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90 Day Fiance: The Other Way - Season 7 Episode 16 -
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00:00Oh, God, she kicked my ass in Dennis.
00:04I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
00:07Oh, you're joking.
00:08No.
00:09Every day, you have to talk to your mom.
00:11It's ridiculous.
00:13Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:14why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you have?
00:17Things are clearly not going well,
00:19and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:22and I think it might make it worse.
00:26How long would it take if we did file the partnership
00:29papers for me to be able to work?
00:32Eight to seven months.
00:34Yeah, it's a long time.
00:35That's a long time.
00:36If you're married, there's no problem.
00:39Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:41but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:46Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:47it's something to think about so we can be together in the end.
00:53I don't think I love you anymore.
00:59Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
01:02That's the saddest part.
01:04There was no fight.
01:05No.
01:07Your fight's just begun, sir.
01:08I think you should have a talk with her.
01:11Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:14Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:15Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:19This is not the way I want to start my weekend wedding.
01:23I feel dizzy and weird.
01:27I told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex.
01:31Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:33Yes, and I have a text.
01:35I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:46Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
02:05After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight
02:10about my relationship with my mum.
02:12I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:15so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway with some boundaries,
02:19but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:23so Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much, you know?
02:28G'day, mate.
02:30How you going?
02:31How the bloody hell are you?
02:32Well, a long time no see.
02:34It's a strong hand trick, you've got their balance.
02:41After you coming, sir.
02:42All right.
02:44Ever since Batia arrived in town, like, every day,
02:47she keeps asking me, when are you going to propose?
02:50G'day, guys.
02:51I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:53Certainly.
02:54So today I'm going with my buddy Chris to a jewellery store
02:58to get the engagement ring that I gave Batia shined up
03:02so that when I'm ready to propose, it looks brand new.
03:07Beautiful.
03:08You like that, do you?
03:09Family allure?
03:10Eh, not quite.
03:12He did actually give it to his partner.
03:17Yes.
03:17Before, and then he took it back.
03:19That's right, yeah.
03:22It's a complicated relationship.
03:25The first time I proposed to Batia, it was very lacklustre.
03:29You know, we were in bed.
03:30It was Christmas morning and I just slipped the ring on her finger
03:33and she said yes.
03:35I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:38Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:40No, I don't.
03:41There is so much history and so many memories.
03:44So, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:47I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:49You don't want to trade it in?
03:50Definitely not.
03:51Perfect.
03:52And then give it a clean and polish.
03:56Perfect.
03:57Go grab a coffee.
03:58Alright.
03:59After I proposed, we'd be breaking up every three or four weeks.
04:05And, um, at one point Batia's spending got so bad, she started selling all her jewellery
04:12just to fund her shopping habit.
04:14And I thought, she's going to pawn that.
04:17So, I took the ring back.
04:20She saw that as, you know, we're no longer engaged, which is fair enough.
04:24Okay, so the ring.
04:27Yes.
04:28Ten years ago, you gave her the ring.
04:30And you've been holding on to that ring ever since.
04:33Yeah.
04:34You haven't proposed to her again?
04:36No, because I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:41I don't know, 12 years.
04:42I feel like if you haven't fixed something after 12 years, how many more years is it going
04:46to take for you to fix?
04:49I'm not giving up.
04:52Hmm, okay.
04:54I'm just worried about the personality clash.
04:56You lived together in Thailand.
04:57Yes.
04:58So what happened there?
04:59Why, why did that not work out?
05:01In the beginning, it was magical.
05:04And then after a while, she was miserable, I wasn't giving her enough money, and she just,
05:10she just hated it.
05:14I just thought she would be happy living that life, that retired beach lifestyle.
05:20But she, that wasn't enough for her.
05:23And her life has been fast paced.
05:28Fast money, fast living.
05:30How is she going to be happy here?
05:32Long term.
05:33Honestly, think about that.
05:35She's in a foreign country.
05:37She's got no family or friends here.
05:39She's just going to be happy hanging around in Launceston.
05:44But the thing is, there's a certain limit.
05:47You can't do that all your life.
05:49She's approaching an age.
05:51An age.
05:52Yeah, sure.
05:53She's getting older.
05:54She can't live that fast paced life forever.
05:56I don't know.
05:57Once you're used to something, it's, it's hard to, um, to change.
06:02You know, I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn.
06:06Like he won't change what he eats, for example.
06:08It's only chicken and rice.
06:09I tried to get him to eat a cookie, wouldn't even eat a cookie.
06:11I mean, he's pretty stubborn.
06:12He won't, he won't change anything.
06:14So I'm worried that Dylan's stubbornness is causing him to live in a fantasy and not deal with reality.
06:20I don't think a ring on the finger is going to be the thing that fixes everything.
06:26I love her.
06:28I just can't see myself with anyone else.
06:31I'm not saying you, I'm not saying you.
06:33I'm not even attracted to anyone else.
06:34I just want her.
06:35Alright, look, I'm only saying,
06:38this because I care about you as a friend.
06:42I love Patia.
06:45I know she makes you very happy.
06:47But your idea of happily ever after is a bit delusional.
06:52I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan.
06:58Chris's concerns are valid.
07:02Patia and I still have a lot of issues to work through.
07:05But I am feeling optimistic about the future with Patia.
07:10She's come to Australia.
07:12She's given it a good go.
07:14And she's trying to resolve things with my mother.
07:17So I think that's massive, really.
07:19I feel like it is different now.
07:21Think about it.
07:22Think about it.
07:23I'm confused.
07:39I'm confused.
07:48Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
07:50I can't be.
07:55Holy
07:56this stresses me
07:58out right now.
08:00You don't know how stressful
08:01I would scare
08:03how stressful I am.
08:06I didn't expect you to
08:08say that you actually
08:10think that you're pregnant.
08:25Stability is the only thing
08:26that I really ever wanted.
08:29I'm talking about
08:30you don't give it to me
08:31so how are we going to get
08:33our children to the war
08:35when you and me
08:36fighting all the time
08:37when you cheating of me
08:39like how?
08:41I hope that we can work
08:43on this relationship
08:43but right now
08:44I'm not confident
08:45that we're working.
08:46We talked yesterday.
08:47Hey like
08:48are we compatible?
08:49Can we not fight?
08:50And all we've done
08:50is continue to fight.
08:53Who made the fight today?
08:55I didn't try and fight today.
08:56I said please.
08:57No.
08:59I don't want to argue.
09:04Do you want to go try this?
09:05No.
09:07Leave me alone.
09:10I want to know.
09:16I don't know.
09:17you think I am happy.
09:29But you know that
09:31you shouldn't be happy.
09:33You look at me happy.
09:35Let's please try
09:35and be happy about this.
09:37Please.
09:37Can we take the time?
09:37See you think I am like
09:38you're going to change
09:39almost you're so lazy.
09:40Like how I can be happy
09:42I am two days
09:44to supposedly get married.
09:48If you are pregnant
09:49and we're going to have a baby
09:54then this means
09:56that we're having
09:57a family, Magdalene.
10:04Can we please take this test?
10:06No.
10:06Please.
10:14Please, Madalee.
10:15I am not ready
10:28to get the text
10:30but it's something
10:32like I have to do.
10:35I need to know
10:36what is going on.
10:37This is a good opportunity
10:45for you to show me
10:47that you're ready
10:47to really take
10:48a serious step.
10:50If you wouldn't put a ring
10:51on my finger today
10:52in a sense
10:53you're not in love with me
10:54like you're in love
10:55with also an idea.
10:56I feel like this is a test
10:58if I'm actually
10:59wife material or not.
11:03You broke his heart, Ressa.
11:05You might think
11:06that it's done.
11:07He wonders
11:08whether you just
11:09need some time.
11:11I know.
11:32Such a beautiful beach, huh?
11:35It is really pretty.
11:37It's been a few days
11:38since Jonathan and I
11:39have met with the lawyers
11:40and found out
11:41that the fastest
11:41and easiest way
11:42for me to stay here
11:43is to get married
11:45and we're still
11:46kind of processing
11:46that information.
11:48I don't think
11:49your leg can support me.
11:50Oh, really?
11:51Come on.
11:52I've been eating a lot.
11:53I don't want to step on your shoe.
11:55Let's go.
11:56Ow!
11:57I thought giving up everything
11:58and moving to another country
11:59was a lot
12:00but adding this on top of it
12:01is like bang.
12:05Do we miss the sunset
12:05or is it just cloudy?
12:07It's a bit cloudy today.
12:09Anyway,
12:10me and Maria are going to have
12:11meatball night tomorrow.
12:13What does meatball night mean?
12:15Are you going to actually
12:16go to a restaurant
12:17and eat meatballs
12:17or are you going to like...
12:18It's just like
12:19a girly fun night.
12:21Like, it's just
12:22where we can just act stupid
12:23and be in meatballs.
12:24Go to dinner,
12:25have a drink.
12:26Okay.
12:27It's called a meatball night.
12:28One drink.
12:31Have a drink.
12:33Maria is my best friend
12:35on the island.
12:36Jonathan doesn't like
12:37when I go out with Maria
12:38because we like to drink.
12:41We like to be stupid.
12:43We like to randomly karaoke.
12:44We like to like
12:45climb palm trees
12:46and just do
12:47really harmless things.
12:50With that being said,
12:51if I'm being unrealistic
12:53about something
12:54that happened with Jonathan,
12:55Maria is always the one
12:56to reel me in
12:57and be like,
12:58don't put up with it.
12:59And I think that
13:01makes Jonathan a little nervous.
13:04I don't know where
13:04we're going to go to dinner yet.
13:05Maybe one of our
13:06go-to spots.
13:09Yeah, well,
13:10we'll find a spot
13:11where we can go to dinner.
13:13Well, I think
13:14me and Maria
13:15are just going to go to dinner.
13:16And then...
13:17I'm not going to go?
13:19That's why
13:19it's a meatball night.
13:21Oh.
13:23We were going to invite
13:24you afterwards.
13:25Mm-hmm.
13:27Well, no,
13:27I don't want you to be,
13:28like, worried about it,
13:30you know?
13:31I know, but
13:31I have a lot of worries
13:32when Maria is here
13:34because when you guys
13:35get together,
13:35it's a real
13:36get-together,
13:37you know what I mean?
13:38You guys go
13:38all out.
13:41Yeah, but I think
13:42I've chilled out a lot.
13:44Maria, I met
13:45a few years back.
13:46We had the same friends,
13:47you know,
13:47we'd hang out sometimes.
13:49When I introduced Chloe,
13:50they clicked automatically.
13:52It was like the next day,
13:53Chloe was telling me,
13:54I'm going to hang out
13:54with Maria every day now.
13:56The thing about Maria
13:57is that she works abroad,
13:58so when she comes to Ruby,
14:00she only wants to look
14:00for a party,
14:02you know,
14:02I don't like that at all.
14:05Now that, you know,
14:06you're living here
14:06on the island and stuff,
14:07this is a good opportunity
14:09for you to show me
14:10that you're mature
14:11and ready
14:12to really take
14:13a serious step.
14:15I'm not going to go out
14:16and, you know,
14:17go dance on top of the bar
14:19and, you know,
14:20be crazy.
14:20Like, that's not something
14:21that's respectable
14:22from either of our parts.
14:23Like, I wouldn't do that.
14:25I just don't want you
14:26to want to change,
14:27like, so much about me
14:29to the point where, like,
14:30if you wouldn't put a ring
14:31on my finger today,
14:33in a sense,
14:33you're not in love with me.
14:34Like, you're in love
14:35with also an idea
14:36of what, like,
14:37the future can look like
14:39when you have to be okay
14:40with me now also.
14:42Okay.
14:45It's just, um,
14:47I'm used to you
14:48when you're going out
14:48and going heavy.
14:49You know what I mean?
14:50Right, and I think
14:51that's more vacation mode.
14:52Okay, so just,
14:53I want to see
14:54how this mode's going to be,
14:55okay?
14:56So this is the opportunity
14:57to show me, like,
14:57what kind of mode you're in,
14:59okay?
15:00Okay.
15:03I know Jonathan doesn't like
15:05that I like to go out
15:06and have drinks,
15:07but I feel like
15:08this is more of a test
15:09if I'm actually
15:10wife material or not.
15:11Now that we're talking
15:13about it more and more,
15:14I can't really tell
15:14if Jonathan wants this or not.
15:16I feel like he's throwing up
15:17all these little,
15:18little roadblocks
15:19and, like, high obstacles
15:20that I can't jump over
15:23to stall the process.
15:25You're going to let me
15:26live a little.
15:27Okay.
15:28Understood.
15:28Just don't go too crazy.
15:31I'm not going to go too crazy.
15:32I'm still a little crazy.
15:34You are.
15:35Very crazy.
15:35I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:379.
15:37I wouldn't say that about you.
15:38What would you say about that?
15:4010.
15:41You're so bad.
15:42I'm still a little bit.
15:44I'm still a little bit.
15:44I'm still a little bit.
15:46I'm still a little bit.
15:48My heart, it wanders
15:50through the night
15:52Searching for the star
15:56Searching for the star
15:59Searching for the star
16:00Ooh
16:02Will I find my way back home?
16:07Will I find my way back home?
16:10I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:18I was just kind of, like, spiraling about everything that happened.
16:27The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew,
16:31and slipping the engagement ring off my finger
16:36made the breakup feel very real to me.
16:42And I am filled with immense sadness
16:45because an engagement is a promise,
16:47and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good.
16:53Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
16:59I feel really nervous about it
17:01because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
17:04It's going to be difficult
17:06because I know it's going to be emotional,
17:09but I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
17:17Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move
17:20and to join the family,
17:21and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:24Hi, Greta.
17:41Good work.
17:43How are you?
17:44I'm OK. How are you?
17:45OK.
17:46I'm sorry.
17:47I just thought we'd, um, just catch up with each other
17:55because, obviously, a lot's happened,
17:57and I just want to try and find out what...
18:00where you are
18:02because I can't understand what's happened,
18:06and I'm struggling to put it together.
18:08Matthew's father.
18:11Matthew's isn't...
18:12I've never seen him like it, Greta,
18:15and I'm worried about him because he loves you.
18:19I know.
18:21He does, and you broke his heart, Greta, literally.
18:25And that's, like, the worst part about it all,
18:29and that's why I was, like, struggling so much
18:31because, like, I, like, really don't want to hurt him
18:34because it's so difficult to explain.
18:40I did love him so much,
18:42and I was so excited to talk to him all the time.
18:45I was so excited to see him,
18:47and so I'm confused, like,
18:51why I don't, like, feel like I love him.
18:55Like, in love with him.
18:56Is that because you've had so much happening
18:58in the last few months?
19:00You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
19:02Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
19:05I mean, I know that there was a shift
19:09because I felt like we were not evolving into people
19:13that were still compatible with each other,
19:16and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
19:20Like, like, he's a great person.
19:25Like, he, like, I respect him so much.
19:28He's, like, helped me so much in life.
19:30Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
19:34He wonders whether you just need some time
19:36because you don't forget you've just travelled
19:38across the halfway over the world.
19:40You've probably not slept properly
19:42because he's prepared to give you your time and your space.
19:44Yeah.
19:44What worries me is that you've not had time together.
19:48You've not been on your own.
19:50So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done,
19:52and you say it is.
19:54But let's be honest, it's only been four days.
19:57There's not been given a chance to go any further because...
20:01I know it seems, like, sudden,
20:03and I know this just sounds, like, crazy,
20:06but I just know it in my instinct, like, that...
20:09that, like, he's not my person.
20:11It's such a shame, you know?
20:16And, like, my honest truth,
20:18which, like, you can accept or not,
20:21I just, like, know I can't make him happy.
20:25And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys,
20:27and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms.
20:29Like, it really meant the world to me,
20:31like, thank you, because...
20:33It did, too. We...
20:34We loved you, Greta.
20:36Yeah.
20:36We really fought a lot of you.
20:41I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
20:47I don't think there's any hope for Matthew
20:49and Greta at this stage.
20:53I don't understand it.
20:54I can see she's rationalising it in her mind
20:57why she's doing it, and she's justifying it.
21:00But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
21:05Matthew's always loved you,
21:06and he always probably will for a long time, still to come.
21:09I just wish I had a different ending.
21:13Yeah.
21:19I'm nerding my life.
21:21Take a dex of Brena.
21:25We're struggling to cross the finish line
21:28on us getting married,
21:29let alone starting a family together.
21:31I'm really so scared.
21:34I don't know.
22:04I've never in my life
22:05I've never in my life
22:05take a dex of Brena.
22:10And I never think I'm gonna have to be
22:12like this.
22:20I'm scared of this.
22:23I mean, we're struggling
22:24to cross the finish line
22:25on us getting married,
22:27let alone starting a family together.
22:29What do you want to be?
22:53Honestly, I think, like, right now,
22:58the right time for us to have a baby?
23:00Probably not.
23:01But it's something that I want with you.
23:04You are the person
23:05that I want to be the mother of my children
23:07because I love you.
23:10And I think that you would be a very good mom,
23:12whether it's now or in five years.
23:15It's not gonna change how I feel.
23:17What does this mean?
23:31Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant,
23:33a smile or a sad face or something.
23:35This says one line.
23:37What does one line mean?
23:41Negative.
23:41This is negative?
23:42That is the result.
23:52But you should be crying.
23:53You don't cry.
23:55That you're negative or positive?
23:57Negative.
24:00It doesn't change how I feel.
24:03I love you,
24:04and I want this relationship to work.
24:07Yeah, me too,
24:08but in the same way,
24:09I don't trust you in anything,
24:12and I'm really so scared.
24:16I just want you to be happy.
24:19And I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:21I try really hard,
24:22and I feel like I fail all the time.
24:25You try so hard.
24:26What about the conversation today?
24:29The lot of the other we're talking about,
24:32we share, too.
24:33This is gonna be my name.
24:34I don't care about money,
25:00other than the fact that...
25:02Don't!
25:03Other than...
25:04Every single day mention money.
25:06Every single day mention,
25:07no, you don't push any money in this project.
25:11You don't pay anything.
25:12You never follow me.
25:14I value everything that you do,
25:17but the fact of the matter is,
25:19I try as much as I can to provide for you,
25:22and if you would let me be a man
25:26and make manly decisions,
25:29I'd really appreciate it.
25:33I don't ask much of you.
25:34Just let me do what I need to do
25:37to make our dreams a reality.
25:39I know I am not perfect,
25:56I know I am a difficult person,
25:57and I know I have so many things to do well,
26:01but I just love everything you've been doing for me.
26:07But at the end of the day,
26:08I really love you, Luke.
26:11I know you do.
26:16And I love you more.
26:21One of my biggest problems in this relationship
26:24is always he show me,
26:26I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:29So, I really push so hard
26:32to push my name on, like, the property,
26:36because I don't know if in the future
26:38he's going to have to change the woman
26:39or change me,
26:40and what are they going to have to do?
26:43But when I tell him,
26:45maybe I think I get pregnant,
26:47and he reacts, like,
26:48no, I really want a family with you.
26:50It may make me more comfortable
26:52about everything's going to be good,
26:54and I need to trust him.
26:59I just want you to be happy.
27:02And I'd like for us to be happy together.
27:08Damn.
27:09This is, like, the first night we met.
27:21I know.
27:22Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:24Absolutely.
27:25If I'm being honest after being here,
27:27sometimes I miss it.
27:29I want to go back home
27:31for, like, six months
27:33and dance that debt off.
27:35You only just got here.
27:52Wow.
27:53Wow.
27:53Oh, this is how you do it like a bro.
27:57Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
28:04All righty.
28:05Look at that.
28:08I've been here a couple of weeks,
28:09and I've been complaining
28:11about how there's nothing to do here,
28:12but tonight Dylan's taking me to a strip club.
28:18I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:20I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:24There's nightlife here in Tasmania,
28:25something that's open past ten.
28:28OMG.
28:40You think you can do that?
28:41Definitely not.
28:45It's even like the first night we met.
28:47I know, right?
28:48Except you're wearing a little bit less
28:49than what you're wearing now.
28:50I know, more clothing.
28:52I know.
28:53This is awesome.
28:55It's a great club.
28:56G'day, g'day.
28:58Hey, beautiful.
28:59Oh, my God, she's hot.
29:01She's definitely good with the pole.
29:04You're loving this, aren't you?
29:07I do.
29:07Doing your elements.
29:08This is the happiest I've seen you
29:10since we got here.
29:11Shut up.
29:11Seriously.
29:12Let's shut up.
29:13I have everything we've done.
29:14Yeah, babe, you know why I love it?
29:16What?
29:17Tell me.
29:17This is my life.
29:17I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:19It's like my second home.
29:22You know what it's like to perform.
29:23I love it.
29:24You feel good.
29:24You get all the, you know,
29:25the compliments is awesome.
29:28It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:29Yes, exactly.
29:32Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:33Absolutely.
29:34Why?
29:36Well, even though, you know,
29:38you were happy doing it
29:39and it lit you up,
29:40it's still not my favourite thought
29:42to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:45It's not my favourite thing.
29:46But you know it's just work.
29:50Yeah, but I'd rather you do a different job.
29:54I get that he doesn't like me
29:56being around other men,
29:57but it's just a job
29:58and the money is fantastic.
30:00And if I'm being honest after being here,
30:02sometimes I miss it.
30:05It's going to be hard for me
30:06not making this kind of money, you know?
30:10I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:13Yeah?
30:14It scares me sometimes.
30:18I'm just going to have to look at, you know,
30:20some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:23You know, all the online shopping
30:25and the excessive spending,
30:27that's just going to have to stop.
30:28You're worried about the financial stuff,
30:32you're worried about the money,
30:34the debt.
30:35So,
30:36I just think
30:38I want to go back to the States,
30:41home for like
30:42six months
30:43and dance
30:44that debt off.
30:46Then you won't have to worry about paying that off.
30:48Would you be okay with that?
30:49I don't like that thought, love.
30:54You only just got here
30:55and you're talking about leaving
30:56and going back to dancing.
30:57To be honest,
30:58I know that
30:59it's fun for you
31:01and
31:01I dance too.
31:04But like,
31:05I don't dance in a champagne room
31:07with just me and another person.
31:09No,
31:11I work with another girl.
31:12I'm up on stage.
31:12But I work with another girl.
31:13It's always me and another girl.
31:15Sometimes you don't.
31:16But the thing is...
31:1790% of the time, maybe.
31:18Okay, well 10% you don't.
31:20Very rare.
31:21It bothers me a little bit.
31:23Sorry.
31:26Even though, you know,
31:27we're both strippers,
31:28it's a very
31:29sensitive topic
31:31and
31:32makes me look like a hypocrite,
31:33but
31:33I feel like it is different in a way.
31:37I'm up on stage
31:38with a room full of women,
31:40but with
31:41Patia's,
31:42she goes out,
31:43she finds a guy
31:44and then she takes him back
31:45to a VIP room.
31:47I know
31:47they're both
31:49entertainment,
31:49they're both stripping,
31:50it's both a transaction,
31:52but they're two
31:52different things.
31:54And so
31:55I don't like the thought of
31:56Patia going back to dancing.
31:58Kind of feels like an excuse
31:59just to leave Tasmania.
32:01It's like,
32:02this place sucks,
32:03it's too quiet,
32:04I don't want to be near your family,
32:05so
32:06I'll just go back and dance
32:07in the US.
32:09Maybe
32:10Chris's concerns
32:11are valid,
32:12maybe Patia
32:13is not going to change.
32:15I just sometimes
32:15don't think that
32:16I'm enough for you.
32:17You are enough.
32:18I know that
32:20I'm enough,
32:20but sometimes
32:21I think that
32:22you're addicted
32:23to that lifestyle,
32:24that easy,
32:25fast money,
32:26and that's kind of
32:27what I'm scared of
32:27because
32:28I retired you
32:29in Thailand
32:30and you were just
32:31completely bored.
32:33I was bored.
32:33All you talked about
32:34the whole time
32:35was going back to dancing.
32:36I did.
32:36I did.
32:37I thought I was going to get a ring there
32:39and you didn't give it to me
32:40and I was like,
32:40you know what,
32:41what's the point?
32:42I'm done.
32:43If you really love me,
32:45you should just stick by my side
32:46no matter what.
32:50Listen,
32:50part of a problem
32:52in the past
32:52was because you didn't want to commit.
32:54So once you get a ring,
32:55like,
32:56everything's magically going to change,
32:58you're going to become...
32:58It's not going to magically change.
33:00It's going to make me feel better.
33:03It's hard to commit to you
33:05if you can't commit to us being together.
33:08Okay.
33:09I want to commit to us being together.
33:11I love you.
33:11You're not committing.
33:12You're just, like,
33:13running off to dancing already.
33:14Put a ring on it.
33:17I want this to work,
33:19but Batia's saying
33:21she wants to go back to the U.S.
33:23Thailand.
33:24It's kind of still
33:25in the back of my mind
33:26because she left me.
33:29If things get tough,
33:30is Batia just going to leave?
33:33I just want to know
33:34that you're going to stick by me
33:36no matter what.
33:42You marrying him
33:43is the worst idea
33:45you've probably ever had.
33:47Before, it looked so bad.
33:49Still is.
33:51In the year
33:52that they've been together,
33:53I think Johnny
33:53has cheated on her.
33:55Probably every week.
34:19Don't hit me with your car.
34:21Please.
34:22Or do.
34:22Bye.
34:24I love you.
34:28Girls night.
34:29Girls night.
34:34Hi.
34:35Hi.
34:38My best friend, Maria,
34:39is finally back in town
34:40and we're going to get dinner
34:41with our other friend, Kamilah,
34:42and I'm so excited
34:43to just have some girl time.
34:45Hi.
34:46How are you, Pookie?
34:47You look fabulous.
34:48They are my go-to girls
34:51to talk all my relationship gossips.
34:53They know everything
34:54from the highest high
34:55to, like, the lowest low.
34:58Did you guys get wine?
34:59Did you order anything?
35:00I'm not sure.
35:01We're already starting with tequila.
35:02Yeah.
35:03Oh.
35:03Between my mom
35:04cutting me off financially
35:06and everything that's going on
35:07with Jonathan,
35:08I think we have a lot
35:10to catch up on.
35:11I actually haven't seen you.
35:12This is so funny.
35:13And the last time I saw you,
35:14I barely saw you.
35:15You were six, so I...
35:17And then my phone broke.
35:18I got a new phone.
35:19Do you have a plan in Aruba?
35:20No.
35:21Oh, wow.
35:22Haven't gotten that far.
35:23I got a plan with my mom now
35:25instead of my, like, own
35:26because she has the business one
35:28so I can, like, internationally
35:29roam it up.
35:30Oh, I have the same.
35:30I have the same, yeah.
35:32But my mom said, you know,
35:34I'm not going to keep,
35:35you know, financing your journey.
35:39She was like, I'm not.
35:40Like, which is understandable.
35:42But now, it's like,
35:44if my mom's not going to help me out,
35:47we can't keep going to dinner
35:48every single night
35:49like we were when I was here,
35:51which is thousands and thousands
35:53of dollars at this point.
35:55Can Jonathan give you that?
35:58No.
35:59No.
35:59He can't give me...
36:00He cannot give me the financial aspect
36:01that I'm used to.
36:02He can't.
36:03No.
36:04And he knows that.
36:05It's going to be a lot harder.
36:07Are you willing to risk that?
36:10It's a lot.
36:11It's going to take a lot of work.
36:13Like, I'm okay with that.
36:15I want to do that
36:16because I know at the end of the day,
36:17like, I do want to be happy with him.
36:20I want us to work.
36:21How long has it been?
36:22Not even a year or a year?
36:24It's been a year almost now.
36:26You have love goggles on.
36:27It's going to be a year.
36:29You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:31I wish that you'd rip him off your face.
36:33It's like...
36:34I want us to work.
36:37I want to build something together.
36:39I want a work permit.
36:41So, we went to our first appointment
36:43with an immigration lawyer.
36:44What happened?
36:46Well...
36:47The easiest way for me to be legal
36:50is to get married.
36:59Do you want to marry him?
37:00I do.
37:01I really do.
37:02No.
37:04Chloe, no.
37:06You marrying him
37:07is the worst idea
37:10you've probably ever had
37:11in your life.
37:13You see yourself long-term
37:15settling down with him.
37:16But you find out
37:17about a random girl
37:18every single week.
37:20He wants a relationship
37:21while he's out cheating.
37:24Remember that day
37:25that we were at Clubhouse
37:28and he said
37:28he was at work all day.
37:30And his co-workers were like,
37:31Jonathan didn't work today.
37:34It wasn't his location
37:35at Jolly Pirates
37:36because Kaner has his phone.
37:38Because Kaner has his phone.
37:40And covers his name.
37:43There's definitely been
37:44a few other times
37:45where I've questioned
37:46where Jonathan was,
37:48what he was doing,
37:49where I thought
37:50something was going on.
37:51But a lot of the times
37:52I couldn't prove it.
37:54So, I understand their side.
37:56But I feel like
37:57since I've been here
37:58that Jonathan
37:59is being faithful.
38:01I feel like
38:01before it looked so bad.
38:05Like, it was bad.
38:06Before.
38:07You see, you're making
38:08an excuse for him.
38:09Again.
38:10I don't want to make
38:10so, no.
38:12It was bad.
38:13Still is.
38:14I think we're moving
38:16in a better direction.
38:18Like, I think we've had growth.
38:20But no.
38:21Like, our...
38:22So he has been cheating?
38:24Lately, no.
38:25Well, what's changed?
38:27I mean...
38:28Is he just lying better?
38:32Chloe has talked
38:32about marrying Johnny before.
38:34But I never thought
38:36it was actually serious.
38:38Because everybody
38:39on the island knows
38:40that Johnny
38:40has a reputation
38:42with girls.
38:43He's proud to have
38:44a lot of girls on him.
38:45I think it feeds his ego.
38:47In the year
38:48that they've been together,
38:49I think Johnny
38:50has cheated on her.
38:51Probably every week.
38:53You know what he's doing.
38:55You know what he's doing.
38:57You know?
38:57Like...
38:57Are you willing
38:59to put up with that?
39:00Is this...
39:01Right.
39:02So this is the person
39:03you want to marry.
39:05What I am baffled about
39:07is that you're just okay
39:08with what he says.
39:10Okay.
39:11I love you.
39:12I want to marry you.
39:14How about you don't
39:14cheat on me?
39:15What would it take
39:18for you to be like,
39:20okay, actually,
39:21I'm going to take
39:22my best friend's advice,
39:23my mom's advice,
39:24everybody else's advice
39:25that this is a bad idea.
39:28If something were to happen,
39:29I would pack my
39:31so fast.
39:33Just prepare yourself.
39:34That's all I'm saying.
39:35Next time on
39:4390 Day Fiancé,
39:44The Other Way.
39:45We're going to play?
39:46We're going to play?
39:47Even if you work for a pool,
39:48you have to take time.
39:51Hearing from Anthony
39:52and from my mother,
39:54you focus too much
39:55on career.
39:56The thing is like,
39:57we still need to provide
39:58and pay the bills.
39:59We're not rich.
40:00How you doing?
40:10Good.
40:11This is Madeleine.
40:12I'm out of my dad.
40:13Madeleine,
40:14calling the wedding off
40:15three, four times.
40:16I mean,
40:16that's not a very good
40:17indicator going into a marriage.
40:21You're going to be
40:21marrying my son.
40:22But the two weeks
40:23that he's been here,
40:25it's a f***ing joke.
40:27Is this really
40:28what you want?
40:31You haven't really changed
40:32doing what you do.
40:34You haven't done anything.
40:35It's just a matter of time
40:37until he just does it again.
40:38Like, it's a habit.
40:39You didn't physically
40:40do anything.
40:41Exactly.
40:41You should not have
40:42messaged another girl.
40:44I didn't have
40:44messaged another girl.
40:46I'm not getting into this.
40:51I just feel like
40:52it's one thing after another.
40:54Your mom is complaining
40:55about how I do things.
40:58I can't live like this.
40:59I knew that it's going
41:00to be hard for Jenny
41:01because my mom
41:02has a list of expectations
41:04for everybody in the house.
41:07I can't take this anymore.
41:13There's no making
41:14this woman happy.
41:19Someone needs to put her
41:20in her place.
41:20What do you want to do?
41:21What do you want to do?
41:22Who are you talking about?
41:23Who are you talking about?
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