Mixed Signals In Marriage Dr Oh Eun Young 😳⚠️ ｜ Oh Eun Yeong's Report Marriage Hell EP150 ｜ KOCOWA+

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00:00The two people are actually actually

00:06in reality, in reality, in reality.

00:10When I talk to my husband,

00:13I'm very careful.

00:16But I don't think I have any idea.

00:19But I'm very careful.

00:21I'm very careful.

00:24I'm very careful.

00:27So if you want to be a child, you want to be a child, you want to be a child, or you want to be a child.

00:36Then you think, I feel like I'm going to be a child, I'm going to be a child, but I'm going to be a child with a child, but why do I want to be a child?

00:46Like this, it's an obvious expression.

00:50So, you can't tell your thoughts about your mind and feelings.

00:58And you can't tell your thoughts about it.

01:00You can't tell your thoughts about it.

01:06I think you can't tell your thoughts about it.

01:10Because I'm a woman's a liar, I think.

01:13So like I said, I'm not a burden than a little bit, but I feel like I'm not a burden.

01:18I feel like I'm not a burden, but I feel like I'm not a burden.

01:24I feel like it's a bit more common to me.

01:28But I understand my husband's feelings.

01:30I don't think it's a problem.

01:34중요한 주제를 이야기할 때 생각을 차근차근 솔직하게 표현하는 거 그리고

01:42느끼는 마음을 진솔하게 잘 표현하는 게 빠져 있으니까 오해를 자꾸 하게 되는 거죠.

01:48그런데 그러면 개선이 필요할 것 같아요.

01:55근데 남편이 이렇게 표현을 만약에 했다면 아내는 어떠셨을 것 같으세요?

01:59지금 내가 말하듯이 이렇게 표현을 했다면?

02:01I think I would like to say that I would like to speak more about what I would like to do.

02:08Yes.

02:10I think that my wife is very upset when she was in the moment.

02:16She was very upset when she was in the middle of a lot.

02:20She had to go to the other things.

02:22She was in the middle of the city.

02:24She was in the middle of the city.

02:26She was in the middle of the city.

02:28But it was difficult to get out of the way, and it was difficult to get out of the way.

02:35Then it was a bit more difficult to get into the people.

02:39And when I was a kid, I was not able to protect myself.

02:44And when I was a kid, I was able to do something like that.

02:49I was able to do something like that.

02:52역시 내가 가장 힘들고 어려울 때 남편이 보호를 안 해주는구나.

02:59그러면 이제 아내는 약간 수동 공격적인 방법으로 남편을 대하시는 것 같아요.

03:06그러니까 남편이 가장 해결하기 어려운 면이에요.

03:08왜냐하면 무정자증이기 때문에 임신을 해결하는 건 너무 어려운 일이거든요, 남편한테는요.

03:14이런 것들이 마치 남편에게 약간 수동 공격적으로

03:18너 이 상황에서 나를 잘 보호 못했으니까 어쨌든 너 안을 좀 내봐.

03:24약간 이런 면이 있는 거예요.

03:25그래서 남편이 더 그 상황에서는 공격을 받는다고 느끼는 거예요.

03:30느끼니까 이런 느낌이 있을 때 남편은 완전히 고드름, 머릿속이 하얘지는 것 같아요.

03:37아무 생각이 안 나고 백지장이 되고 완전히 얼어버리는 거죠.

03:41이 상황은 안전하지 않은 상황이 된 거죠.

03:44그러니까 이런 상황에서 말을 하는 것보다 말을 안 하는 것이

03:48어쩌면 더 낫다라는 생각도 하시는 거예요.

03:51알겠습니다.

03:57감사합니다.

03:58You

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