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00:00:00This is so embarrassing. I'm sorry. This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:05For the past 21 years, I have been with women only, but Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:12I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago, I told him I had a fling with a woman, and he was disgusted.
00:00:23He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:25I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:29Don't make jokes. He doesn't love you. That's not what love is. He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:36There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:48We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check until we get married.
00:00:53But that's just not what you said. A couple weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women, and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:04Good night.
00:01:05Now, seeing how he's acting in person, it's making me question things.
00:01:15Oh, my goodness.
00:01:17Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:24But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:28Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:41I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor, because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:01:56I'm going to see his face, and it's just going to flow out of me, drip down my legs, and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:01I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death, because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:18What if he hides? What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:21I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:24I don't know if he's going to be like, wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:31Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:42My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns at dinner the other night, that Daniel could be scamming me, and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:50But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:02:57I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:01These are the wigs I am taking with me. They're brand new.
00:03:06I have three, because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:10I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:14My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:17It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:21Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:25It sticks to your hair, it sticks to your skin, you have rashes, you have all kinds of sores.
00:03:32It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria, but it makes him so happy.
00:03:38I want to look beautiful for Daniel, so I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:42I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:43So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:51I'm pretty nervous.
00:03:55Not sure how it's going to go.
00:03:58She's horrible with directions.
00:04:00I am hopeful she gets the answers and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:08But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:13Hi, Faith.
00:04:14I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:17Oh, wonderful. Thank you.
00:04:19Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:21Thank you. That's the first thing I want.
00:04:23I know.
00:04:24All right, listen. Here's something really important.
00:04:27The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:34That has to be done.
00:04:35Like immediately?
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:37Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper is on the 29th,
00:04:41so that the divorce becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:44I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:51And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:52If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that, oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:05:00No, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:04But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:07Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years,
00:05:14Daniel doesn't know that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:18He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me.
00:05:26And I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:28Because in my heart, I have been free to marry.
00:05:30Because my ex-wife and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:34We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:38If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:42I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:44Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:48I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:05:52He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:05:57Just trust me.
00:05:58I'm just worried.
00:05:59Don't worry.
00:06:00Don't worry.
00:06:01I got this.
00:06:02Let's get going.
00:06:03We need to get to the airport.
00:06:04It is getting late.
00:06:06And we need to get to get to.
00:06:08I do have a flight.
00:06:10I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:06:16Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody before you're ready.
00:06:21I need to grab my phone.
00:06:23That's the last thing I need.
00:06:28So if Danny was asking you to get married while you were in Nigeria, would you keep your hands to faith?
00:06:32Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:36I want to say no.
00:06:43But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:48Jump with both feet in.
00:06:52I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:06:55I want to be with him.
00:06:57I want to be a part of him.
00:06:58Um, I want to be his wife.
00:07:02So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:04I really don't know.
00:07:07Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:10Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:11Woo, here we go.
00:07:22Here we go.
00:07:22Oh, 61.
00:07:28What?
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:31I got three.
00:07:32Oh, you done good.
00:07:34Oh, 70.
00:07:36I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:40I was married to a soldier.
00:07:43He, uh, lived up the street.
00:07:46My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:49We loved to skate.
00:07:50So our first date was going skating.
00:07:53The first date, we went to a fair.
00:07:56And, uh, I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:06I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:09That was just, that was it.
00:08:12He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:19And here it is.
00:08:20I'm done waiting.
00:08:27No more hesitating.
00:08:30There is nothing more to once more.
00:08:34You got to feel it.
00:08:36You got to believe it.
00:08:39There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:43Big four.
00:08:45Good afternoon.
00:08:48Lemonade.
00:08:49Oh, oh wait.
00:08:50My name is Javon.
00:08:52I'm 38 years old.
00:08:53And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:08:57Who's winning?
00:08:58Who has a bingo?
00:09:00I've got several bingos.
00:09:01Oh, nice.
00:09:03I work at a nursing home.
00:09:05And I like my job.
00:09:09You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:14They have no filters.
00:09:15And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:17What did you bring us today?
00:09:19We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:23Ooh.
00:09:24Look at all that cheese.
00:09:26But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:28Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:30I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:34American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:38I call them the three-sixes.
00:09:43And it's not me.
00:09:48That's good.
00:09:51We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:53Oh, yeah.
00:09:55It's a trip way overdue.
00:09:56I'm going to see my wife.
00:09:58When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:03Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:09So this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:12Oh, okay.
00:10:17Really?
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:20Aw.
00:10:21My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:23She's 38 years old.
00:10:25And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:28Hey, boo.
00:10:29It's your wife.
00:10:30I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:31We connected online about five years ago, and we've been married for about two years.
00:10:45He said that?
00:10:47No, that's wrong.
00:10:49We have been in a relationship for six years, and we have been married for almost three years.
00:10:55Okay?
00:10:58Hello, Bupo.
00:10:59I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:02Mwah!
00:11:03Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:08Yummers.
00:11:14Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world, we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:19and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:23Maybe a year after we started talking online, I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person.
00:11:32But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:36There were flight restrictions.
00:11:37I was kind of feeling hopeless, and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:44And then I was scrolling on social media, and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:52And I thought if we were married legally, he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:11:57because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:04When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages, I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:11I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox, but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:21When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with,
00:12:24you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:25It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:27When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:31All right.
00:12:32Place the rings on your fingers as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:36and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:38How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call, absolutely not.
00:12:44But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:47It is now my privilege to pronounce you lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:12:54I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:00I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:01How could you be married for years and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:10Uh...
00:13:10The whole thing is very expensive, so, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:14So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:18Over the years, me and Anna Lynn have tried to meet up several times.
00:13:22But work and finances got in the way.
00:13:26And having a marriage online has been challenging.
00:13:31Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:36When I first met Anna, she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:41She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:43I'm like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:47I've always been feisty.
00:13:50She knows that.
00:13:52And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:54I don't like being told what to do.
00:13:56I don't like being controlled.
00:13:59After a period of time, I had to fight to actually speak, to be heard.
00:14:04Lately, it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:14:08I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:11But before I apply for that spousal visa and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:16we need to spend physical time with one another to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:22I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:25I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:27But I'm worried that our problems are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:31And if we can't, I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:41Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:14:43Oh, yeah.
00:14:45You're so handsome, always.
00:14:46I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:48I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:53I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off, but I'm kind of still nervous about what this marriage is.
00:15:01I don't like that we were fighting yesterday, but there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:10What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:15Emma.
00:15:16Emma.
00:15:42I want you to get out for a bit this morning and clear my mind because my night with Emma
00:16:00was horrible.
00:16:01I want to be her husband, but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:06I hope things better today.
00:16:12I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:16Like, I thought I'd be waking up next to him and he would be, like, bringing me coffee
00:16:20in the morning and cuddling with me.
00:16:22And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:25We've actually just been completely separate.
00:16:29Ziad's behavior last night, it's making me a little suspicious, but I'm trying not to
00:16:35just be in my head and overthink things.
00:16:38I want this to be fun and I want us to just focus on the positive.
00:16:43I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:16:45Oh!
00:16:46Yeah, that's a good thing.
00:16:47How are you?
00:16:48Good morning.
00:16:49Good morning.
00:16:50How was your night?
00:16:51This is nice.
00:16:52Really?
00:16:53Yeah.
00:16:54Good morning.
00:16:55Good morning.
00:16:56Good morning.
00:16:57How was your night?
00:16:58This is nice.
00:16:59Really?
00:17:00Yeah.
00:17:01Oh, yeah.
00:17:08Hi.
00:17:09Good morning.
00:17:10Morning.
00:17:11How's your night?
00:17:13This is nice.
00:17:14Really?
00:17:15Yeah.
00:17:16That's it. This is your place.
00:17:18I hope you will like it.
00:17:20Thanks, babe.
00:17:26Really?
00:17:31Oh, yeah.
00:17:33She's adorable.
00:17:36My favorite.
00:17:36Eggs.
00:17:39I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it.
00:17:40I know, I know.
00:17:40Because she cooked it.
00:17:42Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:45What do you want to start for what?
00:17:47I mean, it wasn't really, like, a good start to my trip.
00:17:51I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:17:54Yeah.
00:17:54That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:17:59Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:00Yeah.
00:18:01Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:04I love the tea here.
00:18:05Okay.
00:18:06Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:09I don't hear you.
00:18:10I don't hear you.
00:18:11I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:13Can you repeat?
00:18:13I don't hear what you said.
00:18:14I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:16For what?
00:18:18For running away from your kiss.
00:18:22And?
00:18:25Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:18:29I mean, I'm sorry yesterday got, like, really dramatic.
00:18:31But I think it was just a long day for me
00:18:33because I was traveling for, like, 20 hours.
00:18:36I know it's difficult.
00:18:38And it was just, like, a lot going on.
00:18:39There was, like, a lot in my mind.
00:18:42Actually, there's something else I wanted to, like,
00:18:44talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:18:47I was just, like, upset the past couple days
00:19:04because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:07Like, I've been there for five years.
00:19:08And?
00:19:09Well, I got fired.
00:19:12Really?
00:19:17I don't know if I want to talk about it
00:19:20because I'm going to cry.
00:19:22No, no, you don't need this.
00:19:24Listen, listen.
00:19:27I just need a minute.
00:19:30Emma.
00:19:38Sorry.
00:19:39No, no.
00:19:40Don't cry.
00:19:41It's, uh...
00:19:43I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:19:45It's just a walk.
00:19:46It's a bathroom.
00:19:48And you don't need to cry for it.
00:19:52So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:54No, don't cry. Don't cry.
00:19:55Okay.
00:19:56Don't cry.
00:19:57Okay.
00:19:58I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:06I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:08It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:11But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14You will find another one more better than you last.
00:20:18Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:22We are together, and everything will be good.
00:20:26I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:20:35It was like a tornado.
00:20:37But right now, he's showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:20:41I love you.
00:20:42I love you, babe.
00:20:43Yeah, it is.
00:20:44I love you more.
00:20:45What's...
00:20:46What's mean, tornado?
00:20:47Like an earthquake.
00:20:48Like a...
00:20:49Like a natural disaster.
00:20:50So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:20:54Yeah, yeah.
00:20:55That's an amazing example.
00:20:56Yeah, really.
00:21:01My future hubby.
00:21:02Ah.
00:21:03Do you know what that means?
00:21:05No.
00:21:06What's meaning?
00:21:07It's short for husband.
00:21:08Really?
00:21:09Yeah.
00:21:10Hubby.
00:21:12Uh, one feet.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:14Exactly.
00:21:15I can't believe the trees.
00:21:16How beautiful they are.
00:21:17I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:18I'm probably gonna...
00:21:19I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:20I'm probably gonna...
00:21:21I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:22I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:23I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:24Love the way your smile.
00:21:25My heart has red.
00:21:26I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:21:27Love the way your smile.
00:21:28My heart is racing now.
00:21:29All right.
00:21:30See you later, Dev.
00:21:31Good morning.
00:21:32All right.
00:21:33Bye.
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00:21:55Bye.
00:21:56Bye.
00:21:57later i just arrived in the philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams
00:22:08after seven years just being able to touch and hold her hand it was so amazing did a little more
00:22:15than hold hands i'd say laka laka yeah oh this is incredible yeah there's a lot to take in
00:22:27here crazy this is definitely controlled chaos if i could describe the philippines in one word
00:22:35it'd be hectic it's got people like almost running into each other or running each other over
00:22:42constantly oh man glad i'm not driving but it's got its own like charm to it look at that that thing
00:22:52is pretty good yes this is the jeep me this is locally here in my country they have converted
00:22:57old jimmy's from the world war ii who have been left with americans so they can bring her like
00:23:02taxis incredible you can see the big building there that's the condo we're gonna stay
00:23:09i wish i could stay at your place yeah sheena's parents own her apartment in manila but we're
00:23:17not staying there because her parents said we had to pay for it if we did stay
00:23:22when sheena told me that it made me really upset because i'm planning on marrying their daughter
00:23:28and i would be their son and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd especially
00:23:35because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually
00:23:40just meet her sheena said i know it doesn't make sense but it's what my parents want it's their wishes i
00:23:46i can't really go around that but i'm not paying them money
00:23:51this is the place all right we are here
00:23:57here you go mom that's it
00:24:02i got it all right charge
00:24:06sheena is an extreme foodie and she likes to make sure that i'm well fed
00:24:14well that's a cultural thing in my country
00:24:17i should like to open him up and see what he's about
00:24:20oh my god i can definitely smell him
00:24:23oh yeah you know yeah he's a little excited at the top don't go for that
00:24:28yeah okay
00:24:30so sorry baby this is all i could get for you guys
00:24:36you can see that we have two bedrooms here
00:24:39it's like a simple home but comfy so
00:24:42the place is nice it's pretty but it could have been a little bit bigger
00:24:49i state this claim in the name of forest
00:24:54it feels good
00:24:56it's your bag too here i'll throw these in here for you
00:24:58it's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents
00:25:02if me and sheena you know decide to get down
00:25:05i really just hope my parents don't hear us
00:25:07sheena
00:25:11what
00:25:12this feels more than online right now
00:25:17oh this is making me more nervous
00:25:19oh you don't have to be i'm here right with you
00:25:23oh i know i can see
00:25:24yeah you're so excited huh
00:25:27oh yeah because i got some good stuff here
00:25:31excuse me baby boom
00:25:34what is that
00:25:36this is something amazing
00:25:38and i want you to try it on for me if you want
00:25:42wow what that's what's that thing i think it is a cloth that goes on your body and accentuates your sexuality
00:25:53oh that's nice i love the color oh yeah i guess guess what there's even more what you have more i have more
00:26:05oh wow i got you a pretty thong
00:26:08oh wow i got you a pretty thong
00:26:11wow
00:26:12to be honest i feel quite nervous because i am a virgin but forest makes me feel confident of my body
00:26:22this is another one for you in case you want to you know oh that's pretty it's cool it's beautiful
00:26:29oh okay all right okay
00:26:31you're so handsome always i'm gonna go brush my teeth
00:26:40okay go for it my love
00:26:41you brush
00:26:42all right
00:26:42everything my love
00:26:44you know when i was making like sexy talk with her i was really just trying to like
00:26:51put her at ease make her laugh you know just calm the mood
00:26:56i've been waiting seven years to be alone with sheena like this but to be honest i'm actually
00:27:03i'm kind of still nervous about what is my routine
00:27:05i mean i'm i'm not saying i can't pull her socks off but uh having sex with sheena i feel like it's
00:27:16an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset
00:27:19it's it's it's just a big deal i love you i love you do you want the lights on or off
00:27:27well turn off the lights babe
00:27:29it's absolutely wild that i'm finally on the ground here
00:27:38i still have flaws and imperfections and so i am nervous that beer con won't be as attracted
00:27:48to me in person oh my god here we go
00:27:51we are in the process of landing and i don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or beer con
00:28:02but i'm excited
00:28:03so this is the most important day actually in my life
00:28:18i'm trying to look good you know for our big meeting for first time everything has to go perfect
00:28:26so i will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned
00:28:31laura is arriving tricky today and today might be first day of my rest of my life
00:28:39laura rented this airbnb for us i never saw this big of place it just chills me
00:28:50right now i'm staying with different friends sometimes ismir sometimes istanbul that's why
00:29:01laura couldn't stay with me but the privacy of our place is gonna be nice because we have
00:29:09a lot of things to discuss face to face
00:29:11it's absolutely wild that i'm finally on the ground here i'm so excited now i just want to run out
00:29:31of this airport and leave all my luggage here
00:29:38oh
00:29:40oh my gosh she come early
00:29:46it's slightly cold that i am having a heart attack or i am excited yeah we will see
00:30:00i am going to wear a dress to meet this man i think that will be a lot cuter than
00:30:08the hot mess that i'm currently wearing
00:30:11i'm really proud of the progress that i've made over the last 14 months
00:30:16but i still have flaws and imperfections and so i am nervous that beer con won't be as attracted
00:30:25to me in person and i think that's a cute dress all right
00:30:31the woman i love is coming so i'm thrilled my hopes are we will get engaged and go to america live
00:30:45together and get married but maybe she will hate me nobody knows
00:30:52this is it i can't believe i'm about to meet him
00:31:00i wasn't fine till you came into my love you thought i was going inside
00:31:08oh my god here we go
00:31:10yeah i know i am still thinking about oh my god america
00:31:17yeah i know i am still thinking about oh my god america
00:31:31yeah i think everything's perfect right now yeah that's really sweet yeah it was i know i know
00:31:49yeah so let's go this way okay these bumps are a pain with suitcases he looks amazing
00:31:59exactly the aesthetic that i've been describing which is that dark romance male main character
00:32:07when you look at her what do you think she's perfect i don't need to look at her
00:32:11i don't need because i feel it you know i'm complete so we don't need to see
00:32:16that's probably the best answer ever
00:32:18that was like the best flight i've ever taken yeah seriously i'm glad i'm really glad
00:32:30yeah
00:32:32i don't know what's happening it's very awkward right now
00:32:58i really wasn't expecting that because you know it was like great when we first met he hugged
00:33:06me he kissed me and then we sit on this train and it's like he doesn't know who i am and
00:33:11i don't know who he is
00:33:13i think we're close
00:33:19i'm hoping that as time moves forward that this will turn around and it will feel more like it did
00:33:30when we were online but right now something is off and it's freaking me out
00:33:43anna called me like it were talking about your brother your brother i know that anna is
00:33:49one thousand percent unhinged like kind of off her rocker a little bit she was just talking about that
00:33:55woman
00:33:58uh yeah who is the woman
00:34:10hey y'all i'm ready to roll fully loaded y'all i'm ready for whoa straight up out of the bunker might jump
00:34:16yeah zombies out here to hunt you this is nice really this is screaming i failed a pottery class
00:34:26well but she doesn't like how you dress so you got to do something else
00:34:29ah
00:34:42i think you got some good purchases
00:34:43ah yeah i don't have a lot of faith in that shirt
00:34:47it'll it'll be fine it's gonna be fine
00:34:51i'm running some last minute errands with my sister ashley because i'm flying to the philippines in a
00:34:56couple of days to meet my wife for the first time in person i'm excited and i'm super nervous
00:35:04because we've been married for three years but we've never been in the same room or even the same
00:35:09continent with each other so are you all packed up you ready uh i think i'm as ready as i'm ever gonna
00:35:19be and you know me and anna's relationship it's just been this spiraling like up and down loopy
00:35:25loop roller coaster ride but when things are good i'm like really happy to be in a relationship
00:35:30i think anna's very funny yeah like anna seems like she's a good time she's just a lot
00:35:40javon marrying somebody online was actually wild to me i do think they love each other
00:35:47but i don't know like i wouldn't just call this like a normal marriage this is something i've never
00:35:53seen or heard of before you know like anna actually called me you spoke to her
00:36:02mm-hmm when she called me like at work i'm working i'm with i'm with customers and she's just you know
00:36:10talking about your brother your brother i don't know what to do with him
00:36:13rah rah rah rah rah rah yeah i was like can't even get her off the phone yeah
00:36:19she was just talking about that woman uh yeah
00:36:31so who who is the woman
00:36:38so the woman is just like a friend of mine that i've that i've known for a long time
00:36:44um we communicate so well and we can stay on the phone for hours i think because we're both having
00:36:52problems in our you know relationship it's it's definitely more easy going and it's more positive
00:37:01so but what is it that that anna's so like threatened and bothered by her like what what is
00:37:09it because i feel like i'm missing something yeah i mean there used to be this this this this small
00:37:17thing between us but we're also that so so javon that's not okay that is no good i i know you know
00:37:27and i'm not so that's why she's so upset then yeah
00:37:30she's so upset me and my friend we never officially dated but there was feelings for one another we lost
00:37:38touch for a while but i reached out to her because i was going through a rough time in my marriage
00:37:47and i needed someone that knew me and that understood me i wasn't trying to hide anything so
00:37:54i just came out and told anna and i was talking to this other person i don't think it's a big deal
00:38:00but obviously she does because she's extremely pissed off and upset
00:38:07i'm not saying she don't have a valid reason to be upset but it's just completely platonic you know and
00:38:15she don't have to worry about that have you tried to call her i have but you know she she blocked me
00:38:24i don't know for real she gets so aggressive see this is the problem like this is how this is why i
00:38:32had to go outside of our marriage to talk to somebody else about our marriage and it shouldn't be that way
00:38:43obviously anna feels disrespected and i do get that i know that she's one thousand percent unhinged
00:38:51like kind of off her rocker a little bit but i do feel like he presses her buttons javange needs to
00:38:57stay sorry and try and talk to her and if they don't know how to talk then they don't need to be married
00:39:04you're about to see your wife for the first time you all don't need to be in the middle of a fight
00:39:10i don't know what to do i don't know what to do
00:39:13i heard some interesting things from your guys's bedroom last night did you guys do the old uh
00:39:25knock it knock it i just want to prefer like a privacy between us you know now now you're kind of
00:39:33now you're kind of being really disrespectful
00:39:47oh yeah
00:40:01hey guys we're gonna go down and have some coffee by the pool so uh we'll be up in a little while
00:40:07i arrived in the philippines yesterday
00:40:37and the first night with the woman of my dream sheena was amazing
00:40:55there's a lot of new and fun things i'm finding out uh being with sheena physically
00:41:00i found out there's a night sheena what and uh she's kind of grabby oh very very i'm not you're
00:41:06very uh into being physical night sheena
00:41:14you know just finally being able to hold you and be with you and and kiss you it just felt awesome
00:41:19and i know that i talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like that but i really
00:41:28believe that we should um wait you know till we know each other a bit more you know in person
00:41:35i understand my love i really feel like after seven years me coming here to the philippines and just
00:41:45having sex with sheena straight up it's not what i want to do yeah i agree with that i just want to
00:41:52get to get to know you much better we'll know when the time is right i agree to that also probably
00:41:59when my mom's not around yeah
00:42:07we'll see you later i don't need a coat that's for sure
00:42:12so where exactly are we you're taking us again so it's a chinatown here manila actually one of the
00:42:31oldest chinatown here in the whole world because chinese people have been trading with the filipinos
00:42:39before spanish people arrived spaniards so there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods
00:42:46i'm ready to eat it all
00:42:51so i got a little curiosity question to ask you guys uh i heard some interesting things you know coming
00:43:00for your from your guys's bedroom last night the little giggles so uh did uh you guys uh
00:43:09do the old uh nookin nookin nookin nookin no no no no no no no no so why why why didn't you guys
00:43:24well just wasn't the right time or place to do that oh okay well you guys can always come and talk
00:43:33to us if you have questions it's not an embarrassing subject to me it's interesting it's life yep and it
00:43:41takes practice to be good at it yeah my parents are just it's a little too much it's a little bit rude
00:43:52and awkward for me i just want to prefer like a privacy between us you know i respect you guys for
00:44:00for waiting and there's nothing wrong with that there are other things that you can do if you
00:44:05guys didn't want to do the nookin nookin there's oral sex there's fondling now now you're kind of
00:44:14being really disrespectful here mom i get it you're trying to be helpful but you're pushing too far
00:44:21you know if we want to talk about sex with you we'll come up and ask about it
00:44:24okay excuse me
00:44:32i thought it was nice that he was defending her honor that's admirable but i was very shocked by
00:44:40forest's reaction thank you very much well forrest why is this a you know a total 180 from our normal
00:44:49discussions where you're right in there using the same language the same talk saying yeah i'm gonna get
00:44:53into that do that it's drastic night and day i see where this is head oh my god i miss this place
00:45:01seal's at home sheena already has that control that thumb on him let's not forget she was lying to him
00:45:09for years getting all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future and i don't know
00:45:15if forrest will actually hold her accountable but we need to get some answers
00:45:28you don't need to talk about your past i know i know everything about your life you don't know
00:45:34everything i really want to tell ziad about my last engagement because i think it's the only way that we
00:45:41could move forward
00:45:57oh look at the mirrors wait i want to check my outfit here hold that
00:46:03we look cute i can see you can you see yourself
00:46:23excited to go shopping it's always crowded yeah this is an easy place to get lost
00:46:30yeah today i want to take emma to old me you know i feel so bad because emma she loves her job
00:46:38i want to make her feel so better and she loves chopping so oh look at those bags those are cute
00:46:48the market place in the median they have a thousand stores there oh my gosh i love all of these clothes
00:46:53you can find anything you want oh look at these rugs those are nice yes oh wait there's bags let's go look
00:47:04at the bags let's let's let's see what you want oh this is so cute can you hold this i want to look at
00:47:12everything hey look for anything you want i think i like these little wallets these are cute
00:47:18okay i think i'm gonna buy these three not you me you're gonna get them yeah hey it's like my gift
00:47:26to you can i give you a kiss no hair hair kiss maybe is that okay yeah can i do that from now on yeah
00:47:35yeah give you air kisses whenever i want to kiss you yeah
00:47:37it's really nice to have ziad offer to buy me things and buy gifts for me that was so romantic
00:47:48because that's never something i've had in the past it's making me feel a little bit more hopeful
00:47:53than i was feeling yesterday where are you taking me babe this it's popular here in marrakesh
00:48:00what is this what is that what's we call them in english snails snails i like don't want that
00:48:13really no it's like traditional i'm not trying this is no i literally would throw up
00:48:21it's so delicious that is the grossest thing i've ever seen in my whole life it's a slimy snail
00:48:32and you just suck it down for me it's delicious
00:48:39that's like really gross what's like the weirdest food you've ever tried like snails would be weird
00:48:46for you for me no so for me sushi for example i love sushi yeah it's we are different it's
00:48:54are we compatible
00:49:03thank you can you hold my other bag actually what else can we do like while we're here did you like
00:49:09horses i love horses i think we have to choose this one i like the white one
00:49:16but just one by one one by one oh my god this is so romantic this is like a romantic love ride
00:49:35this is three kisses you kiss me today
00:49:40i'm happy that we had a better day today yeah me too it was
00:49:44it's a big difference between this day and last day
00:49:49yesterday was like really hard for me it like brought up old feelings
00:49:53because you know i've like been lying to a lot like in my past like with past boyfriends
00:49:59so when when you kind of lied to me it was like a trigger for me
00:50:04yeah so you don't need to talk about your past it's bad your back
00:50:08you don't care about my past no i know you're right now not in past so yeah but don't you want to
00:50:14know about my life just like things i've been through it's like don't you want to know about me
00:50:19yeah i know i know everything about your life you don't know everything
00:50:24no i know everything i know your family i know uh where did you live i know i know but there are things
00:50:29that like i that have happened in my life that you don't know about
00:50:36like i thought we can leave the impasse something passes
00:50:44i want to be vulnerable i want to share you know details about who i am and my past and i really want
00:50:50to be able to tell ziad about my last engagement because i think it's the only way that we could move
00:50:56forward but for him to shut me down it does make me wonder if ziad just doesn't want to talk about
00:51:03the past because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me
00:51:12since i've gone to morocco i've just felt really rejected by him
00:51:17and so now i'm just feeling a little concerned about everything
00:51:26i need you to be able to look me in the eye why have you lied to us all along i was so fearful of
00:51:34my parents they would say bad things to me they would say bad things to other people and it affects
00:51:40me emotionally mentally it drives me every day no i need that direct answer as to why you continue to hide
00:51:48it
00:52:10i'm leaving for the philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife anna for the first time
00:52:29but me and anna we haven't spoken to each other in about a week
00:52:33my sister talked to anna lynn and she actually unblocked me but she's still really upset that
00:52:41i'm back in touch with a friend i once had feelings for
00:52:45there's so much riding on this trip anna being as angry it's just not good
00:52:51hey what's going on what's going on what's going on i mean uh you know anna don't don't be so
00:53:04aggressive
00:53:05not being aggressive
00:53:08you told me yourself if we're going to be married we can't be keeping anyone special
00:53:16from the past but you're doing it
00:53:22and i'm not saying that you're cheating on me but it's like a baby step for any temptation
00:53:28i'm dealing with so much over here by myself i'm dealing with your problems i'm dealing with my
00:53:35problems and sometimes i don't feel like i'm being emotionally supported by you so you know i kind
00:53:42of felt like i was just a little bit desperate just to just to be understood and just heard
00:53:52if you feel like sometimes you can talk to me
00:53:55i mean but like who could afford therapy right now
00:54:18she's not taking any accountability that you know she played a part in why i reached out to a friend
00:54:26i need to be able to rely on my wife but she makes it impossible
00:54:32even when i'm like at work and you're going through something i always try to be there for
00:54:36you emotionally you know okay listen i try but i don't see you trying for me when do you show up for
00:54:44me in that way oh god
00:54:46like hello i've been i've been waiting for you for six years i have devoted invested so much love
00:54:59i know you've made you know some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long
00:55:12i know you've made you know some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long and i do apologize
00:55:28and i do take accountability for what i've done okay okay
00:55:38so you're gonna stop talking to her
00:55:40i can stop but can we at least work on our communication okay okay that's all i want boo that's
00:55:54that's it with jubon coming out to the philippines i do feel like i could let go of some negative
00:56:03feelings about this situation but even though he agreed that he's not gonna talk to that woman anymore
00:56:10do i believe it no not really so i will definitely talk about this again in person do you think we can
00:56:26like move past it like when we see each other
00:56:39do you think we can do it well look at this place this was a church oh 1588 man that is old it's
00:56:55old here we got some rings here what's this you guys
00:57:02yes
00:57:05yeah it's precision oh my goodness we call that fiesta oh yes that's a culture for catholics here
00:57:14in my country goodness yes my god yeah it's really cool look at this
00:57:24i decided to take for us and his family to chinatown because i'm a chinese mix my mom is chinese descent
00:57:32so i wanted to show how chinese culture inter-bonded with philippina culture
00:57:39smell that oh that smells so good so this is a place that to make handmade noodles
00:57:45i eat that air hello oh yesterday i was quite a little nervous to meet forest parents especially molly
00:57:55okay thank you thank you there's been problem between me and molly but i'm so glad that she
00:58:01happened to accept me and i wanted to provide them the best first day here in the philippines
00:58:09yum oh thank you slurps up and slurps up huh yeah actually that's here the culture you want to slurp
00:58:17it means you're eating the good noodles so that's a good sign so the loud are the best right yeah yes
00:58:22here i go yeah you are the king of slurp forest i made sure to get on my glasses that's the that's the
00:58:30key this is all good yeah well sheena i wanted to to thank you for your apology yesterday i mean that
00:58:41really showed a lot um to me but i did i did want to uh ask you about a few things
00:58:53okay okay mom i'm listening and i need you to be able to look me in the eye
00:58:57and i need you to be truthful with me 100 percent
00:59:05you lied to us about giving your parents the money
00:59:11this was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to america to be a family with us
00:59:17and these were the plans all of these years and then for it to just find out now before we come here
00:59:28that hasn't been happening
00:59:31why have you lied to us all along
00:59:39i really owe you millions and thousands of explanation i i hope you could listen to my city
00:59:44you have the reason why that i happen to give my money to my parents is because being a breadwinner
00:59:53it's a cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around
00:59:59i mean i completely understand giving your parents money needing to help your family that's what family
01:00:04does but my issue with it is that you lie
01:00:14that's the reason i was so scared because my parents my mom happened to guilt tripping me from
01:00:26time to time if i don't give them money she makes me feel that i'm such a selfish person and it hurts me a
01:00:34lot okay but if i'm asking you a direct question i need that direct answer and even now you haven't
01:00:41given me a direct answer as to why you continued to hide it
01:00:50watching sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful i i'm wanting to step in and defend her and
01:00:58protect sheena but at the same time i i don't understand what fear she had of telling me
01:01:05i was so fearful of my parents they would say bad things to me they would say bad things to other
01:01:12people okay and it affects me emotionally mentally drains me and it makes me feel so bad no no sheena i'm
01:01:21not asking you that i'm asking you why you did not tell us
01:01:30i couldn't handle myself anymore i can't sheena i can't understand what you're saying oh my god
01:01:39see there's your manipulation with the tears please put your tissue down
01:01:46i'm trying to have sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable
01:01:53so even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents
01:01:57what's the motivation for hiding it we gotta get answers
01:02:01oh my god this is really happening oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god i can't believe i'm
01:02:13doing this i love this but i am worried about some things she was physical with a woman
01:02:20oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god here it is awesome here we go yeah here goes everything
01:02:50thank you oh my gosh i'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life daniel in nigeria for the
01:03:03very first time what am i doing i don't know mom what are you doing certainly not what i would be doing
01:03:12it still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women i'm traveling across the world
01:03:19to meet a man and i love him i love him you're gonna see when i come home how excited and happy i am
01:03:27you're gonna see when i talk to you there how happy i am and you're gonna be happy for me
01:03:33i just i don't want it to ruin your heart
01:03:37come in from my pants oh god please don't
01:03:48here we go
01:03:52all right you remember the rules don't get married on the trip even when the divorce comes through
01:03:57yes and i would come clean about everything it'll be a foundation if you have questions i will ask them
01:04:07i love you i love you too i'm gonna miss you so much
01:04:11be safe oh god this is the biggest risk i've ever taken flying across the world
01:04:19to another country to nigeria africa to be with a man i have never met before i can't
01:04:25believe i'm doing this oh my god this is really happening oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god i
01:04:34can't believe i'm doing this
01:04:35i hope daniel will accept me for everything that i am and who i am and that he will become my sixth
01:04:47and final spouse
01:05:01so
01:05:15Oh
01:05:22Yeah, I know happy. Yeah, nobody yeah, no, I've been a bubble
01:05:40Please give me 500 another pepper
01:05:45My name is Daniel. I am 29 years old.
01:05:50I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe.
01:05:53We have traditions and we believe in traditions.
01:05:56As an Igbo man, we love competition.
01:05:59We work hard and we have to be honest.
01:06:12I grew up very poor.
01:06:13Sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food.
01:06:18My family do the best they can do.
01:06:20And I am really close to my family.
01:06:23But some years ago, I lost my mom.
01:06:26Before she died, she told me that during the war,
01:06:30she nearly be killed, that a white woman protected her.
01:06:33And I have to make sure that I get married to a white woman.
01:06:36So I decided I will do it.
01:06:38And that's how I found Lisa.
01:06:40It's like fire burning up.
01:06:44Lisa is 52 years old.
01:06:47She lives in Pennsylvania.
01:06:48She's a beautiful woman.
01:06:50She has a good body structure.
01:06:53She's thick.
01:06:54She has bops.
01:06:55She has what I want.
01:06:59She doesn't hide anything.
01:07:01She supports me financially.
01:07:03She makes me feel loved.
01:07:04That's why I fell in love with her.
01:07:08Take it down like iron.
01:07:13I've been hungry.
01:07:14Yeah.
01:07:15Okay.
01:07:16Look howrise to live.
01:07:17Here's the whole day.
01:07:18Yeah.
01:07:19I laugh.
01:07:19I'm sleepy.
01:07:20There's no love.
01:07:23You see you.
01:07:25I have to admit,
01:07:26I was born in mahoudeon.
01:07:26In me.
01:07:29I haveиться to live.
01:07:30I was born enough to live a sunset.
01:07:32I can see you learn more about it.
01:07:36I don't know how to do it, but I don't know how to do it.
01:07:58In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:08:07I love this, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:12One, she vaped.
01:08:14Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:18And three, she was physical with a woman one time.
01:08:23This is the worst.
01:08:33We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:08:37Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:41So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:45She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:08:48But I'm nervous.
01:08:49She's so angry.
01:08:50She has stopped it.
01:08:51She's so angry.
01:08:52I have to do it.
01:08:54I'm sorry.
01:08:55I'm sorry.
01:08:57I am sorry.
01:08:59I am sorry.
01:09:00I am sorry.
01:09:01Humor!
01:09:18Now that the ancestors are approved,
01:09:21I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:28I'm planning a big surprise for this.
01:09:31When I meet her at the airport,
01:09:35I've been talking to God Almighty
01:09:36to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:39If I marry Lisa,
01:09:40she'll make me change the story of my family,
01:09:43and if I should make it to America,
01:09:45this will change my life to good.
01:09:49They will.
01:10:01I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:03Yes.
01:10:05Oh, it feels like it got colder.
01:10:06It gets cold or gets hot.
01:10:10No straight weather.
01:10:14Wow.
01:10:23Here we are.
01:10:25Oh, we're here?
01:10:29Here you go.
01:10:30I will take this.
01:10:31You're welcome.
01:10:32After all of this excitement, anticipation,
01:10:35and buildup of coming to Turkey
01:10:38and meeting Birkan face to face,
01:10:40it's starting off a little bit awkward.
01:10:43But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
01:10:48It just feels so right.
01:10:51I'm excited to see this.
01:10:55Here you go.
01:10:56Oh, you want me to go first?
01:10:57Yeah, of course.
01:10:58OK.
01:11:01Oh, my God.
01:11:02This is huge.
01:11:03Oh, yeah.
01:11:05This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:08This is amazing.
01:11:10This kitchen is bigger than almost my every house, so.
01:11:14This is incredible.
01:11:17You'll like this.
01:11:18Oh, my God.
01:11:19I love this.
01:11:20I'm going to move here.
01:11:21You can see the sea.
01:11:23Everything?
01:11:25Oh, my God.
01:11:26Wow.
01:11:27This is amazing.
01:11:28I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally
01:11:31be here and to finally be able to see it.
01:11:34Oh, my God.
01:11:35Wow.
01:11:36This is amazing.
01:11:37I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally
01:11:38be doing this.
01:11:39It's worth it, all the trip.
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:45I know it's worth it.
01:11:46Yeah, I know.
01:11:48So how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:11:56That sounds awesome.
01:11:57Let's do that.
01:11:58Let's do that.
01:11:59All right.
01:11:59OK.
01:12:04This is the best part of Izmir.
01:12:08This is incredible.
01:12:09This is incredible.
01:12:10I would love to, like, live right there, like, with this view every day.
01:12:14Yeah.
01:12:14I like these old buildings.
01:12:15Yeah.
01:12:16I like these old buildings.
01:12:17I do, too.
01:12:18Yeah.
01:12:19Yeah.
01:12:21Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:26I love that.
01:12:27Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:27That's, like, really profound.
01:12:28Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:29Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things, and he has a way of taking things that
01:12:36are just very simple and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion around it.
01:12:42It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:44When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:49Sometimes it's a little exhausting, because I'm like, oh, my God, it's just the sunset.
01:12:51I guess we've got to go this way.
01:12:52Go back this way?
01:12:53Yeah.
01:12:54I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:12:55I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:11I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately, I like it, and I wouldn't change
01:13:16it.
01:13:17How was your day?
01:13:20Yeah, it was good.
01:13:24I enjoyed it.
01:13:26How about you?
01:13:27I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:29I traveled a time to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights, and...
01:13:42I'm exhausted, and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:45Okay.
01:13:46You want to go to bed?
01:13:49Actually, it's just nine o'clock, and I have no sleep.
01:13:56Okay.
01:13:57So, why don't you go to some sleep, and I will watch some TV, and join you after.
01:14:04Good night.
01:14:05Have a nice night.
01:14:06All right.
01:14:07Good night.
01:14:08Good night.
01:14:09Good night.
01:14:10Good night.
01:14:11Good night.
01:14:12Nobody is Schüler.
01:14:14Good night.
01:14:15What the night?
01:14:16Good night.
01:14:19Good night.
01:14:20Okay.
01:14:21Good night.
01:14:22Good night.
01:14:24Agreed.
01:14:25Good night.
01:14:26Um, Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:39He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:45And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:48I said, everything's good.
01:14:51And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:14:56So I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:02But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:09Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:12It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:17I feel like it's not this, like, super great magical moment.
01:15:21Just feels off. I don't know how to explain it. Just feels off.
01:15:26It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:38And so, I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:43And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something.
01:15:46Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:51But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:15:55Ain't there, Collins?
01:16:08Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:11I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:13It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:15Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:17I want to end this now.
01:16:19You're acting all hostile.
01:16:20I'm not.
01:16:21Yeah, you are.
01:16:22Forrest.
01:16:31My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:37Forrest, they should be helping me around.
01:16:39They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:42We can't understand you.
01:16:43You have to speak.
01:16:47You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:52I need you to really, please, point blank.
01:16:57You were giving your parents money.
01:17:00Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:05Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:22They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:26Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:33Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:38I didn't have a lawyer anymore.
01:17:40It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:43The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:45I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:47It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:04Oh, you were scared.
01:18:05Forrest would have come to me and said,
01:18:08Mom, I got to get on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:11I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:12But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:17and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:22Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:30A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:33I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:38you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:41Mom, it's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:46But that still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:49It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:50It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:18:58I believe Sheena's not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:02I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:04And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is, you know, diarrhea of the mouth.
01:19:16I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:22Obviously, she knows she did wrong.
01:19:26What's your goal here?
01:19:28Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:31I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:38Because ultimately, the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:46Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on.
01:19:55I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:01It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:04Which is what she should have done to set up with you years and years ago.
01:20:09Yeah, we could sit there and we could talk about the past.
01:20:11And he said, she said he could do that.
01:20:13She cannot do that.
01:20:14It's time to move forward now.
01:20:16Forrest?
01:20:18I want to add this now.
01:20:22I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:24I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:26You're acting all hostile.
01:20:28I'm not hostile.
01:20:28Yeah, you are.
01:20:30And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:34You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:35I tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:39Disaster.
01:20:42It's okay, babe.
01:20:47I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:50He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:20:56Now he sees us as the big, bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:02But still, I have to always protect Forrest because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:08And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:24This is so surreal.
01:21:26Come on.
01:21:28Where are you?
01:21:28This is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:37Are you nervous?
01:21:41A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:42Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:47I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:53This card is best as possible.
01:21:55But I'm immediately regretting having Fearcom come with me.
01:21:59I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:01I've been looking at your page.
01:22:08Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:11Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:13No, no, there isn't those.
01:22:14Yeah.
01:22:14I downloaded this extension on my laptop.
01:22:18And it shows you who people follow.
01:22:21This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:25So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:28Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents
01:22:34and how it's important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:38I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do
01:22:41if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:42I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:46Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:52Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:54Now the story changes again.
01:22:56I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:03What the heck?
01:23:07I can't get out of there.
01:23:10I love him with everything I am.
01:23:13But he doesn't know that I've been married five times
01:23:16and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:19What are you doing?
01:23:22I can't get out of there.
01:23:23I love him.
01:23:28I can't get out of there.
01:23:30I don't care
01:23:32wait
01:23:34wait
01:23:38wait
01:23:44wait
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