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00:00:00To be continued...
00:00:30I know what I want, but most of all, I know what I don't want.
00:00:34It'll be his usual theatrics.
00:00:36Is there anything I regret?
00:00:39No.
00:01:00Good evening.
00:01:17Hi, Ola.
00:01:18Hi, Jill.
00:01:19How's it going?
00:01:20Thriving.
00:01:21Good evening.
00:01:29Good evening.
00:01:37Good evening.
00:01:44Good evening.
00:01:44Wow, what an entrance.
00:01:49From the first communion suit to the wedding suit.
00:01:54Hey.
00:01:59What a star.
00:02:00How are you?
00:02:09Good.
00:02:09You?
00:02:10Good.
00:02:12Hi, everyone.
00:02:13Hi.
00:02:13Hi, everyone.
00:02:15Hi.
00:02:15Nice to see you again.
00:02:16Wow, you look great.
00:02:19It's so nice to see you again.
00:02:20God, welcome to the reunion of Love is Blind, Italy.
00:02:24Almost a year has passed since the romantic days of the weddings took place.
00:02:29For some, they were truly unforgettable moments.
00:02:32Others, however, were tormented by doubts, by second thoughts just moments before the wedding.
00:02:38And then there are those who didn't make it to the special day.
00:02:42What we know for sure is that everyone here really put their hearts out there to find love.
00:02:49And they tried to do it in a very short time.
00:02:52What a normal couple like us, for example, tries to do in a lifetime.
00:02:58That is, to become one.
00:03:01That's right.
00:03:01Just like us?
00:03:02Yes, if you look at me like that, I'll get emotional.
00:03:04But you're right.
00:03:05That's exactly how it went.
00:03:06That's what happened.
00:03:07Tonight, almost a year after the experiment, we will find out if the couples who got married are still husband and wife.
00:03:16If those who didn't get married, but left a door open, for example, Parmi and Gergana, where are they?
00:03:26Where are they?
00:03:27There they are.
00:03:28We will find out if they are a couple or not.
00:03:31And then, for the couples who actually broke up, well, there are lots of things they might want to say.
00:03:39In short, we will try to celebrate love.
00:03:42But at the same time, to get closure from unfinished business.
00:03:48Oh, yes, it's going to be an interesting night.
00:03:50Let's get started.
00:03:51Come on, let's sit down.
00:03:52Let's start with a round of applause for encouragement.
00:03:56Come on, there's a lot of...
00:03:57A lot of emotions to experience.
00:04:00Above all, I'd say, and since you're the queen of Love is Blind Italy...
00:04:03There are lots of queens.
00:04:04I'll give you the honors of deciding which couple to start with.
00:04:10I want to start with...
00:04:12Look at them.
00:04:13With Gergana and Parmi.
00:04:15I mean, they are the Romeo and Juliet of Love is Blind.
00:04:18Is that so?
00:04:19Yes.
00:04:19Well, a little, yes.
00:04:21Because you made us dream.
00:04:23Your love, which began and grew while fighting against your families and cultural differences...
00:04:30I really believed in you guys.
00:04:33Then, the wedding day arrived, and Gergana said no.
00:04:39But I liked that you left a door open.
00:04:42You said, Parmi, I'm here.
00:04:45You know where to find me.
00:04:47So, the first question we're all asking ourselves is...
00:04:52Are you guys a couple today?
00:04:55Are you still together?
00:04:58I have to say...
00:05:00It's been months since that fateful no.
00:05:04And that no...
00:05:06Opened up, let's say, a new path for us.
00:05:13And this path has led us to get to know ourselves and our limits better.
00:05:19That no was correct.
00:05:23It was thoughtful, and it was smart.
00:05:28Beyond social conventions.
00:05:30It was the most thoughtful no.
00:05:36But did you expect it?
00:05:39Well, let's say that when you're on the spot in that moment, you expect a twist.
00:05:45Even from yourself.
00:05:46You can make a thousand plans, but when you get there, you put on a bow tie, you're all dressed up for the occasion, then you see your mom's face.
00:05:55I mean, of course you...
00:05:58Well, you get emotional, and then you see her come in.
00:06:01Guys, did you see her when she came in?
00:06:03Of course we saw her when she came in.
00:06:05No, I mean...
00:06:05She was gorgeous.
00:06:06Obviously.
00:06:08What would you have answered?
00:06:10Because we only heard...
00:06:11No, hold on.
00:06:11Are you guys a couple or not?
00:06:16No.
00:06:17We're not a couple.
00:06:18Let's say it.
00:06:19I mean...
00:06:19That's exactly what I didn't want to hear about.
00:06:21I mean, first of all, let's make this thing clear.
00:06:24You're not together.
00:06:25No.
00:06:25No.
00:06:27When you heard Gargana say no, what would you have answered had it been you who had to speak first?
00:06:34I would have said no, too.
00:06:35Oh, okay.
00:06:35I would have said no.
00:06:37But she told you, I'm here.
00:06:39Yes.
00:06:40And did you go?
00:06:41I mean, did you go see her?
00:06:43Did you meet after that day?
00:06:45Yes.
00:06:46Would you like to say something to you?
00:06:47Yeah, Gargana.
00:06:48He came to see you.
00:06:49You said, I left the door open, I'm here.
00:06:53We got in touch that very night after that no at the altar.
00:06:58That's the truth.
00:06:59Then living far away from each other started taking its toll and so did our differences.
00:07:08Because in such a short time, you don't know everything about a person and that's normal.
00:07:15And we saw each other a few more times and I took some days off.
00:07:22I went to visit him in Florence, he came to Milan and we saw each other there too.
00:07:28Of course.
00:07:29The only thing is that Parmi would maybe, he would combine stuff.
00:07:35Like, I don't know, he had to take his parents to the airport and then he would take some time for me.
00:07:42And there was never a time when he came up just for me, except for that time when we had to end the relationship.
00:07:49Yeah.
00:07:50Yeah, more or less.
00:07:51But I'm not an only child, I have a brother.
00:07:53He could have taken my parents to the airport by himself.
00:07:57If you remember, I would have liked to go on a trip together somewhere.
00:08:01Of course.
00:08:02But you said no.
00:08:03No, I said let's think about it.
00:08:06Let's think about it, but we never actually did anything.
00:08:10Can I say that I'm noticing a lot of misunderstanding between each other.
00:08:14Yeah, exactly.
00:08:15In the end, you both want the same thing from the other.
00:08:18But maybe there's someone who, and our experience taught us this, someone who sooner or later has to make a move.
00:08:25And maybe she was expecting you to do it because of what she told you.
00:08:30That you would take this decisive step towards her.
00:08:33But the impression you give is more of a misunderstanding than an actual lack of interest.
00:08:39I mean, more of a mutual heartening.
00:08:41No, it's a mix of misunderstandings.
00:08:43You have two completely different ways of approaching life and relationships, okay?
00:08:48He's very present, very warm, always close.
00:08:52In fact, the distance was a huge problem for him.
00:08:55No, because the geographical distance became an emotional distance.
00:08:59Inside the bubble, we experienced an intensity that you don't get to experience in real life.
00:09:08Once we got out of the bubble,
00:09:10we weren't able to feel something strong enough to say, okay, let's keep going.
00:09:22It seemed that as long as we were in the bubble, with the world against us, like our parents, the distance, and so on,
00:09:30we wanted to fight.
00:09:31We promised each other, okay, let's fight together.
00:09:35Because I always said, if you fight with me, I'll fight with you.
00:09:41That's all.
00:09:43But then, it's true.
00:09:46I feel the geographical distance, man.
00:09:48I feel it.
00:09:48I want you.
00:09:49I mean, you have to be there.
00:09:50If I want someone, okay, for me, there are no barriers.
00:09:56I mean, I try to make it work in any possible way.
00:09:59I would have liked it if you would have been more...
00:10:04I was there.
00:10:05I was there.
00:10:06I was always there.
00:10:08Did I ever get to see you?
00:10:09You were always there, but I wanted those words to materialize into something stronger,
00:10:13so that I could understand, okay, the distance is not good,
00:10:16but I can work on the fact that we can see each other,
00:10:19even if it's only now and then, but let's see each other.
00:10:22Do you still love him?
00:10:25Just like that, boom.
00:10:27I still have feelings for him.
00:10:29For me, Parmi is my home.
00:10:30It's a safe harbor where I always return.
00:10:33Can you Parmi?
00:10:34Parmi?
00:10:34I want to know, too.
00:10:35What a mess.
00:10:49No.
00:10:52Oh, all right.
00:10:52You know what?
00:11:00What I regret, um, not having asked you outside of here,
00:11:06if your feelings had changed, and to hear it today here.
00:11:11We weren't talking.
00:11:12I mean, I'm being honest.
00:11:14And for this, I'm sorry.
00:11:19I didn't know.
00:11:20But I accept it.
00:11:27I noticed that Giovanni was making these faces while you were talking.
00:11:31Well, yeah.
00:11:31Peculiar faces, let's say.
00:11:32Well, let's start telling some truths.
00:11:34Come on.
00:11:34I can only imagine your truth.
00:11:36Otherwise, all these little stories tend to be a little boring.
00:11:40May I?
00:11:40I mean...
00:11:40Well, not boring.
00:11:41When it comes to feelings, you can't.
00:11:43No, I'm saying this for Parmi.
00:11:44I mean, once the experiment was over, of course, Parmi was a very good person.
00:11:50He put a lot of heart into this thing.
00:11:52But Gardana?
00:11:53Of course.
00:11:53Once the experiment was over, goodbye and thank you.
00:11:57From whom?
00:11:58From her toward Parmi.
00:11:59No, she just said she's in love, and he's not in love.
00:12:02In love?
00:12:03Take part in.
00:12:04You got him.
00:12:04You got all the way to the altar and said no.
00:12:07Come on.
00:12:08Well, he also would have said no, so evidently.
00:12:11Come on, guys.
00:12:11He felt the same things.
00:12:13Parmi, he had called you Gargana's plan B.
00:12:15So, out of respect for everything I felt for her, because I still have a great relationship
00:12:24with her, I'm not going to sit here and let you call me plan B.
00:12:30Wow.
00:12:30Her plan B.
00:12:31You called yourself that?
00:12:33No, no.
00:12:33I have nothing to do with it.
00:12:34No, no, you did.
00:12:35No, she chose you as her plan B.
00:12:37So, this is how you see it.
00:12:39But can I tell you something?
00:12:40I tell the world.
00:12:40Can I tell you something?
00:12:41What do I have to do with it?
00:12:42And I really mean it from the bottom of my heart.
00:12:45Go ahead.
00:12:46We went into these pods.
00:12:48Yes.
00:12:49And we came out of them.
00:12:51One way or another, we moved on.
00:12:54So?
00:12:55You're still in the pods.
00:12:57I don't think so.
00:12:58Maybe it's the other way around.
00:12:59You said you don't love her anymore, but then you hold her hand.
00:13:02This means caring about each other.
00:13:04This is what it means to have managed to go a little deeper.
00:13:07I don't care.
00:13:08Excuse me, but how many people were you dating inside the pods?
00:13:12We'll have time to talk about this later.
00:13:14Because, of course.
00:13:15No, look, that's not the issue.
00:13:16I mean, we'll have time.
00:13:18That's not the issue.
00:13:19Stay focused on them.
00:13:20Gargana, Gargana, you played it very well.
00:13:23Of course I played it.
00:13:24I mean, you already had another option waiting, Gargana.
00:13:26You know what the truth is?
00:13:27You had another option waiting.
00:13:28You know what the truth is?
00:13:29And I feel sorry for Parma in all this.
00:13:32Because you're not the great woman you're trying to show yourself to be.
00:13:35Someone who used the same weapon against you.
00:13:38So you know that very well.
00:13:40You didn't.
00:13:40You never put yourself out there.
00:13:42Allow me to interrupt.
00:13:43The experiment ended.
00:13:43I'm sorry to interrupt you.
00:13:45I'm sorry to interrupt you.
00:13:46I mean, I think what you're doing here slightly diminishes what they expressed, which struck
00:13:52me as quite profound, especially given the difficulties they faced.
00:13:56The sincerity with which they confronted them.
00:14:00And I believe that one of the most important things, not only in this experiment, but in
00:14:05life, is being honest.
00:14:06Which they are still today.
00:14:08Gargana's honesty and courage to say that she still loves him.
00:14:12And Parmi's honesty and courage.
00:14:14I'm sorry that he hurt you, Gargana.
00:14:16Parmi's honesty and courage to say that at this moment, he feels he no longer loves her.
00:14:21I think there are some very deep feelings that I would prefer to keep that way and not
00:14:29trivialize them like this.
00:14:31Because if there is a meaning to love is blind, it is precisely this, that however things go,
00:14:37everyone lives this experience to the fullest.
00:14:40And so I think that however things turn out between you two, this has helped you understand
00:14:45some very important things about yourselves, right?
00:14:48I'd like to close this chapter.
00:14:51With a bit of hope.
00:14:54In my experience, distance, time, life can really surprise you.
00:15:03Maybe one day you'll work at the airport in Florence.
00:15:07I said that right away.
00:15:09We never talked about it, right?
00:15:11Seriously, think about the difficulty of your situation before closing every door.
00:15:17That's all I'm saying.
00:15:18But let's move on.
00:15:20Because now I want to talk about another couple who made it to the altar.
00:15:26But they didn't get married.
00:15:28And I'm talking about Ludovica and Davide.
00:15:32Ludovica got to the altar and she was radiant like a princess.
00:15:37She opened her heart and she said yes.
00:15:39And Davide, boom.
00:15:42He said no.
00:15:43Flat out.
00:15:44Let's start with Ludovica.
00:15:46If you picture yourself back at that altar when he said no, what are your...
00:15:51I dodged a bullet.
00:15:52I'm very happy that he said no.
00:15:54Oh, I see.
00:15:54Very happy.
00:15:55After everything I found out after our relationship ended, I'm very, very happy.
00:16:01And in our relationship, there were ups and downs.
00:16:05But because of how I am, I always thought that the right time would eventually come for us,
00:16:10that we would have been able to...
00:16:12So you believed in it?
00:16:13When you got to the altar, you thought Davide would say yes?
00:16:16No, I didn't know until the end because he always kept me on my toes.
00:16:20He never told me.
00:16:21I'll say yes or no.
00:16:23He always said, I'll decide at the last moment because it was part of his game to keep me around.
00:16:29And when did you decide, Davide?
00:16:31On the day of the wedding, or rather...
00:16:34Sorry, but such an important decision is made.
00:16:36It was very difficult, even if it doesn't seem like it.
00:16:39Also because I seem like the bad guy in this situation.
00:16:43I don't want to play the victim.
00:16:45But believe me, having the courage to say no in front of her family, her friends, my family and my friends,
00:16:54it wasn't a walk in the park.
00:16:56She really fought for us, and I have to acknowledge that.
00:16:59Yeah, that's no small thing.
00:17:00It was me who basically, at a certain point, started to tense up, but not because she was the wrong fit,
00:17:08not because she didn't do anything for me, but simply because, as we went on,
00:17:14I honestly started to realize that from an emotional point of view,
00:17:19there just wasn't that spark that was there in the beginning.
00:17:23It was missing for me.
00:17:24Yes, what you say is true, but there was a key moment in your story...
00:17:28Yes.
00:17:29Pun intended.
00:17:30...when maybe you had the worst regarding the issue of those infamous house keys...
00:17:34Yes, let's finally...
00:17:35But I don't...
00:17:35Come on, let me finish.
00:17:37Let me remind everyone how it went.
00:17:38Sure.
00:17:38Yes, let's see.
00:17:39Davide, you had left your house keys...
00:17:42Yeah.
00:17:42...with this friend of yours.
00:17:44Friend?
00:17:44You hadn't gotten them back right away, and then you went and got them back together.
00:17:49Of course.
00:17:49I mean, you said friend in a slightly ironic tone.
00:17:52A very good friend.
00:17:52You didn't believe she was a friend.
00:17:53She was never a friend.
00:17:55But how...
00:17:56How can you say that?
00:17:57Guys, who doesn't have...
00:17:57How can you say that?
00:17:58Sorry, but who doesn't have female friends?
00:17:59Wait, who doesn't end things before taking part in an experiment to get married?
00:18:03What kind of relationship did you have with her?
00:18:05I was seeing her.
00:18:06What do you mean?
00:18:06I was sleeping with her.
00:18:08What she said is true.
00:18:09During the show or before?
00:18:10Okay, but when?
00:18:11Huh?
00:18:11During the show or before?
00:18:12Before the show, yeah.
00:18:13Before?
00:18:14Never during the show?
00:18:15No, never.
00:18:16Davide.
00:18:16It was absolutely over.
00:18:17Everyone knows.
00:18:18Everyone.
00:18:19Yes, it's true.
00:18:20Everyone knows.
00:18:21But what do you mean, Karen?
00:18:22And I even have a story to tell.
00:18:24What are you guys talking about?
00:18:25Wait, wait.
00:18:25Sorry.
00:18:26Yes.
00:18:26Sorry.
00:18:26Karen has a...
00:18:27Karen, so when we were in Milan during the time we were living together, I went down
00:18:33to the market to do some shopping and I found Davide there, so I was a bit...
00:18:39I said hello and I went on my way.
00:18:41I went to buy my things and he came back to have a chat with me.
00:18:45In this chat, Ludo, which I didn't tell you about because there were some offensive words,
00:18:51he told me why he didn't sleep with her.
00:18:54Because I was sleeping with someone else?
00:18:56No.
00:18:56During the show?
00:18:57Because you didn't like her physically.
00:18:59Ludo?
00:18:59I didn't like Ludo?
00:19:00And that's why you didn't sleep with her.
00:19:02So I went back home.
00:19:05I talked to Nikola.
00:19:06Nikola, I'm sorry.
00:19:07I know you didn't want to get involved.
00:19:09He's your friend.
00:19:10But when I got home, I talked about this with Nikola.
00:19:13And Nikola said in these exact words, yeah, but he has someone else.
00:19:19So...
00:19:20To be honest, I don't remember this.
00:19:23I think we're confusing certain...
00:19:25I have to ask you a question, forgive me, because I think this is an important moment of truth toward the person you had chosen.
00:19:34Of course. Don't say you didn't.
00:19:34Toward us all as well and toward the program.
00:19:37Absolutely.
00:19:38So I'm asking you, be totally honest, were you emotionally free when the program started or not?
00:19:44Absolutely. Because the girl I was seeing before, who had the keys to my house, was someone I was seeing occasionally.
00:19:51I was never in a relationship with her.
00:19:53Okay, but occasionally means not being completely free.
00:19:57I mean, if you go to a place to find true love, to get married, you have to be completely free from a sentimental point of view, right?
00:20:05It was a plan B.
00:20:06I told you.
00:20:07But I did feel free, sentimentally speaking.
00:20:10Of course you did, because all that matters is you. Everything else around you doesn't matter.
00:20:15Very little.
00:20:16There could have been someone else instead of you who could have been perfect for one of us.
00:20:20Instead, you came to do what?
00:20:23You attacked me in every way, belittled me, even the fact that we didn't sleep together.
00:20:27For me, it was very hard to accept being rejected, but I wanted to see beyond that, because I'm stupid, I'm gullible.
00:20:34You're so magnanimous, really.
00:20:36You thought you weren't right, you weren't perfect, that it wasn't your fault.
00:20:40You made me feel, you made me feel that way.
00:20:42Okay, let me talk, Ludovica.
00:20:42And I realized it later.
00:20:43You've been talking this whole time, just a moment.
00:20:45At the same time, from this point of view, I felt like shit for this, you know?
00:20:51But, as I told you at the altar, in this situation, unfortunately, if I had to decide, I couldn't have said no to you.
00:21:00Because everything was perfect, Ludovica.
00:21:03You're my female equal.
00:21:06Understand?
00:21:06No, fortunately, those words don't work on me anymore.
00:21:09You know what the problem is, Ludovica, that you never understood.
00:21:09It's that clearly, at that very moment, at that moment, I didn't feel that extra push towards you.
00:21:18And to protect what we had, which for me, Ludovica, was important, I decided to say no.
00:21:26And today, I came here to try to ask Ludovica at least to get back in touch.
00:21:34Because for me, as friends, absolutely.
00:21:38Because she's someone who definitely has a place in my life.
00:21:42She had a very important place.
00:21:44After all the things she just said, I'm happy.
00:21:48I expected it.
00:21:49She had to vent a little.
00:21:50But it's how she is, guys.
00:21:52She came in all hyped up, huh, Ludovica?
00:21:54That's how she is.
00:21:55But to this day, I know who she is, and she knows who I am.
00:21:58I, when we, when the show finished, when at the end of the experiment, I found out.
00:22:04Ludovica, I came here to apologize.
00:22:05What I'm able to take away from all of this,
00:22:08First, that I left a very insecure Ludovica, who was afraid of not being enough.
00:22:14Not being enough.
00:22:15Who was always a little afraid to open up to love.
00:22:18And I found a tiger.
00:22:20So anyway, in my opinion, this experiment worked.
00:22:23Yeah, you are.
00:22:24Because now, you're not afraid of anyone.
00:22:27Right.
00:22:27Second, I really liked that at the end of this very long discussion,
00:22:33Davide said something very nice.
00:22:35He wanted to apologize to you.
00:22:37So, in my opinion, at this point, this is what remains of this story.
00:22:41Well, something positive.
00:22:42Something positive, I'd say.
00:22:44I think you should take these apologies home with you,
00:22:47for the no you received at the altar, and think about it.
00:22:51I will always believe that there's good in people.
00:22:54So, that's just the way I am.
00:22:57As far as the rest...
00:22:59Look, you're ready for love, Ludovica.
00:23:01I think that this experiment has prepared you for love.
00:23:05It will come.
00:23:06Be sure of that.
00:23:07Because you are a wonderful person.
00:23:10Never think that if a story didn't work out, it's your fault.
00:23:13Okay?
00:23:14I think it's me.
00:23:15I always end up choosing the wrong people.
00:23:17No.
00:23:18No.
00:23:18That's not true.
00:23:19You're a very honest person.
00:23:21And you're also so open.
00:23:22And that's a good thing.
00:23:24I mean, you really showed yourself to be someone who gave it 100%.
00:23:27who didn't get intimidated, even if things weren't going so well, who believed in it till the end.
00:23:33Till the end.
00:23:34That's beautiful.
00:23:35That's beautiful.
00:23:36I noticed some insecurities while watching the show.
00:23:38And I wanted to say, no, Ludovica.
00:23:41Look at yourself.
00:23:42Believe in yourself.
00:23:44You're wonderful.
00:23:45Keep being who you are and appreciate yourself, you know?
00:23:49This experiment should help you with this.
00:23:52Now, I'll give you a kiss because you deserve it.
00:23:55And please don't cry.
00:23:56I really think the show has helped you.
00:23:58I want to see you engaged and happy again.
00:24:02And you got to show the skirt again, which is beautiful.
00:24:05Of course.
00:24:05So that's great.
00:24:07Great.
00:24:08We started off a bit strong with these two couples.
00:24:12So now I'd like, since you're the one deciding, I'd like you to give me a gift.
00:24:18I mean, now I need a bit of love, tenderness, stories that...
00:24:23Stories with a happy ending.
00:24:25But no, wait, wait, no.
00:24:27Because Yoni and Alessandro got married.
00:24:31It was a crescendo of incredible love, which made our hearts burst with happiness.
00:24:36But the question now is, are you still married?
00:24:42Yes.
00:24:42I got scared.
00:24:46Thank goodness.
00:24:47I was shaking.
00:24:48I was shaking for a moment.
00:24:49I wasn't ready.
00:24:51So you're still married.
00:24:53See, now I...
00:24:54And we can see that you are radiant and happy.
00:24:57And we're so happy for you because you are proof that love is blind.
00:25:03Before we go on and talk about your whole story, I'd like to show an unreleased moment
00:25:08in which Yoni and Alessandro signed the documents that legally sanctioned their marriage
00:25:14and which, therefore, we still have to see.
00:25:17Should we watch it together?
00:25:18Let's watch it.
00:25:19Let's do it.
00:25:19Get your tissues ready.
00:25:20Do you, Mr. Alessandro Bianchino, wish to take Ms. Eun Yun-sung as your wife?
00:25:28I do.
00:25:29Do you, Ms. Eun Yun-sung, wish to take Mr. Alessandro Bianchino as your husband?
00:25:34I do.
00:25:35Do the witnesses, Maro Spallone, Jung-yu Park, Andrea Risotto, and Raffaele Testa bear witness?
00:25:41Yes.
00:25:41Yes.
00:25:42This document has been read aloud to all those present who will now sign it together with
00:25:47me.
00:25:51Guys, I'm gonna cry.
00:25:52So sweet.
00:26:12Love is blind.
00:26:14Teary eyes.
00:26:15What do you remember about that moment?
00:26:17Well, I'd say that their teary eyes, especially Aless, tell us a lot, huh?
00:26:20Yeah, but you only have teary eyes, too.
00:26:23There are so many things we had to overcome to get to where we are now, so watching that
00:26:31moment back makes me really emotional.
00:26:36That's beautiful.
00:26:40Well done.
00:26:41Give each other a kiss.
00:26:41Come on.
00:26:44Yes.
00:26:47Yeah.
00:26:47I don't want to ruin my makeup.
00:26:49The makeup.
00:26:50You think that during the hard moments when you were living together, there was some difficulty,
00:26:55but when you look back at that moment of absolute joy, it makes you emotional.
00:27:00But it also gives you strength to move forward, doesn't it?
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:04That's how it is.
00:27:07Um, how about this?
00:27:09So at least Yoni can recover from the tears.
00:27:12Do we want to see a little bit of what happened after the wedding?
00:27:15Come on, let's watch this clip.
00:27:18We went to Egypt.
00:27:20It was an incredible trip.
00:27:22We're visiting the pyramids.
00:27:24Today we visit Lux.
00:27:29I make a PowerPoint before I leave for a trip.
00:27:35Zero time.
00:27:36Yeah, he doesn't plan his trips.
00:27:39It was very adventurous.
00:27:40We slept in the desert.
00:27:42We also...
00:27:44We made love in the desert under the stars.
00:27:49It was very nice.
00:27:50We moved houses.
00:27:58It was very challenging.
00:28:00Baby.
00:28:02Hi.
00:28:02What are you doing?
00:28:04I'm working as a painter.
00:28:06We'll have a beautiful house, baby.
00:28:09We're dismantling everything.
00:28:13My husband is great.
00:28:15We just got back from South Korea.
00:28:23We spent some time with her parents.
00:28:28I understood aspects of her personality that weren't...
00:28:33weren't clear to me.
00:28:35They became clearer.
00:28:37Baby.
00:28:39Come on, come on.
00:28:40I can't do it anymore.
00:28:41I find many similarities between Italians and Koreans because they are...
00:28:49They are...
00:28:51I beg to differ.
00:28:54Come on.
00:28:55So we have to measure everything.
00:28:57Let's see how it goes.
00:28:58Do we know where we're going?
00:29:00No.
00:29:01No.
00:29:02Should we keep going?
00:29:04Yes, let's try.
00:29:11So first of all, Ali, I'm with you.
00:29:19Because when we go on a trip, she makes the PowerPoint.
00:29:22She organizes everything.
00:29:23There's nothing you can do about it.
00:29:25Second thing, after three days, she had already dismantled your house, basically.
00:29:28Yep.
00:29:30So just imagine an old vintage house with real wallpaper.
00:29:34She's allergic to dust, so we can't keep the wallpaper.
00:29:37We have to take it all down.
00:29:39Yes.
00:29:39That's love.
00:29:40I mean, it was a hell of a job.
00:29:42It's impossible to describe.
00:29:44But it's also true that, as we always say, the experiment makes you experience everything
00:29:50more quickly, right?
00:29:51Yeah.
00:29:51Because you got...
00:29:52Now, let's get to the point.
00:29:54...living together.
00:29:54Marriage.
00:29:57Dismantling the house and living together.
00:29:59There was, I think you mentioned it earlier, Yoni, some moments of difficulty.
00:30:05I wanted to move in with him right away because there were so many expectations from other
00:30:13people.
00:30:14My friends, my parents, they kept asking us, when are you moving in together?
00:30:19When are you moving in together?
00:30:21So, I wanted to meet other people's expectations, even though our case was very different from
00:30:31a conventional couple.
00:30:33Because we met in a very special way that no other couple could...
00:30:39Yes, of course.
00:30:40You hesitated a little about moving in together.
00:30:42Would you have preferred to wait a little longer?
00:30:44I really wanted to wait.
00:30:47I really insisted on waiting, but this was costing us one or two big arguments a day.
00:30:56And it's okay to argue, fine, but it's also nice to do other things.
00:31:00And how did you solve it if you did?
00:31:02Come live with me.
00:31:03Just come.
00:31:04Oh, just like that?
00:31:05You understood the first rule of marriage.
00:31:06First you say yes, and then you come to an agreement.
00:31:09No, but the nice thing about you two, from what I can tell at least, is that I think
00:31:15it's clear, listening to you, watching you, that you have a common goal.
00:31:20Seriously, you're really committed to keep going and therefore overcoming the various
00:31:25obstacles, even if it costs you effort and compromise, because that's what marriage
00:31:31is all about, isn't it?
00:31:31There's a very nice phrase, which is, I don't know where we're going, but we're going
00:31:36there together.
00:31:37I realize that I can fall blindly in love, but loving someone really starts when you
00:31:46can see things like the other person's imperfections, when you can see the reality, when you face
00:31:54difficult situations.
00:31:56Despite all this, if you can love that person, if you can accept that person for who they really
00:32:03are, then you can finally love that person deeply.
00:32:08You really have to work hard and dedicate yourself every day.
00:32:12Wake up, think about it.
00:32:13It seems obvious, but it's not.
00:32:17It's that dedication day after day that makes you love the other person more and more and
00:32:19makes you feel so good.
00:32:21That's love.
00:32:22Beautiful.
00:32:23That's love, guys.
00:32:24I'll just say one thing.
00:32:25Now that you've passed the moment when everyone was asking you to move in together, soon the
00:32:28moment will come when everyone will start asking you, so, a baby?
00:32:30When are you going to have a baby?
00:32:31Slow down, slow down.
00:32:32Because it will come.
00:32:33No, it will come.
00:32:34I'm not saying anything.
00:32:35No, no, no.
00:32:36I don't want anyone.
00:32:37I don't want anyone.
00:32:38No, it would be wonderful.
00:32:39It would be wonderful.
00:32:40I don't want to rush you.
00:32:41Next year we'll have a nice stroller here.
00:32:42A spot on the couch and a spot for the stroller.
00:32:44All set.
00:32:45And Auntie Bebe will rock him.
00:32:46Oh, my God.
00:32:47No, but seriously, I'm really happy for you.
00:33:02We really rooted for you with so much affection.
00:33:06I love that you call each other, baby.
00:33:09I love it so much.
00:33:10They're so romantic.
00:33:12And you have a wonderful chemistry.
00:33:14I mean, you're meeting outside the pods.
00:33:17Goosebumps.
00:33:18You will remember this for the rest of your life.
00:33:20Is the chemistry still there?
00:33:22It's there.
00:33:23It's there.
00:33:24It seems very convinced.
00:33:25It seems very convinced.
00:33:27How wonderful.
00:33:27I have a connection to make, though.
00:33:29Let's give another round of applause to our couple who show their love story.
00:33:35Yes, I got it.
00:33:37Because I said that the moment they saw each other for the first time, there was incredible chemistry.
00:33:42And you thought of another couple who had chemistry.
00:33:44Who had unbelievable chemistry at the beginning.
00:33:46They wouldn't let go of each other.
00:33:48They couldn't keep their hands off each other.
00:33:49Yeah, exactly.
00:33:50And it's Alessandro and Elisa.
00:33:52More goosebumps like this.
00:33:54I remember in Morocco, I mean, they were inseparable.
00:33:56We couldn't talk to call them.
00:33:58Do you remember I had to call you?
00:34:00Hey, can you stop for a second, please?
00:34:02I have to tell you something.
00:34:03But your love burned too hot, too fast, and fizzled.
00:34:06Yes, very fast, I must say.
00:34:08Let's just say that, unlike Alessandro and Yoni's relationship, there was just no desire
00:34:15to face our problems, to understand the other person.
00:34:20I really care about Ale.
00:34:21Today, it's all water under the bridge.
00:34:23But I found myself in a position where I was completely uncomfortable being at home with
00:34:30him because of our different ways of being.
00:34:33We couldn't even talk about our problems because our approach to everything was so different.
00:34:39And there were things that happened that I think blocked or scared us both.
00:34:46And so if you see a block on the other side and you can't break it down and you keep going
00:34:54and going and going, but you don't see anything on the other side anymore, at some point, you
00:35:01give up.
00:35:02But did you immediately feel the fundamental incompatibility or could you have worked
00:35:07harder to smooth out some edges?
00:35:08Shall I go?
00:35:09Sure.
00:35:10We could have smoothed things out.
00:35:13We really could have.
00:35:16Let's say the thing, the main difference is the, are two completely different realities,
00:35:21mine and hers of life in general.
00:35:24If you take two completely different people who come from two completely different realities,
00:35:30it's hard for those two people to get along.
00:35:33Because I'm convinced that in love, you have to find your similar version that completes you.
00:35:40But there must be compatibilities, right?
00:35:42But it's strange that in the pods where you talked so much, all these differences that
00:35:48are so substantial didn't come out at all, right?
00:35:51It's strange.
00:35:51Well, because I think he and I both feel, I mean, we're so different, but on an emotional
00:35:58level, we both feel everything so strongly.
00:36:02And so, well, I mean, we did get along objectively and a lot.
00:36:07I think that was obvious to everybody.
00:36:09Sure, sure, sure, sure.
00:36:10But it's, it's just two really strong characters that, I mean, he convinces himself of one thing,
00:36:18I convince myself of, you know, something else.
00:36:21And we tried because we tried to talk to each other, but it became impossible.
00:36:28And the discomfort was palpable at home, in my opinion.
00:36:32Yeah, for sure.
00:36:33But on the one hand, you know, there was also the fact that you were more at home because
00:36:37Milan is your city.
00:36:38But he's from Rome, so he was completely, I brought the dog, I took him to visit.
00:36:43Yeah, I didn't have time.
00:36:44Yeah, okay, but I didn't even appreciate what I did, Alec.
00:36:48Who told you I didn't appreciate it?
00:36:49You guys are like fireworks.
00:36:50Exactly.
00:36:50At least we have a nice memory of it.
00:36:52I would like a big round of applause for these fireworks.
00:36:53It's a nice memory.
00:36:54A nice memory.
00:36:57But now, okay, please, can I choose the next couple?
00:37:01Because something's been bothering me, and I have a question that I have wanted to ask for
00:37:06months.
00:37:07And I can finally ask it, but we'll get there slowly.
00:37:10Have you already figured it out?
00:37:11Oh, yeah, I know who we're talking about.
00:37:13I want to talk to Jojo, Giovanni, and Georgia.
00:37:15Georgia and Giovanni.
00:37:16Yeah, yeah.
00:37:17So your story did not survive past living together.
00:37:22Georgia, looking back at it now, what do you think?
00:37:26What do you make of all of it?
00:37:29Looking back on it now, my perspective hasn't changed.
00:37:31I truly wanted to give the experiment a real chance to be faithful to the feelings that
00:37:40I experienced inside the pods, regardless of everything I was hearing around me.
00:37:46And even ignoring my inner voice, that was telling me, what was this voice telling you?
00:37:53That he was misery incarnate, walking around with shoes on.
00:37:59Indeed, a red flag.
00:38:00Then I left, and I got even more confirmation of what I had already feared.
00:38:09What I kept trying to convince myself wasn't true.
00:38:13But in the end, everything I worried about was true.
00:38:16If anything, it was even worse.
00:38:19He pretended to be something that he wasn't.
00:38:22She called you misery incarnate.
00:38:24I'm curious about this thing, because I showed you a world, a rich world, a full world.
00:38:30I made myself totally available to you, like an open book, from the pods to the last day.
00:38:36You didn't introduce me to one friend.
00:38:38You didn't show me anything about you.
00:38:40I didn't know anything about your world.
00:38:42Nothing.
00:38:43Zero.
00:38:43I wonder, was there anything there?
00:38:45I mean, why would you show it to me, Georgia?
00:38:47When you had time, you didn't want to, because you took everything and left, ran away, and
00:38:52you closed the door.
00:38:53When the next day, we had to go to Bologna to see your famous horse, why did you deny me
00:38:57your world?
00:38:58Why didn't you show me anything at all?
00:39:00And then you come to me, and you tell me that I didn't do this, I didn't say that.
00:39:04But what?
00:39:06I said, this is my world.
00:39:08Can you be in it?
00:39:09I want to know yours.
00:39:10Did you ever show it to me?
00:39:11Giovanni, what are you talking about?
00:39:12Your dream that brought us together.
00:39:14Yes, Georgia.
00:39:15I'm talking about this, because it took me a lot of effort to choose you, Georgia.
00:39:20It took me a lot of effort to choose you.
00:39:22You see?
00:39:22Because we fought like crazy.
00:39:24We had a very strong character, and that's why I liked you.
00:39:28But above all, I liked you because you told me a dream that wasn't true, Georgia.
00:39:32You told me you were ready to leave everything.
00:39:35Oh, come on.
00:39:35And that you wanted to open a riding stable by the sea.
00:39:38And I said, look, me too.
00:39:40I want to build a castle.
00:39:42I can't wait to start a family in the countryside.
00:39:45This is my dream.
00:39:46That's what I said to you.
00:39:47But actually, that's not true.
00:39:49Let's hear Georgia's answer.
00:39:50It's always everything's absurd with Giovanni, so it's always very amusing, and I will get
00:39:55a good laugh.
00:39:56What is surreal, Georgia?
00:39:57Go ahead.
00:39:58Go ahead.
00:39:58I had already organized everything, but I wasn't about to bring someone into my life
00:40:05who had already revealed himself as the person we all saw him be.
00:40:10I put up with him, and I fought for us until he crossed the line.
00:40:18When I saw that he crossed that line, I said, enough.
00:40:21What was that line, in your opinion?
00:40:23Fundamentally, he's a self-centered person.
00:40:26He's extremely egotistical.
00:40:28He's somebody that doesn't think about past experiences or take into consideration the
00:40:34people around him.
00:40:35I mean, Giovanni is like a museum from the outside.
00:40:39You go inside, you see a huge collection of keepsakes, okay?
00:40:42But they're not his story.
00:40:43He's only capable of telling other people's stories because he doesn't have one of his own.
00:40:49He stages little performances.
00:40:51He puts on a show because that's what he knows how to do.
00:40:55So, basically, he takes the pieces that he likes from other people's stories.
00:40:59He takes them as his own.
00:41:01But the problem is that since they're not his, the values he talks about, look, you can
00:41:05rattle off all the sonnets you want.
00:41:07You can write all the poems you want.
00:41:09You can believe you're from the 1800s.
00:41:10Georgia, if there's a cultural gap between us, it's not my fault, okay?
00:41:14It's not my fault.
00:41:15The court jester.
00:41:16I mean...
00:41:16That would have been perfect for you.
00:41:18Georgia, but you...
00:41:18It's just perfect.
00:41:19But I mean, if there's a cultural inconvenience...
00:41:21I mean, clearly, it's your calling.
00:41:23I don't know what else to tell you.
00:41:24But on the other hand, tell the truth.
00:41:26Because at the dinner with all of my friends, you said you don't want to marry me.
00:41:31You don't even believe in marriage.
00:41:33And we were living together.
00:41:34That would be enough.
00:41:35But you know how much...
00:41:36Don't turn things around.
00:41:36Will you let me finish talking?
00:41:37Okay, fine.
00:41:38Because I listened to you.
00:41:39But then we'll come back to this.
00:41:40I listened to your lies for too long.
00:41:41Because seriously...
00:41:41You know how much I care about marriage?
00:41:43You know I care because I'm a Christian.
00:41:45And I believe in the sacrament of marriage.
00:41:48And you should explain to me why.
00:41:49In front of all my friends, my best friends, you told me that you don't believe in marriage.
00:41:54And that living together would be fine for you.
00:41:57I said, living together and being married doesn't change the fact that I am choosing that person.
00:42:05How many couples are there nowadays in our society that are happily living together?
00:42:13Am I wrong?
00:42:14You didn't even live with me.
00:42:15Maybe we were on different experiments.
00:42:16What the hell are you talking about, Javani?
00:42:17Here, we were asked to choose.
00:42:19But when did you ever really live with me?
00:42:21You slept on the couch.
00:42:22Georgia, you were talking over me.
00:42:23I think we're...
00:42:24The question...
00:42:25No, I'm serious.
00:42:26You wanted to ask a question.
00:42:28Yes, it's time.
00:42:28It's definitely time.
00:42:30Go on, buddy.
00:42:30Because something else came up at that dinner.
00:42:33Another hot topic.
00:42:34So, I wanted to ask you, Javani.
00:42:37Tell me.
00:42:38Why didn't you get up from that couch?
00:42:40I mean, why did you keep sleeping on the couch?
00:42:43I think everyone is wondering about that.
00:42:45It was comfortable.
00:42:46Yeah, I get that it was comfortable.
00:42:48But, I mean, it also implied other things.
00:42:50What did you want to ask?
00:42:51No, what I'm asking you is why didn't you get up from the couch and why didn't you start another kind of relationship?
00:42:57Which is also part of living together, right?
00:43:00All right, then.
00:43:01Let's talk about sexuality.
00:43:02Do it.
00:43:02For me, sexuality has one central access, which is complicity.
00:43:08Georgia was never complicit with me.
00:43:10For me, sex is passion.
00:43:12Sex should be light.
00:43:13It should be like a chase, seeking each other out.
00:43:16It should be something that really makes your heart race.
00:43:19I experience it as pleasure.
00:43:21But did you even try to?
00:43:22She has always made it feel like an obligation.
00:43:24Always?
00:43:24From the very first night.
00:43:26In the oversized pajamas, getting into bed like this, I felt as though I was expected to perform some sort of conjugal duty.
00:43:33And that was the first night.
00:43:34I didn't even get to see you.
00:43:36I never smelled your perfume.
00:43:37Javani, I was seriously embarrassed.
00:43:40Don't we want to joke around a little?
00:43:41Keep talking about, like I said, he's still here doing his little performance.
00:43:45Playing is fine.
00:43:45It's fun.
00:43:46But, I mean, there has to be tension in sexuality.
00:43:49You have to start somewhere.
00:43:50There has to be tension.
00:43:51Play can just be a matter of fantasy.
00:43:53I mean, there's a fantasy.
00:43:54There's imagination, play, eroticism, whatever you want to call it.
00:43:57But then there's also the reality of life.
00:43:59I mean, play can't just stay something purely mental, right?
00:44:02You have to try to play this game as well, Javani.
00:44:05Did he try to play this game with you, Georgia?
00:44:08Do you see him?
00:44:10No, I remember that in the pool, but it takes some nerve to be like you.
00:44:15Let me tell you, it really takes some nerve.
00:44:19And it takes some nerve for you to say that.
00:44:22Come on, you really are amazing at turning things around.
00:44:24I brought you my life, actually, about fighting.
00:44:27The more you stir it, the more it smells.
00:44:28But it's not.
00:44:29I think we're not getting anywhere this way.
00:44:32Exactly.
00:44:32Because everyone is willing to budge and you've made up your own minds.
00:44:36But since you talked about the battles you fought for Georgia in the pods, let's say
00:44:41that, Joe, you fought a little bit with everyone because you fought another battle with Gargana and you fought another battle with Federica when your story with Georgia was over.
00:44:55You basically went out with Federica right away and you even took her to the first reunion you all had together, right?
00:45:04But a lot of people went to that party.
00:45:06I always said that Federica...
00:45:08Yes, but it's one thing for her to go alone and another thing for you to arrive with her.
00:45:12I mean, she was your plus one, right?
00:45:14You can't deny it.
00:45:15But it doesn't matter.
00:45:17It doesn't matter.
00:45:17Okay, but now we can go ahead and ask Federica.
00:45:20Come on.
00:45:21Come on, let's bring her in.
00:45:24Yes, let's bring Federica in.
00:45:25Enough with the chit-chat.
00:45:26Come on, Federica.
00:45:27Bye, Federica.
00:45:28Bye.
00:45:30Yeah, because we've talked a lot, Federica.
00:45:34Welcome.
00:45:35Tell us what happened between you and Giovanni.
00:45:39Well, what can I say?
00:45:41As soon as he got his phone back, he got in touch with me.
00:45:46And he said that he wanted to see me, so I agreed to see him.
00:45:50Because as everyone knows, he was my first choice while we were going through the experiment.
00:45:57So we go out to dinner.
00:45:59He walked me back home.
00:46:01And we kissed outside my house.
00:46:06Oh, well, good to know.
00:46:07Really.
00:46:08Oh, really?
00:46:09So I made this up, too?
00:46:11Look, if I had kissed you, I would have said it gladly.
00:46:13Is it your doppelganger wandering around the lawn?
00:46:15Yes, exactly.
00:46:17He was also in the pods.
00:46:18He just associates from reality.
00:46:19He lives in his own little world.
00:46:19But he was also in all the pods.
00:46:21It's crazy.
00:46:22But why would I ever make something like this up?
00:46:24Why would I deny it?
00:46:25Georgia and I were broken up, so I'm curious to know.
00:46:28We kissed outside my house.
00:46:28Go on.
00:46:29I'm not making this up.
00:46:30I love this.
00:46:31Go on.
00:46:32But aside from that, we did go to the party together afterwards.
00:46:35Yes, so?
00:46:35Did we not?
00:46:35And you gave me little kisses on my head and on my forehead?
00:46:37Kissed you on the forehead?
00:46:38Or did you forget those, too?
00:46:39I can confirm that.
00:46:39She was there, and I think she saw it.
00:46:41I did.
00:46:41Sorry, I don't understand what the problem is.
00:46:43Georgia and I broke up.
00:46:44What do you mean?
00:46:44What's the problem?
00:46:45What's this?
00:46:45What about your attitude towards me?
00:46:47No, look.
00:46:48I'll explain.
00:46:49You just love to preach about love and your values, and then two days later, you go out
00:46:54to dinner with her.
00:46:56Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
00:46:59Here we go.
00:46:59Come on.
00:47:00Absolutely.
00:47:01I see a nice coalition of those I rejected.
00:47:03I'm in a happy relationship.
00:47:04I wouldn't give a man like you the time of day.
00:47:07I didn't say yes.
00:47:08Well, in the end, you went out with all of them.
00:47:09I went out with her, and that's it.
00:47:12I went out with them to clear things up.
00:47:14I never kissed her.
00:47:15I never gave them anything.
00:47:16I never did anything because I'm not interested.
00:47:18But she says you kissed her.
00:47:19It's her word against mine.
00:47:20But why would she say you kissed her?
00:47:22I have no reason to make it up.
00:47:22Why did she come here then?
00:47:23Is she part of a couple?
00:47:24I don't understand.
00:47:25I invited her to understand this thing.
00:47:27But look, I had a clear conscience because Georgia and I had broken up.
00:47:31Two days.
00:47:32So it was perfectly possible that I could kiss her.
00:47:34Two days ago.
00:47:34But one day, but Georgia, please, are you happy now?
00:47:38What?
00:47:38What's your problem?
00:47:39You haven't shown me a crumb of who you are.
00:47:42Pulling this horse's range, Giovanni.
00:47:43I don't know what you're doing because you like to argue.
00:47:45That's fine.
00:47:46I think we tried to clear things up here with Federica and Giovanni with little results.
00:47:51But now I think Federica wants to say something to Georgia.
00:47:54When it comes down to it, the only regret I have in this whole situation is that I ruined
00:47:59the friendship that we created.
00:48:01And now that we put this whole thing to bed, I would really like it if we got together and
00:48:06it would make me so happy if we could repair our relationship and if I could continue having
00:48:11you as a friend.
00:48:13What do you say to Federica now?
00:48:15Do you burn bridges or give her a chance to be your friend again?
00:48:18I already had intentions of seeing Federica to talk about all of this.
00:48:22So you'll see each other again, have a clarifying coffee, and be friends again?
00:48:26Come on.
00:48:26Let's thank Federica.
00:48:28Thank you, Federica.
00:48:30Bye.
00:48:31So regardless, regardless of everything, I'd like to lighten the mood a bit because I
00:48:36have to tell you the truth, Giovanni.
00:48:38I had a lot of fun watching you in the pods with your seduction tactics, the runes,
00:48:43which you read.
00:48:44You know why?
00:48:45Because when we met, he courted me and read my palm.
00:48:50Well done, Fabio.
00:48:51It's true.
00:48:51Good job.
00:48:51But at home, I only have armchairs and no sofas.
00:48:54I got rid of them.
00:48:55I want to make that clear right away.
00:48:57The rest of the story went differently, but he did read my palm.
00:49:00Let's see.
00:49:01Let's see.
00:49:01We'll call it Giovanni versus everyone.
00:49:04Come on.
00:49:04We thought I liked this.
00:49:05Giovanni with everyone.
00:49:06With everyone.
00:49:07With everybody in this case.
00:49:09Wonderful.
00:49:10And I also run for theater from the 18th century.
00:49:13No.
00:49:14Yes.
00:49:15That's amazing.
00:49:16Talitha, you want to have dinner with me on the stage of this thing?
00:49:20Just do me?
00:49:21Beautiful.
00:49:22My world is full of art and creativity, but I'm not egocentric.
00:49:26I leave a lot of room for others.
00:49:29So I found a castle.
00:49:30I mean, I found a couple of castles.
00:49:32One in Umbria, one near Rome.
00:49:34Okay.
00:49:35It's true.
00:49:35We'll go live in a castle.
00:49:37Wow.
00:49:38And that's all I'll say.
00:49:40I'd like to live in a nice forest near a city, you know?
00:49:43I always imagine that at the end of the party, when the marriage celebrations are over, a hot air balloon arrives, and off we go.
00:49:52Bye.
00:49:53So I'm courting a woman.
00:49:55That's how it is.
00:49:56I'll courte her by taking her to a bar.
00:49:58I'll take her on a hot air balloon.
00:50:00Okay.
00:50:00Look, I've always had a beautiful vision of my wife.
00:50:05Sitting by the window, painting.
00:50:08How romantic.
00:50:09Being romantic is my flaw.
00:50:12I can't help it.
00:50:13Outside, it snows.
00:50:15And today, it's a full moon.
00:50:16Really?
00:50:17The full moon brings great movements in people's hearts, you know?
00:50:21Oh, yeah?
00:50:21I mean...
00:50:22I like you, okay?
00:50:24You're the only one who makes me laugh in here.
00:50:28Really?
00:50:28Yes.
00:50:29You are the only one I can share this kind of thing with.
00:50:32And I'm being really honest when I say this.
00:50:36You've been in my top three since the first day.
00:50:38A male lion such as myself...
00:50:40It was the second day.
00:50:41...is a very magnanimous lion.
00:50:43But like all lions, every now and then, I have to go hunting.
00:50:48Take the antelope and bring it home.
00:50:50Oh my gosh.
00:50:51No, no.
00:50:53I'm squeakless right now, and that doesn't happen to me often.
00:50:56I mean, I'm capable of serenading you under your balcony with a mariachi band.
00:51:01Fiore, the love of my life.
00:51:07Listen to that beautiful laugh.
00:51:09Guys, long live poetry, long live love.
00:51:12I have to say, I have to say that I had fun.
00:51:15And I also have to say that I learned a little something.
00:51:18Of course, Giovanni, from the...
00:51:19No, but seriously, what's important is that we finished it with a smile.
00:51:23I lived for art.
00:51:24I lived for love, guys.
00:51:25It seems to me, however, that now you are calm.
00:51:28For example, Georgia, how are you now?
00:51:30How are you living your life?
00:51:32I am in a happy relationship with an amazing man.
00:51:36In a way, this experiment brought me to him.
00:51:39Because without everything I went through, I probably would have stayed attached to certain
00:51:47ideas that were rooted in my own prejudices.
00:51:50Because he is an incredible father.
00:51:53I never thought I would be able to have a relationship with someone who has such an important past.
00:52:03And for this reason, I have to think, love is blind.
00:52:09I'm happy for you.
00:52:10I'm happy that you found love.
00:52:12And that you found peace.
00:52:14I want to ask Giovanni if you found the lady of the castle.
00:52:17If you found the castle.
00:52:18If you already took the hot air balloon trip.
00:52:20Honestly?
00:52:21Yes, yes, and yes.
00:52:22Oh, really?
00:52:23Oh, plot twist.
00:52:24Plot twist.
00:52:25I also took the hot air balloon trip, guys.
00:52:27I did everything.
00:52:28So, are you in a relationship?
00:52:29Tell us.
00:52:30We're getting to know each other.
00:52:31What a liar.
00:52:31And I hope this relationship can grow.
00:52:33Let's have a round of applause for all the good things they found at the end of this experience.
00:52:40Very well.
00:52:41There's only one couple left.
00:52:43There's only one couple left.
00:52:44It was a very beautiful story.
00:52:47The one between Karen and Nicola.
00:52:49A story that really came to its conclusion.
00:52:52Because Karen and Nicola got to the altar and said,
00:52:56Yes, we were all moved, all happy.
00:52:59But then...
00:53:00Yeah, but then, to formalize the marriage,
00:53:03you were waiting for a document that was supposed to come from the Brazilian embassy.
00:53:09And in the meantime, however,
00:53:12something happened that led to a deep division, I would say.
00:53:16Almost a breakup.
00:53:17Right, Karen?
00:53:17Well, um...
00:53:21Unfortunately, once the wedding was over,
00:53:24he was in Milan, and I was in Rome,
00:53:27and we had to somehow bridge these distances.
00:53:31I decided, at this point, to book a hotel for him.
00:53:34While we were talking and organizing this,
00:53:37these three days in Rome, he said,
00:53:40Karen, don't get anything fancy.
00:53:42I mean, don't worry, get something normal.
00:53:45And I still got a hotel that was...
00:53:47Five stars.
00:53:48...of course, very nice, because I didn't care.
00:53:51Oh, I see.
00:53:53And then this argument arose over an issue that,
00:53:58from what I could gather,
00:54:00was as if he felt somewhat belittled by this whole financial matter.
00:54:06And then, from there, a truly nasty argument came up,
00:54:11in which he said some very, very, very mean things.
00:54:16Back then, I loved him so much, truly so much.
00:54:20It was very hard, because I had already spoken to my son about this,
00:54:24and I had already told him that Nicola was coming,
00:54:27and at that moment, we had this argument.
00:54:30I was expecting him to at least, you know,
00:54:33a call to apologize the next day,
00:54:35or figure out how to have a conversation.
00:54:38And I said, look, it's over for me.
00:54:40It's so over for me, because what you said was way too serious,
00:54:44and you didn't even apologize.
00:54:47It was very hard for me,
00:54:48even harder to tell my son that he wasn't coming.
00:54:52Of course.
00:54:53Nicola, what do you say?
00:54:54What's your side of the story?
00:54:56How do you respond?
00:54:57Well, let's say I misunderstood.
00:55:01I took it the wrong way,
00:55:03her talk about finances,
00:55:05in the sense that at first,
00:55:06I saw it as,
00:55:08I want a certain kind of life,
00:55:09and so...
00:55:10And you have to grant me that.
00:55:11So you have to get it for me.
00:55:13In reality, she was simply saying that
00:55:15she wanted someone by her side
00:55:17who works as hard as she does.
00:55:20On the other hand,
00:55:22I saw it as,
00:55:23I want someone who does everything for me,
00:55:25you could say.
00:55:25And then what happened?
00:55:27Because now we're here,
00:55:29but almost a year has passed.
00:55:30What happened in that time?
00:55:33Well...
00:55:34Come on!
00:55:36So, he definitely...
00:55:37But can I just say that you still look at each other with love?
00:55:39Yeah, I noticed that too.
00:55:40There's complicity in your pieces.
00:55:42But I always reiterated to him that I love him.
00:55:45I always loved him.
00:55:47I never wished him any harm.
00:55:50But he was never once bothered
00:55:52to send me a message saying,
00:55:54Karen, I'm sorry.
00:55:56Never.
00:55:57Sorry.
00:55:57Allow me this.
00:55:58Over the months,
00:55:59we have received a series of messages
00:56:02from Nikola
00:56:03in which he expresses himself.
00:56:05And I would like to show them to you.
00:56:11Even though Karen and I got married a few days ago,
00:56:16I went back to Milan,
00:56:18and she went back to Rome,
00:56:20and we decided to break up.
00:56:22Or rather, we had some very bad arguments,
00:56:27mostly about finances,
00:56:29and I have to say that
00:56:31being very much in love with Karen,
00:56:34this thing makes me really, really sad.
00:56:38I tried to get back in touch with Karen
00:56:42a few days after our argument,
00:56:45and unfortunately, she wasn't open to it.
00:56:49Now we have agreed to meet
00:56:51in the next few days in Milan
00:56:56to see each other
00:56:59and give each other back all our things.
00:57:03I can't wait to see her
00:57:04because, anyway, at least on my side,
00:57:07I would like to rekindle our relationship
00:57:10and try again.
00:57:14I'm trying to spend this summer
00:57:15in a carefree way.
00:57:17Although I have to say
00:57:19that it's not easy
00:57:20because I really miss Karen a lot,
00:57:24I imagine her in everything I'm doing.
00:57:26I hope she can understand
00:57:28how important my feelings are for her,
00:57:31and I hope she can find
00:57:33those feelings for me again, too.
00:57:37Unfortunately, I went back
00:57:39to my everyday life.
00:57:41I tried in every way
00:57:42to get closer to her,
00:57:43even suggesting a weekend together
00:57:46at the beach.
00:57:48I tried to get closer to her
00:57:49in the last few months,
00:57:51but there was no way.
00:57:54She didn't want to rekindle
00:57:55our relationship.
00:57:57I'm romantic, but I couldn't get an apology.
00:58:07I mean, a phone call.
00:58:09Karen, listen, look,
00:58:11can we meet up?
00:58:11I want to talk to you.
00:58:14You never did that.
00:58:16Karen, listen, look, I'm sorry.
00:58:18I want to talk to you,
00:58:20and I want to, I want to,
00:58:22I really want to try to fix things.
00:58:24Yes, never.
00:58:25You were always trying
00:58:27to get us back together
00:58:28to try again.
00:58:29Well, I would like to ask
00:58:31Nicola and Karen this,
00:58:32because Benedetta and I
00:58:34talk about it often.
00:58:35Bene.
00:58:36He taught me to apologize.
00:58:37Bene never apologized,
00:58:38and I think it's the most
00:58:40beautiful thing in the world.
00:58:42That changed my life.
00:58:43It's true.
00:58:43Because if you apologize,
00:58:44it means that you have become
00:58:46aware of your mistake.
00:58:47It's true.
00:58:48Because I understand her.
00:58:49I mean, if you don't
00:58:50apologize, Nicola,
00:58:51what guarantee does she have
00:58:53that you understood
00:58:54that mistake,
00:58:55and that you can start
00:58:56working on that thing?
00:58:57Otherwise, it will come up
00:58:59again in the future.
00:59:00Have you thought about that?
00:59:02Yes, I have to say that
00:59:04it's something I've thought about.
00:59:06I'm a person who,
00:59:08until I hit my head
00:59:08against the wall,
00:59:10until I feel bad about it,
00:59:11or until I really miss someone,
00:59:13I want to be seen
00:59:15as a strong man,
00:59:17and I don't,
00:59:19I don't actually act like a man,
00:59:22because I think a man
00:59:24is someone who apologizes.
00:59:26I think a man is someone
00:59:27who admits his own mistakes,
00:59:30which I unfortunately didn't do.
00:59:32No.
00:59:33And I apologize for that, too.
00:59:36I apologize for using
00:59:38strong, harsh words.
00:59:40I didn't really mean
00:59:41anything I said,
00:59:42and any of the words
00:59:43that I use
00:59:44don't describe you at all,
00:59:45because you really are
00:59:46an amazing woman.
00:59:50I really feel
00:59:52like an idiot.
00:59:54An idiot.
00:59:55You could have called me
00:59:57and said,
00:59:58Karen, let's meet,
00:59:59let's talk,
01:00:00and I swear to you
01:00:01on everything,
01:00:02I would have forgiven you,
01:00:04because I loved you
01:00:05so much.
01:00:08Yeah, let's say that, um...
01:00:09You didn't do that.
01:00:10For a whole year.
01:00:13And I kept telling you
01:00:15the same thing
01:00:16for months and months.
01:00:16Don't you think that
01:00:17I wrote to you
01:00:18again and again
01:00:19all those times,
01:00:20I did it because
01:00:21I wanted to see you
01:00:22and apologize?
01:00:23I think this is
01:00:24immature behavior,
01:00:25because a man,
01:00:26a real man,
01:00:27apologizes, okay?
01:00:28And then he invites you
01:00:29to go on vacation.
01:00:30He doesn't invite you
01:00:31on vacation
01:00:32to pretend that
01:00:33nothing happened,
01:00:34and I have to take
01:00:35that as an apology.
01:00:37And if you really
01:00:38want to apologize
01:00:40to me,
01:00:41and you actually
01:00:42love me
01:00:43or still have
01:00:44feelings for me,
01:00:45things should be
01:00:46done differently
01:00:48in another way.
01:00:49I've been honest,
01:00:52but I've told her
01:00:53that too
01:00:53in these past few months.
01:00:56My feelings for her
01:00:58have not changed.
01:00:59I mean it.
01:01:00I feel as in love
01:01:01as I was
01:01:02during the entire experiment.
01:01:04For me,
01:01:05things have not changed.
01:01:07For me,
01:01:07this experiment
01:01:08is Karen
01:01:11from A to Z,
01:01:12and I hope
01:01:14it's not just
01:01:15a memory,
01:01:16but that I can
01:01:17relive it fully
01:01:17because it's...
01:01:19It's her.
01:01:20Exactly.
01:01:23But I think
01:01:24there's room
01:01:24to win her back.
01:01:26As a woman,
01:01:27I can see it
01:01:28in Karen's body language.
01:01:30She says no,
01:01:31but her gaze,
01:01:32her posture,
01:01:33I think she's
01:01:34giving you
01:01:34a little opening.
01:01:36You have to
01:01:36win her back,
01:01:37Nicola,
01:01:38right?
01:01:39I feel like
01:01:40I've understood
01:01:41my mistakes
01:01:41and I don't
01:01:42I want to try
01:01:43to win her back.
01:01:44You are a truly
01:01:46amazing person,
01:01:47and if I feel like
01:01:48I've learned
01:01:49anything from this,
01:01:50it's because
01:01:51you were part of it all.
01:01:53That's why
01:01:53I love you so much,
01:01:55and I want to
01:01:56keep you in my life
01:01:57forever.
01:01:58In what way?
01:02:00We don't know.
01:02:02We don't know just yet.
01:02:03It's a start,
01:02:03it's a start.
01:02:03But...
01:02:04But it's nice
01:02:06to end the night
01:02:06with the last couple
01:02:08of this experiment,
01:02:09with an opening,
01:02:11with hope,
01:02:12because,
01:02:13I mean,
01:02:13I see this hope,
01:02:15and I sincerely
01:02:16wish that
01:02:16we'll meet again
01:02:17next time
01:02:18with some good news.
01:02:21I think that tonight
01:02:22we have come
01:02:22to some conclusions.
01:02:24For example,
01:02:25Benny,
01:02:25the question
01:02:25we asked ourselves
01:02:26throughout the episodes,
01:02:28is love really blind?
01:02:30I think so,
01:02:31and these guys
01:02:32prove it
01:02:32because they chose
01:02:34each other
01:02:35blindly,
01:02:36and they thought
01:02:37and are still
01:02:38fighting to find love.
01:02:39I would do it
01:02:41all over again.
01:02:42We have reached
01:02:42the end of this journey,
01:02:44but I would start
01:02:45again tomorrow
01:02:45because it was really
01:02:47a whirlwind
01:02:47of incredible emotions.
01:02:49I agree,
01:02:49and I would say
01:02:50that I declare
01:02:51this experiment
01:02:52closed,
01:02:53and therefore,
01:02:54I declare
01:02:54the first edition
01:02:55of Love is Blind Italy
01:02:57officially over.
01:02:59Guys,
01:02:59thank you.
01:02:59A round of applause.
01:03:00Thank you for
01:03:01everything you've given us.
01:03:33A round of applause.
01:04:03You
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