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Love Is Blind: Germany - Season 2 Episode 8
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00:00I don't know what will happen in the future, or if I will realize that I want to have kids.
00:13That could lead to a breakup.
00:19I always had a clear idea that I would have kids,
00:23because neither society or I ever gave me any different idea of what the future could be.
00:28It should be mother, father, child, and no other way.
00:31And the older I got and the less I believe that I would ever find a partner,
00:36the more I came to terms with the fact that this might also mean that I wouldn't become a mother.
00:41Right now, it's not an obstacle to me getting married because I'm fine with it at this moment.
00:45But is it still an issue that you both, let's say, have resolved in your conversations,
00:50or is it still a current issue in your everyday life?
00:52I'd be interested to hear your perspective on that.
00:54Sure. We don't talk about it much anymore because I know her position,
00:58and if it changes, she would tell me.
01:00But we can't change anything about that right now.
01:03We can't prepare for it, so it doesn't change our dynamics or our approach.
01:07So I'm letting it rest for a bit, and I'm open to talking about it if she wants to.
01:12Nice. Yeah.
01:13Seeing that, you can see that there's love between you, that there's goodwill between you,
01:19but in the end, it's still a leap of faith, and whenever that changes, then I think you're great,
01:25I think you're very nice, I think you shine, you have a great aura, you seem super sweet and nice, right?
01:30Yeah.
01:30But she's family to us, and we want to protect her, and it's just, of course, you're the outsider for now,
01:37you'll be tested, and the good vibes will last as long as you treat her well,
01:41and if that changes at some point, then the good vibes will stop there.
01:45I have to say your caution reassures me, because I wouldn't trust anything else.
01:50It must be intense for you.
01:51You have to be a little wary of me.
01:53Anything else, I wouldn't think you were being honest with me.
01:55That's why I'm glad you've put it that way.
01:58Yeah.
02:01She's not doing it to make him happy, but she's thought about it with real awareness,
02:05and so I think that's why we have to trust her.
02:19I'm curious what you'll say about my apartment.
02:21It's a bit of a temporary solution, because I'd like to live in a bigger place.
02:24Yeah, who knows?
02:27Maybe we could build a palace together.
02:29I'm curious to see how Andy lives.
02:31See his environment and what his comfort zone looks like.
02:35I think we're perfect.
02:37Yeah.
02:38Here's the bathroom with a bathtub.
02:40If you ever want to take a bath.
02:42Yeah, totally.
02:44This is like the hallway.
02:46And, yeah.
02:48Yeah, nice.
02:50Important to have mirrors.
02:52Yeah.
02:53Just the kitchen on the left.
02:56A barista machine?
02:58Yeah.
02:58Very nice.
02:59The little ones are so cute.
03:01Yeah, that was a retail error.
03:02I mean, they were supposed to be espresso cups, but I think they turned out to be egg cups.
03:06They're egg cups, but I think they're really nice.
03:08Maybe I should sand off these little nubs here.
03:11No!
03:11I think I'll have to kidnap them before you mutilate them.
03:14Yeah.
03:16I see you have some alcohol up there.
03:18Yeah.
03:18I always have to have some calls in case I have unexpected guests.
03:22I wouldn't necessarily want to move in here permanently or live here.
03:27The bedroom.
03:28Balmany.
03:29For me, this is a little too chaotic.
03:32Too cluttered.
03:33Living room on the left.
03:35A real plant?
03:36It's real.
03:37It's real and it's still alive?
03:39Yeah, it's still alive.
03:40I'm proud of you.
03:40It doesn't need much water.
03:43This is nice.
03:43Yeah, well, I really love family gatherings and you can sit six or eight people here.
03:48It's the perfect size for an apartment.
03:50It's big for a one-bedroom apartment.
03:52Yeah.
03:54So I don't feel the need to add a feminine touch here because it would be a lot of work.
03:59But I think that when we move in together, it's important for me to express myself in the apartment in terms of taste.
04:10Yeah, it's kind of weird that we're getting married next week or in a few days and I'm only meeting them today, although their name will be mine soon.
04:23The good thing is that my parents are easygoing, but I'm curious because they haven't expressed any concerns so far.
04:30You want to, um...
04:31Mm-mm.
04:37Mm-hmm.
04:40Mm-hmm.
04:44Mm-hmm.
04:44I knew that.
04:45I was just about to do it.
04:47You're welcome.
04:49It's interesting that you're nervous.
04:51I'm not.
04:51And how you're just not at all nervous?
04:54No.
04:54I'm not like Gunnar.
04:58I don't like getting along with people on a superficial level.
05:01And I hope that they'll accept my personality, which isn't wishy-washy and is pretty direct.
05:08And I also hope that they will perhaps see what their son sees in me.
05:13When I signed up for this experiment, I was carrying a big wish of mine.
05:24I was hoping to also gain a family, especially because mine is so small and life with my parents was generally difficult.
05:35You go.
05:36Here we go.
05:37You go.
05:39Hello.
05:40Oh, you're already at the door.
05:41Hi.
05:42Yes.
05:42Hello.
05:44Hello there.
05:45Oh, my goodness.
05:46You're a beautiful woman.
05:48Oh, thank you.
05:48Hello, Kate.
05:49So are you.
05:50Oh, thank you.
05:52Thank you so much.
05:53Wow.
05:53Let me just say welcome to our slightly crazy but very loving family.
05:57You are beautiful.
05:57I'm glad you're crazy.
05:59So am I.
06:00Come on in.
06:00Yes, baby.
06:01I'm a little tense, but I also know that my family is very warm and that Yasmin is a very positive person.
06:08I can see them getting along really well from the start.
06:11But as the host, I always feel a little pressure to fulfill the expectations and make sure everyone is happy.
06:17I have a very good relationship with Andy.
06:20We talk relatively often.
06:21And it would be really nice for me if you wanted to be part of that.
06:28There's no obligation, only if you wanted to be part of that, right?
06:31If you wanted to call me or if you wanted to meet up for a coffee when you're in the area.
06:37I think it's nice when my partner's family sees me as part of the family because I think it's the most beautiful thing.
06:44Yes, of course you do.
06:45I have a small family.
06:46And I think it's the best thing to see that a family is bigger and that I can be part of it.
06:51Yes, our family will grow, right?
06:53There are a few more yet to come.
06:54I'm really happy.
06:55It's great that you'll be part of the family.
06:59Hi, Carla.
07:00Come on in.
07:02Introducing the families to each other and seeing that there's harmony to me is very important.
07:09Of course, if it doesn't work out, it's not an existential problem.
07:14But it feels good to gain family and friends.
07:18It would be beautiful.
07:19Nice to meet you.
07:20It's very important to me that my family likes Yasmeen and vice versa.
07:24Have you gotten used to the idea of being engaged?
07:27Yes, I've gotten used to being engaged.
07:29It all happened so fast.
07:31It is crazy.
07:32But I have to say, I already know Andy pretty well within the short time we've had.
07:37Yeah.
07:38You can't imagine.
07:39There's something like...
07:41You feel so much.
07:42Even when we look at each other or when we touch, you can just feel the emotions coming through.
07:49I mean, I can really feel it from him when he looks at me.
07:53I could really see that, the way he looks at you.
07:55It's so nice.
07:57Of course, it makes the mother happy when her son is happy.
08:02So I think Yasmeen is a great fit for my son.
08:07Can I give you a hug?
08:08Yes, absolutely.
08:09I think you're so great.
08:10I see how happy she is with Andy and Andy with her.
08:15And as a mother, that makes me so happy.
08:17She really is such an easygoing, warm, lovely woman, you know?
08:22I mean, it couldn't have turned out better.
08:29Well, I have to say, very likable, just the way I imagined.
08:34Easygoing, relaxed, able to laugh at themselves.
08:36Yes, I think it's so nice that they welcomed you into the family right away.
08:42I don't feel in the least bit stressed.
08:44Not at all.
08:44They completely put me at ease.
08:45You don't need to be.
08:46I think they're just happy I found such a great moment.
08:48That's really it.
08:50Yeah, let's take it off.
08:51Let's see if I stay that great.
08:52If it doesn't work out now, then it's because of us, not because of the family or any expectations
09:01from friends or anything like that.
09:04Not because of any outside influences.
09:07So everything only depends on us.
09:09I think we have a visitor.
09:24Nervous?
09:25Yes.
09:26Me too.
09:27I'll get the door.
09:29I know exactly how important they are in Gunnar's life.
09:32I know how important they will be in our life.
09:34And I want that too.
09:43Hello.
09:44Hello, come in.
09:46Hello.
09:48Hello.
09:49Good to see you.
09:51Hello.
09:52I haven't been here in a while.
09:53Hello.
09:55Nice to meet you.
09:56Yes, nice to meet you.
09:57Welcome.
09:57Hello.
09:58We haven't met yet.
09:59No, I wanted them to like me.
10:01You can break it down as simply as that.
10:04And that's why I try to approach it with a positive attitude.
10:08Because that is how I really feel deep down.
10:11But sometimes it's hard for me because I'm afraid of losing this.
10:19All the pictures you see on the wall are from Crete, taken in Crete.
10:22Yes, very nice.
10:24That was the first time we were together.
10:26We had the reveal, and then we saw each other in Crete.
10:30And then everything kind of blossomed.
10:32For me.
10:34He was already 100% sure.
10:37And I think I was a little...
10:38I was a little ahead of the game, yes.
10:40Yes.
10:41Yes.
10:41Because of what?
10:44Yes, still asking myself that.
10:46I still don't know.
10:47People usually don't go at the same pace.
10:50Not quite.
10:51And so sometimes I was maybe a day or two ahead of her.
10:54But you can talk about feelings right away.
10:56Even in the first...
10:58In the pods, yeah.
10:59Yeah.
11:01Yes, well, I think for outsiders it's not easy to grasp, right?
11:07I think dinner is ready.
11:08Oh, okay, yes.
11:09Yes, but for me it's like, I'm a very skeptical person, so I definitely didn't think I told
11:17everyone I'd be back in two weeks.
11:19I think I was still hoping that things would work out somehow, but I didn't think that every
11:27part of me would be seen and could be loved.
11:30I think everyone has their own baggage, and maybe some people have more than others, and
11:37I would say that I have a lot of insecurities and fears and all that, which I always try
11:43to hide a bit, but he didn't let me get away with that, or he always dug deeper.
11:49And we were always super honest in that, allowed me to take comfort in the pool of security
11:54he was giving me.
11:55And so I was allowed to jump in if I chose to.
11:58First, I dipped a toe, and when we were in Crete, I really jumped in, and yeah.
12:04But I didn't think that you could feel this way with someone.
12:09And that helped me to let go a little.
12:13Yes.
12:14Thank you, darling.
12:18It seems very open, even in this short amount of time, and I think that having these early
12:22discussions has really helped them.
12:24They couldn't just live in some cozy world.
12:26They had to get real and get down to business.
12:29They've cleared up a lot of issues.
12:31Extremely quickly.
12:32But what about children?
12:47Yes, that.
12:48Is that an issue between you?
12:49Yes, it was definitely an issue.
12:51Probably...
12:51Is that now it's sorted?
12:53Yes.
12:54Well, the issue is us not planning to have any.
12:56But, um, that wasn't my plan.
12:59It wasn't something I desperately wanted.
13:01I didn't say that I absolutely have to become a mother.
13:04But it was an option for you.
13:05And not such a slap in the face.
13:07And, um...
13:08And I thought about it, and it's a shame, and I think it will always be a shame.
13:12But I know that we'll have kids in our lives anyway, right?
13:15It doesn't matter if they're actually yours or my friends.
13:18It's like, I can still be, like, a cool aunt.
13:22So you can't actually leave Recklinghausen yet.
13:24Because there will always be kids there.
13:25Because there will be lots of kids there that I have to look after.
13:28So the way you're talking now, I think it will definitely happen.
13:31I knew I would marry into a family.
13:40And now I get to know which one.
13:43And now I have the certainty that I will definitely find my place in it.
13:47And Gunner's side, but also as an individual.
13:50And that's a very, very nice feeling.
13:53And, uh, yes, a very future-oriented feeling that makes me look forward to what's next.
13:59I just really hope it works out.
14:02There.
14:04Yes, indeed.
14:04Cheers, everyone.
14:05Cheers.
14:06Cheers.
14:07Cheers.
14:08Cheers.
14:26Wow, just look at this.
14:29Romantic, right?
14:41Really romantic.
14:45Beautiful.
14:48Yes, it really is very beautiful here.
14:55But there's another reason why we're here.
14:57I feel very comfortable here in the mountains, you know?
15:02And that means a lot to me.
15:04And, uh, I also chose this place, uh, to do something special.
15:14I feel like I haven't shown you much of my romantic side yet, even though it is also a part of me.
15:21And, uh, I've thought about it a lot, and I wanted to show you again how much I love you and how serious I am about this.
15:32Oh, I'm nervous now.
15:34Oh, I'm nervous now.
15:39Jesse, you are one of the best people I've ever met.
15:44I want to show you even more that you are the woman in my life.
15:51And I just want to tell you from my heart again.
15:55You have to stand up for this.
16:00I want to tell you again, Jesse.
16:02I love you so much.
16:03And I want to ask you here again, no pressure, whether you want to be my wife, this time with the right ring.
16:18Yes, Consti, of course I want to be your wife.
16:21That had to be done.
16:36Thanks for the snot.
16:41Wait a minute.
16:42I have to take care of my nose here.
16:48That was the one romantic moment.
16:51Now, take that thing.
16:59Crazy.
17:01Okay, ciao.
17:02It's really beautiful.
17:04And it will coincidentally be a perfect match for your wedding ring, maybe.
17:07But only maybe.
17:08Maybe.
17:08Maybe.
17:21Maybe.
17:22Maybe.
17:27And now full speed, and let's get away.
17:29That's already full speed.
17:30oh god my pulse is really racing right now because i can feel that this is really real and
17:37there's a wedding coming up and for me that's such a it's actually such a huge thing one of
17:43the biggest things in life and that's why i may be getting this this feeling right now that i
17:51need to ask you a few more questions talk a bit about where you are emotionally and yeah
17:57i think that you who you're now able to show and express your emotions really well that shows
18:08substance and a very strong quality of yours you're warm-hearted you're caring
18:20yeah thanks for saying that
18:22i think the whole timing thing is an issue for me because we only have a certain number of days
18:29and uh if i get married i want to be able to say hey this is really the one for life and uh
18:38i'm still thinking things over of course i'm also someone who wants to say those three
18:43words for example and for me it's also like i don't need to hear anything from you
18:46um sometimes i just wish we maybe had a little more time
18:56the words i love you do mean a lot to me and before i went into this experiment i said i would
19:01get married when i can say and feel those words and we're not at that point yet and that scares me a
19:07little cheers guys to you hey to the lovebirds
19:17and the soon-to-be lovebirds of course i hope for gunner that the experiment is successful and that
19:22he'll be happy in the long run when are the strippers finally coming the strippers the strippers oh nice
19:30man no i'd be disappointed if none came i've known andy for over 20 years now he's getting married
19:36and i haven't even met the woman yet even though i'm his best friend and that's obviously pretty
19:41crazy constantine is super happy that jesse came into his life i think jesse also makes him a better
19:47version of himself they're just a match i think that looks amazing what a dream
20:01let's check it out you go girl
20:06wow damn
20:10dude cheers everyone cheers
20:15to the brides i'd say all this girls cheers
20:20to the last days as fiancés yes
20:26what do you expect from marriage i think the first few weeks will be hard because
20:29we'll have to live apart again and we're so used to seeing each other all the time always having
20:34each other always being able to talk and then we get married and we each go to separate homes
20:40long distance marriages aren't always pleasant i think it'll be really tough overall the relationship
20:46doesn't feel like we've only been together for a few weeks it's so deep it got so deep so quickly
20:51that it feels like it's never been any different like it's been this way for years and years every time
20:57you think okay i'm in some kind of dream when will i finally wake up this can't be real
21:03but then maybe yeah maybe this is just how it is now and you can just simply accept that it is so
21:09beautiful right yeah
21:14is there anything that's still bothering you do you have any fears no
21:20no i mean there's always stuff right i've often had the issue of thinking this is all too good to
21:25be true sure it could happen that at some point to make you feel unsure it can be that in a few days
21:32someone gets cold feet and suddenly says oh my god what am i doing here but i'm pretty sure we're
21:38far from that right now as far as the wedding i have to say uh i'm mostly excited but there's also
21:44a part of me that's still really nervous and a little but you little scared sorry go on no i can
21:52hear a little uncertainty in your voice you're not completely
21:55okay i'm sure everything will go smoothly it's a bit like you're going into an exam and you don't
22:03know if you've studied enough i know it's just the fear in me talking saying hey maybe we haven't had
22:11enough time how do you feel i feel like when andy knows what i need
22:21or knows what i want from him then he just does it he takes it on he tries to do everything as best
22:28he can that shows me that he really means it that he takes my needs seriously and that he really wants
22:34this yes i've had to support her a lot and i haven't been able to express my needs or raise them
22:40because that would have made her feel even more insecure and then we reached a point where she was
22:46completely relaxed again and then i finally had space to think about what's actually important to me
22:50yeah and i was able to express that what i like about you is that especially since the pods
22:57you've been very much focused on how other people perceive you and what you're really good at is
23:03saying hey what do i actually want and so you're putting more effort in the foreground and my fear
23:08was that you'd forget that a little and only do what makes jasmine happy but i can see now that you
23:14also understand hey you're getting married too you have to want it too not just her and you also need
23:19to have the courage to say this is what i need what i want this is how i'm feeling it's a much better
23:25foundation i always wanted a man i could feel at home with
23:31i think i think i've never been closer than now
23:45but would you say you're ready for takeoff
23:53yes we all need to be brave to do something like this
23:56what worries me a little if i'm honest is that you talk about being brave when it comes to the
24:03wedding because i don't think you should have to feel brave because being brave implies that there's
24:08some kind of danger or something wrong that you have to overcome and it makes me a little uneasy if i'm
24:14honest
24:28it almost feels like normal life yes normal life
24:42oh look at this it's very lovely tin can toss tin can toss you can do that yes probably let's see
24:56okay go ahead
24:59oh look at that oh thank you thank you thank you too
25:15slap my butt okay very firm look at the hearts i've never been given one before we could also if we
25:26want uh decorate the heart ourselves i think i mean i've never done that before that's a good idea
25:32i'll do it for you okay
25:36that's lovely thank you wow that's that's already nice i'll give you these two oh two of them wow two
25:43of them different sizes okay thanks i'll try them first great i'll try the big one first
25:48okay but you can't look okay okay like this i've never done this before no idea what it'll look like
25:59maybe i'll hold it a bit straighter like this
26:06does it say give me your number i'm hungry he's a famous artist i think that's good
26:14it's good you can turn it around now if you want wait i'll take it off your neck
26:22look
26:28we've spent so much time together and that's just
26:31yeah how i feel and what i feel and what i wanted to tell you maybe it's a nice way to say it
26:37lord thank you
26:47i was surprised but i was looking forward to this moment i really wanted this moment to happen
26:53oh no it's falling down
27:01you know what no what i love you too oh i really do even though i sometimes want to kill you
27:23what are you doing i'm packing and mine yes if you want yes you'll complain if i do it wrong all
27:36right such a connection with someone who sees you as you are and as even more beautiful
27:45then you see yourself it's so uplifting and it helps me overlook my mistakes and see myself as more
27:51beautiful oh god um than i usually do and uh i'm very grateful to him for that and uh thankful that i can
28:02feel such a connection and especially um with him yeah
28:09looking forward to leaving or a little sad no not really because i know what it means
28:23that we won't be living together for a long time
28:27we're used to seeing each other all the time and right now our lives are about getting to know each
28:31other and then you're 600 kilometers apart for a long time and we can visit each other but you no
28:37longer have a daily life together there will be times that are shitty when we miss each other when
28:45it's difficult to talk when you don't have the time and when you need your partner but they aren't there
28:52it'll be weird yeah it'll be sad
28:57yeah i'm not looking forward to that
29:00i think that sometimes i don't allow myself to be happy
29:12and i think that i don't um deserve it because of everything that you've experienced and if you
29:20haven't had an easy time in life um yeah you never allowed yourself to dream big
29:30um
29:34but now i've been given that and i accept it quite well
29:40yeah so far we've only been building a relationship and now we have to build a life
29:44yeah that we don't have together yet so i'm looking forward to it but yeah right now the wedding is
29:52not taking up too much space in my mind
29:59i'm just realizing i'm not ready yet um i'm kind of in limbo emotionally when it comes to that
30:06it's kind of a weird feeling
30:28i can't believe that today is the day
30:35i'm not going to be able to do it
30:38yeah i've been dreaming of this day my whole life
30:50on the one hand i know that everything that's important on an emotional level is exactly where it
30:55should be it's exactly in the right place and it feels wonderful really
30:59i'm not going to be able to do it
31:02on the other hand there are doubts that have come about because of our ups and downs and that makes me
31:07feel insecure of course
31:13i'm not going to be able to do it
31:28today's our wedding day it's crazy to feel it all like this
31:33the way this is now it's incredibly real and it's so close it's just right here and now it feels like
31:40like a whole life that reaches its finale today
32:00wow
32:08so i'm scared of making the wrong decision
32:36things between jasmine and me we were never just straightforward and relaxed we always had our
32:44conflicts at times
32:50so many things flood my mind but also the love i have for jasmine and all of this is such a cocktail of
32:57feelings sometimes it's just difficult for me
33:11i'm just kind of blown away actually and the way you fought for me
33:24no one has ever done that before i'm getting down on one knee
33:27because i want to ask if you would like to be my wife
33:33yes of course
33:34yes of course
33:40oh god
33:42what connects us that's what counts in the long run but when i look into your eyes i just feel better
33:47yeah it's really nice i mean i keep asking myself when you say something how serious
33:54you are about me that's how we grow together there's no other way and that's why it's great
34:00that we're starting to talk straight now oh the real straight talk is still to come believe me
34:06i don't want a man by my side who's insecure
34:09your behavior was really not cool and honestly it was a really unattractive move i'm also hoping that
34:19the fog will lift and that things will become clearer i realized i was being an idiot looking
34:25for faults that didn't exist in the first place it's important that we always remember what connects us
34:34i'm trying to mentally prepare myself for the beautiful things that are yet to come
34:53and to leave the anxiety behind a little bit look who's there we know her
35:04hello hello
35:10nice it's good to see you too it's good to have you both here
35:14i've been looking forward to this all day because i know that you that you can help me relax a little
35:19bit it's a beautiful day but there's also a lot to think about yeah i know that i need to decide
35:29between my feelings and my head and even my reason and i i'm not a hundred percent sure i'll say yes or no
35:41i'm honestly just waiting for that moment to come when i yeah feel certain
35:52yeah
35:52so all of this morning my whole emotional construct has been completely messed up from one
36:04yes definitely take the risk take a risk in life with someone you hardly know
36:10you can achieve what you couldn't achieve before to no take your time
36:16with andy i feel at home i feel understood
36:27like i've really arrived he's someone i can talk to about anything about joys fears he's someone
36:35i don't have to worry about not taking my opinion or or my thoughts very seriously
36:44or that he would not accept them so would you say you're in love and not just infatuated
36:51yes no i'm in love i know that that was direct when andy looks at me it's
37:01it's somehow magical it's warmth it's affection
37:07i can just see that my love is reciprocated
37:10guys hey yeah hi good to see you again awesome way too long long time no things are about to get
37:24real fancy guys to you cheers cheers to you andy yes nice cheers all good you look good man thanks
37:31yeah i still have to fix my hair a bit but yeah so really ready so i'm ready to leave this single
37:39life behind me i'm ready to do that but i'm a little worried that i haven't been able to get
37:45to know her properly that's my biggest concern
37:52do you think there's a chance she might make a different decision than you today yes that's
37:57actually the top question because for me it was uh very sure for a long time i said hey i have a great
38:04feeling i've never heard a clear yes let's do this from her and because of this
38:08uncertainty that i'm getting from her i feel the same way i'm not sure what i'm going to say
38:15it's also a life decision i don't see marriage like it's a kid's birthday party it's a marriage
38:20and i only want to do it once in my life no matter what happens the whole love is blind thing is
38:27true because the love the feeling is there and it did come about and you can't deny that you should
38:33make that decision in the moment it definitely won't be the wrong decision as long as it feels
38:37right exactly being with you guys is calming me down a little it's very nice that way i can focus
38:44a little on what's real again and not just on one side or the other first turn off your brain first turn
38:50off your brain thank you i'd say i'm done the only thing that's missing is the dress
39:12that works yeah crazy
39:42yes yes me to me to marriage it definitely feels like the finish line is approaching and
39:53getting closer and closer
40:04have fun all the best
40:10the climax is here emotions are at their peak my pulse is racing
40:15soon we'll have all the answers to our questions
40:32hello hi oh my god hi nice to see you hi wow wow you all look so great yeah you too
40:43my mother hello andy god you look so good thanks
40:48such a handsome nephew wow great well you have no idea how i'm feeling it's like
40:54for god's sake i'm sending you lots of peace thanks and lots of love
41:14the words that will be spoken in the next few minutes will determine the course of the rest of my life
41:35the course of the rest of my life
41:49the course of the rest of my life is so great
41:51i'm so nervous i'm stressed
41:55i can imagine you know you're a great woman a great sister and no matter what you do it'll be the right decision okay
42:04i can imagine you know you're a great woman a great sister and no matter what you do it'll be the right decision okay
42:06i can imagine i can imagine you know you're a great woman a great sister and no matter what you do it'll be the right decision okay
42:19thank you
42:23you've got this
42:27god
42:31God, I'm so nervous.
42:47Shall we?
42:48Yes.
43:01Wow.
43:01You've got this.
43:10Have fun.
43:12Thanks.
43:15Bye.
43:17What a beautiful couple.
43:21How are you?
43:22Nervous.
43:24Yeah?
43:25How are you?
43:25Also nervous all morning.
43:28Me too.
43:28It's insane.
43:29Oh, my hands are so sweaty.
43:43So beautiful.
43:48You look very handsome.
43:50Yes.
43:51Hello.
43:52Hello.
43:57Dear bride and groom, we have gathered here together to bear witness to a very special moment today.
44:05A moment in which two people will make a decision.
44:09Because your story, dear Yasmeen, dear Andy, is not like any other love story.
44:16No.
44:17You got to know each other in this special experiment through only words and voices separated by a wall.
44:24There was no first glance, no first smile, and yet you listened to each other, created a connection, and saw with your hearts instead of your eyes.
44:36Two people who found each other in the dark and learned to love each other.
44:40Dear Yasmeen, we met in an extraordinary experiment together and embarked on this with the desire to get to know and love a person we had never seen before.
44:59I remember clearly the moment we stood in front of each other for the first time.
45:06I looked into your eyes and saw you, your heart, your love, and your hope.
45:14Not everything was simple and easy, and there were moments when our journey almost ended.
45:19But we reflected on our feelings and opened up to each other again.
45:26Marriage is something binding and wonderful for both of us.
45:30We want stability and strong support in our partnership.
45:35And Yasmeen, with you, I was able to open up, listen to my heart, and allow myself to feel deeply.
45:41I'm grateful that my life has led me to you.
45:46I'm excited to see where we will go together from here.
45:58Beautiful words.
46:00Dear Andy, when we met in the pods, our connection wasn't immediately obvious and clear.
46:11But maybe that was the beginning of something special.
46:15We hesitated, doubted, questioned, and still chose each other.
46:20We didn't find an easy path, but an authentic one.
46:23And that is exactly what made us strong.
46:26We grew together, not because it was perfect, but because we had the courage to finally open up to each other honestly.
46:37With you, I learned that love is not always quiet.
46:41Sometimes it's uncomfortable, sometimes demanding, but it's always a choice.
46:50I'm not promising you a flawless love here today.
46:53But I promise to be honest, even when it's uncomfortable.
47:00I promise not to give up when things get tough.
47:04I promise to keep my heart open as long as you have the courage to share yours, too.
47:11You're not perfect, and neither am I.
47:14But maybe those are the best conditions for something real.
47:19Only love.
47:27Only love.
47:28Beautiful.
47:30Really beautiful.
47:35Dear Andy.
47:37Dear Yasmeen.
47:39You must now decide, is love really blind?
47:43So I ask you, Andy, here and now, do you agree to marry Yasmeen of your own free will?
47:54If so, answer, yes.
48:01Yasmeen, you are such a wonderful person and a beautiful woman.
48:04Our feelings have always been where they should be, in our hearts and with the problems we've
48:12been through.
48:12We've also grown and bonded.
48:15Maybe we lost a little time on the way here because of our roller coaster ride.
48:20And of course, this whole experiment means that there isn't much time.
48:23And sometimes I've wondered if we've just had too little time.
48:31But now I look you in the eye and I see exactly what I always see in you.
48:36Your open heart, your open gaze, and the conflicts we've had so far.
48:47We'll get through those, too.
48:50And I say, yes.
48:51Yes.
48:51Yes.
48:51Yes.
48:51Yes.
48:51Yes.
48:51Yes.
48:52Yes.
48:53Yes.
48:53Yes.
49:02Now I ask you, Yasmeen, here and now, do you agree to marry Andy of your own free will?
49:10If so, please answer with yes.
49:20Being here with you was really indescribable.
49:22There's a little magic.
49:23There's a little tingle.
49:24There's a little tingle.
49:25You're a strong man.
49:26You're a strong man.
49:27Exactly what I needed in terms of character.
49:29It's like, it's too perfect somehow.
49:31Is he really the man I can spend my life with?
49:32Wedding day.
49:33Marrying Consti means everything to me.
49:38It's getting really serious now.
49:39I'm overcome with emotions.
49:40My body's freaking out right now.
49:41To get married, you must have complete certainty.
49:45Seven weeks ago, I couldn't have dreamed that I'd be standing here.
49:46And yes to Gunner is a no to children.
49:47Thoughts are swirling in my head.
49:48I no longer have control over them.
49:49I have to be honest, Jesse was always one step ahead of me.
49:51It feels right.
49:52A wedding only happens once in your life and that catches up with you.
49:58A wedding only happens once in your life and that catches up with you.
50:13Being a friend is a genius.
50:15A friend isn't wearing a lot of steel.
50:16A friend likes a girl.
50:17He tells about you when everything lies in aい.
50:19He drains me also as a child.
50:20Everything happens once in Shannon's n Calm Head.
50:22He entirely has to be refreshed and an assemble managed.
50:23Because it's her best friend for his life and that time, he runs away.
50:25And I can have always broken the cage from his own toca Detective.
50:26He looks going to be rude and sober with me.
50:28He knows.
50:29This is super wild.
50:30That's a mijn st GNNY Zoo, but with him from duch gear.
50:34He acts by At 윤cana singing strength and his voice.
50:36The reason was not being quote Platts.
50:39When he pays off his sister and construction, he busts her.
50:40He just ceily.
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