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00:00So far, this is all too good to be true.
00:09I never thought that I would feel any kind of motion and butterflies so quickly.
00:18But I definitely am scared now as we start to expose our feelings
00:23that somehow this house of cards will collapse.
00:30But these issues do need to be addressed.
00:37My future wife has to have all the information about me.
00:48I decided to tell you a little bit about myself today.
00:51I have...
00:53There are things you definitely need to know about.
00:56For a while, my life always seemed to be on the up.
01:01Somehow I got a better job every two years, earned more.
01:04Then there was a phase that was a little wilder, where I think I had lost myself a little.
01:10Where I partied a lot and somehow felt like, I don't know, I enjoyed life,
01:14but I was no where near the person that I am now.
01:22And then out of nowhere, a year and a half ago, I discovered I had a health issue.
01:30That I had a brain tumor.
01:39That I had a brain tumor.
01:44Oh, my God.
01:49Well, I'm trying to...
01:57I can usually talk about this in a problem, I tell.
02:04Everyone.
02:11Yeah, take a deep breath.
02:13I'm here.
02:14It's okay.
02:14I'm listening.
02:14So, then it slowly dawned on me that this was a big deal, right?
02:20Because we're not talking about a 2 to 5% chance that I needed nursing care,
02:26that I was not going to look the way I do anymore, but a 50% chance.
02:32Unfortunately, they later found out that it was a malignant tumor.
02:37Wow.
02:37But, we eventually found some really great doctors, and they did the most amazing job ever.
02:49I think I had a 12, 13-hour surgery, which is really incredibly rough.
02:54And I woke up, and the first thing I asked was, am I normal?
02:56And everyone said, you're normal.
02:58I cried.
02:59I, whoa.
03:01Just tears of joy.
03:02I was just like, okay, so, no one will be able to tell that I've been through anything.
03:09Like, I should actually be 100% deaf in my left ear.
03:12I don't know how, by some miracle, I can hear a little bit.
03:14I wear a hearing aid, but you can't see it, you know?
03:17Yeah.
03:19And, yeah, but it's all good.
03:22I don't think about it all day long, every day.
03:26It's a part of me.
03:27It happened.
03:28And it's all good.
03:29I take my hat off to him, big time.
03:39I really do.
03:41And I just had this feeling that I wanted to be there for him, to be close to him, just
03:46to be by his side for a lifetime, no matter what happens.
03:52I have to say, I think it's really great that you're here.
03:57I'm really grateful for that.
03:59It's really, really great.
04:01I'm really grateful for that, too.
04:03Yeah.
04:05Bye-bye.
04:06Bye-bye.
04:09Hug.
04:09Hugs and kisses.
04:10Hug.
04:13This is just the beginning of something really, really, really huge.
04:20I'm in love.
04:24It's over.
04:30It's over.
04:32It's over.
04:32She's the one.
04:34Really?
04:34For sure.
04:36For sure.
04:37I'm sure.
04:37It's sure.
04:40Guys, to love.
04:41To the girls.
04:42To us.
04:42To love, guys.
04:43To love, guys.
04:44Yay!
04:44It's so awesome, man.
04:48Tell me about something between my teeth.
04:56Hello.
04:57Hello.
04:57I'm curious.
04:59I crave love.
05:00Yeah.
05:01So that means you must be full of love, that you're finally ready to share it with a special
05:06person.
05:06Hey, I'm bursting.
05:08Love is probably the last thing that's missing in my life.
05:12Maybe it's my own fault.
05:13Andrea, would you like to tell me what the lock screen on your phone looks like?
05:20Right now, it's actually my cat.
05:22Your cat?
05:23Yeah.
05:23I used to have a turtle.
05:25Really?
05:25I had, yeah, a water turtle.
05:28But I really think there's a high chance of meeting someone here.
05:32Would you like to tell me what your keychain looks like?
05:37No.
05:39I'm proud to say that I consider myself a very curious person.
05:42I've been learning Chinese for three years.
05:45And I also speak English, German, French, and Russian.
05:49Are you also interested in languages?
05:51Um, not really.
05:54Found your dream man yet?
05:56So, Yan and I had a very nice conversation, but...
05:59Oh, nice.
05:59Yesterday was more...
06:00My neighbor is nice, too.
06:03I feel like I'm going on dates, and none of the women are particularly happy that I'm
06:09the one showing up.
06:11Oh.
06:12Was it over before it began?
06:19Um...
06:20Yeah, and that's...
06:22Yeah, it's not a nice feeling.
06:24I hate, you know, this feeling of not being enough.
06:27It's so bad, and I've had that a few times, and I don't want it to come back now, man.
06:31Do we have to be alone?
06:34I first had the feeling of not being enough really early.
06:41I'm the epitome of the friend zone.
06:45Girls mostly just saw me as the nice guy, and...
06:51It's hard for me to feel like I am confronted with that again now.
06:57Um...
06:58Do you feel you're enough?
07:03Do you feel you're enough?
07:04Yeah.
07:05Yeah.
07:06Yeah.
07:07Yeah, I am.
07:08Then you'll be enough for plenty of women, too.
07:11I promise.
07:12It's, uh...
07:13It's a...
07:14I get it.
07:15It's a shitty feeling.
07:16It's a disaster.
07:17It's a shitty feeling.
07:18It's a disaster.
07:21Hello.
07:22Hey.
07:23I believe you are my last date today.
07:26Yeah, I always say save the best for last.
07:28Yeah.
07:29I'm just saying.
07:30My name is Yan.
07:31Nice to meet you.
07:32My name is Lawan.
07:33Could you spell that for me, please?
07:35I don't think I've ever heard that name before.
07:37Of course.
07:38L, like Ludwig.
07:39O like Otto, A like Anton, and N like Ron Paul.
07:42Yeah, look, my intuition was right.
07:43That's what I had written.
07:44Yeah?
07:45Yeah.
07:46Perfect instant bonus point.
07:47You take what you can get.
07:49Okay, let's see how many more you can collect today.
07:53Yeah, I hope I don't get my first minus point now.
07:56Would you like to tell me how old you are?
07:58I'm 26.
07:59How old are you?
08:00You're 26.
08:01I'm a year older.
08:02I'm 27.
08:03I think you're the youngest of the group, right?
08:05That is right, yeah.
08:07But that doesn't speak to emotional maturity or anything like that.
08:11Yes.
08:13It's kind of a trigger for me.
08:15Really?
08:16Yeah, I'm really confident about my age.
08:18But you never quite know how women might react to it.
08:23And that was on my mind, to be honest.
08:25Well, to put your mind at ease, I get the same thing.
08:28Yes.
08:29And I don't feel that way at all, like you.
08:31Because I always think, I mean, I'm totally settled in life.
08:34If you know what you want, then I think age is completely irrelevant.
08:37Beautifully put.
08:38I totally agree.
08:39I think the point is that you keep growing.
08:44Like, as a person.
08:45But I want a partner who will be with me through thick and thin.
08:50Who's the missing piece to my puzzle and makes life even more beautiful than it already is.
08:56Yes, you just took the words out of my mouth.
09:00That's why I kept quiet and let you talk.
09:03If you're grounded in yourself, then you're ready for that one big relationship.
09:09I live to love.
09:10Yes, exactly.
09:11That was very well put.
09:13Yes.
09:17Now I have to decide whether I want to start my career or if I want to take the first state exam.
09:23And, of course, I would also talk to my wife about what the best option might be.
09:30Yes.
09:31So maybe with me, you mean?
09:33Perfect.
09:37I like it.
09:39Um, okay.
09:42Yes, we should talk again soon.
09:45I'm very much counting on it, right?
09:47Yes, I put a star next to your name, okay?
09:49Yeah, same.
09:53Can't wait.
09:54Yes, me too.
09:57I'm pretty interested in Luan because I'm very strongly drawn to women who can communicate their feelings very openly.
10:06And so I'm really hyped.
10:09Can someone please, hold on, wait.
10:10I'll take that off.
10:11Look, there's some space now.
10:12Anyone?
10:13I've been single for two years.
10:16And I'm mostly looking forward to maybe having a ring on my finger in no time?
10:21How crazy would that be, right?
10:22I've been single for two years, and I'm mostly looking forward to maybe having a ring on
10:31my finger in no time.
10:34How crazy would that be, right?
10:38I'm someone who can show her feelings very quickly, and that's why it's very important
10:44that my partner can communicate their feelings too.
10:59My current status is that I get on really well with Andy, but also with Dustin, kind of equally.
11:05They're both great in the way they are, and so far I could see myself with either of them.
11:11It's very, very confusing, but I'm also someone who has a hard time making decisions.
11:17It's like that with everything in my life.
11:20If I have different options that I like equally, then I have a really hard time deciding.
11:26I think clarity is my word.
11:28I'll get it tattooed after the experiment.
11:31I'm a bit of an emotional mess because I'm getting the first warm feelings in my heart
11:35for Yasmin.
11:36That's why it's incredibly hard to grasp everything, or even want to grasp it.
11:43I have to say, with Dustin, I really trust him, so with him it's super easy for me to
11:54talk about all kinds of stuff.
11:56I also think he has a calming effect on me, and I want our conversations to go deeper.
12:01Maybe I'll come to some kind of realization.
12:04Dustin!
12:05In the pods, we had this, do you want kids or not thing going on.
12:10My mother wants nothing more than to be a grandmother.
12:14I have to say, I'm 30, right?
12:17Yeah, it's an issue.
12:18I don't have much time left, and I don't want to have just one child.
12:21How many?
12:22Maybe three?
12:23I'll put an exclamation mark to it.
12:24I think five kids.
12:25That's just a feeling.
12:26What?
12:27Five kids, I think.
12:28Really?
12:29Two exclamation marks?
12:30Pressure is on.
12:31I was lucky enough to grow up in a very harmonious environment.
12:46I got so many great things from my parents and my upbringing, and we have such great family
12:52relationships.
12:53So it really became clear to me, especially since moving out, how much they actually made
12:59possible for me.
13:00My father, through his hard work at the driving school, he used to sleep at the driving school
13:05because home was too far away.
13:08And they really worked hard to give us the life that we ended up having.
13:13And yeah, just, yeah, I'm grateful for all they made possible for me.
13:19Well, my brothers and I, we didn't grow up that well cared for.
13:24For me, everything isn't that rosy and beautiful, and that's why I find it all the more special
13:32to have someone sitting here who can speak so beautifully about his family.
13:36And yeah, I just get an idea of what it could be like.
13:43As a child, I had this romantic view of things.
13:47And my dream was always to kind of have a happy marriage, stay together and have a family.
13:53We have to talk about that.
13:54Let's talk about it.
13:55No, we need to talk about that.
14:05I hope we'll talk again.
14:07You can count on that.
14:08When someone talks about their lovely family life in that way, then of course, it would be nice to be a part of that family.
14:22Because that's what I've always wanted and just didn't have.
14:27And that's really, I have to say, that's a big plus for me.
14:31I find that really attractive.
14:35How's your date?
14:36Yasmin?
14:37Really lovely.
14:38Yeah?
14:39It was emotionally very deep.
14:41It's crazy how quickly things get deep.
14:43Yeah.
14:44It's just crazy.
14:45Crazy.
14:46Yeah.
14:47I'll see her again.
14:48100%.
14:49Yeah?
14:50Yeah.
14:51Oh, wow.
14:52Okay.
14:53Yeah.
14:54It was really lovely.
15:00Wow.
15:01I have to say a life without love is kind of like soup without salt.
15:07Oh, God.
15:08I thought I knew, but I wouldn't have guessed a soup without salt.
15:11Didn't see that one coming.
15:13I just wanted to say it's nice to feel something again, you know?
15:17Agreed.
15:18Yeah, I'm definitely here to somehow get over my fear of commitment.
15:23There's a lot going on here with so many dates.
15:26It's nice to see that I actually have a good feeling about some of the women that I'm seeing here.
15:31Which three women are your favorites?
15:34Tell me.
15:36So Celia, Yasmin, and Natya.
15:39Okay.
15:40Wow.
15:41Okay.
15:42Yeah.
15:48I really want to see him again.
15:50Andy.
15:51I feel so attracted to him.
15:54That's crazy because he can feel it.
15:58I also feel a certain tingling with Andy.
16:07Andy, I thought he was great.
16:13Cute boy.
16:15Bye, girls.
16:16Bye.
16:17So things are still tense for me because I had a good date with Dustin, but I'm still a little torn.
16:24I think we need to see how it goes.
16:27Woo-hoo!
16:30Because Andy has always been one of my favorites.
16:33Hello.
16:34And I feel a certain spark when I'm with him.
16:38Who's this?
16:39It's Yasmin.
16:40Hi, Yasmin.
16:41This is Andy.
16:42Hi.
16:43I'm happy to see you.
16:44You can't see me, but maybe soon.
16:47Well, I have an image of you, so I can see you.
16:49You have an image of me?
16:50Tell me.
16:51What does that look like?
16:52I see your soul.
16:54So, you're a very warm-hearted, caring, trusting person, and I feel like I can trust you even
17:01with my weaknesses, and there's so much about your mindset that a man could really consider
17:08himself lucky to have you.
17:13Wow.
17:14Yeah.
17:15Wow.
17:16Yeah.
17:17That's quite the compliment.
17:19Yes.
17:20We love it.
17:21We love it.
17:22Yeah, we love it.
17:23If there's an us, yeah, then we love it.
17:26Very nice.
17:27Yeah.
17:28To be honest, I feel like our relationship has mutual.
17:33There are a lot of things in my past that made me the person I am today, and I think
17:40the biggest issue I've always had was the issue of attachment, that basic trust in a relationship
17:48is hard for me.
17:49Yeah.
17:50Yeah.
17:51I've never really had an example of what a really good relationship, what a family looks
17:56like, because my biological father didn't stay and left us after I was born, and then
18:03my mother met a new man when I was two, and he also left one day.
18:08They were married, I called him Dad, and he was just gone without a goodbye.
18:12So I've experienced shitty things like that.
18:15Anyway.
18:16I'm really sorry to hear that.
18:18I didn't become the person I am today because everything was great, but actually because
18:22everything was so bad.
18:25It's just difficult because I would say it really consumed my whole childhood and youth.
18:33I mean, we were extremely poor.
18:36I don't know, other people would come home and their parents would cook for them or something,
18:42and I just remember ready meals or whatever, if anything.
18:45And my father was a bit of a hoarder, it got worse.
18:49So the only room that was actually normal was the bathroom.
18:54And I had no furniture, I didn't have a bed, I just had boxes and bags.
18:59Oh, I'm so sorry.
19:00That's just how it was, I...
19:02I can hear the burden on your shoulders.
19:08You probably no longer have any contact with your father.
19:11I do.
19:12Yeah, I do.
19:13I mean, a little bit now.
19:26Yeah, thank you for opening up and telling me about that,
19:29because it's something that really shaped you, right?
19:32Yeah, well, I felt like it was okay to tell you.
19:35Yeah, you can trust me with that.
19:37I want you to know that even in the moments of weakness, which I will have,
19:42I will still be strong and reliable and stand by you, okay?
19:49Yeah.
19:50That's exactly what I need.
19:51Yeah, I think so.
19:53And I need that too.
19:56Am I in your top three?
20:01The conversation with Andy today made me feel more secure.
20:05I hope you have other cool dates, but I only say that because I have to.
20:12See you soon. Bye.
20:13See you soon. Bye.
20:14Bye, Yasmin.
20:15Bye. I'm definitely interested because I think he could very well be the one.
20:20The question is, who else is there?
20:26Hey. Hello.
20:31I think Andy has a lot of irons in the fire.
20:36It's possible I could get hurt.
20:38Yeah, just like it happens in real life dating, you know?
20:41Yeah. But here you can see it.
20:42Yeah, exactly.
20:43Yeah.
20:47Wow. That's tough.
20:52It's hard, right?
20:53Yeah.
21:02I never thought it would be possible that you could develop deep feelings
21:06through someone you've never even met.
21:08Genuinely.
21:10Unbelievable.
21:14Hello.
21:15Hello, my Jessie.
21:16Oh, my God. How beautiful is this?
21:18Oh, God.
21:25I have to tell you, I've rarely felt as good as I do today.
21:33Yeah.
21:34I have never met anyone who is so similar to me.
21:49Yeah.
21:51Who comes so close to my idea of a dream woman.
21:56dream woman.
21:58Or rather, who completely fits that description 100%.
22:03I'm incredibly grateful that I've had the privilege of having met you in here.
22:15And...
22:16I think we've realized that the whole fate thing has played a big role over these last few days.
22:27And...
22:29I think that someone else was also at work.
22:35Yeah.
22:36Yeah.
22:38And I'm thinking of your beloved grandpa, his favorite song.
22:43And one line from the anthem has stuck with me.
22:46Through thick and thin, no matter where, only together are we strong.
22:53Jessie and Consti.
22:54Jessie.
22:55Yeah.
23:00And this is the craziest thing I will ever do in my life.
23:10But I'm gonna get down on one knee.
23:17He's actually doing it.
23:19Jessie, I think...
23:29You're the one.
23:34Will you be my wife?
23:37The fate brought me here.
23:39Fate brought me here to you.
23:41And for me, there is no other word to say than yes to you.
23:46Yeah!
23:49Oh, my God, man.
23:53Woo!
24:06You found the most beautiful words in the world.
24:12Hey!
24:13Yeah?
24:14You know what?
24:15I'm a nervous wreck.
24:16But...
24:18I'm standing in front of this thing again and...
24:22I'm pretending to hug you.
24:29I'm absolutely sure of that.
24:30The best thing that ever happened to us.
24:32Always remember that, okay?
24:33Okay.
24:35Bye, fiancé!
24:37Bye, future husband!
24:40Bye!
24:41I'm engaged to a woman I've never seen before.
24:54But at the same time, it felt so right and good.
24:58Wow.
24:59I've quite simply found the most beautiful man in the world.
25:16Oh, my God.
25:17I hope that any second that I'll also get that moment of sparkle or radiance with Jubriel.
25:29We're just open to each other and I think we've established a really good, intimate foundation.
25:33With Gunnar, I've noticed that I can let myself go because he's a soft guy and has a gentle voice.
25:47Hey there.
25:48Hello, number one.
25:50But nevertheless, I'm still missing that element of excitement, that certain spark.
25:56In the last few hours, I've worried that you'd say, yeah, no, let's not meet again.
26:01Oh, no.
26:03We still have way too much to talk about.
26:06Sure, let's go through your checklist.
26:08Okay, um, are you vegan?
26:10Yes.
26:14Ouch, that mmm hurt.
26:16I'm going to draw a picture of a cliché now, so...
26:19I'm really curious, yeah, but please, don't hold back, just say it.
26:21Okay.
26:22I'm just gonna enjoy it.
26:23Um, in Berlin, you often come across left-wing vegans wearing Doc Martens.
26:30Yeah.
26:32And jeans that are a little too short.
26:35Above the ankles.
26:37Um...
26:39Hey, I fulfill a lot of stereotypes, so...
26:42Okay. I, um...
26:46I'm kind of worried...
26:50Yeah?
26:52That we might not be...
26:55100% compatible, because...
26:58I'm a little...
27:01I think you're a really nice guy, and that's, uh, everything a woman could wish for, and I'm afraid that, um...
27:07I could come across as too strong, or too intense.
27:20I think what you're looking for many would describe as strength or masculinity, we can put it that way.
27:25Yeah, okay.
27:27Um...
27:28Yeah.
27:30I can tell you how masculine, how strong I am, I can give you... I could give you examples.
27:35Yeah, but I still get the feeling that you see me as gentle and weak.
27:40I know I have that side, but...
27:43I also like that side of me. I'm proud of it, too. I like being considerate.
27:47I like that side of you, too. It's not like... It's... It's... It's fantastic, that side. It's... It's great.
27:53I'm just worried that it doesn't match mine.
27:58Where are we going on vacation? You say, oh, I don't care, honey, wherever you want to go.
28:02And I say, what do you want to eat today? And you say, honey, as long as you're happy, can I lean on your shoulder without...
28:09Without me breaking, you mean?
28:11Yeah.
28:12I don't know what to say to that. I could give you a thousand examples of when I was there for friends when I was strong, but it feels wrong because it's like...
28:24That's nonsense. And you, yesterday, you were the strongest person in the world when you were there for me. That's... So...
28:34I understand how you see me.
28:36I'm sorry.
28:37Because... No. Hey, no. Don't be sorry. Just be honest with me.
28:42I don't know what...
28:45What else has to happen because the only thing that's missing is actually the most important thing. And that's the...
28:54Excitement and stuff. And people often say that if you don't feel it, then it's real and long-lasting and you don't need a rollercoaster ride. You just have to feel safe and secure.
29:08Um...
29:09I've never had that.
29:10I know the day would come when we would say goodbye.
29:11I don't even know what that feels like.
29:13If I could go down this path with you, then we'll only have each other for, as of today, forever. And your way and the security and everything you give me would be...
29:14If I knew, okay, we're gonna have kids, I would have to feel safe.
29:15If I could go down this path with you, then we'll only have each other for, as of today, forever. And your way and the security and everything you give me would be... If I knew, okay, we're gonna have kids, I would have to feel safe.
29:16If I could go down this path with you, then we'll only have each other for, as of today, forever.
29:23And your way and the security and everything you give me would be... If I knew, okay, we're gonna have kids, I would...
29:31We still have a few days. Still, you need that spark. I don't want to be the nice guy. Um... I wanna be wanted.
29:39I wanna be wanted.
29:41I wanna be wanted.
29:43I wanna be wanted.
29:45We still have a few days. Still, you need that spark. I don't want to be the nice guy. I want to be wanted.
29:58Telling a man he's not manly enough, telling a woman she's not feminine enough, is about the worst thing you can do.
30:08I don't know what kind of spark it would take. All I can do is hope and give everything to make sure we both give what we want.
30:24Yes, I told someone that I think he's too weak for me.
30:29Oh, no. Yes, but I didn't know how else to say it. I mean, he understood what I was...
30:34But that's really like spitting in a person's face.
30:49What crap. I feel very helpless right now. I feel like she could be the right one for me.
30:55But she has to figure out for herself whether I'm the right one for her and...
30:59Yeah. I hope that'll happen.
31:04I'm about to see Jesse for the first time. I'm damn excited.
31:19There's nothing I want more right now than to finally see him, hold him in my arms and start a new life with him.
31:27I'm scared of falling back into old patterns, putting physical appearances first.
31:34This is the last piece of the puzzle that's still missing. Discover and feel that certain traction. And then, full steam ahead.
31:45Full steam ahead.
31:53Oh my god.
31:55Oh god.
31:57Oh my god.
32:09Oh my god.
32:13Oh.
32:14Oh.
32:15Oh.
32:16My.
32:17God.
32:18Dude.
32:19Oh.
32:20My.
32:21God.
32:22Dude.
32:23Oh.
32:24Oh my god.
32:34You're beautiful.
32:35You too.
32:36Oh.
32:37Oh my heart.
32:38oh my heart
32:49hello hello fiance hey hello fiance
32:56oh god
32:57god are we really doing this oh my god
33:13jesse will you be my wife for sure definitely give it to me push
33:19oh my god my god
33:32we're not shooting a porno here okay i just need to calm down i'm fine come maybe we'll calm down if we
33:39sit here mr and mrs palma right i think this is going to be really huge me too
33:46the family is already looking forward to it yeah no kidding i'm really looking forward to it
33:54they're never gonna believe this no one will believe no no one's gonna believe it
34:07you're sitting there and i don't know you can't keep your hands off each other so
34:11yeah it's a tricky situation i'm sweating all over
34:18thank you great i have to leave you now
34:25i'm excited me too
34:27we'll see each other again soon
34:42my finger was finally deflowered after 32 years strike
34:46when i look into konsti's eyes i see
34:53a great future that we'll have together there's so much ahead of us and i can't wait
35:03we're euphoric i have a really good feeling since we also physically matched guys what are you doing
35:10here lucky little kid is sitting here you know so now a little pump up yeah cup up the muscles work
35:27out of it
35:31but you have a hair sticking out there up there or like uh yeah that's my floored antenna okay yeah
35:35so leave it there yeah yeah exactly that's what i meant so i'm dating a few women now so uh celia
35:42yasmin and nadia i mean i don't have a method for how to filter these things i think i'll just go
35:47back into the conversations be open and then somehow let my gut feeling decide
35:52with andy it just fits but i can't really explain it but
36:07maybe i just haven't seen any men in a long time
36:10ah someone's coming into the pod in a good mood yeah hello hey celia this is andy i missed your laugh
36:24oh that's such a lovely compliment thanks uh do you have another cool question you want to get off
36:30your chest yes so let's say the two of us are married do you think your friends would include me
36:37completely hey if you were my wife you would always come along and i would want that too but of
36:43course there would be some moments when my single friends would want me to come along on my own yeah
36:49for sure right then i'd say okay i'm not gonna stay out until three and get wasted but i'll be back
36:56home at one that i let you stay out until three too yeah okay not bad um how do you deal with jealousy
37:05i'm actually pretty relaxed but if i saw you talking to a man if we're in a club for example
37:12or if you were talking to him too intensely then i think what's going on there yeah then i'd let my
37:20alpha side show a little and say if he does anything i want to know about it and then i'd want you to
37:26show a clear line otherwise i'd get involved i like what you said i think it's important for a
37:34man to have a certain level of dominance because i want to feel safe too yeah you can and um yeah you
37:40just made me feel that way i think i'm a good guy right i mean i think so too but i have to be honest
37:48too okay the thing is i'm currently dating a few women of course but i can tell that i feel like
37:56there's a special vibe between us and a special intensity and i can also feel your warmth and i can
38:03tell it really works you know i just think i think it's so crazy that you can sense that warmth it's crazy
38:10okay nice
38:21i'm leaving here with a big smile on my face me too and yeah andy has charmed me a little that's true
38:31yes this is so cheesy
38:35celia is a very very interesting person and i can feel a certain connection is developing that i
38:45haven't felt before
38:50do you have lipstick sure would you like mine here you go how are you how was it good you're grinning
38:59again who who did you see andy i just had a date with andy and it was good it was good i thought oh my god
39:09oh my god yes
39:15and when i hear that so and so also likes him i wish the girls all the best but somehow it puts pressure
39:19on me
39:22celia told me she had a good date with andy honestly it's just we're so different so that's what i keep
39:28thinking you know i think it's so like weird yeah he needs to know what he wants
39:33with andy day after day every date gets better i like him more and more and tomorrow i might take
39:40things up a notch yeah
39:49it's crazy that he likes us all especially since we're all so different i love the girls but i'm here
39:56to meet a man and i need to focus on myself hi this is andy oh i'm so relieved why that it's you
40:05i have to admit i was really hoping that we'd meet for you i wrote bundle of energy that's all
40:14i love that your voice is a little hoarse i think that's super cute
40:17yeah how long have you been single again a year and a half about a year and a half
40:22oh i remembered that right um have you ever lived with a woman i thought you were gonna ask have you
40:28ever slept with a woman um are you are you still a virgin are you still a virgin yes no sex before
40:34marriage nadia so yeah i'm sorry i can't do this i have to i'll have to see what you have to know
40:40beforehand what the deal is i have to know what i'm getting myself into for the rest of my life
40:45honestly yeah i uh don't worry about that i mean i'm a dancer you know
40:54i won't say more than that yeah i don't need to know more
40:57what oh man now you've totally you're welcome it was my pleasure yeah oh god uh let me concentrate
41:04for a second then i'll know where we are i have images in my head i asked whether you've ever
41:11lived with a woman all right uh yeah i have that was a long time ago uh i was in a quite a long
41:17relationship where we sort of lived together i mean she brought her stuff to my place but she was
41:22often at her parents place so i have yeah my goodness i feel like we started something here
41:27that needs to be continued yeah definitely i find natia really interesting too she's so
41:33fiery so full of energy all the things that i find attractive in a woman just because she's so
41:38yeah open-hearted i'm thinking it could be a good fit sounds good
41:45wait
41:51it's so cool to see how you can feel sexual energy through a wall and you don't have to see each
41:57other but that it's possible just through a connection i want to keep getting to know andy
42:03it was really good guys we have to see each other again i'm happy i knew what i wanted
42:19i need a drink i feel really tense yeah crazy crazy so i rank the women higher when they're similar
42:29to me in the mindset and character so the decisions getting harder and harder i feel like we're
42:35starting to get closer and i feel they're warm yeah yeah it's not boring here no yeah it's very very
42:44exciting at the moment because i have three women on my short list celia yasmine and natia and there's
42:50no gap between one two and three and that's why it's really going to come down to a gut feeling
42:55man i really want a woman yeah who lies in my arms like really were you just gonna say hey wow i'm
43:04here i've arrived
43:13i've decided i wanted to focus on yon i feel like we're on the same wavelength and we know where we
43:20want to go in life but we can also figure it out together hey luan this is yon hello oh luan for god's
43:29sakes man should i ask you how you're doing yeah i can't imagine someone leaving a date with me and
43:36thinking man i had so much fun with yon i totally feel that and to make you feel better too and i say
43:43this with sheer sincerity i had a really lovely conversation with you yesterday and to be
43:49completely honest i feel the same way lovely well not lovely but no no well it's lovely because we
43:54think the same way these are basically issues you have with yourself right um the stuff we're talking
43:59about right now that you compare yourself and so on um how is it for you when you're confronted with a
44:05me problem as i'll call it um how do you solve it um i um i actually always uh talk openly about
44:17things with friends family but i also spend time by myself journaling so i actually really like
44:22writing down my thoughts i realized that it's quite good to do it that way um and with conflicts in
44:31general i always need a moment to sort out my thoughts before i bring something up but that
44:37happens relatively quickly for me it's not like i think about something for five weeks and then i tell
44:42you about it it's more i feel something very quickly and then i bring it up um what about you
44:51i'm completely blown away why i couldn't pick my job off the floor that was i mean i genuinely don't know
45:06what to say right now um wow well i feel very much the same way um i don't want to say identical
45:16because that might be a bit much but very similar yeah i'm also a reflective person yeah that's really
45:22nice i can also tell that you express yourself very eloquently which i really like i'm glad to hear
45:28that i do have a real affinity for language do you know what oh god whatever yeah i'll just say it do
45:36you know what's one of my really weird green flags what why are you laughing i really like it
45:46when a woman masters the genitive case yeah well it's probably that's a very very big work of
45:57mine i also really enjoy talking to you because of your addiction i really like that too my diction
46:02yes never heard that i've really been complimented on everything but not that
46:08my diction yeah so i don't have to be so in my head anymore yeah you don't have to be me neither and
46:17neither do you yeah well i was going to ask if you're an overthinker i always say because i'm an
46:25overthinker i need an over communicator totally yeah hey i mean i'm listening to you and i refuse to
46:32believe that that you're really real we're hopeless the pair of us i'm excited to see what comes next
46:39no one me too
46:44i think the knot has come undone
46:50the two of us are really similar it feels very easy with it i never thought that would happen that
46:56is so nice just lovely so great so lovely oh this is amazing oh i need to cry for a moment sweetie let
47:08it all out that's good it's beautiful wow how sweet hey what nice guys we have this season
47:17wendy is clearly my number one but of course there's josie who i find very interesting as we
47:29had this incredible moment together i'm curious to see if it'll have an impact but i can't say for
47:36sure yet i'll have to listen to my cut but it'll definitely be interesting i really wish you could see
47:42me today because so fine like too fine yes okay let's be direct what is your favorite body part on the
47:56opposite sex and what's your favorite body part on yourself i'd say i really love really love a man's
48:05back oh then you'll oops yes yes i like a good back i think that's just amazing and on myself
48:16actually also my back and my lips that's my favorite favorite hey a toned back on a woman
48:25yeah backless dresses and a sporty figure you know a nice booty no one would say no to that
48:31and what clothes do you feel sexy and why well i really like a good gym outfit
48:44and i also genuinely like really nice underwear that's so what color it's very um i think dark
48:53green is really nice green is my favorite color yeah yeah you'll like this yeah
48:58that what i love is when you can have sex anywhere in the apartment for example without thinking
49:09about it yeah not like oh we have to go to the bedroom if you're like in the kitchen and in the
49:14kitchen when you're in the bathroom in the bathroom you know you don't think about it it just happens
49:18and i think that's really nice well i have to say um so far i haven't been able to let myself go like
49:25that okay because i always need emotions and i need i can only do it with my husband the way i'd
49:33like to try things out it's been more like you you've had sex and felt uncomfortable yeah there was
49:40definitely an inhibition you can't just go just yeah yeah wow there was definitely an inhibition and
49:47that's why it's like okay it wasn't what i wanted to do yet that's why i know for sure with my husband
49:55to have that security and it'll it'll be different yeah
50:01i had a brief moment where i thought the lack of yeah yeah experience could be a problem in the
50:07relationship sure i can't deny that i don't want to say that i'm going to get cold feet now
50:14but i definitely want fire and passion in my marriage
50:20josie is a really great person she's very lovely she's incredibly open and it means a lot to me that
50:27she confided in me that moment we shared together so first of all i want to say thank you so much for
50:32opening up to me i can only express gratitude uh to you two really i felt so understood and safe and of
50:40course a white person can also give me that no question but it's different with you i know you
50:48feel me i love it oh look how cute we are this is emotional really i've become so so so soft here
50:57it's crazy but it's nice oh that's really lovely i love it i can really cuddle right now i'm just
51:03saying they're the moments where i could just hold the person squeeze them yeah but with those arms around
51:09me i know they'll protect me no matter what and they can hold me tight and that yeah i like that
51:15carry yeah i do like that yeah i didn't say anything there's definitely a certain physical
51:25stability that comes from strength training right let's just put it that way okay okay
51:30it's always interesting i mean sex affection and stuff that's a big topic
51:40a man of transitions now me where did you get that idea uh yeah i've noticed that when i meet
51:47someone and we kiss and i have the feeling that even the kissing isn't good yeah i already see a lot
51:52of issues there and wonder if i can really stay with the person long term because i know hey i would
51:58really miss that for instance i love it when a woman really takes initiative comes up to me and
52:05tells me like i want you i think that's so sexy and also when it's spontaneous the living room table is
52:12also okay kitchen kitchen great kitchen the kitchen is very underrated
52:21yeah a bit of a bad boy here i'm harmless i'm a nut oh god
52:35yeah this is getting a little spicy
52:40josie definitely brings passion and fire definitely that's really nice too i think it's completely natural
52:46and uh to be able to talk openly about sex and generally about intimate stuff so yeah it was
52:52interesting today for sure i don't know what kind of impact it'll have on me we'll see but yeah it was
52:59definitely a very interesting conversation
53:04and how is josie i don't know i mean oh you like her too yeah okay well great i mean that was the most
53:15open and honest conversation it was a bit you know flirty and jokey i mean it wasn't dirty talk or
53:21anything like that i didn't know you were dating the question is uh what does your gut tell you
53:33the question is more what does her gut tell her
53:36you're really into her yeah totally and she is she definitely has concerns what kind that i'm that
53:46i'm too weak as a person i think the question i ask myself when i hear that
53:56do you want to take the risk of having to prove that you're strong enough
54:02because that will inevitably happen some way because i don't want to do that to be honest
54:08she has to figure that out i have nothing to do with that i'm taking a risk emotionally
54:13yeah but to me she's worth the risk
54:16my gut feeling tells me that with you two you're the safe choice in that sense that you're a safe bet
54:24and i think she needs a bit of that roughness yeah rough and tough yeah and that's not me but she has
54:33to figure that out for herself yeah so you're a good guy if it's not josie there are plenty of women
54:40out there on this planet yeah but i want josie yeah yeah this is going to be really tough wow i'm
54:48really i'm a bit worried about how the day will go yeah yeah honestly i don't know if i'm the right
54:59person for josie i really want to be wanted right now because i know i want her that's an imbalance
55:07that's okay temporarily but i don't think it would work in the long run hello hello i'm a little afraid
55:24that she's only seeing me because she thinks it's the responsible thing to do and maybe she's lying
55:28to herself a bit that a spark might still develop how are you exhausted to be honest today's been
55:35crazy huh but you're doing okay yeah i am yeah i'm not in control of much anyway that actually gives me
55:43a bit of peace um i'm looking forward to spending time with you the rest can wait
55:49i'm sure the stakes are higher and a fall isn't unlikely but there's always a risk right yeah i
55:59took the time to think things over again um and i took account of the pros and cons for myself too
56:05and um i promised you that i wouldn't come in here with any preconceived ideas or decisions
56:14um but i've had a realization
56:32some days words it gets so hard trying to mend my broken heart messed up i've been torn
56:42but i can't cry knowing you are by her side
57:12but i don't feel like it will be stronger but i've had a good stand here
57:15so that's not a part of my mind
57:19i think asstone the kes然後 and for you know the prime minister
57:21they have a way to go 행 in here
57:22yes
57:23because i mean like Gemini can address all of our bodies
57:33no it's that's funny
57:34so we thought we didn't have a lot of this
57:35right
57:36yes
57:39but i hope you're listening
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