00:00then you're brought up in like a salvation house to it you are brought up in a way that you need
00:05to respect parents like it's a it's a by-product of that upbringing that it is understood and
00:11expected of you to respect them in a way that or revert them in a way that or like it's it's
00:18an upset expectation so how do we manage that usually respect is used just as a substitute
00:25and a very poor one for love when there is no love then you want to have respect please respect me
00:33the real person does not want somebody else to respect him yes if you want to offer something
00:41to the other then in her own interest you might want them to understand you to want to be understood
00:50is one thing to want to be respected is a totally different thing as a parent
00:58you are fully entitled to want to be understood you know as a parent probably you are offering
01:06something valuable to your kid that's fine you want your kid to understand what you're giving or
01:12saying that's all right what you're saying no that's not that's not right bow down touch feet surrender
01:22even without understanding no no
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