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00:00:00It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only, but Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago, I told him I had a fling with a woman and he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes.
00:00:31He doesn't love you. That's not what love is. He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:54But that's just not what you said.
00:00:55A couple of weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now, seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:14Oh, my goodness.
00:01:17Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:34Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs, and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:01I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides?
00:02:19What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:24I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:27But...
00:02:27Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me, and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:01These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:04They're brand new.
00:03:06I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:10I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:14My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:17It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:20Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair.
00:03:27It sticks to your skin.
00:03:28You have rashes.
00:03:29You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:32It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria.
00:03:35But it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:03:40So I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:00I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:04and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:08But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:12Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful.
00:04:19Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:21That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen.
00:04:25Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:34That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately?
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:37Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper
00:04:39is on the 29th, so that the divorce
00:04:42becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still
00:04:49married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:50And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:53If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that,
00:04:58oh, you didn't just have a fling
00:04:59with a woman, no, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:04But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:09Not only does he not know that I've been with women
00:05:12for the past 21 years, Daniel doesn't know that I am
00:05:16technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started
00:05:25talking to me, and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:28Because in my heart, I have been free to marry because my ex-wife
00:05:31and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers
00:05:37until now.
00:05:39If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:05:49until we have this conversation.
00:05:51He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried, Mom.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:05It is getting late, and we need to get to get to.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow
00:06:14try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody
00:06:19before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Daniel was to ask you to get married with God,
00:06:30you're in Nigeria, would you keep going against the faith?
00:06:32Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:39I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:59I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:04I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:09Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:25Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:37I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:48We loved to skate.
00:07:50So our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair.
00:07:56And, uh, I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:06I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:09That was just, that was it.
00:08:11He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:19And here it is.
00:08:20I'm done waiting.
00:08:27No more.
00:08:28Hensitating.
00:08:30There ain't nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:43Big four.
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:48Lemonade.
00:08:48Oh, boy.
00:08:51My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old.
00:08:53And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:08:59I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work at a nursing home.
00:09:05And I like my job.
00:09:08Thank you, Emma.
00:09:09You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters.
00:09:15And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:19We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:34American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:38I call them the three-sixes.
00:09:43And it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:51We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55Yeah, it's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:58When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:02Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:06So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:14Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:20Aw.
00:10:21My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old.
00:10:25And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo.
00:10:29It's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:32Must be something.
00:10:33Yeah, it must be something.
00:10:37We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:40And we've been married for about two years.
00:10:45He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:10:51And we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:58Hello, boo-boo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:02Mwah!
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:17we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:23Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:29I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person.
00:11:32But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless,
00:11:41and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:11:47and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:52And I thought if we were married legally,
00:11:54he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:04When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:08I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:11I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox,
00:12:18but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:21When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend
00:12:23the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:31All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers
00:12:34as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:38How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:12:43Absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you
00:12:49lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:54I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:03How could you be married for years
00:13:05and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:09Uh, the whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:12So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Anna Lynn
00:13:20have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:22but work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:25And having a marriage online
00:13:28has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:36When I first met Anna,
00:13:37she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:44Like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:47I've always been feisty.
00:13:50She knows that.
00:13:51And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time,
00:14:01I had to fight to actually speak,
00:14:03to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting
00:14:06more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:10But before I apply for that spousal visa
00:14:13and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another
00:14:18to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:22I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems
00:14:29are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:32And if we can't,
00:14:34I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:36I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:40Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years
00:14:50to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off,
00:14:55but I'm kind of still nervous
00:14:58about what this marriage is going to be.
00:15:02I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:04but there's something else
00:15:05I wanted to, like, talk to you about
00:15:07that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:09What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:15Emma.
00:15:34I wanted to get out for a bit this morning
00:15:58and clear my mind
00:15:59because my night with Emma was horrible.
00:16:02I want to be her husband,
00:16:04but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:07I hope things better today.
00:16:14I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:16Like, I thought I'd be waking up next to him
00:16:19and he would be, like,
00:16:20bringing me coffee in the morning
00:16:21and cuddling with me.
00:16:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:25We've actually
00:16:25just been completely separate.
00:16:30Zia's behavior last night,
00:16:32it's making me a little suspicious,
00:16:34but I'm trying not to just be in my head
00:16:37and overthink things.
00:16:38I want this to be fun
00:16:39and I want us to
00:16:41just focus on
00:16:42the positive.
00:16:44I'm really determined
00:16:45to turn things around.
00:16:46Hi.
00:17:08Good morning.
00:17:10Morning.
00:17:11How's your night?
00:17:13This is nice.
00:17:14Really?
00:17:14Yeah.
00:17:16That's it. This is your place.
00:17:18I hope you will like it.
00:17:19Thanks, babe.
00:17:26Hello.
00:17:27Hello.
00:17:32She's adorable.
00:17:35My favorite.
00:17:36Eggs.
00:17:38I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it.
00:17:40I know, I know.
00:17:42Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:44What do you want to start for what?
00:17:46I mean, it wasn't really, like, a good start to my trip.
00:17:50I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:17:53Yeah.
00:17:54That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:17:58Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:00Yeah. Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:03I love the tea here.
00:18:05Okay.
00:18:06Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:09I don't hear you.
00:18:11I don't hear you.
00:18:12I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:13Can you repeat?
00:18:14I don't hear what you said.
00:18:15I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:16For what?
00:18:18For running away from your kiss.
00:18:22And?
00:18:24Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:18:29I mean, I'm sorry yesterday got, like, really dramatic,
00:18:31but I think it was just a long day for me because I was traveling for, like, 20 hours.
00:18:36I know it's difficult.
00:18:37And it was just, like, a lot going on.
00:18:38There was, like, a lot in my mind.
00:18:40Actually, there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:18:46What?
00:18:47What?
00:18:48What is this?
00:18:49What's happened?
00:18:50I was just, like, upset the past couple days because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:07Like, I've been there for five years and...
00:19:09Yes.
00:19:11Well, I got fired.
00:19:17Really?
00:19:19I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm gonna cry.
00:19:21No, no.
00:19:22You don't need this.
00:19:24Listen, listen.
00:19:27I just need a minute.
00:19:30Emma.
00:19:38Sorry.
00:19:39No, no.
00:19:40Don't cry.
00:19:42It's, uh...
00:19:43Because I don't know what I'm gonna do.
00:19:45It's just a word.
00:19:46It's a word.
00:19:47It's uttered.
00:19:49And you don't need to cry for it.
00:19:52So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:54No, don't cry.
00:19:55Don't cry.
00:19:56Okay.
00:19:57Don't cry.
00:19:58Okay.
00:20:05I don't know what I'm gonna do.
00:20:06I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:09It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:11But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14You will find another one more better than your last.
00:20:17Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:22We are together and everything will be good.
00:20:31I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:20:35It was like a tornado.
00:20:37But right now, he's showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:20:41I love you, babe.
00:20:42Yeah, it is.
00:20:43I love you more.
00:20:44What's...
00:20:45What's mean, tornado?
00:20:46Like an earthquake.
00:20:47Like a...
00:20:48Like a natural disaster.
00:20:49So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:20:54Yeah, yeah.
00:20:55That's an amazing example.
00:20:56Yeah, really.
00:21:01My future hubby.
00:21:03Ah.
00:21:04Do you know what that means?
00:21:05No.
00:21:06Can you explain?
00:21:07What's mean?
00:21:08It's short for husband.
00:21:09Really?
00:21:10Yeah.
00:21:11Hubby.
00:21:13One feet.
00:21:14Yeah.
00:21:15Exactly.
00:21:16I can't believe the trees.
00:21:17How beautiful they are.
00:21:18I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:19I'm probably gonna...
00:21:20I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:21I'm probably gonna...
00:21:22I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:23I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:48I'll wear your smile.
00:21:51My heart is racing.
00:21:56Alright, see you later, Deb.
00:21:57See you later.
00:21:58Yeah.
00:21:59I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams after
00:22:08seven years.
00:22:09Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:14Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:19Waka waka.
00:22:20Yeah.
00:22:23Oh, this is incredible.
00:22:25Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:22:28Crazy.
00:22:29This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:22:32If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:22:38It's got people like almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:22:44Oh, man.
00:22:45Glad I'm not driving.
00:22:46Yeah.
00:22:48But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:22:51Look at that.
00:22:52That thing is pretty good.
00:22:53This is the jeepney.
00:22:54This is locally here in my country.
00:22:56They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with Americans,
00:23:00so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:04Incredible.
00:23:05You can see the big building there.
00:23:07That's the condo.
00:23:08We're going to stay.
00:23:10I wish I could stay at your place.
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:14Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents
00:23:19said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:23:23When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their
00:23:27daughter, and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd,
00:23:34especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually just meet her.
00:23:42Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:23:45It's their wishes.
00:23:46I can't really go around that, but I'm not paying them money.
00:23:54This is the place.
00:23:55All right.
00:23:56We are here.
00:24:01There you go, mama.
00:24:02That's it.
00:24:03Oh, .
00:24:04I got it.
00:24:05All right.
00:24:06Charge.
00:24:09Sheena is an extreme foodie, and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:14Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:18Whoa.
00:24:19I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:24:21Oh, my goodness.
00:24:22I can definitely smell him.
00:24:23Oh.
00:24:24Yeah, you know.
00:24:25Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:24:27Don't go for that.
00:24:28Yeah, okay.
00:24:33So, sorry, baby.
00:24:34This is all I could get for you guys.
00:24:36You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:24:40It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:24:42I don't think so.
00:24:44The place is nice.
00:24:45It's pretty, but it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:24:51I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:24:54It feels good.
00:24:56It's your bag, too.
00:24:57Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:24:59It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:02If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down, I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:11Sheena.
00:25:12What?
00:25:13This feels more than online right now.
00:25:17Oh.
00:25:18It's making me more nervous.
00:25:20Oh, you don't have to be.
00:25:22I'm here right with you.
00:25:23Oh, I know.
00:25:24I can see.
00:25:25Yeah?
00:25:26You're so excited, huh?
00:25:27Oh, yeah.
00:25:28Oh, yeah.
00:25:29Because I got some good stuff here.
00:25:32Excuse me, baby.
00:25:34Boom.
00:25:35What is that?
00:25:36This is something amazing.
00:25:39And I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:25:43Wow.
00:25:44What?
00:25:45That's...
00:25:46What's that thing?
00:25:47I think it is a cloth that goes on your body and accentuates your sexuality.
00:25:56Oh, that's nice.
00:25:57I love the color.
00:25:58Oh, yeah.
00:25:59That's cool.
00:26:00I guess, guess what?
00:26:01There's even more.
00:26:02What?
00:26:03You have more?
00:26:04I have more.
00:26:06Oh, wow.
00:26:07I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:10Wow.
00:26:11To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin.
00:26:18But forest makes me feel confident of my body.
00:26:22This is another one for you.
00:26:23Oh.
00:26:24In case you want to, you know.
00:26:25Oh, that's pretty.
00:26:26That's cool.
00:26:27That's beautiful.
00:26:29Oh, okay.
00:26:30Oh, okay.
00:26:37You're so handsome always.
00:26:38I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:26:39Okay.
00:26:40Go for it, my love.
00:26:41I want to take a deep brush.
00:26:42All right.
00:26:43Do everything, my love.
00:26:45You know, when I was making, like, sexy talk with her, I was really just trying to, like,
00:26:51put her at ease, make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:26:57I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:01But, to be honest, I'm actually, I'm kind of still nervous about what is my virginity.
00:27:08I mean, I'm, I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off, but, uh, having sex with Sheena,
00:27:15I feel like it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:27:22It's, it's just a big deal.
00:27:24I love you.
00:27:25I love you.
00:27:26Do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:27Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:27:35It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:27:40I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:27:43And so I am nervous that beer con won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:27:49Oh, my God.
00:27:50Here we go.
00:27:56We are in the process of landing.
00:27:58And I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or beer con, but I'm excited.
00:28:02I'm excited.
00:28:03So this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:28:17I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting for first time.
00:28:24Everything has to go perfect.
00:28:26So I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:28:31Laura is arriving in Turkey today.
00:28:34And today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:28:40Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:28:44I never saw this big place.
00:28:49It just feels me.
00:28:53Right now I'm staying with different friends.
00:28:57Sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:00That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:03But the privacy of our place is going to be nice because we have a lot of things to discuss face to face.
00:29:24It's really wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:29:28I'm so excited now.
00:29:30I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:29:40Oh.
00:29:43Oh, my God.
00:29:45She come early.
00:29:54It's slightly cold that I am having a heart attack or I am excited.
00:29:59Yeah, we will see.
00:30:03I am going to wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:06I think that will be a lot cuter than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:30:13I'm really proud of the progress that I've made over the last 14 months.
00:30:17But I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:30:20And so I am nervous that Birkan won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:30:27And I think that's a cute dress.
00:30:30All right.
00:30:36The woman I love is coming, so I'm thrilled.
00:30:40My hopes are we will get engaged and go to America, live together and get married.
00:30:47But maybe she will hate me.
00:30:51Nobody knows.
00:30:56This is it?
00:30:58I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
00:31:08Oh, my God. Here we go.
00:31:09Oh, my God. Here we go.
00:31:18Welcome, gorgeous.
00:31:21How are you?
00:31:22Good, how are you?
00:31:23I am good.
00:31:25How are you doing?
00:31:26It was so long.
00:31:28Yeah, I know.
00:31:29I am still thinking about how I go to America, you know?
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:32How are you doing?
00:31:33How are you doing?
00:31:34How are you doing?
00:31:35How are you doing?
00:31:36How are you doing?
00:31:37How are you doing?
00:31:38How are you doing?
00:31:42I think everything's perfect.
00:31:44Right now, yeah.
00:31:45That's really sweet.
00:31:46Yeah, it was.
00:31:48I know.
00:31:49I know.
00:31:50Yeah.
00:31:53So let's go this way.
00:31:55Okay.
00:31:56These bumps are a pain with suitcases.
00:31:58He looks amazing.
00:31:59Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing,
00:32:03which is that dark romance male main character.
00:32:07When you look at her, what do you think?
00:32:08She's perfect.
00:32:09I don't need to look at her.
00:32:11I don't need, because I feel it, you know?
00:32:13I'm complete, so we don't need to see.
00:32:16That's probably the best answer ever.
00:32:23That was, like, the best flight I've ever taken.
00:32:25Yeah.
00:32:26Seriously.
00:32:28I'm glad.
00:32:29I'm really glad.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:46It's good to see you.
00:32:47You too.
00:32:53I don't know what's happening.
00:32:54It's very awkward right now.
00:32:58I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know,
00:32:59it was, like, great when we first met.
00:33:01He hugged me.
00:33:02He kissed me.
00:33:03And then we sit on this train, and it's like,
00:33:04he doesn't know who I am.
00:33:05And I don't know who he is.
00:33:07I think we're close.
00:33:08I'm hoping that as time moves forward, that this will turn around, and it will feel more like it did when we were online.
00:33:20But right now, something is off, and it's freaking me out.
00:33:33Anna called me like it were, talking about your brother, your brother.
00:33:46I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:33:51She was just talking about that woman.
00:33:55Uh, yeah.
00:33:56Who is the woman?
00:33:57Uh, yeah.
00:33:58Who is the woman?
00:34:00Hey, yo, I'm ready to roll.
00:34:01Fully loaded, yo, I'm ready for whoa.
00:34:02What?
00:34:03Straight up out of the bunk, I might jump ya.
00:34:04Zombies out here to hunt ya.
00:34:07This is nice.
00:34:22Really?
00:34:23This is screaming, I failed a pottery class.
00:34:26No, but she doesn't like how you dress, so you gotta do something else.
00:34:29Ugh.
00:34:30I think you got some good purchases.
00:34:43Ugh.
00:34:44Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:34:48It'll be fine.
00:34:49It's gonna be fine.
00:34:51I'm running some last minute errands with my sister Ashley, because I'm flying to the Philippines
00:34:56in a couple of days to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:35:01I'm excited and I'm super nervous because we've been married for three years.
00:35:06But we've never been in the same room or even the same continent with each other.
00:35:12So, are you all packed up?
00:35:14You ready?
00:35:15Uh, I think I'm as ready as I'm ever gonna be.
00:35:19And, you know, me and Anna's relationship, it's just been this spiraling, like, up and down, loop-de-loop rollercoaster ride.
00:35:27But when things are good, I'm, like, really happy to be in a relationship.
00:35:30I think Anna's very funny.
00:35:31Yeah.
00:35:32Like, Anna seems like she's a good time.
00:35:36She's just a lot.
00:35:37Javon marrying somebody online was actually wild to me.
00:35:45I do think they love each other, but I don't know, like, I wouldn't just call this, like, a normal marriage.
00:35:51This is something I've never seen or heard of before.
00:35:55You know, like, Anna actually called me.
00:35:59You spoke to her?
00:36:01Mm-hmm.
00:36:03She called me, like, at work, I'm working, I'm with customers, and she's just, you know, talking about,
00:36:10your brother, your brother, I don't know what to do with him.
00:36:13Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:36:16And I was like, can't even get her off the phone.
00:36:18Yeah.
00:36:19She was just talking about that woman.
00:36:26Uh, yeah.
00:36:30So, who is the woman?
00:36:38So, the woman is just, like, a friend of mine that I've known for a long time.
00:36:44We communicate so well, and we can stay on the phone for hours.
00:36:49I think because we're both having problems in our, you know, relationship, it's definitely more easygoing, and it's more positive.
00:36:57So, but what is it that, that Anna's so, like, threatened and bothered by her? Like, what, what is it?
00:37:10Because I feel like I'm missing something.
00:37:12Yeah, I mean, there used to be this, this, this, this, this small thing between us, but we're better.
00:37:19Also, that, so, so, Javon, that's not okay. That is no good.
00:37:25I, I know, you know, and I, I'm not.
00:37:28So, that's why she's so upset then.
00:37:30Yeah.
00:37:33Me and my friend, we never officially dated, but there was feelings for one another.
00:37:38We lost touch for a while, but I reached out to her because I was going through a rough time in my marriage, and I needed someone that knew me and that understood me.
00:37:51I wasn't trying to hide anything. So, I just came out and told Anna Lynn I was talking to this other person.
00:37:58I don't think it's a big deal, but obviously she does, because she's extremely pissed off and upset.
00:38:07I'm not saying she don't have a valid reason to be upset, but it's just completely platonic, you know, and she don't have to worry about that.
00:38:17Have you tried to call her?
00:38:19I have, but, you know, she, she blocked me.
00:38:25For real?
00:38:28She gets so aggressive.
00:38:29See, this is the problem. Like, this is how, this is why I had to go outside of our marriage to talk to somebody else about our marriage, and it shouldn't be that way.
00:38:41Obviously, Anna feels disrespected, and I do get that. I know that she's 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit, but I do feel like he presses her buttons.
00:38:56Jevonne just needs to say sorry and try and talk to her. And if they don't know how to talk, then they don't need to be married.
00:39:02You're about to see your wife for the first time. You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight.
00:39:08I don't know what the to do. I don't know what to do.
00:39:12I heard some interesting things from your guys' bedroom last night. Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
00:39:26Knockin' knockin'!
00:39:28I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:39:32Now, now you're kind of, now you're kind of being really disrespectful.
00:39:56Hello, sweetheart.
00:39:57Oh, yeah.
00:40:01Hey, guys, we're gonna go down and have some coffee by the pool, so, uh, we'll be up in a little while.
00:40:07Talk to you in a bit.
00:40:08Later.
00:40:15It's very content.
00:40:27Oh, you're crazy.
00:40:35I arrived in the Philippines yesterday, and the first night with the woman of my dream, Sheena, was amazing.
00:40:43Oh, man, you're strong. I gotta walk you down.
00:40:44Oh, yeah? I'm a strong beard.
00:40:51I'm gonna tickle you crazy, baby.
00:40:54There's a lot of new and fun things I'm finding out, uh, being with Sheena physically.
00:41:00I found out there's a night Sheena.
00:41:02What?
00:41:03And, uh, she's kind of grabby.
00:41:04Oh, really? I'm not.
00:41:06You're very, uh, into being physical.
00:41:08Oh, no, I'm not.
00:41:09Night Sheena.
00:41:14You know, just finally being able to hold you and be with you and, and kiss you.
00:41:18It just felt awesome.
00:41:19And I know that I talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like that.
00:41:26But I really believe that we should, um, wait, you know, till we know each other a bit more, you know, in person.
00:41:34I understand my love.
00:41:39I really feel like after seven years, me coming here to the Philippines and just having sex with Sheena straight up, it's not what I want to do.
00:41:48Yeah, I agree with that.
00:41:50I just want to get to know you much better.
00:41:53We all know when the time is right.
00:41:55I agree to that.
00:41:57Also, probably when my mom's not around.
00:41:59Yeah.
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:07We'll see you later.
00:42:09I don't need a coat, that's for sure.
00:42:12Ooh, nice and cool in here.
00:42:16I'm excited.
00:42:17I'm excited.
00:42:24So where exactly are you taking us again?
00:42:27So it's a Chinatown here in Manila.
00:42:30Actually one of the oldest Chinatown here in the whole world.
00:42:34Because Chinese people have been trading with the Filipinos before Spanish people arrived.
00:42:40Wow.
00:42:41Spaniards.
00:42:42So there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods.
00:42:46I'm ready to eat it all.
00:42:52So I got a little curiosity question to ask you guys.
00:42:57I heard some interesting things, you know, coming from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:43:03The little giggles.
00:43:05So, uh, did you guys do the old, uh, knockin' knockin'?
00:43:14No.
00:43:15No.
00:43:16No?
00:43:17No.
00:43:18No.
00:43:19No.
00:43:20So why didn't you guys?
00:43:24Well, it just wasn't the right time or place to do that.
00:43:28Oh, okay.
00:43:29Well.
00:43:30You guys can always come and talk to us if you have questions.
00:43:35It's not an embarrassing subject to me.
00:43:37It's interesting.
00:43:38It's life.
00:43:39Yep.
00:43:40And it takes practice to be good at it.
00:43:43Yep.
00:43:46My parents are just, it's a little too much.
00:43:50It's a little bit rude and awkward for me.
00:43:53I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:43:58I respect you guys for, for waiting.
00:44:00And there's nothing wrong with that.
00:44:02There are other things that you can do if you guys didn't want to do the nookie nookie.
00:44:09There's oral sex.
00:44:11There's fondling.
00:44:13Now, now you're kind of being really disrespectful here, Mom.
00:44:15I get it.
00:44:16You're trying to be helpful, but you're pushing too far.
00:44:18You know, if we want to talk about sex with you, we'll come up and ask about it.
00:44:26Okay.
00:44:28Excuse me.
00:44:32I thought it was nice that he was defending her honor.
00:44:35That's admirable.
00:44:37But I was very shocked by Forrest's reaction.
00:44:41Thank you very much.
00:44:44Well, Forrest, why is this a, you know, a total 180 from our normal discussions where you're
00:44:49right in there using the same language, the same talk, saying,
00:44:52Yeah, I'm gonna get into that, do that.
00:44:55It's drastic night and day.
00:44:57I see where this is headed.
00:44:59Oh, my God. I miss this place.
00:45:01See us at home.
00:45:04Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
00:45:06Let's not forget, she was lying to him for years, giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future.
00:45:14And I don't know if Forrest will actually hold her accountable.
00:45:18But we need to get some answers.
00:45:19You don't need to talk about your past.
00:45:31I know, I know everything about your life.
00:45:34You don't know everything.
00:45:36I really want to tell Zied about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
00:45:49Oh, look at the mirrors.
00:46:00Wait, I want to check my outfit.
00:46:02Here, hold that.
00:46:05We look cute.
00:46:08I can see you.
00:46:10Can you see yourself?
00:46:19I'm excited to go shopping.
00:46:25It's always crowded.
00:46:27Yeah, yeah.
00:46:29This is an easy place to get lost.
00:46:31Today, I want to take Emma to Old Medina.
00:46:35I feel so bad because Emma, she loves her job.
00:46:39I want to make her feel so better and she loves shopping, so.
00:46:44Oh, look at those bags.
00:46:46Those are cute.
00:46:47The market place in the Medina, they have a thousand stores there.
00:46:52Oh my gosh, I love all of these clothes.
00:46:54You can find anything you want.
00:46:57Oh, look at these rugs.
00:47:00Those are nice.
00:47:02Oh wait, there's bags.
00:47:04Let's go look at the bags.
00:47:06Let's see what you want.
00:47:10Oh, this is so cute.
00:47:11Can you hold this?
00:47:12I want to look at everything.
00:47:13Hey, look for anything you want.
00:47:15I think I like these little wallets.
00:47:17These are cute.
00:47:20I think I'm going to buy these three.
00:47:22Not you, me.
00:47:23You're going to get them?
00:47:24Yeah.
00:47:25Hey.
00:47:26It's like my gift to you.
00:47:28Can I give you a kiss?
00:47:30Air kiss?
00:47:32Maybe.
00:47:33Is that okay?
00:47:34Yeah, that's okay.
00:47:35Can I do that from now on?
00:47:36Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:47:37I'll just give you air kisses whenever I want to kiss you?
00:47:38It's really nice to have Ziad offer to buy me things and buy gifts for me.
00:47:47That was so romantic because that's never something I've had in the past.
00:47:52It's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than I was feeling yesterday.
00:47:56Where are you taking me, babe?
00:47:58This?
00:47:59It's popular here in Marrakesh.
00:48:02What is this?
00:48:07What is that?
00:48:09What we call them in English?
00:48:11Snails.
00:48:12Snails.
00:48:13I like don't want that.
00:48:14Really?
00:48:15No.
00:48:16I'm not trying.
00:48:17You have to test it.
00:48:18Test it.
00:48:19No.
00:48:20I literally would throw up.
00:48:25It's so delicious.
00:48:26That is the grossest thing I've ever seen in my whole life.
00:48:29It's a slimy snail.
00:48:32And you just suck it down.
00:48:34For me, it's delicious.
00:48:39That's like really gross.
00:48:42What's like the weirdest food you've ever tried?
00:48:44Like snails would be weird.
00:48:46For you, for me, no.
00:48:48So for me, sushi for example.
00:48:50I love sushi.
00:48:51Yeah, it's...
00:48:53We are different.
00:48:54It's some...
00:48:55Are we compatible?
00:49:04Can you hold my other bag actually?
00:49:06What else can we do like while we're here?
00:49:09Did you like horses?
00:49:10I love horses.
00:49:11I think we have to choose this one.
00:49:13I like the white one.
00:49:14I like the white one.
00:49:15You heard...
00:49:18Just one by one.
00:49:20One by one.
00:49:23Oh my God, this is so romantic.
00:49:25Yep.
00:49:26This is like a romantic love ride.
00:49:29Bye.
00:49:36This is three kisses.
00:49:37You kiss me today.
00:49:38Okay.
00:49:41I'm happy that we had a better day today.
00:49:43Yeah, me too.
00:49:44It was a big difference between this day and last day.
00:49:50Yesterday was like really hard for me.
00:49:51It like brought up old feelings.
00:49:54Because...
00:49:55You know, I've like been lying to a lot.
00:49:57Like in my past.
00:49:58Like with past boyfriends.
00:50:00So when...
00:50:01When you kind of lied to me, it was like a trigger for me.
00:50:04Yeah.
00:50:05So you don't need to talk about your past...
00:50:08Your bad experience.
00:50:09Do you not care about my past?
00:50:10No.
00:50:11I know you right now, not in past.
00:50:13So...
00:50:14Do you want to know about my life?
00:50:16Just like things I've been through.
00:50:17It's like, don't you want to know about me?
00:50:19Yeah.
00:50:20I know.
00:50:21I know everything about your life.
00:50:22You don't know everything.
00:50:24No, I know everything.
00:50:25I know your family.
00:50:26I know...
00:50:27Where did you live?
00:50:28I know...
00:50:29I know, but there are things that like I...
00:50:31That have happened in my life that you don't know about.
00:50:36Like I thought.
00:50:37We can leave the impasse.
00:50:38Something passes.
00:50:39It's...
00:50:40Passes.
00:50:44I want to be vulnerable.
00:50:45I want to share, you know, details about who I am and my past.
00:50:49And...
00:50:50I really want to be able to tell Ziad about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
00:50:58But...
00:50:59For him to shut me down...
00:51:01It does make me wonder if Ziad just doesn't want to talk about the past because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:51:08Since I've gone to Morocco, I've just felt really rejected by him.
00:51:13And so now I'm just feeling a little concerned about everything.
00:51:18I need you to be able to look me in the eye.
00:51:23Why have you lied to us all along?
00:51:24I was so fearful of my parents.
00:51:25They would say bad things to me.
00:51:26They would say bad things to other people.
00:51:27Okay.
00:51:28And it affects me emotionally, mentally.
00:51:29It drains me every day.
00:51:30Uh-uh.
00:51:31No.
00:51:32I need that direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
00:51:48To hide it.
00:52:12Hello, Javon.
00:52:18What do you want now?
00:52:23I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:52:29But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week.
00:52:34My sister talked to Anna Lynn, and she actually unblocked me.
00:52:38But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch with a friend I once had feelings for.
00:52:44There's so much riding on this trip.
00:52:48Anna being as angry, it's just not good.
00:52:54Hey, what's going on?
00:52:56What's going on?
00:52:57Ask yourself what's going on, Javon.
00:53:01I mean, you know, Anna, don't be so aggressive.
00:53:05Not being aggressive.
00:53:06Not being aggressive.
00:53:08You told me yourself if we're going to be married, we can't be keeping anyone special from the past.
00:53:18But you're doing it.
00:53:22And I'm not saying that you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step for any temptation.
00:53:29I'm dealing with so much over here by myself.
00:53:33I'm dealing with your problems.
00:53:34I'm dealing with my problems.
00:53:36And sometimes I don't feel like I'm being emotionally supported by you.
00:53:41So, you know, I kind of felt like I was just a little bit desperate just to just to be understood and just heard.
00:53:48If you feel like sometimes you can't talk to me, you have siblings.
00:53:58You have a dad.
00:53:59You have a mom.
00:54:01If your big circle is still not enough, you're American.
00:54:06Get the therapy.
00:54:09I mean, but like, who can afford therapy right now?
00:54:12She's not taking any accountability that, you know, she played a part in why I reached out to a friend.
00:54:26I need to be able to rely on my wife, but she makes it impossible.
00:54:30Even when I'm like at work and you're going through something, I always try to be there for you emotionally.
00:54:38You know?
00:54:40I try, but I don't see you trying for me.
00:54:43When do you show up for me in that way?
00:54:46Oh, God.
00:54:50Like, hello, I've been waiting for you for six years.
00:54:55I have devoted, invested so much love.
00:55:04If you don't feel like that's understanding enough, waiting for you for that long,
00:55:08I don't know what it is.
00:55:21I know you've made, you know, some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long.
00:55:27And I do apologize and I do take accountability for what I've done.
00:55:34Okay.
00:55:35So you're going to stop talking to her?
00:55:42I can stop, but can we at least work on our communication?
00:55:48Okay.
00:55:50Okay.
00:55:52That's all I want, boo.
00:55:53That's it.
00:55:54I see.
00:55:56With Javon coming out to the Philippines, I do feel like I could let go of some negative feelings about this situation.
00:56:06But even though he agreed that he's not going to talk to that woman anymore, do I believe it?
00:56:12No, not really.
00:56:13So I will definitely talk about this again in person.
00:56:25Do you think we can, like, move past it?
00:56:28Like, when we see each other?
00:56:29I don't know.
00:56:30I don't know.
00:56:31Maybe.
00:56:32I don't know.
00:56:33Yeah.
00:56:34I don't know.
00:56:35Okay, here we go.
00:56:36Whoa, look at this place.
00:56:51This was a church.
00:56:52Oh.
00:56:531588, man, that is old.
00:56:55It's old.
00:56:56Here, we got celebrations here.
00:56:58Dad, what's this, you guys?
00:57:02Yes!
00:57:06Yeah, it's precision.
00:57:09Oh, my goodness.
00:57:10We call that fiesta.
00:57:12Oh, yes.
00:57:13That's a culture for Catholics here in my country.
00:57:15Goodness.
00:57:17Yes, my God.
00:57:18Yeah, it's really cool.
00:57:20Look at this.
00:57:20Ah!
00:57:22I decided to take Boris and his family to Chinatown because I'm a Chinese mix.
00:57:30My mom is Chinese descent, so I wanted to show how Chinese culture
00:57:35are inter-bonded with Filipino culture.
00:57:39Smell that?
00:57:40Oh, that smells so good.
00:57:41Wow.
00:57:42So this is a place that to make handmade noodles.
00:57:45Why can't I eat that?
00:57:46Yeah.
00:57:47Hello.
00:57:47Oh.
00:57:49Yesterday, I was quite a little nervous to meet Boris's parents, especially Molly.
00:57:55Okay, thank you.
00:57:57There's been a problem between me and Molly, but I'm so glad that she happened to accept me.
00:58:03And I wanted to provide them the best first day here in the Philippines.
00:58:09Yum.
00:58:10Oh, thank you.
00:58:12Slurps up.
00:58:13Slurps up and slurps up, huh?
00:58:15Yeah, actually, that's here.
00:58:16The culture here, if you want to slurp, it means you're eating the good noodles, so that's a good sign.
00:58:20So the loud are the best, right?
00:58:21Yeah, yes.
00:58:22Here I go.
00:58:25Yeah, you are the king of slurps, Boris.
00:58:28I made sure to get it on my glasses.
00:58:29That's the key.
00:58:30This is so good.
00:58:31Yeah.
00:58:33Well, Sheena, I wanted to thank you for your apology yesterday.
00:58:40I mean, that really showed a lot to me.
00:58:44But I did want to ask you about a few things.
00:58:53Okay?
00:58:53Okay, Molly.
00:58:54I'm listening.
00:58:55And I need you to be able to look me in the eye, and I need you to be truthful with me 100%.
00:59:02You lied to us about giving your parents the money.
00:59:11This was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to America to be a family with us.
00:59:18And these were the plans all of these years, and then for it to just find out, now, before we come here, that hasn't been happening.
00:59:29Why have you lied to us all along?
00:59:34Why have you lied to us all along?
00:59:38I really owe you millions and thousands of explanations I need.
00:59:43I hope you can listen to my situation.
00:59:44The reason why that I happen to give my money to my parents is because being a breadwinner, it's a cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around.
00:59:58I mean, I completely understand giving your parents money, needing to help your family.
01:00:03That's what family does.
01:00:06But my issue with it is that you lie.
01:00:16To be honest, the reason also, that's the other reason that I was so scared, because my parents, my mom happened to guilt-tripping me from time to time.
01:00:27If I don't give them money, she makes me feel that I'm such a selfish person, and it hurts me a lot.
01:00:35Okay, but if I'm asking you a direct question, I need that direct answer.
01:00:40And even now, you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
01:00:50Watching Sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful.
01:00:54I'm wanting to step in and defend her and protect Sheena, but at the same time, I don't understand what fears she had of telling me.
01:01:05I was so fearful of my parents.
01:01:09They would say bad things to me.
01:01:11They would say bad things to other people.
01:01:13And it affects me emotionally, mentally, it drains me every day.
01:01:17Uh-uh.
01:01:17No.
01:01:17And it makes me feel so bad.
01:01:19No.
01:01:20No.
01:01:20Sheena, I'm not asking you that.
01:01:23I'm asking you why you did not tell us.
01:01:28I couldn't handle myself anymore because I don't know.
01:01:34I can't.
01:01:34Sheena, I can't understand what you're saying.
01:01:37I am sorry.
01:01:38Oh, my God.
01:01:39I don't want to.
01:01:39See, there's your manipulation.
01:01:41Put the tears.
01:01:42Please put your tissue down.
01:01:44I'm trying to have Sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable.
01:01:53So even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents, what's the motivation for hiding it?
01:02:00We've got to get answers.
01:02:02Oh, my God.
01:02:04Oh, my God.
01:02:08This is really happening.
01:02:10Oh, my God.
01:02:10Oh, my God.
01:02:11Oh, my God.
01:02:11Oh, my God.
01:02:12Oh, my God.
01:02:13I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:02:15I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:02:18She was physical with a woman.
01:02:22My jaw, leg and walk.
01:02:24How did you?
01:02:25Mm-hmm.
01:02:26My one, a big one.
01:02:28Oh, my hand.
01:02:30My hair, my hair, my hair, my hair, my hair, my hair, my hair, my hair, my hair, my hair, my hair.
01:02:38Oh, my God.
01:02:41Oh, my God.
01:02:41Oh, my God.
01:02:42Oh, my God.
01:02:43Here he is.
01:02:44Awesome.
01:02:45Here we go.
01:02:46Yep.
01:02:47Here goes everything.
01:02:57Oh, my gosh.
01:02:59I'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life, Daniel, in Nigeria for the very first time.
01:03:05What am I doing?
01:03:07I don't know, Mom.
01:03:07What are you doing?
01:03:09Certainly not what I would be doing.
01:03:12It still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women, I'm traveling across the world to meet a man.
01:03:20And I love him.
01:03:22I love him.
01:03:24You're going to see when I come home how excited and happy I am.
01:03:27You're going to see when I talk to you there how happy I am, and you're going to be happy for me.
01:03:33I just, I don't want it to ruin your heart.
01:03:37I don't want it.
01:03:43I don't want it.
01:03:43I'm going to pee my pants.
01:03:44Oh, God, please don't.
01:03:47Here we go.
01:03:49Okay.
01:03:50All right.
01:03:53You remember the rules.
01:03:55Don't get married on the trip, even when the divorce comes through.
01:03:57Yes.
01:03:58And I would come clean about everything.
01:04:01It'll be a foundation.
01:04:02And if you have questions.
01:04:03I will ask them.
01:04:04I love you.
01:04:08I love you, too.
01:04:09I'm going to miss you so much.
01:04:12Stay safe.
01:04:13Oh, God.
01:04:14This is the biggest risk I've ever taken.
01:04:18Flying across the world to another country, to Nigeria, Africa, to be with a man I have
01:04:24never met before.
01:04:25I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:27Oh, my God.
01:04:28This is really happening.
01:04:29I hope Daniel will accept me for everything that I am and who I am and that he will become
01:04:46my sixth and final spouse.
01:04:50Daniel is coming.
01:05:16Please, give me 500 nera, um, pepe.
01:05:43My name is Daniel.
01:05:46I am 29 years old.
01:05:50I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe.
01:05:53We have traditions and we believe in traditions.
01:05:56As an Igbo man, we love competition.
01:05:59We work hard and we have to be honest.
01:06:11I grew up very poor.
01:06:13Sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food.
01:06:18My family do the best they can do.
01:06:20And I am really close to my family.
01:06:23But some years ago, I lost my mom before she died.
01:06:28She told me that during the war, she nearly be killed, that a white woman protected her.
01:06:33And I have to make sure that I get married to a white woman.
01:06:36So I decided I will do it.
01:06:38And that's how I found Lisa.
01:06:41It's like fire burning up.
01:06:44Lisa is 52 years old.
01:06:47She lives in Pennsylvania.
01:06:48She's a beautiful woman.
01:06:50She has, um, she has a good body structure.
01:06:53She's thick.
01:06:54She has bops.
01:06:55She has what I want.
01:06:56She doesn't hide anything.
01:07:01She supports me financially.
01:07:03She makes me feel loved.
01:07:05That's why I fell in love with her.
01:07:08It's not like fire.
01:07:09So, she doesn't hide anything.
01:07:10It's like a fire.
01:07:11So, you know, if you take it out.
01:07:11You didn't have to go to the wrong place.
01:07:14Okay.
01:07:16I'm sorry.
01:07:18I'm sorry.
01:07:18Okay.
01:07:19I'm sorry.
01:07:24That's the second question.
01:07:27What was your word?
01:07:31You're right.
01:07:31I'm sorry.
01:07:33You're right.
01:07:34I don't know.
01:07:36I'm sorry.
01:07:37In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:08:07I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:13One, she vaped.
01:08:15Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:19And three, she was physical with a woman one time.
01:08:24This is the worst.
01:08:33We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:08:38Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:42So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:45She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:08:49But I'm nervous.
01:08:49She said,
01:09:01Now that the ancestors are approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:23I'm planning a big surprise for Lisa. When I meet her at the airport, I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:39If I marry Lisa, she'll make me change the story of my family. And if I should make it to America, this will change my life to good.
01:09:53I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:03Yes.
01:10:05It feels like it got colder.
01:10:07It gets cold or gets hot. No straight weather.
01:10:14Wow.
01:10:23Here we are.
01:10:26Oh, we're here?
01:10:29Here you go. I will take this.
01:10:32You're welcome.
01:10:33After all of this excitement and anticipation and buildup of coming to Turkey and meeting Birkan face to face, it's starting off a little bit awkward.
01:10:44But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him. It just feels so right.
01:10:52I'm excited to see this.
01:10:56Here you go.
01:10:57Oh, you want me to go first?
01:10:58Yeah, of course.
01:10:59Okay.
01:11:01Oh, my God. This is huge.
01:11:04Oh, yeah.
01:11:05This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:09This is amazing.
01:11:13This kitchen is bigger than almost my every house, so.
01:11:17This is incredible.
01:11:20You like this?
01:11:21Oh, my God.
01:11:22I love this.
01:11:23I'm going to move here.
01:11:25You can see the sea.
01:11:28Everything?
01:11:29Oh, my God.
01:11:31Wow.
01:11:34This is amazing.
01:11:35I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
01:11:39It's worth it?
01:11:42All the trip?
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:45I don't know if it's worth it.
01:11:46Yeah, I know.
01:11:47So, how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:11:56That sounds awesome.
01:11:57Let's do that.
01:11:58Let's do that.
01:11:59All right.
01:11:59Okay.
01:12:00This is the best part of this mirror.
01:12:08This is incredible.
01:12:10I would love to, like, live right there, like, with this view every day.
01:12:14Yeah, I like these old buildings.
01:12:17I do, too.
01:12:19Yeah.
01:12:22Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:26I love that.
01:12:27Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:28That's, like, really profound.
01:12:29Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:31Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things, and he has a way of taking things that
01:12:37are just very simple and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion around it.
01:12:43It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:45When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:52Sometimes it's a little exhausting, because I'm like, oh, my God, it's just the sunset.
01:12:56I guess we've got to go this way.
01:12:58Go back this way?
01:12:58Yeah.
01:12:59I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:13:02Actually, not you.
01:13:03The people are.
01:13:05Not me.
01:13:05They have no idea where.
01:13:06Go ahead.
01:13:09I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:11I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately I like it, and I wouldn't change
01:13:17it.
01:13:19How was your day?
01:13:23Yeah, it was good.
01:13:25I enjoyed it.
01:13:27How about you?
01:13:28I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:29I traveled a ton to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights.
01:13:41I'm exhausted, and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:46Okay.
01:13:47You want to go to bed?
01:13:52Actually, it's just nine o'clock, and I have no sleep.
01:13:57So why don't you go some sleep, and I will watch some TV and join you after.
01:14:08Good night.
01:14:08Have a nice night.
01:14:09All right.
01:14:09Good night.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:11Who's texting you?
01:14:35Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:39He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:45And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:48I said, everything's good.
01:14:51And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:14:56So I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:01But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:09Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:11It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:15I feel like it's not this super great magical moment.
01:15:18It just feels off.
01:15:22I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:24It just feels off.
01:15:25It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:38And so I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:42And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:51But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:15:55Right there, Collins.
01:16:08Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:11I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:13No.
01:16:13It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:15Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:17I want to end this now.
01:16:19You're acting all hostile.
01:16:20I'm not.
01:16:21Yeah, you are.
01:16:22Forrest.
01:16:25My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:37Forrest, they should be helping me around.
01:16:39They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:42We can't understand you.
01:16:45You have to speak.
01:16:47You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:50I need you to really, please, point blank.
01:16:57You were giving your parents money.
01:17:00Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:05Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:22They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:26Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:33Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:38I can't handle it anymore.
01:17:40It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:43The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:45I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:47It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:04Oh, you were scared.
01:18:05Forrest would have come to me and said,
01:18:08Mom, I got to get it on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:11I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:12But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:17and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:22Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:30A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:33I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:38you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:41Forrest.
01:18:43It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:46That still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:49It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:50It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:18:58I believe Sheena's not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:02I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:04And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is, you know, diarrhea of the mouth.
01:19:16I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:22Obviously, she knows she did wrong.
01:19:26What's your goal here?
01:19:28Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:31I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:38Because ultimately, the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:46Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on.
01:19:55I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:01It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:04Which is what she should have done to set up with you years and years ago.
01:20:09Yeah, we could sit there and we could talk about the past and he said, she said he could do that, she cannot do that.
01:20:14It's time to move forward now.
01:20:16Forrest?
01:20:17I want to add this now.
01:20:22I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:24I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:26You're acting all hostile.
01:20:28I'm not hostile.
01:20:28Yeah, you are.
01:20:30And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:33You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:35I tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:39Disaster.
01:20:42It's okay, babe.
01:20:47I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:50He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:20:56Now he sees us as the big, bad, bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:02But still, I have to always protect Forrest because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:08And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:24This is so surreal.
01:21:26Come on.
01:21:28Where are you?
01:21:29This is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:37Mommy!
01:21:39Are you nervous?
01:21:40A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:42Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:47I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:53This part is best as possible.
01:21:55But I'm immediately regretting having Fear Calm come with me.
01:21:59I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:00I've been looking at your page.
01:22:09Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:11Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:13No, no, there isn't also.
01:22:14Yeah.
01:22:14I downloaded this extension on my laptop.
01:22:17And it shows you who people follow.
01:22:21This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:25So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:28Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents
01:22:33and how it's important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:38I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:42I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:46Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:52Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:54Now the story changes again.
01:22:56I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:03What the heck?
01:23:07I can't get out of there.
01:23:10I love him with everything I am.
01:23:13But he doesn't know that I've been married five times and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:19What are you doing?
01:23:21I love him with everything I am.
01:23:23I love him with everything I am.
01:23:24I love him with everything I am.
01:23:25I love him with everything I am.
01:23:26I love him with everything I am.
01:23:27I love him with everything I am.
01:23:28I love him with everything I am.
01:23:29I love him with everything I am.
01:23:30I love him with everything I am.
01:23:31I love him with everything I am.
01:23:32I love him with everything I am.
01:23:33I love him with everything I am.
01:23:34I love him with everything I am.
01:23:35I love him with everything I am.
01:23:36I love him with everything I am.
01:23:37I love him with everything I am.
01:23:38I love him with everything I am.
01:23:39I love him with everything I am.
01:23:40I love him with everything I am.
01:23:41I love him with everything I am.
01:23:42I love him with everything I am.
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