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00:00What? This decision? Huh?
00:12Man, he's such a whip.
00:18I mean, seriously.
00:20Um, yeah.
00:23Seriously, I have to laugh because I'm thinking, you idiot.
00:27But he didn't really get to the point, did he?
00:31Of course not.
00:35I'm really shocked because we ended things with a really nice conversation, and it was nice.
00:53Yeah, I just need to think a few things through.
00:55Okay?
00:55So, right now, I'm really upset just because so many emotions are involved and some people have been hurt, and I'm really sorry about that because I don't want to hurt anyone.
01:08Do you want to talk about what happened or not?
01:10No, no, no, definitely not. I just want to let it sink in for now.
01:13Yeah, okay.
01:14How can anyone be such a... How can anyone have so little balls?
01:25I wish I could be sad right now, but what I feel is anger. Because I think I expected a lot more from a 42-year-old man, you know? You're right.
01:36I totally get that Celia is annoyed by this, but I clearly wrote Celia the letter because I want her to kind of understand my decision.
01:48Here, let's read it together.
01:50I just got this letter.
01:51Hello, Celia. The message you got from Nadia probably wasn't easy for you. You're great and things could...
01:58She already knows that.
01:59...have worked out.
02:00But she's great.
02:01In the end, instincts and emotions are the deciding factor.
02:05I can't listen to this anymore.
02:06I hope you understand and aren't mad at me. I hope you understand this decision is right for us both. With deep respect for you, Andy.
02:16So what does that mean?
02:17That he wants Yasmin, right?
02:22I'm dealing with the situation and I understand the girls' reactions. I can totally see where they're coming from.
02:28But on the other hand, we're here to find ourselves a man, not to make friends for life. Hopefully, we all already have those back home.
02:38The thing is, I can't go home with my head held high when I still have so much to say that he should hear.
02:45There are things I want to tell him. I don't need a weak man doing such a weak move. No way. That's not for me.
02:52If I get another date, he'll leave here in tears. Believe me. Believe and trust me on that.
02:59That guy will go home in tears, questioning his entire existence for sure.
03:03I was completely wrong about him.
03:13Over the last few days, I've realized how much you can hold yourself back if you do overthink things.
03:20And I've decided that I finally want to follow my feelings.
03:29I'm nervous because I don't know what to expect in the pod.
03:33My biggest worry is that Jan and I won't leave the pods together.
03:42Because Jan often overthink things, he might say that he can't do it.
03:48That he can't overcome his fears.
03:49Hello.
03:54Hello.
03:56Hello.
03:59My heart is racing.
04:02Yeah, I don't think I've ever been this nervous.
04:05Oh.
04:07Oh, shoot.
04:08Luan, we're getting to know each other totally, totally undisturbed by any external.
04:27Sorry, it's intense.
04:30By any external factors that you come across in everyday life.
04:35You know that I always strive to be honest with you.
04:51And you know that I overthink things.
04:56You know that I have a lot of doubts which I've shared with you.
05:01In our last dates.
05:07And.
05:13I can't help but wonder.
05:15If.
05:18If the fear.
05:20Might be greater than the.
05:22Than the confidence.
05:23In what might await us here.
05:30But.
05:31Luan, you've so often proved to me.
05:33That I don't need to have these doubts.
05:36I.
05:37I.
05:38I doubt myself.
05:39But I have no doubt that you and I could become something really great.
05:42You really are.
05:44Nothing less than the human embodiment of my dreams.
05:46And I'd like to invite you to stand up.
05:49While I get down.
05:51Down on one knee.
05:53And I'd like to invite you to stand up.
05:54While I get down.
05:55Down on one knee.
05:56In front of you.
05:57Oh my god.
05:58And I ask you Luan.
05:59Um.
06:00Would you like.
06:01To continue this journey.
06:02And.
06:03You really are.
06:05Nothing less than the human embodiment of my dreams.
06:08And I'd like to invite you to stand up.
06:11While I get down.
06:13Down on one knee.
06:14In front of you.
06:16Oh my god.
06:18And I ask you Luan.
06:19Um.
06:20Would you like.
06:21To continue this journey.
06:23And be my wife.
06:24Yes.
06:25Of course.
06:26Oh my god.
06:27Oh my god.
06:28Luan.
06:29Luan.
06:30We're engaged.
06:31Yeah.
06:32He he he.
06:33He he.
06:34He he.
06:35He he.
06:36He he.
06:37He he.
06:38He he.
06:39He he.
06:40He he.
06:41He he.
06:42He he.
06:43He he.
06:44He he.
06:45He he.
06:46He he.
06:47He he.
06:49Can you believe it?
06:50Are you over there crying?
06:52Oh no.
06:53Can you tell?
06:54You can't tell but you can.
06:55I've shed so many tears over the last few days.
06:58I'm all dehydrated.
06:59I'll soon turn into a raisin or shrivel up.
07:01Honestly.
07:03I'm so happy.
07:07My fiance.
07:11This is wild man.
07:12It's so wild.
07:13I can't believe I'm an engaged man.
07:15I really did it.
07:18This is crazy man.
07:21Mom.
07:22Dad.
07:23I have a girlfriend.
07:24I have a fiance.
07:27Girls.
07:28I'm engaged.
07:32For me.
07:33Love is really good.
07:38Luan is my dream woman.
07:39Yes.
07:40Dude are you okay?
07:52It's crazy.
07:53I wasn't expecting that.
07:55Another conversation.
07:57Celia wanting to talk to me again has completely confused me.
08:01Hey this is too much for me right now but if someone needs to talk I'm always there.
08:05Because I hate ghosting or saying no.
08:10This is about feelings and I'm someone who always listens to people no matter how much it hurts.
08:17Dead man walking.
08:18Yeah.
08:19But only for the right reasons.
08:20I will eat him for breakfast.
08:21Oh I believe you.
08:22I'm honestly not sad about this.
08:23We could have had a conversation and ended things respectfully but he decided not to handle things thus showing a great lack of maturity.
08:35I am man enough to be faces.
08:57But I am of course a little wary because I don't know what to expect.
09:00hi celia hello is there something you'd like to say to me first or should i start
09:08all i can say is that i didn't think we'd speak again but if somebody asked to talk to me i always
09:15say yes yeah i'm not really here to clear anything up but just to give you a few things to think
09:21about it was so cowardly to give me a letter through nadia because you didn't have the nerves
09:29the guts to tell me yourself i know this is an emotional situation for all of us but that was
09:38so so cowardly what could i have done better you could have done things better simply by talking
09:43to me what i thought was that i wanted to let you know as quickly as possible so that someone else
09:49would have a chance with you i didn't know i was the only one left for you so i don't accept that i
09:54was being weak but you couldn't wait one more day instead you left me a meaningless letter without
10:01even giving me the option to respond and the simple fact that you can't um understand that i'm totally
10:10fine leaving here now because i know you would never be the man for me um listen for me i'm really
10:19over it okay i know that this is all really shitty for you and i'm really sorry but i had to go forward
10:31and make a decision and i'm not whipping out because i have the strength and i'm a strong man
10:36but i accept you saying that this proves to you that i'm not the right one that's okay yes yes it is
10:44yep i still wish you all the best on your journey
10:48i'm leaving what was a beautiful experience i'll be fine i'm not sad that i'm leaving here
11:05um alone without a man
11:07i know now that there are definitely really good men out there and some crazy ones immature
11:17but also really good ones
11:20man
11:28what nothing just keep doing your thing i just have to i just need a moment why what's wrong
11:38because i just need to just leave him alone
11:40i think my decision came as a complete surprise to celia and
11:45it must have triggered a lot of emotions
11:48and i'm really sorry about that because i also need clarity for myself
11:54damn it i still hope
11:58i just feel that i can see a certain perspective with yasmin emotionally too
12:07it's so important to me that i chose either yasmin or no one
12:11but i really haven't had the headspace
12:24to think about the situation since yesterday because of what was going on here
12:28like andy for example he cut them all off for me
12:32just crazy because i said i needed a little commitment and he gave me complete commitment
12:36every time i think back to that moment i just get goosebumps and i think wow
12:44and i think he feels a great sense of relief i feel a great sense of relief that we can finally
12:51enjoy our dates just without pressure just getting closer and closer
12:55now i just want to really feel him
13:00hello yasmin hello hello
13:04hi wow what is that
13:09it's for you oh my god
13:12oh my god i really wasn't expecting that
13:16yeah the idea somehow came to be yesterday and then i
13:20do you know how beautiful these look oh my god
13:23yes where you are my home will be and we will fly together that's kind of what
13:29i was trying to tell you because i somehow believe
13:33that when you enter into a love connection
13:36a marriage that you do exactly that
13:39that is you have a great exciting life together
13:43and when you somehow find your soul mate
13:45well then you feel at home wherever that person is right
13:50wow thank you that's really
13:54oh man that's so nice of you thank you
14:00so sweet you're welcome
14:01i'm just kind of blown away actually
14:07that's the second biggest surprise you've given me
14:10really the second biggest
14:12what was the biggest
14:14your brave step towards me
14:20that was the biggest surprise
14:22the worst thing that could happen to me here
14:27would be to just end up with someone who is all works
14:30someone who just talks and talks and talks the whole time
14:34and in the end it's just empty work
14:36it's just a man of no action
14:39and i think yesterday you proved to me that you're not like that
14:43and it was actually also important to me to keep my word
14:46really
14:49screw all the risks
14:50it's you or no one
14:52i'm really happy
14:54now we finally have
14:56the chance to focus on us
14:58you know
14:59yeah i'm really excited
15:00me too
15:02see you tomorrow
15:09see you tomorrow
15:10i'm thinking about you bye sweetie
15:11bye thinking about you too
15:12i miss you already
15:15me too
15:16yes
15:20real cool
15:21i think life will be really really beautiful with him
15:26i feel like i can really let myself go with him
15:29that i can rely on him
15:32getting that security from andy is like
15:34finding the last piece of the puzzle
15:37yeah it just all feels really nice
15:39it's giving boops
15:49if that's not jan's reaction
15:54there'll be trouble
15:55my heart is pounding
16:07i can really feel it
16:08just because you say you're an attractive person
16:11doesn't mean you are to someone else
16:13and if i'm being honest
16:15i'm actually more worried that he won't like me
16:17than the other way around
16:19my heart is about to jump out of my chest
16:22being so close to meeting my future wife is
16:33i can't wrap my head around it
16:37it's crazy
16:38i mean i
16:41my hands are sweaty
16:42my pulse is racing
16:43i'm a little worried that the situation will overwhelm me
16:47i feel really connected to jan
16:51i feel like he's my better half
16:53even though i haven't even seen him yet
16:55my proposal was already a huge sea of emotions
16:59and i hope that things continue that way
17:02and that there'll be a real explosion
17:05i can't handle this
17:13i'm so nervous
17:17oh my god
17:18oh my god
17:43hey
17:47hello
17:48i don't believe it
17:50me neither
17:52how are you
18:08good
18:09oh my god
18:13i don't believe it
18:14me neither
18:15you're not a stranger anymore
18:20no
18:22and you're not ai
18:23neither are you
18:27neither am i
18:28and i would regret it if i didn't get to say the words i said yesterday in person
18:35okay
18:36as soon as you feel ready
18:40i'd like to take a step back
18:42and ask you luan
18:45will you be my wife
18:55yes
18:56of course
18:57oh my god
18:59would you give me your left hand
19:01you even know which hand
19:03that practice
19:04i still can't believe it
19:11tell me about it right
19:12oh my
19:16oh
19:17earlier i was really scared that
19:36that it would be weird
19:38that i wouldn't be able to connect your voice with you
19:40or that
19:42you'd run away
19:43not a chance
19:44not a chance
19:45i can't believe it
19:47oh
19:47we're engaged
19:51this looks wonderful
19:53thank you
19:55should we head back
20:00yes we can do that
20:02yeah
20:03okay
20:09okay
20:21see you
20:23see you
20:23if we had met somewhere in real life
20:48he would have never been on my radar
20:50i'm a little surprised by her dress
20:58i didn't think luan
20:59would show so much cleavage
21:01but when i hug him
21:06or hear his voice
21:07i realize that it feels good
21:09and that it's really meant to be
21:11ask yourself the question
21:15whether you learn your life
21:17or will you make it
21:19i
21:21how am i
21:23i
21:27i
21:28i don't know
21:29the connection with yasmin
21:37is finally
21:38uh
21:39really just a two-way connection
21:41and it just feels good
21:42to focus on one woman
21:43and to feel a certain
21:45security from that
21:46the feeling is very very intense
21:55i wonder when it'll stop
21:58i hope it never does
21:59of course
22:04it's not just the experiment
22:05that's helping me overcome
22:06my fear of commitment
22:07it's also
22:07yasmin
22:08i feel like i already know this person
22:10very well
22:11and that shows me
22:13that it's worth taking a risk for her
22:15ah
22:19i'm really in love
22:20i'm really
22:21in love
22:22with this
22:23feeling of being here with you
22:25being here with you
22:27was really indescribable
22:28there's a little magic
22:29there's a little tingle
22:31yes
22:31that's true
22:32it never crossed my mind
22:34that i could have feelings
22:36for someone
22:36without even
22:37having seen that person
22:39and i think i knew
22:41the most important thing
22:42about you
22:43which is that you're a strong man
22:45exactly what i needed
22:46in terms of character
22:47and the way you fought for me
22:49no one has ever done that before
22:51you're worth it
22:53thank you
22:54yasmin
22:59i'd like
23:01to ask you
23:02if you would please stand up
23:03oh my god
23:06what i feel for you right now
23:17is so crazy
23:17and so
23:18just beautiful
23:20i'm getting down
23:24on one knee
23:25because
23:26i want to ask
23:28if you would want to continue
23:29this journey with me
23:30and if you would like to be my wife
23:35yes
23:41i would
23:43yes of course
23:44that's so beautiful
23:48oh god
23:49i didn't think it would feel like this
23:57really
24:00oh my god
24:01oh my god man
24:02well i'm engaged
24:06and so are you
24:08engaged
24:08married
24:09i'm gonna drink to us now
24:11me too
24:12kisses
24:15well it feels new
24:21and exciting
24:22and emotional
24:23yeah
24:24crazy
24:25i'm engaged
24:26i really feel like i'm in very good hands
24:33i feel like andy will look after me
24:35and until then i'll just be a little bundle of nerves
24:39who wants to go jump on her man
24:40finally
24:41i can't describe how i'm feeling
24:50everything now all in one
24:55i'm most looking forward to when the door opens
24:59and when we walk towards each other
25:01seeing a big wide smile on her face
25:04being able to see that she's happy to see me
25:07and then holding one another
25:08so i feel a bit sick
25:13i could actually burst with excitement right now
25:17i really want to see him
25:18i'm looking forward to that moment
25:20when we can just run into each other's arms
25:22oh god
25:45hi
25:49hello
25:52hi
25:53oh it's great to see you
25:58it's great to see you
26:00oh god
26:09oh my god
26:11you're pretty tall
26:15yes
26:16i'm wearing high heels
26:19yes that's good
26:20oh yes
26:22you're so handsome
26:23you're so beautiful
26:24we've begun such a beautiful journey
26:28and we've really built a connection with each other
26:30even though we've never even seen each other in real life
26:33but what really matters is
26:34looking into your eyes now
26:36amazing
26:37it's like
26:38looking at you and seeing into your soul
26:42now i'm gonna get down
26:43on one knee
26:45because i want to ask you this again
26:48i ask you yasmin
26:51will you be my wife
26:52and continue this journey with me
26:54yes
26:55yes i will
26:57oh i have to put the ring on you
26:59yes
27:00oh how sweet
27:02my hands are so cold
27:13come on let's sit down
27:14oh god
27:15beautiful dress
27:18thank you
27:19oh man
27:21when you walked up to me just now i thought
27:25what this is amazing
27:26this can't be real
27:27you're super beautiful
27:28you're a beautiful woman inside and out
27:31i want to smell you
27:34you smell really good
27:39thank you
27:40i think kissing you is
27:46something i'd like to do more often
27:48like this
27:51i'm not worried about the chemistry
27:56me neither
27:56me neither
27:58just crazy
27:59i don't want to leave
28:01bye
28:02oh man
28:11i don't want to
28:13we'll see each other again soon
28:14i don't want to
28:16i don't want to
28:18i don't want to
28:18i don't want to
28:19i don't want to
28:19i don't want to
28:20i don't want to
28:21i don't want to
28:22i don't want to
28:22i don't want to
28:23i don't want to
28:23i don't want to
28:24i don't want to
28:25i don't want to
28:26i don't want to
28:27i don't want to
28:28i don't want to
28:29i don't want to
28:30i don't want to
28:31i don't want to
28:32i don't want to
28:33i don't want to
28:34i don't want to
28:35i don't want to
28:36i don't want to
28:37i don't want to
28:38oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
28:53oh my god oh god i did everything right he's hot
29:00that feeling when your lips touch that person becomes real
29:07it's just overwhelming guys he's tall
29:12i think i can take on the protector role for yasmin now she can lean on my broad shoulders
29:19and yes she's a little shorter than me but she likes that she's so sexy and when i look
29:24into her eyes the sparks fly it's just like a dream
29:28i genuinely like andy more than the ring
29:34hey i'm so happy
29:37a first vacation together can be challenging
30:00but i'm happy that so many couples have found each other
30:04so much for germans being reserved
30:09five couples have fallen in love and even gotten engaged
30:20wow this is really beautiful
30:25okay crazy wow i can't believe this is real beautiful
30:33oh excuse me i just wanted to there's another door here
30:37how does it feel to be together without a wall in between
30:41awesome
30:42i miss the kisses
30:46me too
30:47we're gonna have a great time
30:54we're gonna have a really great time
30:56yeah fill it up it's okay
30:58oh honey i need this
31:00no
31:01yeah nice to see you too
31:02the feeling of being engaged is sinking in now
31:06i have to look at the ring a lot to remind myself
31:08unreal
31:10i feel grown
31:11i thought i was gonna screw it up
31:13really
31:13yeah
31:14and most importantly
31:16what will happen when our newly engaged couples
31:18meet the other couples for the first time
31:21that could get interesting
31:24under the cretin sun
31:26we'll see if love is really blind
31:28okay now i'm curious to see what's in your suitcase
31:42i don't even know which side i'm opening right now
31:44you packed yours really well
31:46yeah i even packed by color
31:48i color sort my closet too
31:49yeah of course you brought purple
31:52yes it's a must
31:53yeah so i definitely brought a lot of blazers
31:58and sorted them by color
31:59most of my stuff is satin
32:01i also brought some high heels
32:04i like walking around in high heels
32:06on fashion
32:08and you're not
32:09right now i feel a little underdressed next to you
32:12you'll rarely see me walking around in jeans
32:15let me see what i can
32:17what can i find here
32:18it's really not looking good
32:19so of course you kind of feel your way around the other person a little
32:24and as we're now spending time together
32:27and we're going from zero to 100
32:29the small differences that you notice and pick up
32:31start to become really obvious
32:33compared to the things
32:34we learned about one another by talking in the pods
32:37and i think i'm gonna struggle with that from time to time
32:41oh my god
32:44oh my god
32:46oh my god
32:46okay
32:48awesome
32:52okay but not with our shoes
32:55no they'll stay down there
32:56yeah
32:56yeah
32:57look isn't it lovely
32:59yeah awesome
33:01crazy
33:02this closeness that i have with her feels so familiar
33:05and when i hold her it feels like i've known this person for so much longer
33:09it's exactly how i pictured it just glued together like this
33:14mine
33:16olympic
33:18olympic
33:18yes that's perfect
33:19i like being olympic
33:22maybe we both didn't have the easiest childhoods with various losses or people we couldn't trust 100%
33:29and that's why i already know her quite well in that respect and know what she needs
33:35here's a little something
33:37my god they're so cute
33:45in case it gets a bit cold
33:46oh how nice
33:46you're so sweet
33:49i know she likes cats
33:50i'm also a total cat fan
33:52and i wanted to get to say that we belong together
33:55flufo really like them
33:57i just think that she
33:59sees me as someone who can give her security
34:02and that's what i want to emanate
34:04because as soon as you plant
34:06a seed of doubt or insecurity
34:08it's a vicious cycle that you can't stop
34:11will you be needing hangers
34:21i have all the hangers looked
34:24okay the issue of tidiness will definitely be a big one
34:30you think
34:31are you messy or do you think you're messy
34:33yes at the moment i do now
34:35but the most important thing first
34:37my pillow
34:38it's a game changer
34:42you may laugh now but once you've laid on it
34:45you'll love it
34:45wow
34:47get your laugh now
34:48i have a lint shaver with me
34:50if you need one
34:51do you think that's weird too
34:54of course everything you have is weird
34:56he's very particular about a lot of things
34:59you can't bring a lint shaver with you
35:03you're 33 not 83
35:05well lint doesn't care how old you are
35:08lint happens to young people too you know
35:11oh i can't take it
35:13he's driving me crazy
35:15i think that makes gunner feel insecure for one second
35:18i'm not taken seriously
35:20what
35:20huh
35:21i don't know what makes me think
35:22yeah i don't know either
35:23and then he thinks what's her problem
35:24this is totally normal
35:25i think it's jealousy
35:26but i said you can borrow it
35:28i'm not like that
35:28i said you can borrow it
35:31i love rolling my eyes
35:32and with him i can do that 24 7
35:34but you think you're totally normal
35:37up until now
35:38yeah i'm just asking for a friend
35:40there's constant banter
35:41if she didn't like me she wouldn't do it
35:43at least that's what i tell myself
35:45maybe that's naive but i want to tell myself
35:47that there's something affectionate about it
35:49i'm really excited
35:58this time
35:59just being here
36:02in the sun
36:05with the pool
36:06what else
36:08i'm totally love hungry for sure
36:14that means i always want more
36:16i should jump right in
36:22how about that
36:24i've really made the choice
36:38to let myself fall into it and
36:40show him the love i truly feel
36:43that looks great
36:44you look really good in there too
36:46i wonder what
36:50consti's doing
36:51just kidding
36:54really
36:54consti's doing fine
36:55believe me
36:56but i'm
36:59feeling it's a little one-sided
37:01to some extent
37:02whoa
37:03so cold now
37:04i guess he needs a little time
37:06to warm up to it all
37:07things are gonna get cozy
37:21yeah they are
37:22now
37:23yes
37:23yeah come on tell me
37:24tell me now
37:25is that your zodiac sign
37:26mmm sagittarius
37:28jm
37:30those are my initials
37:32yes
37:33no
37:35yes
37:36yeah i already know
37:38exactly
37:40those are my parents
37:41really
37:42oh look that's so crazy
37:44yeah
37:45your blue eyes
37:51what's 0928
38:00what's september 28
38:01day of my surgery
38:01really
38:03wow
38:04it's true that i'm definitely
38:10more health conscious
38:11because of my brain tumor
38:13i wasn't for many years
38:14it was a little sign for me
38:16to sometimes
38:17step on the brakes
38:18and just live more consciously
38:19and healthy
38:20so tell me
38:23what about smoking
38:24yeah
38:24go on
38:25how much do you smoke in a day
38:27well uh
38:28i'm a little chimney
38:29so i do smoke
38:30a lot
38:31little chimney
38:36yeah
38:37yes i really am
38:41i mean it's not gonna be forever
38:46if maybe at some point
38:48maybe at some point
38:49if everything goes well
38:50you know
38:51a small life is created
38:53then that's the end of it
38:54that would be an advantage for sure
38:55yeah exactly
38:56then yeah
38:57i could bring myself to do it
38:59yeah
38:59yeah yeah
39:00we'll make it work
39:01well
39:03and we better get started quick
39:05right now i'm kind of joking about the smoking
39:13but it'll probably come up as an issue again
39:16oh wow
39:29okay it was so bright oh my god
39:32should i go first or you
39:35no you go first
39:36because otherwise you'll throw me in the pool
39:38i'll go first
39:39let's go
39:44i can definitely tell you work out
39:48i never date people who have a six pack
39:52i prefer when someone has a bit more
39:55more to grab onto
39:57you know a bit chubbier right
39:58like i said i was a bit surprised when i saw what you were wearing
40:01i thought whoa
40:03uh where's my matching outfit
40:06oh nonsense
40:09yeah that will probably work itself out
40:11definitely
40:12but you can dress any way you want
40:14you don't have to dress differently for me
40:17i don't have to
40:17no if we go someplace then it would be nice
40:20but you don't have to
40:22i had a completely different image of you in the pod
40:24what did you think i look like
40:25i imagined you'd probably be wearing blouses and such
40:29um probably cute summer dresses
40:32yeah
40:33yeah
40:33no
40:35no
40:37true but yeah that's the
40:38that's what i had in my mind
40:40so i actually thought you were blonde
40:42really
40:42yeah i thought you were blonde
40:44what else
40:44and that you wouldn't have a beard
40:46not even stubble
40:47this looks like three days
40:49but it's it's actually a tough three weeks
40:50that was
40:52a hard three
40:53a lot of work went into this
40:54so i've never dated anyone
41:01who looks like jan
41:02i think the more i get to know him
41:05the more attractive i'll find him
41:08just because of his personality
41:10go underwater
41:11so at first i did think that there might be a disconnect
41:20with what i personally find really attractive usually
41:24and i also thought that lohan might not necessarily be my type
41:29and that's why it's really exciting for me to find out how i'll deal with this
41:33we're definitely living our lives to the fullest
41:41a hundred percent
41:43yeah
41:43120
41:44120
41:45yeah
41:46hey this is so crazy right
41:49my gut feeling kept telling me
41:52just do it
41:53he's the right man
41:54he's the one
41:57he's the one
41:58he's the one
41:59i've never had such a strong feeling before in my life
42:05really
42:06no never
42:07putting a little pressure on me now
42:08why
42:11i don't know
42:12why pressure
42:13what pressure
42:13expectations
42:14what do you mean expectations
42:16well i want to meet them
42:18well uh
42:19i don't have any expectations
42:20it is what it is
42:21and that's good
42:22my head sometimes says
42:23hey wait a minute
42:24you don't really know this woman yet right
42:26wait and see
42:27tell me what you're thinking
42:31what it'd be like to see each other
42:33for the first time again
42:34yes
42:35look what my heart keeps telling me is
42:38yeah go with it
42:39everything's fine right
42:40yeah i knew it from the start
42:41same as you
42:42but my head
42:43because i've often let myself be guided by emotions
42:46and sometimes they go
42:47they went in the wrong direction
42:49in the wrong direction
42:49yes
42:50so my head is always like
42:51what will it be like
42:53i don't know
42:53she's a very strong personality
42:56i would say the same about myself
42:57that'll lead to difficulties
42:59i'll play jesus
43:16and break the bread
43:18get used to it
43:23hey for the rest of my life
43:24it's pretty intense
43:25it's a long time right
43:26pretty hard man
43:26whoa
43:27yes
43:28i promise you i'll never change
43:29man
43:29great
43:33you wanted the real me
43:34my good sense of humor
43:37better lie then
43:38that won't work
43:42we don't want cramps in the pool
43:43now i know why you don't want kids
43:48why
43:49because you wouldn't be able to handle the
43:51kids are allowed to make a mess
43:52your logic makes absolutely no sense
43:55by nature he just has these german dad vibes
44:00um i
44:03i just think it's a shame that i'll never get to meet his kids and meet our kids
44:08because i think we'd be great parents
44:11i think that you have to personally feel that just once to be able to let it go
44:17i'm so scared that i um made a hasty decision
44:22i just trust you to be honest with yourself and then with me and however you feel is fine
44:30with me
44:30but it hasn't put me off so far
44:34and because i know myself so well i know that i i mean i don't feel like i'm suppressing
44:40it that's why it's actually fine for me i thought about it for three whole days
44:45i must know what i'm doing
44:47yeah
44:49i've had many years to form this decision and imagine my life without children
44:55for her though the subject is still quite new
44:58of course it will raise questions or bring up fears
45:01i don't think the subject will ever be fully dealt with but i want to live my life with josie
45:06and even though it sounds harsh i know i don't want children
45:10but other than that the setting is very conducive to feeling good
45:17you too of course
45:19it's important to me to get close to my partner and for that level of intimacy to be there for
45:29it to work and i think everyone finds their partner attractive i'm no exception
45:33those little touches and a kiss is part of that that's what's missing um right now but because
45:41the first kiss hasn't happened you can't go any further just yet
45:44because gunner isn't pushing me and i was able to tell him very openly that i have trouble opening
45:53up to someone physically if i'm not sure of everything one thousand percent he's holding back a little
46:00he's very very sensitive and always make sure to look after me and that's why it's so easy for me
46:11to let myself go and accept his closeness
46:13you
46:26why are you laughing
46:45i'm just happy
46:47you're happy
46:48no i thought it was terrible
46:51yeah there's a difference between thinking something is nice and being happy
46:56enjoy your meal
47:17enjoy your meal
47:18ah i'm curious
47:21do you catch feelings fast
47:26well i do think i catch feelings quickly
47:31if a person treats me right then then it happens quickly
47:34you would have to be romantic
47:38otherwise it doesn't work
47:41it's the only way
47:42yeah i'm a lover girl i love love yeah i love it really
47:48i live for it i love romance
48:02a lot is coming at me i know the expectations are there and um i have to decide for myself whether
48:08i can keep up with this pace
48:15i'm the opposite especially the word love i'm careful about what i say it i think i said it to one person my whole life
48:21really
48:22so the stuff i'm thinking about that's not what he's thinking about
48:37i can see that purely in terms of energy and the way we think we're on a different level
48:44i'm afraid
48:51you make this very sexy
49:05mm-hmm totally
49:07yeah
49:14mm-hmm sweetie
49:17it's so weird that it's so
49:20it fits
49:22yeah
49:23yeah
49:24crazy right
49:25a little scary
49:26just a little
49:27yeah
49:28but just a little there's a certain underlying fear that you'll just say yeah no i think i've changed my mind
49:35Yasmin told me that she's always been disappointed by men in the past that's why she's cautious with the new man
49:42let's always be honest with each other and be good to each other and communicate openly
49:48that's what we've always said and then nothing can go wrong
49:52wow the water's amazing
50:06i'll join you then
50:07when i see Yasmin i see a person in front of me who has everything in harmony
50:11oh you can stand?
50:13it'll go up to here for me you'll see
50:15yeah just a beautiful woman
50:22gasping for air
50:24if i compare how i felt after the reveal i was still feeling nervous and excited
50:30but now it's better i have this sense of security
50:34and so now i'm less reserved than i was
50:37oh god you're so silly
50:39intense
50:40i got you
50:42don't worry
50:43i got you so don't worry
50:48i got you
50:50i got you
50:51i got you
50:52are there electrical outlets for my chargers? i have three more shavers that i need to charge
51:08i'm sure
51:09what do you mean three more?
51:10i brought them with me
51:11why do you have so many shavers with you?
51:13well for my head, my beard, and everything south of my chest
51:17i had to figure out what works best
51:19i can't do this anymore
51:20i'm afraid
51:21it seems effortless but it's a lot of work
51:23this hairstyle
51:24can someone please come and collect me? i can't do this anymore
51:28should i close my eyes for five minutes and then see what you look like?
51:31maybe i'll be surprised
51:33maybe you'll run away when you see me without makeup
51:46yeah i like that
51:49sweet
51:50sweet
51:51very sweet
51:52i can tell that
51:54with him that this is all real
51:56that the attraction is in the
51:59the way he looks at me
52:01i hope it stays this way
52:10i brought something else with me
52:12you have to see it
52:14what did you bring?
52:16i can't take it
52:20i thought today would be the day
52:21no, no, i need separate beds today
52:23really? you're that tired?
52:24let's play footsie a little, Josie
52:25leave me alone
52:26no way
52:27coming to bed with non-slip socks?
52:29that's crossing a line
52:31alright
52:33you're narrow-minded so i'll take them off
52:35will i continue to grow up after the age of 12?
52:37they're a size 15 they're for adults
52:39you're messing with me
52:41they're really difficult to find
52:43what? oh god
52:44how are you so proud of that?
52:46what do you mean proud?
52:47i just like to share when i have something nice
52:49it's not nice
52:50the experience is nice
52:52the experience is nice
52:53come back here please
53:00i'm only wearing the right one right now
53:03you're not seriously still
53:04no, not really
53:06i thought so
53:10it's because you said i shouldn't lie
53:12his presence just really grounds me
53:18it's just really nice
53:19that's what i'm looking for
53:29okay, which side is usually yours?
53:32i usually sleep in the middle
53:35so i guess that's not an option here
53:37right, i always sleep where i'm least likely to be snatched by a monster at night
53:41it's over there
53:42yes
53:43yes, perfect
53:44we should also check if there's anything lurking under the bed
53:48there's nothing, nothing
53:50i wouldn't say we're being flirty with each other
53:53i think lawan is a really beautiful woman
53:56but objectively measuring attractiveness
53:59doesn't necessarily mean that you feel attracted to someone
54:06nothing is going to happen before marriage
54:08this is the line
54:09no fingers are going over it
54:11hello
54:12but underneath
54:13behave yourself
54:14behave yourself
54:15come, get one more
54:16come on
54:19goodnight
54:20goodnight
54:21yuck
54:22sleep well jesse
54:23you too, goodnight
54:24okay
54:25yes, goodnight
54:26now come here
54:27here
54:37it's difficult for me
54:38i'm in a situation that i didn't expect
54:42i don't feel how i thought i'd feel
54:48i hope i get a sign that says yes i'm with you and i know that i want to marry you at the end of this experiment
54:53i'm an emotional mess right now
54:59but sometimes the heart doesn't want what the head wants
55:05the heart doesn't want what the head wants
55:06the heart doesn't want what the head wants
55:35or something like that
55:36the heart doesn't want the head wants to be on the other side
55:39i'm gonna show you this all in the exercise
55:42the heart doesn't want the head wants to be on the side
55:44no matter what the head wants
55:46it's very duro
55:50i'm gonna throw you down the table
55:51i'm gonna throw you down the like
55:52in the water
55:53in the water
55:54you've got your own
55:56the blood
55:57and you can make fun
55:59yeah
56:00you
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