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00:00:00It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only, but Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago, I told him I had a fling with a woman and he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes.
00:00:31He doesn't love you. That's not what love is. He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:54But that's just not what you said.
00:00:55A couple of weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:14Oh, my goodness.
00:01:17Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:33Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs, and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:01I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides?
00:02:19What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:23I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:27But.
00:02:31Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me, and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:01These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:04They're brand new.
00:03:06I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:10I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:14My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:17It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:20Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair.
00:03:27It sticks to your skin.
00:03:28You have rashes.
00:03:29You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:32It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria.
00:03:35But it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:03:40So I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:01I am hopeful she gets the answers and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:07But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:13Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful.
00:04:19Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:21That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen.
00:04:25Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:33That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately.
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:36Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper is on the 29th.
00:04:41So that the divorce becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:50And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:53If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that, oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:05:00No, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:03But you also told him, you're not married.
00:05:07Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years, Daniel doesn't know that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me.
00:05:26And I said, yeah, I'm free to marry because in my heart I have been free to marry because my ex-wife and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:38If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:05:51He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:04It is getting late and we need to get going.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Daniel was asking you to get married while you were in Nigeria, would you keep your hands to faith?
00:06:32Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:34I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:59I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:03I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:09Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:28Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:35I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:49We loved to skate.
00:07:50So our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair, and I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:05I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:09That was just, that was it.
00:08:11He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring, and here it is.
00:08:20I'm done waiting.
00:08:27No more hesitating.
00:08:30There is nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:43Babe, hold on.
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:46Lemonade.
00:08:49Oh, oh, wait.
00:08:51My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old, and I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:08:59I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work at a nursing home, and I like my job.
00:09:09You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters, and it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:19We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:34American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:41I call them the three sixes, and it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:51We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55It's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:58When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:03Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:09So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:14Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:20Oh.
00:10:20My wife is Annalyn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old, and she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo, it's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:32Must be something in here.
00:10:34Must be something in here.
00:10:34Must be something in here.
00:10:36We connected online about five years ago, and we've been married for about two years.
00:10:44He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years, and we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:58Hello, boo-boo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:02Mwah!
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world, we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:23Maybe a year after we started talking online, I wanted to meet Annalyn in person.
00:11:32But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless, and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media, and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:51And I thought if we were married legally, he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:04When Annalyn first brought up online marriages, I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:13I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox, but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:20Like, when you meet the one that you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:31All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:38How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call, absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:52I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:03How could you be married for years and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:10The whole thing is very expensive, so, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So, that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Annalyn have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:22but work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:25And having a marriage online has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Annalyn has changed.
00:13:36When I first met Annalyn, she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:44Like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:47I've always been feisty.
00:13:50She knows that.
00:13:52And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time, I had to fight to actually speak, to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:10But before I apply for that spousal visa and move Annalyn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:21I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:32And if we can't, I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:36Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:42Oh, yeah.
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off, but I'm kind of still nervous about what it's in there to you.
00:15:02I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:04but there's something else I wanted to talk to you about that I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:09What?
00:15:10What's happening?
00:15:15No.
00:15:16I don't know.
00:15:46I want to be her husband, but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:07I hope things are better today.
00:16:08I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:16Like, I thought I'd be waking up next to him,
00:16:19and he would be, like, bringing me coffee in the morning and cuddling with me.
00:16:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:25We've actually just been completely separate.
00:16:28We've been doing it.
00:16:30Ziyad's behavior last night, it's making me a little suspicious,
00:16:34but I'm trying not to just be in my head and overthink things.
00:16:38I want this to be fun, and I want us to just focus on the positives.
00:16:44I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:16:46Ziyad's behavior last night.
00:17:16That's it.
00:17:17This is your place.
00:17:18I hope you will like it.
00:17:19Thanks, babe.
00:17:26Hello.
00:17:32She's adorable.
00:17:35My favorite.
00:17:36Eggs.
00:17:37I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it, because she cooked it.
00:17:42Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:45What do you want to start for what?
00:17:47I mean, it wasn't really, like, a good start to my trip.
00:17:51I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:17:53Yeah.
00:17:54That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:17:58Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:01Yeah.
00:18:01Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:03I love the tea here.
00:18:05Okay.
00:18:06Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:09I don't hear you.
00:18:11I don't hear you.
00:18:12I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:13Can you repeat?
00:18:14I don't hear what you said.
00:18:15I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:16For what?
00:18:16For running away from your kiss.
00:18:22And?
00:18:24Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:18:29I mean, I'm sorry.
00:18:30Yesterday got, like, really dramatic, but I think it was just a long day for me, because
00:18:34I was traveling for, like, 20 hours.
00:18:36I know it's difficult.
00:18:38And it was just, like, a lot going on.
00:18:39There was, like, a lot in my mind.
00:18:41And actually, there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I
00:18:46didn't tell you yet.
00:18:47I was just, like, upset the past couple days, because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:07Like, I've been there for five years.
00:19:09And.
00:19:11Well, I got fired.
00:19:12Really?
00:19:19I don't know if I want to talk about it, because I'm going to cry.
00:19:21No, no, you don't need to.
00:19:24Listen, listen.
00:19:27I just need a minute.
00:19:30Emma.
00:19:38Sorry.
00:19:39No, no.
00:19:40Don't cry.
00:19:42It's, uh...
00:19:43I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:19:44It's all right.
00:19:45It's just a walk.
00:19:47It's perfect.
00:19:49And you don't need to cry for it.
00:19:52So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:54No, don't cry.
00:19:55Don't cry.
00:19:55Okay.
00:19:56Don't cry.
00:19:57Okay.
00:20:05I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:06I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:09It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:11But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14You will find another one more better than you last.
00:20:18Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:22We are together and everything will be good.
00:20:26I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:20:35It was like a tornado.
00:20:37But right now, he is showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:20:41I love you, babe.
00:20:42Yeah, it is.
00:20:42I love you more.
00:20:44But what's the mean tornado?
00:20:46Like an earthquake.
00:20:48Like a natural disaster.
00:20:50So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:20:53Yeah, yeah, that's an amazing example.
00:20:56Yeah, really.
00:21:00My future hubby.
00:21:02Oh.
00:21:03Do you know what that means?
00:21:05No, in your space?
00:21:06What do you mean?
00:21:07It's short for husband.
00:21:08Really?
00:21:09Yeah.
00:21:10Where is hubby?
00:21:12Uh, wifey.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:15Exactly.
00:21:16Exactly.
00:21:16I can't believe the trees, how beautiful they are.
00:21:41I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:43I'm probably going to...
00:21:43I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:45I'm going to have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:47Lock away your smile.
00:21:52My heart is racing now.
00:21:55All right.
00:21:57See you later, babe.
00:21:57See you later.
00:21:59Okay.
00:22:00I don't know.
00:22:01I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams
00:22:08after seven years.
00:22:10Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:14Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:17Laka, laka.
00:22:19Yeah.
00:22:23Oh, this is incredible.
00:22:25Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:22:28Crazy.
00:22:29This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:22:32If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:22:38It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:22:43Oh, man.
00:22:45Glad I'm not driving.
00:22:47But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:22:51Look at that.
00:22:51That thing is pretty good.
00:22:53Yes, this is the jeepney.
00:22:54This is locally here in my country.
00:22:55They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with the Americans,
00:23:00so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:03Incredible.
00:23:05You can see the big building there.
00:23:07That's the condo we're going to stay.
00:23:09I wish we could have to stay at your place.
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:13Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents
00:23:19said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:23:23When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their daughter,
00:23:28and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd,
00:23:34especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket
00:23:39to actually just meet her.
00:23:42Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:23:45It's their wishes.
00:23:45I can't really go around that.
00:23:49But I'm not paying them money.
00:23:53This is the place.
00:23:54All right.
00:23:55All right.
00:23:55We are here.
00:24:00Here you go, mama.
00:24:01That's it.
00:24:02The jackpot.
00:24:03Oh, .
00:24:04I got it.
00:24:04All right.
00:24:05Charge.
00:24:08Sheena is an extreme foodie, and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:14Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:18Whoa.
00:24:18I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:24:20Oh, my God.
00:24:21I can definitely smell him.
00:24:23Oh.
00:24:23In here?
00:24:24Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:24:27Don't go for that.
00:24:28Yeah, okay.
00:24:29So, sorry, baby.
00:24:34This is all I could get for you guys.
00:24:37You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:24:40It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:24:42Well, the place is nice.
00:24:45It's pretty, but it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:24:51I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:24:54It feels good.
00:24:56It's your bag, too.
00:24:57Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:24:59It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:03If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down, I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:07Sheena.
00:25:12What?
00:25:13This feels more than online right now.
00:25:17Oh.
00:25:17It's making me more nervous.
00:25:20Oh, you don't have to be.
00:25:22I'm here right with you.
00:25:23I know.
00:25:24I can see.
00:25:25You're so excited, huh?
00:25:27Oh, yeah.
00:25:27Oh, yeah.
00:25:28Because I got some good stuff here.
00:25:32Excuse me, baby.
00:25:34Boom.
00:25:35What is that?
00:25:35This is something amazing, and I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:25:43Wow.
00:25:44What?
00:25:45That's...
00:25:45What's that thing?
00:25:46I think it is a cloth that goes on your body.
00:25:51It accentuates your sexuality.
00:25:56Oh, that's nice.
00:25:57I love the color.
00:25:59Oh, yeah.
00:26:00That's cool.
00:26:00I guess, guess what?
00:26:01There's even more.
00:26:03What?
00:26:03You have more?
00:26:04I have more.
00:26:05I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:10Wow.
00:26:12To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin.
00:26:18But forest makes me feel confident of my body.
00:26:22This is another one for you, in case you want to.
00:26:25Oh, it's pretty.
00:26:25It's cool.
00:26:27It's beautiful.
00:26:27Oh, okay.
00:26:30All right, okay.
00:26:37You're so handsome, always.
00:26:38I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:26:40Okay.
00:26:40Go for it, my love.
00:26:41Deep brush.
00:26:42All right.
00:26:43Do everything, my love.
00:26:44You know, when I was making like sexy talk with her, I was really just trying to like put
00:26:51her at ease, make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:26:57I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:01But to be honest, I'm actually kind of still nervous about what is my heart to do.
00:27:05I mean, I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off, but having sex with Sheena, I feel like
00:27:16it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:27:22It's just a big deal.
00:27:24I love you.
00:27:25I love you.
00:27:26Do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:27Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:27:29It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:27:40I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:27:42And so I am nervous that beer con won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:27:49Oh, my God.
00:27:50Here we go.
00:27:51We are in the process of landing, and I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or beer con,
00:28:02but I'm excited.
00:28:14So this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:28:18I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting, for the first time.
00:28:24Everything has to go perfect, so I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:28:32Laura is arriving tricky today, and today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:28:40Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:28:44Right now, I'm staying with different friends.
00:28:57Sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:00That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:04But the privacy of our place is going to be nice,
00:29:07because we have a lot of things to discuss face to face.
00:29:14It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:29:27I'm so excited now.
00:29:30I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:29:33Oh.
00:29:40Oh.
00:29:43Oh, my God.
00:29:44She come early.
00:29:54It's slightly close that I am having a heart attack or I am excited.
00:29:59Yeah, we will see.
00:30:00I am going to wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:06I think that will be a lot cuter than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:30:12I'm really proud of the progress that I've made over the last 14 months,
00:30:16but I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:30:20And so I am nervous that Birkan won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:30:27And I think that's a cute dress.
00:30:30All right.
00:30:31The woman I love is coming, so I'm thrilled.
00:30:40My hopes are we will get engaged and go to America, live together, and get married.
00:30:48But maybe she will hate me.
00:30:51Nobody knows.
00:30:52This is it?
00:30:57I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
00:31:08Oh, my God.
00:31:09Here we go.
00:31:09Welcome, gorgeous.
00:31:20How are you?
00:31:21Good, aren't you?
00:31:22I am good.
00:31:24How are you doing?
00:31:25It was so long.
00:31:27Yeah, I know.
00:31:28I am still thinking about, oh, my God, I'm haircut.
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:31I think everything is perfect right now.
00:31:44Yeah.
00:31:45That's really sweet.
00:31:46Yeah, it was.
00:31:47I know.
00:31:48I know.
00:31:49Yeah.
00:31:52So let's go this way.
00:31:55Okay.
00:31:56These bumps are a pain with suitcases.
00:31:58He looks amazing.
00:31:59Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing, which is that dark romance male main character.
00:32:07When you look at her, what do you think?
00:32:08She's perfect.
00:32:09I don't need to look at her.
00:32:11I don't need, because I feel it, you know?
00:32:14I'm complete, so we don't need to see.
00:32:16That's probably the best answer ever.
00:32:24That was, like, the best flight I've ever taken.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26Seriously.
00:32:28I'm glad.
00:32:29I'm really glad.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:32Yeah.
00:32:46It's good to see you.
00:32:47You too.
00:32:48I don't know what's happening.
00:32:56It's very awkward right now.
00:33:01I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know, it was, like, great when we first met.
00:33:05He hugged me, he kissed me, and then we sit on this train, and it's like, he doesn't know who I am, and I don't know who he is.
00:33:13I think we're close.
00:33:23I'm hoping that as time moves forward, that this will turn around, and it will feel more like it did when we were online.
00:33:31But right now, something is off, and it's freaking me out.
00:33:36Anna called me like it were, talking about your brother, your brother.
00:33:48I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:33:53She was just talking about that woman.
00:33:56What are you doing with?
00:33:58Uh, yeah.
00:34:00Who is the woman?
00:34:19This is nice.
00:34:22Really?
00:34:23This is screaming, I failed a pottery class.
00:34:26No, but she doesn't like how you dress, so you got to do something else.
00:34:29Ugh.
00:34:42I think you got some good purchases.
00:34:43Ugh.
00:34:44Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:34:47It'll be fine.
00:34:48It's going to be fine.
00:34:49I'm running some last minute errands.
00:34:52I'm running some last minute errands with my sister Ashley, because I'm flying to the Philippines in a couple of days to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:35:01I'm excited, and I'm super nervous, because we've been married for three years.
00:35:06But we've never been in the same room or even the same continent with each other.
00:35:12So, are you all packed up?
00:35:15You ready?
00:35:16Uh, I think I'm as ready as I'm ever gonna be.
00:35:19And, you know, me and Anna's relationship, it's just been this spiraling, like, up and down, loop-de-loop rollercoaster ride.
00:35:27But when things are good, I'm, like, really happy to be in a relationship.
00:35:30I think Anna's very funny.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:33Like, Anna seems like she's a good time.
00:35:36She's just a lot.
00:35:40Javon marrying somebody online was actually wild to me.
00:35:45I do think they love each other, but I don't know, like, I wouldn't just call this, like, a normal marriage.
00:35:51This is something I've never seen or heard of before.
00:35:55You know, like, Anna actually called me.
00:36:00You spoke to her?
00:36:02Mm-hmm.
00:36:04She called me, like, at work, I'm working, I'm with customers, and she's just, you know, talking about,
00:36:11your brother, your brother, I don't know what to do with him.
00:36:13Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:36:16Yeah.
00:36:17And I was like, can't even get her off the phone.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20She was just talking about that woman.
00:36:26Uh, yeah.
00:36:31So who is the woman?
00:36:38So the woman is just, like, a friend of mine that I've known for a long time.
00:36:46We communicate so well, and we can stay on the phone for hours.
00:36:50I think because we're both having problems in our, you know, relationship,
00:36:54it's definitely more easygoing and it's more positive.
00:37:01So, but what is it that Anna's so, like, threatened and bothered by her?
00:37:06Like, what, what is it?
00:37:09Because I feel like I'm missing something.
00:37:11Yeah, I mean, there used to be this, this, this, this small thing between us, but we're better.
00:37:20Also, that, so, so, Javon, that's not okay.
00:37:24That is no good.
00:37:25That is no good.
00:37:26I, I know, you know, and I'm not.
00:37:28So, so that's why she's so upset then.
00:37:30Yeah.
00:37:33Me and my friend, we never officially dated, but there was feelings for one another.
00:37:37We lost touch for a while, but I reached out to her because I was going through a rough time in my marriage.
00:37:46And I needed someone that knew me and that understood me.
00:37:51I wasn't trying to hide anything.
00:37:53So, I just came out and told Anna Lynn I was talking to this other person.
00:37:58I don't think it's a big deal, but obviously she does because she's extremely pissed off and upset.
00:38:07I'm not saying she don't have a valid reason to be upset, but it's just completely platonic, you know, and she don't have to worry about that.
00:38:17Have you tried to call her?
00:38:19I have, but, you know, she, she blocked me.
00:38:24For real?
00:38:26She gets so aggressive.
00:38:29See, this is the problem.
00:38:30Like, this is how, this is why I had to go outside of our marriage to talk to somebody else about our marriage.
00:38:39And it shouldn't be that way.
00:38:41Obviously, Anna feels disrespected.
00:38:45And I do get that.
00:38:48I know that she's 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:38:53But I do feel like he presses her buttons.
00:38:56Javanna just needs to say sorry and try and talk to her.
00:38:59And if they don't know how to talk, then they don't need to be married.
00:39:02You're about to see your wife for the first time.
00:39:06You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight.
00:39:08I don't know what the to do.
00:39:11I don't know what to do.
00:39:15I heard some interesting things from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:39:21Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
00:39:26I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:39:31Now, now you're kind of, now you're kind of being really disrespectful.
00:39:35Hey, guys, we're gonna go down and have some coffee by the pool.
00:40:04So, uh, we'll be up in a little while.
00:40:07Talk to you in a bit.
00:40:08Later.
00:40:09Later.
00:40:11Mmm.
00:40:15Staring content.
00:40:17Oh, you're crazy.
00:40:18I'm crazy.
00:40:19Do you?
00:40:20Oh.
00:40:21I arrived in the Philippines yesterday, and the first night with the woman of my dream,
00:40:40Sheena, was amazing.
00:40:41Are you crazy?
00:40:42Oh, man, you're strong.
00:40:43I gotta walk in.
00:40:44Oh, yeah?
00:40:45I'm a strong beard.
00:40:46Oh, God.
00:40:47I'm gonna tickle you crazy, baby.
00:40:53There's a lot of new and fun things I'm finding out being with Sheena physically.
00:40:59I found out there's a night Sheena.
00:41:01What?
00:41:02And, uh, she's kind of grabby.
00:41:03Oh, really?
00:41:04I'm not.
00:41:05You're very, uh, into being physical.
00:41:08Oh, no, I'm not.
00:41:09Night Sheena.
00:41:10Rawr, rawr, rawr.
00:41:12You know, just finally being able to hold you and be with you and kiss you.
00:41:18It just felt awesome.
00:41:21And I know that I talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like that.
00:41:26But I really believe that we should, um, wait, you know, till we know each other a bit
00:41:33more, you know, in person.
00:41:35I understand my love.
00:41:39I really feel like after seven years, me coming here to the Philippines and just having sex
00:41:46with Sheena straight up, it's not what I want to do.
00:41:49Yeah, I agree with that.
00:41:51I just want to get to know you much better.
00:41:53We all know when the time is right.
00:41:55I agree to that.
00:41:57Also, probably when my mom's not around.
00:41:59Yeah.
00:42:06We'll see you later.
00:42:08I don't need a coat.
00:42:10That's for sure.
00:42:11Ooh, nice and cool in here.
00:42:14I'm excited.
00:42:24So where exactly are we?
00:42:25Are you taking us again?
00:42:26So it's a Chinatown here, Manila, actually one of the oldest Chinatown here in the whole
00:42:33world because Chinese people had been trading with the Filipinos before Spanish people arrived.
00:42:40Wow.
00:42:41Spaniards.
00:42:42So there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods.
00:42:45I'm ready to eat it all.
00:42:52So I got a little curiosity question to ask you guys.
00:42:57Uh, I heard some interesting things, you know, coming from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:43:03The little giggles.
00:43:05So, uh, did, uh, you guys, uh, do the old, uh, knockin' knockin'?
00:43:12No.
00:43:13No.
00:43:14No.
00:43:15No.
00:43:16No.
00:43:17No.
00:43:18No.
00:43:19No.
00:43:20No.
00:43:21So, what?
00:43:22Why didn't you guys?
00:43:23Well, just wasn't the right time or place to do that.
00:43:28Oh, ok, well, you guys can always come and talk to us if you have questions.
00:43:35It's not an embarrassing subject to me.
00:43:38It's interesting.
00:43:39It's light.
00:43:40Yup, and it takes practice to be good at it.
00:43:42Yup.
00:43:44my parents are just it's a little too much it's a little bit rude and awkward for me
00:43:53i just want to prefer like a privacy between us you know i respect you guys for for waiting
00:44:00and there's nothing wrong with that there are other things that you can do if you guys
00:44:05didn't want to do the nookie nookie there's oral sex there's fondling
00:44:12now now you're kind of being really disrespectful here mom i get it you're trying to be helpful
00:44:17but you're pushing too far you know if we want to talk about sex with you we'll come up and ask about
00:44:24it okay excuse me
00:44:29i thought it was nice that he was defending her honor that's admirable but i was very shocked by
00:44:40forest reaction thank you very much well forest out why is this a you know a total 180 from our
00:44:48normal discussions where you're right in there using the same language the same talk saying yeah
00:44:53i'm gonna get into that do that it's drastic night and day i see where this is head oh my god i miss
00:45:00this place feels at home sheena already has that control that thumb on him let's not forget she was
00:45:09lying to him for years giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future
00:45:14and i don't know if forest will actually hold her accountable but we need to get some answers
00:45:20you don't need to talk about your past i know i know everything about your life you don't know
00:45:34everything i really want to tell the end about my last engagement because i think it's the only way
00:45:41that we could move forward
00:45:42oh look at the mirrors wait i want to check my outfit here hold that we look cute
00:46:06i can see you can you see yourself i'm excited to go shopping it's always crowded
00:46:26this is an easy place to get lost
00:46:30today i want to take emma to old me you know i feel so bad because emma she loves her job
00:46:38i want to make her feel so better and she loves shopping so
00:46:42oh look at those bags those are cute
00:46:47the market place in the medina they have a thousand stores there oh my gosh i love all of
00:46:53these clothes you can find anything you want oh look at these rugs those are nice yes oh wait
00:47:02there's bags let's go look at the bags let's let's let's see what you want
00:47:07oh this is so cute can you hold this i want to look at everything look for anything you want
00:47:14i think i like these little wallets these are cute i think i'm gonna buy these three
00:47:21not you me you're gonna get them yeah it's it's like my gift to you
00:47:27can i give you a kiss no hair hair kiss maybe is that okay yeah can i do that from now on
00:47:34yeah yeah yeah just give you air kisses whenever i want to kiss you yeah
00:47:37it's really nice to have zied offer to buy me things and buy gifts for me
00:47:46that was so romantic because that's never something i've had in the past
00:47:51it's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than i was feeling yesterday where are you taking
00:47:56me babe this it's popular here in marrakesh what is this
00:48:03what is that what's we call them in english snails snails i like don't want that really no
00:48:14it's like traditional i'm not trying no i literally would throw up
00:48:21it's so delicious that is the grossest thing i've ever seen in my whole life
00:48:28it's a slimy snail and you just suck it down for me it's delicious
00:48:35that's like really gross what's like the weirdest food you've ever tried
00:48:44like snails would be weird for you for me no so for me sushi for example
00:48:50i love sushi yeah it's we are different it's are we compatible
00:48:55can you hold my other bag actually what else can we do like while we're here
00:49:08did you like horses i love horses i think we have to choose this one i like the white one
00:49:15just one by one one by one oh my god this is so romantic this is like a romantic love ride
00:49:29this is three kisses you kiss me today
00:49:37i'm happy that we had a better day today
00:49:42yeah me too it was big difference between this day and last day
00:49:46yesterday was like really hard for me it like brought up old feelings because you know i've
00:49:55like been lied to a lot like in my past like with past boyfriends so when when you kind of
00:50:01lied to me it was like a trigger for me yeah so you don't need to talk about your past
00:50:07you don't care about my past no i know you right now not in past so yeah but don't you want to know
00:50:14about my life just like things i've been through it's like don't you want to know about me
00:50:19yeah i know i know everything about your life you don't know everything
00:50:22no i know everything i know your family i know uh where did you live i know i know but there are
00:50:29things that like i that have happened in my life that you don't know about
00:50:32like i thought we can leave the impasse something passes it's passes
00:50:40i want to be vulnerable i want to share you know details about who i am and my past
00:50:48and i really want to be able to tell zied about my last engagement because i think it's the only way
00:50:55that we could move forward but for him to shut me down it does make me wonder if zied just doesn't
00:51:03want to talk about the past because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want
00:51:08to tell me since i've gotten to morocco i've just felt really rejected by him and so now i'm just
00:51:18feeling a little concerned about everything
00:51:19i need you to be able to look me in the eye why have you lied to us all along i was so fearful of
00:51:34my parents they would say bad things to me they would say bad things to other people and it affects
00:51:40me emotionally mentally it drains me every day no i need that direct answer as to why you continue to hide it
00:52:10i'm leaving for the philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife anna for the first time
00:52:28but me and anna we haven't spoken to each other in about a week
00:52:33my sister talked to anna lynn and she actually unblocked me but she's still really upset that
00:52:40i'm back in touch with a friend i once had feelings for there's so much
00:52:46riding on this trip anna being as angry it's just not good
00:52:52hey what's going on what's going on ask yourself what's going on javon
00:52:59i mean uh you know anna don't don't be so aggressive
00:53:05i'm not being aggressive you told me yourself if we're going to be married
00:53:12we can't be keeping anyone special from the past but you're doing it
00:53:20and i'm not saying that you're cheating on me but it's like a baby step for any temptation
00:53:28i'm dealing with so much over here by myself i'm dealing with your problems i'm dealing with my
00:53:35problems and sometimes i don't feel like i'm being emotionally supported by you
00:53:40so you know i kind of felt like i was just a little bit desperate just to just to be understood and just
00:53:47i mean but like who can afford therapy right now
00:54:12she's not taking any accountability that you know she played a part in why i reached out
00:54:24to a friend i need to be able to rely on my wife but she makes it impossible
00:54:30even when i'm like at work you're going through something i always try to be there for you
00:54:37emotionally okay okay listen i try but i don't see you trying for me when do you show up for me in that way
00:54:45like hello i've been waiting for you for six years i have devoted invested so much love
00:54:59if you don't feel like that's understanding enough waiting for you for that long
00:55:08i know you've made you know some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long and i do apologize
00:55:28and i do take accountability for what i've done
00:55:31i can stop but can we at least work on our communication
00:55:47okay
00:55:49okay that's all i want boo that's that's it
00:55:54with jubon coming out to the philippines i do feel like i could let go of some negative feelings
00:56:03about this situation but even though he agreed that he's not gonna talk to that woman anymore
00:56:11do i believe it
00:56:12no not really so i will definitely talk about this again in person
00:56:23do you think we can like move past it like when we see each other
00:56:29i don't know
00:56:30maybe
00:56:31whoa look at this place this was a church
00:56:52oh
00:56:531588 man that is old it's old here we gotta celebrate here
00:56:57yes it's precision oh my goodness we call that fiesta oh yes that's a culture for catholics here in my country
00:57:15oh my god yeah it's really cool look at this
00:57:20i decided to take force and his family the chinatown because i'm a chinese mix my mom is chinese descent so i wanted to show how chinese culture interbonded with filipina culture
00:57:37smell that oh that smells so good so this is the place that they make handmade noodles
00:57:44i eat that air hello oh yesterday i was quite a little nervous to meet forest parents especially molly
00:57:54okay thank you thank you there's been problem between me and molly but i'm so glad that she happened to accept me and i wanted to provide them the best first day here in the philippines
00:58:09yeah yum oh thank you slurps up and slurps up huh yeah actually that's here the culture you want to slurp it means you're eating the good noodles so that's a good sign
00:58:20so the loud are the best right yeah yes here i go
00:58:23yeah you are the king of slurps forest i made sure to get on my glasses that's the that's the key
00:58:30this is all good yeah well machina i wanted to to thank you for your apology yesterday i mean that really showed a lot um to me but i did i did want to uh ask you about a few things
00:58:51okay okay mom i'm listening and i need you to be able to look me in the eye and i need you to be truthful
00:58:59to be truthful with me 100 percent
00:59:06you lied to us about giving your parents the money
00:59:11this was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to america to be a family with us
00:59:18these were the plans all of these years
00:59:22and then for it to just find out now before we come here
00:59:28that hasn't been happening
00:59:31why have you lied to us all along
00:59:35i really owe you millions and thousands of explanation i hope you could listen to my situation
00:59:45the reason why that i happen to give my money to my parents is because being a breadwinner it's a cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around
00:59:58i mean i completely understand giving your parents money needing to help your family that's what family does
01:00:04but my issue with it is that you lie
01:00:11to be honest the reason also that's another reason i was so scared because my parents my mom happened to guilt tripping me from time to time if i don't give them money she makes me feel that i'm such a selfish person and it hurts me a lot
01:00:21okay but if i'm asking you a direct question i need that direct answer and even now you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you continue to hide it
01:00:48watching sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful
01:00:55i'm wanting to step in and defend her and protect sheena
01:00:59but at the same time i don't understand what fear she had of telling me
01:01:05i was so fearful of my parents they would say bad things to me they would say bad things to other people
01:01:12okay and it affects me emotionally mentally
01:01:15it drains me every day no and it makes me feel so bad
01:01:19no no sheena i'm not asking you that i'm asking you why you did not tell us
01:01:27us
01:01:30i couldn't handle myself anymore because i don't know
01:01:34i can't sheena i can't understand what you're saying
01:01:36i am sorry
01:01:38oh my god
01:01:39see there's your manipulation
01:01:41put the tears
01:01:42please put your tissue down
01:01:44i'm trying to have sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable
01:01:52so even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents what's the motivation for hiding it
01:01:59they gotta get answers
01:02:01oh my god this is really happening
01:02:09oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god i can't believe i'm doing this
01:02:14oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
01:02:43here he is awesome here we go
01:02:46yeah here goes everything
01:02:50thank you
01:02:56oh my gosh
01:02:58i'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life daniel in nigeria for the very first time
01:03:04what am i doing
01:03:06i don't know mom what are you doing
01:03:08certainly not what i would be doing
01:03:10it still feels surreal to me
01:03:13that after 21 years of only being with women
01:03:16i'm traveling across the world
01:03:18to meet a man
01:03:19and i love him
01:03:21i love him
01:03:23you're gonna see when i come home how excited and happy i am
01:03:26you're gonna see when i talk to you there
01:03:28how happy i am and you're gonna be happy for me
01:03:31i just i don't want it to ruin your heart
01:03:43i'm gonna pee my pants
01:03:44oh god please don't
01:03:45here we go
01:03:47here we go
01:03:48okay
01:03:50all right
01:03:53you remember the rules
01:03:55don't get married on the trip even when the divorce comes through
01:03:57yes
01:03:58and i would come clean about everything
01:04:00it'll be a foundation
01:04:01and if you have questions
01:04:02i will ask them
01:04:04i love you
01:04:06i love you too i'm gonna miss you so much
01:04:10stay safe
01:04:13oh god
01:04:15this is the biggest risk i've ever taken
01:04:17flying across the world
01:04:19to another country
01:04:20to nigeria
01:04:21africa
01:04:22to be with a man i have never met before
01:04:24i can't believe i'm doing this
01:04:27oh my god this is really happening
01:04:29oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
01:04:33oh my god i can't believe i'm doing this
01:04:35happy dance
01:04:37happy dance
01:04:39i hope daniel will accept me for everything that i am and who i am and that he will become
01:04:46my sixth and final spouse
01:04:48daniel is coming
01:04:52all right
01:04:55Oh
01:05:22Yeah, no happy
01:05:25Yeah, no, I've been a bubble
01:05:40Please give me five hundred another
01:05:43Pepe
01:05:44My name is Daniel. I am tonight. Yes, oh
01:05:47I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe. We have traditions and we believe in traditions
01:05:55As an Igbo man, we love competition. We work hard and we have to be honest
01:06:11I grew up very poor. Sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food
01:06:17My family do the best they can do and I am really close to my family
01:06:22But some years ago, I lost my mom
01:06:26Before she she died. She told me that during war she nearly be killed that a white woman protected her
01:06:33And I have to make sure that I get married a white woman. So I decided I will do it
01:06:38And that's how I found Lisa
01:06:40It's like
01:06:44Lisa is 52 years old. She lives in Pennsylvania. She's a beautiful woman. She has um
01:06:51She has a good body structure. She's thick. She has bops. She has what I want
01:06:59She don't hide anything. She supports me financially. She makes me feel loved
01:07:04That's why I fell in love with her
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01:13:46I'm exhausted and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:48Okay.
01:13:50You wanna go to bed?
01:13:52Actually, it's just 9 o'clock and I have no sleep.
01:13:56Okay.
01:13:58So why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV and join you after.
01:14:06Good night.
01:14:08Have a nice night.
01:14:09All right. Good night.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:12Good night.
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01:14:36Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:38since i got here he tracked my flight texted me like as soon as i landed to say i saw you landed
01:14:45and then he just kind of checked up on me i said everything's good and then he was like
01:14:53your tone is less than excited my dear so i think it's interesting that he can pick up on that
01:15:02but i just have a lot of things to process right now
01:15:08him just staying out there watching tv it's just i don't know different maybe than what i was
01:15:15expecting i feel like it's not this like super great magical moment
01:15:21just feels off i don't know how to explain it just feels off
01:15:26it is so ironic and kind of concerning that i'm getting more attention from michael than i am from
01:15:34the man that i flew halfway around the world to meet and so i feel like there's something really
01:15:42wrong and i don't know maybe he's hiding something or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person
01:15:49but either way i'm just kind of questioning why i'm even here at this point
01:15:55ain't there collins
01:16:08does this story make any sense to you at all i can't handle him anymore
01:16:13it doesn't make any sense to me forrest does it make sense to you i want to end this
01:16:18now you're acting all hostile i'm not yeah you are of course
01:16:31my family have been the one who have been influenced since i was a kid
01:16:37where they should be helping me around they kept always promising to me that they will do anything
01:16:42they can't understand you you have to speak you have to be strong and you got to speak clearly
01:16:52i need you to really please point blank you were giving your parents money why did you feel
01:17:02it was so necessary to not tell us
01:17:12because i feel so scared that if i happened not to give them money they would say bad things
01:17:22they say so many things that i don't want to accept it
01:17:26i don't want to accept it and i was afraid that i was running back running does this story make any
01:17:31sense to you at all honestly when you try to look at it in and without the tears and without
01:17:40it doesn't make any sense to me at all the pieces aren't just lining up i'm sorry but they're not
01:17:46lined enough it's very concerning because how do i even know that your feelings and plans are actually
01:18:01genuine oh you were scared forrest would have been forrest would have come to me and said mom i gotta
01:18:09get it on a freaking plane right now i gotta go over there and save her but it sounds to me you
01:18:14obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him and that you could put up with it all that
01:18:19years and hide it forrest does it make sense to you a lot of it yeah i understand that if you love
01:18:35your parents and you want to have love from them you would try to do anything to make them love you
01:18:41forrest it's hard to say no to a parent especially especially the question it's hard for me to say no
01:18:50to you it's hard for me to stick up for her against you
01:18:58i believe sheena is not trying to lie or use the things as excuses i think sheena honestly doesn't
01:19:03know what to say and she gets so overwhelmed all she can get is you know diary of the mouth
01:19:16i wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to sheena if i just sat there and watched her flounder
01:19:24obviously she knows she did wrong what's your goal here just to sit here and keep beating her down
01:19:29i think what we have to do is we need to get sheena away from her parents because ultimately the root of
01:19:42this nasty tree is the parents sheena i need we need to hear from you that you're ready to
01:19:51move forward and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on
01:19:55i'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents it is the only way to end this kind of
01:20:03problem which is what she should have done to set up with you yeah years and years ago we could
01:20:09sit there we could talk about the past and he said she said he could do that she cannot do that
01:20:14it's time to move forward now forrest i want to add this now
01:20:19i don't even want to talk about the parents anymore i don't want to talk about anything
01:20:26you're acting all hostile yeah you are you and you're causing sheena a lot of stress
01:20:33you're causing me a lot of stress i tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into
01:20:38a lot of stress i don't want to talk about it i don't want to talk about it i don't want to talk about it
01:20:47i now see that forrest is too deep he's just got the blinders on only wanting to believe her
01:20:56now he sees us as the big fat bad nasties that attacked his poor sheena
01:21:01but still i have to always protect forrest because i know that he really loves her
01:21:09and i will not stop trying to find out why she lied
01:21:19next time on before the 90 days i'm about to meet my wife for the first time this is so surreal
01:21:26come on where are you this is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack
01:21:34the package
01:21:37mommy are you nervous a little bit yeah actually before i came to turkey i did make an appointment
01:21:46with a plastic surgeon i have some like loose skin in places that i am looking to have removed
01:21:51this card as fast as possible but i'm immediately regretting having fear calm come with me i will
01:21:59just show you some pictures
01:22:06i've been looking at your page every day you follow new girls just girls girls girls girls girls
01:22:12girls girls girls yeah i downloaded this extension on my laptop and it shows you who people follow the
01:22:21this morning i saw that he was still following thousands of women so since we've been dating
01:22:26have you talked romantically to any other girls she and i had a discussion about going by ourselves
01:22:33to meet your parents and how it's important that i meet them before mom and dad meet them i can't even
01:22:39imagine what her parents would try and do if forrest went over there by himself i need to be there with
01:22:45with forrest sheena your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along well
01:22:52my family isn't the bad people now the story changes again i still don't know if this isn't something that
01:23:00you're involved in either i love him with everything i am but he doesn't know that i've been married five times
01:23:16and i'm still married to a woman what are you doing
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