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00:00But if we have extra set, right?
00:02Yeah, true.
00:04But like, I'm getting ready to head out soon.
00:21It'll go by quick.
00:22I feel like if I don't maintain the relationship I have
00:25with Jackie, then they're not going to maintain the relationship
00:29that they have.
00:30We know she wants more kids.
00:32Would you change your mind?
00:33No.
00:34Keep in mind, we could lose Jackie over this.
00:38I would love to try the birthday cake.
00:40I'll just get the vanilla.
00:41Not even venturing out a little.
00:43This is ice cream.
00:45I'm on my first date with someone other than my wife,
00:48and I am nervous as heck.
00:50There's a lot riding on this.
00:51I don't think we're going for the same thing.
00:53I was just kind of looking to have more fun.
00:56It's really scary.
00:57Nice to meet you.
00:57Knowing that that could have been our one and only chance.
01:02Love it.
01:05I want to feel like I'm a part of this family 100%.
01:09There are times that I call into question on whether or not
01:12Teresa is ready for this.
01:14There are some red flags that I'm seeing.
01:27Are you guys ready?
01:32You ready, babies?
01:33They're so big now.
01:34They've gotten so big.
01:35Today, we're going to see our friends, Tia and Ashley.
01:39I met them back when I was in high school.
01:44Hi.
01:45Hi.
01:46Hey, guys.
01:47Hello.
01:48How are you?
01:49To us, they're super special because they're also our egg donor and they helped us have our children.
01:55They're so big.
01:57They're so big.
01:58They're so big.
01:59I am one years old now.
02:00I am one years old.
02:01When Tia and I started our fertility journey, we obviously went through a fertility clinic and I seen many people that came in as a struggle and it just always touched me to help someone so that's when I had the chance to do it, I threw the idea out.
02:19I love my little red head.
02:20Yeah.
02:21I can't believe how red his head is.
02:22I know, that red and blue.
02:23But you have red.
02:24Your mom is red.
02:25She was wishing for that red head.
02:26Yeah.
02:27It's just crazy to see how big they are now.
02:28Can you believe it?
02:29I wouldn't have thought a couple years ago we'd be here now, you know?
02:30Oh, yeah.
02:31So, Ashley and Tia have two children of their own and we've got the twins and they're actually
02:35all half siblings.
02:36So, we love that they all have two children of their own and they're actually half siblings.
02:48So, we love that they all get to come together and hang out.
02:51So, how's everything going with the search and this adventure?
02:57You guys have started off.
02:59So, I actually have gone on one blind date but the woman is more interested in Billy than me so it hasn't been as easy as I thought it would be.
03:08What?
03:09Totally, you can reel them in.
03:11So, the date with Bez was very interesting.
03:15Hi, Arise.
03:16Sorry, my hands are sweaty.
03:19Oh, no, you're fine.
03:20Yeah, definitely didn't go as I had planned.
03:24Are you wanting more kids?
03:26Um, I can't have more kids.
03:28Okay.
03:29Yeah.
03:30I just, yeah, you could tell my dating game is off.
03:34So, I'm just really deflated now because, like, we're back to, like, square one.
03:41Like, is this really meant for us or is this how it's going to be every time?
03:46So, I'm on the dating apps but I'll start a conversation with someone and then I tell them what they're, what we're doing, what we're looking for and they just ghost me.
03:56They're like, oh.
03:57And we've looked in, like, communities around, you know, Indianapolis.
04:00Oh my gosh, I'm getting started on that.
04:02There's, like, a lot of lingo you have to try to memorize.
04:05Like, you would tell people, like, this is what we are trying to do and they're all like, no, like, that's not okay because we're, you know, everybody has to be open to a relationship.
04:13It's called, like, unicorn hunting.
04:15Yeah.
04:16Unicorn hunting is when individuals or couples are seeking a third partner, normally, like, a bisexual woman, either for casual sex or formal partnerships.
04:26That's not.
04:27Yeah.
04:28That's not what I'm looking for.
04:29And that's what we got kind of deemed as, like, oh, this is what you're doing and there's dragon hunting, too.
04:34What is that?
04:36Dragon hunting is when a couple brings in a man who is usually bisexual and they form a triad.
04:46Someone said something about, like, harem building.
04:48Harem building is where there's one man and multiple, multiple women and the intentions there is really to bear his children.
04:57That sounds like a cult from Outward.
04:59Yes.
05:00That sounds like a cult or, like, a handsmaid.
05:03Yeah.
05:04I mean, pregnancy for me, like, is high risk, so it'd be nice to be able to, like, grow our family without, like, having to do that, like, myself.
05:14But at the same time, we have, like, we only have our five embryos, so we only have those, those five, that's five and that's it.
05:21Like, if they work, they work, if they don't, they don't.
05:23Like, it's a, it's a Hail Mary, so.
05:26Pregnancy was kind of rough on me.
05:29I mean, it was a twin pregnancy after all, so I was high risk.
05:32Don't be spilling it.
05:33Yeah.
05:34And we only have five embryos left from the eggs that Ashley had donated to us, because, like, I can't make a baby, but I can carry a baby.
05:42And I feel like, you know, as I'm getting older, my window is closing for having children, so, you know, we only have so much time.
05:52I did throw out to Tia that if you guys couldn't and it didn't work out, I told her I would be okay being pregnant again.
06:01So, I really love being pregnant and everything, and I know the struggles that both of you have gone through.
06:06So, I'm willing to carry a baby for you guys.
06:13Just to expand your guys' family, and you guys won't even, wouldn't have to consider these other options to go through that.
06:23Oh, that's crazy.
06:24Oh, my gosh.
06:25Yeah.
06:26That is something to think about.
06:29I am shocked.
06:31She's already done so much for us.
06:34I couldn't believe that she was even offering that.
06:37Oh, goodness gracious.
06:40That's for the babies.
06:41Yes.
06:42That's right.
06:43That's right.
06:44I see how much they love children.
06:46I want them to build what they want, and it's just something I wanted to offer if she couldn't build her family.
06:54Like, even getting these babies from you was like, I feel like I owe you so much.
07:00That means a lot.
07:02I think that there's a lot of stuff that she, information that she gave us and that we need to digest and we need to think on before we make a decision over this.
07:11Yeah.
07:12It's a lot.
07:13Yeah.
07:14It's a lot to process.
07:15Not expecting that at all.
07:16It's something we can discuss.
07:17Yeah.
07:18We can definitely discuss further because that's big information.
07:35Hello.
07:36How are you?
07:37I'm good.
07:38And to you?
07:39I'm very good.
07:42How is your day today?
07:44Um...
07:45Ocupado?
07:46Mm-hmm.
07:47Busy.
07:48Busy.
07:49Yeah, today busy.
07:50A little tired?
07:52Tired?
07:53Tired?
07:54As coisas vão bem.
07:56Gente, agora eu tô fazendo aula de inglês três vezes na semana.
08:00Então é algo que eu tenho no meu coração que eu deveria estar aqui e eu tô muito feliz.
08:06Booty.
08:07Booty.
08:08Booty.
08:09Booty.
08:10Booty.
08:11Booty.
08:12So Lorena's been here now for two months.
08:13Things have been going really well.
08:15It's been a little adjustment with the sleeping.
08:18But it's gone pretty well.
08:22We're doing two days each wife and then Sundays I just am alone.
08:30Like a day of rest.
08:31Each wife's a little different, and Lorena definitely does things different.
08:38After 18 years, like, you get used to things. It's not like she's doing things wrong, per se. It's just different, right?
08:45Like, folding towels differently, I've noticed.
08:48She doesn't really, like, sort the laundry, like, colors and things like that.
08:53Oh, like, you know, when you put a hanger on, like, in the closet, like, the way it faces, like,
09:00she'll put it, like, behind, does that make sense?
09:03Oh, the opposite.
09:04Like, the opposite way, like, you put it forward.
09:07Huh. She does it both ways.
09:08Oh, she does both.
09:09Sometimes she puts it behind, and I'm like, what? It's just different to me.
09:14I have to get used to Lorena's sugar.
09:16She is a sugar queen.
09:18Oh, my God.
09:24You would think 90 days seems like a long time, but it's really not.
09:27You know how fast time flies. I think when you have kids, you realize how fast time flies.
09:33We were just really focused on enjoying my time with her.
09:37So it was like, wow, this is moving quickly.
09:40You guys want to sit and start talking and see about trying to call that lawyer?
09:45We all hope to do a big white wedding, big celebration with all the family and friends.
09:50You like?
09:51Yeah, see?
09:52Flowers?
09:53Oh, look!
09:54Sister, pictures, photos?
09:56We tried to get it all coordinated, but there were so many moving parts.
10:00With trying to fly people in on dates that worked for everyone, finding the right venue, getting the prenup ordered,
10:06it all just honestly zip by really fast, so we're going to have to do a courthouse wedding instead.
10:12Once we file the paperwork, it said it can take two weeks.
10:19We have 17 business days left until we have that 90-day mark, and it's going to take like 14 of those days to file for her adjustment of status.
10:27And once they are legally married, our immigration lawyer can then file her adjustment of status paperwork.
10:33So we need to get married tomorrow.
10:36Otherwise, we risk Lorena being deported.
10:39So this has got me a little stressed out, this whole place we hired to do the prenuptial agreement.
10:46It doesn't have the proper people to speak Portuguese, so they can't finalize that.
10:52Because it's not valid, which makes sense, right?
10:54Because she has to understand it.
10:55She's not fluent in English.
10:57Yeah.
10:58She needs somewhat like representation, like somebody, a third party telling her what's in it, like in Portuguese, right?
11:07Wow.
11:08Garrick was doing like prenup stuff online, and he realized when he got like to the end of it that it's really important that it's translated into Portuguese.
11:18It's verified by a third party that Lorena understands it or is not valid.
11:22They haven't called back yet today, so it's got me stressed out because we got to get this done immediately.
11:27With no prenup, that will leave me, the kids, and my brother's business completely unprotected legally.
11:33Mm-hmm.
11:34But then we're also looking at the timeframe of her K-1 visa expiring, so both things are extremely important for the protection of her family and for Lorena staying here.
11:43If we can't get this prenup finalized by the end of the day, we are going to be in an impossible situation.
11:48Oh my gosh.
11:51We have to have them finalize this today.
11:54Oh God.
11:55We should have researched this better.
11:57I thought it was the same day.
11:59Why did you wait when this was so serious of a matter?
12:03Honestly, I think we thought that it would be a lot easier with the prenup than it was.
12:08Just there was a lot of little details to the process that we didn't realize.
12:12Looking back and thinking, should we have started this earlier?
12:17I mean, yeah, we should have.
12:18I mean, we didn't realize how complicated, all the little different details.
12:23I think it's a race against time now, especially since there are only a few days left, right?
12:32So it makes me a little sad.
12:34I won't deny it with a heavy heart, but I trust in God.
12:38I hope there will be time.
12:40God has brought us this far.
12:42He's not going to fail us.
12:43I feel a little worried and emotional.
12:46I'll pray it'll be okay.
12:50Yeah.
12:51I think you should call that lawyer right now.
13:09Okay.
13:12I don't even know the process if some kind of hiccup and the paperwork and immigration
13:18isn't filed in time and they kick her out.
13:20Like, she'd go back to Brazil and we'd have to restart the process over, reapply.
13:26But that'd just be devastating.
13:29To me, the whole family, we've come this far.
13:31It's been six years.
13:33Finally, it's working out.
13:34And then she's away from us again.
13:37I just, I don't even want to go there.
13:40Yeah, it would just destroy everything.
13:43So, we're a plural family.
13:46My husband and I aren't legally married any longer.
13:49But we brought a woman here from Brazil and she's on a K-1 visa.
13:56And her and Garrick are tomorrow going to the courthouse to get the marriage certificate and everything.
14:02Okay.
14:08I feel definitely vulnerable and nervous.
14:11I'm thinking about my kids.
14:12I'm thinking about not only my kids, but the rest of my family.
14:15I mean, our house is in Garrick's name.
14:17Our construction company is in his name.
14:19And so, we need the prenup first.
14:21This could be a total disaster and that Lorena could take advantage of Garrick and I and our family.
14:27Okay.
14:28And then would I just call you back on this number?
14:31That would truly be devastating.
14:34I don't even know what words to describe how that would make me feel.
14:38Nick always says he just wants everybody to be okay and that everybody includes you.
14:52I do feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and downs of feeling amazing about myself and then days feeling like I'm worthless.
15:00Your insecurities are unfounded.
15:03They're baseless.
15:04How are you?
15:06Good. How are you?
15:07Tonight I'm going out to dinner with Jackie to talk about my boundary.
15:11Cheers.
15:12Cheers.
15:13Definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her.
15:17I figured this would be a conversation to have between like woman to woman.
15:25Tough topic, really.
15:37You want to sit?
15:38Yeah.
15:39Blueberries?
15:40I want grapes.
15:41Grapes?
15:42Yeah.
15:43Blueberries?
15:44I want grapes.
15:45Grapes?
15:46Yeah.
15:47I want grapes.
15:48I want grapes.
15:49Okay.
15:50Come on, bud.
15:51Let's go play.
15:52Yesel has been gone for a while and with each travel for work, it just gets harder and harder and harder.
16:02Let's go.
16:03Let's go.
16:04Let's go.
16:05There's a new challenge.
16:06There's a new tantrum.
16:07Don't fight.
16:08Oh, see?
16:09There it is.
16:12Every day.
16:13I have so much going on.
16:15The kids work.
16:16What's the matter?
16:17A boo-boo?
16:18A boo-boo?
16:19This one?
16:20And just maintaining my sanity?
16:22To do it all alone?
16:26Mommy's going to build is pretty exhausting.
16:39Daddy texted us.
16:40Do you want to see what he said?
16:41Yeah.
16:42Yeah?
16:43Oh, it's a video.
16:44Can I turn it on?
16:45Sure.
16:46Daddy.
16:47Hey, man.
16:48Oh, man.
16:50I just, I miss you guys terribly.
16:53I'm just feeling a little lonely today.
16:56And I, just one of those days where I really, really wish I was, I was just home instead of being away from you.
17:03I'm missing him a lot.
17:05I hear his voice and I wish it was right next to me instead of in front of me on a screen.
17:11I hope you and the boys are doing good out there at home right now.
17:15You know, I'm sure they, they like to touch your patience a little bit.
17:18So I miss them.
17:19I wish I was the one that was at home reminding them who's in charge.
17:22Although they're not listening to me either.
17:24So.
17:25Hmm.
17:26Keywords either.
17:27Getting emotional about it now, but it's like, it's guilty because I want him to be home and he wants to be home.
17:32I'm glad, uh, it's a good thing.
17:34I mean, I guess we, uh, you know, we met Jackie when we did, you know, you're, I'm sure you're, you guys have been spending some time together getting to know each other, developing that friendship, which is great.
17:42You know, I can't wait to hang out with the both of you.
17:45The goal of having a sister wife for us is for someone to also be here for me when Yesel isn't here to share parenting responsibilities, provide the level of intimacy and attachment that I'm looking for.
18:02Someone who's there for me in an emotional and supportive way.
18:07I love you and I miss you and I can't wait to see you.
18:12I know Jackie and Yesel have been texting daily, but Jackie and I really haven't communicated at all with each other.
18:19Jackie has texted me checking in, has asked if we can hang out a couple of times and I've definitely been stalling because we do have to talk about the whole baby issue.
18:31I did reach out to her to set up a dinner to talk about my boundary.
18:39My fear is the longer that I hold out on speaking to her, the more attached her and Yesel are going to get.
18:47And, you know, if this conversation doesn't go well, the more feelings are going to get her between her and him.
18:55Can I have a hug?
18:57Can I just miss Daddy?
18:59Okay.
19:00Okay.
19:02Okay.
19:03Okay boss.
19:04Okay boss.
19:05Let's do it.
19:07All right, the pancakes are done.
19:23The meat is basically done.
19:27Guys, look what came today.
19:31Today we are going to be giving Nick the special custom boudoir calendar that we made and we want to make it extra special.
19:41So we are making him breakfast in bed and all of us girls are going to take it downstairs and give him the breakfast and give him the calendar and do a big reveal.
19:49I think he is going to love it.
19:50Yes.
19:51I think he is going to be very, very appreciative and feel very special.
19:56When I first saw the photos I had a hard time with them.
19:59I think I was comparing myself to April and Jenny.
20:03You know, I am a little bit older.
20:05I have some past trauma with some past relationships where, you know, we get into arguments and they would, you know, call me ugly or old or washed up or things to hurt my feelings.
20:17And that's one thing I appreciate about Nick is even if he's upset with me, he's not belittling me or putting me down and making me feel less than worthy to be here.
20:25We're going to have to do the whipped cream.
20:29We know that Theresa has had a lot of trauma that she's had to work through and is still working through.
20:36And it creates a lot of self-esteem issues, a lot of her beating herself up.
20:43And so, unfortunately, we have seen quite a bit of her negative self-talk.
20:49Let's go.
20:51And it can just kind of create a bad energy in the house.
20:56Oh, hello.
20:57Hi.
20:58Good morning.
20:59What's going on?
21:00I'm here.
21:01Hi, everybody.
21:02We have a surprise for you.
21:03Oh, boy.
21:04Oh, wow.
21:05Lookie here.
21:06Breakfast and thanks for Nikki.
21:09Oh, this looks lovely.
21:12Thank you so much.
21:13You got some whipped cream on my pancakes.
21:15Yes.
21:16This is the kind of thing that, in this situation, I mean, I just wake up living a dream every day.
21:25I mean, it's just so much to be thankful for with the way our situation is set up.
21:29It's definitely something special for me to be involved with.
21:34We have another surprise for you, too, though.
21:36What?
21:37There's something else going on other than the breakfast and dinner?
21:38Yeah.
21:39Hold on.
21:40Hold on.
21:41Let's show you real quick.
21:42It's obviously a calendar.
21:44And we made it for you.
21:47It was Theresa's idea.
21:52Oh, wow.
21:53Oh, my lady.
21:54This is beautiful.
21:55What?
21:56What?
21:59We had so much fun.
22:00Oh, my babies.
22:01It's a nice treat for me, for sure.
22:05Oh, my goodness.
22:06It's fun things.
22:09I like sexy ladies.
22:10Yes.
22:11I like my women to be beautiful and intelligent.
22:13Yeah.
22:14They have to be both in capacities that are greater than mine.
22:18That's not easy to do.
22:19So, you know, I have a very high standard.
22:22So, yeah, I like sexy women, for sure.
22:27Oh, my babies.
22:28I love you all so much.
22:31I might have found my favorite picture.
22:34See, Theresa, I told you you didn't have anything to worry about.
22:36Look, she's crying.
22:38These are happy tears.
22:40Worry about?
22:41What could there possibly have been to be worried about?
22:44I was just feeling a little insecure that day in my lingerie and thinking I wasn't going to look that beautiful for you.
22:52Oh, gosh.
22:53And, um...
22:54You're beautiful, Theresa.
22:56I mean, I hope at some point you really do come to realize that your insecurities are unfounded.
23:05They're baseless.
23:06You don't need to let those things prevent you from enjoying yourself and your experience, Theresa.
23:13And not just in regards to a photo shoot or something, but just in terms of our life together and our relationship overall.
23:21You need no armor here.
23:22You know?
23:23Take...
23:24Put your shield down and just go ahead and relax and just allow yourself to just...
23:29Enjoy the ride.
23:30Enjoy the ride, Theresa.
23:41You know, Theresa, Nick always says that he just wants everybody to be okay.
23:48And that everybody includes you.
23:50You know, I just wish you knew that.
23:54I do feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and downs of feeling amazing about myself and then days feeling like I'm worthless.
24:02And, um, I feel bad because Nick is constantly always reassuring me.
24:08And I hope that I can get to a point in my life at some time where I'm as confident as the other girls are.
24:14I think what I'm needing, you know, in this relationship to feel more secure in our bond is definitely...
24:21I would love to change my last name to Davis.
24:25The reason that Theresa wants to change her last name is because she thinks that's going to fix her emotionally.
24:32She thinks that's going to make her feel better about all the things that she needs to address within herself.
24:38And it's not, it's not going to fix those things.
24:42I know it sounds crazy, but I really want to get a tattoo of all of you on my thigh.
24:46It just shows, like, permanence. Like, I'm not going anywhere. I know you guys aren't going anywhere.
24:52And it just will represent, like, that this is forever.
24:56I definitely feel like we're kind of in a tough spot right now with Theresa.
25:01Just because our love for her is truly genuine. And we also recognize that her love for us is authentic.
25:07But the relationship she has with herself is just so problematic that it could potentially be a reason why this situation doesn't work out between us.
25:21All right, so that was fun.
25:39So, what did you think...
25:42Oh my goodness.
25:43...what Ashley offered?
25:45That's so selfless.
25:46Like, she's already...
25:48Done.
25:49...given her eggs.
25:50Yeah.
25:51And now she's saying that she would carry for us? Who does that?
25:55I mean, do you think Ashley's offer could possibly eliminate, like, these struggles that we're having, though?
26:01Would we just, like, drop the whole idea of a sister wife?
26:04Like, it does sound really tempting because I'll be honest, it's been really stressful, this search.
26:10So, it would be really easy just to be, like, done. Now, hey, you know?
26:18I can't help but feel guilty about everything because this was initially my idea.
26:23And he's now the one who's going through it.
26:26It's all just been a lot for Reese. And there's a lot of pressure on him.
26:31I mean, it could be a solution.
26:35I would, I just, I don't know.
26:41Like, honestly, the first thing that came to mind was, like, I love that and that she would offer that.
26:48But that's, that's not why we're seeking a sister wife, is just to have a baby, right?
26:55Right.
26:56And at the end of the day, like, we want more babies, but we also, like, we want more adults too, though, you know?
27:02Like, we don't just, like, want 100 babies with just us.
27:05Like, we want...
27:06No, no. That's why we, that's why we want a community family.
27:08Like, that we all take care of each other and we all help each other.
27:12That's the whole point of it.
27:14I feel like if we gave up right now, I'd be a little disappointed.
27:17I feel like, like, we wouldn't have put, you know, our full potential on the line.
27:21And I feel like we have an amazing family to offer up and we're open to loving another family.
27:29I'm not done.
27:30I feel like this is something we can do.
27:32I really do believe in it.
27:33I believe in you.
27:34I believe that you can get it done and you can find someone.
27:38All right.
27:39So, I mean, we're still doing this, right?
27:41Yeah.
27:42You know, that is kind of just good knowing moving forward that she has offered that up.
27:47And if we, you know, maybe need to utilize that, it's an option.
27:52Exactly.
27:53So, give me a reason to stay in touch.
28:01If you knew my reason, you love, you love.
28:06Oh, morbid timing.
28:07How are you?
28:08How are you?
28:09How are you?
28:10It's nice to see you.
28:11Nice to see you.
28:12Tonight, I'm going out to dinner with Jackie.
28:14We haven't really seen each other since Yassil left, but we do have some heavy topics that
28:19we need to discuss and it's better done in person.
28:22I've actually never been here.
28:24Me either.
28:25It's so cute though.
28:26I'm excited.
28:27Talking to her about essentially me not allowing her to have a baby with my husband.
28:33So pretty.
28:36I mean, even saying it sounds harsh.
28:39Never mind hearing it.
28:41Cheers.
28:42Cheers.
28:43Definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her.
28:49But it's definitely something that needs to be said.
28:53You're welcome.
28:55Do you have anything for right now?
28:56No.
28:57We're good.
29:00So, how have you been since Yassil's been gone?
29:02It's like a learned difficulty.
29:04Uh-huh.
29:05So for me, it's like...
29:07Yeah, you've been through it before.
29:09Part of the gig, you know?
29:11Right.
29:12He does his best in like checking in with me and like how I'm feeling and how my day
29:17is going.
29:18I do feel like I'm getting closer to Yassil, although the distance has been very difficult.
29:24Every day that we get to talk, we get to learn more about each other.
29:29But since Yassil's been gone, Dani has completely distanced and removed herself.
29:35There was many times where I've tried to reach out to be there for her and just kind of like
29:42still, you know, have our relationship aside from Yassil and I's relationship.
29:46And I just felt shut out.
29:48So, now that Yassil is away, I figured this would be a conversation to have between like
29:55woman to woman.
29:56Right.
29:57So I know the last time we talked about kids, you definitely want more.
30:03Yeah.
30:04And I wanted to be completely transparent and open about how that would look for me and like
30:12the boundary that I do have.
30:14You know, I've told you I'm more than open to another baby and raising another baby.
30:21Like I have no problem going through all the phases again and I love it with my whole heart.
30:27However, the one like boundary I have with it is, I don't think, tough topic really.
30:41I don't think I'm able to handle him having another baby biologically with another woman.
30:51I don't think I'm able to handle Yassil having another baby with another woman.
31:19Yeah.
31:22Can I ask like why or like what stemmed this?
31:28You know, I've always wanted a girl.
31:32I didn't get my girl, which is fine.
31:34I love my boys.
31:35But my body's done.
31:37It would be way too high risk.
31:39So if another woman was to have Yassil's biological baby and that baby were to be a girl, I would feel robbed of an experience, I guess in a way, because it's not my girl.
31:56Like why couldn't I do this for him?
32:01So that being said, I'd be open to like exploring other options to have a baby.
32:09Like what would the other options be?
32:14I've given a lot of thought to a donor.
32:19Have you talked to Yassil about that?
32:21Mm-hmm.
32:22What's he said?
32:23I think he understands that if he does want more kids in the family, then that's how it's got to happen, I guess.
32:38I did not see this coming, honestly.
32:42I mean, all of my conversations with Dani previously about children have been, you know, that she was going to be a very much supportive part of that.
32:55So this definitely took me by surprise.
32:59My fear ultimately is that there's not that excitement that you would have conceiving a baby naturally.
33:06Right, right.
33:08That would be the last thing I would want.
33:15I feel like this is totally unfair to Yassil.
33:18He's always emphasizing how he would love to have more kids.
33:23I do think this is selfish of Dani.
33:27I feel a little bit hurt and I would be lying if I didn't, you know, tell you that.
33:33I mean...
33:36I kind of feel like you guys should have, like, talked to me about this when we first started talking.
33:43I did want to bring it up sooner, but I did want it to be a conversation between you and I without Yassil present.
33:52Which, unfortunate that we're like this deep in and we have to have it now.
33:57If you were in my shoes, like, would you think that this was fair?
34:02No.
34:04I'll always think there is a degree of unfairness.
34:07Like, please don't think, I don't think that.
34:09And I feel guilty about it.
34:11Yeah, Dani, like, I honestly, I really don't think this is fair.
34:15Like, you know, to, like, bring somebody else into the picture and just make, like, a decision solely based on your comfort.
34:26I mean...
34:27My intentions have been very clear since day one.
34:34I've asked about their boundaries.
34:36I've...
34:37This was never mentioned to me, so the fact that, you know, my feelings were taken into consideration for me feels incredibly selfish.
34:45You know, finding a partner that would be, like, open to having, like, more kids biologically, like, that's probably what's gonna be best for me.
34:56I think right now I just need to remove myself from this.
35:01Um...
35:05I can respect that.
35:06I appreciate that.
35:09Dani has some insecurities that she needs to address before trying to seek a sister way.
35:18I'll help with your back.
35:20You're welcome.
35:22I'm kind of disappointed because I was so vulnerable with them.
35:27I'm leaving very much hurt.
35:31It sucks.
35:33And it sucks that I have to go home and tell Yasol that this is how this turned out,
35:38because I don't think that's the outcome he wanted.
35:43There's a very good possibility that he's gonna be disappointed.
35:47One of my biggest fears in seeking a sister wife was disappointing both parties, and it's coming true.
35:56So I feel a lot of guilt and a little bit of shame to it,
36:03because I don't want to be the problem.
36:06And it feels like I'm the problem.
36:11We need the prenup first.
36:17Um...
36:18Not comfortable.
36:20If he's married with me, it's because he believes in me.
36:33Lorena?
36:35Sister?
36:36We're coming down.
36:37We started working on the prenup like three weeks ago.
36:39And yesterday, Garrick realized when he got, like, to the end of it,
36:43that it's really important that it's translated into Portuguese.
36:47But the lawyer that I thought was gonna work with us, she said she's not a certified translator.
36:52Hopefully we can get it figured out, because I think it's very important to have this in place before they legally get married.
36:59So, the lawyer's office told me she doesn't feel comfortable, because she's not a certified translator,
37:05and because just the time frame involved.
37:08She said there's no way it would be done tomorrow, from what she's telling me.
37:12Did you tell her we already have the document?
37:15I told her we have the document. I told her that.
37:18We need to get the marriage license immediately over to the immigration lawyer.
37:24The key is the prenup.
37:26We actually have to have her adjustment of status done, or she can be deported.
37:40Well, I mean, worst case scenario, I guess there's such a thing, this law firm in Colorado says,
37:45I don't even know what I've never even heard of, a post-marital agreement.
37:51So that's after, right?
37:53Mm-hmm.
37:54I don't feel comfortable with that.
37:57You risk if one party doesn't want to sign at that point.
38:03They don't have to, and you're already legally married.
38:07We need the prenup first.
38:08I don't understand.
38:09You're not comfortable.
38:10I don't understand.
38:11You're not comfortable with me.
38:12You're not comfortable with me.
38:13Why?
38:14Um, it puts me in a vulnerable spot if things aren't done right.
38:17If he's married with me, it's because he believes in me.
38:30I don't want to think of what it was for them, of rights, that they've been working for years.
38:39But now that I've arrived, we're going to start a new chapter together.
38:45Associate.
38:46Ranger.
38:47Be okay.
38:48Yeah?
38:49Yeah?
38:52Lorina's definitely my sister, and I trust her.
38:54I think it's just like the scars of the past too, with...
39:06of the past too with, especially Roberta mainly.
39:10And like people do things you never thought
39:12they would do, you know?
39:14Like I don't want the K-1 visa to expire
39:17and Lorena to be deported, but I also want to think
39:20about myself and my kids and all the moving parts too, so.
39:33We should research another law firm to see.
39:36We just need to get this all figured out soon,
39:38so I think we should call another one.
39:41We have to get married tomorrow, but the prenuptial agreement
39:45has to be translated today.
39:48Do I postpone the wedding and take the chance
39:51of Lorena being deported?
39:53Or do I go ahead and get married to Lorena without a prenup
39:59and put at risk what me and Daniela built the last 17 years?
40:03The way things are, I'm going to have to choose
40:07between my two wives.
40:17Randy?
40:18Yes.
40:18I'm Reese.
40:19Nice to meet you.
40:20Nice to meet you too.
40:21This is the second blind date that Nikki has set us up on.
40:24So is it going to be sexual too?
40:27I mean, it's part of it.
40:29Really?
40:30Yeah, so.
40:32The conversations were a little heavy.
40:35I'm just dreading breaking the news about what happened with Jackie.
40:39How did it go last night?
40:41She didn't like it.
40:43She felt that it was unfair.
40:46Well, that kind of sucks now, does it?
40:50It's been a nightmare today.
40:52We're trying to do the prenup today.
40:54I have some concerns.
40:56Garrick and I have a business together.
40:57And if the prenup doesn't get signed properly,
41:00I could end up not having anything.
41:05This is amazing.
41:06This is gorgeous.
41:08Matt invited me out tonight.
41:09I'm still really resentful that he has not reached out
41:13in as long as he has.
41:15Part of me is smitten that you put the effort in.
41:18But then the other part is like, is it too late?
41:22Is it too late?
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