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00:00:00So, yeah.
00:00:30Only if you want.
00:00:40It's all good.
00:00:45He's extremely insecure, and that's one of my biggest fears, being someone who can't
00:00:52be strong and confident.
00:00:55I don't understand why you joined us.
00:01:01I was getting a drink, and then it just kind of happened.
00:01:04I trust you entirely.
00:01:05I'm not jealous.
00:01:06Really.
00:01:07His timing sucked.
00:01:14He didn't have to come join us.
00:01:24I'm gonna need some water.
00:01:38It made me feel a little uncomfortable.
00:01:42To be honest, I'm disappointed because I would have never done that to him.
00:01:53I'm feeling actually quite relaxed about the prospect of seeing Jubriel again, but if
00:01:58he dares to come up and talk to me, then he'd better brace for a fight.
00:02:02Will you be my wife?
00:02:04Yes, I will.
00:02:07He sees me without having seen me.
00:02:09Do you catch feelings fast?
00:02:10Yeah, I'm a lover girl.
00:02:12I'm the opposite.
00:02:17He won't even look at me.
00:02:19If it doesn't feel right, I can't force the physical stuff, even though I know that's
00:02:24what she wants.
00:02:25I feel like I'm Jubriel, who is in a cage and trying to break free because he feels like
00:02:30this is all too much.
00:02:33I don't need this.
00:02:39I don't need this.
00:02:40Look.
00:02:41Yay!
00:02:42How are you girls?
00:02:46Hello.
00:02:47Wendy.
00:02:48Time to confess.
00:02:49Unfortunately, you have to tell us everything.
00:03:04Yeah.
00:03:05Sorry.
00:03:06No, I'm fine.
00:03:08I get lots of love and support.
00:03:10Everything I need.
00:03:11Tell us what happened.
00:03:12You just disappeared.
00:03:13Yeah.
00:03:14Yeah, you did.
00:03:15Can I listen?
00:03:16Sure.
00:03:17Go.
00:03:18We had a talk that night, and he said the experiment was way more overwhelming than he'd
00:03:23expected.
00:03:24I can't even tell you if he thought I was ugly as hell or whatever.
00:03:27He never said anything.
00:03:28He just stayed superficial and kept repeating, I can't handle this.
00:03:32It's not you.
00:03:33I just can't do this right now.
00:03:34What the heck?
00:03:35I was like, what?
00:03:36In the pods, we were like soulmates.
00:03:38I was like, what happened?
00:03:40But he never explained.
00:03:41What a load of crap.
00:03:42That's not okay.
00:03:43He was like, I'm not ready for this, but we can see each other again outside.
00:03:47And then he never reached out.
00:03:49Excuse me?
00:03:50Nada?
00:03:51Didn't contact me once.
00:03:52Didn't try to see me.
00:03:53Nothing.
00:03:54I meant nothing to him, literally.
00:03:57Nothing.
00:04:00What the hell?
00:04:01He totally ghosted me.
00:04:02So lame.
00:04:03What is wrong with him?
00:04:04I mean, yeah.
00:04:05It's a lot.
00:04:06I get that, sure.
00:04:07But the issue was never a lack of feelings between you two or whatever.
00:04:11Never.
00:04:12I'm just so angry because we talked and I told him, Juby, she needs a man, not a boy.
00:04:19You need to show her what you're made of.
00:04:21And he was like, I definitely will.
00:04:22Wendy and I broke up in Creed, but on good terms.
00:04:27I want her.
00:04:28She's so great.
00:04:29Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:04:30And now he's ghosting you?
00:04:35There's no bad blood.
00:04:36We're not mad at each other.
00:04:39That's why I'm excited to see her again.
00:04:43Was it all for show?
00:04:48Sheesh.
00:04:52You all look great.
00:04:54I'm shaking.
00:04:57You're okay?
00:04:58All good?
00:04:59Hi.
00:05:00Hello.
00:05:01Hello.
00:05:02Hello.
00:05:03You okay?
00:05:04Hey, you.
00:05:07Juby, what do you want to drink?
00:05:10Water?
00:05:11Yeah.
00:05:13Sparkling?
00:05:15How are you?
00:05:16Nervous?
00:05:17A bit tense.
00:05:18I wonder why?
00:05:19Just a bit, but I'm fine.
00:05:22Nothing happened.
00:05:24It begins to fall.
00:05:29How have you been since Creed?
00:05:31Hey.
00:05:32That was the right decision for me.
00:05:33And we talked about it.
00:05:34The whole thing was too overwhelming.
00:05:37It was a crazy situation.
00:05:39I always felt like I communicated openly.
00:05:44But look.
00:05:45You also told me straight up in Creed.
00:05:47It doesn't match 100%.
00:05:48Yeah.
00:05:49You said that.
00:05:50But apparently you didn't communicate that to her.
00:05:54I think that's the issue.
00:05:59But I'm telling you, you need to talk to her directly so there's nothing left unspoken.
00:06:03Yeah.
00:06:09Better than arguing about it for 10 years.
00:06:10Yeah.
00:06:14You know?
00:06:16I don't mean to interrupt, but can we talk for a minute, please?
00:06:19Yeah, sure.
00:06:25Over here?
00:06:26Yeah.
00:06:27Yeah?
00:06:28That's fine.
00:06:34How are you?
00:06:36Good.
00:06:37I've been better, obviously.
00:06:38Yeah?
00:06:39And you?
00:06:40Back to my routine.
00:06:41I'm more chill.
00:06:42A lot happened.
00:06:43It was an extreme situation.
00:06:46I realized how stressed I was there.
00:06:48And I'm glad I had the chance to calm down.
00:06:51That's why I didn't reach out to you.
00:06:53Mm-hmm.
00:06:55I felt like we should maybe give each other space for a bit.
00:07:00Yeah.
00:07:01Jubiel, that all sounds lovely, but...
00:07:03Yeah.
00:07:04I deserve more than just, we'll figure it out on the outside.
00:07:07And then you didn't even do that.
00:07:08I wish you took the time to reflect and not just told me that you were over the experiment,
00:07:13but instead said, hey, I don't feel anything for you.
00:07:16That would have been a lot more honest than what you did.
00:07:23Where I stand, I always tried to communicate openly.
00:07:26My intentions were always genuine.
00:07:28I wanted to propose to you.
00:07:30I wanted to give it a chance and see what would happen.
00:07:33Not once did you give me the feeling that you were interested in me,
00:07:36or that you cared about me, or that you enjoyed being with me in Crete.
00:07:40Not once.
00:07:42In Crete, I realized that maybe I wasn't in it 110%.
00:07:46Yet, you didn't have the balls to tell me how you felt about me or anything.
00:07:51I did.
00:07:52No, you didn't.
00:07:53I did.
00:07:54I had to guess and read between the lines.
00:07:56I think that was mean and unnecessary.
00:07:57I was an extra in your movie.
00:08:01I don't agree with that either.
00:08:03Well, I was.
00:08:04I could have been any woman.
00:08:05Wendy, do me a favor.
00:08:06And not reaching out afterwards.
00:08:07Please.
00:08:08Not getting in touch.
00:08:09It's all good.
00:08:10It's not all good.
00:08:11The fact that you never contacted me just confirmed everything for me.
00:08:14Yeah.
00:08:15No, it didn't.
00:08:16Okay, Wendy.
00:08:17Thank you for that.
00:08:19Thank you for the chat and your honesty.
00:08:21Thank you, too.
00:08:22But I'm good.
00:08:23Great.
00:08:31Nonsense.
00:08:32This is so ridiculous.
00:08:33So fake.
00:08:34Give me a break.
00:08:35It's nonsense.
00:08:36He only cares about his image.
00:08:38Such bullshit.
00:08:40The worst part is that he's holding on so hard to a totally different version of our whole story.
00:08:48I did the work, read between the lines and said, fine.
00:08:51If you don't see me, then we don't have to keep doing this shit.
00:08:54Simple as that.
00:08:55He was spineless.
00:08:56That's all.
00:08:57She totally twisted the conversation.
00:08:59I can tell that was her intention.
00:09:01She wanted to come here and say that guy didn't keep his word.
00:09:05She just wanted to act like I'm the country's biggest asshole because I didn't live up to her expectations.
00:09:11Obviously, I also have my ego, my pride.
00:09:14And I know that I'm a good person and that I've been honest from the start.
00:09:17So I know I did nothing wrong.
00:09:19That went south real fast.
00:09:21Yeah.
00:09:22What happened?
00:09:23You do you and keep telling yourself these stories.
00:09:26But I know my truth.
00:09:27And it was so obvious that you didn't like me.
00:09:30And that you didn't know how to tell me.
00:09:32And it's okay.
00:09:33But can you just completely let it go now?
00:09:35Yeah.
00:09:36Indeed.
00:09:37Look, we all know her.
00:09:38She deserves someone better than that.
00:09:40Yeah.
00:09:41I'm done.
00:09:42Done.
00:09:43For good.
00:09:45I imagined Jubriel as my husband.
00:09:47So it's a big letdown.
00:09:48It's okay.
00:09:49I'm fine.
00:09:50I'm over it.
00:09:51And I just want to move on and hold on to the good parts.
00:10:07And I'm fine.
00:10:08Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:10:11What's it wasted?
00:10:32It came off as though you didn't like me talking to Dustin.
00:10:35yet I told you I wanted to talk to him.
00:10:40Yeah.
00:10:42And what makes you think I wasn't okay with it?
00:10:45Because you decided to join us.
00:10:51Well, my gut instinct was to lighten things up a bit,
00:10:55that maybe the three of us could talk.
00:10:57I wasn't trying to crash your talk.
00:10:59Well, you came across as being insecure.
00:11:06I would have liked to end the conversation on my own terms,
00:11:10instead of you coming over or constantly turning to stare at us.
00:11:13Yeah, right as I did that, I thought to myself,
00:11:15okay, maybe this isn't...
00:11:17It felt like you were marking your territory.
00:11:19No, that wasn't my intention.
00:11:21I don't need to do that.
00:11:22But the moment I did it, I realized it might come across that way,
00:11:25and I thought, okay, maybe that wasn't so smart.
00:11:28It made me feel really uncomfortable.
00:11:29I don't want a man by my side who's insecure.
00:11:39Your behavior was really not cool,
00:11:41and honestly, it was a really unattractive move.
00:11:48When I talked to him about it,
00:11:50he was defensive and nervous,
00:11:52and to me, those are signs that he's insecure.
00:11:57I see insecurity in general as a weakness.
00:12:06I think it's a shame that you doubt my confidence
00:12:08because of what happened.
00:12:10I mean...
00:12:11Yeah.
00:12:12Maybe you're the one who's insecure.
00:12:14So now you think it's my problem.
00:12:16No, it's not a problem.
00:12:18That's what you just said.
00:12:19It's a matter of perception.
00:12:20Yeah, but you say it's my fault.
00:12:22No, I don't.
00:12:23And my perception.
00:12:24I'm just telling you how I feel and how you feel.
00:12:26It's not a problem or a mistake or wrong.
00:12:33It scares me because it's another setback.
00:12:36I'm afraid we'll get into another fight
00:12:38and end up in the same situation again.
00:12:41And if we make up, we'll be back on a high.
00:12:45And that's the kind of toxic roller coaster
00:12:47that I want to avoid.
00:12:49I'm worried he might not be
00:12:54the right one after all.
00:13:09We're off to Mallorca.
00:13:11I'm looking forward to finally meeting Consti's family.
00:13:22I'm extremely nervous.
00:13:28Oh, my God.
00:13:30Nice, isn't it?
00:13:41Really nice.
00:13:44I'm nervous.
00:13:45Me too.
00:13:46To meet my second home.
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Yeah.
00:13:50Should be interesting.
00:13:52Oh, pretty.
00:13:56Right?
00:13:57Yeah.
00:13:57Home sweet home.
00:13:59Oh, yeah.
00:14:01My apartment here in Palma is my sanctuary.
00:14:05Ooh.
00:14:05And my apartment is now our apartment.
00:14:10So it's important
00:14:11that she feels comfortable here, too.
00:14:13Welcome to Casa Stryfling.
00:14:21I love you more.
00:14:25What's so funny?
00:14:27You can keep your shoes on.
00:14:29Oh, no.
00:14:30Shoes stay on at my place.
00:14:31Once I live here,
00:14:32they'll always be taken off.
00:14:34Nice kitchen.
00:14:35Yeah, great place to cook.
00:14:37And clean, too,
00:14:38even though I wasn't here.
00:14:41Well, it's all right.
00:14:43I mean...
00:14:44Come on!
00:14:46Could be cleaner.
00:14:48I'll take a closer look at the place.
00:14:52Yeah, sure.
00:14:53Take a closer look.
00:14:54Maybe not that close.
00:14:57Hello!
00:14:58I know.
00:14:59Nobody's been here.
00:15:01Let me take a look around.
00:15:03This should be cleaned.
00:15:04Yeah.
00:15:05Hallelujah.
00:15:08I didn't tidy up all the drawers.
00:15:10Are you going to check every drawer?
00:15:13So, enough with the drawers.
00:15:15The trash will be my job anyway.
00:15:17Dishwasher, I have everything.
00:15:20I kind of knew she'd look
00:15:21into every little corner
00:15:22because she's...
00:15:25more...
00:15:27obsessed with cleanliness
00:15:28than what may be considered normal.
00:15:31Yeah.
00:15:32So, moving on.
00:15:37Here's the guest room.
00:15:38And, of course,
00:15:40my closet.
00:15:42Oh!
00:15:42It's nice, but it must get really hot in here
00:15:50without air conditioning, right?
00:15:52That's why?
00:15:53There's air conditioning.
00:15:54I have air conditioning.
00:15:54Very nice.
00:15:56Cool.
00:15:57You...
00:15:58Wow, your enthusiasm is so...
00:16:02You're getting goosebumps.
00:16:04Keep going.
00:16:04Hey.
00:16:05I have to admit,
00:16:06I was hoping she'd be more excited.
00:16:09Personally,
00:16:10as a neat freak,
00:16:12I wasn't entirely won over
00:16:14by the cleanliness of the place, but...
00:16:16Yeah, but may I say something?
00:16:18We'll work on it.
00:16:19You have very high standards
00:16:20because the place always looks like this.
00:16:22And I'd say for a guy's place,
00:16:24Yeah, I've seen worse.
00:16:26You've seen worse?
00:16:27You could eat off the floor here.
00:16:28No.
00:16:29No way.
00:16:30I see crumbs everywhere.
00:16:31But you do realize
00:16:32that this is the first time
00:16:34we've come here
00:16:35and that no one's been here
00:16:36for five weeks, right?
00:16:37Sure, but then I wonder
00:16:38who's been dropping crumbs
00:16:40during those five weeks.
00:16:44Whoa.
00:16:45Whoa.
00:16:46I find it absolutely outrageous
00:16:50that Jesse thinks the apartment
00:16:52isn't clean enough.
00:16:56I've never had any complaints before.
00:17:00No complaints is praise enough.
00:17:02Yeah, but do you actually
00:17:04think it's nice here?
00:17:05Do you feel comfortable?
00:17:06Yeah, it's nice.
00:17:08So can you see yourself
00:17:09spending time here?
00:17:11I really can't tell with you.
00:17:13You're hard to read.
00:17:13Yeah, sure.
00:17:16I can see myself
00:17:17spending time here.
00:17:18It's lovely.
00:17:21Well,
00:17:23we'll have to see, right?
00:17:25How this works
00:17:26and how she likes it here
00:17:28on the island.
00:17:29I must.
00:17:29I must.
00:17:40This one's vegan.
00:17:43You're welcome.
00:17:44I have to be rude for a sec.
00:17:55It's my mom.
00:17:56I'll keep it short.
00:17:57Be right back.
00:17:58Yup.
00:18:03Gunnar keeps in touch
00:18:04with his family
00:18:05differently than I do.
00:18:06I guess for me
00:18:08that's kind of
00:18:09it's just unusual.
00:18:14Yeah, let's do that.
00:18:17Bye now.
00:18:19I guess everyone wants that.
00:18:21It's just weird
00:18:22when you don't have it.
00:18:28Do you always talk
00:18:29to them so often?
00:18:30Because since we got
00:18:31our phones back
00:18:32it's been every day.
00:18:33Yeah, when I go
00:18:35grocery shopping
00:18:35for instance
00:18:36I use that time
00:18:37to call people.
00:18:39So you can't be alone
00:18:40for two minutes?
00:18:42I can if I have to.
00:18:45I'm pretty good
00:18:45at being on my own.
00:18:50Does it bother you?
00:18:53I'm not used to it
00:18:55but
00:18:55personally
00:18:58if I told someone
00:18:59about my every move
00:19:00I'd find that quite
00:19:01boring.
00:19:03and I don't really
00:19:07care for it myself.
00:19:11Obviously I'm worried
00:19:12that he'll expect
00:19:13that from me
00:19:14and I don't know
00:19:15if I can do that.
00:19:16That's not who I am.
00:19:17I don't communicate
00:19:18as much.
00:19:21It'll be interesting
00:19:22when our two worlds
00:19:23come together.
00:19:25When my mother calls us
00:19:27not just me.
00:19:28When you get to listen in.
00:19:31Get to listen in?
00:19:32I phrased it like that
00:19:34on purpose.
00:19:40I get that it might be
00:19:41hard for her sometimes
00:19:42but I will keep
00:19:44having contact
00:19:44with my family
00:19:45the way that I need to
00:19:46and the way
00:19:46they need to.
00:19:48We'll see how
00:19:49she deals with it.
00:19:50I'm super nervous
00:20:07right now.
00:20:19because I want to make
00:20:21a good first impression
00:20:22and you know.
00:20:25Woohoo!
00:20:26Woohoo!
00:20:28Yeah.
00:20:29Hi.
00:20:30Hi.
00:20:30Hi.
00:20:35Yeah?
00:20:36Hi.
00:20:38Hi.
00:20:39Nice to meet you.
00:20:40You two.
00:20:41You two.
00:20:43Come here.
00:20:46Sorry.
00:20:47Let me take a look at you.
00:20:49Take a look at us.
00:20:50See if we fit together.
00:20:52You guys are so cute.
00:20:56Oh God.
00:21:01It's nice to have you here
00:21:02on the island.
00:21:02We're happy to be here.
00:21:06Yummy.
00:21:07I've made a few pies.
00:21:08You did this all yourself?
00:21:09Of course.
00:21:10Yes, I did.
00:21:11Then I have some lamb here
00:21:12which I'll put in the oven now.
00:21:14Oh, look at that.
00:21:16We like cheese, don't we?
00:21:17Yes, we like cheese a lot actually.
00:21:20Oh yeah.
00:21:22And then there's some lamb?
00:21:24Exactly.
00:21:24We have to pop that in the oven
00:21:26and then we can actually
00:21:27bring everything outside
00:21:28and relax.
00:21:31Relaxing sounds good.
00:21:32And chat.
00:21:33Yes, that sounds great.
00:21:34Sounds great.
00:21:36What should we do?
00:21:37I have a suggestion.
00:21:39I'll set the table.
00:21:40What do you think?
00:21:41That's right.
00:21:42Good idea.
00:21:43And the women stay in the kitchen.
00:21:44Yes, women in the kitchen.
00:21:46Just how I like it.
00:21:47I shouldn't be here then.
00:21:48That's right.
00:21:49Have fun.
00:21:49The best case would be
00:21:51if my mother came to me
00:21:52after an hour and said
00:21:53wow, Consti, she's the one.
00:21:55I get it.
00:21:56Amazing.
00:21:56You have my blessing.
00:21:58But do you also feel like
00:22:00Constantine is happy?
00:22:02Right from the start.
00:22:03Yes.
00:22:04It felt familiar.
00:22:05You know what I mean?
00:22:06Yes.
00:22:07And that's how it still feels.
00:22:09There's this ease
00:22:10with which we handle
00:22:11everything.
00:22:13Even if we snap at each other
00:22:15from time to time
00:22:16it's still light.
00:22:17It's not difficult
00:22:18or exhausting.
00:22:19It's just easy.
00:22:20It's been lovely.
00:22:21That's good to hear.
00:22:23Is it?
00:22:23Yeah.
00:22:23I'm happy for you.
00:22:27I'm very happy too.
00:22:29I couldn't be happier.
00:22:31You have a really, really,
00:22:33really great son.
00:22:35I've never met
00:22:36such a beautiful person
00:22:37like him.
00:22:38Yeah.
00:22:39Thank you for bringing
00:22:40him into the world.
00:22:42You're welcome.
00:22:43Yeah.
00:22:44The family's pretty big now,
00:22:50right?
00:22:50Yes, it is.
00:22:52I already feel at home here.
00:22:54Then welcome to our family.
00:22:56Thank you so much.
00:22:59Oh, God, help.
00:23:01I'm a nervous wreck.
00:23:02Seriously.
00:23:03Makes sense.
00:23:04But you just made me feel so good.
00:23:06That's so nice.
00:23:07I feel the same.
00:23:09Really?
00:23:09That's awesome.
00:23:14I have a very good feeling
00:23:16and I think
00:23:17this could be
00:23:19true love.
00:23:21Look at this.
00:23:23Look who's coming.
00:23:24Here comes the rest of the gang.
00:23:27Hello.
00:23:29Dad.
00:23:30I'll just hide behind
00:23:30the curtain for a sec.
00:23:32All good?
00:23:34All good.
00:23:35Long time no see.
00:23:36I brought some more?
00:23:38Yeah, perfect.
00:23:39We're going to need a drink.
00:23:41Come here.
00:23:42Hello.
00:23:43Hi.
00:23:44Hi, I'm Jesse.
00:23:45You're Jesse.
00:23:46I'm the dad.
00:23:47Nice to meet you.
00:23:50Brilliant.
00:23:51Nice to meet you,
00:23:52all of you.
00:23:53That's great.
00:23:54Hi, Elias.
00:23:55Hi, I'm Jesse.
00:23:56Nice to meet you.
00:23:57Nice to meet you, too.
00:23:58It's really exciting.
00:24:00I'm Jesse.
00:24:00Hi.
00:24:00Nice to meet you, Jesse.
00:24:02Nice to meet you, too.
00:24:03You're Leander, right?
00:24:05Wow, look at that.
00:24:07Great to meet you.
00:24:08Hello.
00:24:09Another curly girl.
00:24:11Curly girl.
00:24:12That's what I thought.
00:24:13We were trying to guess.
00:24:14Blonde, blue eyes,
00:24:15but Lee called it.
00:24:17She said, definitely a brunette.
00:24:18Really?
00:24:23And at first,
00:24:23you couldn't see each other?
00:24:25No.
00:24:25And you have to imagine...
00:24:27I can't imagine it at all.
00:24:28That you could know someone
00:24:30just by their voice
00:24:31and maybe through their stories?
00:24:33But the stories only go so far.
00:24:35We had so much in common.
00:24:37And we felt the same things
00:24:39at the same time.
00:24:40We started wondering,
00:24:41who's sitting across from me?
00:24:43I just have to say,
00:24:44I fell in love with a person
00:24:46that I'd never seen.
00:24:47And I never would have thought
00:24:49that this experiment
00:24:50would actually work.
00:24:52But you must have had
00:24:53a picture in your mind.
00:24:54Yeah.
00:24:55Did that match when you first met?
00:24:56Not at all.
00:24:57Tell me how you pictured me.
00:24:59Well, listen.
00:25:00Jessie.
00:25:01Jessie was like,
00:25:02I'm a country girl.
00:25:03I like to party.
00:25:04I love bar songs.
00:25:05I live for spring break.
00:25:07What else?
00:25:09She also said,
00:25:10sure, you'll get older,
00:25:11but I know a plastic surgeon.
00:25:13So I pictured a woman
00:25:14with boobs,
00:25:15this big,
00:25:16blonde,
00:25:17party animal,
00:25:19completely different.
00:25:22And then this gorgeous brunette appears
00:25:24wearing a classy dress.
00:25:26And I'm like,
00:25:27awesome.
00:25:29I had a completely
00:25:32different picture.
00:25:32What about you?
00:25:33I tried not to picture anything.
00:25:36Oh, come on.
00:25:36Tell us what you imagined.
00:25:39I did think you might be
00:25:40a little chubbier.
00:25:42Honestly.
00:25:44Nice.
00:25:46When I heard his voice,
00:25:47I thought,
00:25:48yeah,
00:25:49that could be a fit.
00:25:51And we just felt
00:25:52there was something between us.
00:25:54Especially me,
00:25:55I felt it right away.
00:25:57I can't even talk about it right now,
00:25:58otherwise I'll cry.
00:26:02Jessie lost a very important person
00:26:05in her life,
00:26:05her grandpa.
00:26:06But here's the craziest part.
00:26:08Her grandpa was a huge fan
00:26:09of FC Cologne.
00:26:11And at the funeral,
00:26:12they played the club's anthem.
00:26:14No way.
00:26:14No.
00:26:15Wow.
00:26:15And we both got goosebumps.
00:26:17I mean,
00:26:17how's that?
00:26:20For a connection.
00:26:23That's how it was
00:26:24the whole time,
00:26:25where
00:26:25we found all these
00:26:28crazy connections.
00:26:29We're bound together.
00:26:32That's crazy.
00:26:33So my soccer team
00:26:34was just one of many.
00:26:35And so...
00:26:38And then on,
00:26:40it happened every day.
00:26:43I just snotted on you.
00:26:49Wow.
00:26:49Mom, thank you so, so much
00:26:55for inviting us.
00:26:58It was delicious.
00:26:58It was nice to get to know you
00:27:00around a meal.
00:27:03Okay?
00:27:03You have my blessing.
00:27:05I've got a really good feeling about it.
00:27:07Mine too.
00:27:09What about your brothers?
00:27:10Thank you very much.
00:27:11No.
00:27:11Yes.
00:27:12No way.
00:27:15Just kidding.
00:27:16You have our blessing.
00:27:16We're looking forward to the wedding.
00:27:17Nice.
00:27:19To family?
00:27:20Cheers.
00:27:21And to the next family reunion.
00:27:23Exactly.
00:27:26Very soon.
00:27:28To get accepted right away
00:27:31by another family,
00:27:32by people who are still strangers,
00:27:35is an incredibly overwhelming feeling.
00:27:39I've never felt anything like it before.
00:27:42I'm so grateful for it.
00:27:47Darling, save me.
00:27:52I need someone to be.
00:27:59Someone like you.
00:28:08It's really nice that Fluff is here right now.
00:28:11I was looking forward to it.
00:28:12It brings life into the apartment.
00:28:18I should probably feel happy right now.
00:28:22But there are things
00:28:23that make me feel very uneasy.
00:28:27Oh, I forgot how heavy this is.
00:28:29Look, Fluff.
00:28:29In the pods,
00:28:36everyone can be who they want to be.
00:28:39It's only later
00:28:40that you discover the real person.
00:28:41Whether someone's actually laid back,
00:28:43not jealous,
00:28:45and can manage their insecurities.
00:28:49I'm just wondering
00:28:50if he's really capable of
00:28:52giving me what I need in life,
00:28:55which is a man,
00:28:57a family man,
00:29:00someone who's mature
00:29:01and knows what he wants,
00:29:03and his current behavior
00:29:04is showing me the exact opposite.
00:29:07It bothers me
00:29:08that you weren't completely authentic
00:29:10from the start.
00:29:14But maybe it's not even about me.
00:29:20It's only about you.
00:29:21It's only about you.
00:29:21It's only about you.
00:29:25I wonder if you're treating this
00:29:28as some kind of game
00:29:29because I don't want to be toyed with.
00:29:33His behaviors make me look for faults.
00:29:36I think that's just a defense mechanism,
00:29:38a way of finding excuses
00:29:41to pull the emergency brake
00:29:43subconsciously.
00:29:44I noticed early on
00:29:54that Yasmin was questioning
00:29:56my authenticity
00:29:56and how I was showing up.
00:29:58Maybe it's due to her own
00:29:59past experiences.
00:30:01I want to make this work
00:30:02because I have feelings for you.
00:30:04For me, this wedding
00:30:05is something that I want
00:30:06to look forward to
00:30:07and I want to get back
00:30:09to that point
00:30:09where we both felt that way.
00:30:11It's hard.
00:30:17I think Andy
00:30:18doesn't always understand
00:30:19how that triggers me.
00:30:21I've really been through
00:30:22a lot of shit in my life
00:30:23when it comes to jealousy
00:30:24and I just don't deserve that.
00:30:28Well, I'm definitely going
00:30:38to invite my parents.
00:30:46Writing the guest list
00:30:47for my own wedding
00:30:49reminds me
00:30:51how big of a step
00:30:53this is for me in my life.
00:30:54It's a declaration
00:30:58to the outside world.
00:31:07That's the moment
00:31:08when you leave the bubble
00:31:09you've been living in
00:31:11with your fiancé.
00:31:19How do you feel
00:31:20writing this guest list?
00:31:21Well, the wedding
00:31:24is coming up soon.
00:31:29I'm certain I want you
00:31:30but I don't know
00:31:32how you feel.
00:31:34We're in our own bubble
00:31:36right now
00:31:36and we're finding out
00:31:37day by day
00:31:38to what extent
00:31:39this is something
00:31:41that's realistic
00:31:43for us to continue.
00:31:44Mm-hmm.
00:31:46And my wheels are spinning.
00:31:47Right now
00:31:52I'm finding it hard
00:31:53to picture it
00:31:56because I don't know
00:31:58if we're ready
00:31:58for this.
00:32:07Care to elaborate?
00:32:08What exactly
00:32:09isn't quite right
00:32:10in your opinion?
00:32:12Besides the fact
00:32:13I don't know
00:32:13if we're ready for this.
00:32:15That's what I'm thinking.
00:32:17Would you marry me today?
00:32:22I think
00:32:23what we're still missing
00:32:25before our wedding
00:32:26is physical intimacy.
00:32:29We wouldn't be talking
00:32:30right now
00:32:30if we didn't believe
00:32:31that we could say
00:32:32hell yes.
00:32:34That's why it's hard
00:32:35for me
00:32:35to answer yes or no
00:32:37because every day
00:32:39I'm convinced
00:32:39of the opposite
00:32:40that this is actually possible.
00:32:42I don't know.
00:32:51And it's really
00:32:51weighing on me.
00:32:52I need to go.
00:33:11I can't do this.
00:33:14Come here.
00:33:34Let's enjoy the view
00:33:35of my beloved island.
00:33:40It's my beloved island
00:33:41too now.
00:33:42Yes, now it's
00:33:42your beloved island
00:33:43too.
00:33:45It's just wild.
00:33:47You see back there
00:33:48the mountains
00:33:50and everything?
00:33:51I do.
00:33:52Like I look over there
00:33:53and it's
00:33:54super intense.
00:33:57So I think
00:33:58after my whole
00:33:59illness
00:34:00the tumor
00:34:00and everything
00:34:02that happened
00:34:03that
00:34:04without all this
00:34:05here
00:34:06I want to be
00:34:08where I am today.
00:34:10It's nuts, right?
00:34:11I'm glad you got
00:34:14to where you are
00:34:14today.
00:34:16That's insane.
00:34:17I never wear
00:34:18my hearing aids here
00:34:19yet somehow
00:34:20I can hear everything.
00:34:21I know it sounds absurd
00:34:22but it feels like
00:34:23this island
00:34:24is healing me.
00:34:26It's...
00:34:26What's wrong?
00:34:28Yeah, but it's true.
00:34:29Yeah.
00:34:31It might sound weird
00:34:32but...
00:34:33No, I believe you.
00:34:34It's really beautiful.
00:34:36We won't give up
00:34:37Mallorca.
00:34:39That's all I wanted
00:34:40to hear.
00:34:41We won't.
00:34:51I love you.
00:35:03I love you too.
00:35:04Why are you only
00:35:11saying it now?
00:35:14I just had to
00:35:16get it out.
00:35:18My God,
00:35:19I love you too.
00:35:20I've never loved
00:35:21anyone as much
00:35:21as I love you.
00:35:22Ooh.
00:35:23I feel it too.
00:35:31And for quite some time.
00:35:33Yeah.
00:35:33I felt it from the start.
00:35:46This is what I've always wanted.
00:35:48Deep, unconditional love
00:35:50that existed from the start
00:35:52and could finally be expressed.
00:35:54death.
00:36:19How do you feel?
00:36:20Not great.
00:36:27I can tell that
00:36:28something's going on
00:36:30with me emotionally.
00:36:32But the reason
00:36:33I'm so hurt right now
00:36:34is that I'm scared
00:36:36you won't get there.
00:36:38And
00:36:38I don't want to wait
00:36:41for someone
00:36:42who might only
00:36:43see me as an option,
00:36:44you know?
00:36:53I'm in no way
00:36:54judging you
00:36:55for not having
00:36:55these feelings yet.
00:36:56You can't help that.
00:36:58They develop
00:36:59on their own.
00:37:00I told you
00:37:13I wasn't sure
00:37:14whether
00:37:17my fear
00:37:19will continue
00:37:21to grow
00:37:21and
00:37:21be greater
00:37:23than my confidence
00:37:24about
00:37:24if it will work out.
00:37:26and now
00:37:30I believe
00:37:30that my fear
00:37:31is greater
00:37:31than my confidence.
00:37:36It
00:37:36really pains me
00:37:39deeply
00:37:40to see
00:37:40how much
00:37:43you're suffering
00:37:43from this situation.
00:37:44I think
00:37:56the pressure
00:37:58is just too much.
00:38:07The experiment
00:38:08with marriage
00:38:10as a goal
00:38:10is for me
00:38:16over.
00:38:18to keep it
00:38:18growing
00:38:19from
00:38:20devil
00:38:21in love
00:38:22thought
00:38:23consider
00:38:24all that you've
00:38:27caused
00:38:27give it a piece
00:38:29of
00:38:29give it a piece
00:38:31of
00:38:32give it a piece
00:38:33of
00:38:34give it a piece
00:38:36of
00:38:36give it a piece
00:38:38of
00:38:38give it a piece
00:38:40of
00:38:41and
00:38:41breathe in
00:38:47and
00:38:48get a little
00:38:49bit
00:38:50closer
00:38:51to
00:38:52what
00:38:53I did
00:38:53I can't do this.
00:39:12As someone
00:39:13who believes
00:39:14in love
00:39:14I
00:39:16fought
00:39:17really hard
00:39:17but in the end
00:39:19that wasn't enough.
00:39:19this is intense.
00:39:45So intense.
00:39:46This only happens once.
00:39:48This will definitely only happen once.
00:39:50I'm so excited.
00:39:51I want to touch.
00:39:52Right?
00:39:53You want to touch everything.
00:39:54Let's do it.
00:40:03So cheers.
00:40:04Good luck.
00:40:07They have beautiful suits here.
00:40:09It's going to be so hard to choose.
00:40:18Wow.
00:40:19How are we supposed to decide?
00:40:20They're all so beautiful.
00:40:22This is amazing.
00:40:24This is glamorous.
00:40:25It's so you.
00:40:26Oh, God.
00:40:28It still feels kind of weird.
00:40:30I have to say, seeing the dresses and imagining myself wearing one brings the wedding a little closer.
00:40:39How does that make you feel?
00:40:44I've been going back and forth in my head this whole time.
00:40:48Sometimes leaning towards yes, sometimes no.
00:40:51I can't seem to make up my mind.
00:40:53Today's very important for me because I want to find out if this whole thing feels right.
00:41:01I don't know how he feels and what he's thinking when he's trying on suits.
00:41:08I mean, she's not the easiest person.
00:41:11I can put it that way.
00:41:12I know we each have our quirks, she and I.
00:41:15And yeah, we've already had two situations where we got into a fight.
00:41:18And that, understandably, did start to worry her to an extent and compromise her sense of safety.
00:41:25Are you still optimistic that you'll both be at the altar?
00:41:28Maybe we need to generate some excitement around your dress so you can finally get in the marriage mood.
00:41:39Yes.
00:41:40I hope that wearing the dress will trigger the right emotions in me, the ones I need right now. Positive emotions.
00:41:47I'm also hoping that the fog will lift and that things will become clearer.
00:41:53We hope so too. A rollercoaster ride can be dangerous.
00:41:56Yeah, neither of us want a toxic relationship. I just hope that we can make it work.
00:42:00Thanks for your kind words. I'll cherish them.
00:42:04You're welcome.
00:42:05Because if I keep them all to myself, I'll end up exploding.
00:42:07That never helps.
00:42:12Interesting.
00:42:14Yeah, very interesting.
00:42:17I want a three-piece suit for sure.
00:42:18Definitely.
00:42:19What about this one? Too much?
00:42:21I don't know. That's paisley. It's kind of loud.
00:42:24I do want it to be a bit festive.
00:42:26Yeah.
00:42:28But that's very...
00:42:30Just try it on. If you combine it with the accessories, maybe it'll work.
00:42:37This one caught my eye. I can't believe I'm picking out a wedding dress.
00:42:47Look, it has a sled too.
00:42:49What would Constantine say about this one?
00:42:52We'd have to see it on me, but I think he'd like everything on me.
00:42:56I would marry that woman in a potato sack.
00:42:59That's nice.
00:43:00Yep.
00:43:01Cool.
00:43:04It's not like Josie gave you any hints.
00:43:19Hints, of course not.
00:43:21This is a style you had in mind, right?
00:43:24Yeah, it is.
00:43:25Nice.
00:43:26Especially with a slit.
00:43:27I really like that.
00:43:29It's pretty.
00:43:29It's kind of crazy to be picking a dress when you don't know who you'll be standing next to at the altar.
00:43:34So far, we've only heard positive things, but then I wonder, is there a catch?
00:43:39When you see the guy, you'll find a thousand catches.
00:43:42Like from bald head to barefoot shoes, it's all wrong.
00:43:45But I'm not peeved at all.
00:43:46And the more quirks he reveals, the more certain I am that I must really love him.
00:43:51Otherwise, why put up with it?
00:43:52Especially me.
00:43:54But don't you worry about potential points of friction?
00:43:56It's good that Gunner got to know me that way.
00:43:58I've teased him from the beginning, and he can handle anything.
00:44:02We can be a lot when we're together.
00:44:03He'll have to put up with that.
00:44:16Here he comes.
00:44:22Oh boy.
00:44:23Do you like it?
00:44:23I haven't seen it yet.
00:44:25I want to see how you react first.
00:44:26Very nice.
00:44:27I won't look in the mirror.
00:44:28Looks great.
00:44:28It looks really good on you.
00:44:32Crazy.
00:44:33It's not what I expected, but I really like it.
00:44:42Can you see yourself walking down the aisle in that?
00:44:50Yeah.
00:44:51Are you nervous?
00:44:53Yeah.
00:44:55Yeah?
00:44:55Yeah?
00:45:00Looks good.
00:45:00I think I made my decision.
00:45:03I mean...
00:45:04Awesome.
00:45:04That's your suit.
00:45:07It's starting to feel real.
00:45:09I really liked it, but then came the thought,
00:45:11wait, I'm going to wear this at the altar.
00:45:13And I had this overwhelming and beautiful realization
00:45:15that I wasn't just buying any suit.
00:45:27Chelsea!
00:45:28Chelsea!
00:45:28Oh my God, this is awesome.
00:45:39I didn't expect it to look that great.
00:45:41Oh my God, Chelsea.
00:46:04And you're not even wearing the veil yet.
00:46:15Need a tissue?
00:46:17Yes, please.
00:46:18Here you are.
00:46:21I'll take them all.
00:46:23I need them.
00:46:24You just know when it's the right dress.
00:46:29And with this one, I immediately started crying.
00:46:32So this was the moment.
00:46:34It happened naturally.
00:46:35I couldn't stop it.
00:46:38Close your eyes.
00:46:39That's it.
00:46:57I'm getting goosebumps.
00:46:59Is that the dress?
00:47:14Yes.
00:47:17It's my dress.
00:47:18I feel really beautiful today.
00:47:27I sometimes struggle with my body image.
00:47:30But this wedding dress makes me feel so beautiful.
00:47:34Now, I will leave it.
00:47:37For today.
00:47:38Stay calm.
00:47:38The experiment has felt real to me this whole time.
00:47:46But today makes everything more real.
00:47:49A lot more real.
00:47:56You look beautiful.
00:48:02Yeah, you look stunning.
00:48:04Oh, wow.
00:48:05Okay, now I'm feeling it.
00:48:07Yeah.
00:48:20Well, ladies.
00:48:22Say hello to my wedding dress.
00:48:24I found my dress.
00:48:34Who would have thought?
00:48:36I'm so happy.
00:48:38When I join Consti at the altar,
00:48:40we'll put the rings on each other's fingers
00:48:42and we'll be married.
00:48:44I love thinking about that.
00:48:46I can't think about anything else.
00:48:51I really like it.
00:48:52Yeah?
00:48:52Yeah.
00:48:53You said yeah?
00:48:54Questioningly, how do you really feel?
00:48:56Nothing really fits yet.
00:48:57It feels tight and a bit uncomfortable.
00:48:59Everywhere.
00:49:03I'm not really feeling this suit.
00:49:05Sometimes it's just a feeling.
00:49:06Either you feel comfortable right away or you don't.
00:49:09I just have some concerns.
00:49:11And yeah, I'm not happy with the suit.
00:49:17If I get the right feeling about this now,
00:49:21then it could have a huge impact on me.
00:49:24I'm sure the best case scenario would be
00:49:29for her to come out beaming,
00:49:30feeling like that's her dress.
00:49:45I'm still not 100%.
00:49:46You look picture-perfect.
00:50:00Jesus.
00:50:04I can't take it anymore.
00:50:06I can't deal.
00:50:07It's just...
00:50:09It's too much right now.
00:50:10The dress just doesn't feel right.
00:50:20I can't see it right now.
00:50:24Wow, a bow tie.
00:50:25It's a little more...
00:50:27Ooh, I like that.
00:50:29Do you see a groom in the mirror?
00:50:30I can't see a groom in the mirror.
00:50:37Yeah.
00:50:39Definitely.
00:50:41I can tell.
00:50:42Are you comfortable?
00:50:43Yeah.
00:50:43That's what matters.
00:50:44I feel really comfortable.
00:50:45Picking out a suit makes the wedding
00:50:48even more tangible.
00:50:50And it's incredibly important to me
00:50:52to come home tonight
00:50:53and see Yasmin
00:50:53and show her the glow in my eyes,
00:50:56the excitement that I'm feeling
00:50:57so that she knows I'm by her side
00:50:59and no matter what happens,
00:51:00we'll get through it.
00:51:01Wow, I'm so curious to see what's next.
00:51:06I can tell your heart's pounding.
00:51:32Close your eyes.
00:51:36I look like a bride.
00:52:00Is that how you feel?
00:52:03I feel it.
00:52:06Such a beautiful dress.
00:52:11Now it feels real.
00:52:13Like the next step
00:52:14is no longer that far away.
00:52:18I feel so beautiful right now.
00:52:21And I wish Andy was here with me.
00:52:23I just want to hug him
00:52:25and apologize for saying all that dumb stuff
00:52:28and that it doesn't really matter
00:52:30what we were arguing about.
00:52:31It's irrelevant.
00:52:33We're getting married!
00:52:34Woo!
00:52:47Hello.
00:52:48Hi.
00:52:49How was your day?
00:52:52Emotional.
00:52:54Emotional?
00:52:54i had a really nice feeling when i put on the dress and looked at myself in the mirror
00:53:05and i thought about how stupid it was that we argued over such silly stuff it was so dumb
00:53:14you know it's not dumb it's part of the journey we have to hit the sore spots that's what we're
00:53:20supposed to do and if we pull ourselves together so that it doesn't happen as often we can get into
00:53:26a nice easy flow and that's how it was meant to be now i can tell that the emotions are genuine
00:53:33and everything that's happened before all the insecurities none of that matters anymore
00:53:41i realized i was being an idiot looking for faults that didn't exist in the first place
00:53:47i don't quite understand why i've been so up and down
00:53:56it's important that we always remember what connects us that's what counts in the long run
00:54:04yeah
00:54:10this feels really good right now and i hope it feels really good and right for him too
00:54:15obviously i'm back on being on a high right now but i sure hope that it stays that way
00:54:24and yeah i'm trying to get better at riding the roller coaster
00:54:29i'd be happier
00:54:30after the wedding i was thinking we could spend a honeymoon in mallorca yeah good idea really
00:54:48but then i would actually stay there
00:54:51because i could really get a lot of work done without any distractions
00:54:57yeah then we'll probably see very little of each other at first
00:55:01i'm not sure that'll be the case no
00:55:04we just won't see each other every single day over the next few months
00:55:08but we knew that already obviously yeah
00:55:14it's just that i'm a bit worried that we might grow apart
00:55:18if we don't see each other or that i'll just miss you too much
00:55:22i had that once and i don't want to go through that again
00:55:28so we have to work at making sure it doesn't come to that
00:55:31yeah i mean if we do this together like with any other issue we'll make it work
00:55:39have you ever cheated
00:55:44tough question
00:55:45yes i have
00:55:53and no matter how i try to justify it i'll always look bad even if i had my reasons and the
00:55:57relationship was already over but not in the last 10 years i want you to know that i'm not proud of
00:56:04it i will never do it again that's all i can say about it you
00:56:09um i've also cheated and i truly regret it there's never a good reason to cheat
00:56:19and there's no justification for something like that yeah yeah
00:56:24but i learned from it and i would definitely never do such a thing again because seeing your
00:56:29partner fall apart because of it it's just the worst it sucks and no one should ever have to
00:56:35experience that that's why it never happened again it's in the past it feels amazing to be
00:56:44able to communicate so openly with each other and not be seen as the bad guy or be attacked by your
00:56:49partner i know i have the right woman by my side i'm curious how do you picture him i imagine someone
00:57:01who's emotionally open yeah a hundred percent it's the kind of man josie needs by her side so that's
00:57:08who i picture but the whole thing is insane
00:57:16excited to see your friends for sure it's gonna be great i think so are you nervous
00:57:23yeah it's super important to me that this goes well that they accept him a hundred percent and that
00:57:28i don't have to worry about them having concerns about our relationship
00:57:35how are you i have to ask how scared are you a little we're very happy to meet you
00:57:42how insane is this whole thing it doesn't feel that insane yeah that's the funny thing i see
00:57:49yeah it feels really normal to us good at least someone thinks it's normal how quickly did you know
00:57:56that josie was the one you'd continue your journey with pretty quickly yeah what made it easier for
00:58:03me was that i ruled out the women who wanted to have kids
00:58:10what if josie's like maybe in six or seven years there'll come a point where i actually do want kids
00:58:16sure it could become a problem down the road what do you think about it
00:58:19i don't know what will happen in six or seven years or when i realize that my clock is ticking
00:58:30or if it hits me later and i'm like well i regret it i miss it i really want kids
00:58:35that could be a reason to break up
00:58:49what if i ever had kids so i'm coming out by the way and like i'm going to do this
00:58:53and here's the thing we're going to be quite a bit about it
00:58:58who wants to go and decide what's the name of the world
00:59:01and go ahead and talk to the people within the world
00:59:05and go ahead and create a business to go ahead and connect with me
00:59:07and go ahead and talk for people to come through
00:59:09so again when they talk to me and take the kids into the book
00:59:14and they talk to you oh god
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