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Second Chance Love - Season 1 Episode 3 -
Recipe for Love
Recipe for Love
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00:00Y'all keep going.
00:03Yeah, we almost there.
00:04Great, great, great.
00:05All right, we did it.
00:06Wow.
00:07This process is going great.
00:09Reveal.
00:10Mateen and I are reconnecting with each other, like, so easily.
00:13So it's kind of scary that it's, like, happening so fast.
00:16Cheers.
00:17This is fun.
00:18Just, like, hanging out and kicking it with you.
00:20With Camille and I, there's always been this chemistry
00:23that we have kind of giving me a little bit of the butterflies.
00:28We just knew each other as kids.
00:30We never dated.
00:31Like, this is the dating part.
00:32We're trying to get to know each other.
00:34I don't really have a great sense
00:35of what our romantic compatibility would be like.
00:38You so easily let the relationship go.
00:41Why?
00:42I just could not see myself getting married.
00:45I don't want this man to dump me another time.
00:49Sorry, I'm gonna cry.
00:51I don't know if you guys noticed there's an extra bed in your room.
00:54An extra bed?
00:55Oh, you know, we might have another couple coming.
00:57I'm so excited.
00:58There's a lot at stake.
00:59Is she still gonna feel the same way about me?
01:01I know how I feel about it, but I'm wondering how she feels.
01:04Hello!
01:05There might be a little group excursion today.
01:08What is it?
01:09It will consist of a cooking class.
01:10We're gonna cook together.
01:11Yeah.
01:12Yeah.
01:13Yeah.
01:14Yeah, let's do it.
01:15That's so good.
01:16I have to sit in front, guys, because I have car sick.
01:17Is it lucky if you want me to throw up on the van?
01:18No, that would be unpleasant.
01:19So today, we are going to a cooking class.
01:20So today, we are going to a cooking class.
01:21I feel like cooking together.
01:22is really, really important.
01:23is really, really important in a relationship.
01:24I feel like cooking together is really, really important in a relationship.
01:25I've been seeing how well it is.
01:26And it will consist of a cooking class.
01:27We're gonna cook together.
01:28Yeah.
01:29Yeah, let's do it.
01:30That's so good.
01:33I have to sit in front, guys, because I have car sick.
01:35Is it lucky if you want me to throw up on the van?
01:38No, that would be unpleasant.
01:45So today, we are going to a cooking class.
01:49I feel like cooking together is really, really important in a relationship.
01:54and seeing how well we work together.
01:56You could say it's romantic.
02:10Wow.
02:11Oh, my goodness.
02:12This is incredible.
02:13Buongiorno.
02:14Buongiorno.
02:15Buongiorno.
02:16This is crazy.
02:17What are we making here?
02:19What is this?
02:20We will make our traditional pasta from Sardinia.
02:24Ravioli di ricotta.
02:25Oh, yes.
02:26Yes.
02:27Oh, wow.
02:28Bacon pasta.
02:29I think I figured that out.
02:30Yes.
02:31Wow.
02:32Authentic Italian pasta is just, this is great.
02:37He is the best chef in the island.
02:38Yes.
02:39His name is Pietro.
02:40My name is Pietro.
02:41So Pietro and Pietro and Pietro.
02:45Pietro and Pietro.
02:46Pietro, Pietro.
02:47Pietro.
02:48He doesn't speak English.
02:49So I will translate for you.
02:50Perfect.
02:51Excellent.
02:52All right.
02:53All right.
02:54Yes.
02:55So we must be kneading the pasta.
02:58Now?
02:59Yeah.
03:00Now?
03:01He has to do as he is doing.
03:03You circle.
03:04You go.
03:05Put a little bit of water.
03:06Little, little bit.
03:07Yes.
03:08And then start kneading.
03:10He's moving.
03:11It's amazing how quickly he did that.
03:13It's not that simple.
03:14Just like love.
03:16Just like love.
03:17However.
03:18As the weather goes.
03:20Yes.
03:21Mateen and I have never cooked before.
03:22I think we've only had his mom's cooking.
03:25Because we were so young when we dated.
03:27So this should be very interesting.
03:29More water, Paul.
03:30Little bit.
03:31Mmm.
03:32I had no idea how to make pasta.
03:33I didn't even know.
03:34I mean, it's not that complicated.
03:35I should have known.
03:36Oh, I'm thinking of pasta.
03:37But I just like adding the right amount of water.
03:41And then kneading, Paul and I kneading together.
03:44You know, it's just, it has to be the right consistency.
03:47Not unlike a relationship.
03:49I just thought about that.
03:51Pasta is like a relationship.
03:54You guys see how flour I'm eating?
03:56Good enough.
03:58When are you going to take my eyebrow off?
04:01Oh, God.
04:03So, good job.
04:04Good job.
04:05I love this.
04:06Yeah.
04:07It must become like this.
04:09So then you will do a line and you will cut.
04:12It's Blake.
04:13Oh, my gosh.
04:16That's hard.
04:18Right?
04:19Go like this.
04:20And kneading it.
04:21Blake, he always takes over when I'm like not knowing what to do or he helps me.
04:27He's giving a little, like, massage, you know?
04:30And that is something really, really important in a relationship.
04:33Because even just the little things, they mean so much.
04:36That arm workout today, you know?
04:38The man of the house.
04:39Good job, everybody.
04:40So now we are going to put the pasta from one size big to a size little bit smaller.
04:51You do it in increments, correct?
04:52Exactly.
04:53Slowly get it thinner and thinner.
04:54Exactly.
04:55Ooh, careful, careful.
04:56We are going to put a ricotta that is very typical from Sardinia.
05:00The best ricotta is the ricotta of Perfugas.
05:03Can we taste the ricotta?
05:05Of course.
05:06I like to do everything in the kitchen.
05:11How do you feel about cooking with someone?
05:13Like, can you have someone else in the kitchen?
05:15No, I like to take control.
05:17I love to cook so then I'm like, I need a man to fix my car.
05:21I want makeup.
05:22That's hard, though.
05:23I don't know.
05:24I feel like I can, like, learn a lot about her.
05:26She is very much a take charge type of person.
05:29So I kind of let her take the lead a little bit.
05:31But I want to be in the kitchen with someone.
05:34I want to have that relationship where we're kind of doing things together.
05:37I don't even let somebody clean up.
05:39That's not her style.
05:41And that doesn't always feel good.
05:44Sifra Couset.
05:46Wow, look at that.
05:47Look at these raviolis.
05:51Okay.
05:52All around.
05:53Oh my goodness.
05:54All around.
05:55Okay.
05:56Yay!
05:57That was amazing.
05:59My name is Autumn.
06:00I'm 27 years old and I'm from San Angelo, Texas.
06:04I'm here right now in Italy to see Calvin.
06:06He invited me out here for a second chance at love.
06:12My name is Calvin.
06:13I am 34 years old and I'm from Boston, Massachusetts.
06:19The reason I'm here in Italy is to finally rekindle with someone I had deep feelings for.
06:25Calvin and I met six years ago.
06:26I was in college in Alpine and he was there to play baseball.
06:32and I'm from Boston, Massachusetts.
06:34The reason I'm here in Italy is to finally rekindle
06:37with someone I had deep feelings for.
06:41Calvin and I met six years ago.
06:43I was in college in Alpine,
06:45and he was there to play baseball.
06:48First time I saw Autumn,
06:49I met her during the baseball season.
06:51I was playing professional baseball, and I spotted her.
06:54I said, all right, she is beautiful.
06:55He came up, introduced himself.
06:57We exchanged numbers, she was great vibes.
07:00We ended up hitting it off,
07:01and we're together for about five months.
07:05We had really strong feelings for each other.
07:07He was someone that I was just instantly comfortable with.
07:10I fell in love, come to know she felt the same way,
07:14but I was leaving,
07:15and she was gonna stay back in college.
07:17We was in two different parts of our lives.
07:19He was playing travel ball.
07:21When he had to leave, it was really hard for both of us,
07:23and I was really emotional about it.
07:25So calling her and telling her about this opportunity,
07:29she was very excited for that.
07:31I think now is a good time to try to reunite
07:34and see if we could be something more.
07:37We only have two weeks here
07:38to see if this is something that is gonna work.
07:41We kind of got off to a late start.
07:44My flight was delayed.
07:46Still no bags.
07:50I'm pretty nervous to see Calvin,
07:53but I'm also very excited,
07:54and I know he's been waiting a couple of days
07:56for me to get here.
07:57So it's about time I finally show up.
08:01I got butterflies.
08:02I'm nervous.
08:03My hands are shaking.
08:04She's grown.
08:05I've grown as a person.
08:07I'm wondering if she still feels the same about me.
08:10My biggest fear with seeing Calvin again
08:12is that he won't feel the same spark as he did before.
08:16Six years is a really long time.
08:18I know how I feel about it,
08:20but it's just, can it happen again?
08:35I think it's amazing
08:36that they're actually gonna take
08:38what we actually made today,
08:40and we're here to try and see.
08:42See how good we are?
08:43Right.
08:43Mine's gonna be good.
08:45Oh my God, okay, I'm in heaven.
08:49Oh, thank you.
08:50This is what we made?
08:51Oh my goodness.
08:52That ricotta was so good.
08:53Oh my gosh.
08:54Only one.
08:55Only one.
08:56That's it.
08:57Okay.
08:58That's it.
08:59Oh, you're not gonna pray with me?
09:00That's how you feel?
09:01Sorry, cool, that's fine.
09:02You think you can just do that alone?
09:03I'll let you go.
09:04No, you go.
09:05Dear Father, please bless this food
09:06that we're about to receive.
09:07Thank you for this experience.
09:08I'll let you go.
09:09I'll let you go.
09:10No, you go.
09:11Father, please bless this food
09:12that we're about to receive.
09:13Thank you for this experience.
09:14And it's bringing us closer.
09:16In God's name I pray.
09:17Amen.
09:18Mm-hmm.
09:19I want the moment of truth together.
09:21All right, here we go, here we go.
09:27It's the real deal.
09:28Cheers.
09:29Cheers.
09:31Wow.
09:33What?
09:33Is that real?
09:34That just hits the spot.
09:36Oh my gosh.
09:37We created that together.
09:38I know.
09:39Mm-hmm.
09:41Mm-hmm.
09:43Wow.
09:44They're like tiny little pillows of joy.
09:46Oh my goodness.
09:55I think normally when I have pasta, tastes like pasta.
09:59The ravioli we made, not to brag, but it was incredible.
10:05Give a hand to yourself.
10:07Give a hand to yourself, okay?
10:08So good.
10:09So good.
10:10So good.
10:12So good.
10:13So good.
10:14So good.
10:16So good.
10:17So good.
10:18So good.
10:19So good.
10:20So good.
10:21So good.
10:22So good.
10:23So good.
10:24So good.
10:25So good.
10:26So good.
10:27So good.
10:28So good.
10:29So good.
10:30So good.
10:31Hi, how are you?
10:35What's up? Oh, my God.
10:39I'm so happy to see you.
10:41Six years?
10:43It's too long.
10:46I feel I'm starstruck.
10:50Real quick, set up, you know, a little picnic for us.
10:54I know, you know, you like views.
10:58Here you go. Let's take a seat.
11:01So, six long years, huh?
11:08Feels like 20.
11:12This is surreal to me.
11:14I know.
11:16You look as beautiful as you do, so you haven't changed a bit.
11:21I was going to say, you look exactly the same.
11:25So don't mind me if I'm a little, you know, jittery, I got butterflies.
11:29Oh, definitely.
11:29See, you still give me the butterflies.
11:32You still give me the butterflies.
11:33That's a good thing.
11:34When I first saw you, the same butterflies.
11:37You know?
11:38It's a good start.
11:39It's a good start.
11:39Yeah, 100%.
11:40So why did me to come out here and try to get a second chance with?
11:47I feel like we had a good thing, just at the wrong time.
11:55I agree.
11:59There was a lot going on.
11:59There was a lot going on in different places.
12:01And the long distance.
12:03It would have been hard for us to try to make something work then.
12:07You know, I didn't want to keep living, like, thinking, like, what if, or I should have, or we should have.
12:13So that's why you was first-round draft pick.
12:19Thank you for the reunion.
12:27To the reunion.
12:28Why did you ask that?
12:29So I just wanted to see if it could be something in the future for us.
12:34That's music to my ears.
12:38So, oh.
12:43Where is it?
12:44Yeah, we're good.
12:45Nope, wait.
12:46Don't say we're good.
12:47Yeah, we're good.
12:50It's gone, it's gone.
12:56It felt like nothing has changed.
12:59It was like we, you know, we started off where we left off from before.
13:02I felt like I could sit up here all day and just, like, watch the boats and stuff move around.
13:06I know, that's why I picked it out.
13:08I know you like this type of thing.
13:09It's super pretty.
13:10I'm glad you enjoy it.
13:12I'm glad you like it.
13:13I was pretty nervous, I'm not going to lie.
13:15But for that being the first time, with us seeing each other in six years, I have no complaints.
13:21My mom told me I know how to pick them a little bit.
13:23All right, leave.
13:24Yeah?
13:25Yeah?
13:25Can we make the transition to having a deeper level of intimacy?
13:34If you want, like, marriage and kids again, because that's what I'm looking for.
13:38I thought that you knew this.
13:40He is hot and cold with me.
13:42It's 45 years ago, you know, he did let me go.
13:44I wanted to reminisce about when we broke up, or as you like to say, I dumped you.
13:50It's kind of heavy.
13:51Yeah, I know.
13:51I don't know what the future holds.
14:02Are they here?
14:04It's so pretty, right?
14:05Wow.
14:05It's beautiful.
14:06We have new people?
14:07Yeah.
14:08Finally.
14:08Hi!
14:09Hey, guys, we got a little surprise for you.
14:11Yes, we do.
14:12Oh, hi, guys.
14:13What's so mean?
14:13I'm Camille.
14:14Hi, Adam.
14:15I'm your roommate.
14:15Our next couple.
14:17The next couple's here, guys.
14:18Oh, my God.
14:20There's new people.
14:21Oh, my God.
14:22I'm Calvin.
14:23Welcome.
14:24Well, welcome.
14:25Yeah, welcome.
14:26You guys had some trouble getting here, right?
14:28Was it you?
14:29A little bit.
14:30It was L.A., had to stay the night in London, and then I just showed up today with no bags.
14:36They didn't make it either.
14:38No, it's coming.
14:39I know it's coming.
14:40I hope your bags come here tomorrow.
14:43We're going to leave you guys to it.
14:44Glad everybody met.
14:45Bye.
14:45Bye.
14:46Bye.
14:46Bye.
14:46Bye.
14:46Bye.
14:46Bye.
14:46Bye.
14:47Bye.
14:47Bye.
14:50This is kind of like your little patio area.
14:52Okay.
14:52This is funny.
14:53I'm a realtor, so I'm just like showing you the property.
14:57This is our living room, you know?
14:59Smooth.
15:01Come on in.
15:03Yes, this is your bed.
15:05I bet you're so happy to be here.
15:09I am.
15:10It's cool to see Calvin and Autumn finally here.
15:12We honestly have such a great group.
15:14We're here to support and just be welcoming.
15:17Let us know if there's anything we can help you with.
15:20And, you know, I think I have some extra pajamas, too.
15:23Brand new pair, actually.
15:24So this is where we will be sleeping.
15:28And so I'm here.
15:30And then Mateen's there.
15:31And then I'm in the middle.
15:34Let's do it.
15:35This is going to be cool, dude.
15:37This is going to be cool.
15:39The more the merrier.
15:40It's kind of like throwing me back to freshman dorms.
15:42It's funny.
15:45My one thing, though, is I like to sleep.
15:48Fingers crossed he doesn't snore.
15:51We all get to do, like, a little bros, like, you know this thing?
15:55Yeah.
15:55You know?
15:56Like, yes.
15:57Yes.
15:57Yes.
15:58Yes.
15:59Yeah.
15:59Bro's up in the hall.
16:00All right, let's never do that again.
16:11Tonight is mine and Alan's first date.
16:15It always feels like when we were kids with a little crush.
16:18But I hope that this date will change the dynamic a little bit.
16:24I think it's important to kind of explore the romantic connection
16:28because we met in seventh grade.
16:32You ready, my dear?
16:33We've never really had space to move past this kind of, like, middle school dynamic.
16:38Lookin' all cute.
16:39Thanks.
16:40This is really the first time that I'm seeing her kind of in her full womanhood.
16:47And she's seeing me in my manhood.
16:50And, yeah, I'm a little nervous about it.
16:55Shelby?
16:55We look like we're about to storm a boardroom.
16:58Oh, my gosh, this is eggs.
17:04Is this it?
17:04Is this it?
17:05Wow.
17:07This is it.
17:08Yum.
17:08Come on.
17:10Why don't we sit, like, across from our people, our partner?
17:14I think this is me.
17:16Is this the tartar?
17:17This is the tartar.
17:18Wow.
17:18It looks like it needs to be cooked.
17:21Sparkling.
17:21So excited.
17:23It's just too great.
17:25Bon appetit.
17:26It's dangerous walking here because I'm looking at everything but where I'm going.
17:35Going on this date with Alan, I'm ready to open up and see what kind of feelings pop up.
17:41Reservations for Alan?
17:42Please.
17:42Oh, my goodness.
17:45Wow.
17:45Watch your step.
17:46Wow.
17:47I want to know who she is as a woman and what sort of things, you know, she wants in her life.
17:54And if we have compatibility around that.
17:57I'm just excited to have more conversations with her and kind of check in.
18:00This is really, really nice of you, the setting.
18:04You look amazing.
18:05Thank you so much.
18:07You look so nice, too.
18:09So how are you feeling?
18:11It's been incredible spending time with you, getting to know you a little bit better.
18:15Yeah, and I think I'm curious about what sparks romance for you.
18:23You know, that takes time.
18:26Growing up, my parents showed me love in a different way.
18:29Right.
18:30And that it was kind of seen as like, no, it's not good to be like that in public.
18:35I would never see my mom and my dad kiss before.
18:40If you're in a relationship with someone, are you comfortable with affection?
18:44Behind closed doors, yes.
18:45Oh, wow.
18:46Yeah.
18:46Yeah.
18:47Of course.
18:48Are you an affectionate person?
18:51Yeah, yeah, yeah.
18:53I like physical affection, being warm, and in my marriage in particular, it was not, you
19:00know, very affectionate.
19:03I'm definitely kind of more conscious of that and conscious of the consequences of not having
19:08that, you know, in a relationship.
19:10Have you ever thought about what it would be like to be in relationship with me, like romantically?
19:17I have not, because I just thought, you know, we're just really good friends.
19:23You said that you haven't felt a spark from here, and I feel that.
19:27I didn't say that I never had a spark with you.
19:30Oh, okay.
19:30I never said that.
19:31Say more.
19:32I did have that spark for you.
19:34Right now, I'm trying to relive that.
19:37Like, I'm going back now.
19:39Oh, really?
19:40Yeah.
19:41I need to stop drinking.
19:43Are you getting both?
19:44I love it.
19:44Maybe you're getting a spark.
19:46Oh.
19:51It's called getting the ball rolling, Leslie.
19:53So you may not know this, but we play games.
19:56I have some questions, and I'm going to ask Paul a question.
19:59Paul, are you ready?
20:01Born ready.
20:02Okay.
20:02What do you think my view on marriage is?
20:07Oh, God.
20:08You didn't say that we're going to be easy.
20:09Pick another one.
20:11No, no.
20:13You think it's a good thing.
20:15You know, I don't know.
20:15You were married.
20:16Married a great guy.
20:17I should have asked you before he did.
20:21But that has nothing to do with that question.
20:23I just thought I'd throw that in.
20:24I like it, though.
20:25You can throw in a little something.
20:29What are all your views on marriage?
20:31Okay, I only want to get married at one time in my life.
20:35I don't ever want to have any kind of divorce.
20:39I'm about that, too.
20:40I'm all about just, like, working through things and, like, you know, being able to talk and work things out.
20:45Like your answer.
20:46Communication.
20:46Communication.
20:47Yeah.
20:47About it.
20:49What do you think?
20:50I think marriage is cool.
20:52Everybody thinks a marriage is the wedding.
20:54It's not just the wedding.
20:55It's a lot after the wedding.
20:57I'm terrified.
20:58I love the honesty.
21:02I just want to make sure that my children are protected, like everything that I already have.
21:06And you just want to make sure you mesh with the right person, because you never know.
21:10I would love to have a life partner.
21:15Wrong guy.
21:16Don't do that.
21:16No, I mean, it's definitely something that I understand where you're coming from, but it is, you know, a little creepy.
21:22But it's a beautiful thing.
21:25It's definitely scary.
21:27It's definitely work.
21:28And you've got to find someone that's willing to put the same amount of work in as you.
21:32You are a team, and it's teamwork, and it's how you work together, and your ultimate goals.
21:37I love marriage, and I loved being married.
21:40I haven't been married, so I'm just going off of what I've seen, you know?
21:44But I think it's a beautiful thing.
21:47I like that.
21:48I didn't say that I never had a spark with you.
21:54I think there was that spark, but then I think we just didn't really, like, explore it to this, like this, to this extent.
22:00Right.
22:01You know, when you came to visit me in Vegas, and we tried it out, we had such a great time.
22:07So great.
22:07I mean, it was so much fun.
22:10And then life moved on, right?
22:12Yeah.
22:14First of all, do you feel any spark for me?
22:15Definitely when we reconnected in Vegas as adults, I definitely felt that spark, and to the point where I was considering, you know, switching up my entire life so that we could explore it.
22:29You did not.
22:30Really?
22:30Yeah.
22:31I seriously considered that, and that was, again, it was like a sliding door moment in my life.
22:37Yeah.
22:37It was like a fork in the road.
22:39I could have gone either way.
22:40So can we make the transition from being friends to having a deeper level of intimacy?
22:48That's kind of the open question right now.
22:50It is open question, and I think that I'm, there is, I feel like there's a possibility for, you know, on my side.
22:58Hmm.
22:58I'm waiting for you to answer and not laugh.
23:08Do what?
23:08I'm waiting for you to-
23:09What were we talking about?
23:10What were we talking about?
23:12Um, don't make me pull one out and start sword fighting.
23:19Absolutely, you know.
23:20Mm-hmm.
23:20I wouldn't, you know, wouldn't have invited you here if I didn't think that.
23:24Yeah.
23:25And, um, I think it could be, like, a pretty explosive, you know, relationship.
23:30No, me too.
23:31I, I wanted to get more deeper into knowing, like, what you wanted in a relationship, and if you want, like, marriage and kids again, and, because that's what I'm looking for.
23:45Um, hopefully.
23:46You do, you do.
23:46I thought that you knew this.
23:48I don't want to get hurt.
23:53I want to go slow with you.
23:55Having someone, like, love me is scary.
23:58It's just, like, pretty much taking us, you know, to the next level.
24:02We talked about, you know, getting married, and-
24:04Oh, wow.
24:05The M word.
24:11I do want to get married again.
24:13Okay.
24:13And I thought that you knew this.
24:16I want to get married again.
24:17And for me to have children.
24:20That's one of the biggest things that I look for in someone.
24:24I want, for them to want the same thing.
24:26Mm-hmm.
24:27And, um, would you be open to having kids?
24:30Um, yeah, for sure.
24:34Yeah.
24:34If I did have another kid, I would want it to be with someone that I care about and a respect and a love.
24:41I would just check the boxes on that for me.
24:43Yeah.
24:43Alan, I'm a full-time single dad.
24:46My kids are, uh, 16 and 11.
24:49I love both of my kids at every stage.
24:52The experience of having children is amazing, and I would love to do it again.
24:57Kids are amazing.
24:58You get to love them at every age.
25:00Yeah.
25:00I tell them that I love them all the time.
25:02I see a softer side of Alan that is nurturing and caring.
25:08He's so genuine about how he wants his kids to be happy, and that touches me.
25:12Because I also want to have kids, and I want to have the experience that he's had.
25:17If we did, you know, have kids or something like that, our kids are going to be gorgeous.
25:23Yeah.
25:23Tall.
25:28It's been really nice for me, you know, like, doing this and to see this side of you.
25:34Cheers.
25:41It's been great talking to you guys.
25:44We're going to exit.
25:46See you later, roomies.
25:47Oh, that was so good, and that was so much fun.
25:50I'll walk you to your room.
25:55You asked me if I snore at night?
25:57Yes.
25:58Well, one day, if you're lucky, you'll find out.
25:59Ah, if I play my cards right?
26:02I might just find out.
26:03Maybe.
26:05Bye.
26:07I thought you didn't let people touch me this public.
26:09No PDAs out there.
26:11Yeah.
26:12This is a lot already.
26:15This is a lot happening.
26:17But, but it's nice.
26:18No.
26:19This is nice.
26:20I guess I should be all right.
26:26You got soft hands.
26:28You were reading my palm the other night.
26:31So I think that you're going to live a long life.
26:33That's good.
26:35And we're going to have 12 kids.
26:3812 kids.
26:39It's a lot.
26:41It's really not.
26:42It's a lot.
26:43If you think about it, like, we're, we could do it.
26:46You know what?
26:48Whatever, whatever, you know.
26:50I think whatever makes you happy, I'm okay with.
26:53How about that?
26:55That makes me happy.
26:57I definitely want to be like a dad someday.
26:59And I definitely want to have, like, a family.
27:01And I want to do all that stuff.
27:03Yeah.
27:03You know.
27:05I don't know.
27:06What are you thinking?
27:08I just want to be, I want to go slow with you.
27:11And, like, you know.
27:15I'm all about that.
27:16It's not that I don't, like, care about you a lot.
27:18You're just like, no, there's absolutely no rush to, like, any of this.
27:23Well, I don't, I don't want to get hurt.
27:25I get scared of, like, those kinds of things.
27:27Like, yeah, like, for me, before coming here, I, I was in a relationship, you know, with her for four years.
27:38Mm-hmm.
27:39Um.
27:41Now, like, tell me a little bit about all that, because, is that weird to ask you?
27:46No.
27:47Because I want, I want you to be open and everything, you know.
27:51Yeah.
27:51Uh, she went to London, and she broke up with me over FaceTime.
27:59That was fun.
28:00And then I thought that she wanted a ring, and I proposed.
28:05What?
28:07And, uh, she left me standing in the middle of the street and drove away, and that was the last time I spoke with her.
28:16And, but you know what?
28:16I wouldn't have traded any of that for the world, because I know that my person would never go and do that to me.
28:29By going through all of that, I'm here now.
28:34Right.
28:35And I never thought that I would be doing any of this, especially, like, with you, and it's just...
28:44And I'll get into my sifts at some point.
28:47I'm not fully ready to open up.
28:51I said, just give me some time.
28:54But I just want to say I really do appreciate you opening up to me.
28:58It means so much.
28:59Like, that truly means the world to me.
29:02Anything for you.
29:03He could be vulnerable with me, so that means a lot.
29:13I need to open up, but I'm just a bit nervous to let him in my heart.
29:22Leslie, Leslie, Leslie, are you...
29:37Sorry.
29:38You okay?
29:39I'm so sorry.
29:39I had to wake you up to tell you had such an amazing day.
29:44We talked about, like, some pretty...
29:46Step you hadn't talked about before.
29:48Yeah, I mean, like, family, you know, like, because I...
29:52We've never spoken about that before, and I told him, like, you know, getting married and...
29:56Oh, wow.
29:57The M word.
29:59Just ask him, like, a general question about, like, marriage and kids.
30:01Would he ever have...
30:02He's willing to have more children.
30:04...marriage and kids ever again.
30:04Yeah.
30:05And it would mean a lot to me and my whole world if I got to, you know, have children one day.
30:13So I'm really glad that we had this time to talk because we just really opened up to one another.
30:18And I think, like, you know, it's just, like, pretty much taking us, you know, to the next level in, like, openness, you know.
30:27Now you can really move forward because you have established, like, what...
30:33Yeah.
30:33I mean, like, honestly, I cannot wait to see Ellen in the morning.
30:38Wow.
30:39I know.
30:40Or just tell me the story all over again in the morning.
30:42Yes.
30:42I don't even remember it.
30:44Yeah.
30:45Okay, good night.
30:54Does he want more children?
30:56Um, I wouldn't know.
30:58I think we need to explore this.
31:02So, about our conversation at the swimming pool.
31:05Are you going to make me cry or something again?
31:07No, no, no.
31:07No, no.
31:07Autumn!
31:08What are you doing?
31:22Getting ready, sir?
31:25I was cleaning up, but, um...
31:39It's better.
31:40You're still a little pasty right here.
31:41I know.
31:42I know.
31:43I know.
31:44Here we are again.
31:46We are again.
31:47Oh, yeah.
31:48Actually, I liked how you did that.
31:50Write it down.
31:51We got plenty of paper.
31:54Ellen.
31:56You're up looking at the pictures?
31:57Yeah, that was so fun yesterday.
32:02Yesterday, we had this romantic evening.
32:06I think it was incredible, actually.
32:09You know, I'm still kind of, like, unpacking it and letting it settle.
32:13I'm trying to learn how to swim.
32:16I know how to float, but as soon as I stick my head up or something, I sink.
32:19Oh.
32:21Would you want to learn how to swim in the pool?
32:23I would, definitely, but no one has ever been successful teaching me how to swim.
32:26You just have to feel safe in the water.
32:29Trust the water?
32:30Yeah.
32:31I have issues with trust.
32:32I want to be in control.
32:34Yeah, yeah.
32:35Like, jump in, three, two, one, and then we all leave you.
32:43Live your best life, Paul.
32:50It's really deep here.
32:52I'm literally on chiptons.
32:53Yeah.
32:56Do you girls have your personality?
32:59At times, but they are Scorpio, so they're very emotional.
33:03But when you talk to Mateen about your family unit and your expectations, does he want more children?
33:10Um, I wouldn't know.
33:12That's a great question.
33:14I think we need to explore this.
33:17Right.
33:18Me and Mateen have been, you know, going with the flow, keeping it light.
33:22And I mean, maybe that's something that we need to flip soon, because we do need to get into those deep conversations and questions.
33:29But I'm sure those things will come up.
33:31How do you even broach that?
33:32So, did you want to have a baby with me?
33:34What are you guys expecting after this?
33:45Because I've done the long-distance stuff, and it's hard.
33:48Same.
33:48Has she been to Boston?
33:49She hasn't.
33:50Okay.
33:51Do you think she would move from Texas?
33:53No, I can move.
33:54Yeah.
33:55I was talking to Leslie about it yesterday.
33:56I was like, would you be cool moving back up to Washington to see Paul?
33:59She's like, yeah, I'm from there.
34:00You're like, I don't have a problem with doing that, so problem solved.
34:02Problem solved.
34:03There you go.
34:04That would have been great.
34:05Yeah.
34:06So listen.
34:08Listen.
34:10Do you feel like something's going to come out of this between you and Paul?
34:15He is hot and cold with me, and I don't know if he's guarding his heart.
34:19I'm guarding my heart, too.
34:21Because 45 years ago, you know, he did let me go.
34:25And so I am not going to be in my 60s and can do it for a second time in my life.
34:31But I'm telling you, I feel like he's all in.
34:33Really?
34:34I think he adores you.
34:35I really do.
34:36But yeah, I think he does.
34:38I think he does.
34:39Okay, cool.
34:39I see it.
34:52This place is adorable.
34:55Two things I want to buy already.
34:57Really?
34:58Razmi and Alan and Paul and I are all going shopping.
35:02What is this store?
35:03Ooh.
35:03Wow.
35:04I'm trying to learn how to swim, and I'm going to find a swimming suit.
35:09I just need a couple outfits.
35:11Also, Paul.
35:12I like that.
35:13You do?
35:14I think someone that Prince would wear.
35:16Okay.
35:17I think it's time that he step up his wardrobe a little bit.
35:20I spare swimsuits over here.
35:22Oh, yes.
35:23Oh, my gosh.
35:23We're going in here.
35:25Okay.
35:25Will you guys have fun?
35:27I can't even take everything.
35:30No, there's not one thing I don't like, so what am I supposed to do?
35:33Paul, look.
35:34You would look so cute in this.
35:35That's actually not bad.
35:37Oh, and in black to be elegant when we go out.
35:42I'm not buying three.
35:43I'll get two.
35:44I'll get two.
35:48You definitely want to pick something that you're going to be comfortable swimming in that'll
35:53help you learn how to swim.
35:55I think that this is going to be very comfortable, but I still don't think that you guys are going
36:04to succeed.
36:04All this time with Alan, especially after our first date, I've gotten to that next level with Alan of openness.
36:17Yeah, I feel like it is going somewhere.
36:20When Leslie and I were dating, my priority was my career.
36:33I think that had a lot to do with why we separated.
36:38Is it me?
36:40Given the chance, if things were to progress in the future, I mean, I wouldn't make that
36:45mistake again.
36:47So, I wanted to reminisce.
36:50I was reminiscing for a moment about our conversation at the swimming pool.
36:55Do you remember?
36:57And when...
36:58It's kind of heavy.
37:00Yeah, no, not too.
37:01Are you going to make me cry or something again?
37:02No, no, no.
37:03I just wanted to, you know, that when we broke up, or as you like to say, I dumped you.
37:10Well, you...
37:11I don't know if I...
37:14You disengaged with me?
37:15I don't know if I told you how...
37:16You uncoupled?
37:18Sorry, how profoundly sorry I am for that.
37:24For that.
37:24Are you?
37:25Well, we have all regrets in life.
37:28And you know that was like my biggest one.
37:30And that, and you wouldn't...
37:32Okay, seriously.
37:33I would never...
37:33Like in your whole life.
37:36Yeah.
37:37Yes.
37:38I don't know what the future holds, but I will never, ever do that again.
37:44So, I just wanted you to know that.
37:46But I'm not going to make the same mistake twice.
37:48Don't be so...
37:49Paul looking in my eyes with such sincerity and such sorrow that he hurt me and that he
38:02truly could empathize.
38:04He could feel what I felt so many years ago.
38:07Oh, my God.
38:08Okay, so this hat, you were looking at this hat, were you?
38:11I won't forget this.
38:12I won't forget this moment ever.
38:13Whatever happens to us, I'm going to know that he is a good soul and he is a good man.
38:19Retail therapy, my old man.
38:22Oh, my God.
38:23Thank you guys so much for the hangers.
38:35You guys are so sweet, though, thinking about your new roommate.
38:39Last night, when we all were like relaxed and it reminded me of high school, like just
38:43chilling and vibing out with friends, listening to music.
38:46It was really nice.
38:47How do you think you and Blake are doing?
38:49I don't know.
38:50I'm just like excited.
38:51Like you're his person, maybe?
38:52You're not.
38:56Oh, baby.
38:57Sorry.
38:58Big question, Leslie.
38:59Oh, it is a big question.
39:00It is a big question.
39:02I think, I think like with me, it is hard for me to open up and I really want to with him,
39:10but I'm just taking it like one step at a time.
39:13So I just, I don't, I'm going slow, slow with everything.
39:16It's hard for me because like I have had bad relationships in the past and like I always,
39:22thought of like, because he was just such a kind hearted person.
39:26He is like somebody that like, like, I just feel like he could be like a great husband.
39:31And so like, that's why I'm trying to like explore those feelings and just everything.
39:36Ooh, we went the husband route.
39:39You said, you heard what they said.
39:41Let me get that fan.
39:42Let me get that fan.
39:43I need the fan.
39:44I'm embarrassed for her.
39:46No, but that's sweet.
39:47That is sweet.
39:48They're like good feelings, but like scary feelings.
39:51Yeah.
39:51You know what I mean?
39:52It's like, I don't know.
39:52But what is your biggest fear?
39:55When somebody gives me so much attention and all of that, it freaks me out.
40:00Oh, and I'm just like, whoa, like we need to back up a little.
40:04It's like, I know that he's such a good guy.
40:05And like with the relationships that I've been in, having someone like love me in like
40:11such a healthy way is scary for me.
40:15To be continued.
40:16Oh, yes.
40:17To be continued.
40:18To be continued.
40:19With the previous relationships that I've been in, I've like, I was really hurt.
40:26I worked on myself for two years and I thought that I was there, you know, like I thought
40:32that I was feeling like, I mean, I do feel confident in myself, but I just hope that
40:39Blake will just give me some time to figure things out.
40:51Come on, ladies.
40:55I just want to see if this can work.
40:59I'm getting flashes of what we had.
41:01Yeah.
41:01Back then.
41:03You know, when somebody gets too close to me, I am just scared.
41:09So we're halfway through.
41:11Would you be romantically interested in me?
41:15Um...
41:15I gotta go.
41:19Yeah?
41:19Yeah.
41:20I didn't tell Shakira yet.
41:22I don't know.
41:41I don't know.
41:44I don't care.
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