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00:00I got a nice little pop-up tension, nice and easy.
00:09Bye, Nani.
00:11All I can hear is my daughter saying,
00:13don't be the crazy cat lady.
00:15Bye, sweetie.
00:16Today is the day, a certain day.
00:18Ready to go.
00:19See you then.
00:21Pumpkin patch seems a bit weird for a date.
00:26Let's do this.
00:27I am on my way to my date from the matchmaker's office
00:33and I am so nervous.
00:37How are you?
00:39Good to see you.
00:41This is Matthew.
00:43First thing that is really striking me is I've got like this long hair.
00:48Is that a wig?
00:49Look at Matthew's hair is still perfect.
00:50Mine's not.
00:51It's blown all over this way.
00:54So Tyree, just to go over,
00:56we're having the laparoscopic vertical sleeve procedure.
00:58Yep, that's right.
00:59Yep.
01:00I've been overweight my entire life
01:02and I feel like surgery is the only route that I could take
01:05that would help me lose weight.
01:06So for the surgery, we do five incisions,
01:09four across the abdomen, one up top.
01:11Okay.
01:11And then I get to cut out and remove part of your stomach.
01:13I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half
01:16and I'm scared.
01:20I love the new sunglasses.
01:22I'm sure they serve their purpose.
01:24I'm pretty sorry about it.
01:25Did they have that girl or anything?
01:27It's been tense with my fiancee, Megan.
01:29If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
01:32You have my location, I'm wearing this ring.
01:34He's telling me I'm doing all the that I'm not doing.
01:36I feel like it's always excuses.
01:39Excuses?
01:39Guess what, lady?
01:40This is what I think about your excuses, right?
01:42See, the ring's gone.
02:07What'd you say?
02:10Well, what the is going on in here?
02:15Some of us are actually working.
02:17I'm John.
02:18I'm 41 years old, originally from Massachusetts.
02:23I'm Megan.
02:24I'm 36 years old from San Antonio, Texas.
02:31Our story began when I was lucky enough
02:33to catch a message from this beautiful woman right here
02:36who, you know, used God's gift to tempt Johnny,
02:40and, you know, it worked.
02:42That's my heart.
02:44Get ready for the best new thing.
02:46After chatting with Megan for about four months,
02:49I went down to San Antonio,
02:50and we got to hang out and get to know each other,
02:52and it was good.
02:53I think it went well physically.
02:55I think we had good sex.
02:57Good sex helps.
03:00Next thing you know,
03:01I'm moving down to San Antonio
03:02to be with Megan and her daughter, River.
03:07And now I'm the family man.
03:08After a few months,
03:09Megan was looking for me to make a bigger move.
03:12In three months,
03:13it's almost going to be a year,
03:14so I would hope that you were
03:16wanting some kind of commitment
03:18as far as, like, a ring or something, but...
03:20I have no doubt about
03:22who I want to spend the rest of my life with.
03:23That's you guys.
03:24Mm-hmm.
03:26So I decided to take the hint
03:27and, you know, make the move at the tell-all.
03:30My timeline, well, you know, you know,
03:33it's like whenever it happens,
03:34you know what I'm saying?
03:35Because right now, baby,
03:37will you do me the honors of being my wife?
03:41Aw.
03:42I love you.
03:42Love you, babe.
03:44We've been engaged two short years.
03:48And we're still not married.
03:49I mean, it's been tense.
03:51We've been fighting a lot.
03:53We haven't seen eye-to-eye a lot lately,
03:55but we're still here together.
03:57Still holding strong.
03:59That gives me hope.
04:03Look, let's go see.
04:04Hey, babe.
04:05What are you doing?
04:06What?
04:07What are you doing?
04:08I see that you're working very hard.
04:10Let me show everybody how great you look.
04:12This is my beautiful fiancée.
04:15Hi.
04:16This is your little setup.
04:17Let's take a look.
04:18Oh, yeah.
04:18No, look.
04:19Come to my office.
04:20Welcome to my office.
04:21Make a little look.
04:22I got a facility right here.
04:24It's ready to go.
04:26Well, the good news is,
04:27you don't have to go find a, right?
04:29Oh, yeah.
04:29No, it definitely saves me time.
04:31So I was in a car accident,
04:33which was really scary.
04:35And I ended up suffering
04:36from some, like, mild concussions,
04:39some cognitive issues.
04:40I've just been having some, like,
04:41PTSD and sensory sensitivity.
04:45This little closet right here.
04:46Oh, right there.
04:47Yeah.
04:47Soundproof?
04:48Soundproof?
04:49I pretty much set up my stuff
04:51in our walk-in bathroom
04:52for noise control
04:54because that's one of my sensory issues.
04:56You know, it's for the best in my interest,
04:58you know, even though it might not
04:59be the best for him.
05:02I love it.
05:05I got to get done working
05:07and I got to get this done
05:08and then we can enjoy our time.
05:11We have a little getaway.
05:12Hopefully, you know,
05:14we get some alone time.
05:15Oh, yeah.
05:15We're going to get some alone time, honey.
05:17Hopefully.
05:17Let's try and make sure
05:19it's a positive, positive trip.
05:21It takes two to do that, though.
05:22Oh, yeah.
05:23It takes two to do that.
05:25So not just me.
05:26You, too.
05:27Right, exactly.
05:27So while I'm working...
05:28So while you're working,
05:29why not you work?
05:30And I will go do my thing.
05:33Megan and I are heading
05:34to Sal Padre Island
05:35for some relaxation,
05:37but more importantly,
05:38to work on our relationship.
05:39I'm hoping we can get back
05:40to, like, smiling at each other,
05:42laughing with each other,
05:43having a good time with each other.
05:45I can't wait for this.
05:46Okay.
05:48Yes, I'm ready, too.
05:50Oh.
05:51Oh, it's so pretty.
05:52I hope there's a lot of alcohol
05:53because I'm going to need
05:55a lot of alcohol.
05:55Oh, yeah.
05:59Yeah, yeah.
06:00Man.
06:01Let me call Patrick,
06:02see if he's around.
06:13What's up, bro?
06:14What's up?
06:15I'm trying to get some
06:16video game action going on.
06:18You know?
06:19I'd like to let out
06:20some frustration,
06:21you know what I'm saying?
06:22I got a trip with Megan.
06:23This is our trip to try to,
06:25you know,
06:26make things better
06:27and try to, like,
06:29work on us.
06:30We fight every night.
06:32It's the trust issues.
06:33It's the, you know,
06:34accusations.
06:35I'm talking to someone
06:36and I'm cheating on her.
06:38I'm doing something.
06:39It's not good,
06:40you know?
06:41This is just like,
06:42I'm sleeping on the couch
06:43every night
06:43because we're fighting
06:44every night.
06:45No, your situation
06:46is horrible.
06:48We've had these issues
06:49for a while now,
06:50but it's gotten even worse.
06:51If I'm looking at another girl,
06:53I'm cheating.
06:54If I'm so much as talking
06:56to another girl,
06:57I'm cheating.
06:57I have to share
06:58my location all the time,
06:59where I am,
07:00who I'm texting.
07:01And worst of all,
07:02I have to wear
07:03an engagement ring
07:03because, you know,
07:05she thinks it's gonna keep
07:06women from hitting on me.
07:08And, you know,
07:08it's taxing.
07:11I mean,
07:12you guys are engaged now.
07:13Like,
07:14I don't know how
07:15you can make it more clear
07:16that you're not
07:16other girls.
07:18You don't wanna
07:18take the next step
07:20if things aren't resolved
07:22because that never works.
07:25I will not.
07:26I'm just gonna let you go,
07:27bro,
07:27and I will go
07:29get stuff back.
07:31I will go back.
07:40So,
07:41we're going to South Padre.
07:42Got all this stuff ready,
07:43finally.
07:44See how long we can make this.
07:45It's got a five-hour drive.
07:46Yeah,
07:46like four and a half hours,
07:48five hours.
07:49But,
07:49I'm just looking forward
07:51to the destinations
07:52that we'll see.
07:54How's all this?
07:56Things have been
07:57really tense lately.
07:58It's just frustrating
07:59because Joan's saying
08:01that we would be
08:01married within,
08:02like, two years.
08:03So,
08:04I'm like,
08:04clock's ticking
08:05and still nothing.
08:07I don't know.
08:08Like,
08:08does he not wanna marry me?
08:09Like,
08:09does he want somebody else?
08:11I'm really hoping
08:12that we can work
08:13on our issues
08:14just to really see
08:15if, like,
08:15we even do have
08:16a future together.
08:17on set.
08:25Ready?
08:26All right.
08:26Well,
08:27I guess I'll catch you guys
08:28later
08:28and we're gonna start
08:30our adventure.
08:31Oh,
08:32I'm so sorry.
08:33Woo!
08:33Woo!
08:33Look at the beach.
08:44She's smiling.
08:45She's in a good mood.
08:46I'm in a good mood.
08:47So,
08:48so far,
08:48I think,
08:49you know,
08:50I think we're on to
08:50something.
08:52We made it!
08:53Woo-hoo-hoo!
08:54Oh,
08:55isn't this nice,
08:56huh?
08:57All right,
08:58excited.
08:59Just gotta keep
09:00that mouth shut.
09:00Oh, no, honey,
09:01that's not gonna happen,
09:02so we gotta figure
09:03something out.
09:04But this,
09:05never be quiet.
09:06Ever.
09:14All right.
09:15Well,
09:16now Megan's gonna
09:17take a little bit,
09:18so I figured Johnny
09:18will get the tent set up.
09:20I got a nice little
09:21pop-up tent.
09:22Should be nice and easy.
09:23Oh, boy,
09:23better be nice and easy.
09:24Look at that,
09:25huh?
09:26Woo!
09:27Look at this, dude.
09:28Woo!
09:29In the description,
09:30when I bought this
09:31online,
09:32supposedly,
09:33here's this tossing
09:33in the air.
09:34This thing will open up,
09:35so we'll find out.
09:36Well,
09:37don't fail me,
09:38buddy.
09:43All right.
09:48Hup!
09:50Hup!
09:51All right.
09:53Oh!
09:54It works.
09:55Look who I found!
10:01Hello, beautiful.
10:03Yeah.
10:03Look at my gorgeous face.
10:05Look, she was getting ready.
10:06Yeah, I couldn't find myself.
10:08Oh, yeah.
10:09Now,
10:09what we have in store for us
10:11is, you know,
10:12a nice, beautiful day
10:13on the beach.
10:14Now, look at that.
10:15Woo!
10:15Woo!
10:16Woo!
10:16Woo!
10:16Woo!
10:17Hey, babes.
10:26Hi.
10:27Come on,
10:27we're here together
10:28in this beautiful,
10:28beautiful situation.
10:31It's so beautiful.
10:32Not as beautiful as you.
10:34You guys, baby, man.
10:36I love the new set glasses.
10:38Yeah, yeah, yeah.
10:38I'm sure they serve their purpose.
10:40What are you talking about?
10:40Wow.
10:42Are you?
10:42Look at you.
10:43What?
10:43Oh, look at you.
10:44You're looking at that girl
10:45over there.
10:46I know what these glasses are for.
10:48Look at them,
10:48a little slime on the...
10:50What are you talking about?
10:50You're sly, aren't you?
10:52What are you talking about?
10:56I'm not here
10:57because I'm, like,
10:58trying to cover my eyes.
10:59It's a sunny day out
11:01poolside, all right?
11:02It's not because
11:03I'm trying to stare
11:03at other women.
11:04At some point,
11:05you just gotta trust me
11:06because this isn't working.
11:07I really just think
11:09you're trying to be sneaky,
11:10but, yeah, no,
11:11for sure,
11:12protect your eyes.
11:14He's smart,
11:16I'll give him that,
11:17but he's, uh,
11:18he'd be smart and stupid
11:19at the same time, so...
11:21Heck!
11:28Beautiful.
11:29Beautiful day.
11:30That's no magic thing, huh?
11:32What a sound.
11:33Nobody in sight, though.
11:35It's place six.
11:36So, apparently,
11:37I have something
11:38with the coffee lady
11:38in this hotel
11:39because I've gone two times.
11:42You know,
11:42I love coffee,
11:44but, apparently,
11:45because she's attractive
11:46to me younger,
11:47that's the reason
11:48why I'm going after coffee.
11:49I drink coffee every day.
11:51Every day.
11:52But today,
11:53I'm a hoe.
11:55I can't be in a relationship
11:57if there's no trust
11:58in everything I do
11:59as a question mark.
12:00I think it's time
12:01me and Megan
12:01have a serious conversation
12:03because I can't live
12:04like this anymore.
12:05I'm feeling lonely
12:11and I think you could help.
12:14I know you won't believe me
12:15if I said how I felt.
12:18Here's the laundromat.
12:19I'm about to wash a few loads.
12:23What's up, everyone?
12:29It's Tyree, your boy.
12:30I'm 35 years old,
12:32and I live in Modesto, California.
12:33And this week,
12:34I'm going to be making
12:35a huge life change.
12:36I'm going to be having
12:37weight loss surgery.
12:38I'm really excited about that.
12:40I have to go and find
12:41something to wear
12:42for while I'm in the hospital.
12:45So, yeah.
12:47My 90-day journey began
12:49once I met someone online
12:51named Carmela.
12:52I quickly fell in love,
13:01and then I ended up
13:02finding out that Carmela
13:03wasn't who she said she was.
13:06The person you've been
13:07messaging with
13:09for the last several years
13:11is not the same woman
13:13in the pictures and videos.
13:17Wow.
13:17She was actually
13:19a man named Christian
13:20who had been catfishing me
13:22for four years.
13:23It took a while
13:24for me to accept
13:25that the girl
13:26that I fell in love with
13:27did not exist.
13:29I just thought
13:29the worst about dating
13:30after the whole
13:31Carmela situation.
13:33Hell yeah, son.
13:35Cheers.
13:36So me and my brothers
13:36ended up going to New Orleans
13:38just because we thought
13:39it would be, you know,
13:40a fun time and good vibe.
13:42That's all you got to do, brother.
13:43Confirm me.
13:44I could have got the number
13:44right down.
13:45And while in New Orleans,
13:48I ended up meeting
13:49a girl named Shannon.
13:50I don't know what to do.
13:51We ended up meeting up
13:52again at the tell-all
13:54where she gave me
13:55my first kiss.
13:58I did want to hang out
13:59with her more.
14:00But unfortunately,
14:02I live in Modesto
14:03and she lives five hours
14:04away in Los Angeles.
14:06I plan on moving
14:07to San Diego
14:07after the surgery
14:08to be closer to her.
14:09So hopefully
14:10that's going to be
14:12happening really soon.
14:13Always do this
14:14to get it off of here.
14:16I'm talking to myself
14:17when it walks by.
14:19Let me turn this off.
14:27I made it to the hospital
14:29for my pre-surgery testing.
14:32Look at this beautiful
14:33view of the rain.
14:36My weight loss surgery
14:37is next week.
14:38Today I'm going to the doctor
14:39for my final check-in.
14:40I'm super nervous
14:41because it is my last
14:42weigh-in before surgery.
14:46Hello.
14:47Hi, Ray.
14:52At my first visit
14:53with the bariatric clinic,
14:54I was advised
14:55to lose 20 pounds.
14:56But honestly,
14:57I'm not sure
14:58if I did or not.
14:59Just try to be able
15:00to get your weight.
15:01Okay.
15:02What if it's too high
15:03and it counts on my surgery?
15:04So I have a lot of things
15:07going on
15:08that are making me nervous.
15:17Hi, thank you.
15:18You're welcome.
15:21The scale says
15:22that I'm 405 pounds,
15:24which is the same amount
15:25I was when I first started
15:26the whole process.
15:27And we're going to be
15:28in this room here.
15:29I'm kind of freaking out.
15:34I don't know
15:34if they're going
15:35to cancel the surgery
15:36because I failed
15:37to lose any weight at all.
15:39Let me go get
15:40Alyssa for you.
15:42Okay, perfect.
15:43All right, thank you.
15:46If I can't get this surgery,
15:48I don't know
15:48what I'm going to do.
15:51I feel like my weight
15:52has been holding me back
15:54when it comes to dating
15:55and, you know, relationships.
15:57I haven't had a lot
16:00of experience with girls.
16:03I'm still a virgin.
16:04And I feel like
16:05it is mainly due to my weight
16:07when it comes to,
16:09you know, intimacy.
16:11I want the person I'm dating
16:12to want and desire me.
16:14You know what I mean?
16:15I want them to like my body.
16:17And I don't think
16:18anyone else will like my body
16:19if I don't like my body.
16:22Hello.
16:23Hello, hi.
16:23Hi, happy pre-op day.
16:24Oh, thank you.
16:25So, Tyree, just to go over,
16:27we're having the laparoscopic
16:29vertical sleeve procedure
16:30in a week.
16:31Yep, that's right.
16:32Yep.
16:32Now, your pre-op weight today
16:35was 405 pounds.
16:38Okay.
16:39Your initial weight
16:40was 407 pounds.
16:41Okay.
16:44Okay, with all of our patients,
16:45we encourage, obviously,
16:46any weight loss before
16:47will make the surgery safer
16:48and overall usually
16:49more doable.
16:52Okay.
16:52So, that being said,
16:54didn't lose necessarily
16:55a ton of weight,
16:56all right, before.
16:57However,
16:58at least we didn't gain weight.
16:59That is important that way.
17:00So, I will give you credit for that.
17:02Okay.
17:03Other than that,
17:04we'll see you
17:04in the morning of surgery.
17:05The hospital's gonna let you know
17:06what time you need to be there
17:07next week, okay?
17:08Okay.
17:08All right.
17:09It's been a good day.
17:10Appreciate it.
17:10You're welcome.
17:11All right, bye.
17:11Bye.
17:12I got approved for the surgery,
17:14but barely.
17:15So, I have to be strong
17:18and find the discipline
17:19to make changes
17:20through my lifestyle
17:21and my diet
17:22so I can reach
17:23my weight loss goals.
17:31I got a pizza.
17:32I'm gonna bake it
17:33for my sister.
17:34She's gonna come through.
17:36Yummy.
17:36It looks so good.
17:37It's not for me, though.
17:39My sister and my nieces
17:41are coming over
17:41before my surgery,
17:43and I decided
17:43to make them some food.
17:45And since tomorrow
17:46is my surgery,
17:46my dinner is something
17:47a little different.
17:49Good old organic rocks.
17:51Yummy.
17:53I'll let it simmer.
17:57Hey!
17:58Hi.
17:59How you guys doing?
18:00Hi, bud.
18:01Hey.
18:03Oh, hi.
18:03You're tall.
18:04Where you coming from?
18:05I don't know.
18:06I made some food.
18:07You want some food?
18:08Yay!
18:09Can you drink?
18:09Sure.
18:11Being around family,
18:12there is a lot of temptation,
18:14and it is hard
18:15to stick to a diet.
18:16Okay, wine glass.
18:17Okay.
18:18Yeah, super big.
18:19But I don't want
18:21to avoid gatherings
18:22just because I'm afraid
18:23that I'll cheat on my diet.
18:24I feel bad eating
18:26in front of you like this.
18:27Oh, I'm used to it now.
18:28Is it like chicken sauce?
18:30Yeah, chicken broth.
18:31Oh.
18:32So how are you feeling
18:33about the surgery tomorrow?
18:35Um, yeah, I'm excited.
18:36I'm a little nervous, though,
18:37just I've never been, like,
18:39under, you know?
18:40Yeah, I know.
18:40That's the thing
18:41that's weird to me, too,
18:42because I always be like,
18:42hope I don't wake up dead.
18:43This way you won't wake up.
18:49I'm just the most nervous
18:50about him, I guess,
18:51going under.
18:52Um, I just don't like surgery.
18:54It always makes me so nervous.
18:55You know, I just,
18:56I just pray that everything
18:57is okay, and, you know,
18:59he's in God's hands.
19:00I would say cheers, but...
19:02Yeah, cheers.
19:02I have nothing.
19:03No more broth or anything,
19:04but cheers.
19:05That's a good look.
19:14Today is the day,
19:15surgery day,
19:16so just got up.
19:17It's 5 a.m.
19:19I have to get that.
19:20I'm at 6.30,
19:21so I'm gonna get dressed
19:21really quick.
19:22I just want to just
19:23wash my face
19:23and brush my teeth,
19:24so I'm gonna do that.
19:25So it's the day of surgery.
19:27I am up and ready to go.
19:28I have my clothes packed.
19:30I have my bag ready.
19:32I'm gonna do one final weigh-in,
19:33and when I wear it myself,
19:34I'm like, scared.
19:36Oh, wow.
19:37I lost seven pounds.
19:39This is the start
19:40of a new tirade.
19:42Ready to go.
19:43Let's see it in.
19:50Made it to the hospital.
19:536, like 6.35.
19:54I'm a little late.
19:58I am happy to have
19:59my family here with me.
20:01Who brought five to you?
20:02I'm happy to have you.
20:03You pray.
20:03Thank you, honey.
20:04Now, my mom and my aunts
20:05and my sisters,
20:06they both made it.
20:08I have to put on my gown
20:08and my robe
20:09and wipe myself down again,
20:10so I'm gonna do that
20:12really quick.
20:13As I put on my surgery gown,
20:15it really is real.
20:17Like, I'm really about
20:18to have this surgery done,
20:19and I'm about to
20:19get my stomach chopped in half.
20:23Ooh, sexy.
20:24I really don't know
20:30what's gonna happen,
20:32and, you know,
20:32I'm scared.
20:34For the surgery,
20:35we do five incisions,
20:36four across the abdomen,
20:38one up top.
20:38Okay.
20:39Once that's all free,
20:40then I can take
20:40a surgical stapler,
20:41staple across the stomach,
20:42and cut out
20:43and remove part of your stomach.
20:44Any questions?
20:44No, no questions.
20:45Perfect.
20:46Thank you so much, Dr. Heber.
20:47I'm just praying for
20:48if it has
20:49safe surgery.
20:51I just got out of mass,
21:20it was beautiful.
21:24Beautiful service,
21:26beautiful day.
21:27Now I'm going to
21:29go meet up
21:30with my beautiful daughter.
21:32Hi, my name is Misha.
21:34I'm 45 years old,
21:35and I am from
21:36Blaine, Minnesota.
21:37She asked me
21:39to go to brunch with her,
21:41which I absolutely love,
21:42but she also said
21:43that she wanted to talk
21:44to me about something,
21:44so we'll see.
21:46seven-plus years ago,
21:50I met Nicola online.
21:52We connected
21:53over talking about Catholicism.
21:56We started off as friends,
21:57and our friendship
21:59ended up turning
22:00into a romantic relationship.
22:02I ended up
22:06hopping on an airplane,
22:08traveling across the world,
22:10and I met with him
22:11for the first time
22:12in person
22:13in the Holy Land.
22:19Oh, my.
22:21I see that.
22:24Oh, my God.
22:25Nicola ended up
22:50coming over
22:51to the United States,
22:51and I think right away,
22:54we just realized
22:55that culturally
22:56we were so different.
22:58We had such
22:59different worldviews.
23:01So a few months ago,
23:02we decided to call off
23:03our engagement,
23:04and now he is
23:06back in the Middle East.
23:07I'm here in America,
23:09and my life
23:10is moving forward.
23:13All right.
23:15Pulling in here.
23:16Let me see.
23:17Is her car here?
23:19Yes, it is.
23:20Interesting.
23:21My daughter
23:21is never early.
23:24Hi, honey.
23:29Thank you, sweetheart.
23:31Hi, baby.
23:32How are you?
23:33Are you doing a vlog?
23:35Yeah, I'm doing a diary camp.
23:37Hi, thank you.
23:39Normally,
23:40I have to beg
23:41my two daughters,
23:42Maria and Svea,
23:44to go out to lunch with me
23:45because they're so busy,
23:47away at college.
23:48So now I am genuinely
23:50really interested
23:52as to what this meeting
23:53today is all about.
23:55I was so surprised
23:56when you were like,
23:57do you want to go to brunch?
23:58I mean,
23:59are you sure
23:59I shouldn't be nervous?
24:00No.
24:01Well, I don't think
24:02you should be nervous.
24:04Well, me and Svea
24:04just feel so bad.
24:05Like, we're away all the time
24:06and we don't see you
24:07a whole bunch anymore
24:08and we're kind of hoping
24:10you would get back out
24:11in the dating scene
24:12a little bit.
24:13We set you up
24:15with a matchmaker.
24:17Oh, Maria, no.
24:19No, I'm not doing that.
24:20Yes, you are.
24:21I am not doing that.
24:23My daughter,
24:23God love her,
24:25but oh my gosh.
24:26Have you gone mad?
24:28Like, you know
24:29that is not who I am?
24:31No.
24:31Just full stop, no.
24:34I just don't feel like
24:35I need to go out
24:37and search for something
24:38like that.
24:39I just want to
24:40lean into divine providence
24:42and trust God.
24:43Well, you can't,
24:44you cannot fail.
24:45It's tomorrow.
24:46What?
24:48Me and Svea
24:49put so much effort
24:50into this.
24:50We had to put
24:51a couple pictures
24:51and, like,
24:53talk about you
24:53a little bit and...
24:55To the matchmaker.
24:56Yep, we already
24:57have cleared your schedule
24:57for you.
24:58What?
24:58Everything is already done.
25:00You guys are like stalkers.
25:01All you have to do
25:01is get ready and go.
25:03That's it.
25:04I don't know, honey.
25:05Don't even say it.
25:06You're going.
25:07You have to.
25:09I will show up there
25:10with an open mind
25:11for you and Svea.
25:13But I will not promise
25:15that I'll walk out
25:17of there with a date.
25:18I think you'll have
25:19a lot of fun.
25:20I feel very sickly nervous
25:22all of a sudden.
25:33So, right now,
25:34I am on my way
25:36to the infamous
25:37matchmaker's office.
25:40Oh, my gosh.
25:40I'm getting so nervous.
25:42But I actually feel sick.
25:44I'm having a lot
25:46of internal struggles,
25:47a lot of internal battle.
25:50Here we go.
25:51Here we go.
25:52I'm thinking, like,
25:53Misha, what are you doing?
25:54Like, did you all of a sudden
25:55become depressed?
25:56Like, you should not
25:57be doing this.
25:59Hi.
26:00Oh, my gosh.
26:01Hi.
26:02Nice to meet you.
26:04Oh, hi, Misha.
26:06Nice to meet you.
26:06It's such a pleasure.
26:07We're so excited
26:08to have you here.
26:08Pleasure is all mine.
26:09It still feels
26:11hella weird.
26:13It feels very transactional.
26:15Like, it shouldn't,
26:16like, part of me was like,
26:17this shouldn't be legal.
26:19God bless you.
26:20Yeah.
26:20Okay.
26:21Welcome to
26:22Minneapolis City.
26:23Minneapolis City,
26:24cheers, by the way.
26:24I'm so nervous.
26:25So, you guys are all
26:26making me feel
26:27so much better.
26:27I'm so glad.
26:28I know that there are
26:29several things
26:30that are very important
26:31to you,
26:31just kind of
26:32as a concrete
26:33foundation.
26:35Yes.
26:36I know faith.
26:37Yes.
26:38Yeah.
26:39So, talk to me
26:39a little bit about that.
26:41Yeah.
26:41So, I,
26:42my whole life
26:44is surrounded by faith
26:45now.
26:46I work for the Archdiocese.
26:47So, when I say
26:48that that is
26:49an absolute must,
26:52I really mean that.
26:53So, we definitely
26:54have some great
26:55candidates.
26:55Okay.
26:56We have a wonderful
26:57gentleman named Matthew.
26:58He has his doctorate.
27:00Okay.
27:00He is a dedicated
27:02father of two
27:03beautiful girls
27:04as well.
27:05Okay.
27:06So, if,
27:07I don't know
27:07if this is possible,
27:08but can I see the video?
27:09You bet.
27:10Oh, amazing.
27:11I don't know
27:11where we'll watch those,
27:12but.
27:12Absolutely.
27:14We are not
27:15a matchmaking service
27:16to the point
27:17where we send them out
27:18on a blind date
27:19or all of that.
27:20We do the research
27:21based upon
27:22what our clients
27:23tell us
27:23and then we try
27:24and match them
27:25based upon
27:26their key points
27:27of what they're
27:27looking for
27:28and then the rest
27:28is just going
27:29to happen naturally.
27:31Let's click on
27:32video here
27:32for Matthew.
27:35I'm 41.
27:37I'm a single dad.
27:38I'm a Twin Cities native.
27:40I'm a physician.
27:41I like to play chess.
27:42I like to do
27:43arts and drawing.
27:46I'm a great guy,
27:47down to earth,
27:49those kinds of things.
27:54Watching Matthew's video,
27:56the first thing
27:57that is really striking me
27:58is he's got this long hair.
28:01I was like,
28:01is that a wig
28:02or like a toupee
28:03or something?
28:06Men that age
28:08just don't typically
28:09have hair that long
28:10and I don't know
28:12if luscious
28:13is the right word
28:14but I'm questioning
28:15if it's a wig.
28:17Um,
28:18just kind of
28:19excited to, uh,
28:21enroll into
28:22the Minneapolis singles here.
28:23I'm also noticing
28:27that he's pretty timid.
28:29He's acting nervous.
28:30That's always
28:31what I'm most fearful of.
28:33It's like a stick in the mud
28:34and they don't talk
28:35and I feel like
28:36I'm having to, like,
28:37pull questions out of mom.
28:39I'll give it a whirl.
28:40I mean,
28:40I don't know.
28:41Poor Matthew
28:41doesn't know
28:42the crazy he's in for
28:43but, um,
28:44I'll give it a go, girl.
28:45Right.
28:47Yes.
28:47Bye, Nani.
29:00Bye, sweetie.
29:02All I can hear
29:04in my mind
29:04when I say that
29:06is my daughter saying,
29:07don't be the crazy cat lady.
29:08Get out and date someone.
29:10Don't just sit at home
29:11with your cats.
29:13Here I go, guys.
29:14This is it.
29:15So I am on my way
29:17to my big date
29:20with Matthew
29:20and I'm very nervous.
29:26A pumpkin patch
29:27seems a bit weird,
29:30especially a pumpkin patch
29:31in the morning
29:31seems a bit weird
29:34for a date,
29:37a first date,
29:38but maybe that's cute.
29:39I mean,
29:40is that what people
29:41are doing nowadays?
29:45I think I see Matthew.
29:56Yeah.
29:58Hi.
30:00How are you?
30:02Good to see you.
30:04Oh, it's so nice
30:05to meet you as well.
30:06By the way,
30:07this is Matthew.
30:08Hello.
30:09How are you?
30:11Nice to see you.
30:12I'm so excited to meet you.
30:13You too.
30:14I'm shocked.
30:19Matthew is way cuter
30:20in person
30:21than what I was expecting
30:22and I can also tell
30:24he is not wearing a wig,
30:26which is very good news.
30:29So what is that over there?
30:30Like you peel corn?
30:31No, you walk through
30:32it like a corn maze.
30:33Oh, that's true.
30:34Try to get lost.
30:34Should we go back there?
30:36Okay, we'll totally
30:37go back there.
30:40Don't worry, Matthew.
30:41If you get kidnapped,
30:41I will keep looking
30:42for you, okay?
30:43I won't give up.
30:45So tell me a little
30:47bit about yourself.
30:48I was raised Catholic
30:49in kindergarten
30:50through eighth grade.
30:51Oh, sure.
30:52I went to a Catholic
30:53private school
30:54in St. Paul.
30:54Okay.
30:55I lived in Morocco
30:56for the people.
30:58Okay, so I love
30:59that so much
31:00because I feel like
31:01you have to have
31:03a different kind
31:04of heart for that.
31:05My dad actually does
31:06a faith formation
31:07for fifth graders
31:08at the church.
31:09Oh, my gosh, he does.
31:10So sweet.
31:10And my mom attends
31:11kind of like the adult
31:12faith formation group.
31:13Oh, my goodness.
31:14I love it.
31:15And kind of does
31:15gardening at the church.
31:16That's so awesome.
31:18Wow.
31:19I wouldn't have thought
31:20that the matchmakers
31:22would have exceeded
31:24my expectations,
31:25but they matched me up
31:28with someone
31:29who's a total sweetheart.
31:31Ready?
31:31Here we go, Matthew.
31:32Look at all that.
31:37We totally...
31:38You can't even tell
31:38there's a maze there.
31:39I'm sorry.
31:39We would never have
31:40come out of it.
31:40No.
31:43Everything just feels
31:44so easy,
31:45and this is resurrecting
31:47all these feelings
31:48inside of me
31:49of, like,
31:50that little schoolgirl,
31:51like, oh, my gosh,
31:52like, what's gonna happen?
31:53What do I do
31:54if he tries to kiss me?
31:58I can't help.
31:59Yeah, I can't help.
32:00Okay, ready?
32:01Okay, here you go.
32:02Good job, Matthew.
32:10Give me a hug.
32:11You did so good.
32:12I won.
32:13Fair sport, yes.
32:14You still did so good.
32:16I kind of had a feeling
32:18you were gonna win.
32:18Oh, you did.
32:19You did.
32:19You're too sweet.
32:21Misha, stunningly beautiful,
32:23kind-hearted,
32:25caring, and intelligent.
32:27I definitely felt comfortable,
32:29and I do feel like
32:31there's some chemistry there
32:32between she and I.
32:33That's awesome.
32:34Do you want a piece of gum here?
32:36Sure.
32:36Yeah.
32:36Yeah.
32:37Yeah.
32:37Yeah.
32:37Yeah.
32:37Yeah.
32:38Yeah.
32:38Yeah.
32:38Yeah.
32:38Yeah.
32:38Yeah.
32:39Yeah.
32:39Yeah.
32:39Yeah.
32:39Yeah.
32:39Yeah.
32:40Yeah.
32:40Yeah.
32:40Yeah.
32:40Yeah.
32:41Yeah.
32:41Overall, the date went really well.
32:44Oh, I love it, Matthew.
32:47I was like, oh, my God.
32:48Oh, my God.
32:48I don't know exactly what is next for me,
32:53but I definitely know this.
32:56If Matthew asks me out again,
32:59I will not say no.
33:00I will say yes.
33:01I'm giving myself the green light
33:04to get back out there a little bit
33:06and date, and I love it.
33:08I can't wait.
33:09Look it, Matthew's hair is still perfect.
33:11Mine's not.
33:12It's blown all the roadway.
33:13Give me a shot.
33:27All right.
33:30Let's get out of here.
33:36Hey, I'm John.
33:37I'm 41 years old.
33:38I'm originally from Massachusetts,
33:40but now I live in good old San Antonio.
33:46I'm here on vacation with my fiancee, Megan,
33:48and things ain't going so well.
33:50I can't stay in a relationship
33:52to where there's no trust,
33:53and everything I do is questioned.
33:55I think it's time me and Megan
33:56have a serious conversation,
33:57because I can't live like this anymore.
33:59Well, that was a trip.
34:07Yes, to say the least,
34:09if that was a trip.
34:11I mean, you know,
34:12it's like it always goes the same way.
34:15Never snooze.
34:16All I can say is, you know,
34:23I've got to be true to myself.
34:24I'm not going to, you know,
34:26pretend to be something or
34:27pretend things are better than they are.
34:31I'm going to just sit here and be quiet.
34:33You know, I've been miserable
34:35because of the fighting.
34:37It's every day.
34:38I'm sleeping on the couch.
34:41Because you think I'm literally
34:43checking out every goddamn woman there is.
34:46Yeah, well, I mean,
34:47you're a very possessive person too.
34:48I am not.
34:49It goes both ways.
34:50I am not.
34:52I am not that bad.
34:54You have my location.
34:55I'm wearing this ring.
34:56He's telling me I'm doing all this
34:58that I'm not doing.
34:59You know, something has to give.
35:03When it comes down to it,
35:05like, it all goes back to, like,
35:08does he really want to be with me?
35:11Does he really want to marry me?
35:13Because I feel like it's always excuses.
35:15Why would I want to get married?
35:17Why would I want to get married?
35:19You don't want to get married now.
35:20You're not going to want to get married.
35:21No, no, Megan, I told you.
35:22I told you.
35:23I'm coming to the understanding
35:25that right now that I'm kind of
35:26letting go of the idea of marriage
35:27because I'm getting so turned off of it
35:29because all I'm hearing is excuses.
35:31So, and I get it.
35:33Oh, excuses, huh?
35:33Excuses?
35:35Excuses?
35:35Guess what, lady?
35:36This is what I think about your excuses, right?
35:38See, the ring's gone.
35:39I'm kind of confused right now.
36:05I mean, do I take this off?
36:10Like, do I take the ring off?
36:12Take it off.
36:12Take it off.
36:13I'm not making you wear it.
36:15I'm not going to make you tell you
36:16you have to wear it while I don't wear mine
36:18and mine's gone.
36:19So, yeah, there you go.
36:20Oh, wait.
36:21That's mine.
36:21I'll just punt it.
36:22Oh, there you go.
36:23I'm just trying to figure out, like,
36:43what we're doing.
36:45Are we ever going to get married?
36:46And then, and then this happens.
36:50You acting like this
36:52and throwing your ring out the window.
36:55Yeah, that's because I keep telling you
36:57over and over again,
36:58all I get from you is
37:00I'm talking to someone.
37:01I'm f***ing someone.
37:02I'm doing this when I'm doing nothing.
37:04And so, therefore, I'm getting tired.
37:07I'm getting frustrated.
37:09You know, it doesn't matter how much we have sex.
37:11You know, if I'm sleeping on the couch
37:13and we're fighting every day,
37:14I'm miserable.
37:16I've already told you, I'm miserable.
37:19This f***ing ring doesn't mean nothing.
37:36At the hospital, I'm in my room.
37:39I get to relax for a little while.
37:41So, that's my plan.
37:42My name is Tyree.
37:44I'm 35 years old
37:45and I live in Modesto, California.
37:46Today, I'm finally going to get
37:49my gastric sleeve surgery.
37:51I am terrified
37:52and nervous and scared.
37:55Just praying for a fast,
37:57safe surgery.
37:58So, it's hard.
38:11It's hard.
38:13I like burping a lot.
38:14There's just a lot of gas coming out.
38:17Coming out of surgery,
38:19the first thing I remember
38:20is the anesthesiologist
38:22trying to wake me up.
38:23He's calling my name
38:24and I'm having a hard time breathing.
38:30I just was really...
38:32I felt like I was high.
38:35And everything was just like a blur.
38:37I have a heartburn or gas or something like that.
38:41There's a lot of backup in that.
38:44But I finally got the surgery done
38:46and I did it.
38:48This is a big step towards
38:49some of the goals
38:50that I want to accomplish.
38:52Everything's good.
38:53My blood work.
38:53High blood pressure.
38:55Under control.
38:55So,
38:57if you guys didn't understand me,
38:58but yeah,
38:59I'm up to ease.
38:59I'm...
39:00Jell-O.
39:02Okay, so it's day four.
39:12I had surgery on Thursday.
39:13Right now it's Monday.
39:15I'm feeling pretty good.
39:17I was able to down
39:17an entire protein shake.
39:19Haven't had that much pain
39:21other than, like,
39:23the gas pain occasionally.
39:25With the surgery,
39:25I know that the weight loss
39:27isn't going to be instant.
39:28But the goal is to lose
39:30five pounds every week.
39:31So I really have to be strong
39:33and find the discipline
39:34to stick to this strict diet.
39:37My decisions are good.
39:38Looks good.
39:39I went and I changed them.
39:41I, like,
39:42made them extra secure.
39:44Yesterday,
39:44we had a party for my niece.
39:46She turned 13
39:46and went over to my sister's house
39:49and everyone was eating
39:50and drinking.
39:51I just sipped on my Gatorade all day.
39:53So, yeah,
39:54it's not easy.
39:55And, um,
39:57yeah, that's it.
39:58Let that sunshine hit your face.
40:02All we need is kiss, guys,
40:03and it's summertime, eh?
40:06It fits.
40:08Yes.
40:09Oh, my God.
40:10When I first got this shirt,
40:11it was, like,
40:12stuffed on me.
40:14Like, I couldn't even breathe in it.
40:18So it's been three months
40:19since my weight loss surgery.
40:21How am I looking?
40:22Not yet.
40:25Still big,
40:26but getting there.
40:28Now I can fit it
40:29and I fit it really good.
40:31You know?
40:31Oh, my God.
40:33I just feel so much better.
40:34It makes me feel great.
40:37Man,
40:38it's really emotional.
40:43I feel a lot more confident.
40:45I feel a lot more comfortable.
40:46I've been doing really good
40:47with the lifestyle changes
40:49and I've been working out,
40:50going to the gym,
40:51and I'm officially down 80 pounds,
40:54which is amazing.
40:55I feel great.
40:56I'm feeling like a whole new person.
40:58I'm still not exactly
40:59where I want to be at,
41:00but I know that it's a process
41:01and I'm really happy
41:03with the progress
41:03that I've made so far.
41:04I feel like I'm finally,
41:05like, in control of my life.
41:08And now it feels like
41:09the world is finally my oyster.
41:11Oysters are good.
41:12This is just the beginning, guys,
41:15so stay tuned.
41:16Yeah.
41:17I think it looks pretty good.
41:19Yes.
41:25All right, go!
41:28The bees are head-butting me.
41:33Yeah, I'm just not happy we're here.
41:35Coming to the grand foyer.
41:38Which is also our living room,
41:39which is also our bedroom,
41:40which is also our...
41:41I mean, is that...
41:42Yeah.
41:42Is this a PG program?
41:44No, don't do...
41:46We try to put Gokhan in his crib,
41:48but he ends up in our bed.
41:52He's kicking us.
41:54He's crying.
41:55And we can't be intimate.
41:57We really need to change
41:59our sleeping ranges.
42:00What?
42:01I'm tired of not having a sex wife.
42:03I hate you grabbing my ass
42:07on your finger.
42:09I would like it
42:10if you didn't have
42:10your stupid ex-wife's
42:12initials on your finger, bro.
42:15I'm just gonna, like,
42:15chop it off at this point.
42:17For the nipples,
42:18the scar goes around the areola.
42:20You can't ever guarantee
42:21that you won't get hypo
42:23or hypersensitivity.
42:25There are a lot of risks
42:26that go into
42:27getting your boobs reducted.
42:30I could lose nipple sensation,
42:32have an ugly scar,
42:34or maybe be lopsided.
42:36Oh, my God,
42:36I'm getting anxious.
42:37I see this.
42:39Hmm.
42:39I feel like Siyad
42:49is completely withdrawing
42:51from me
42:52and this marriage.
42:53And it just makes me
42:54really suspicious,
42:56especially after finding him
42:57with another woman.
42:58I was kind of hoping
42:59we could enjoy
42:59having a Saturday off together.
43:02Right together.
43:04Are we?
43:09We'll see you next time.
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