Have you noticed how you pause right before pressing “send”?
That hesitation isn’t indecision — it’s awareness.
Pressing send means releasing control. Once the message leaves you, it can’t be edited, taken back, or softened. The nervous system senses exposure, judgment, and uncertainty, and briefly slows you down to reassess safety.
This pause often appears when we care, when we fear being misunderstood, or when we’ve learned to monitor our words closely. It’s the body checking: Is it safe to be seen right now?
An Ego Ease reminder: hesitation doesn’t mean weakness. It means your system is trying to protect connection.
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