00:00How does one solve a strained relationship?
00:03Suppose I am the one, I am doing the right things,
00:05and the other person is not doing the right thing.
00:07And there comes the conflict.
00:09The other person is not doing the right thing for himself or for us.
00:14For us.
00:18That lies the problem.
00:20I deal with so many students.
00:23One thing that I have learnt,
00:25if you are unsuitable as a teacher,
00:27or a particular student,
00:30then trying too much may mean a search for personal achievement.
00:38Right?
00:39You have a kid.
00:40You want to feed the kid.
00:41The kid is declining to be fed by you.
00:44What do you do?
00:46Hand the kid over to somebody else.
00:48Please feed him.
00:50Or do you insist?
00:51If you will be fed, it will be through my hands.
00:54Else, I assure you will starve.
00:58You don't do that, right?
01:00So, beyond a point,
01:02there is no point exerting yourself on somebody
01:06who is not receiving through your root.
01:09So, this kind of handing over is a great part of love.
01:14If I can't be good for you,
01:16let me move on.
01:18I couldn't help you as a friend.
01:21Maybe I'll help you as a stranger.
01:23Maybe I'll help you as a stranger.
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