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Love Is Blind
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00:00What? This decision? Huh?
00:12Man, he's such a whiff.
00:18I mean, seriously.
00:20Um, yeah.
00:23Seriously, I have to laugh because I'm thinking, you idiot.
00:27But he didn't really get to the point, did he?
00:31Of course not.
00:35I'm really shocked because we ended things with a really nice conversation, and it was nice.
00:53Scoop it in.
00:53Yeah, I just need to think a few things through.
00:55Okay?
00:55So, right now, I'm really upset just because so many emotions are involved and some people have been hurt.
01:04And I'm really sorry about that because I don't want to hurt anyone.
01:08Do you want to talk about what happened or not?
01:10No, no, no. Definitely not. I just want to let it sink in for now.
01:13Yeah, okay.
01:14How can anyone be such a...
01:22How can anyone have so little balls?
01:25I wish I could be sad right now, but what I feel is anger, because I think I expected a lot more from a 42-year-old man, you know?
01:35Yeah, right.
01:36I totally get that Celia is annoyed by this, but I clearly wrote Celia the letter because I want her to kind of understand my decision.
01:49Here, let's read it together.
01:51I just got this letter.
01:53Hello, Celia. The message you got from Nadia probably wasn't easy for you.
01:57You're great, and things could...
01:59She already knows that.
02:00...have worked out.
02:00But she's great.
02:02In the end, instincts and emotions are the deciding factor.
02:05I can't listen to this anymore.
02:06I hope you understand and aren't mad at me.
02:08I hope you understand this decision is right for us both.
02:13With deep respect for you, Andy.
02:16So what does that mean?
02:17I thought he wants Yasmin, right?
02:22I'm dealing with the situation, and I understand the girls' reactions.
02:26I can totally see where they're coming from.
02:29But on the other hand, we're here to find ourselves a man, not to make friends for life.
02:34Hopefully, we all already have those back home.
02:38The thing is, I can't go home with my head held high when I still have so much to say that he should hear.
02:46There are things I want to tell him.
02:48I don't need a weak man doing such a weak move.
02:52No way. That's not for me.
02:54If I get another date, he'll leave here in tears.
02:57Believe me. Believe and trust me on that.
02:59That guy will go home in tears, questioning his entire existence for sure.
03:04I was completely wrong about him.
03:08Over the last few days, I've realized how much you can hold yourself back if you do overthink things.
03:22And I've decided that I finally want to follow my feelings.
03:27I'm nervous because I don't know what to expect in the pod.
03:35My biggest worry is that Jan and I won't leave the pods together.
03:42Because Jan often overthinks things, he might say that he can't do it.
03:48That he can't overcome his fears.
03:50My heart is racing.
04:02Yeah, I don't think I've ever been this nervous.
04:05Oh.
04:07Oh, shoot.
04:08Oh.
04:14Luan, we're getting to know each other totally.
04:20Totally undisturbed by any external, oh, sorry, it's intense, by any external factors that you come across in everyday life.
04:35You know that I always strive to, um, be honest with you.
04:49And you know that I overthink things.
04:55You know that I have a lot of doubts, which I've shared with you in our last dates.
05:04And I can't help but wonder if, if the fear might be greater than the, than the confidence.
05:24But, Luan, you've so often proved to me that I don't need to have these doubts.
05:49I, I doubt myself, but I have no doubt that you and I could become something really great.
05:59You really are.
06:02Nothing less than the human embodiment of my dreams.
06:05And I'd like to invite you to stand up, while I get down, down on one knee, in front of you.
06:18Oh my God.
06:20And I ask you, Luan, would you like to continue this journey and be my wife?
06:31Yes.
06:36Of course.
06:38Oh my God.
06:43Luan.
06:45Luan, we're engaged.
06:49Can you believe it?
06:50Are you over there crying?
06:52Oh no.
06:53Can you tell?
06:54You can't tell, but you can.
06:55I've shed so many tears over the last few days.
06:59I'm all dehydrated.
07:00I'll soon turn into a raisin or shriveled love, honestly.
07:03It makes him so happy.
07:06My fiance.
07:11This is wild, man.
07:12It's so wild.
07:13I can't believe I'm an engaged man.
07:16I really did it.
07:20This is crazy, man.
07:22Mom, Dad, I have a girlfriend.
07:24I have a fiance.
07:27Girls, I'm engaged.
07:28For me, love is really blind.
07:37Luan is my dream woman.
07:39Yes.
07:39Dude, are you okay?
07:54It's crazy.
07:55I wasn't expecting that.
07:57Another conversation.
07:59Celia wanting to talk to me again has completely confused me.
08:02Hey, this is too much for me right now, but if someone needs to talk, I'm always there.
08:06Because I hate ghosting or saying no.
08:11This is about feelings, and I'm someone who always listens to people, no matter how much it hurts.
08:24Yeah.
08:25But only for the right reasons.
08:26I will eat him for breakfast.
08:30Oh, I believe you.
08:36I'm honestly not sad about this.
08:41We could have had a conversation and ended things respectfully, but he decided not to handle things, thus showing a great lack of maturity.
08:48I am man enough to be faithfulness, but I am, of course, a little wary because I don't know what to expect.
09:03Hi, Celia.
09:04Hello.
09:05Is there something you'd like to say to me first, or should I start?
09:08All I can say is that I didn't think we'd speak again, but if somebody asked to talk to me, I always say yes.
09:16Yeah, I'm not really here to clear anything up, but just to give you a few things to think about.
09:22It was so cowardly to give me a letter through Nadia, because you didn't have the nerves, the guts to tell me yourself.
09:31I know this is an emotional situation for all of us, but that was so, so cowardly.
09:40What could I have done better?
09:41You could have done things better simply by talking to me.
09:45What I thought was that I wanted to let you know as quickly as possible so that someone else would have a chance with you.
09:51I didn't know I was the only one left for you, so I don't accept that I was being weak, but...
09:55You couldn't wait one more day. Instead, you left me a meaningless letter, without even giving me the option to respond.
10:05And the simple fact that you can't, um, understand that, I'm totally fine leaving here now, because I know you would never be the man for me.
10:16Listen, for me, I'm really over it.
10:19Okay.
10:20I know that this is all really shitty for you, and I'm really sorry, but I had to go forward and make a decision, and I'm not whipping out, because I have the strength and I'm a strong man, but I accept you saying that this proves to you that I'm not the right one. That's okay.
10:42Yes. Yes, it is.
10:46Yep.
10:46I still wish you all the best on your journey.
10:50I'm leaving what was a beautiful experience. I'll be fine.
11:04I'm not sad that I'm leaving here, um, alone, without a man.
11:11I know now that there are definitely really good men out there, and some crazy ones, immature, but also really good ones.
11:20Man.
11:32What?
11:32Nothing. Just keep doing your thing. I just have to, I just need a moment.
11:36But why? What's wrong?
11:38Why? Because I just need a moment.
11:39Just leave him alone.
11:40I think my decision came as a complete surprise to Celia,
11:45and it must have triggered a lot of emotions.
11:49And I'm really sorry about that,
11:52because I also need clarity for myself.
11:56Damn it.
11:58I still hope.
12:02I just feel that I can see a certain perspective with Yasmin.
12:06Emotionally, too.
12:07It's so important to me that I chose either Yasmin or Nolan.
12:22But I really haven't had the headspace
12:24to think about the situation since yesterday
12:27because of what was going on here.
12:29Like Andy, for example, he cut them all off for me.
12:32Just crazy.
12:33Because I said I needed a little commitment,
12:35and he gave me complete commitment.
12:37Every time I think back to that moment,
12:41I just get goosebumps, and I think, wow.
12:45And I think he feels a great sense of relief.
12:48I feel a great sense of relief
12:50that we can finally enjoy our dates,
12:52just without pressure,
12:54just getting closer and closer.
12:56Now I just want to really feel him.
13:00Hello, Yasmin.
13:03Hello.
13:04Hello.
13:05Hi.
13:07Wow.
13:07What is that?
13:09It's for you.
13:10Oh, my God.
13:13Oh, my God.
13:14I really wasn't expecting that.
13:17Yeah.
13:18The idea somehow came to be yesterday,
13:20and then I...
13:20Do you know how beautiful this look?
13:22Oh, my God.
13:23Yes.
13:24Where you are,
13:25my home will be,
13:27and we will fly together.
13:28That's kind of what
13:29I was trying to tell you,
13:31because I somehow believe
13:33that when you enter into a love connection,
13:37a marriage,
13:38that you do exactly that.
13:40That is,
13:41you have a great, exciting life together,
13:43and when you somehow find your soulmate,
13:45well, then you feel at home
13:48wherever that person is, right?
13:51Wow.
13:53That's really...
13:54Oh, man.
13:58That's so nice of you.
14:00So sweet.
14:01You're welcome.
14:03I'm just kind of
14:05blown away, actually.
14:07That's the second biggest surprise
14:09you've given me.
14:11Really, the second biggest.
14:13What was the biggest?
14:15You're...
14:18brave step towards me.
14:20That was the biggest surprise.
14:22That's good.
14:24The worst thing that could happen to me here
14:27would be to just end up with someone
14:29who is all works,
14:30someone who just talks and talks
14:33and talks the whole time,
14:34and in the end,
14:35it's just empty words,
14:36just a man of no action.
14:39And I think yesterday,
14:41you proved to me that
14:42you're not like that.
14:44And it was actually also important to me
14:45to keep my word.
14:46Really.
14:48Screw all the risks.
14:50It's you or no one.
14:52I'm really happy.
14:54Now we finally have
14:55the chance to focus on us,
14:58you know?
14:59Yeah.
14:59I'm really excited.
15:00Me too.
15:01See you tomorrow.
15:09See you tomorrow.
15:10I'm thinking about you.
15:11Bye, sweetie.
15:11Bye, thinking about you, too.
15:14I miss you already.
15:15Me too.
15:20Yes.
15:21Real cool.
15:21I think life will be
15:24really, really beautiful with him.
15:26I feel like I can
15:27really let myself go with him,
15:29that I can rely on him.
15:32Getting that security
15:33from Andy is like
15:34finding the last piece
15:36of the puzzle.
15:37Yeah.
15:37It just all feels really nice.
15:39I love you, I love you, I love you.
15:48It's giving.
15:49Boops.
15:52And if that's not Jan's reaction,
15:54there'll be trouble.
15:55My heart is pounding,
16:07I can really feel it.
16:08Just because you say
16:09you're an attractive person
16:11doesn't mean you are
16:12to someone else.
16:13And if I'm being honest,
16:15I'm actually more worried
16:16that he won't like me
16:17than the other way around.
16:19My heart is about to
16:20jump out of my chest.
16:25Being so close to meeting
16:32my future wife is...
16:34I can't wrap my head around it.
16:37It's crazy.
16:40I mean, I...
16:41My hands are sweaty,
16:42my pulse is racing.
16:44I'm a little worried
16:45that the situation
16:46will overwhelm me.
16:48I feel really connected to Jan.
16:51I feel like he's
16:52my better half,
16:53even though I haven't
16:54even seen him yet.
16:57The proposal was already
16:58a huge sea of emotions,
17:00and I hope that things
17:01continue that way,
17:03and that there'll be
17:04a real explosion.
17:12I can't handle this.
17:15I'm so nervous.
17:17Oh my God.
17:18Oh.
17:19Oh my God.
17:43Oh my God.
17:43Oh my God.
18:13I don't believe it.
18:14Me neither.
18:18You're not a stranger anymore.
18:21No.
18:22And you're not AI.
18:26Neither are you.
18:28Neither am I.
18:29And I would regret it
18:31if I didn't get to say
18:33the words I said yesterday
18:34in person.
18:36Okay.
18:36As soon as you feel ready,
18:41I'd like to take a step back
18:42and ask you, Luan.
18:52Will you be my wife?
18:56Yes, of course.
18:58Oh my God.
18:59Would you give me
19:00your left hand?
19:01You even know which hand.
19:03That breakfast.
19:05I still can't believe it.
19:11Tell me about it, right?
19:15Oh my.
19:16Oh.
19:16Oh.
19:17Earlier, I was really scared
19:35that...
19:36that it would be weird
19:38that I wouldn't be able
19:39to connect your voice with you
19:40or that you'd run away.
19:43Not a chance.
19:45Not a chance.
19:46I can't believe it.
19:47Oh.
19:50We're engaged.
19:52This looks wonderful.
19:59Should we head back?
20:01Yes, we can do that.
20:03Yeah.
20:03Okay.
20:09Okay.
20:22See you.
20:23See you.
20:33If we had met somewhere
20:47in real life,
20:49he would have never been
20:50on my radar.
20:55I'm a little surprised
20:57by her dress.
20:58I didn't think Luan
20:59would show so much cleavage.
21:01But when I hug him
21:06or hear his voice,
21:07I realize that it feels good
21:09and that it's really meant to be.
21:20I...
21:21How am I?
21:28I...
21:28I don't know.
21:31The connection with Yasmeen
21:37is finally really just
21:40a two-way connection
21:41and it just feels good
21:42to focus on one woman
21:43and to feel a certain
21:45security from that.
21:52The feeling is very,
21:54very intense.
21:55I wonder when it'll stop.
21:58I hope it never does.
22:03Of course,
22:04it's not just the experiment
22:05that's helping me overcome
22:06my fear of commitment.
22:07It's also Yasmeen.
22:08I feel like I already know
22:10this person very well.
22:12And that shows me
22:13that it's worth
22:14taking a risk for her.
22:15Ah, I'm really in love.
22:21I'm really in love
22:22with this feeling
22:24of being here with you.
22:26Being here with you
22:27was really indescribable.
22:28There's a little magic.
22:30There's a little tingle.
22:31Yes, that's true.
22:32It never crossed my mind
22:34that I could have feelings
22:36for someone
22:36without even
22:37having seen that person.
22:39And I think I knew
22:41the most important thing
22:42about you,
22:43which is that
22:44you're a strong man.
22:45Exactly what I needed
22:46in terms of character.
22:47And the way you fought for me,
22:50no one has ever
22:50done that before.
22:52You're worth it.
22:59Yasmeen,
23:00I'd like to ask you
23:02if you would please stand up.
23:05Oh my God.
23:09What I feel for you right now
23:17is so crazy
23:17and so just beautiful.
23:23I'm getting down on one knee
23:25because I want to ask
23:28if you would want to continue
23:29this journey with me
23:30and if you would like
23:34to be my wife.
23:39Yes.
23:42Yes, of course.
23:47That's so beautiful.
23:48Oh God.
23:55I didn't think
23:56it would feel like this.
23:59Really.
24:00Oh my God, man.
24:04Well, I'm engaged
24:06and so are you.
24:08I'm engaged, married.
24:09I'm going to drink to us now.
24:11Me too.
24:14Kisses.
24:20Well, it feels new
24:21and exciting
24:22and emotional.
24:24Yeah, crazy.
24:25I'm engaged.
24:27I'm engaged.
24:28I really feel like
24:32I'm in very good hands.
24:33I feel like Andy
24:34will look after me
24:35and until then
24:36I'll just be
24:37a little bundle of nerves
24:39who wants to go
24:39jump on her man.
24:41Finally.
24:41Finally.
24:41I'm most looking forward
24:57to when the door opens
24:59and when we walk
25:00towards each other
25:01seeing a big wide smile
25:04on her face
25:04being able to see
25:05that she's happy
25:06to see me
25:07and then holding
25:08one another.
25:11So,
25:12I feel a bit sick.
25:14I could actually
25:15burst with excitement
25:16right now.
25:17I really want to see him.
25:18I'm looking forward
25:19to that moment
25:20when we can just
25:21run into each other's arms.
25:34Fuck.
25:34Oh, God.
25:49Hi.
25:52Hello.
25:53Hi.
25:57Oh, it's great to see you.
25:59It's great to see you.
26:00See you.
26:00Oh, God.
26:10Oh, my God.
26:14You're pretty tall.
26:16Yes.
26:18I'm wearing high heels.
26:19Yes, that's good.
26:21Oh, yes, I mean.
26:22You're so handsome.
26:24You're so beautiful.
26:26We've begun
26:27such a beautiful journey
26:28and we've really built
26:29a connection
26:29with each other
26:30even though we've never
26:31even seen each other
26:32in real life.
26:33But what really matters
26:34is looking into your eyes now.
26:37Amazing.
26:38It's like looking at you
26:39and seeing into your soul.
26:42Now I'm going to get down
26:43on one knee
26:45because I want to ask you
26:47this again.
26:49I ask you, Yasmin,
26:51will you be my wife
26:52and continue this journey
26:54with me?
26:55Yes.
26:56Yes, I will.
26:56Oh, I have to put
26:59the ring on you.
26:59Yes.
27:01Oh, how sweet.
27:11My hands are so cold.
27:13Come on, let's sit down.
27:15Oh, God.
27:17Beautiful dress.
27:20Oh, man.
27:21Oh, man.
27:23When you walked up to me
27:24just now, I thought,
27:25what?
27:25This is amazing.
27:26This can't be real.
27:27You're super beautiful.
27:28You're a beautiful woman
27:29inside and out.
27:33I want to smell you.
27:38You smell really good.
27:44I think kissing you
27:46is something
27:47I'd like to do more often.
27:48like this.
27:54I'm not worried
27:55about the chemistry.
27:56Me neither.
27:57Me neither.
27:58Just crazy.
28:00I don't want to leave.
28:01Bye.
28:10Oh, man.
28:11I don't want to.
28:13We'll see each other
28:13again soon.
28:14We'll see each other again soon.
28:14I want this.
28:18I don't want to.
28:31I don't want to.
28:34I don't want to.
28:38Oh, man.
28:40I just...
28:41oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
28:53oh god oh god i did everything right he's hot
29:00that feeling when your lips touch that person becomes real it's just overwhelming
29:10guys he's tall i think i can take on the protector role for yasmin now she can lean on my broad
29:18shoulders and yes she's a little shorter than me but she likes that she's so sexy and when i
29:24look into her eyes the sparks fly it's just like a dream
29:28i genuinely like andy more than the ring hey i'm so happy
29:37a first vacation together can be challenging
30:00but i'm happy that so many couples have found each other
30:04so much for germans being reserved
30:09five couples have fallen in love and even gotten engaged
30:20wow this is really beautiful
30:25okay crazy wow i can't believe this is real it's beautiful
30:33oh excuse me i just wanted to there's another door here
30:37how does it feel to be together without a wall in between awesome
30:42i miss the kisses me too
30:47we're gonna have a great time we're gonna have a really great time
30:56yeah fill it up it's okay oh honey i need this
31:00no yeah nice to see you too
31:02not because of you okay the feeling of being engaged is sinking in now
31:06i have to look at the ring a lot to remind myself
31:08unreal i feel grown i thought i was gonna screw it up
31:13really yeah and most importantly what will happen when our newly engaged couples
31:18meet the other couples for the first time
31:21that could get interesting
31:24under the cretin sun we'll see if love is really blind
31:28okay now i'm curious to see what's in your suitcase
31:42i don't even know which side i'm opening right now
31:44you packed yours really well
31:46yeah i even packed by color i color sort my closet too
31:50yeah of course you brought purple powder
31:52yes it's a must
31:53yeah yeah so i definitely brought a lot of blazers
31:58and sorted them by color most of my stuff is satin
32:01i also brought some high heels i like walking around in high heels
32:06on fashion
32:08and you're not
32:09right now i feel a little underdressed next to you
32:12you'll rarely see me walking around in jeans
32:15let me see what i can what can i find here it's really not looking good
32:19so of course you kind of feel your way around the other person a little
32:24and as we're now spending time together
32:27and we're going from zero to 100 the small differences that you notice and pick up
32:32start to become really obvious compared to the things
32:34we learned about one another by talking in the pods
32:37and i think i'm gonna struggle with that from time to time
32:41oh my god
32:44oh my god
32:45oh my god
32:46oh my god
32:50okay but not with our shoes
32:55no they'll stay down there yeah yeah
32:57oh look isn't it lovely
32:59yeah awesome crazy
33:02this closeness that i have with her feels so familiar and when i hold her it feels like
33:07i've known this person for so much longer
33:09that's exactly how i pictured it just glued together like this
33:14i'm
33:16olympic olympic yes that's perfect
33:19i like being olympic
33:22maybe we both didn't have the easiest childhoods with various losses or people we couldn't trust 100%
33:29and that's why i already know her quite well in that respect and know what she needs
33:35here's a little something
33:37oh my god they're so cute
33:45in case it gets a bit cold
33:46you're so sweet
33:49i know she likes cats i'm also a total cat fan
33:52and i wanted to get to say that we belong together
33:55flufo really like them
33:57i just think that she sees me as someone who can give her security
34:02and that's what i want to emanate because as soon as you plant a seed of doubt or insecurity
34:08it's a vicious cycle that you can't stop
34:19will you be needing hangers
34:21i have all the hangers looked
34:24okay the issue of tidiness will definitely be a big one
34:30you think are you messy or do you think you're messy
34:33yes at the moment i do now
34:35but the most important thing first
34:37my pillow
34:38it's a game changer
34:42you may laugh now but once you've laid on it you'll love it
34:45wow
34:47get your laugh now
34:48i have a lint shaver with me if you need one
34:51do you think that's weird too
34:54of course everything you have is weird
34:56he's very particular about a lot of things
35:00you can't bring a lint shaver with you
35:03you're 33 not 83
35:05well lint doesn't care how old you are
35:08lint happens to young people too you know
35:11oh i can't take it he's driving me crazy
35:15i think that makes gunnar feel insecure for one second
35:18i'm not taken seriously
35:20what
35:20huh
35:21i don't know what makes me think
35:22yeah i don't know either and then he thinks what's her problem this is totally normal
35:25i think it's jealousy but i said you can borrow it i'm not like that
35:28i said you can borrow it
35:31i love rolling my eyes and with him i can do that 24 7
35:34but you think you're totally normal
35:37up until now
35:38yeah yeah i'm just asking for a friend
35:40there's constant banter if she didn't like me she wouldn't do it at least that's what
35:44i tell myself maybe that's naive but i want to tell myself that there's something
35:48affectionate about it
35:49i'm really excited
35:58this time
35:59just being here
36:02in the sun
36:05with the pool
36:06what else
36:08i'm totally love hungry for sure
36:14that means i always want more
36:16i should jump right in
36:22how about that
36:24i've really made the choice to let myself fall into it and
36:40show him the love i truly feel
36:43that looks great
36:44you look really good in there too
36:46i wonder what costi's doing
36:51just kidding
36:54really
36:54consti's doing fine believe me
36:56but i'm feeling it's a little one-sided to some extent
37:02whoa so cold now
37:04i guess he needs a little time to warm up to it all
37:07things are gonna get cozy
37:21yeah they are
37:22now
37:23yes
37:23yeah come on tell me
37:24tell me now
37:25is that your zodiac sign
37:26mmm sagittarius
37:28jm those are my initials
37:31yes
37:33no
37:35yes
37:36yeah i already knew
37:38exactly
37:40those are my parents
37:41really
37:42oh look that's so crazy
37:44yeah
37:45your blue eyes
37:51what's 0928
38:00what's september 28
38:01they have my surgery
38:01really
38:03wow
38:04it's true that i'm definitely more health conscious because of my brain tumor
38:13i wasn't for many years
38:15it was a little sign for me to sometimes step on the brakes and just live more consciously
38:19and healthy
38:20so tell me what about smoking
38:24yeah go on
38:25how much do you smoke in a day
38:27well uh i'm a little chimney so i do smoke a lot
38:31a little chimney
38:36yeah
38:37yes i really am
38:41i mean it's not gonna be forever
38:44i mean it's not gonna be forever
38:46if maybe at some point
38:48maybe at some point
38:49if everything goes well
38:51you know
38:51a small life is created
38:53then that's the end of it
38:54that would be an advantage for sure
38:55yeah exactly
38:56then yeah
38:57i could bring myself to do it
38:59yeah
38:59yeah yeah
39:00we'll make it work
39:01well
39:03then we better get started quick
39:05right now i'm kind of joking about the smoking but it'll probably come up as an issue again
39:16oh wow
39:29okay it was so bright oh my god
39:32should i go first or you
39:35no you go first because otherwise you'll throw me in the pool
39:38i'll go first
39:39let's go
39:44i can definitely tell you work out
39:48i never date people who have a six pack
39:52i prefer when someone has a bit more
39:55more to grab onto
39:57you know a bit chubbier right
39:58like i said i was a bit surprised when i saw what you were wearing
40:01i thought whoa
40:03uh where's my matching outfit
40:06oh nonsense
40:09yeah that will probably work itself out
40:11definitely
40:12but you can dress any way you want
40:14you don't have to dress differently for me
40:17i don't have to
40:17no if we go someplace then it would be nice
40:20but
40:21you don't have to
40:22i had a completely different image of you in the pods
40:24what did you think i look like
40:25i imagined you'd probably be wearing blouses and such
40:29um
40:30probably cute summer dresses
40:32yeah yeah
40:33yeah
40:34no
40:35no
40:37true but yeah that's the that's what i had in my mind
40:40so i actually thought you were blonde
40:42really
40:43yeah i thought you were blonde
40:44what else
40:44and that you wouldn't have a beard
40:46not even stubble
40:47this looks like three days but it's it's actually a tough three weeks
40:50that was
40:52a hard three
40:53a lot of work went into this
40:54so i've never dated anyone who looks like yon
41:02i think the more i get to know him
41:05the more attractive i'll find him
41:08just because of his personality
41:10go underwater
41:11so at first i did think that there might be a disconnect
41:20with what i personally find really attractive usually
41:24and i also thought that lawan might not necessarily be my type
41:29and that's why it's really exciting for me to find out how i'll deal with this
41:33we're definitely living our lives to the fullest
41:41a hundred percent
41:43yeah
41:43120
41:44120
41:45yeah
41:46hey this is so crazy right
41:49my gut feeling kept telling me
41:52just do it
41:53he's the right man
41:54he's the one
41:57he's the one
41:58he's the one
41:59i've never had such a strong feeling before in my life
42:05really
42:06no never
42:07putting a little pressure on me now
42:09why
42:11i don't know
42:12why pressure
42:13what pressure
42:13expectations
42:14what do you mean expectations
42:16well i want to meet them
42:18well uh
42:19i don't have any expectations
42:20it is what it is
42:21and that's good
42:22my head sometimes says
42:23hey
42:23wait a minute
42:24you don't really know this woman yet
42:26right
42:26wait and see
42:27tell me what you're thinking
42:31what it'd be like to see each other
42:33for the first time again
42:34yes
42:35look what my heart keeps telling me is
42:38yeah
42:38go with it
42:39everything's fine right
42:40yeah
42:40i knew it from the start
42:41same as you
42:42but my head
42:43because i've often let myself be guided by emotions
42:46and sometimes they go
42:47they went in the wrong direction
42:49so my head is always like
42:51what would it be like
42:53i don't know
42:53she's a very strong personality
42:56i would say the same about myself
42:57that'll lead to difficulties
42:59i'll play jesus
43:16and break the bread
43:18get used to it
43:23for the rest of my life
43:24it's pretty intense
43:25it's a long time right
43:26it's pretty hard man
43:26whoa
43:27yes
43:28i promise you i'll never change
43:29man
43:29great
43:33you wanted the real me
43:34my good sense of humor
43:37better lie then
43:38that won't work
43:42we don't want crumbs in the pool
43:43now i know why you don't want kids
43:48why
43:49because you wouldn't be able to handle the
43:51kids are allowed to make a mess
43:52your logic makes absolutely no sense
43:55by nature
43:57he just has these german dad vibes
44:00um i i just think it's a shame that i'll never get to meet his kids and meet our kids
44:08because i think we'd be great parents
44:11i think that you have to personally feel that i think that you have to personally feel that
44:14just once to be able to let it go
44:17i'm so scared that i um
44:19made a hasty decision
44:22i just trust you to be honest with yourself and then with me
44:27and however you feel is fine with me
44:30but it hasn't put me off so far
44:34and because i know myself so well i know that i
44:38i mean i don't feel like i'm suppressing it
44:41that's why it's actually fine for me
44:43i thought about it for three whole days
44:45i must know what i'm doing
44:47yeah
44:49i've had many years to form this decision and imagine my life without children
44:55for her though the subject is still quite new
44:58of course it will raise questions or bring up fears
45:01i don't think the subject will ever be fully dealt with but i want to live my life with josie
45:07and even though it sounds harsh i know i don't want children
45:10but other than that
45:12the setting is very conducive to feeling good
45:17you too of course
45:19it's important to me to get close to my partner and for that level of intimacy to be there for it to work
45:30and i think everyone finds their partner attractive i'm no exception
45:33those little touches and a kiss is part of that
45:37that's what's missing um right now
45:40but because the first kiss hasn't happened you can't go any further just yet
45:44because gunner isn't pushing me and i was able to tell him very openly that i have trouble opening up to someone physically
45:54if i'm not sure of everything 1000 percent
45:58he's holding back a little
46:00he's very very sensitive and always make sure to look after me
46:08and that's why it's so easy for me to let myself go and accept his closeness
46:13and that's why it's so easy for me to get close to my partner and i'm not sure to go and accept his
46:39Why are you laughing?
46:46I'm just happy.
46:48You're happy?
46:50No, I thought it was terrible.
46:52Yeah.
46:52There's a difference between thinking something is nice and being happy.
47:09Enjoy your meal.
47:17Enjoy your meal?
47:20Ah, I'm curious.
47:25Do you catch feelings fast?
47:29Well, I do think I catch feelings quickly.
47:31If a person treats me right, then it happens quickly.
47:35You would have to be romantic.
47:40Otherwise, it doesn't work.
47:41It's the only way?
47:42Yeah, I'm a lover girl.
47:43I love love.
47:45Yeah, I love it really.
47:48I live for it.
47:50I love romance.
48:02A lot is coming at me.
48:03I know the expectations are there.
48:05And I have to decide for myself whether I can keep up with this pace.
48:14I'm the opposite.
48:16Especially the word love.
48:17I'm careful about what I say.
48:19I think I said it to one person my whole life.
48:22Really?
48:22Yeah.
48:24It's deep for you.
48:25Yeah?
48:25It's deep.
48:34So the stuff I'm thinking about, that's not what he's thinking about.
48:37I can see that.
48:40Purely in terms of energy and the way we think, we're on a different level.
48:44I'm afraid.
48:45You make this very sexy.
49:05Mm-hmm.
49:05Totally.
49:06Totally.
49:06Yeah.
49:08It's so weird that it's so...
49:22It fits?
49:22Yeah.
49:23Just like that?
49:23Yeah.
49:24It's crazy, right?
49:25A little scary?
49:27Just a little.
49:28Yeah?
49:28But just a little.
49:29There's a certain underlying fear that you'll just say, yeah, no.
49:34I think I've changed my mind.
49:36Yasmin told me that she's always been disappointed by men in the past.
49:40That's why she's cautious with the new man.
49:43Let's always be honest with each other.
49:45And be good to each other.
49:47And communicate openly.
49:49That's what we've always said.
49:50And then nothing can go wrong.
49:51Wow, the water's amazing.
50:06I'll join you then.
50:07When I see Yasmin, I see a person in front of me who has everything in harmony.
50:11Oh, you can stand?
50:13It'll go up to here for me.
50:15You'll see.
50:17Yeah, just a beautiful woman.
50:22Gatsby for air.
50:24If I can bear how I felt after the reveal, I was still feeling nervous and excited.
50:30But now it's better.
50:31I have this sense of security.
50:34And so now I'm less reserved than I was.
50:38Oh, God, you're so silly.
50:39Intense.
50:40I got you, don't worry, babe.
50:46I got you, so don't worry.
50:48I got you, I got you.
51:04Are there electrical outlets for my chargers?
51:06I have three more shavers that I need to charge.
51:09What do you mean, three more?
51:10I brought them with me.
51:11Why do you have so many shavers with you?
51:14Well, for my head, my beard, and everything south of my chest.
51:17I had to figure out what works best.
51:19I can't do this anymore.
51:20It seems effortless, but it's a lot of work, this hairstyle.
51:23Can someone please come and collect me?
51:25I can't do this anymore.
51:28Should I close my eyes for five minutes and then see what you look like?
51:31Maybe I'll be surprised.
51:33Maybe you'll run away when you see me without makeup.
51:35Yeah, I like that.
51:50Sweet.
51:51Very sweet.
51:52I can tell that with him that this is all real, that the attraction is in the way he looks at me.
52:02I hope it stays this way.
52:03I brought something else with me.
52:13You have to see it.
52:14What did you bring?
52:19I can't take it.
52:20I thought today would be the day.
52:21No, no, I need separate beds today.
52:23Really?
52:23You're that tired?
52:24Let's play footsie a little, Josie.
52:26Leave me alone.
52:26No way.
52:27Coming to bed with non-slip socks?
52:29That's crossing the line.
52:30All right.
52:33You're narrow-minded, so I'll take them off.
52:35Will I continue to grow up after the age of 12?
52:38They're a size 15.
52:39They're for adults.
52:41You're messing with me.
52:42They're really difficult to find.
52:43What?
52:44Oh, God.
52:44How are you so proud of that?
52:46What do you mean proud?
52:47I just like to share when I have something nice.
52:49It's not nice.
52:51The experience is nice.
52:53Come back here, please.
52:54I'm only wearing the right one right now.
53:02You're not seriously still.
53:04No, not really.
53:06I thought so.
53:09It's because you said I shouldn't lie.
53:13His presence just really grounds me.
53:18It's just really nice.
53:19That's what I'm looking for.
53:20Okay, which side is usually yours?
53:32I usually sleep in the middle, so I guess that's not an option here.
53:37Right.
53:37I always sleep where I'm least likely to be snatched by a monster at night.
53:41So over there?
53:42Yes.
53:42Yes, perfect.
53:43We should also check if there's anything lurking under the bed.
53:48There's nothing.
53:48Nothing.
53:49I wouldn't say we're being flirty with each other.
53:53I think Luan is a really beautiful woman.
53:56But objectively measuring attractiveness doesn't necessarily mean that you feel attracted to someone.
54:06Nothing is going to happen before marriage.
54:08This is the line.
54:09No fingers are going over it.
54:11Hello.
54:12But underneath.
54:12Behave yourself.
54:13Behave yourself.
54:14Come.
54:15Give me one more.
54:16Come on.
54:16Good night.
54:19Good night.
54:20Yuck.
54:21Sleep well, Jesse.
54:22You too.
54:23Good night.
54:23Okay?
54:24Yes.
54:25Good night.
54:26Now come here.
54:27It's difficult for me.
54:38I'm in a situation that I didn't expect.
54:42I don't feel how I thought I'd feel.
54:44I hope I get a sign that says, yes, I'm with you.
54:50And I know that I want to marry you at the end of this experiment.
54:56I'm an emotional mess right now.
54:57But sometimes the heart doesn't want what the head wants.
55:06The heart gets you, it's true.
55:11I'm an emotional mess.
55:12I'm an emotional mess.
55:25It's my pleasure.
55:28I don't feel the heart of it.
55:28I think I may get you.
55:30I doubt I know that I'm with you.
55:30I know the heart of it.
55:31I don't feel the heart of it.
55:33I don't feel the heart of it.
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