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00:00Previously on Married to Medicine.
00:13I think Eugene might be right.
00:14What?
00:14When he say Botox can only be done by pretty people.
00:17We bought a building.
00:20A building.
00:20A building.
00:21We had to just cash out 401ks and everything.
00:24Everything costs money.
00:25Every single thing.
00:26It's a grind.
00:27Yeah.
00:27I basically am working like two full-time jobs.
00:31You can't keep no secrets from me.
00:33If I had to learn about my son being arrested on social media, what else is out there?
00:39And Toya, leave my kids laying out of your mouth.
00:42How can we leave your kids out of our mouth when you dog our whole family?
00:47I know a lot about your family.
00:49I've never said, Toya.
00:50I got a lot of secrets on her ass and you don't want me to drop them.
00:53I got some doozies.
00:54Get down.
00:55That bitch making me act crazy.
00:57Right.
00:57Don't stop it.
00:59Now, stage of Dr. Jackie.
01:02On.
01:03Dr. Salone.
01:05Toya.
01:06Dr. D.
01:08Dr. Switzer.
01:14Am I going to get some branky?
01:22To be honest, I don't want you to get this the wrong way, but I like a lot of girls.
01:27You know?
01:28No.
01:30Get one good one.
01:31Like your mama.
01:32Did you pick up your iron tablets?
01:38I did yesterday.
01:39Okay.
01:40Start taking those.
01:41They do tend to constipate you.
01:43Um, you'll be full of shit, but don't worry about that.
01:46You see these lips.
01:51You're going to be excited, too.
01:51You're like, okay.
01:54What did he say last week?
01:55He asked me when I could use them.
01:58Well, you could use them.
01:59And what did you say?
01:59Did you follow your post instructions?
02:00I did.
02:01Okay.
02:02You have to wait.
02:03All right.
02:03Don't be messing up my work now.
02:05Always big energy.
02:07I'm never going to shrink.
02:08Always time to shove when I'm having me a drink.
02:11Always double bass.
02:12All right.
02:17Hey, girl.
02:30Hey.
02:30Wait a minute.
02:33You like it?
02:33You know, we sell these babies, baby.
02:35We are, but we ain't going to tell them about it.
02:37Yes, we do.
02:37Look it.
02:38Yes, we are redefining what it looks like.
02:41It's everything.
02:42Is that everything?
02:43I'm telling you.
02:44Look, let's do it.
02:45I love it.
02:45So first and foremost, I'm thinking either a red carpet
02:47or should I do a purple carpet?
02:50Where's my other player?
02:51Back in the day, they didn't do a carpet.
02:52They did a Soul Train line.
02:53That's what I'm supposed to do.
02:53But yeah, but no, no.
02:54A player's ball, they had a carpet, baby.
02:57Look at this beautiful space.
02:59Hello, ladies.
03:00How are you?
03:02Good seeing you again.
03:03This is the last year of my 40s.
03:06I'm a 70s baby, so I really want to do a 70s party.
03:09I chose the thing, player's ball.
03:11You remember the movie Casino?
03:13Yes.
03:14Okay, you remember it was set in the 70s?
03:16Yeah.
03:16So this is kind of like a hybrid of that.
03:18I want it to be lots of activities.
03:20I want people to come in in their 70s best.
03:23Their furs and their suits and their amazing clothes.
03:26Let's just have a good time.
03:28That's really what it's about.
03:29I just want this to be an opportunity for us to just have fun.
03:34Like I said in my invitation.
03:35You've been invited to Dr. Contessa's player's ball.
03:42This is so cute.
03:43This is going to be my first birthday party ever.
03:46Throwing it for yourself.
03:47I waited almost 50 years to throw myself a party.
03:50Or have someone throw me a party and it didn't happen.
03:53I don't know if I should be sad or happy.
03:55These husbands definitely need to do more.
03:58Excluding Eugene.
04:00So what I'm thinking is we have a super long runway.
04:05And the dance floor will be here.
04:07Be right here in the middle and the stage will be there.
04:09Yes.
04:09Would that be like 150, 200 people?
04:12Four decades of life.
04:13So 200.
04:14Yeah.
04:14I would love to stay like under $40,000 though.
04:20What?
04:21That's your budget?
04:22That's too little?
04:23That's too high.
04:25I think Contessa needs to take that 40K and finish her office that she working on.
04:29Okay.
04:29It's my party and I can do what I want to do.
04:31I ain't got an answer to you.
04:33I think this is going to be great.
04:34I don't want you to have any drama at your party.
04:37Like it should be positive energy.
04:40I agree.
04:40I feel like the outfits would make people have positive energy.
04:43That's not true.
04:43But what I don't.
04:44You have very low expectations of our friends.
04:47What little friends are you talking about?
04:47I know.
04:48Oh, so you're not inviting our current group.
04:49I'm inviting everybody.
04:51Last time I saw Evelyn, she was crazy.
04:54Okay.
04:54That dog about the stuff that you bring to the table.
04:57I know a lot about your family.
04:59I've never said, Toya.
05:00I hope her energy is good.
05:02Because that energy that she had the other day, it was stank.
05:05I want to think that our group is going to be able to put all their differences aside
05:09to celebrate me for the one time in my life I've asked them to do that.
05:13No resting bitch faces.
05:14Exactly.
05:15Don't come in.
05:16That's so annoying.
05:16Critique and everything.
05:17Yeah.
05:18Just come in and have a good time.
05:19It's going to be so fun.
05:20Thank you so much for having me.
05:20It just gave me a moment.
05:21I just thought back like, wasn't everybody high back then?
05:24They were.
05:32What's up?
05:33What's happening?
05:35What you doing?
05:35You need something to eat?
05:36Yep.
05:37As long as you don't eat my food.
05:38I don't want to eat your food anyway.
05:40But you do it all the time.
05:43What you got to say about that?
05:46Absolutely nothing.
05:49Why?
05:50Because you do eat my food all the time.
05:52Well, this is the thing with the leftovers.
05:54Don't assume like, oh, they in the refrigerator.
05:57This my girl and everything is ours.
05:59I'm eating the leftovers.
06:00Then what I'm going to eat?
06:01I don't want to have a whole hour conversation about food.
06:04It's you just talking about it.
06:06But guess what?
06:07I have a healthy appetite.
06:08You want it 15 times a day?
06:09Feed me.
06:11Well, he just shut my damn mouth.
06:14I think you need to just take your shot
06:16because your hormones are already like, mm.
06:18Does the shot make me have, like, mood swings, like rage?
06:21Yes.
06:22No, not rage.
06:23I find myself crying a lot.
06:26I have tried with you.
06:27I don't even know what is the problem.
06:30That's not me being in rage.
06:32King and I are trying to get pregnant.
06:34Any chance there's going to be a baby quad?
06:37We're hoping.
06:37You talked about IVF.
06:39Any updates?
06:40Um, I am in the process.
06:42Are you?
06:42We have a friend who basically got pregnant at 46 with triplets.
06:46And I said, well, wait a minute, where is this doctor?
06:47And she's like, oh, this doctor is in Ghana.
06:50When I heard that, I just felt like this is where I need to be.
06:54I appreciate your grace in this.
06:57And your understanding.
06:58Jackie had agreed to being my doctor stateside.
07:02She is responsible for all of my lab tracing.
07:05I have nothing but good news for you.
07:07Your pap is normal.
07:08Mammogram is normal.
07:09All your tests have been normal.
07:10We've now had two egg retrievals.
07:13All right, I'm just checking in and getting ready for my surgery
07:19to have the eggs removed.
07:21Let's pray that it will go well.
07:23I spent my whole life trying to dodge this bullet.
07:26It's not a bullet.
07:27It's a blessing.
07:28It's a blessing in disguise.
07:30I'll be happy if we can just get another, what do you think, like four?
07:34How about you?
07:35Six.
07:36Six.
07:36So I have to go through this again?
07:38I don't want to either.
07:39You think I want to stick myself?
07:40I'm going back there now.
07:42You finish your food.
07:43I'm going to go ahead and go back here and get prepping.
07:45Get your shot going so I can get ready for this next 24 hours of hell.
07:49Sticking yourself a couple of times a day, every single day,
07:53it's exhausting and tiring.
07:55But despite all the side effects, it still will be well worth it to me to become a mom.
08:01Big, bad, tough, Miss Quad is scared of a little needle.
08:05I'm not scared of the needle.
08:07I just don't like other people doing it.
08:09If we get the results that we're seeking, it'll definitely be worth it.
08:13If not, I could have bought another car.
08:15This, babe, run.
08:19This smells like a bitch.
08:21Come on, I should tell you, for real.
08:23Babe, you're knocking me out.
08:24Because you've got a problem, you're projecting it on me.
08:27Stop.
08:31I need CPR.
08:34Coming up.
08:35You did good on this party.
08:37I love all of the parties that you men throw.
08:40Look at how sexist y'all are, because even in the midst of the party that I threw for my goddamn self,
08:45y'all talking to me about my husband.
08:51Hey, birthday girl.
08:58Ma'am.
08:58Birthday timing.
08:59Ma'am.
09:00Ma'am.
09:01Because I'm so good.
09:02I dress to work, making me look bad, working in an evening.
09:05Let me tell you why.
09:06I said, let me get myself, like, maybe get into the party mode.
09:09I mean, I love it.
09:10And then the universe will feel it.
09:11I love it.
09:12You're fabulous.
09:13Today is the day.
09:14It's my birthday party.
09:15Where are we going?
09:16Right in here.
09:17Right here?
09:17To the left?
09:17Yes.
09:18I have been working my ass off.
09:20This is so pretty.
09:21Isn't this fabulous?
09:25It's so good.
09:27Yeah, baby.
09:29I love it.
09:29Is that fire?
09:30No, this is beautiful.
09:31She is so awesome.
09:32Brand, right?
09:33No, you did.
09:33You are so awesome.
09:34You did a good job.
09:36Can you see the record?
09:37It has my name on it.
09:39What?
09:39It would be so great if Scott was like, what can I do to help?
09:44It just doesn't connect for him that way.
09:45Hey, I do need help.
09:48Didn't you say you was bringing home ice cream?
09:51He's a smart guy.
09:52He's book smart.
09:53He ain't got no common sense, but he's book smart.
09:55That's what I'm just saying.
09:57Can I give you one piece of advice?
09:58Please.
09:59Because how long have you been married?
10:0010 years.
10:01Don't ever say, I got this.
10:03Like, no, you don't have to.
10:04That's too much.
10:05Because once you do that, you kind of create this like, oh, okay.
10:09Yeah.
10:09All right, I'm going to talk to Scott.
10:10I'm going to be like, all right, Scott.
10:11Step you.
10:12You're going to have to.
10:12Step up your underwear, huh?
10:13I'm going to tell him.
10:14Because they say panties for girls, so step your.
10:15Yeah, I'm going to tell him.
10:16Step your drawers up.
10:16I'm going to tell him.
10:21Are you excited about the party?
10:25I am, girl, but I don't know what to expect, child.
10:28Well, just expect the unexpected because.
10:32Did you grow up in the 70s?
10:34No.
10:35Oh, okay.
10:41Bringing it all together.
10:42Okay, so you got a bell bottle.
10:43Yes, honey.
10:44Boo, boo, boo.
10:45It looks like we were back in the 70s, right?
10:49No.
10:49Jimmy Choo?
10:50No, baby.
10:50I like the way people dressed in the 70s.
10:52I think that they should bring 70s fashion back.
10:55The platform shoes, the makeup, the afrocentricity of it all.
10:59Now, I was young in the 70s, but I do recall it was free love, honey.
11:05We were very free sexually back in the day, but so was herpes and hepatitis.
11:11So, you know, we paid for the freedom.
11:13And I got a waist trainer just in case, baby.
11:15Hey, look at that.
11:16All I need.
11:17This what you're doing?
11:18That's cute.
11:25One, two, three, two, four.
11:27Get ready for more.
11:29Uh-huh.
11:30I see what you're doing now.
11:32Got my body moving around.
11:34I see what you're doing.
11:36Ooh, all right.
11:38Sicky, sicky now.
11:39I see what you're doing now.
11:40When I think of the 70s, I think of disco with a little bump action.
11:47Well, you got the hoes tonight, Curtis.
11:50You ready?
11:51Let's go get it.
11:52Hold up.
11:53It's just letting me ride.
11:54That afro, I do not miss that.
11:56I'm glad that era is gone.
11:58It's so spicy.
11:59Feel, huh?
12:00Feel so nice.
12:01One, two, three.
12:02This looks beautiful.
12:04Look at that.
12:05Uh-huh.
12:06I see what you're doing now.
12:09Got my body moving around.
12:11How come she got four and I got two?
12:12Because I just...
12:13Back in the 70s, people wore a lot of sequins.
12:17They was wearing the shades.
12:19Man, the 70s for me was baby food, diapers, daycare.
12:25What?
12:25The 70s.
12:26I was born in 1977.
12:28I was a child.
12:34Thank you, honey.
12:35Give me a little bit more.
12:37How about that?
12:37When I think about the 70s, a lot of drugs.
12:44Whoa.
12:45Whoa.
12:45Hey, that's what you see on YouTube.
12:48Boots.
12:53I really like the 70s style.
12:56My go-go boots.
12:58My wig was wiggy.
13:01Don't be scared of touchwaves.
13:03And you know my reputation.
13:05I got it.
13:06I grew up during the 70s.
13:11But I was young.
13:12I wasn't, you know, I wasn't out on the dating scene yet.
13:15I'm not that old.
13:17Talk to Curtis.
13:18I took a picture with Curtis.
13:20He was acting like he didn't want to touch me.
13:21I said, we're not doing all that.
13:23We were clowning too.
13:24Where your hands at?
13:25Where your hands at?
13:26Where your hands at?
13:27You know, it's my fault.
13:38I should have got him a pimp outfit, but I felt like, you know what?
13:40He pimpin' enough for me.
13:41I wore that.
13:42Pimpin'!
13:43This guy.
13:44This is about as snippin' as I'm gonna get.
13:46I know, I know.
13:47I like the shirt.
13:48It's a costume party, dude.
13:50Like, you just don't get it, do you?
13:53There we go.
13:54Flair, flair, flair.
13:55This is about as flair as I get.
13:57Part 12, part 8, part 6, all live.
14:07Oh, you gamble, gamble.
14:09I used to.
14:10I don't gamble no more.
14:11I gave it up a long time ago.
14:12You gave it up to the Lord.
14:13To the Lord.
14:14I spoke to this contestant.
14:16Do you know how much she spent?
14:17No.
14:1840 grand.
14:19That's a lot.
14:20Yeah.
14:21If this is the first time she's thrown a party,
14:23why y'all, everybody, you saying that since we had our first party,
14:26you gonna spend 40 grand?
14:27$40,000, where?
14:30Where is it?
14:31But I ain't spending 40 grand.
14:33Well, my son's about to graduate in two, three years?
14:35Yeah.
14:35No.
14:36Well, I didn't spend it on Michael, but I sure,
14:38Miles and Michael, I sure spent five on their little party.
14:41I can see five.
14:42The most Simone has ever spent on a party is 5,000, baby.
14:46Miles and Michael's graduation.
14:48Won't need no damn balloons.
14:50Won't need no step and repeat.
14:52Won't need no photographer.
14:54Won't need all that.
14:56Well, she told me earlier, I said,
14:57girl, you realize you could have had a little wedding.
14:59Well, my wedding was $75,000.
15:02Yeah.
15:03In what year?
15:07Shut your mouth.
15:08Nice, Foxy Brown.
15:13Right here, guys.
15:16You got us, ladies.
15:17Okay, we're ready?
15:21Y'all ready?
15:22Yeah.
15:23Relax, babe.
15:23We don't want to hear enjoying ourselves.
15:25Just relax.
15:25I got your back.
15:27Don't you dare be trying to take no credit for anything.
15:30Scott did not plan this party.
15:32You're going to have fun.
15:33This player knows what she likes and she knows what she wants.
15:37Don't be copping out.
15:38And everything that I do, she going to reject.
15:41Okay?
15:41So, boom.
15:42Hello, hello, party people and the place to be.
15:45Can I have your attention, please?
15:47All you pimps and players in here,
15:49I want you to make a lot of noise
15:51and give a round of applause to my homegirl, Contessa.
15:55Make some noise for Contessa.
15:57Hey, now, party pressure.
16:00Okay.
16:04What's up?
16:08What's up, Plane?
16:12Hello, everybody.
16:13Hey, guys.
16:15Oh, my God.
16:16You look amazing.
16:18You are pretty as to me.
16:19Happy birthday.
16:20You are almost pretty as me.
16:22My party today is the party of my dreams.
16:25Put the price in this party.
16:27It was definitely a bit excessive.
16:32Look at you, gorgeous.
16:33I could have cut the cake price in half.
16:35I could have cut the food budget in half.
16:37And we would have had it in my living room.
16:39That was amazing.
16:40Oh.
16:41Maybe the best thing for you to have done
16:43is to stay out of my way.
16:44That's right.
16:44I believe...
16:44It turned out exactly the way I wanted it.
16:46I believe that.
16:54You made your inches by your damn self.
16:56Oh, my whole music came in.
16:58Hello, beautiful.
16:59Hello, beautiful.
17:01We're dancing.
17:02Come on.
17:02Come on.
17:03I ain't seen you since I started letting my hair grow out.
17:06What was happening?
17:07What was happening?
17:08What up with you?
17:09You're looking good, Scott.
17:11You did good on this party.
17:12I tried.
17:13I tried.
17:14I helped out as much as I could.
17:15You know.
17:16You did.
17:16You said this out.
17:18Boy, bye.
17:19You know you ain't had nothing to do with this party.
17:23I think that was shade.
17:25I think that was a little shade.
17:26That was a little shade.
17:27That was a little shade.
17:28I love all of the parties that you men throw.
17:32Because all we got to do is come shake.
17:35Coming up.
17:36You complain all the time about your husband.
17:40I'm the kind of friends.
17:41Focus on the negative.
17:42Z's, bitch.
17:44Okay, girl.
17:49I think that was shade.
18:02I think that was a little shade.
18:03That was a little shade.
18:04That's right.
18:05No, no.
18:06I love all of the parties that you men throw.
18:09Change.
18:09Because all we got to do is come shake.
18:12I wouldn't pick up cupcakes if they got them.
18:16Do you think I care what these heckling hands are saying about me not throwing a party for my wife?
18:24No.
18:29I'm going to let y'all know.
18:30These 70 hoes have done a whole lot that y'all probably can't do.
18:34This area here got it up.
18:36Yeah.
18:37Really up.
18:38Back down when we bent over for our men, right?
18:44We're bent over backwards.
18:45Oh.
18:46There's a reason why people of my age can keep a man and the younger people cannot.
18:53They don't want to do that no more, these young girls.
18:55They don't want to do that.
18:56You know Heavenly ain't cooking every meal for her man, nor is she bringing Damon's slippers
19:01to sit.
19:03Girl, get your life.
19:05I'm going to talk on the mic and bring you out.
19:18I have two outfits and if I'm going to change, he needs to change into something else.
19:22Hello.
19:23What's happening?
19:24You changed clothes on.
19:25Just once.
19:26Just once.
19:27Just a little something situation.
19:28My gift to you.
19:30Boy.
19:31Stop.
19:31A little something.
19:32A little something.
19:33Jane, how you been, man?
19:34I'm good.
19:34I'm good.
19:35You didn't see me the other night.
19:36Yeah.
19:37A little bit out of town and stuff?
19:38I've been working out of town.
19:40I go out of town.
19:41I work and then I come back.
19:43I just got back yesterday.
19:44I'm working at five different hospitals right now.
19:47They're all at least two hours away.
19:49But every hospital, the nurses after the first day is like, can you work here all the time?
19:56Wait, wait.
19:56Only the nurses?
19:57What about the patients?
19:59Only the nurses?
20:00I want to see the nurses.
20:01I just want to see the nurses.
20:05I want to see the nurses.
20:06You want to be a firm nurse?
20:07You feeding into that pool.
20:09Some of these nurses are actually men.
20:11Are they?
20:12Yes.
20:13What's his name?
20:13All right.
20:14Paul.
20:14So Paul went up to you and said, man.
20:16Yes.
20:16I want you to stay.
20:18The nurses know how you behave and who they want to work with.
20:22Cool guy.
20:23He actually knows Curtis.
20:24Okay.
20:25So there's proof.
20:26Everybody, eyes over here.
20:29Well, everybody, I'd like to thank each and every one of you for coming out tonight.
20:34Scott is talking.
20:34I don't know if she's told you guys, but this is her first major birthday party in her whole
20:40life.
20:40And I also will tell you that she did a lot to get this party going.
20:46She said she did a lot.
20:47She did everything she said.
20:48She's a strong force in our household.
20:51I celebrate her for it.
20:52And I'm going to share one more thing with you.
20:55A long time ago, before my mother passed, me and my mother, we would watch movies together.
21:00And she said, Contessa, remind me of Rose.
21:05She's like, Rose will jump back on the boat for your ass.
21:08Just like she did on Titanic.
21:12Why do the women got to go through such a struggle to earn their position with a man?
21:19I'm going now.
21:21I miss Rose, though, but I'm going now.
21:24Like, why?
21:26All right, please, have a good time.
21:28Thank you guys for coming out.
21:29There's fun outside.
21:30There's fun inside.
21:31Enjoy yourself.
21:32Thank you guys for showing up for me.
21:41Hey, how y'all doing?
21:45Why are you in prom gear and we're in 70s apparel?
21:48Because it's my party.
21:49Somebody needs to be able to tell the difference between y'all and me.
21:52I mean, who's your friend?
21:53Whose party is it?
21:55Whose party is it, right?
21:57Did you have a good time tonight?
21:59I did.
22:00Did you want your husband to do it or were you okay?
22:02I just said this is my last year of my 40s and I'm not going to leave my 40s in this first half of my life with any regrets.
22:10And I think I had a vision in my head.
22:12I think, I don't know if it would have been what I was expecting if somebody else planned it for me.
22:17Like, what if he did something like in the backyard?
22:19I really wanted to be somewhere where people could get drinks and get food.
22:21But why not just tell him that and then have him do it?
22:25I told him.
22:25I mean, I've been waiting.
22:26You know me?
22:27He tweaked 20 years.
22:28Don't y'all believe that from the beginning of the relationship, we teach the men how to treat us?
22:34That's what I said.
22:35It's so true.
22:35And so if the bar of expectation is low, they can jump right over that and they don't move the bar.
22:44Right.
22:44We have to move the bar.
22:46My first Mother's Day, Cecil didn't have a card for me.
22:50And I'm like, I got this little sucker over here sucking on me and you don't have a card.
22:58Marriage is about teamwork.
22:59It is about supporting one another.
23:02But sometimes I feel taken for granted.
23:06Why are we going to reevaluate our marriages after this amazing party right now?
23:10What is happening right now?
23:11No, reevaluating our marriages is major.
23:13He knows, he knows that I handle shit.
23:15He knows what?
23:16I handle shit.
23:17And that's what he was probably waiting for me to handle it.
23:19And ultimately I did.
23:20You got to go home and live with that man.
23:22You got to go and lay in the same bed that he sleeps in.
23:26So I get why you're taking up on him.
23:28You don't want that smoke at home.
23:30I had a great party.
23:31I was very happy.
23:32I learned my lesson with Contessa.
23:34I am not touching her marriage, baby.
23:36I am running for state representative and I just need to be quiet.
23:40Look at how sexist y'all are because even in the midst of the party that I threw for my goddamn self,
23:44y'all talking to me about my husband.
23:46Y'all can't even on my goddamn birthday talk to me about how many.
23:49Happy birthday.
23:50Happy birthday.
23:51Still.
23:51You were sitting in the best party you have ever attended and you're asking me why Scott didn't do it.
23:56You better do the flip, baby.
23:57You better flip that shit, baby.
23:59This is my party.
24:00Because I am the best event planner for my birthday party, okay?
24:04My party was empty.
24:06Game changer.
24:07Yes, stop off.
24:08Yes.
24:09Yes.
24:09Shoot.
24:10Yes.
24:11And stop off.
24:12You better come on.
24:13Yes.
24:15Coming up.
24:17If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
24:20That can happen.
24:21I'm done talking about this.
24:22You are so entitled.
24:24I'm done.
24:25I'm done.
24:30Oh!
24:35Come on, back up, back up, back up, back up.
24:39Okay, I'm going to get the plates.
24:41I ordered them some graduation thank you cards.
24:49I'm old school.
24:50I mean, a written thank you note would always be nice.
24:58I need this.
25:01This.
25:03Pow.
25:06Oh!
25:08I'm not going to lie.
25:09That looks good as hell.
25:14What up, boys?
25:16Haircuts.
25:17Smelling good.
25:18Haircuts.
25:19Haircuts.
25:20You want to fix some food?
25:22Food.
25:23Food?
25:23We got the food.
25:24We got y'all.
25:25Come on, sit down.
25:25Look at y'all.
25:26This is so sweet.
25:28Like our, this is our celebration of y'all.
25:30We had our graduation party.
25:32This y'all graduation party.
25:33Woo!
25:34We've been waiting for them to get their degrees.
25:37We knew they could do it.
25:39It's impressive.
25:41They definitely took different routes to get there.
25:44He had a gap year.
25:45Malia Obama, she did a gap year in Europe.
25:47Miles just took his gap year in school involuntarily.
25:51Do you want me to help you?
25:53Help me do what?
25:55Help you make your bed.
25:57You're not funny.
25:57I'm going to warm my food up.
25:58Now, it's time to pay bills, baby.
26:03Bills, bills, bills.
26:06It's a surprise, brother.
26:07You got some food.
26:09Yep, yep.
26:10Oh, this.
26:13That's good.
26:13Hyping hot.
26:15So how does it feel to have one less thing off the plate?
26:19Nothing.
26:19It feels like nothing.
26:20So we talked about, in high school, right, I got the Jeep.
26:26Boom, Jeep was cool.
26:27But now we're starting to teeter towards Jeep not being so cool.
26:30So now it's like...
26:31Oh, really?
26:31What makes a Jeep not so cool?
26:33No, it's cool.
26:33But it's just like, I'm tired of seeing it.
26:35I know you tired of seeing it.
26:37Tired.
26:37What we do have to look at, though, is your financial situation to see if you could afford
26:46to make any payments.
26:50I put some numbers.
26:51I did some figures for you.
26:53Hold on one second while I get my iPad.
26:55I just want to say before you go, make sure whatever you bring out on that iPad is not
27:00going to cause me to pick up your pasta off your plate and feed it to the dogs.
27:06Yeah, it might.
27:07Once Miles and Michael told me that they were going to be graduating this year, all I have
27:13been able to think about is moving forward financially.
27:17Basically, what I did was just calculate the Chase bill for last year, month by month.
27:26January...
27:27Mama, can I stop you right there?
27:28You didn't do anything wrong.
27:29Why does this have to be negative?
27:31It doesn't.
27:31It doesn't.
27:32It's factual information.
27:33Michael spent over $60,000 by himself on this card.
27:40The Chase bill?
27:42If I were you and I wanted a car, I wouldn't be arguing with the person you're asking to
27:48buy the car.
27:49But that's me.
27:50This needs to be shared so that he has a clear understanding about the value of money, about
27:57the value of just swiping a mother f***ing credit card.
28:02So have you been thinking about where you want to go to law school, how you're going to finance
28:08your education?
28:09I do have a mother who makes pretty good money.
28:18I don't feel like I should be footing the bill for anything other than the roof over your
28:25head, that sort of a thing.
28:27So when you start talking about law school, graduate school, and so forth, if you're not
28:33getting any support, right, if no one's helping you to do that, and it sounds like, based on
28:40what your mom is saying, that's what would be the ideal situation.
28:43So the only one here at the table with an actual graduate doctorate degree is me.
28:53And how I did it was I got scholarship money and loans.
28:59Your mom was not able to do the things for you that you are able to do for us.
29:06What about all the rich white kids their parents pay for their way to do everything, and then
29:10they get out of college debt-free, and are millionaires?
29:16So what about all the white people who pay for their kids to go to school, be debt-free,
29:23and they still ain't doing s***?
29:28Now Michael's point is still a valid one.
29:30We are blessed.
29:32We are in a situation where we can help.
29:37Who here at the table gives a s***?
29:40About how hard I'm working, instead of being able to move towards retirement.
29:47Me.
29:53He said that he thinks every day about how he can, what he can do to be able to give back
29:58to you.
29:58That's what he said.
29:59I understand it.
30:00But then don't...
30:01If I'm dead before he finishes law school, then what?
30:04That can happen, because God might take you away.
30:07I'm done talking about this.
30:09Oh, I don't care.
30:11Be done.
30:12I get tired of being the lone man out.
30:15It's always three against one.
30:17I'm jumping in.
30:18You don't f***ing jump in.
30:19You can't speak for me, because you don't think like me.
30:22After you speak, I'm going to speak.
30:23You don't think like me.
30:24After you speak, I'm going to speak.
30:25You don't support me on s***.
30:26Where did that come from?
30:27It comes from my heart.
30:28Is this a beat?
30:29It comes from my heart.
30:30The bottom line is, you are so f***ing entitled, is what this revealed to me.
30:36I'm done.
30:38I'm done.
30:39I don't owe you a motherf***ing thing from here.
30:45I give you everything I have to give.
30:50I don't know.
30:51I don't know.
30:53I don't know.
30:55I don't know.
30:56I don't know.
30:57I don't know.
30:58I don't know.
30:59I don't know.
31:00Fuck.
31:01Oh, my God.
31:02Mommy time tonight?
31:03You want to just rest?
31:04Rest?
31:05Yes.
31:06I don't know.
31:07To wake up in the morning?
31:09That's enough.
31:10And get your day started off right?
31:13And then in the morning, you're going to be, I'm late.
31:16I'm a D.O.
31:18I'm a goddess.
31:20I'm going to show me what I want and how it's all right.
31:23You trying to reverse the big back?
31:25You trying to take my back big?
31:27No, it's not big.
31:28Just wide.
31:29I'm small and a waist and cute in the face.
31:31With a big back?
31:32Step into my world.
31:34Whole lot of bad girls.
31:35See what you want and we take it.
31:37Want me to just rotate it over?
31:39No.
31:40Oh, that's probably a good idea.
31:41See, teamwork.
31:42That's what I'm saying.
31:43Let me be your team right now.
31:44Looks like we about, you going the opposite direction.
31:46You going the opposite direction?
31:48No.
31:49G-O-D-D-E-S-A.
31:54I'm a D.O.
31:56I'm a goddess.
31:57I'm going to show me what I want and how it's all right.
32:00I'm a D.O.
32:01I'm a goddess.
32:02Come on in.
32:03I must be the first to arrive.
32:05You are.
32:06Okay.
32:09I'm going to have a sweet dairy margarita.
32:12Hey, how are you?
32:14Good.
32:15Hey, Missy.
32:16Drinking already?
32:17Girl, yes.
32:18When you like you guys.
32:20Yesterday.
32:21Praise God.
32:22Can I get a dirty Shirley?
32:24So how you been?
32:25You look cute today.
32:26Girl, we had a family dinner that went all the way left.
32:33Got an attitude because I'm not going to pay for law school.
32:37I never said I was paying for law school, dude.
32:39I don't think you should.
32:41Me and him going back and forth.
32:43Cecil was silent, boo.
32:45I get tired of being a bad cop all by myself all the time.
32:49I understand, boo.
32:50I just need a break from the people that last night went for.
32:55I just need a break.
33:02Hey, ladies.
33:03How are your birthday, girl?
33:05You did that.
33:06You did that.
33:08I have a card for you.
33:11Happy birthday.
33:12I'm doing good now.
33:14I don't know you now.
33:15I'm 42.
33:16You look amazing.
33:17I don't look at you.
33:18You do not.
33:19It's my birthday.
33:20You're going to have some food.
33:21We're going to have some drinks.
33:22Let's turn up a little bit.
33:23My hubby surprised me.
33:25He was like, invite your friends.
33:27I'm going to pay for y'all to eat, drink, and have a good night.
33:30So your husband did this for you?
33:32Yes, he did.
33:33But Contessa's husband did not do it for her.
33:35So do you think you should tone it down a little bit for the people?
33:38Look, I can't tone it down, because my man is my man.
33:41That's right.
33:42I mean, I got a good man.
33:45So happy birthday.
33:49Happy birthday, babe.
33:50Happy birthday.
33:51Yeah.
33:52Good.
33:53Welcome.
33:54Happy birthday.
33:55Hello.
33:57I love it.
33:58Let's come sit down.
34:03What's up?
34:05Where the party at?
34:06Oh, hey.
34:07Where the people at party?
34:08Hey.
34:09I can't bend over, because my is short.
34:12Oh, .
34:13Oh, hey.
34:14Hey.
34:15Hi.
34:16Hi, girls.
34:17So cute.
34:18Oh, my God.
34:20Everybody look good.
34:22Don't feel underdressed.
34:23Y'all look just fine.
34:25Look at Jackie's face.
34:26This brand name biatch is always going to have something to say if you're not wearing Gucci,
34:38Prada, Fendi, or something.
34:40Girl, you better get yourself some Zara.
34:42Some of us professional women have more places to go than to the party.
34:48So are you saying that the women that walked in aren't professional?
34:51That's what she trying to say.
34:52I'm just talking about you.
34:53Ooh.
34:54If professional means being you, I want to be me.
34:59I don't want to be you.
35:00Pull it in.
35:01That's all I'm saying.
35:02I can't tell these shoes are starting already.
35:04The shade has already started.
35:06They didn't even say happy birthday yet.
35:08Look, we done took over.
35:10It's Brandy's day, okay?
35:11So look, so first off, let's get some shots.
35:13Her man paying for this, so he said that I can have all the shots I wanted.
35:17That's what he said.
35:18He did.
35:19He said you could have all the shots.
35:21I love this.
35:22That contestant's party.
35:23I feel like we all didn't get a chance to really, like, kick it.
35:25To me, that's the only negative about having a party.
35:27You don't get to spend any quality time with everybody.
35:30That's why the next day I did a brunch.
35:32I said, if I didn't get a chance to hug you, please come to my house.
35:34And I literally cooked from, like, 10 o'clock in the morning.
35:37You cooked after your party?
35:39Until 9 o'clock.
35:40Where was Scott the next day?
35:42He could cook.
35:43Scott ain't planning , but Scott must have been exhausted at this party.
35:53You did good on this party.
35:55I tried.
35:56I took wearing that wig and that pimp coat.
35:59He was tired.
36:02I enjoy taking care of people.
36:03I know, but somebody needs to take care of you at some point.
36:05I do agree.
36:06I do.
36:07I think paying for that party was kind of taking care of me.
36:09All right.
36:10I'm going to bring it back to me for a second.
36:11Okay.
36:12It's my birthday.
36:13Not for a second for the night.
36:14My husband and my kids on the phone.
36:15So, one.
36:16Oh, my husband.
36:17All right, y'all.
36:18This is my husband.
36:19Hey, y'all.
36:20All my kids.
36:21Hi.
36:22How are you?
36:23So they wanted to say thank you.
36:25All right.
36:27All right.
36:29Thank you, baby.
36:30I love you.
36:31All right.
36:33Bye.
36:35All right.
36:37Why is she thanking him so much?
36:38Was this like a really expensive restaurant?
36:40Like, was this a lot of money?
36:42Happy birthday.
36:43Happy birthday, Brandi.
36:44This is an amazing dinner party.
36:46I think you should eat before the food starts getting cold.
36:50Yeah, somebody say a prayer.
36:51Can we pray to God or do we have to pray to your husband for thanking him for the food?
36:57You and your feelings, but it's okay.
37:02We thanking these husbands a lot.
37:04These husbands are getting a lot of credit for some basic .
37:10Contessa's retaliating because she's feeling a way that Scott has never planned a birthday party for her.
37:17We in a strip mall.
37:18Not a pleasant.
37:20She's still upset about that party.
37:22Here's the thing.
37:23My husband paid for this.
37:24He paid for everybody to come and have a good night.
37:27My husband is amazing, so I give my husband props and I'll tell anybody.
37:30Okay.
37:31So, I'm sorry, Contessa, if that's a problem for you or anyone else, but it is what it is.
37:35I think y'all was with the problem.
37:38Did you hear my husband complain one minute about how much money I was spent?
37:41No.
37:42I don't think, but I don't think you're...
37:43The only thing that my husband did not do was plan it.
37:45But I'll be honest, if he would have did this as my birthday party, I would have been underwhelmed.
37:54This is not a birthday party in my opinion.
37:56Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
37:57Let's bring this back.
37:58Let's bring this back.
37:59It's not a comparison.
38:01That was a party.
38:02This is not a party.
38:03This is a dinner.
38:04This is not a dinner.
38:05It's getting out of hand.
38:06I know.
38:07What is...
38:20Did you hear my husband complain one minute about how much money I was spent?
38:23But I'll be honest, if he would have did this as my first birthday party, I would have been underwhelmed.
38:32Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
38:33Let's bring this back.
38:34Let's bring this back.
38:35Let's bring this back.
38:36Because this is getting out of hand.
38:37No, this is not a party.
38:38This is a dinner.
38:39This is a dinner.
38:40Right.
38:41Brandi spent zero.
38:42My husband paid for it.
38:43I brought some money just in case.
38:45Y'all, money for what?
38:46Put your stuff back.
38:47You brought all your birthday money.
38:48I mean, we got a joint bank account.
38:49I got access.
38:50Get your coin purse.
38:51Put it back.
38:52Baby, the shade is real, baby.
38:53The shade is very real.
38:54Why are you throwing money on the table?
38:55If I'm not mistaken, at your party, you said you wanted somebody to do something nice
39:10for you.
39:11He knows this is a big deal.
39:12I doubt he's going to come in here and didn't have anything planned for you.
39:14I hope not.
39:15Here you go.
39:16It may not be from Scott, but you're getting wined and dined with a nice meal.
39:21Be grateful.
39:23Really?
39:24Contessa was upset.
39:27What am I upset about?
39:28About Scott not throwing a party for you.
39:31And I don't know why you forgot.
39:35Me saying I'm throwing a party for myself?
39:37The question becomes, what is this paternalistic world that some man has to throw some for me?
39:42I make just as much money as him.
39:47Not only does Contessa complain about Scott to her friends.
39:50So he's cheating?
39:51Is that what?
39:52I don't know what nobody is ever doing.
39:55Then she switches her story.
39:56She get mad if you remember what she said the day before.
39:59Keep your opinions about my spouse to your goddamn mother self.
40:04Now I've learned to just accept it.
40:06Stay up out of Contessa if you know better.
40:08Why focus on the negative?
40:10What kind of friends focus on the negative?
40:12These, bitch.
40:13Okay, girl.
40:14All we're saying at the end of the day is that you complain all the time about your husband.
40:22You complain all the time about your husband.
40:25It is all right, bitch.
40:27Now can we move on?
40:29Where the is the case?
40:31This is over-stimulating.
40:33This might be normal behavior for everybody.
40:39I think this is what I'm learning.
40:41And eventually we probably all hug and laugh.
40:43I ain't even saying shit to no man.
40:45She always comes back.
40:47Shit, y'all getting me all hot.
40:49Till next time.
40:50So do you think that there is ever a time where, where maybe you are frustrated, maybe you
40:58We all are.
40:59Hey, be quiet.
41:00I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
41:01Be quiet.
41:02We've been married for 20 years.
41:04And if I spent all of my time focusing on the negatives, I would be like many of my girlfriends
41:10out here who are single.
41:11And maybe at 30 years, he's going to do some of those things that I've asked for.
41:16I've been married 29.
41:18You get it.
41:19He's not going to do anything.
41:20Right.
41:21Dang.
41:22I was like, please enlighten her.
41:25So yes, I would be great if he would sometimes buy me a Rolls Royce, but I like the ring better.
41:30Some people here married and then don't even want to be married no damn more.
41:33I don't know how I got in it.
41:36All I know is, I can go in my safe and I see I have a wedding ring too.
41:40The marriage ain't just all of that.
41:42Difference is, I have a wedding ring and a Rolls Royce.
41:45And I don't have a headache.
41:47Now clock that T.
41:50Well, quiet.
41:51Who here doesn't want to be married anymore other than me?
41:57What?
41:58Yes, you do.
41:59Yes, you do.
42:00You have no idea.
42:03Don't say that.
42:06Don't say that.
42:07Don't say that.
42:08Don't say that to mom.
42:12Next time on Married to Medicine.
42:14People file for divorce for all kinds of shit down there.
42:19I bust my boy out.
42:20He left.
42:21I don't know who the is.
42:24Dr. Jackie want to see you.
42:25Nice to meet you.
42:26Look how he smiled.
42:27You probably delivered him.
42:28He let up.
42:29Let up.
42:30You supposed to have your shirt off.
42:31Bro, I love the house but I'm a little bit uncomfortable.
42:34Why they naked men?
42:35Don't cuss at me.
42:36But the ladies next to you took it personal too.
42:38Don't them bitches.
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