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00:00:00It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only, but Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago, I told him I had a fling with a woman, and he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes.
00:00:31He doesn't love you. That's not what love is. He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:54But that's just not what you said.
00:00:55A couple of weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women, and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:10Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:34Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor, because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face, and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs, and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:01I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death, because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides?
00:02:19What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:24I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:27I don't know.
00:02:31Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me, and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:01These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:04They're brand new.
00:03:06I have three, because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:10I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:14My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:17It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:21Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair, it sticks to your skin, you have rashes, you have all kinds of sores.
00:03:32It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria, but it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel, so I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:01I am hopeful she gets the answers and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:07But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:13Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful.
00:04:19Yeah, especially brood.
00:04:21That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen.
00:04:25Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:34That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately.
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:36Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper is on the 29th.
00:04:41So that the divorce becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:50And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:53If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that, oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:05:00No, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:03But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:07Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years, Daniel doesn't know that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me.
00:05:26And I said, yeah, I'm free to marry because in my heart I have been free to marry because my ex-wife and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:38If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:05:51He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried, Mom.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:04It is getting late and we need to get going.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Daniel was asking you to get married while you were in Nigeria, would you be able to ask Faith?
00:06:32Would I go against Faith's wishes?
00:06:34I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:59I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:03I don't know.
00:07:04I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:09Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:26Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:37I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:48We loved to skate, so our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair, and I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:03I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:08That was just, that was it.
00:08:12He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring, and here it is.
00:08:20I'm done waiting.
00:08:27No more hesitating.
00:08:30There is nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:42Oh, B4.
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:48Lemonade.
00:08:49Oh, boy.
00:08:51My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old, and I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:09:00I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work in a nursing home, and I like my job.
00:09:08You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters, and it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:19We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:33American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:41I call them the three sixes, and it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:51We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55It's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:58When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:03Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:09So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:14Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:21My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old, and she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo, it's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:32Must be something in it.
00:10:35Must be something in it.
00:10:37We connected online about five years ago,
00:10:40and we've been married for about two years.
00:10:45He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years,
00:10:51and we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:55Hello, boo-boo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him,
00:11:06he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:17we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:25Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:29I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person,
00:11:32but when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless,
00:11:41and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:11:47and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:52And I thought if we were married legally,
00:11:54he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:04When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:08I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:11I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox,
00:12:18but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:21When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend
00:12:23the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:31All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers
00:12:34as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:38How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:12:43Absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you
00:12:49lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:54I finally had my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:03How could you be married for years
00:13:05and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:10Uh, the whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:12So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Anna Lynn
00:13:20have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:22but work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:25And having a marriage online
00:13:28has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:36When I first met Anna,
00:13:37she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:44Like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:47I've always been feisty.
00:13:50She knows that.
00:13:51And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time,
00:14:01I had to fight to actually speak,
00:14:03to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting
00:14:06more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:11But before I apply for that spousal visa
00:14:13and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another
00:14:18to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:22I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems
00:14:29are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:32And if we can't,
00:14:34I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:40Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years
00:14:50to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off,
00:14:55but I'm kind of still nervous about
00:14:58what is my hair doing here.
00:15:02I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:04but there's something else I wanted to, like,
00:15:06talk to you about
00:15:07that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:10What is this?
00:15:10What's happening?
00:15:15Oh.
00:15:16I don't like that.
00:15:20Oh, yeah.
00:15:21Oh.
00:15:22Oh.
00:15:29Oh.
00:15:30I wanted to get out for a bit this morning and clear my mind because
00:15:59my night with Emma was horrible I want to be her husband but we need some times to
00:16:06know each other's I hope things better today I pictured my first morning here a
00:16:16lot differently like I thought I'd be waking up next to him and he would be
00:16:19like bringing me coffee in the morning and cuddling with me and that's not how
00:16:24it went at all we've actually just been completely separate yes behavior last
00:16:31night it's making me a little suspicious but I'm trying not to just be in my head
00:16:36and overthink things I want this to be fun and I want us to just focus on the
00:16:43positive I'm really determined to turn things around
00:16:50good morning morning how's your night this is nice really yeah that's it this is your
00:17:05place I hope you will like it thanks babe
00:17:20thank you she's adorable my favorite I don't like eggs but I'll eat it because she cooked it
00:17:41do you want to talk about yesterday what do you want to just start for what I mean it wasn't
00:17:47really like a good start to my trip I don't like that we were fighting all day yeah that's not how I
00:17:55expected like my first night to go can you pour me some more tea please yeah oh you drink that all
00:18:03I love I love the tea here um but yes I did want to say sorry to you I don't hear you I wanted to
00:18:12say sorry can you repeat I don't hear what you said I wanted to say sorry for what for running away
00:18:20from your kiss and walking away from you when you were talking I mean I'm sorry yesterday got like
00:18:30really dramatic but I think it was just a long day for me because I was traveling for like 20 hours I
00:18:36know it's difficult and it was just like a lot going on there was like a lot in my mind actually
00:18:43there's something else I wanted to like talk to you about that like I didn't tell you yet
00:18:47what what is this what's happening I was just like upset the past couple days because you know
00:19:06how much I love my job like I've been there for five years and well I got fired
00:19:12really I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm gonna cry no no you don't need this
00:19:23listen listen I just need a minute oh
00:19:30sorry no no don't cry it's I don't know what I'm gonna do it's just a word it's perfect and you
00:19:50don't need to cry for it so just enjoy your moments no don't cry don't cry okay don't cry
00:20:00I don't know what I'm gonna do I don't have any like options right now it's difficult and it's
00:20:10hard but at the end there is a lot of jobs yeah you will find another one more better than you last
00:20:17right now I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh we are together and everything will be good
00:20:30I think we definitely started this trip like on the wrong foot it was like a tornado but right now
00:20:38he's showing me that he cares about what I'm going through I love you I love you but what's what's
00:20:45me in tornado like an earthquake like a like a natural disaster so like when I got off the plane
00:20:51what happened what happened between us was like an earthquake yeah yeah that's the amazing example
00:20:55my future hubby oh do you know what that means no in your space what's meaning it's short for
00:21:07your husband really yeah we're so be one feet exactly
00:21:16God I can't believe the trees how beautiful they are I gotta believe how hot it is I'm probably gonna I can't believe how hot it is
00:21:45I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds
00:21:47all right see you later Dave
00:21:57I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams after seven years
00:22:09just being able to touch and hold her hand it was so amazing did a little more than hold hands I'd say
00:22:17lucka lucka yeah
00:22:20oh this is incredible yeah there's a lot to take in here
00:22:27crazy this is definitely controlled chaos
00:22:31if I could describe the Philippines in one word it'd be hectic it's got people like almost running into
00:22:41each other or running each other over constantly oh man glad I'm not driving
00:22:45like it's got its own like charm to it look at that that thing is pretty good yes this is the jeepney
00:22:54this is locally here in my country they have converted old jeepneys from the world war ii who have been left with
00:22:59Americans so they can for her like taxi incredible you can see the big building there and that's the
00:23:08yeah sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila but we're not staying there because her parents said we had to pay for it if we did stay
00:23:22when sheena told me that it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their daughter
00:23:28and I would be their son and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd especially
00:23:35because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually
00:23:40just meet her sheena said I know it doesn't make sense but it's what my parents want it's their wishes
00:23:45I can't really go around that but I'm not paying them money
00:23:51this is the place all right we are here
00:23:57there you go mom that's it
00:24:02I got it all right charge
00:24:06sheena is an extreme foodie and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed
00:24:14well that's a cultural thing in my country
00:24:17I should like to open him up and see what he's about
00:24:20I can definitely smell him
00:24:23yeah he's a little excited at the top don't go for that
00:24:28yeah okay
00:24:30so sorry baby this is all I could get for you guys
00:24:36you can see that we have two bedrooms here
00:24:39it's like a simple home but comfy so
00:24:42the place is nice it's pretty but it could have been a little bit bigger
00:24:49I state this claim in the name of forest
00:24:54it feels good
00:24:56it's your bag too here I'll throw these in here for you
00:24:58it's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents
00:25:02if me and sheena you know decide to get down
00:25:05I really just hope my parents don't hear us
00:25:08sheena
00:25:11what
00:25:12this feels more than online right now
00:25:17it's making me more nervous
00:25:19oh you don't have to be I'm hearing with you
00:25:23oh I know I can see
00:25:24yeah you're so excited huh
00:25:27oh yeah
00:25:28because I got some good stuff here
00:25:31excuse me baby
00:25:33boom
00:25:34what is that
00:25:36this is something amazing
00:25:38and I want you to try it on for me if you want
00:25:42wow what that's what's that thing
00:25:46I think it is a cloth
00:25:48that goes on your body
00:25:50it accentuates your sexuality
00:25:53oh that's nice I love the color
00:25:58oh yeah
00:25:59that's cool
00:26:00I guess guess what
00:26:01there's even more
00:26:02what you have more
00:26:04I have more
00:26:05oh wow
00:26:07I got you a pretty thong
00:26:10wow
00:26:11to be honest
00:26:13I feel quite nervous
00:26:15because
00:26:16I am a virgin
00:26:18but forest makes me feel confident
00:26:21of my body
00:26:22this is another one for you
00:26:23in case you want to
00:26:25oh that's pretty
00:26:26that's cool
00:26:26that's beautiful
00:26:27oh okay
00:26:29you're so handsome always
00:26:38I'm going to go brush my teeth
00:26:40okay
00:26:40go for it my love
00:26:41do brush
00:26:42alright
00:26:42do everything my love
00:26:44you know when I was making like sexy talk with her
00:26:49I was really just trying to like put her at ease
00:26:52make her laugh
00:26:53you know
00:26:54just calm the mood
00:26:56I've been waiting seven years
00:26:58to be alone with Sheena like this
00:27:01but to be honest
00:27:02I'm actually
00:27:03I'm kind of still nervous about what is my virginia
00:27:05I mean
00:27:09I'm
00:27:09I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off
00:27:11but
00:27:11having sex with Sheena
00:27:15I feel like it's
00:27:16an important thing for the both of us
00:27:18to be in the right mindset
00:27:19it's
00:27:22it's
00:27:22it's just a big deal
00:27:23I love you
00:27:25I love you
00:27:25do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:27well turn off the lights babe
00:27:29it's absolutely wild
00:27:36that I'm finally on the ground here
00:27:38I still have flaws and imperfections
00:27:42and so I am nervous
00:27:44that
00:27:45beer con
00:27:46won't be as attracted to me in person
00:27:49oh my god
00:27:50here we go
00:27:51we are in the process of landing
00:27:58and
00:27:59I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich
00:28:01or beer con
00:28:02but
00:28:02I'm excited
00:28:14so this is the
00:28:15most important day actually
00:28:17in my life
00:28:18I'm trying to look good
00:28:20you know
00:28:20for our
00:28:21big meeting
00:28:22for the first time
00:28:23everything has to go perfect
00:28:26so
00:28:26I will iron it
00:28:28until it's perfect
00:28:29or it's burned
00:28:31Laura is arriving
00:28:33tricky day
00:28:34and
00:28:35today
00:28:36might be
00:28:37first day of
00:28:38my rest of my life
00:28:39Laura
00:28:41rented
00:28:41this
00:28:42Airbnb
00:28:43for us
00:28:44I never saw
00:28:45this big
00:28:46of
00:28:47place
00:28:48it just
00:28:49chills me
00:28:50right now
00:28:53right now
00:28:54I'm staying with
00:28:55different friends
00:28:57sometimes
00:28:57Izmir
00:28:58sometimes
00:28:59Istanbul
00:28:59that's why
00:29:01Laura
00:29:01couldn't
00:29:02stay with me
00:29:03but
00:29:04the privacy
00:29:05of our place
00:29:06is gonna be nice
00:29:08because we have
00:29:09a lot of things
00:29:10to discuss
00:29:10face to face
00:29:11it's absolutely wild
00:29:24that I'm finally
00:29:26on the ground here
00:29:27I'm so excited now
00:29:29I just want to run
00:29:31out of this airport
00:29:31and leave all my luggage
00:29:32here
00:29:33she come early
00:29:45it's slightly cold
00:29:56that I am having a heart attack
00:29:57or I am excited
00:29:58yeah we will see
00:30:00I am gonna wear a dress
00:30:04to meet this man
00:30:06I think that will be
00:30:07a lot cuter
00:30:07than
00:30:08the hot mess
00:30:09that I'm currently wearing
00:30:11I'm really proud
00:30:13of the progress
00:30:14that I've made
00:30:15over the last 14 months
00:30:16but
00:30:17I still have
00:30:19flaws
00:30:19and imperfections
00:30:20and so I am nervous
00:30:22that
00:30:23beercon
00:30:24won't be
00:30:25as attracted
00:30:25to me in person
00:30:26and I think
00:30:28that's a cute dress
00:30:29all right
00:30:31the woman I love
00:30:37is coming
00:30:38so
00:30:38I'm thrilled
00:30:39my hopes are
00:30:41we will get engaged
00:30:42and
00:30:43go to America
00:30:44live together
00:30:45and
00:30:46get married
00:30:47but
00:30:49maybe
00:30:49she will hate me
00:30:50nobody knows
00:30:52this is it
00:30:57I can't believe
00:30:58I'm about to meet him
00:30:59oh my god
00:31:09here we go
00:31:10welcome
00:31:18welcome
00:31:18gorgeous
00:31:19how are you
00:31:21good how are you
00:31:22I am good
00:31:23how are you doing
00:31:25it was so long
00:31:26yeah I know
00:31:28I am still thinking about
00:31:29oh my god
00:31:30America
00:31:30yeah
00:31:31I think everything
00:31:43is perfect
00:31:43right now
00:31:44yeah
00:31:45that's really sweet
00:31:46yeah
00:31:46that was
00:31:47I know
00:31:48I know
00:31:49yeah
00:31:50so let's go
00:31:54this way
00:31:54okay
00:31:55these bumps
00:31:57are a pain
00:31:57with suitcases
00:31:58he looks amazing
00:31:59exactly the aesthetic
00:32:01that I've been describing
00:32:03which is that
00:32:04dark romance
00:32:06male main character
00:32:07when you look at her
00:32:08what do you think
00:32:08she's perfect
00:32:09I don't need to look at her
00:32:11I don't need
00:32:12because I feel it
00:32:13you know
00:32:13I'm complete
00:32:14so
00:32:15we don't need to see
00:32:16that's probably
00:32:17the best answer ever
00:32:18that was like
00:32:24the best flight
00:32:25I've ever taken
00:32:26yeah
00:32:26seriously
00:32:27I'm glad
00:32:29I'm really glad
00:32:30yeah
00:32:43I don't know
00:32:54what's happening
00:32:54it's very awkward
00:32:57right now
00:32:58I really wasn't
00:33:02expecting that
00:33:03because you know
00:33:04it was like
00:33:04great when we first
00:33:05met
00:33:06he hugged me
00:33:06he kissed me
00:33:07and then we sit
00:33:08on this train
00:33:08and it's like
00:33:09he doesn't know
00:33:10who I am
00:33:11and I don't know
00:33:13who he is
00:33:13I think we're close
00:33:19I'm hoping that
00:33:24as time moves forward
00:33:25that this will turn around
00:33:27and it will feel
00:33:29more like it did
00:33:30when we were online
00:33:31but right now
00:33:33something is off
00:33:34and it's freaking me out
00:33:43Anna called me
00:33:45like it were
00:33:46talking about
00:33:47your brother
00:33:47your brother
00:33:48I know that Anna
00:33:49is 1000% unhinged
00:33:51like kind of
00:33:52off her rocker
00:33:52a little bit
00:33:53she was just
00:33:54talking about
00:33:55that woman
00:33:56who is the woman
00:34:01who is the woman
00:34:01this is nice
00:34:20really
00:34:23this is screaming
00:34:25I failed a pottery class
00:34:26but she doesn't like
00:34:27how you dress
00:34:28so you gotta do
00:34:29something else
00:34:29I think you got
00:34:42some good purchases
00:34:43yeah I don't have
00:34:45a lot of faith
00:34:46in that shirt
00:34:46it'll be fine
00:34:49it's gonna be fine
00:34:50I'm running
00:34:52some last minute errands
00:34:53with my sister Ashley
00:34:54because I'm flying
00:34:55to the Philippines
00:34:56in a couple of days
00:34:57to meet my wife
00:34:58for the first time
00:34:59in person
00:35:00I'm excited
00:35:02and I'm super nervous
00:35:03because we've been
00:35:05married for three years
00:35:06but we've never been
00:35:07in the same room
00:35:08or even the same
00:35:09continent with each other
00:35:10so are you
00:35:13all packed up
00:35:15you ready
00:35:15I think I'm as ready
00:35:17as I'm ever gonna be
00:35:19and you know
00:35:20me and Anna's
00:35:21relationship
00:35:21it's just been
00:35:22this spiraling
00:35:23like up and down
00:35:25loopy loop
00:35:25rollercoaster ride
00:35:27but when things are good
00:35:28I'm like really happy
00:35:29to be in a relationship
00:35:30I think Anna's
00:35:31very funny
00:35:32yeah
00:35:32like Anna seems
00:35:34like she's a good time
00:35:35she's just a lot
00:35:37Javon marrying
00:35:41somebody online
00:35:42was actually wild
00:35:44to me
00:35:44I do think
00:35:45they love each other
00:35:46but I don't know
00:35:48like I wouldn't
00:35:49just call this
00:35:49like a normal marriage
00:35:51this is something
00:35:52I've never seen
00:35:53or heard of before
00:35:55you know like
00:35:56Anna actually
00:35:58called me
00:35:59you spoke to her
00:36:01she called me
00:36:05like at work
00:36:06I'm working
00:36:07I'm with customers
00:36:09and she's just
00:36:10you know
00:36:10talking about
00:36:11your brother
00:36:12your brother
00:36:12I don't know
00:36:13what to do with him
00:36:13rah rah
00:36:15rah rah
00:36:16rah
00:36:16and I was like
00:36:17can't even get her
00:36:18off the phone
00:36:19yeah
00:36:19she was just
00:36:21talking about
00:36:22that woman
00:36:23uh
00:36:27yeah
00:36:28so who
00:36:31who is the woman
00:36:33so
00:36:38the woman
00:36:39is just
00:36:40like
00:36:40a friend of mine
00:36:42that I've
00:36:42that I've known
00:36:43for a long time
00:36:44we communicate
00:36:47so well
00:36:48and we can stay
00:36:49on the phone
00:36:49for hours
00:36:50I think
00:36:50because we're
00:36:51both having
00:36:52problems
00:36:52in our
00:36:53you know
00:36:53relationship
00:36:54it's definitely
00:36:55more easy going
00:36:57and it's more
00:36:57positive
00:36:58so
00:37:01but
00:37:02what is it
00:37:03that
00:37:03that Anna
00:37:04so like
00:37:04threatened
00:37:05and bothered
00:37:06by her
00:37:07like
00:37:07what
00:37:08what is it
00:37:09because I feel
00:37:10like I'm
00:37:10missing something
00:37:11yeah
00:37:13I mean
00:37:14there used
00:37:14to be
00:37:15this
00:37:15this
00:37:16this
00:37:16this
00:37:16small thing
00:37:17between us
00:37:18but
00:37:19we're back
00:37:20also
00:37:20that
00:37:21so
00:37:22so
00:37:23Javon
00:37:24that's not
00:37:24okay
00:37:25that is no
00:37:25good
00:37:26I know
00:37:27you know
00:37:27and I'm not
00:37:28so that's why
00:37:29she's so upset
00:37:30then
00:37:30yeah
00:37:31me and my friend
00:37:34we never officially
00:37:34dated
00:37:35but there was
00:37:36feelings for one
00:37:37another
00:37:37we lost touch
00:37:39for a while
00:37:39but I reached
00:37:41out to her
00:37:42because
00:37:42I was going
00:37:44through a rough
00:37:45time in my
00:37:46marriage
00:37:46and I needed
00:37:48someone that
00:37:49knew me
00:37:50and that understood
00:37:50me
00:37:51I wasn't trying
00:37:52to hide anything
00:37:53so I just came
00:37:55out and told
00:37:56Anna and I was
00:37:57talking to this
00:37:57other person
00:37:58I don't think
00:37:59it's a big deal
00:38:00but obviously
00:38:01she does
00:38:01because she's
00:38:02extremely pissed
00:38:03off and upset
00:38:04I'm not saying
00:38:08she don't have
00:38:08a valid reason
00:38:09to be upset
00:38:10but it's just
00:38:12completely platonic
00:38:13you know
00:38:14and she don't
00:38:16have to worry
00:38:16about that
00:38:17have you tried
00:38:18to call her
00:38:19I have
00:38:21but you know
00:38:22she blocked me
00:38:24for real
00:38:26she gets so
00:38:29aggressive
00:38:29see this is the
00:38:30problem
00:38:31like this is how
00:38:32this is why I had
00:38:33to go
00:38:33outside of
00:38:35our marriage
00:38:36to talk to
00:38:37somebody else
00:38:38about our marriage
00:38:40and it shouldn't
00:38:40be that way
00:38:41obviously Anna
00:38:44feels disrespected
00:38:45and I do
00:38:47get that
00:38:48I know that
00:38:49she's
00:38:491000% unhinged
00:38:51like kind of
00:38:52off her rocker
00:38:53a little bit
00:38:53but I do feel
00:38:55like he presses
00:38:55her buttons
00:38:56I don't need to
00:38:57say sorry
00:38:58and try and
00:38:59talk to her
00:38:59and if they
00:39:00don't know
00:39:00how to talk
00:39:01then they
00:39:01don't need
00:39:02to be married
00:39:02you're about
00:39:04to see your
00:39:05wife for the
00:39:05first time
00:39:06you all don't
00:39:07need to be
00:39:07in the middle
00:39:08of a fight
00:39:09I don't know
00:39:10what to do
00:39:11I don't know
00:39:12what to do
00:39:13I heard some
00:39:18interesting things
00:39:20from your guys
00:39:20bedroom last
00:39:22night
00:39:22did you guys
00:39:24do the old
00:39:25knock it
00:39:26knock it
00:39:27I just want
00:39:28to prefer
00:39:29like a privacy
00:39:30between us
00:39:31you know
00:39:31now you're
00:39:33kind of
00:39:33being really
00:39:34disrespectful
00:39:34hey guys
00:39:48we're gonna go down
00:40:03and have some
00:40:04coffee by the
00:40:04pool
00:40:05so we'll be
00:40:06up in a little
00:40:07while
00:40:07talk to you
00:40:08in a bit
00:40:08later
00:40:09I arrived in the
00:40:24Philippines yesterday
00:40:36and the first night
00:40:39with the woman
00:40:40of my dream
00:40:40Sheena
00:40:40was amazing
00:40:42there's a lot
00:40:56of new and fun
00:40:57things I'm finding
00:40:57out being with
00:40:58Sheena physically
00:40:59I found out
00:41:00there's a night
00:41:01Sheena
00:41:02what
00:41:02and she's
00:41:03kind of grabby
00:41:04oh really
00:41:05I'm not
00:41:06you're very
00:41:06into being
00:41:08physical
00:41:08night Sheena
00:41:10you know
00:41:14just finally
00:41:15being able
00:41:15to hold you
00:41:16and be with you
00:41:17and kiss you
00:41:18it just felt
00:41:19awesome
00:41:19and I know
00:41:22that I talked
00:41:22of a big game
00:41:23last night
00:41:24about sex
00:41:25and everything
00:41:25like that
00:41:26but I really
00:41:28believe that
00:41:29we should
00:41:30wait
00:41:32you know
00:41:32till we know
00:41:33each other a bit
00:41:33more you know
00:41:34in person
00:41:35I understand
00:41:38my love
00:41:38I really feel
00:41:41like after
00:41:42seven years
00:41:43me coming
00:41:43here to the
00:41:44Philippines
00:41:45and just having
00:41:46sex with Sheena
00:41:46straight up
00:41:47it's not what
00:41:48I want to do
00:41:49yeah I agree
00:41:50with that
00:41:51I just want
00:41:52to get to know
00:41:52you much better
00:41:53we'll know
00:41:54when the time
00:41:55is right
00:41:55I agree
00:41:56to that
00:41:57also probably
00:41:59when my mom's
00:41:59not around
00:41:59yeah
00:42:00we'll see you
00:42:08later
00:42:08I don't need
00:42:10a coat
00:42:11that's for sure
00:42:12ooh
00:42:13nice and cool
00:42:14in here
00:42:15I'm excited
00:42:17so where exactly
00:42:25are we
00:42:26you're taking us
00:42:27again
00:42:27so it's a
00:42:29Chinatown
00:42:29here in Manila
00:42:30actually one of the
00:42:31oldest Chinatown
00:42:33here in the
00:42:33whole world
00:42:34because Chinese
00:42:36people have been
00:42:37trading with the
00:42:38Filipinos
00:42:38before Spanish
00:42:40people arrive
00:42:41Spaniards
00:42:42so there's a lot
00:42:43of historical sites
00:42:44around and good
00:42:45foods
00:42:45I'm ready
00:42:46to eat it all
00:42:48so I got a little
00:42:53curiosity question
00:42:54to ask you guys
00:42:56I heard some
00:42:58interesting things
00:42:59you know
00:43:00coming from your
00:43:01guys' bedroom
00:43:02last night
00:43:03the little giggles
00:43:04so uh
00:43:06did uh
00:43:08you guys
00:43:09do the old
00:43:10uh
00:43:10nookin nookin
00:43:12no
00:43:14no
00:43:15no
00:43:15no
00:43:16no
00:43:16no
00:43:17so
00:43:19why
00:43:20why didn't
00:43:22you guys
00:43:22well
00:43:25just wasn't
00:43:25the right time
00:43:26or place
00:43:27to do that
00:43:27oh
00:43:29okay
00:43:29well
00:43:30you guys
00:43:31can always
00:43:32come
00:43:33and talk
00:43:33to us
00:43:34if you have
00:43:34questions
00:43:35it's not an
00:43:36embarrassing
00:43:36subject to me
00:43:37it's
00:43:38interesting
00:43:39it's life
00:43:39it takes
00:43:41practice
00:43:41to be good
00:43:42at it
00:43:43yeah
00:43:43my parents
00:43:47are just
00:43:48it's a little
00:43:50too much
00:43:50it's a little
00:43:51bit rude
00:43:52and awkward
00:43:52for me
00:43:53I just want
00:43:54to prefer
00:43:54like a privacy
00:43:56between us
00:43:56you know
00:43:57I respect
00:43:59you guys
00:43:59for waiting
00:44:00and there's
00:44:01nothing wrong
00:44:01with that
00:44:02there are
00:44:03other things
00:44:04that you
00:44:04can do
00:44:04if you guys
00:44:05didn't want
00:44:06to do
00:44:06the nookie
00:44:08nookie
00:44:08there's oral
00:44:10sex
00:44:10there's fondling
00:44:12now
00:44:14now you're
00:44:14kind of being
00:44:14really disrespectful
00:44:15here mom
00:44:16I get it
00:44:16you're trying
00:44:17to be helpful
00:44:17but you're
00:44:18pushing too far
00:44:18you know
00:44:21if we want
00:44:22to talk
00:44:22about sex
00:44:22with you
00:44:23we'll come
00:44:23up and ask
00:44:24about it
00:44:24okay
00:44:27excuse me
00:44:29I thought
00:44:33it was nice
00:44:34that he was
00:44:34defending
00:44:35her honor
00:44:36that's
00:44:36admirable
00:44:37but I was
00:44:38very shocked
00:44:39by Forrest's
00:44:40reaction
00:44:41thank you
00:44:42very much
00:44:43well Forrest
00:44:45why is this
00:44:46a total
00:44:47180
00:44:47from our
00:44:48normal discussions
00:44:49where you're
00:44:49right in there
00:44:50using the same
00:44:51language
00:44:51the same
00:44:52talk
00:44:52saying
00:44:52yeah
00:44:53I'm going
00:44:53to get
00:44:53into that
00:44:53do that
00:44:54it's drastic
00:44:56night and day
00:44:56I see
00:44:57where this
00:44:58is headed
00:44:58oh my god
00:44:59I miss
00:45:00this place
00:45:01feels at home
00:45:02Sheena
00:45:04already has
00:45:05that control
00:45:05that thumb
00:45:06on him
00:45:07let's not
00:45:08forget
00:45:08she was lying
00:45:09to him
00:45:09for years
00:45:10giving all
00:45:11of her money
00:45:11to her parents
00:45:12instead of
00:45:13saving for
00:45:13their future
00:45:14and I don't
00:45:15know if Forrest
00:45:16will actually
00:45:16hold her
00:45:17accountable
00:45:17but we need
00:45:19to get
00:45:19some answers
00:45:20don't need
00:45:29to talk
00:45:29about your
00:45:30past
00:45:31I know
00:45:32I know
00:45:32everything
00:45:33about your
00:45:33life
00:45:33you don't
00:45:34know
00:45:34everything
00:45:35I really
00:45:37want to
00:45:37tell Ziyad
00:45:38about my
00:45:38last engagement
00:45:39because
00:45:40I think
00:45:40it's the
00:45:41only way
00:45:41that we
00:45:42could move
00:45:42forward
00:45:50oh look
00:45:58at the
00:45:58mirrors
00:45:58wait
00:46:00I want
00:46:00to check
00:46:01my outfit
00:46:01here
00:46:03hold that
00:46:03we look
00:46:05cute
00:46:06I can
00:46:09see you
00:46:09can you
00:46:10see yourself
00:46:10I'm excited
00:46:23to go
00:46:24shopping
00:46:24it's always
00:46:26crowded
00:46:26this is an
00:46:29easy place
00:46:30to get
00:46:30lost
00:46:30today
00:46:32I want
00:46:32to take
00:46:33Emma
00:46:33to
00:46:33hold me
00:46:34you know
00:46:34I feel
00:46:35so bad
00:46:36because
00:46:36Emma
00:46:37she
00:46:37loves
00:46:37her
00:46:38job
00:46:38I want
00:46:39to make
00:46:39her
00:46:39feel
00:46:40so
00:46:40better
00:46:41and
00:46:41she
00:46:41loves
00:46:42chopping
00:46:42so
00:46:42oh look
00:46:44at those
00:46:44bags
00:46:45those are
00:46:46cute
00:46:47the market
00:46:48place
00:46:49in the
00:46:49Medina
00:46:49they have
00:46:50a thousand
00:46:51stores
00:46:51there
00:46:52oh my gosh
00:46:52I love
00:46:53all of
00:46:53these
00:46:53clothes
00:46:54you can
00:46:55find
00:46:56anything
00:46:56you want
00:46:57oh look
00:46:59at these
00:46:59rugs
00:46:59those are
00:47:00nice
00:47:00oh wait
00:47:02there's
00:47:02bags
00:47:03let's go
00:47:03look at
00:47:04the bags
00:47:04let's
00:47:05let's
00:47:06see
00:47:06what
00:47:06you
00:47:06want
00:47:07oh
00:47:10this
00:47:10is
00:47:10so
00:47:10cute
00:47:10can
00:47:11you
00:47:11hold
00:47:11this
00:47:11I
00:47:11want
00:47:11to
00:47:11look
00:47:12at
00:47:12everything
00:47:12hey
00:47:12look
00:47:12for
00:47:13anything
00:47:14you
00:47:40it's
00:47:42it's
00:47:42really
00:47:42nice
00:47:42to
00:47:42have
00:47:43Zied
00:47:43offer
00:47:44to
00:47:44buy
00:47:44me
00:47:44things
00:47:45and
00:47:45buy
00:47:45gifts
00:47:45for
00:47:46me
00:47:46that was
00:47:47so romantic
00:47:47because that's never something I've had in the past
00:47:51it's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than I was feeling yesterday
00:47:55where are you taking me babe
00:47:57this
00:47:58it's popular here in marrakesh
00:48:00what is this
00:48:03what is that
00:48:08what's we call them in english
00:48:10snail
00:48:11snail
00:48:12I like don't want that
00:48:13really
00:48:14no
00:48:14it's like
00:48:16I'm not trying
00:48:17no
00:48:18I literally would throw up
00:48:21it's so delicious
00:48:26that is the grossest thing I've ever seen in my whole life
00:48:29it's a slimy snail
00:48:31and you just
00:48:33suck it down
00:48:34for me
00:48:35it's delicious
00:48:35that's like really gross
00:48:40what's like the weirdest food you've ever tried
00:48:44like snails would be weird
00:48:46for you
00:48:47for me
00:48:47no
00:48:47so
00:48:48for me
00:48:49sushi for example
00:48:50I love sushi
00:48:51yeah it's
00:48:52we are different
00:48:53it's
00:48:54are we compatible
00:48:55thank you
00:49:03can you hold my other bag actually
00:49:05what else can we do like while we're here
00:49:08did you like horses
00:49:09I love horses
00:49:11I think we have to choose
00:49:13this one
00:49:14I like the white one
00:49:15just one by one
00:49:19one by one
00:49:21oh my god this is so romantic
00:49:25this is like a romantic love ride
00:49:29this is three kisses you kiss me today
00:49:37I'm happy that we had a better day today
00:49:42yeah me too
00:49:43it was a big difference between this day and last day
00:49:47yesterday was like really hard for me
00:49:51it like brought up old feelings
00:49:52because you know I've been lying to a lot
00:49:56like in my past
00:49:57like with past boyfriends
00:49:59so when
00:50:00when you kind of lied to me
00:50:02it was like a trigger for me
00:50:03yeah
00:50:04so you don't need to talk about your past
00:50:07your bad experience
00:50:09do you not care about my past?
00:50:10no
00:50:10I know you right now
00:50:12not in past
00:50:13so
00:50:13yeah but don't you want to know about my life?
00:50:16just like things I've been through
00:50:17like don't you want to know about me?
00:50:19yeah
00:50:19I know I know everything about your life
00:50:21you don't know everything
00:50:22no I know everything
00:50:25I know your family
00:50:26I know where you live
00:50:28I know
00:50:28I know but there are things that like I
00:50:29that have happened in my life that you don't know about
00:50:32like I thought
00:50:37we can leave the impasse
00:50:38something bastards
00:50:39it's bastards
00:50:40I want to be vulnerable
00:50:45I want to share you know details about who I am and my past
00:50:48and I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement
00:50:53because I think it's the only way that we could move forward
00:50:56but for him to shut me down
00:51:00it does make me wonder
00:51:01if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past
00:51:04because maybe he has something that he's hiding
00:51:07or that he doesn't want to tell me
00:51:08since I've gotten to Morocco
00:51:13I've just felt really rejected by him
00:51:16and so now I'm just feeling a little concerned about everything
00:51:19I need you to be able to look me in the eye
00:51:28why have you lied to us all along
00:51:32I was so fearful of my parents
00:51:35they would say bad things to me
00:51:37they would say bad things to other people
00:51:38and it affects me emotionally
00:51:41mentally drains me
00:51:42no I need that direct answer
00:51:45as to why
00:51:46you continue to hide it
00:51:49hello Javon
00:52:13I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow
00:52:26to meet with my wife Anna for the first time
00:52:28but me and Anna
00:52:31we haven't spoken to each other in about a week
00:52:33my sister talked to Anna Lynn
00:52:36and she actually unblocked me
00:52:38but she's still really upset
00:52:40that I'm back in touch with a friend
00:52:42I once had feelings for
00:52:44there's so much riding on this trip
00:52:48Anna being as angry
00:52:49it's just not good
00:52:52hey bro what's going on?
00:52:56what's going on?
00:52:57ask yourself what's going on Javon
00:52:59I mean you know
00:53:03Anna don't be so aggressive
00:53:05not being aggressive
00:53:07you told me yourself
00:53:10if we're going to be married
00:53:12we can't be keeping anyone special
00:53:15from the past
00:53:17but you're doing it
00:53:20and I'm not saying that you're cheating on me
00:53:24but it's like a baby step
00:53:26for any temptation
00:53:28I'm dealing with so much over here by myself
00:53:32I'm dealing with your problems
00:53:34I'm dealing with my problems
00:53:35and sometimes I don't feel like
00:53:37I'm being emotionally supported
00:53:39by you
00:53:40so you know
00:53:42I kind of felt like
00:53:43I was just a little bit desperate
00:53:45just to
00:53:45just to be understood
00:53:47and just heard
00:53:48if you feel like
00:53:53sometimes you can't talk to me
00:53:55you have siblings
00:53:57you have a dad
00:53:59you have a mom
00:54:00if your big circle
00:54:03is still not enough
00:54:04you're American
00:54:05get the therapy
00:54:07I mean but like
00:54:10who could afford therapy right now
00:54:12she's not taking any accountability
00:54:19that you know
00:54:21she played a part
00:54:22in why I reached out
00:54:24to a friend
00:54:25I need to be able to rely on my wife
00:54:28but she makes it impossible
00:54:30even when I'm like
00:54:33at work
00:54:33you're going through something
00:54:34I always try to be there for you
00:54:37emotionally
00:54:37you know
00:54:38I try
00:54:41but I don't see you trying for me
00:54:43when do you show up for me in that way
00:54:45oh god
00:54:46like
00:54:50hello
00:54:51I've been waiting for you for six years
00:54:54I have devoted
00:54:56invested so much love
00:54:59if you don't feel like
00:55:05that's understanding enough
00:55:07waiting for you for that long
00:55:09I don't know what is
00:55:12I know you've made
00:55:21you know
00:55:22some sacrifice
00:55:23by waiting for me
00:55:25for this long
00:55:26and I do apologize
00:55:28and I do take it
00:55:29accountability
00:55:30for what I've done
00:55:31okay
00:55:34okay
00:55:35okay
00:55:36so you're going to stop
00:55:39talking to her
00:55:40I can stop
00:55:44but
00:55:44can we at least
00:55:46work on our communication
00:55:47okay
00:55:49okay
00:55:50okay
00:55:50okay
00:55:51that's all I want
00:55:53that's it
00:55:54with Javon coming out
00:55:57to the Philippines
00:55:58I do feel like
00:56:00I could let go of some
00:56:02negative feelings
00:56:03about this situation
00:56:05but even though
00:56:07but even though
00:56:07he agreed that
00:56:08he's not going to talk
00:56:09to that woman anymore
00:56:11do I believe it?
00:56:16no
00:56:16not really
00:56:17so I will
00:56:19definitely
00:56:20talk about
00:56:21this
00:56:22again
00:56:23in person
00:56:23do you think
00:56:25we can
00:56:25like
00:56:26move past it
00:56:27like
00:56:28when we see
00:56:28each other
00:56:29I don't know
00:56:30baby
00:56:31whoa look at this place
00:56:50this was a church
00:56:52oh
00:56:531588
00:56:54man that is old
00:56:55it's old
00:56:55here we got to celebrate
00:56:57what's this you guys
00:56:59I decided to take
00:57:25Boris and his family
00:57:26to Chinatown
00:57:27because
00:57:27I'm a Chinese mix
00:57:29my mom
00:57:30is Chinese descent
00:57:32so I wanted to show
00:57:34how Chinese culture
00:57:35interbonded
00:57:36with Filipino culture
00:57:37smell that
00:57:40oh
00:57:40that smells so good
00:57:42so this is a place
00:57:43that they make
00:57:44handmade noodles
00:57:45I eat that air
00:57:47hello
00:57:47oh
00:57:48yesterday
00:57:50I was quite a little
00:57:51nervous
00:57:51to meet
00:57:52Boris's parents
00:57:53especially
00:57:54Molly
00:57:54okay
00:57:55thank you
00:57:56thank you
00:57:56there's been
00:57:58problem between me
00:57:59and Molly
00:58:00but I'm so glad
00:58:01that she happened
00:58:02to accept me
00:58:03and I wanted
00:58:05to provide them
00:58:05the best
00:58:06first day
00:58:07here in the Philippines
00:58:08yum
00:58:10oh
00:58:11thank you
00:58:12slurps up
00:58:13slurps up
00:58:14yeah
00:58:15actually
00:58:16that's here
00:58:16the culture
00:58:17you want to slurp
00:58:17it means
00:58:18you're eating
00:58:18the good noodles
00:58:19so that's a good sign
00:58:20so the loud are the best
00:58:21right
00:58:21yes
00:58:22here I go
00:58:23yeah
00:58:25you are the king
00:58:26of slurp
00:58:27this forest
00:58:27I made sure
00:58:28to get on my glasses
00:58:29that's the key
00:58:30this is all good
00:58:31yeah
00:58:32well
00:58:33Sheena
00:58:34I wanted to
00:58:37thank you
00:58:38for your apology
00:58:39yesterday
00:58:40I mean
00:58:40that really showed
00:58:41a lot
00:58:42to me
00:58:44but I did
00:58:45I did want to
00:58:46ask you
00:58:48about
00:58:49a few things
00:58:50okay
00:58:53okay mom
00:58:54I'm listening
00:58:55and I need you
00:58:56to be able
00:58:56to look me
00:58:57in the eye
00:58:57and I need you
00:58:58to be truthful
00:59:00with me
00:59:01100%
00:59:02you lied to us
00:59:07about
00:59:07giving your parents
00:59:09the money
00:59:09this was supposed
00:59:12to be
00:59:13you saving up money
00:59:14so you could
00:59:15come to America
00:59:16to be a family
00:59:17with us
00:59:18these were the plans
00:59:19all of these years
00:59:21and then for it
00:59:23to just find out
00:59:24now
00:59:25before we come here
00:59:27that hasn't been happening
00:59:29why have you
00:59:32lied to us
00:59:33all along
00:59:34I really owe you
00:59:40millions and thousands
00:59:41of explanations
00:59:42I need
00:59:42I hope you can
00:59:43listen to my situation
00:59:44the reason why
00:59:47that I happen
00:59:48to give my money
00:59:49to my parents
00:59:50is because
00:59:51being a breadwinner
00:59:53it's a cultural thing
00:59:54in my country
00:59:55that we are obligated
00:59:56to help our parents
00:59:58around
00:59:58I mean I completely
01:00:00understand giving
01:00:01your parents money
01:00:02needing to help
01:00:03your family
01:00:03that's what family does
01:00:04but my
01:00:06issue with it
01:00:08is that
01:00:09you lie
01:00:11to be honest
01:00:17the reason also
01:00:18that's another reason
01:00:19I was so scared
01:00:20because
01:00:21my parents
01:00:22my mom
01:00:23happened to
01:00:24guilt tripping me
01:00:26from time to time
01:00:27if I don't give
01:00:28them money
01:00:29she makes me feel
01:00:30that I'm such
01:00:31a selfish person
01:00:32and it hurts me
01:00:33a lot
01:00:34okay but if I'm
01:00:36asking you
01:00:36a direct question
01:00:37I need
01:00:38that direct answer
01:00:40and even now
01:00:40you haven't given
01:00:42me a direct answer
01:00:43as to why
01:00:45you continue
01:00:46to hide it
01:00:47watching Sheena
01:00:51under my mom's
01:00:51pressure
01:00:52is just awful
01:00:54I'm wanting
01:00:56to step in
01:00:57and defend her
01:00:58and protect
01:00:58Sheena
01:00:59but at the same
01:01:00time
01:01:01I don't understand
01:01:02what fear she had
01:01:04of telling me
01:01:05I was so fearful
01:01:08of my parents
01:01:09they would say
01:01:10bad things to me
01:01:11they would say
01:01:11bad things to other
01:01:12people
01:01:13and it affects me
01:01:14emotionally
01:01:15mentally
01:01:15drives me
01:01:16and it makes me
01:01:18feel so bad
01:01:19no
01:01:19no
01:01:20Sheena
01:01:21I'm not asking
01:01:22you that
01:01:22I'm asking you
01:01:24why
01:01:24you did not
01:01:26tell
01:01:27us
01:01:28I couldn't
01:01:31handle myself
01:01:32anymore
01:01:32because
01:01:33I don't know
01:01:34I can't
01:01:34Sheena
01:01:35I can't
01:01:35understand
01:01:36what you're saying
01:01:37I'm sorry
01:01:38oh my god
01:01:38see there's
01:01:40your manipulation
01:01:40put the tears
01:01:42please put your
01:01:43tissue down
01:01:44I'm trying
01:01:46to have
01:01:47Sheena
01:01:47acknowledge
01:01:48actions
01:01:50that she did
01:01:50that weren't
01:01:51acceptable
01:01:52So even if
01:01:54she did have
01:01:55good reason
01:01:55to give it
01:01:55all to her
01:01:56parents
01:01:56what's the
01:01:58motivation
01:01:58for hiding
01:01:59it
01:01:59we gotta
01:02:00get answers
01:02:01Oh my god
01:02:08this is really
01:02:09happening
01:02:09Oh my god
01:02:13I can't believe
01:02:13I'm doing this
01:02:14I love Lisa
01:02:15but I am
01:02:17worried about
01:02:17some things
01:02:18She was physical
01:02:19with a woman
01:02:20Here he is
01:02:44Awesome
01:02:44Here we go
01:02:46Here goes
01:02:47everything
01:02:48Thank you
01:02:56Oh my gosh
01:02:58I'm finally
01:03:00on my way
01:03:00to meet
01:03:01the love
01:03:01of my life
01:03:01Daniel
01:03:02in Nigeria
01:03:03for the
01:03:03very first time
01:03:04What am I
01:03:06doing?
01:03:07I don't know
01:03:07mom
01:03:07what are you
01:03:08doing?
01:03:09Certainly
01:03:09not what
01:03:09I would
01:03:10be doing
01:03:10It still
01:03:13feels surreal
01:03:13to me
01:03:14that after
01:03:1421 years
01:03:15of only
01:03:16being with
01:03:16women
01:03:16I'm traveling
01:03:17across the
01:03:18world
01:03:18to meet
01:03:19a man
01:03:20and I
01:03:21love him
01:03:21I love him
01:03:23You're gonna
01:03:24see when I
01:03:25come home
01:03:25how excited
01:03:26and happy
01:03:26I am
01:03:27You're gonna
01:03:27see when I
01:03:28talk to you
01:03:28there
01:03:29how happy
01:03:30I am
01:03:30and you're
01:03:31gonna be
01:03:31happy for
01:03:31me
01:03:32I just
01:03:33I don't
01:03:35want it
01:03:35to ruin
01:03:36your heart
01:03:37I'm gonna
01:03:43pee my pants
01:03:44Oh god
01:03:45please don't
01:03:46Here we go
01:03:48Alright
01:03:53you remember
01:03:54the rules
01:03:55don't get
01:03:55married on
01:03:56the trip
01:03:56even when
01:03:57the divorce
01:03:57comes through
01:03:58yes
01:03:58and I
01:03:59would come
01:03:59clean
01:04:00about
01:04:00everything
01:04:01it'll
01:04:01be
01:04:01a
01:04:01foundation
01:04:02And if
01:04:02you have
01:04:03questions
01:04:03I will
01:04:04ask them
01:04:04I love
01:04:08you
01:04:08I love
01:04:09you too
01:04:09I'm gonna
01:04:10miss you
01:04:10so much
01:04:11Stay safe
01:04:13Oh god
01:04:14This is the
01:04:16biggest risk
01:04:16I've ever
01:04:17taken
01:04:17flying across
01:04:19the world
01:04:19to another
01:04:20country
01:04:20to Nigeria
01:04:21Africa
01:04:22to be
01:04:23with a
01:04:23man
01:04:23I have
01:04:24never met
01:04:24before
01:04:25I can't
01:04:25believe
01:04:26I'm
01:04:26doing
01:04:26this
01:04:26Oh my god
01:04:28this is
01:04:28really
01:04:28happening
01:04:29Oh my god
01:04:31I can't
01:04:34believe
01:04:34I'm
01:04:34doing
01:04:34this
01:04:35I hope
01:04:40Daniel
01:04:41will accept
01:04:41me for
01:04:42everything
01:04:42that I
01:04:43am
01:04:43and who
01:04:44I am
01:04:44and that
01:04:45he will
01:04:45become
01:04:46my
01:04:46sixth
01:04:46and
01:04:47final
01:04:47spouse
01:04:48Daniel
01:04:51is coming
01:04:51I
01:05:21This give me five hundred and other pepper my name is Daniel I am 39 years old
01:05:47I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe we have traditions and we believe in traditions
01:05:55as an Igbo man we love competition we work hard and we have to be honest I grew up very poor
01:06:13sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food my family do the best they can do and I am
01:06:21really close to my family but some years ago I lost my mom before she she died she told me that
01:06:28during war she nearly be killed that a white woman protected her and I have to make sure that I get
01:06:35married a white woman so I decided I would do it and that's how I found Lisa this side is 52 years old
01:06:46she lives in Pennsylvania she's a beautiful man she has she has a good body structure she's
01:06:53stick she has buffs she has what I want she don't hide anything she supports me financially she makes me feel
01:07:04loved that's why I fell in love with her
01:07:08but I want to be one of those who are the two people in the United States and I thought yes that's what I
01:07:09wanted to do and I thought well I wasn't the most beautiful man maybe I would do for her
01:07:14but I wanted to do all the people's work alone think that I was really doing well
01:07:17yes well but I have to do it but they were doing well they're doing well
01:07:22and I have to do it I have to do it I have to do it then do it I have to do it and then do it
01:07:28I will do it and I have to do it for others and I will come back that way
01:07:30and you have to do it and I will do it and I can't wait for them you
01:07:33In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consider
01:08:03the ancestors.
01:08:09I love this, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:13One, she vaped.
01:08:15Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:19And three, she was physical with a woman, one time.
01:08:24This is the worst.
01:08:33We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:08:38Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:42So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:45She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:08:49But I'm nervous.
01:08:51There's no human being.
01:08:54I'm nervous.
01:08:56Take care.
01:08:57Take care.
01:08:59Take care.
01:09:00Take care.
01:09:01Take care.
01:09:04Take care.
01:09:07Now that the ancestors are approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:28I'm planning a big surprise for Lisa when I meet her at the airport.
01:09:32I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:37If I marry Lisa to make me change the story of my family, and if I should make it to America,
01:09:44this will change my life to good.
01:09:47They will.
01:09:49I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:03Yes.
01:10:04Oh, it feels like it got colder.
01:10:06It gets cold or gets hot.
01:10:09No straight weather.
01:10:14Wow.
01:10:23Here we are.
01:10:25Oh, we're here?
01:10:28Here you go.
01:10:29I will take this.
01:10:32After all of this excitement and anticipation and build up of coming to Turkey and meeting
01:10:38Birkan face to face, it's starting off a little bit awkward.
01:10:43But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
01:10:48It just feels so right.
01:10:51I'm excited to see this.
01:10:55Here you go.
01:10:56Oh, you want me to go first?
01:10:57Yeah, of course.
01:10:58OK.
01:11:01Oh, my God.
01:11:02This is huge.
01:11:03Oh, yeah.
01:11:05This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:09This is amazing.
01:11:17This is incredible.
01:11:20You like this?
01:11:21Oh, my God. I love this.
01:11:22I'm going to move here.
01:11:24You can see the sea.
01:11:27Everything?
01:11:29Oh, my God.
01:11:30Wow.
01:11:34This is amazing.
01:11:35I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
01:11:38Is it worth it?
01:11:39Is it worth it?
01:11:41All the trip?
01:11:43Yeah.
01:11:44I know if it's worth it.
01:11:46Yeah, I know.
01:11:48So, how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:11:56That sounds awesome.
01:11:57Let's do that.
01:11:58Let's do that.
01:11:59All right.
01:12:01This is the best part of Izmir.
01:12:08This is incredible.
01:12:09I would love to, like, live right there.
01:12:12Like, with this view every day.
01:12:14Yeah.
01:12:15I like these old buildings.
01:12:17I do, too.
01:12:18Yeah.
01:12:21Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:26I love that.
01:12:27Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:28Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things and he has a way of taking things that are just very simple and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion around it.
01:12:42It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:45When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:51Sometimes it's a little exhausting because I'm like, oh, my God, it's just the sunset.
01:12:55I guess we've got to go this way.
01:12:57Go back this way?
01:12:58Yeah.
01:12:59I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:13:00Actually, not you.
01:13:02The people are.
01:13:04Not me.
01:13:05They have no idea.
01:13:06Go ahead.
01:13:08I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:11I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately I like it and I wouldn't change it.
01:13:16How was your day?
01:13:17Yeah, it was good.
01:13:18I enjoyed it.
01:13:19How about you?
01:13:20I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:21I traveled a time to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights and...
01:13:34I'm exhausted and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:44Okay.
01:13:46You want to go to bed?
01:13:48Actually, it's just nine o'clock and I have no sleep.
01:13:56Okay.
01:13:57So why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV and join you after.
01:14:07Good night.
01:14:08Have a nice night.
01:14:09All right.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:11Good night.
01:14:35Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:39He tracked my flight, texted me like as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:44And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:48I said, everything's good.
01:14:50And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:14:55So I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:01But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:09Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:11It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:16I feel like it's not this like super great magical moment.
01:15:21Just feels off.
01:15:22I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:23Just feels off.
01:15:24It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:37And so I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:42And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:50But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:15:54Thank you, Colin.
01:16:07Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:09I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:11No.
01:16:12It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:13Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:15I want to end this now.
01:16:17You're acting all hostile?
01:16:18I'm not.
01:16:19Yeah, you are.
01:16:20Of course.
01:16:30My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:36For they should be helping me around.
01:16:38They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:41They can't understand you.
01:16:45You have to speak.
01:16:46You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:52I need you to really please point blank.
01:16:56You were giving your parents money.
01:16:59Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:04Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:21They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:25And I was afraid that I was running back, running back.
01:17:29Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:32Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:37I can't handle it anymore.
01:17:39No.
01:17:40It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:42The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:44I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:46It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:01Oh, you were scared.
01:18:04Forrest would have come to me and said,
01:18:07Mom, I got to get on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:10I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:12But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:17and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:21Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:24A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:32I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:38you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:41Mom.
01:18:42Forrest.
01:18:43It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:45But that still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:48It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:50It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:18:57I believe Sheena's not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:01I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:04And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is...
01:19:10You know, diary of the mouth.
01:19:12I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:21Obviously, she knows she did wrong.
01:19:25What's your goal here?
01:19:27Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:29I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:38Because ultimately, the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:44Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on.
01:19:54I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:00It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:03Which is what she should have done to set up with you.
01:20:06Yeah.
01:20:07Years and years ago.
01:20:08Yeah, and we could sit there and we could talk about the past.
01:20:10And he said, she said he could do that.
01:20:12She cannot do that.
01:20:13It's time to move forward now.
01:20:15Forrest?
01:20:16I want to end this now.
01:20:21I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:23I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:25You're acting all hostile.
01:20:27I'm not hostile.
01:20:28Yeah, you are.
01:20:29And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:32You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:34I tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:38Disaster.
01:20:41It's okay, babe.
01:20:43I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:49He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:20:54Now he sees us as the big bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:00But still, I have to always protect Forrest because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:07And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:18Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:21I will not meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:23This is so surreal.
01:21:25Come on.
01:21:26Where are you?
01:21:28This is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:34Are you nervous?
01:21:39A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:41Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:46I have some like loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:51This part is best as possible.
01:21:54But I'm immediately regretting having Fearcom come with me.
01:21:58I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:05I've been looking at your page.
01:22:07Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:09Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:13Yeah.
01:22:14I downloaded this extension on my laptop and it shows you who people follow.
01:22:20This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:23So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:28Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents
01:22:32and how it's important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:36I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:41I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:44Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:50Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:53Now the story changes again.
01:22:55I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:00What the heck?
01:23:07I can't get out of here.
01:23:09I love him with everything I am.
01:23:11But he doesn't know that I've been married five times and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:17What are you doing?
01:23:20What are you doing?
01:23:24You
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