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00:00Oh!
00:01Oh, God, she kicked my ass in Dennis.
00:04I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
00:07Oh, you're joking.
00:08No.
00:09Every day, you have to talk to your mom.
00:11It's ridiculous.
00:13Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:14why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you have?
00:17Things are clearly not going well,
00:19and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:22and I think it might make it worse.
00:26How long would it take if we didn't file
00:28the partnership papers for me to be able to work?
00:32Eight to seven months.
00:34Yeah, that's a long time.
00:35That's a long time.
00:36If you're married, there's no problem.
00:39Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:41but there is no way that it was going to be
00:43as soon as tomorrow.
00:46Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:47it's something to think about
00:49so we can be together in the end.
00:53I don't think I love you anymore.
00:58Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
01:02That's the saddest part.
01:04There was no fight.
01:05No.
01:06Your fight's just begun, son.
01:08I think you should have a talk with her.
01:11Oh, my God, I'm going to spit out.
01:15Get it.
01:19This is not the way I want to start my weekend wedding.
01:23I've been feel dizzy and weird.
01:26I told you so many times we even be careful
01:29when we have sex.
01:30Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:32Yes.
01:33And I have a text.
01:34I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:37Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
01:43After tennis, Petey and I had a big fight
01:58about my relationship with my mum.
02:01I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:05so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway
02:07with some boundaries,
02:08but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:10so Petey needs to stop letting it get to her so much,
02:14you know?
02:15G'day, mate.
02:16How you going?
02:17How the bloody hell are you?
02:18Well, a long time no see.
02:19It's a strong hand.
02:20I like that.
02:21I like that.
02:22I like that.
02:23I like that.
02:24Now, after you, come on, sir.
02:26All right.
02:27Ever since Petey's been a part of the arguments,
02:29I told her I can sort of meet her halfway
02:30with some boundaries,
02:31but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:33so Petey needs to stop letting it get to her so much,
02:36you know?
02:37G'day, mate.
02:38How the bloody hell are you?
02:40Well, a long time no see.
02:41It's a strong hand.
02:42I like that.
02:43I like that.
02:44Ever since Petey arrived in town,
02:46like every day she keeps asking me,
02:48when are you going to propose?
02:50G'day, guys.
02:51I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:53Certainly.
02:54So today I'm going with my buddy Chris
02:56to a jewellery store to get the engagement ring
02:59that I gave Petey shined up,
03:02so that when I'm ready to propose,
03:05it looks brand new.
03:07Beautiful.
03:08You like that, do you?
03:09Family allure?
03:10Eh, not quite.
03:12He did actually give it to his partner.
03:17Yes.
03:18Before, and then he took it back.
03:19That's right.
03:20Yeah.
03:21It's a complicated relationship.
03:25The first time I proposed to Peteya,
03:27it was very lacklustre.
03:29You know, we were in bed,
03:30it was Christmas morning,
03:31and I just slipped the ring on her finger,
03:33and she said yes.
03:35I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:38Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:40No, I don't.
03:41There is so much history and so many memories,
03:44so, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:47I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:49You don't want to trade it in?
03:50Definitely not.
03:51Perfect.
03:52And then, uh, give it a clean and polish.
03:56Perfect.
03:57Go grab your coffee.
03:58Alright.
04:00After I proposed,
04:02we'd be breaking up every three or four weeks,
04:05and, um, at one point,
04:07Peteya's spending got so bad,
04:09she started selling all her jewellery
04:12just to fund her shopping habit.
04:14And I thought,
04:16she's going to pawn that.
04:17So,
04:18I took the ring back.
04:20She saw that as, you know,
04:21we're no longer engaged,
04:23which is fair enough.
04:25Okay.
04:26So, the ring.
04:27Yes.
04:28Ten years ago,
04:29you gave her the ring.
04:30You've been holding on to that ring ever since.
04:33Yeah.
04:34You haven't proposed to her again?
04:36No, because I'm...
04:38I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:41I don't know, 12 years,
04:42I feel like if you haven't fixed something
04:43after 12 years,
04:44how many more years is it going to take
04:46for you to fix?
04:50I'm not giving up.
04:52Hmm, okay.
04:53I'm just worried about the personality clash.
04:56You lived together in Thailand.
04:57Yes.
04:58So, what happened there?
04:59Why...
05:00Why did that not work out?
05:01In the beginning, it was magical.
05:03And then after a while,
05:05she was miserable,
05:07I wasn't giving her enough money,
05:09and she just...
05:11she just hated it.
05:12I just thought she would be happy
05:15living that life.
05:17That retired...
05:18Lifestyle.
05:19...beach lifestyle.
05:20But she...
05:21That wasn't enough for her.
05:23Her life has been fast-paced.
05:26Fast money, fast living.
05:28How is she going to be happy here?
05:30Long term.
05:31Honestly, think about that.
05:33She's in a foreign country.
05:36She's got no family or friends here.
05:38She's just going to be happy hanging around
05:41in Launceston.
05:42But the thing is,
05:45there's a certain limit.
05:47You can't do that all your life.
05:48You know, she's approaching...
05:50An age.
05:51An age.
05:52She's getting older.
05:53She can't live that fast-paced life forever.
05:55I don't know.
05:56Once you're used to something,
05:58it's hard to, um...
06:00To change, you know.
06:02I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn.
06:05Like, he won't change what he eats, for example.
06:07It's only chicken and rice.
06:08I tried to get him to eat a cookie.
06:10He wouldn't even eat a cookie.
06:11I mean, he's pretty stubborn.
06:12He won't change anything.
06:14So, I'm worried that Dylan's stubbornness
06:16is causing him to live in a fantasy
06:19and not deal with reality.
06:21I don't think a ring on the finger
06:23is going to be the thing that fixes everything.
06:27I love her.
06:29I just can't see myself with anyone else.
06:31I'm not saying...
06:32I'm not even attracted to anyone else.
06:34I just want her.
06:35All right.
06:36Look...
06:37I'm only saying this because
06:40I care about you as a friend.
06:43I love Patia.
06:45I know she makes you very happy.
06:48But your idea of happily ever after is a bit delusional.
06:54I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan.
07:00Chris's concerns are valid.
07:02Patia and I still have a lot of issues to work through.
07:05But I am feeling optimistic about the future with Patia.
07:10She's come to Australia.
07:11She's given it a good go.
07:13And she's trying to resolve things with my mother.
07:16So, I think that's massive, really.
07:18I feel like it is different now.
07:20Think about it.
07:21It is different now.
07:22Think about it.
07:23I'm confused.
07:24Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
07:37I can't be.
07:38Holy .
07:39This stresses me the out right now.
07:43You don't know how stressful I am.
07:44I didn't expect you to say that you actually think that you're pregnant.
07:48You don't know how stressful I am.
07:49I didn't expect you to say that you actually think that you're pregnant.
07:53I'm really, like, so scared about if he's positive.
07:54Because if you have a baby, like, I need to have a baby.
07:55I need to have a baby.
07:56You don't know how stressful I am.
07:57You don't know how stressful I am.
07:58You don't know how stressful I am.
07:59You don't know how stressful I am.
08:00You don't know how stressful I am.
08:05I didn't expect you to say that you actually think that you're pregnant.
08:13I really, like, so scared about if he's positive.
08:19Because if I have a baby, like, I need to have a stability.
08:24Stability is the only thing that I really ever wanted.
08:28I'm talking about you don't give it to me.
08:31So how are we going to get children to the war when you and me fighting all the time?
08:37When you're cheating of me?
08:39Like, how?
08:41I hope that we can work on this relationship.
08:43But right now, I'm not confident that we're working.
08:46We talked yesterday.
08:47Hey, like, are we compatible?
08:49Can we not fight?
08:50And all we've done is continue to fight.
08:53Who made the fight today?
08:55I didn't try and fight today.
08:56No.
08:57I said, please.
08:58No.
08:59I don't want to argue.
09:04Do you want to go try this?
09:05No.
09:07Leave me alone.
09:10I want to know.
09:16No se.
09:23No.
09:24No.
09:25I'm sorry.
09:26I want to know.
09:27No.
09:28No.
09:29I want to know you're not happy.
09:30No.
09:31No.
09:32No.
09:33No.
09:34No.
09:35No.
09:36No.
09:37No.
09:38No.
09:39No.
09:40No.
09:41No.
09:42No.
09:43No.
09:44No.
09:45No.
09:46No.
09:47No.
09:48No.
09:49pregnant, and we're going to have a baby,
09:55then this means that we're having a family, Madeline.
10:04Can we please take this test?
10:06No.
10:07Please.
10:14Please, Madeline.
10:19I am not ready to get the text,
10:31but it's something, like, I have to do.
10:36I need to know what is going on.
10:44This is a good opportunity for you to show me
10:47that you're ready to really take a serious step.
10:50If you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today,
10:53in a sense, you're not in love with me.
10:54Like, you're in love with also an idea.
10:57I feel like this is a test if I'm actually
10:59wife material or not.
11:04You broke his heart, Bretta.
11:05You might think that it's done.
11:08But he wonders whether you just need some time.
11:11I know.
11:17It's such a beautiful beach, huh?
11:21It is really pretty.
11:23It's been a few days since Jonathan and I have met
11:25with the lawyers and found out that the fastest and easiest
11:27way for me to stay here is to get married,
11:30and we're still kind of processing that information.
11:35I don't think your leg can support me.
11:37Oh, really?
11:38Come on.
11:39I've been eating a lot.
11:41Yeah, come on, do it.
11:42for me to stay here is to get married
11:45and we're still kind of processing that information.
11:49I don't think your leg can support me.
11:50Oh, really? Come on.
11:52I've been eating a lot.
11:54Yeah, come on.
11:54I don't want to step on your shoe.
11:55Let's go.
11:56Ow!
11:57I thought giving up everything
11:58and moving to another country was a lot,
12:00but adding this on top of it is like, bang.
12:05Did we miss the sunset or is it just cloudy?
12:07It's a bit cloudy today.
12:08Anyway, me and Maria are going to have
12:11meatball night tomorrow.
12:14What does meatball night mean?
12:15Are you going to actually go to a restaurant
12:17and eat meatballs or are you going to like...
12:18It's just like a girly, fun night.
12:21Like, it's just where we can just act stupid
12:23and be in meatballs.
12:24Go to dinner, have a drink.
12:27Okay.
12:27It's called a meatball night.
12:28One drink.
12:31Have a drink.
12:33Maria is my best friend on the island.
12:36Jonathan doesn't like when I go out with Maria
12:38because we like to drink.
12:41We like to be stupid.
12:43We like to randomly karaoke.
12:44We like to, like, climb palm trees
12:46and just do really harmless things.
12:50With that being said, if I'm being unrealistic
12:53about something that happened with Jonathan,
12:55Maria is always the one to reel me in
12:57and be like, don't put up with it.
12:59And I think that makes Jonathan a little nervous.
13:04I don't know where we're going to go to dinner yet.
13:05Maybe one of our go-to spots.
13:09Yeah, well, we'll find a spot where we can go to dinner.
13:14Well, I think me and Maria are just going to go to dinner
13:16and then...
13:17I'm not going to go?
13:19That's why it's a meatball night.
13:21Oh.
13:23We were going to invite you afterwards.
13:25Mm-hmm.
13:27Well, no, I don't want you to be, like,
13:29worried about it, you know?
13:31I know, but I have a lot of worries when Maria is here
13:34because when you guys get together,
13:35it's a real get-together, you know what I mean?
13:38You guys go all out.
13:41Yeah, but I think I've chewed out a lot.
13:44Maria, I met a few years back.
13:46We had the same friends, you know?
13:47We'd hang out sometimes.
13:49When I introduced Chloe, they clicked automatically.
13:52It was, like, the next day, Chloe was telling me,
13:54I'm going to hang out with Maria every day now.
13:56The thing about Maria is that she works abroad,
13:58so when she comes to Ruby,
13:59she only wants to look for a party, you know?
14:02And I don't like that at all.
14:05Now that, you know, you're living here
14:06on the island and stuff,
14:07this is a good opportunity for you to show me
14:10that you're mature and ready
14:13to really take a serious step.
14:15You know, I'm not going to go out and, you know,
14:18go dance on top of the bar and, you know, be crazy.
14:20Like, that's not something that's respectable
14:22from either of our parts.
14:23Like, I wouldn't do that.
14:25I just don't want you to want to change,
14:28like, so much about me to the point where, like,
14:30like, if you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today,
14:33in a sense, you're not in love with me.
14:34Like, you're in love with also an idea
14:37of what, like, the future can look like
14:39when you have to be okay with me now also.
14:42Okay.
14:45It's just, um, I'm used to you
14:48when you're going out and going heavy.
14:49You know what I mean?
14:50Right, and I think that's more vacation mode.
14:52Okay, so just, I want to see
14:54how this mode's going to be, okay?
14:56So this is the opportunity to show me, like,
14:57what kind of mode you're in, okay?
14:59Mm-hmm.
15:00Okay.
15:03I know Jonathan doesn't like
15:05that I like to go out and have drinks,
15:06but I feel like this is more of a test
15:08if I'm actually wife material or not.
15:11Now that we're talking about it more and more,
15:13I can't really tell if Jonathan wants this or not.
15:16I feel like he's throwing up all these little,
15:18little roadblocks and, like, high obstacles
15:20that I can't jump over to stall the process.
15:24You're going to let me live a little home.
15:26Okay.
15:27Understood.
15:28Just don't go too crazy, okay?
15:30I'm not going to go too crazy.
15:32I'm still a little crazy.
15:33You are.
15:34Very crazy.
15:35I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:369.
15:37I wouldn't say that about you.
15:38What would you say about that?
15:3910.
15:40You're so bad.
15:54Searching for the star.
15:57Searching for the star.
16:01Who will I find my way back home?
16:07Will I find my way back home?
16:11I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:18I was just kind of, like, spiraling about everything that happened.
16:26The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew, and slipping the engagement ring off my finger made the breakup feel very real to me.
16:41And I am filled with immense sadness because an engagement is a promise, and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good.
16:52Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
16:58I feel really nervous about it because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
17:04It's going to be difficult because I know it's going to be emotional, but I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
17:16Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move and to join the family, and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:34Matthew's parents again and a couple more moments before my family came up with him.
17:41Hi, Greta.
17:43How are you?
17:44I'm okay. How are you?
17:45I'm okay.
17:46I'm sorry.
17:48You have to be sorry about it.
17:52I just thought we'd, um, just catch up with each other.
17:55So obviously a lot's happened, and I just want to try and find out what...
18:00where you are because i can't understand what's what's happened and i'm struggling to to put it
18:08together matthews isn't i've never seen him like it greta and i'm i'm worried about him because
18:17he loves you i know he does and you and you broke his heart greta literally
18:25that's like the worst part about it all and that's why i was like struggling so much because
18:31like i like really don't want to hurt him because
18:35it's so difficult to explain i did love him so much and i was so excited to talk to him all the
18:45time i was so excited to see him and so i'm confused like why i don't like feel like i love him
18:55like in love with him is that because you've had so much happening in the last last few months
18:59you forgot how to live almost haven't you because you've been studying studying studying studying
19:04studying i mean i know that there was a shift because i felt like we were not evolving into
19:13people that were still compatible with each other and and i wish like i could change my feelings
19:20because like he's a great person like he like i respect him so much he's like helped me so much
19:29in life like i truly just like only want him to be happy he wonders whether you just need some time
19:36because you don't forget you've just traveled across halfway over the world you've probably not slept
19:41properly but he's prepared to give you your time in your space yeah what worries me is that you've not
19:47had time together you've not not been on your own so yeah you might think that yeah it's done and and
19:53you're you say it is but let's be honest it's only been four days this it's not been given a chance to
19:59to go any further because i know it seems like sudden and i know this just sounds like crazy but i just
20:06know it in my instinct like that that like he's not my person
20:11that's such a shame you know and like my honest truth which like you can accept or not
20:20i just like no i can't make him happy
20:23and i just like hate that i did this to you guys and you guys like welcomed me with open arms
20:29like it really meant the world to me like thank you because we we loved you greta
20:35yeah we really thought a lot of you
20:38i do think i've got clarity from greta i don't think there's any hope for matthew
20:49um and greta at this stage i don't understand it i can see she's rationalizing it in her mind
20:57why she's doing it and she's justifying it but i'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son
21:03matthew's always loved you and he always probably will for a long time still to come
21:09just wish i had a different hand in yeah
21:14i'm nerding my life take a dex of pregnant we're struggling to cross the finish line on us
21:28getting married let alone starting a family together i really so scared
21:34i know
22:04i never in my life take a dex of pregnant and i never think i'm gonna have to be
22:12like this
22:14i'm scared this i mean we're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married
22:26let alone starting a family together
22:29what do you want to be
22:53honestly i think like right now the right time for us to have a baby probably not
23:01but it's something that i want with you
23:03you are the person that i want to be the mother of my children because i love you
23:09and i think that you would be a very good mom whether it's now or in five years it's not going to change how i feel
23:17what does this mean
23:26usually this says pregnant or not pregnant a smile or a sad face or something this is one line what does one line mean
23:37something that
23:40is unique
23:43negative this is negative that is the result
23:51But you should be crying. You don't cry.
23:54That you're negative or positive?
23:57Negative.
24:00It doesn't change how I feel.
24:03I love you, and I want this relationship to work.
24:06Yeah, me too, but in the same way,
24:09I don't trust you in anything, and I'm really so scared.
24:16I just want you to be happy.
24:19And I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:21I try really hard, and I feel like I fail all the time.
24:24You try so hard.
24:26But what about the conversation today?
24:33This is going to be my name.
24:35Okay.
24:37Like, one day, we're going to have to share everything.
24:40We have a company together.
24:42We have business together, everything.
24:44And later, no, I don't want to share anymore.
24:47The company is both of us.
24:55In your mind, everything is money.
24:58I don't care about money.
25:00Other than the fact that...
25:01Don't!
25:02Other than...
25:03Other than you...
25:04Every single day mention money.
25:06Every single day mention,
25:07No, you don't push any money in this project.
25:10You don't pay anything.
25:12You never buy with me.
25:14I value everything that you do.
25:16But the fact of the matter is,
25:18I try as much as I can to provide for you.
25:22And if you would let me be a man and make manly decisions,
25:28I'd really appreciate it.
25:30I don't ask much of you.
25:33Just let me do what I need to do to make our dreams a reality.
25:38I know I am not perfect, I know I am a difficult person, and I know I have so many things to do well.
25:59But I just love everything you've been doing for me.
26:04But at the end of the day, I really love you, Luke.
26:11I know you do.
26:15And I love you more.
26:16One of my biggest problems in this relationship is always he show me I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:28So, I really push so hard to push my name on, like, the property.
26:35Because I don't know if in the future he gonna have to change the woman or change me,
26:39and what they gonna have to do.
26:42But when I tell him, maybe I think I get pregnant,
26:46and he reaction, like, no, I really want a family with you.
26:50It may make me more comfortable about everything's gonna to be good.
26:54And I need to trust him.
26:58I just want you to be happy.
27:02And I'd like for us to be happy together.
27:08Damn.
27:11This is not the first night we met.
27:20I know.
27:21Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:23Absolutely.
27:24If I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
27:28I want to go back home for, like, six months and dance that debt off.
27:34You only just got here.
27:52Wow.
27:53Oh, this is how you do it like a bro.
28:04Alrighty. Look at that.
28:07I've been here a couple of weeks, and I've been complaining about how there's nothing to do here.
28:12But tonight, Dylan's taking me to a strip club.
28:14I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:20I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:23There's nightlife here in Tasmania.
28:25Something that's open past 10.
28:27OMG.
28:28You think you can do that?
28:29Definitely not.
28:30I feel like this is even like the first night we've met.
28:34I know, right?
28:35Except you're wearing a little bit less than what you're wearing now.
28:37I know more clothing.
28:38I know.
28:39This is awesome.
28:40It's a great club.
28:41G'day, g'day.
28:42Hey, beautiful.
28:43Oh, my gosh.
28:44She's hot.
28:45She's definitely good with the pole.
28:46You're loving this, aren't you?
28:47I do.
28:48I do.
28:49I do.
28:50I do.
28:51I do.
28:52I do.
28:53I do.
28:54I do.
28:55I do.
28:56I do.
28:57I do.
28:58This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
28:59Shut up.
29:00Seriously.
29:01Let's shut up.
29:02I have everything we've done.
29:03Yeah.
29:04Babe, you know why I love it?
29:05Why?
29:06Tell me.
29:07This is my life.
29:08I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:09It's like my second home.
29:10You know what it's like to perform.
29:11I love it.
29:12You feel good.
29:13Yes.
29:14You get all the, you know, the compliments is awesome.
29:16It's just a really beautiful.
29:17Oh, my gosh.
29:18She's hot.
29:19She's hot.
29:20She's hot.
29:21She's hot.
29:22She's hot.
29:23She's hot.
29:24She's hot.
29:25She's hot.
29:26She's hot.
29:27It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:29Yes, exactly.
29:30Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:33Absolutely.
29:34Why?
29:35Well, even though, you know, you were happy doing it and it lit you up, it's still not
29:40my favourite thought to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:44It's not my favourite thing.
29:46But you know it's just work.
29:49Yeah.
29:50I'd rather you do a different job.
29:52I get that he doesn't like me being around other men.
29:56But it's just a job and the money is fantastic.
29:59And if I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
30:03It's going to be hard for me not making this kind of money.
30:08You know?
30:09I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:12Yeah?
30:14It makes, it scares me sometimes.
30:17I'm just going to have to look at, you know, some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:22You know, all the online shopping and the excessive spending, that's going to have to stop.
30:27You worry about the financial stuff, you're worried about the money, the debt.
30:34So, I just think I want to go back to the States, home for like six months and dance that debt off.
30:45Then you won't have to worry about paying that off.
30:47Would you be okay with that?
30:48I don't like that thought, love.
30:53You only just got here and you're talking about leaving and going back to dancing.
30:57To be honest, I know that it's fun for you and I dance too.
31:03But like, I don't dance in a champagne room with just me and another person.
31:09No.
31:10I work with another girl.
31:11I'm up on stage.
31:12But I work with another girl.
31:13It's always me and another girl.
31:14Okay.
31:15Well, sometimes you don't.
31:16But the thing is...
31:1790% of the time maybe.
31:18Okay.
31:19Well, 10% you don't.
31:20Very rare.
31:21It bothers me a little bit.
31:23Sorry.
31:25Even though, you know, we're both strippers, it's a very sensitive topic and makes me look
31:32like a hypocrite, but I feel like it is different in a way.
31:36I'm up on stage with a room full of women.
31:40But with Patia's, she goes out, she finds a guy and then she takes him back to a VIP room.
31:46I know they're both entertainment.
31:49They're both stripping.
31:50It's both a transaction, but they're two different things.
31:53And so I don't like the thought of Patia going back to dancing.
31:57It kind of feels like an excuse just to leave Tasmania.
32:00It's like, this place sucks.
32:02It's too quiet.
32:03I don't want to be near your family.
32:05So I'll just go back and dance in the US.
32:09Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
32:11Maybe Patia is not going to change.
32:14I just sometimes don't think that I'm enough for you.
32:16You are enough.
32:18I know that I'm enough, but sometimes I think that you're addicted to that lifestyle, that easy, fast money.
32:26And that's kind of what I'm scared of because I retired you in Thailand and you were just completely bored.
32:32I was bored.
32:33All you talked about the whole time was going back to dancing.
32:35I did.
32:36I did.
32:37I thought I was going to get a ring there and you didn't give it to me and I was like, you know what?
32:40What's the point?
32:41I'm done.
32:42If you really love me, you should just stick by my side no matter what.
32:46Listen, part of a problem in the past was because you didn't want to commit.
32:53So once you get a ring, like everything's magically going to change, you're going to become...
32:57It's not going to magically change.
32:59It's going to make me feel better.
33:02It's hard to commit to you if you can't commit to us being together.
33:07Hey, I want to commit to us being together.
33:10I love you.
33:11You're not committing.
33:12You're just like running off to dancing already.
33:14Put a ring on it.
33:16I want this to work, but Patia's saying she wants to go back to the US.
33:22Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind because she left me.
33:28If things get tough, is Patia just going to leave?
33:32I just want to know that you're going to stick by me no matter what.
33:42You marrying him is the worst idea.
33:45You've probably ever had.
33:46Before, it looked so bad.
33:48Still is.
33:50In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
33:54Probably every week.
34:15Don't hit me with your car.
34:16Please.
34:17Or do.
34:18Bye.
34:19I love you.
34:20Bye.
34:21Girls night.
34:22Girls night.
34:23Girls night.
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34:48Come on late.
34:49You look fabulous.
34:51Talk all my relationship gossips. They know everything from the highest high to like the lowest
34:57Low did you guys get wine to do or anything?
35:02Yeah, oh between my mom cutting me off financially and everything that's going on with Jonathan
35:08I think we have a lot to catch up on. I actually haven't seen you
35:12This is so funny and the last time I saw you I barely saw you were sick
35:16So I and then my phone broke. I got a new phone. Do you have a plan in Aruba? No
35:21Hello
35:22Haven't gone that far. I got a plan with my mom now instead of my like own
35:27Because she has the business one so I can like internationally. Oh, I have the same. I have the same. Yeah, but my mom said, you know
35:34I'm not gonna keep you know financing your
35:38Journey she's like I'm not like which is understandable, but now
35:43It's like if my mom's not gonna help me out
35:46We can't keep going to dinner every single night like we were when I was here
35:51Which is thousands and thousands of dollars at this point can
35:56Jonathan give you that
35:58No, he can't give me they he cannot give me the financial aspect that I'm used to
36:02He can't and he knows that it's gonna be a lot harder
36:05Are you willing to risk that it's a lot it's gonna take a lot of work
36:13I'm okay with that I want to do that because I know at the end of the day like I do want to be happy with him
36:19I want us to work. I want how long has it been not even a year or a year?
36:24It's been a year almost now. You have love goggles on. It's going to be a year
36:28You're in the honeymoon phase. I wish I could rip him off your face
36:33like
36:35I want us to work. I want to build something together. I want a work permit
36:40So we went to our first appointment with an immigration lawyer. What happened?
36:45Well, the easiest way for me to be legal is to get married
36:53Do you want to marry him? I do. I really do
37:02Chloe, no
37:05You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had in your life
37:12You see yourself long-term settling down with him, but you find out about a random girl every single week
37:19He wants a relationship while he's out cheating
37:24Remember that day that we were at
37:27Clubhouse and he said he was at work all day and his co-workers were like Jonathan didn't work today
37:34It wasn't his location a Jolly Pirate because yeah
37:37Kaner has his phone and covers his name
37:42There's definitely been a few other times where I've questioned where Jonathan was what he was doing
37:49Where I thought something was going on, but a lot of the times I couldn't prove it so I understand their side
37:56But I feel like since I've been here that Jonathan is being faithful. I
38:01feel like
38:02Before it looks so bad like it was bad
38:06Before that's what it was see you're making an excuse for him again. I don't want to look so no it was bad still is I
38:15Think we're moving in a better
38:17Direction like I think we've had growth but no like are he hasn't been cheating
38:24Lately no, but what's changed? I
38:27Mean is he just lying better?
38:29Khloe has talked about marrying Johnny before
38:34But I never thought it was actually serious
38:38Because everybody on the island knows that Johnny
38:41Has a reputation with girls. He's proud to have a lot of girls on him. I think it feeds his ego
38:47In the year that they've been together. I think Johnny has cheated on her probably every week
38:52You know what he's doing you know what he's doing, you know, like are you willing to put up with that is this oh
39:01Right, so this is the person you want to marry
39:05What I am baffled about is that you're just okay with what he says
39:10Okay, I love you. I want to marry you. How about you don't eat on me?
39:15What would it take for you to be like, okay, actually, I'm gonna take my best friend's advice my mom's advice
39:24Everybody else's advice that this is a bad idea
39:28If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast
39:33Just prepare yourself. That's all I'm saying
39:35Next time on 90 Day Fiancé the other way
39:45On va jouer? On va jouer?
39:47Même si tu travailles beaucoup, il faut que tu prennes du temps pour tonneau
39:51Hearing from Anthony and from my mother, tu focus too much on career. The thing is like we still need to provide and pay the bills
39:59We're not rich
40:00Me, on c'est jamais tu pour une continue dans ce rythme-là , il peut un jour te le reprocher. Plein de choses avec ton enfant
40:09How you doing?
40:11This is Madeleine
40:13Madeleine calling the wedding off three four times. I mean, that's not a very good
40:18Indicator going into a marriage
40:20You're gonna be marrying my son, but the three weeks that he's been here
40:26Is this really what you want?
40:31You haven't really changed doing what you do
40:34You're gonna do anything
40:35It's just a matter of time until he just does it again. Like it's it's a habit
40:39You didn't physically do anything
40:41Exactly
40:41You should not have messaged another girl
40:43I didn't have messaged another girl
40:46I'm not getting into this
40:48I just feel like it's one thing after another
40:54And your mom is complaining about how I do things
40:57I can't live like this
40:59I knew that it's gonna be hard for Jenny because my mom has a list of expectations for everybody in the house
41:07You have to lose the family
41:09You're saying it, but you don't have to
41:11I can't take this anymore
41:13There's no making this woman happy
41:18Someone needs to put her in her place
41:20I'm not saying it, but you're saying it
41:22You're saying it wrong
41:23What are you saying?
41:23What are you saying?
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