00I've been here for a month now, and things have not changed.
23:04Dylan is still talking to his mom.
23:06My debt has not been paid off.
23:08What the hell am I doing?
23:10I'm just going to come up underneath you and sweep up your legs.
23:13We have a pattern of, like, just sweeping everything under the rag for the past 12 years,
23:18and this is why it's been 12 years.
23:20And I'm still hanging on, hoping.
23:23But I don't know what.
23:25Miracle?
23:26Ooh.
23:27Oh, there we go.
23:29Wee!
23:31How cool, huh?
23:33Today, I'm taking Patia to a very special place called the Cataract Gorge.
23:38It's always been my favourite place to go when I was growing up as a kid.
23:42We are really high up.
23:45Whoop, whoop.
23:47Stop.
23:47Can you feel that?
23:48Yes, I don't like that.
23:49The vibrations?
23:50Yeah.
23:51Stop swinging your feet.
23:52I'm happy.
23:53It says, don't swing.
23:54There's a sign.
23:55No swinging.
23:56The other night, Patia said she wants to go back to the U.S. and go back to dancing.
24:01And honestly, I really want to show her how much I want this to work.
24:07A little mini waterfall right there.
24:09Look, babe.
24:09Hi, the rapids.
24:11Oh, gosh.
24:12So beautiful.
24:14I love this.
24:16So cool.
24:17Mm-hmm.
24:22Oh, look at that view.
24:23Oh, babe.
24:26So romantic.
24:29I'm so excited to see a place that's very special to Dylan.
24:33I mean, it's just so picturesque.
24:35Mountains and rivers.
24:37Oh, my God.
24:39And wallabies.
24:40Oh, I got to see wallabies.
24:42They're so cute.
24:44Want some food?
24:45She's a little cutie, that one.
24:46Yeah.
24:47Come here.
24:49Come here.
24:50Can we get closer?
24:51Go right to her, love.
24:52It's eating out of my hands.
24:57What do you think about that, love?
24:58That's so neat.
25:01It's so cute.
25:02Out, out.
25:04Out.
25:04Hey.
25:05Hey, don't peck him.
25:07They're like pecking him.
25:08No, they're getting all the flies off him.
25:09Oh, they are?
25:09They're doing him a favor.
25:11Oh.
25:12You ready, babe?
25:12Smile.
25:14Awesome.
25:16They're so cute.
25:19I love that tree.
25:20That's a sequoia.
25:22They can live 3,000 years.
25:25Wow.
25:26How old do you think these rocks are?
25:28I have no idea, love.
25:30Well, you're from here.
25:35No.
25:37What?
25:37When two souls are destined to be together.
25:46Babe?
25:48They're bound by an invisible thread.
25:52That thread may stretch.
25:54It may tangle.
25:56But it will never break.
25:58Because when something's meant to be, it always finds a way.
26:07Are you doing what I think you're doing?
26:11This ring symbolizes that thread.
26:16But now that thread is no longer invisible.
26:19Hey.
26:20It's in plain sight for everyone to see.
26:22Oh, my God.
26:23I wish you would have told me I would have dressed better.
26:29Oh, babe.
26:35Mathea?
26:37Will you marry me?
26:41Yes.
26:42It's this hand, sweetie.
26:43Oh, my God, babe.
26:50Babe.
26:50Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:51Babe.
26:52Babe.
26:54Oh, my God.
26:55Oh, babe.
26:57Sorry I got lipstick all over you.
27:00It's a kiss.
27:08Oh, my God!
27:09I waited for this.
27:1012 years.
27:11Babe.
27:11Come here.
27:12Oh, my God.
27:14Oh, my God.
27:20I'm engaged.
27:21I'm engaged, finally.
27:25I'm so happy.
27:27I have never taken this ring off.
27:29Oh, my gosh, it's so beautiful.
27:33Oh, my goodness, babe.
27:35I'm just happy.
27:36I'm just happy this day has finally come.
27:40And my dreams finally came true in Tasmania.
27:46Am I dreaming?
27:47This is so romantic.
27:51You are full of surprises.
27:55I'm just so relieved.
27:58Even though things aren't perfect,
28:00she's made a massive step moving here to Australia.
28:03So I just feel like if I can give Patia a solid commitment,
28:08all the resentment and the agitation that she has will fade away.
28:13She'll feel more confident in our relationship
28:15and things will work a lot better.
28:18We're going to stay here with me in Australia.
28:21Yes, essentially, your fiancé.
28:23Yes, essentially, your fiancé.
28:36Waving us off.
28:38Bye.
28:39Today's the day we are finally moving to our home sweet home.
28:42Oh, my gosh, you just stalled again.
28:46Oh, my .
28:47We're on a hill.
28:49Awkward.
28:51I'm going to see the world.
28:52I'm going to see the road.
28:54I'm going to see the race.
28:55Yes, the youth.
28:57It's nice.
28:58It's nice.
28:59The strong women.
29:00Little kisses.
29:01Petit bisou, petit baiser, si tu savais comme tu me plais, que j'aime t'en rater.
29:10Bon, mais ça y est, c'est le dernier jour, hein?
29:12Ben oui, hein.
29:13Et Ben, il part avec vous?
29:16Non, on aurait bien gardé Ben.
29:17Ah ouais, ça c'est le seul truc que tu aurais bien gardé, ouais.
29:21Désolé, mais non.
29:22Ah, ça va, vous êtes pas loués.
29:31Bon, mais merci beaucoup, super, on se rejoint à la maison.
29:35I won't feel I'm 16 again, no more, and no sleeping in the tiny, tiny bed in their house.
29:40Thank God.
29:42Beny.
29:44Bon, bon, merci, hein?
29:45De rien, entre.
29:46A bientôt, très bientôt.
29:47Ah, a bientôt, ouais.
29:48Ok, on y va.
29:49Bye, bye, merci.
29:52You're waving us off.
29:54Bye.
29:55Ok, merci pour tout, c'était très bien.
29:58Oh my gosh, you just stalled again.
30:03Oh my God.
30:05We're on a hill.
30:08Awkward.
30:10Ok, bye.
30:14Woohoo.
30:18Ah, finally, finally.
30:21I'm glad that we are leaving, but also, I remember where I'm going, and I'm like,
30:26oh, but is it for something better, though, because over there, it's tiny as ****.
30:30There's no food deliveries, no taxi, nothing modern and stuff.
30:35I don't know anyone there, so it's giving me anxiety.
30:38I'm just super happy that I'm going there.
30:41Oh, I know you are.
30:43It's not the American dream anymore.
30:45You're living your French dream now.
30:48Our house, the little village with Saint-Victor de Malcap, also, you know what it means, right?
30:52No.
30:52Saint-Victor, it's a name.
30:54Malcap means a bad summit or a bad hill or a bad, very hard to get to.
31:03Yeah, in the assholes of France.
31:06Maybe these assholes of France that you talk about are really just, like, the hidden gems of France, you know?
31:12I'm just scared, because it's very limited over there, and there's really not a lot around, you know?
31:17Like, in the village, everybody knows everybody.
31:19It's the same people.
31:21I just never imagined myself living in this type of tiny village, ever.
31:27Yeah, well, you also never imagined yourself with a kid, and you never imagined yourself with a dweeb like me.
31:33So, there you go.
31:33Yeah, life is full of surprises.
31:43You're going to be shirtless when you're going to unpack that truck?
31:46You know how much I think you're sexy when you're, like, sweating?
31:50Can you be shirtless?
31:52Sure.
31:52I love when you're, like, sweating and, you know, kind of, like, walking out.
31:57It's so cute.
31:59Ooh, I love when your body's shiny.
32:02From all that sweat.
32:03Ooh.
32:05Ooh.
32:08I feel like our life is really starting here.
32:10We've kind of just been, like, just waiting and waiting and waiting for six months, and now it really begins.
32:17Saint-Victor de Malcap.
32:19Here we go.
32:19There it is.
32:21Ah, there it is.
32:22Our house.
32:24Ah, on the corner.
32:26Our house.
32:27Our house.
32:30You're home, Benjamin.
32:32Fully in for the first time.
32:36Oh, my God.
32:37Hey, first time.
32:38First time getters.
32:41It's really nice going to our new house, and it's nice that things are really starting to go our way, but I just hope that her buyer's remorse fades away.
32:50Here we go.
32:50Because historically, in our relationship, if Manon's not happy, nobody's happy.
32:56Come on into your house, bud.
32:57Here you come, Ben.
32:58Yeah.
32:58Yeah.
32:59Wee.
33:00Yeah.
33:00Come on into the house.
33:00Yeah.
33:01Yeah.
33:01Yeah.
33:01Yeah.
33:02Yeah.
33:02Yeah.
33:02Yeah.
33:03Wee.
33:03Here we go.
33:05Woo-hoo.
33:07It feels awesome. We're home.
33:09Look out, Ben.
33:10Ah, look at that view.
33:13It is a beautiful view. Love it.
33:16Finally, we're here in our home sweet home.
33:20Yeah, it is cute. I like it.
33:23When we visited the house,
33:25Anthony just fell in love with it.
33:27I could see Anthony's eyes, like, sparkling.
33:31He was like, wow, that's such a beautiful one.
33:34It's huge. It's big.
33:36The land is, like, huge.
33:38I can have goats in there.
33:39I was like, stop it. You're going too far.
33:41But anyway...
33:43Someone's having fun in their new house.
33:46We signed the paper on the spot.
33:48You should have seen Anthony's eyes
33:50when he was inside that house.
33:52I love the house. That's true.
33:53I do love the house. It's very nice.
33:55Yeah! Yeah!
33:57Yeah! Mommy's right! Yeah!
34:00I'm gonna make it work and I'm gonna make it mine.
34:02Even better. Even better.
34:04Jonathan got a new phone and he left his old phone
34:13on his nightstand.
34:15I mean, the first thing I found was a message
34:19he said to a girl saying that he missed her.
34:22I was doing fine.
34:25Caught up in the bliss of my ignorance moving through life.
34:31Mmm, without a worry, I was killing it.
34:35It's a big deal.
34:38Oh, now the key's stuck.
34:40Okay.
34:51Oy!
34:54That's a small drawer, but that's okay.
34:57We're gonna work with what we have right now.
35:00Because we're in shambles.
35:01Last night I stayed with my friend, and today I'm checking into my rental
35:06until I can figure out my way home.
35:12Um, Jonathan got a new phone, because I guess his wasn't working,
35:16and he left his old phone on his nightstand.
35:21And I woke up and he had left to go to his friend's house,
35:24and he was gonna come back, he said, in like an hour or two.
35:26So, me having the trust issues that I already do, respectively, went through it.
35:36I mean, the first thing I found was a message he sent to a girl saying that he missed her.
35:45And then I kept digging, and it was like three or four just emojis to other girls,
35:49swiping up on the stories, um, stuff like that.
35:53Then I started seeing really weird messages from this one girl on social media.
35:58The girl had actually been messaging me for months,
36:00saying that I was so pretty, like, you know, how do you know Johnny?
36:04And I did my investigating, and he had actually been messaging that girl
36:11while we were filming interviews.
36:17Literally when I'm too, this much distance away from him,
36:21asking her to send him nudes, asking, you know, that he missed her,
36:25that he missed having sex with her.
36:27And I was right there, and I had asked him about her thousands of times.
36:33And then the more I kept digging, I found a whole sexual interaction
36:39with a different girl in May, which, of course, is long ago.
36:43But I had asked him about that girl multiple times,
36:47and he had lied and said he never had been with her,
36:50and there's a whole video.
36:52And then to make it worse, when I caught him,
36:55and I took photos of the phone and sent them to him
36:58and left his house and was like, I am done with you.
37:01I'm absolutely disgusted.
37:04Then the only thing he said was, you went behind my phone behind my back.
37:11How was that your first response when I picked up my whole entire life
37:16to be here?
37:19So it's terrible.
37:21Like, it's so sad.
37:24Like, I don't want to be around him.
37:26Like, I don't want to see him.
37:30And now, I can't even, like, I can't even look at this place.
37:33I don't even want to see that boat again.
37:35Like, I don't want to see anything to do with him.
37:38I don't want to see it online.
37:40I don't want to see him at all.
37:42Like, I can't even, like, I have loved this island.
37:46And, like, he has made me hate it.
37:49Because I put my whole life on pause to be here with him.
37:53And he ruined it.
37:56Like, I guess you live and you learn.
37:59I hope.
38:00Because I'm never, I'm not doing this again.
38:04I don't think I've ever experienced this much hurt from someone ever in my life.
38:11Hey, girl.
38:12Hi.
38:13Hey, you.
38:14I brought a bottle.
38:15I mean, it's crazy to think that a few days ago we were talking about getting married,
38:18and truly this is probably the last thing that I thought I, like, that would happen.
38:24I never thought I would be in this state.
38:29So what's been going on with him?
38:30Has he said anything?
38:31Has he reached out to you at all?
38:32He has not once asked if I had a place to stay, if I was okay, if I needed anything.
38:42Nothing.
38:43He had texted me and said, come get your now.
38:48I said, I don't want to be alone near you.
38:51Like, I don't want to look at you.
38:52He goes, okay, I'm going to throw it out.
38:54It's so, it's like mean.
38:57It's mean.
38:58It's so mean.
38:59It's like, are you that heartless?
39:01Like, you're supposed to be in love with this girl.
39:04Like, it just doesn't make sense.
39:05It just sounds like typical Johnny, though.
39:07Like, we wanted him to change.
39:09We wanted him to be someone he wasn't, but it's so on brand for him.
39:13When I look at how much I gave up, I mean, I left my family.
39:20I left my friends.
39:22I left my job.
39:23I gave up so much and I didn't listen to so many people.
39:27And the only thing I was really asking for was to be loyal and to see that I couldn't get that.
39:35It's more than devastating.
39:37It's like an unimaginable stab in the back.
39:42To see how he actually didn't love me.
39:44Because you don't do that to people you love.
39:51None of this is your fault.
39:52You couldn't have done anything else for this man.
39:59Next time on 90 Day Fiance The Other Way.
40:02Schmidt and I are going to move back to our apartment where we were happy.
40:07We are not going to leave.
40:08We have to live with us.
40:09We are depending on them right now.
40:10We cannot move out of there.
40:11I already told your parents we were moving out.
40:12If you don't want to go with me, I guess I'll have to move out by myself.
40:14I don't know what to emotionally prepare for.
40:15I am open to have a conversation with him.
40:16It's been three days since Greta left for a hotel.
40:23Today is my first day of work.
40:30It's very tiny, huh?
40:31This is a new house in a new village.
40:32I don't know anybody around.
40:33I don't have a car.
40:34There's nothing here, Ben.
40:35I have anxiety right now.
40:39What, what, what, what are you doing here?
40:41It's not going to be the best for a hotel.
40:42Today is my first day of work.
40:47It's very tiny, huh?
40:50This is a new house in a new village.
40:52I don't know anybody around.
40:53I don't have a car.
40:55There's nothing here, Ben.
41:00I have anxiety in you right now.
41:07I'm headed to Jonathan's house to get all my stuff.
41:12It's just over.
41:14I did something really stupid to be a guy.
41:17I did ask a woman for her news.
41:19I'm very sorry for it, and it's up to her
41:21if she wants to forgive me or not.
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