90 Day Fiance- The Other Way - Season 7 Episode 01- Cest La Vie
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00:00:00I'm leaving a six-figure job to move to Aruba because I fell in love with a man on a pirate ship.
00:00:12Madeleine, here you come.
00:00:14Look, finally!
00:00:16Moving to Colombia.
00:00:21She said, you need to move or else.
00:00:27I'm 58 and I'm still shaking.
00:00:30What happened, baby?
00:00:32But now I'm moving to Tasmania to be with Dylan.
00:00:35Welcome. Hi, beautiful.
00:00:50We are going to France! Yay!
00:00:53The American dream is actually killing me.
00:00:55So we are moving to France to save our marriage.
00:00:59Oh, the smell!
00:01:03I was thinking I was going on a cute date.
00:01:06What is wrong with you?
00:01:07I'm going back to L.A.
00:01:12Baby, let's pack.
00:01:14We are in a financial crisis.
00:01:16And we decided to move in with the family.
00:01:19Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.
00:01:21What's your benefit?
00:01:23I have no plans of staying with the family permanently.
00:01:27What is this?
00:01:28Daru did you?
00:01:29F*** no!
00:01:32Do you see him?
00:01:33I really want to trust Jonathan, but it's hard when he's a booze-cruze host.
00:01:38My trust issues come from your actions.
00:01:43You work with him.
00:01:44I want to go out with my friend, okay?
00:01:46You can't control me like that.
00:01:48Respect me!
00:01:49Respect what I f***ing say!
00:01:54Did you touch Ken?
00:01:55I didn't touch her.
00:01:56I mean, what...
00:01:57I didn't...
00:01:58I think I am f***ing stupid.
00:02:07All right, give me one.
00:02:08Chloe has no idea what she is doing.
00:02:32My friend is about to make the biggest mistake of her life, and I really need to stop her.
00:02:38This is probably the most iconic photo of me.
00:02:41This is my personality in one photo.
00:02:55That's it right there.
00:02:58I mean, nothing's changed.
00:03:01I mean, nothing's changed.
00:03:08Okay.
00:03:12Gotta have it, gotta have it, it's a wonderful thing
00:03:15Because I dream it and I think it and it's all I can see
00:03:18I don't really know where to start, actually, with all this stuff.
00:03:25It's really overwhelming.
00:03:27My name is Chloe, I am 23 years old, and I live in Boxford, Massachusetts.
00:03:342008, what is that, first grade?
00:03:36First grade already winning trophies, I mean, we're doing something right.
00:03:40I'm very competitive in anything I do.
00:03:43These are some accomplishments.
00:03:46Of course these aren't all, but there was a few.
00:03:48I started cheerleading when I was four or five.
00:03:52I did, like, a club team with my school, and then I also did competitive cheerleading for years.
00:04:01Growing up, my mom was able to give me the most amazing life.
00:04:08Total spoiled princess.
00:04:10I got everything I wanted.
00:04:12Now, I work with my mom as a sales rep, and it's always been my mom's dream
00:04:17that I would take over her shipping and logistics business.
00:04:20My life was already set on a path.
00:04:23Money, security, comfortability, on a silver platter.
00:04:28And then on vacation in Aruba, I fell in love with a man on a pirate ship.
00:04:32It's true, though.
00:04:46Jonathan is 32 years old.
00:04:48He's from Aruba, and he's an entertainer on a pirate ship party boat.
00:04:53We first met when I was on a girl's trip, and I saw him on the boat, shirtless.
00:04:59I just thought he was gorgeous, and that was it.
00:05:06But my first impression was, I don't want to say kind of he was, like, cocky,
00:05:12but he definitely knew, like, what he had going on.
00:05:16And I was like, oh, no.
00:05:18Like, no.
00:05:20You're not going to do that with me.
00:05:21Like, don't give me that, you know, energy.
00:05:24But we later met him at a bar, and he was really funny and actually really sweet.
00:05:31And I remember him just saying, like, oh, like, you'll have to come back.
00:05:34He, like, looked at me.
00:05:35I'm like, you're looking through my soul.
00:05:37I was like, uh, I don't know.
00:05:39And I'm not a shy person, but I was like, yeah, like, I'm going to come back.
00:05:44A few days after I got back to Boston, I had already booked my flight back to Aruba.
00:05:51I went back another time, and another time, and another time.
00:05:56And now, after 11 months of long distance, I'm packing up my entire life in Boston and moving to Aruba.
00:06:04I know that if I don't make the move to Aruba, we would not last long distance, and it's not a risk that I am willing to take.
00:06:15This isn't going to all fit.
00:06:19Are you really going to wear high heels on the beach?
00:06:22I mean, not on the beach, but...
00:06:24Jeans?
00:06:25Well, look, a cute tank top.
00:06:27Some little heels.
00:06:29I've been there five times, and I've never once even put on a pair of pants.
00:06:32You know, not all superheroes wear capes.
00:06:37Not all people can wear jeans in Aruba.
00:06:40My parents divorced when I was two or three, and I lived with my mom predominantly.
00:06:47She is truly my best friend.
00:06:51She was like my Brock, basically, growing up.
00:06:56Did you remember to pack all my makeup stuff?
00:06:58I think so.
00:07:00I think I did.
00:07:00I'll double check, honey.
00:07:01I need that eye cream.
00:07:03Right.
00:07:03If you need this eye cream, you probably shouldn't be living in Aruba, because you can't get it there.
00:07:07That's why you're going to come visit me and deliver it to me.
00:07:09Oh, really?
00:07:09So that's what I am.
00:07:10I'm going to be your delivery person, huh?
00:07:12I think living in Aruba will be challenging, to say the least.
00:07:19I'm not, when I want something, I'm not, when I want something, I kind of get it type mindset, and now I'm going to be in the middle of nowhere, in this tiny little, like, sandbox.
00:07:30I actually don't even know what I'm going to do.
00:07:32I can't believe that you're going to go living in another country.
00:07:38Packing you away to school was one thing.
00:07:41This is, um, this is really hard.
00:07:46I'm not going, like, to prison.
00:07:48Like, I can also just, you can come visit, and, like, I can come see you.
00:07:53You can come see me.
00:07:54When we really look at it, Chloe, you are moving to another country for a pirate.
00:08:01I mean, not everyone wants to work a nine-to-five.
00:08:06Understood.
00:08:07But how sustainable is piracy?
00:08:09I'm not going to be a pirate, hopefully, you know?
00:08:11I, you never know.
00:08:12I mean, you're not going to have a ton of options there.
00:08:15I'm just going to wing it.
00:08:18You're going to be leaving a lot behind.
00:08:20I feel like I'm getting robbed, you know, in a sense.
00:08:25I worked so hard so that she could have opportunities,
00:08:29and she's leaving those opportunities behind.
00:08:33She's going to have a much harder life, and that's not what I want with my daughter.
00:08:37You know, how you live here is, is, it's very different.
00:08:43At the end of the day, are you going to be happy not having your $80 face wash
00:08:50and having cold showers every day?
00:08:53I'm leaving a six-figure job with my mom to move to Aruba,
00:08:57which is obviously insane, but love does make you do crazy things.
00:09:09Johnny has a laundry list of girls behind him,
00:09:13and he's not the guy that you start your life with.
00:09:15My husband has grown up with this guy,
00:09:18and I know a lot of things about him.
00:09:20Not all of them are good.
00:09:23I really thought this was just going to be a fling,
00:09:25but now that she's really serious about moving there,
00:09:28I feel like I have to stop her before she just goes to another country,
00:09:31and she doesn't even know what she's getting herself into.
00:09:35I just want to get there already so I can talk Chloe
00:09:37out of making this decision.
00:09:40Let's go!
00:09:52When I walk in the room,
00:09:55everybody's got a life,
00:09:56doom,
00:09:57doom,
00:09:57doom,
00:09:57with a bang and a boom,
00:10:00a little bit dramatic,
00:10:01but I'm coming for you.
00:10:03To the danger,
00:10:05to the danger,
00:10:08to the danger.
00:10:09Love that, love that.
00:10:11Looking good.
00:10:13My name is Manon,
00:10:14I'm 32,
00:10:15and I am from Marseille,
00:10:16south of France, baby.
00:10:19But I live in Los Angeles.
00:10:22Vogue.
00:10:24Today I'm having a special photo shoot with my fat babes
00:10:27to showcase we can be plus-sized, curvy, fat,
00:10:31but loving ourselves.
00:10:33Let's do it here on the pavement.
00:10:34In France,
00:10:35everyone is so judgmental about your weight.
00:10:38If you dare to wear bright outfits,
00:10:42but you have a little bit of, like, curves,
00:10:45you're going to be stared down all day long.
00:10:47So 12 years ago,
00:10:49I actually started a social media page
00:10:51about being plus-sized and living in France.
00:10:53Je suis la fille qui passe et qui ne s'arrête pas.
00:10:58It started becoming, actually, really popular.
00:11:00And then, one day,
00:11:02I just got a phone call,
00:11:03and it was a plus-sized denim brand.
00:11:06I said,
00:11:07hey, I'm the CEO,
00:11:08and I want to invite you to come to L.A.
00:11:10for a plus-sized photo shoot.
00:11:12I went,
00:11:13and I never came back again.
00:11:16Three, two...
00:11:21Once I was here,
00:11:22I was able to meet so many other girls just like me.
00:11:28Chastity!
00:11:29Yeah, swing!
00:11:31These women were not afraid of being who they want to be
00:11:35and afraid of wearing beautiful outfits.
00:11:37They were just, like, so proud and confident.
00:11:40It really made me feel I belong.
00:11:43Scooch down a little bit to your right.
00:11:45My right?
00:11:45The whole body, yeah.
00:11:46So I can get your head right in between those two girls.
00:11:48My American dream was starting to become true,
00:11:51but something was missing.
00:11:54Come here, sexy.
00:11:58I'm Anthony.
00:11:59I'm 33 years old and from Corona, California.
00:12:04We've been married for, actually, three years.
00:12:08And new parents of a little baby boy, Benjamin.
00:12:11We are very much opposites.
00:12:18Yes, we are like the yin and the yang.
00:12:22I'm a shy person,
00:12:23and she's very outgoing and passionate.
00:12:27He is the stay-at-home dad,
00:12:28and I am the one who walks, provides.
00:12:32Guys, since I gave birth,
00:12:33do I have creams in my entire body now when I pose?
00:12:36I cannot do anymore.
00:12:37Who's that chick?
00:12:39She a bad bitch?
00:12:40It's like big, quick, Shiva,
00:12:43all her own money.
00:12:44I am an executive marketing director,
00:12:47and I own my agency for social media
00:12:49and digital marketing.
00:12:51I'm all about, you know, walk, walk, walk.
00:12:56I'm going to go change my lens and grab a little one.
00:12:58I'll be right back.
00:12:59Okay.
00:13:00Oh, well.
00:13:01You did amazing, guys.
00:13:04Let me stand up.
00:13:04Woo!
00:13:05Well, while we are waiting for the camera,
00:13:09I just wanted to say something to you really quick,
00:13:12because you know me since I first moved.
00:13:14I think I need to attach my hair for this,
00:13:16because it's going to be something.
00:13:19Are you pregnant?
00:13:21Girl.
00:13:22I'm struggling with one cage.
00:13:24I don't know.
00:13:25You are dropping.
00:13:26And my mind are off.
00:13:26Oh, my God.
00:13:28Okay.
00:13:31A few weeks ago,
00:13:32I came to the point where I'm like,
00:13:35I'm at the end of my rope,
00:13:36because I'm overwhelmed and overworked, right?
00:13:39I don't see my husband.
00:13:40I don't see my son.
00:13:42Antoni is also overworked and overwhelmed.
00:13:44The dad is staying at home full time.
00:13:46It is really hard.
00:13:48Yeah.
00:13:48And the thing is,
00:13:49like, we both were kind of losing each other
00:13:52a little bit in the process.
00:13:54So,
00:13:56Mom,
00:13:56I'm sorry.
00:13:58It's just I wanted to let you know something
00:14:00that's really,
00:14:00it's been on my heart for a few weeks now.
00:14:04I'm staying in my house,
00:14:05and I'm going back to France full time.
00:14:08I'm leaving L.A.
00:14:10Oh, my God.
00:14:11I don't even should, like,
00:14:13laugh or cry.
00:14:14It's just...
00:14:15But that's it.
00:14:16I'm going back home.
00:14:17For my family.
00:14:22Yeah, so it's for my husband,
00:14:25for a good quality of life.
00:14:27He's going to be the one working fully now,
00:14:30so I can focus on my son,
00:14:32because you know me.
00:14:34Here, it's, like,
00:14:35it's a lot.
00:14:36You know, it's a lot.
00:14:37I totally get it.
00:14:38The quality of life,
00:14:39the health care,
00:14:41like, that everything makes sense,
00:14:42but, like,
00:14:43you're, like,
00:14:43the most American person I know.
00:14:46Ironic.
00:14:47I think you're a confident person
00:14:49that's worked so hard.
00:14:52That's a huge sacrifice.
00:14:53I'm really shocked
00:14:56that she's leaving,
00:14:57because she loves L.A.
00:14:58She loves working,
00:15:00and I know the society
00:15:01hasn't changed as much there
00:15:03and isn't as accepting
00:15:05of curvy bodies
00:15:06and confident women,
00:15:08so I'm really nervous
00:15:09that they're not going to be ready
00:15:11from home back in France.
00:15:13You've been working so much,
00:15:17so long,
00:15:18that maybe this is your time
00:15:20to maybe relax.
00:15:21I'm scared, Cindy.
00:15:22I'm not going to be able to,
00:15:23you know me.
00:15:24I'm going to want to do something,
00:15:25because I need to buy a house there.
00:15:26Yeah.
00:15:27So we are going to stay
00:15:28with my parents for a little bit
00:15:29in a very tiny home.
00:15:31I support you.
00:15:32I'm just very scared for you.
00:15:34Yes, me too.
00:15:35You left France
00:15:36because of how you were treated.
00:15:38Are you scared at all
00:15:40of, like, that could happen again?
00:15:42Oh, I'm scared.
00:15:43Yeah.
00:15:43Yeah.
00:15:44I've been bullied
00:15:44my whole life with my family.
00:15:46I love them,
00:15:48but, but,
00:15:49there's a big, big, big, big but.
00:15:52They've been living in France
00:15:53their whole life, right?
00:15:55So I'm still worried
00:15:56that all of the old patterns,
00:15:58they haven't changed or anything.
00:16:01Antoni was meeting my family
00:16:02for the first time ever.
00:16:04You know when I went
00:16:05to see my grandpa,
00:16:06what happened?
00:16:06The first thing he said
00:16:07to me, he looked at me
00:16:08and he's like,
00:16:10how a girl like you
00:16:11married a man like that?
00:16:13Wow.
00:16:14Like, excuse me?
00:16:14That's horrible.
00:16:15That's horrible.
00:16:16My grandpa and my,
00:16:17like, even just, like,
00:16:18little things,
00:16:18like, my mom would be like,
00:16:19oh, did you gain some weight?
00:16:21Oh, you lost a little bit.
00:16:22Just, why is it a criteria?
00:16:24You cannot just say,
00:16:25hi, how are you?
00:16:26But this type of thing
00:16:27that makes you feel like,
00:16:28you know,
00:16:29makes you feel you're never enough.
00:16:30You're never enough.
00:16:34That's why I wanted
00:16:35to do that shit today
00:16:36because I was like,
00:16:37that's most probably
00:16:39going to be the last one.
00:16:40Because over there,
00:16:41there's no girls
00:16:43like you guys.
00:16:44It's not going to be the last one.
00:16:44People are bringing you down.
00:16:47People look at you
00:16:48like a freak,
00:16:49you know,
00:16:49and you're big and stuff.
00:16:50Yeah.
00:16:51And that's what I was missing
00:16:52in France.
00:16:53It's people like you
00:16:55that I could connect with.
00:16:56Because at home,
00:16:57I was always the fat girl.
00:16:59Like, why does she want
00:17:00to dream like that
00:17:01and go to L.A.?
00:17:03I've always felt like
00:17:04I'm a freaking weirdo.
00:17:06You know?
00:17:06My whole life.
00:17:08And being hidden
00:17:09really saves my life.
00:17:14Growing up in France
00:17:15always made me feel like
00:17:17I was less than.
00:17:19I remember being bullied.
00:17:22All of the other kids
00:17:23at school
00:17:23were making fun of me,
00:17:24chewing gum in my hair,
00:17:26spitting on me,
00:17:28calling me the whale,
00:17:29calling me fat.
00:17:29And I know that my parents,
00:17:31they were trying
00:17:31to do their best.
00:17:32But I do have a lot
00:17:33of resentment
00:17:34on how I was raised
00:17:36and the things
00:17:38that they said to me.
00:17:40So, moving back
00:17:41to France
00:17:41with my parents
00:17:42is definitely
00:17:43going to be
00:17:44a big challenge
00:17:45and I feel
00:17:45very, very stressed.
00:17:47I love my husband.
00:17:48I love my son.
00:17:49I see the bigger picture,
00:17:51but on the other side,
00:17:52I'm scared as s***
00:17:53because I'm going
00:17:54to miss it a lot
00:17:55here, you know?
00:18:03I am Madeline
00:18:04and I come in
00:18:05from Medellin, Colombia.
00:18:06Bien, recordá tu postura.
00:18:07Look, my fiancé
00:18:09tricks me
00:18:10like king queen.
00:18:13What do you want me
00:18:14to do, like this?
00:18:15It's horrible.
00:18:18Baby, let's pack.
00:18:20We are in financial crisis
00:18:22right now
00:18:22and we decide
00:18:23to move in
00:18:24with the family.
00:18:24Oh.
00:18:37I'm going to keep you up
00:18:50tonight, baby.
00:18:53Yeah, you need some good love
00:18:55and a good night.
00:18:57Baby, grab a bag.
00:18:58You should pack it like.
00:18:59Let me know you.
00:19:00Come on, come on.
00:19:02I can't wait for you.
00:19:03Yeah, tonight you living
00:19:05not your best life.
00:19:07You're just a little
00:19:08after come.
00:19:12Look so handsome.
00:19:13Oh, oh.
00:19:15Oh.
00:19:16I'll be the reason
00:19:18I'll be the best
00:19:21you've ever had.
00:19:23What are they putting
00:19:26on your face?
00:19:27These are all
00:19:28natural items
00:19:30for the good
00:19:30for the skin.
00:19:31I'm Jenny.
00:19:36I'm 67 years old.
00:19:38I'm from Palm Springs,
00:19:39California.
00:19:40And this is my
00:19:42cute husband, Sumit.
00:19:44I'm Sumit.
00:19:45I'm 36 years old.
00:19:46I'm married
00:19:46to this beautiful queen.
00:19:48I am Sadna.
00:19:50I am Sumit Mom.
00:19:51I'm so happy.
00:20:04I'm so happy.
00:20:07I'm sitting in the middle
00:20:08of two most important
00:20:09years of being together,
00:20:13his parents have finally
00:20:15accepted our relationship.
00:20:17I'm so happy.
00:20:19I'm sitting in the middle
00:20:20of two most important
00:20:21women of my life.
00:20:23And here she loved you.
00:20:24Oh.
00:20:33But it's been a long
00:20:34journey to get here.
00:20:38We met on social media
00:20:392011.
00:20:41We continued in a
00:20:42long distance relationship
00:20:44until I finally decided
00:20:45to move to India
00:20:46to marry Sumit.
00:20:48Denny.
00:20:50Oh, my God.
00:20:52There you are.
00:20:54Oh.
00:20:59I thought Sumit and I
00:21:01were going to live
00:21:02happily ever after
00:21:03until I found out
00:21:05he was already married.
00:21:07That was a big shock.
00:21:11What do I do?
00:21:12I'm scared.
00:21:14Unity.
00:21:14Yeah, it's a nightmare
00:21:17at all.
00:21:17Why is this happening
00:21:19right now?
00:21:20Why is this happening?
00:21:21I gave up everything
00:21:24I gave me and doing.
00:21:27Why tell me you love me
00:21:28and talk to me every
00:21:29single day and still
00:21:30marry somebody else
00:21:31and not tell me?
00:21:32Because I don't want
00:21:33to lose you.
00:21:35It's not that I want
00:21:35to marry.
00:21:36It's not like that
00:21:37I want to be with her.
00:21:39My parents forced me
00:21:41into an unhappy
00:21:42arranged marriage.
00:21:43It was one of the
00:21:44most difficult times
00:21:46of our relationship.
00:21:48But he told me he
00:21:49was going to get a
00:21:50divorce and he did.
00:21:52But my family was
00:21:53not ready to accept
00:21:54our relation because
00:21:55of 30 years of age gap.
00:21:58I am not old enough
00:22:10to be his grandmother.
00:22:14It impacted our
00:22:16relationship a lot.
00:22:18There were several times
00:22:19that I threatened
00:22:21to go back to the U.S.
00:22:23You promised me
00:22:24we were going to get
00:22:25married this time.
00:22:26So I would never have
00:22:27to leave India again.
00:22:28But do you know
00:22:28the situation or not?
00:22:29It's always because
00:22:31of your parents
00:22:31every time.
00:22:33I'm not going to keep
00:22:34coming back and leaving
00:22:36every damn six months.
00:22:37I'm not going to keep
00:22:38doing it.
00:22:38You're not going to keep
00:22:39telling me you're going to
00:22:39marry your
00:22:40off.
00:22:41That's it.
00:22:46this
00:22:46We wanted to be
00:22:50together.
00:22:51We wanted to be married.
00:22:53But we didn't have
00:22:54his family's approval.
00:22:56So we decided to get
00:22:58married in secret.
00:22:59I authorize Jenny
00:23:02and Sumit
00:23:04as husband
00:23:05and wife.
00:23:08When I broke
00:23:12the news to my family
00:23:13my mom gets so mad
00:23:14and they disowned
00:23:16me from the family.
00:23:17My mother was not
00:23:31happy that I chose
00:23:32Jenny over family.
00:23:33And that was a
00:23:34very sad time.
00:23:35Very devastated time.
00:23:38But the big shocker
00:23:39of last year was when
00:23:41my mom finally accepted
00:23:43our relationship.
00:23:47Oh, my mom.
00:23:48Oh, what a cute
00:23:49little bun.
00:23:50Oh, so cute little.
00:23:52Anybody got a bow?
00:23:53My brother, my sister-in-law
00:23:56and my father accepted
00:23:57Jenny.
00:23:58I think she realized
00:23:59that like she's the only
00:24:01one who's missing.
00:24:03She couldn't fight it
00:24:04anymore.
00:24:06Guy did a good job.
00:24:07Yeah, your skin
00:24:08looks really nice.
00:24:11Such a mom.
00:24:13How am I
00:24:37as a daughter-in-law?
00:24:39Good daughter-in-law.
00:24:40Yay!
00:24:41Oh, my God.
00:24:44We have a good time
00:24:45together, actually.
00:24:47But now the real test
00:24:49is going to come.
00:24:59Baby, let's back.
00:25:02Okay, I have lots of clothes.
00:25:05Six months ago,
00:25:07we moved into a nice,
00:25:08fancy apartment.
00:25:09It's a gated community.
00:25:12And it is brand new.
00:25:14It's everything I wanted.
00:25:16But he lost his job.
00:25:18And so now we can't afford
00:25:20to pay the rent anymore.
00:25:21So we are in financial
00:25:23crisis right now,
00:25:24and we decide to move
00:25:25in with the family.
00:25:28Oh, boy.
00:25:30Yay.
00:25:30I can't wait to see
00:25:32what happens.
00:25:35This really started
00:25:37to feel like home for me.
00:25:38I was comfortable here,
00:25:41and now I'm just
00:25:42completely devastated.
00:25:43It's costing us a lot,
00:25:45and, you know,
00:25:45I can't handle it
00:25:46by myself.
00:25:48But the financial crisis
00:25:49is giving us a chance
00:25:52that I get to experience
00:25:54living with family.
00:25:55I know how you feel
00:25:57about this.
00:25:58I know this is what
00:25:59you've always wanted,
00:26:00and that's why
00:26:01I'm happy for you.
00:26:02And, of course,
00:26:03I love you,
00:26:03and I'm going to be
00:26:04right there with you
00:26:05by your side.
00:26:06But that doesn't mean
00:26:07I'm not worried.
00:26:08joint families are
00:26:12normal in India,
00:26:13and, you know,
00:26:14everybody knows
00:26:15their responsibility.
00:26:16Everybody knows
00:26:17their duties,
00:26:18from cooking to cleaning.
00:26:20Everybody contributes
00:26:21for the family.
00:26:24You need to be happy.
00:26:26So many years
00:26:27we were struggling
00:26:27to get the acceptance.
00:26:28Finally, we are getting that.
00:26:30I'm happy.
00:26:32Absolutely.
00:26:33But, you know,
00:26:34living with them
00:26:34is a whole other thing.
00:26:37We're not going to be able
00:26:38to live like we've
00:26:39been living here.
00:26:39We've been free.
00:26:41We've been able
00:26:42to do whatever we want.
00:26:44And your mom's,
00:26:45you know,
00:26:45she has a lot of rules.
00:27:04I'm not used
00:27:05to living with parents.
00:27:06And I used to live
00:27:08with my parents always.
00:27:10I know.
00:27:11I lived without them
00:27:13only for six years.
00:27:15So, I mean,
00:27:15we both have
00:27:16a different point of view
00:27:17about this.
00:27:20Sumit thinks that
00:27:21we're all going to live together
00:27:23and everything's
00:27:24going to be great,
00:27:25but I have my doubts.
00:27:28The acceptance is new,
00:27:30and I would rather
00:27:33not rock the boat
00:27:34by us all moving
00:27:35in together,
00:27:36but we don't have
00:27:37a choice.
00:27:40I hope everything
00:27:42works out okay
00:27:43because I don't want
00:27:44anything to happen
00:27:45to our relationship.
00:27:46I get into the ceremony
00:27:55in the helicopter.
00:27:57We need to follow
00:27:58a budget.
00:27:58This is something
00:27:59going to happen
00:28:00just one day
00:28:01in our life.
00:28:02You want to be
00:28:02happy,
00:28:03Jess or no?
00:28:04beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.
00:28:18Buenas noches a todos.
00:28:20Espero que se estén pasando
00:28:21una increÃble noche.
00:28:23Yo quisiera agradecer
00:28:24primeramente a mi familia
00:28:27y también gracias a mÃ
00:28:29porque sé la disciplina,
00:28:31esfuerzo y dedicación
00:28:32con el cual participo.
00:28:35Gracias y feliz noche
00:28:36a todos.
00:28:38¡Guau!
00:28:39¡Eh!
00:28:41¡Súper bien!
00:28:43¡Excelente!
00:28:44¡Uh!
00:28:44¡Uh!
00:28:46I believe, I believe,
00:28:48I believe it's a brand new star.
00:28:51I believe, I believe,
00:28:52I believe in us.
00:28:56I am Madeleine.
00:28:58I have 20 years old
00:28:59and I come in
00:29:00from MedellÃn, Colombia.
00:29:01Bien,
00:29:01recuerda tu postura.
00:29:03I started to do the pageants
00:29:05like one year ago
00:29:07and I love it.
00:29:08I've been in two pageants
00:29:10and in the second one
00:29:11I win.
00:29:16Me encanta.
00:29:19I love the makeup,
00:29:21I love the hair.
00:29:23And everyone is looking at me
00:29:25for like,
00:29:26oh, oh, oh.
00:29:28My biggest motivation
00:29:35is show the world
00:29:37the beautiful woman
00:29:38we have a brain to.
00:29:40And we deserve to be
00:29:42treating like the queens
00:29:43we are.
00:29:45And that is how, look,
00:29:47my fiance tricks me.
00:29:49I am.
00:29:51Hand queen.
00:29:52Let's go.
00:29:59Hola.
00:30:00Hola.
00:30:00Hola.
00:30:00Quien es mi zapatita
00:30:01y no lo amo yo.
00:30:04Te amo.
00:30:05Te amo, mi amor.
00:30:06Ready to practice?
00:30:08Yes, so do it again.
00:30:10Uno, dos.
00:30:12You're so cute.
00:30:13Uno, dos.
00:30:15Uno, dos.
00:30:17Is this good?
00:30:18My baby.
00:30:20You want me to be honest?
00:30:21Yeah.
00:30:23It's horrible.
00:30:25My name's Luke, I'm 31 years old,
00:30:28and I live in the hills north of Los Angeles.
00:30:31What do you want me to do, like this?
00:30:33One, two.
00:30:35You said do one, too.
00:30:37Dios, what are they going to do with you?
00:30:41You're going to marry me.
00:30:43I know.
00:30:44Two years ago, I met Madelaine on a boys trip to Colombia.
00:30:48On slide, you're a movie star,
00:30:52and I love how you act, what you think you are, you know it.
00:30:56We picked Medellin because we've been told
00:30:58they have the hottest girls there.
00:30:59My buddies and I downloaded a couple dating apps,
00:31:02and I met Madelaine literally day one.
00:31:05I just feel I'm on my way, I don't even care if I'm on my way.
00:31:10My jaw dropped, she was beautiful,
00:31:12she had this outfit on with a fur coat,
00:31:15and I was like, damn, girl, like, who the heck is this, right?
00:31:18When I met him in the party zone, he's so hot, like, oh.
00:31:26Touch me here, touch me there, touch me everywhere,
00:31:30I don't care, cause I want you.
00:31:34He was so caballero, so, so, so special.
00:31:39We got along right away, like, what?
00:31:43You know, we just met, how is this that easy?
00:31:46It was so weird because he told me,
00:31:49you're going to be my wife.
00:31:50And he told me, love you, and, oh, my God,
00:31:55we even have, like, a week till you know me,
00:31:58and you told me you love me?
00:31:59Are you crazy, man?
00:32:01When I got home, we talked every day.
00:32:10After three whole months, I tattooed her name next to my penis.
00:32:16I'm not the biggest tattoo person,
00:32:18but I wanted her to know that I was serious,
00:32:21and she was the one.
00:32:23He was home, he told me, I really love you,
00:32:26and I'm going to move to Colombia.
00:32:27I already make a plan, I'm going to sell my house.
00:32:31You're one special girl, Madeleine.
00:32:36Yes, I am.
00:32:41Nine months after meeting Madeleine, I proposed.
00:32:46I've never felt like this with anybody else.
00:32:49Madeleine is a strong and confident person.
00:32:52She calls me on my .
00:32:54Can she be a little bit controlling?
00:32:56Sure.
00:32:57But at the end of the day, I think she's like a voice of reason for me.
00:33:05And I had every intention to move down to Colombia
00:33:07so that we could start our life together.
00:33:09Unfortunately, that's not how it played out.
00:33:12Look, you do it horrible.
00:33:17I'm trying, baby.
00:33:19We're supposed to be in person, and it's, it's...
00:33:21Well, don't move already.
00:33:22You promised me to move, and you don't hear, so...
00:33:25I'm working on it. I'll be there soon, okay?
00:33:31Te amo.
00:33:33It's been a whole year, and Madeleine is pissed that I'm still in the States.
00:33:38But I keep telling Madeleine that I don't have the money to make this move.
00:33:42Baby, the mind is so close, and we don't have this ready yet.
00:33:49Okay, well, that's why we're practicing.
00:33:51Madeleine is sick of the long distance.
00:33:54She's fed up with waiting. She's fed up with my excuses.
00:33:57And, basically, she said,
00:33:59you need to move to Colombia so that we could be together, or else.
00:34:03I don't know what would happen if I don't move to Colombia,
00:34:06but I don't want to find out.
00:34:08So, we're getting married in three weeks,
00:34:10and after the wedding, I'll be staying there for good.
00:34:14You excited for the wedding?
00:34:21Why?
00:34:24I'm getting into the ceremony in the helicopter.
00:34:37So, you want me to pay for a helicopter for you to show up to the wedding?
00:34:40Exactly.
00:34:41Oh, my God.
00:34:45I'm about to move. I'm not going to have my income for my job anymore.
00:34:49So, we need to follow a budget.
00:34:51I promised Madeleine the wedding of her dreams, but I'm in a lot of debt.
00:34:58I invested in sunglasses and a jewelry line, and it hasn't turned a profit yet.
00:35:04So, once I quit my job as a mining engineer, I am going to have no money coming in.
00:35:10So, yeah, that is not the best situation to be in.
00:35:14I mean, yeah, but I don't know, babe.
00:35:25Like, I'll look into it, and if I can make it happen, I'll try and make it happen.
00:35:29I mean, we'll see, right?
00:35:35You still practice dancing.
00:35:36I don't see you dancing.
00:35:43I'll be the first to admit that I have a very hard time telling Madeleine no.
00:35:48That's why it's probably better for me to stay here, continue to work, and save money,
00:35:53so that I can fully provide the wedding and lifestyle that she wants.
00:36:00But if I stay any longer, I think Madeleine would leave me for good.
00:36:04So, I need to move, and I need to make it work.
00:36:07End of story.
00:36:08There's so much at stake my whole future.
00:36:12Yeah.
00:36:17I think I'm getting the hang of this, babe.
00:36:18I don't think so.
00:36:26For the past year and a half, I've been a full-time stay-at-home dad.
00:36:30You are definitely a very rare breed.
00:36:32That's why I married you.
00:36:34Look at him, like the mustache.
00:36:35He made my tingling, you know?
00:36:37I was like, woo!
00:36:40I feel like I'm a mom.
00:36:41I just can't.
00:36:42The American dream is actually killing me, and I need to let it go.
00:37:02Yeah, daddy's here.
00:37:15Hold on, I'm telling you the truth.
00:37:18You need to be better to suck out of you.
00:37:21Okay, so you have the teaser by the 24th, right?
00:37:26Because we cannot post later than the 24th.
00:37:30For the past year and a half, I've been a full-time stay-at-home dad.
00:37:33Benjamin.
00:37:34Benjamin.
00:37:35Daycare is stupid expensive, so I quit my job in security to stay at home with Ben.
00:37:42Anthony is an amazing, loving husband, but what he does the best, and who is the best,
00:37:48is a baby daddy.
00:37:49You are definitely a very rare breed.
00:37:53That's why I married you.
00:37:55We met about four years ago.
00:37:58She actually swiped left on me at first.
00:38:04He's terrible at taking pictures of himself.
00:38:07You could not see his face at first.
00:38:08I'm like, oh, that's probably a creep, right?
00:38:10But we never know.
00:38:12I shake the phone, he goes back on the profile, and I'm like, oh, actually kind of cute.
00:38:17Cute dog also.
00:38:21And then we had our first date in Malibu.
00:38:24And I think she kind of did a double take when she first saw me.
00:38:27Look at him, like the moustache, Mr. Moustache.
00:38:30He made my tingling, you know?
00:38:32I was like, oh, I didn't expect that, you know?
00:38:34Keep it, you better keep it.
00:38:39Look at you.
00:38:40I already knew after our first date that I wanted to marry her.
00:38:44And then actually, he wrote me a handwriting letter as well in my mail a few days after.
00:38:50How freaking cool is that?
00:38:51And I was like, okay, well, he's not going anywhere.
00:38:54And then everything went back to back with him.
00:38:57One month later, we moved with each other.
00:39:01Six months after, he proposed.
00:39:04Nine months after we dated, we eloped in Las Vegas.
00:39:07Seven months.
00:39:08Seven months later, yes.
00:39:11A year later, we bought the house.
00:39:15And then right after, bam, the baby.
00:39:17All of that in less than three years.
00:39:27Ish, ish.
00:39:28Ay, ay.
00:39:29Ay, ay.
00:39:30Okay, finished my meeting.
00:39:32Come here, my baby.
00:39:33There's our mama.
00:39:35Oh, come with my mom.
00:39:36Say hi to my mom.
00:39:37Come with her.
00:39:38Come here.
00:39:39Ay, come with me.
00:39:41Yeah.
00:39:42Yay.
00:39:43What?
00:39:44Oh, okay.
00:39:44He wants to play.
00:39:46Okay.
00:39:47I had to go back to work after eight weeks, after giving birth eight weeks later, because how are we going
00:39:56to pay our bills, and it was not just a nine to five where at five I'm done, I can shut off my phone.
00:40:01I was running my agency.
00:40:03I had my social media business, and on top of that, I had a corporate job.
00:40:09Babies thrive on routines, but his entire routine is for everything with Antoni.
00:40:16And sometimes it makes me feel like the biggest failure in the world.
00:40:22I do want to have that bond with that baby that it took me nine months to create, to carry.
00:40:30He's my pride and joy.
00:40:32Good job.
00:40:33Good job.
00:40:35And he deserves also a mom who's going to be there for him.
00:40:38Come here, come here, mommy.
00:40:41I really cannot stand that, you know, he's just always into you, into you.
00:40:46Every time I try to play or something, he just goes straight back at you.
00:40:50Aina.
00:40:52With Manon working and me taking care of Ben, there have been a lot of days where we were at each other's throats.
00:41:00I felt a lot of resentment coming from her for me spending so much time with Ben,
00:41:06building this incredible bond, you know, and everything was always falling on me with Ben.
00:41:11Both of us were actually starting to resent each other.
00:41:14I feel like I'm a mom.
00:41:16I just can't.
00:41:17You're not a mom.
00:41:20Because you provide for us.
00:41:23Yeah, but I should be there for him though.
00:41:25And you will be in France.
00:41:26And that's why we're going.
00:41:27See how excited he is about France?
00:41:31Yeah!
00:41:33Woo!
00:41:33Yeah.
00:41:37Our marriage was falling apart, so...
00:41:40I said, why don't we sell our house and move to France?
00:41:43And really focus on us as a family and the quality of life that can be there.
00:41:49I started seeing, I'm like, you know what, he is right.
00:41:52The American dream is actually killing me.
00:41:54And I need to let it go.
00:41:58It's going to be better for us.
00:41:59You're going to spend more time with him.
00:42:01Yeah.
00:42:01And he's going to be more attached to you than he is me.
00:42:06I am looking forward to it.
00:42:08But it's not going to be completely easy.
00:42:11It may save our marriage and also make me have a good relationship with my son.
00:42:17That's why I'm doing it.
00:42:19But you're asking me to go back to a country that I used to hate and I wanted to escape.
00:42:25You asked me to not be a business entrepreneur girlie that I am.
00:42:29Like, it's a lot.
00:42:31So what if it's actually a bit too much, Antoni?
00:42:34What if it's too much change for me?
00:42:40Do you want to go with that?
00:42:41Yeah, go to daddy, okay.
00:42:45I got to go to my next meeting.
00:42:50She thinks I'm coming just to say bye, but I'm really coming to tell her not to move there.
00:42:56I think you're making a mistake.
00:42:58The only thing that he's shown is that he's not even faithful to you.
00:43:04I'm so happy that finally we all can live together.
00:43:08I'm afraid.
00:43:09You're afraid?
00:43:10There are a lot of expectations from the daughter-in-law.
00:43:15She can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking.
00:43:19I don't want to scare you.
00:43:21You are scaring me.
00:43:30Chloe is living in, like, Dulululand.
00:43:33She's moving to another country for the wrong man.
00:43:35He is not the one.
00:43:37She thinks I'm coming just to say bye and to wish her luck, but I'm really coming to tell her not to move there.
00:43:43I see the clouds breaking over my head.
00:43:52The ground is shaking under my head.
00:43:55Aruba is where you go to have fun on vacation, not where you move to be with someone.
00:44:00They don't want to break her heart, but I think she's making a mistake.
00:44:10Hey!
00:44:12How are you?
00:44:13Good to see you.
00:44:14Me too.
00:44:16My God, I missed you.
00:44:17It's so cold.
00:44:18I know.
00:44:19It's freezing.
00:44:20All right, you don't really have to wipe your feet.
00:44:22It's fine.
00:44:22Jen's husband grew up on the same street as Jonathan, and they met when Jen was on vacation.
00:44:28Darren moved to the States about a year ago, and they just got married.
00:44:32You want a snack or, like, tea or something?
00:44:34Yeah, I'll take some tea.
00:44:36I met Jen before they moved to the States.
00:44:39Jen is like my friendship mom.
00:44:41She'll tell me whether I'm insane or I'm not insane, but I don't always want Jen's advice,
00:44:46because 99% of the time she's probably right, and that's what I try to avoid at all costs.
00:44:52How are you?
00:44:53Good.
00:44:54Yeah?
00:44:55Drive is a little long.
00:44:56How long is that?
00:44:57Four and a half hours.
00:44:58Oh, gosh.
00:45:00So I know I was coming to say goodbye, but I really came to try to talk to you.
00:45:08There is so much more to life than Aruba, which I love as a vacation home.
00:45:15But to live there is a completely different commitment.
00:45:19I need to explain to you how crazy it is there with how the culture is.
00:45:26There's just thousands of these girls that literally come to Aruba for one reason, and that is to party and hook up with the locals.
00:45:33I've been going there for such a long time.
00:45:35I've seen it so many times, and I think you're making a mistake.
00:45:41I'm so worried that you are literally leaving your life here for him.
00:45:47And the only thing that he's shown is that he's not even faithful to you.
00:45:55After a few months of Jonathan and I being together, I thought we were exclusive.
00:46:01We were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend.
00:46:03And then Jonathan was on a boys trip to Florida.
00:46:08One day I'm on social media, and I see that he was actually taking another girl on a trip to Florida for her birthday.
00:46:16You know, we talked about it.
00:46:22He told me he was in an open relationship, quote unquote, with the girl.
00:46:29And I just said I honestly don't understand it, because that's not how I do things.
00:46:35He just said, like, I really do want this to work. I made a mistake.
00:46:39It's just, it seems like he definitely jumps from females. He's got a long history.
00:46:44When you say it like that, it sounds bad.
00:46:46It is bad. It was bad.
00:46:51That's why I worry, because now you're literally six months later making a decision to go live with him.
00:46:57I am worried that it's a trend given the lifestyle and the culture there.
00:47:02Having a husband that also worked in tourism that got constantly hit on, it never stopped.
00:47:08And guys like Johnny constantly go with these girls.
00:47:12Like, what did they say about it? Like, Leopard doesn't change their spots.
00:47:18I think Chloe does see successful relationships.
00:47:21Darren and I, for example, but our situation is a little bit different.
00:47:24He left Aruba.
00:47:26In Aruba, these guys know how to get away with cheating.
00:47:29My husband, he saw these things happen all the time.
00:47:32The guys on the boat all have each other's back.
00:47:34I think Johnny knows that he can get away with it if he wants to.
00:47:37He's already done it before.
00:47:39Yes, he's gotten caught, but that doesn't necessarily mean he won't do it again.
00:47:42He may just get more clever about it.
00:47:46I know you came here to stop me, in a sense.
00:47:50I did.
00:47:51But I'm going through with it.
00:47:54I believe in him.
00:47:57Whether it's my insanity or the fact that I'm just delusional.
00:48:04I really do feel this is going to work out.
00:48:07I'm going through with it.
00:48:29Uh-oh, trouble!
00:48:31how are you
00:48:37we are moving in with my family tomorrow and today we are meeting my brother ameth and
00:48:50my sister-in-law shri so we can buy some stuff for the house let's split up and let us buy the
00:48:57kitchen stuff i have a great relationship with amit and shri we get along really well
00:49:07oh this is the shop we just missed it this shop this shop yeah they've been living together with
00:49:14the family since they got married and i know that there's been some problems lately between mom and
00:49:21shri so i'm gonna get the the 411 on that so what do you think of these pots and pans this looks good
00:49:30for chai right but this is too small we need to be the size okay yeah there's a lot of us there yeah
00:49:36six people
00:49:36jenny's lifestyle will be completely changed once she moves in because i know waking up her own way
00:49:47going wherever she wants to buying whatever she wants to but when you're living in a joint family
00:49:52especially in india things does not work like that i think i've only ever made chai for four people
00:49:59that's the max that's the max mom she'll give some time to jenny to gel up with the family
00:50:06after some time if she cannot uh you know prove herself or meet up to her expectations
00:50:13mom might be a little uh frustrated or angry towards her
00:50:19so uh did you speak with uh sumit before moving up here yeah uh we've been talking of course
00:50:28okay but i don't think he's telling me everything i i think he doesn't want to scare me
00:50:33so you need to kind of fill me in on what to expect
00:50:37so there are a lot of expectations from the daughter-in-law you know you have to be at
00:50:44certain places you have to be uh wearing certain things at certain places and have to behave certain
00:50:51this guy is getting heavy he's tired he's in a charging mode now
00:51:03i'm so happy that finally my dream is coming true like uh we all can live together
00:51:14i'm afraid you're afraid maybe i'm afraid for my wife like once we'll start living together
00:51:21then the responsibility will be double will be divided not will be double like what i think is
00:51:27will be double for her jenny wakes up late she doesn't cook food like you spent five years together
00:51:34like living by your own way but now the things are different with family comes the responsibility
00:51:42she'd have to get involved in the home uh chorus as well i don't want my wife only the one who will
00:51:49be doing each and everything
00:51:51i understand my brother's concern but he also need to understand it's going to be very difficult
00:52:00and different for jenny she needs some time to adjust into a culture which they are coming from
00:52:07so they need to be patient
00:52:08you know how i see it tree mom she this is her way of life this is what she's always been doing
00:52:22she can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking because that's her thing that's what
00:52:28she likes to do exactly the thing is that is where we have little mismatch things we have our fights
00:52:35it's not that it's nothing nothing rosy rosy that we and mom are the bestest of you know mother-in-law
00:52:41and daughter and all it's nothing like that a few months back we had some disagreements
00:52:47where mom said that you know you have been married for four four and a half years and uh you didn't do
00:52:54anything for this house you never made anything for us you didn't even make tea for us very basic
00:53:00things it was like very very disrespect for all those years that i did for them
00:53:05then i said fine if you think that i have not done anything then i'll be not doing anything from
00:53:12today onwards oh god like what have i got myself into oh no see i don't want to scare you
00:53:21you are scaring me but i'm giving you a very very reality picture now shri and mom are not like
00:53:31into the very good terms with each other now mom just said and you have never done anything for us
00:53:38oh like now shri you are not the favorite one huh things have changed now you are the most loved
00:53:48uh son and daughter-in-law and now the dynamics will be different once uh you guys moving together
00:53:56and let's see who will be the favorite favorite daughter-in-law shri used to be my mom's favorite
00:54:06and my mom start uh arguing with shri now jenny become favorite and but concerned in the future
00:54:13she can be the uh bad daughter-in-law too jenny is a very independent uh person she don't like to
00:54:20get orders from anyone my mom is higher in the position and hierarchy so and she likes to order
00:54:28it going to be a very precious situation for jenny and for my mom both it took us so long
00:54:36in order to get the mom's love and appreciation moving with them like i hope i'm not gonna do
00:54:44something which will make us apart forever
00:54:47you have to move to france and go down brooks 70 000 is a lot of money i would love to not have to
00:54:59focus so much on money money money we're on the brink of divorce like just find someone which is like
00:55:07cute
00:55:07you're the original owner yeah yes why are you guys selling the car moving to france okay
00:55:30do you know what your payoff is 27 000 yeah okay let me book it out real quick
00:55:45we put our house on the market a week ago and the house is actually already sold
00:55:51okay so as you know we accepted the offer we took an all cash yeah 810 so the net proceeds we have
00:55:57right now is 88 778 but we have two weeks but you have to be out of the house so just prep yourself
00:56:03wow and now we have two weeks nothing is ready to get out of our house pack all of our belongings
00:56:09make sure we have all of our important paperwork get rid of everything in two weeks
00:56:13so today we had the opportunity to leave benjamin's uh with his hound and sell our work car
00:56:21i got auction fee i got detail i gotta put two tires on and then we gotta make a little bit of money
00:56:26so the number i'd be at is probably right around 15 grand
00:56:29oh my lord 15k we were 27
00:56:34whoa this is it's something to just take a step back and to consider
00:56:38try to help you out the best we can
00:56:40no no no for sure thank you i appreciate it
00:56:42we're looking at our options
00:56:43sorry about the news
00:56:47yeah no it's not gonna be a good day but that's fine
00:56:49it's okay it is what it is right
00:56:51okay i'm gonna go to bed and cry thanks
00:56:53i have to lose 12 000 out of my own money to get rid of a car that seems like insane
00:57:0415 okay like no way like no well i mean it's it's one option no but you have to move to france
00:57:14and go down bro you think the amount of money we have in our account after selling our house
00:57:19means we're broke we'll be broke yeah that because there's nothing coming in
00:57:24it's only coming out 70 000 is a lot of money that money is not even enough for a down payment in
00:57:31france i set up some standard in my life i'm not going to rent anymore i'm not going to have
00:57:37house that's way smaller or something we are not going there broke and we're not going there
00:57:44with the expectation of not working either
00:57:47i know this move isn't easy for men on and financially we're gonna have to take a hit for
00:57:55a while but we're gonna be okay we'll be staying with your parents not paying rent you'll still be
00:58:01working part-time with your marketing company and as soon as my french gets better i can get a job
00:58:07in security or in some field where they're open to having someone that's either still learning or
00:58:13whatever level i'll be at you're deluding i'm motivated delulu it's different delusional
00:58:20stop focusing so much on we need this amount or else we're broke and it's not gonna work because
00:58:30antoni every day as a kid i see my dad and my mom stressing because we don't have enough money
00:58:35and then i lived like for years in la trying to make it okay i was homeless
00:58:43homeless i had nothing under my name nothing i'm not just a materialistic bitch who want like
00:58:49fancy bags and like a fancy house no i struggled to get where i'm at today so i'm not going to do
00:58:5510 steps backward i want to enjoy life but not everyone has the same definition of what brings
00:59:04them happiness i would love to not have to focus so much on money money money maybe we don't need
00:59:13this fancier house with the pool and the jacuzzi what why is there this constant push for more
00:59:19if you make enough to get by and you're happy with your life what is wrong with that my version of
00:59:27happiness is spending time with you spending time with ben the roof over our head being able to pay our
00:59:32bills that's why we are going completely apart because what brings you happiness is not the
00:59:37same as me and we have actually very different ways of seeing life now i want more
00:59:43antoni he has a certain standard of like as long as i have a roof above my head and food at the table
00:59:53and i'm surviving i'm happy me it's actually the opposite makes me feel i'm in danger it's being
01:00:00extra comfortable that makes me feel safe he expects me to follow his way because his way is
01:00:07the way and it's just exhausting you wanting more has left me having an amazing relationship with ben
01:00:16you're resenting me for it it has caused mental health issues for yourself because of how overworked
01:00:22stress you are to the point where we're on the brink of divorce so you know what i'm gonna say it
01:00:29like just find someone which is like you then
01:00:35why do i always have to compromise what i want who i am and stuff why uh because your focus on that
01:00:42dream is why we're here i'm sorry if i'm someone who's driven in life you can be driven but you can still
01:00:50focus on your family that's why i'm moving there and that's why i'm changing all of myself and all
01:00:56of my life for us we need some serenity now and really think about why we're moving to france
01:01:07because all of this focus on just finances and finances and finances it is like just tearing us apart
01:01:14okay
01:01:23for her to say we're not compatible it is very hurtful and to hear her say those things and not just once
01:01:29but multiple times every single time it's taken a toll but it is very important for me to fight for
01:01:36our marriage she is easily the best thing that's happened in my life moving to france is very drastic
01:01:44and manon already has a lot of skepticism towards this move if this hail mary pass doesn't work out
01:01:53i have no idea what the future holds for us
01:02:04i'm trying to get this wedding done and then i'm trying to do a hotel yeah it's going to take a lot
01:02:09of money i know does madeline know that you're in debt it is finally sinking in that this is the
01:02:17highest stakes gamble that i ever made i mean i'm not stupid but you do stupid things
01:02:32you want it to be classy you know you don't want to look like a pimp on your wedding
01:02:49okay you want to look smart madelaine hated the shoes that i got for the wedding
01:02:55is this pimpy no no that's classy so today i've asked my dad to tag along to go shop for a new pair
01:03:04i wanted to wear these ones that's a nice that's the perfect color is brown madeline hates brown
01:03:12she texted me she said you have to understand that shoes can't be brown
01:03:16that color is all people's and if you wear brown colored shoes i won't marry you so she's saying i'm
01:03:23old now yeah i hate its color and you need to hate them too is what she texted me yeah but at the
01:03:31same time you don't want her to walk all over you right now you've got to stand your ground
01:03:37otherwise your nuts will be gone right i don't want to uh ruin her day yeah over a pair of shoes
01:03:43well that's a problem if a pair of shoes is going to ruin the wedding holy crap
01:03:49my dad has always been a really big role model for me he runs his own business he makes very good
01:03:56life decisions i ask my dad for advice quite often actually he is my best friend we talk all the time
01:04:07i don't get it you just bought a nice pair of shoes for the wedding and now you got to buy another pair
01:04:14you got bills to pay when we get down there you don't have to spend a fortune for it to be a nice
01:04:20day yeah you got the rest of your life with her and you try and save as much as you can for the future
01:04:30i'm just i'm trying to get this wedding done and then i'm trying to do
01:04:34the the hotel that's like the only things i care about right now
01:04:37yeah but also it's going to take a lot of money trust me i know i know i want to provide for
01:04:45madeleine and since i'm passionate about investing i had the chance to purchase a property two hours
01:04:52outside of medellin and i plan to build a high-end luxurious resort which i'm wholeheartedly planning to
01:05:02become my primary source of income how's your jewelry stuff coming along you managed to sell
01:05:08any of that and your sunglasses yeah i mean i mean a couple but i'll be honest like i haven't done any
01:05:13marketing that costs money and with me leaving my job and then the hotel thing i just allocated
01:05:19funds towards the hotel and the designs to try and get that up and running see that's where you're
01:05:23going wrong yeah i mean okay everything's like a knee-jerk reaction for you and you go off on tangents
01:05:31you're in quite a lot of debt you spent a fortune on that jewelry and the glasses and now you're
01:05:37putting that on the back burner to do another idea but this this property wouldn't have been on the
01:05:45market for long and i just i needed to do what i needed to do i went to school for mining engineering
01:05:51i went to school for geology and i got an mba in business i mean i'm not stupid right you do stupid
01:05:57things okay fine yeah i took a risk and it is what it is i mean i love to see people take risks
01:06:04but educated risks yeah calculated risk luke comes to me for advice but it's not that he's actually
01:06:13wanted my advice he wants me to back him up on his decisions rather than give him the negatives
01:06:19even though luke went to business school i sometimes question what they actually taught him because
01:06:27he's he lets money roll through his fingers like there's no tomorrow
01:06:32he's just a very impulsive person with everything now does madeline know that you're in debt
01:06:41she's aware of all the debt
01:06:44it is what it is and we're working through it
01:06:46the main thing you've got to worry about is not the business not the hotel not this not that
01:06:53it's madeline she's going to be your wife soon you know she looks at you as her knight in shining armor
01:07:00i mean is that really sunk in yeah has it yeah that's why i'm putting almost all my eggs in this
01:07:07basket so i can be there can be with the person that i love you know you called me the second day
01:07:13you in columbia two years ago i want you to speak to the girl i'm going to marry
01:07:23which was wonderful yeah you saw it then 24 hours later you knew that she was the one
01:07:30i just hope she can do you right and you do her right because i'm worried about you and your future
01:07:36i mean we're blood yeah i love you to death i don't want to see any harm of any kind
01:07:43come to you it's going to hurt you and that's going to hurt me
01:07:57i do often worry about luke because he's got himself into a sticky predicament he's got debt to pay
01:08:04he's got hotels to build he's going to go down to columbia he's not going to be earning the money
01:08:10he earns here and it leaves him no room to escape or to rectify the problems that he might have
01:08:18thrown at him i love you dad i mean you know
01:08:21i don't know the last time i saw my dad cry it adds a lot of weight it is finally sinking in that
01:08:41i really need this marriage to work because i'll lose everything if it doesn't
01:08:45this is basically the highest stakes gamble that i ever made
01:08:53i'm always here for you thank you
01:09:02goodbye apartment goodbye freedom today is move-in day
01:09:07what the hell get out of my stuff
01:09:16you can't hear jenny
01:09:21everything is gone oh this is so sad
01:09:40i can't believe we're leaving this apartment remember how happy i was to get that chandelier
01:09:53i miss this place too but yeah family's better today is move-in day
01:10:00i'm excited that i'm going to move in with my family again and i feel like that it's gonna be good
01:10:06i feel like i'm leaving my freedom i'm giving up everything and now i have to go deal with mom
01:10:17work work do this clean that cook this cook that she's not that bad i mean do we plan on living with
01:10:26your parents forever though yeah that's what the plan is like yeah we're gonna live there
01:10:33my life is over now
01:10:40i have no plans of staying in this situation with the family permanently
01:10:46not gonna happen no way goodbye apartment goodbye freedom goodbye life goodbye everything i'll miss you
01:10:56i don't want to pick a fight with smith right now but at some point i'm gonna have to tell him no
01:11:08in order to present a positive image about yourself i suggest you cook the dinner tonight
01:11:15your parents aren't gonna want to eat my american food baby you just try this will be your chance to win
01:11:23more love of my mother okay i'll do my best i hope they don't hate me for it
01:11:34i'm happy to live together as a typical indian family but jenny is not traditional housewife
01:11:42i'm bit nervous too because i know jenny and i know my mother too they both have
01:11:47very strong personalities you want me to carry this yes very heavy if mom tries to tell me what
01:11:58to do it's not going to go down well and who's going to tell you what to do i can't
01:12:03welcome jenny welcome welcome welcome
01:12:17can you believe that this is no finally
01:12:23this is unbelievable my mom is welcoming jenny uh the way they welcome new bride it's shocking
01:12:30wickets for the time they were totally disapproval thank you this is beyond my imagination
01:12:39i'm now kicked it
01:12:53they're doing all these rituals and accepting me into the family and into their home
01:13:00this is something i i never really ever expected to happen and i touch the feet
01:13:07say blessed say happy and it feels good but i don't really want to live with them forever
01:13:14and i don't think i can be the traditional indian daughter-in-law now this is our house
01:13:23this is our new house yes i like what you've done with it it looks nice
01:13:29the movers are here are they waiting downstairs yeah so we're gonna start moving stuff in
01:13:38okay
01:13:47look at the session one
01:13:52we need to hire someone to come put away all our stuff the mom and other people are here we
01:14:03don't need to hire
01:14:20for a long time many years jennica it's just too small for jennie luxury
01:14:28why is your mom going through my stuff jennie doesn't need this you take it like what the hell
01:14:34get out i wanted to say get out of my stuff they've been in a joint family it everything will also
01:14:42everything but i would never just go through their stuff i mean is this a cultural thing or is this
01:14:49your mom's thing it's more like uh my mom's thing like she i had a feeling yeah that was it
01:14:59i don't know if i don't do that don't do that
01:15:25jennie i've only been here for an hour and i'm already being criticized
01:15:37i don't know how i'm gonna survive this
01:15:39so we're gonna move to france shut the front door i know you guys have had some hard times
01:15:57i just hope it's not a band-aid for a bowl hole are you gonna piss me off sarah right now that is
01:16:02no i don't think so i guess oh because look what you're how you do not speak over me right now
01:16:07okay get out of my house okay
01:16:23i don't know how to make these look pretty so nah i'll make them for you
01:16:30the baguette needs to be cut why i'm tony just rip it no you don't it's oh cut it
01:16:44no what's called breaking bread right
01:16:50we are moving to france in just a few weeks but before that
01:16:54i need anthony's to know how to make a really good charcuterie board and how to pronounce it
01:17:00properly charcuterie charcuterie charcuterie no no charcuterie not charcuterie
01:17:10thank you the grapes here it's gonna give it away that we are doing charcuterie board and baguettes
01:17:15i just realized that that's very french oh my god i'm really nervous right now yeah i got you and
01:17:23no matter what they say it is what it is right yeah look we're we're in this together we know why
01:17:28we're doing this yeah it's not your decision it's not mine it's ours okay today we have to tell
01:17:35anthony's family that we are moving to france and that we are sending the house we haven't said anything to
01:17:41anyone yet because everything happened kind of like so quickly waiting to tell my family is very
01:17:56much par for the course for me and our relationship it's your style i mean i don't like to involve my
01:18:01family in like everything that's going on in our marriage you left your sweater at my house yes you
01:18:06did we have two different dynamics in terms of families needs like we over share we over communicate
01:18:14we say everything our families are very different in that respect but they 100 will be sad yeah that
01:18:20we're leaving i'm not gonna lie i'm scared i'm afraid that they're gonna hate me forever for taking
01:18:25away their son and their first grandson yeah i'm scared about that
01:18:29you want more prosciutto baba yes maybe you want more but just small pieces small pieces at the time
01:18:41please well thanks for coming everyone we appreciate it and go ahead i'll let him speak for once uh yeah so
01:18:52we're selling the house because we're gonna move to france wow shut the front door
01:19:05that is still that's huge that's huge that's huge yeah so his first words are gonna be in french
01:19:11no his first word was brandy okay yeah is this like a permanent move to france like oh this is it
01:19:18good bye forever yeah so we're not for right now already yeah we accepted an offer and two more
01:19:25weeks and we are out of the house yeah yeah holy shoot it's been hard thinking about it there's still
01:19:32time to change your mind no we're set yeah we're set yeah so we are going to france
01:19:41it just feels like two weeks is a really short amount of time with a permanent move you just don't
01:19:51feel like you're rushing into decisions absolutely not no because what we were doing was not sustainable
01:19:56as a family and we're going to essentially make it better and repair things but like i know you guys
01:20:03have had some hard times recently i guess it just seems like you're almost adding more fire to that
01:20:10than really water i don't think so okay it's about slowing down are you going to be able to slow down
01:20:19though i know it's going to be hard for sure and people think that moving away moving abroad is like
01:20:26okay all of your problems disappear no they don't no they come with you they could also get a lot bigger
01:20:31yeah but there's a flip side we're going there as a means to really be a family unit i just hope
01:20:38it's not a band-aid for a bowl hole i don't think so sarah sarah we're united in doing this and you're
01:20:44kind of starting to push my buttons a little bit so just quit with the whole like trying to like
01:20:51push us apart i'm not trying to we're doing this to stay together i understand that but my worry is i
01:20:57don't hear any of the work that has gone into place outside of we're just moving you tell me
01:21:03what's the solution for you it's not i stay here i don't need the solution this is your relationship
01:21:08and that's why we have come up with our solution right whether or not you think that more time
01:21:15together is going to be beneficial we think this is the best for us and him so what's the alternative we
01:21:22stay here and we destroy our marriage and family or do we actually go to france and make it work
01:21:32i mean i i will be honest manana and i talked about how you guys were in a really hard spot and
01:21:37that things weren't going well and so i don't want you to think that i'm trying to drive a wedge in
01:21:42between you or create further separation but you have to understand manan that conversation was really
01:21:48hard to hear truly like it is a lot to take in and it only happened a few weeks ago and now all of a
01:21:52sudden everything is great which is why i'm a little worried about the move to france because i know when
01:21:57tensions are high and emotions run high we say things that we don't necessarily mean but there's
01:22:02a reason sometimes things are said i i was feeling bad and i was at the end of my rope because i felt stuck
01:22:10and i said things on the moment because i just went crazy it happens everyone we are humans okay
01:22:17did i say to you that i wanted to split with him yes okay so maybe you didn't really understand me
01:22:21no no when you talked to me and you said sometimes being with your brother makes me feel like i want
01:22:25to die inside sarah just let it go those were her words those were not mine those are okay i don't need
01:22:34to you probably called everyone in the family to say that's right yeah you're going to piss me off
01:22:38sarah right now because like sure let it go yeah let it go did i say to you i want a g-box yes i said
01:22:45you said those words to me which is the only reason i have these concerns i think she said it
01:22:50to you in confidence i don't even remember saying the g-word but if i said that whatever i was trying
01:22:57to create a little bond with you by sharing how hard it can be but okay if you take it this way
01:23:05bond was real but that is no i don't think so i guess oh because look what how you use it against
01:23:10me right now you just said i didn't say that but then you also just said i was trying to bring
01:23:13a bomb by saying that do not speak over me right now okay get out of my house okay adi i'm done i'm done
01:23:27this season on 90 days fiance the other way my heart was jumping around like a kangaroo
01:23:35oh that's pretty matthew thinks that i love my cat hazel more than him that's true but i've never
01:23:56had this type of connection with a human before hey sweetie i can tell it was a long journey
01:24:02because you stink you're welcome what the is this there's no windows and it's soundproof oh i was
01:24:12asking for a sexy romantic night away i was definitely not expecting a um a sex dungeon
01:24:21you decided to open a cafe with the family sorry new i'm new it's not plugged in dude our first
01:24:39customer and we lost it then you have to do a little more you know what i can do i can go home
01:24:44i don't like that you control me you don't let me control you
01:24:51if i had control you wouldn't be working in a freaking street club you're so insecure
01:25:00you want me to just marry you and all that i know you for a year then don't have the conversation
01:25:05saying that you're ready when you're not because i'm telling you i'm ready
01:25:08i'm hurting my life take a pregnant day that made me more scared
01:25:19what does this mean
01:25:19it was only a matter of time before saddam lost it
01:25:38i can't take it anymore you understand my life sucks i'm done
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