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00:00Just thoughts and OCD.
00:02So you guys found what venue you love.
00:05Yes.
00:06What are you looking forward to the most?
00:09Flowers would be number one.
00:10OK.
00:11Food would be number two.
00:12OK.
00:13I want alpacas.
00:14Alpacas.
00:15Have you guys ever done a queso fountain?
00:17A queso fountain?
00:19We need to manage expectations.
00:22This is what reality is.
00:25I think you're not going to love what I have to tell you.
00:30We can work some magic.
00:46I think that you're not going to love what I have to tell you.
00:50OK.
00:53We just shared exactly what we want our dream writing to look
00:56like, and I'm so nervous that she's going to pull the rug right
01:01out from underneath us.
01:02Rug that bitch out of here, mother .
01:06I think that it's going to be challenging to get to the point
01:10where we can have everything we want for over 100 guests.
01:15And I think that spending a huge portion of our budget on the venue and shuttles
01:22versus putting that towards the food worries me a little bit because I just want to make
01:29sure that we get all of the things we need before we get to the things that we want.
01:35Obviously, the things that we need are photo, hair and makeup, our officiant, music, and all the food.
01:45And the things we want are the alpacas and the flowers.
01:50And we all know it's not cheap and it's easy to get wrapped up in all the things,
01:56snowballing into, you know, all the shiny object, squirrel, you know.
02:02So I think that's going to be our goal is to keep it.
02:05Be in our budget.
02:05Be in budget and not have any regrets afterwards, you know.
02:08You want to feel really good about the whole thing, OK?
02:11We fell in love as soon as we saw the venue.
02:14We just didn't think about all the other expenses with it being a remote location.
02:21Thank you guys so much.
02:22Yes, of course.
02:23See you.
02:24See you.
02:25Bye.
02:26Eat a bag of dicks.
02:27Oh, OK.
02:32Well, that was informative.
02:34Yeah.
02:35Like, literally information overload.
02:38Eat a bag of dicks.
02:39But I'm not going to spend all this money to not get what I want.
02:43I'm not giving up that venue.
02:45We've already put a down payment on it.
02:47Yeah.
02:48And it's a lot of money.
02:49I'm not losing the shuttles.
02:52Five years ago, I was at, like, my worst.
02:54And I never thought that I would be marrying my best friend.
02:58So I want the day to be absolutely perfect.
03:01At the end of the day, I just hope she can give us what we want.
03:06Maybe just volley.
03:07See how many you can get across the net without trying to, like, kill each other.
03:23Oh!
03:24Go ahead, bro.
03:25You got this.
03:26That's your point.
03:27Dad, what's up with the tank top?
03:28Five percent body fat.
03:29You know it's like, my gosh, that would be fantastic until you get sick.
03:30Ninety-eight percent muscle.
03:31Thank you!
03:32Yeah!
03:33That's it right there!
03:34The bowling pins.
03:35Eleven to two.
03:36You got a lot of bounce.
03:37What?
03:38When it comes to pickleball, probably not the best.
03:39But when it comes to grabbing my kids, I'll be all right.
03:41I got it.
03:42I got it.
03:43I got it.
03:44It's just domination.
03:45Oh, the park's gonna run over the ball.
03:47Hi.
03:48Hey, Mae.
03:49Welcome to the pickleball game.
03:50I miss you.
03:51How's your ride?
03:52It was good.
03:53No ride shares are $150.
03:54It's okay.
03:55Could be worse.
03:56I try to see my parents as much as I can.
03:57It's okay.
03:58I try to see my parents as much as I can.
03:59I try to see my parents as much as I can.
04:00I'm gonna get a lot of bounce.
04:01You got a lot of bounce.
04:02You got a lot of bounce.
04:03You got a lot of bounce.
04:04What?
04:05When it comes to pickleball, probably not the best, but when it comes to grabbing my kids, I'll be all
04:08right?
04:09I got them.
04:10I got them.
04:11I got them.
04:12I got them.
04:15But it makes it hard because me and Colin live about two hours away, and I can't drive.
04:20Just dominate this kid.
04:23Ride shares are crazy expensive, and me and Colin are trying to save as much money as we can for this wedding.
04:29Trying.
04:30We're trying.
04:31We're doing the best we can.
04:34We met with our wedding planner that we got.
04:38We met with for the first time.
04:40Okay, yeah.
04:41And with our budget, she doesn't know if she's gonna be able to give us what we want.
04:47She already thinks you have to dial it back.
04:49Yeah.
04:50We know Balen dreams big, and with big comes a price tag.
04:55That wedding venue is their decision.
04:57That's what they picked.
04:58Absolutely.
04:59That's what they don't.
05:00You know?
05:01Yeah.
05:02So budget smudget, they better figure it out now.
05:05That's great.
05:06Are you kidding me?
05:07It's hot flies.
05:08Oh, damn.
05:09So are you excited to finally go dress shopping?
05:11I'm so excited.
05:12So excited.
05:13I wasn't at first, but now I'm like super pumped to just realize like, Balen, you're not gonna look like this in three months from now.
05:19Yeah.
05:20I believe that Balen is definitely procrastinating.
05:24I think it's because she's a little self-conscious maybe with where her body is right now.
05:28But these alterations and customizations can take like eight to nine months.
05:32So I made a few calls, and I found an amazing wedding dress shop in the DC area so we can get this going.
05:41I can't wait to have you, Mima, Leela, Colleen, and Marlene there.
05:45I don't know really about Sammy.
05:47You know, it's not looking good.
05:49How is she doing?
05:50She's still teetering.
05:51Like, her thoughts are...
05:53Still her thoughts.
05:54They're impediments.
05:55I'm just glad that she was open to finally going to a therapist and the way that she explained it to me,
06:01which makes me sad to think about it, but she's like, she was exhausted.
06:12The way that Sammy describes her racing thoughts to me reminds me of like, like a tree maybe,
06:19where it's like, like you've got like this big trunk and like that's the thought and then it takes a turn this way.
06:24And just everything just keeps branching off.
06:27Well, like what if this happened today?
06:28Then, then this could happen.
06:30And, um, it's just exhausting.
06:34We can like FaceTime or...
06:36Like she needs to be on FaceTime the entire time.
06:39Because if one dress...
06:40She will be.
06:41One dress she misses, she could be like, oh my God, that's ugly.
06:43That one's good. That one's bad. That one's ugly.
06:45That one's really ugly. You didn't show me the ugly one.
06:47Oh my gosh. I know.
06:49Imagining Sammy not being there when I try on wedding dresses just makes it feel more empty.
06:55Makes me sad.
06:56Makes me hurt more for her than for you.
06:59Yeah.
07:00Because for her to know herself well enough that she can't overcome this hurdle to get to one of your biggest things.
07:07Yeah, it's sad.
07:08It's, like, really painful to think about.
07:13There you go, Dad.
07:15There you go, Dad.
07:16I don't want you to tear a vertebrae.
07:18Back in there, do you need a new partner?
07:20Yeah.
07:21He's still not in the back there.
07:22I'm gonna play.
07:23It probably won't get any better.
07:24I'm just gonna, I'm gonna pick these tomatoes off.
07:26Yeah.
07:27All right, it's a lot to a little.
07:32So, Balen just filled me in on a whole whirlwind of information.
07:36Her and Colin had their first appointment with their wedding coordinator.
07:40Oh, Jesus.
07:41Yeah.
07:42And I guess the biggest, like, what you would call reality check was possibly their budget not fitting into what their desires are for their dream wedding.
07:52Which is, I mean, that's why they call them dream weddings, because you gotta be dreaming, I guess.
07:56I know.
07:57But I want her to have her dream wedding, and she's not gonna make concessions.
08:00Hmm.
08:03We're gonna go wedding dress shopping this week, but Sammy won't physically be there.
08:10But I feel like I could suggest to her, what if your dad flew out and got you?
08:16The idea of Al picking her up is really more, Sammy is accountable to somebody else.
08:24It empowers her.
08:25Yeah.
08:26To say and schedule and be in control, where if she doesn't have that control, she lets her thoughts control what's going on.
08:34Yeah.
08:35It would mean so much to Balen.
08:37And if she feels open to the idea, then, like, we're running with it.
08:41I don't want to say anything to Balen, because I don't want to get her hopes up.
08:46We gotta pull it off.
08:52You remember the link I sent you on the device?
08:54Yeah.
08:55New pulse.
08:56Yes.
08:57That you wear on your wrist or whatever it is.
08:58Yeah.
08:59It's something that could possibly control that impulse, kind of to tick.
09:02It could be life-changing for Tourette in general.
09:04Oh, wow.
09:05Oh, my God.
09:06I hear The Dragon.
09:07Oh, my God!
09:08It's so cute.
09:09I hear the Dragon.
09:10Oh, my God!
09:11Oh, my God!
09:12Oh, my God!
09:28Oh, my gosh.
09:40You're so cute.
09:41Oh, my goodness.
09:42You're so cute.
09:44Today, I'm meeting up with my friend Anita for the first time in person.
09:47She reached out to me on social media because she has a daughter a few years older than
09:52Bailen that has autism and Tourette syndrome.
09:55Are you OK?
09:56No.
09:56No, you're not.
09:57No.
09:58Well, you're going to have to be.
09:59Oh, my gosh.
10:00You're so beautiful.
10:01Oh, thank you.
10:02That's out.
10:03I'm sorry.
10:04But I think what Anita really wanted was some connection from another parent that is dealing
10:10with some of the same issues that she's dealing with.
10:13Out of all kind of like the requests and DMs I get because people know that Bailen being
10:18on social media and they just know that she's my daughter, you're honestly the only one that
10:24I reach back out to.
10:26It's a blessing for me.
10:28So I reached out to Julie through social media because Bailen experiences some of the same
10:35tics, the severe tics that my daughter Sophia has.
10:38So I felt like Julie might be able to help me answer some questions that my daughter could
10:43not because she can't give you details.
10:46She's not nonverbal, but she can communicate to me everything.
10:50She's definitely more complex than Bailen because I know that she has autism and stuff like that,
10:54too.
10:55But you feel like the Tourette is really prominent at this point.
10:59And I feel like the Tourette is kind of ruling her life right now.
11:02OK.
11:03Sophia was officially diagnosed with Tourette's at 16 years old.
11:08Her tics were not as severe in the beginning, but she's 25 years old now.
11:13And she's in a helmet 24 hours a day to protect her eyesight and to protect her head.
11:19To see her beat in her face every day and punch herself in the jaw.
11:39As Bailen says, Tourette looks different on everybody.
11:41So the emotional and physical toll on Anita, specifically because the Tourette is so self-harming,
11:51my heart just actually hurts.
11:54I don't know how you do it.
11:57But it's what I would do a million times over and over again until we find whatever it is
12:02that's going to make her have a better quality of life.
12:06There's no other option, right?
12:08There's just no other option.
12:09I wouldn't have ever thought five or six years ago that we'd be preparing to walk Bailen
12:15down the aisle.
12:16I know.
12:17Never.
12:18It's definitely a different case than Bailen, but I know that feeling of helplessness.
12:23And I want nothing more than for Anita to stay hopeful that there will be just that one
12:28person that has some idea of something that could help Sophia.
12:33I'm always, always have my nose in a book, in a something, just trying to look for anything
12:38that I think that might be helpful.
12:40Like the next thing.
12:41Yes, the next thing.
12:42Yes.
12:43Do you remember the link I sent you on the device?
12:45Yes.
12:46The new pulse that you wear on your wrist or whatever it is.
12:48Yes.
12:49Yes.
12:50The new pulse that you've actually heard of it.
12:52I read an article about this device being in development in the UK.
12:57And so I reached out to the company to ask for more information about this device.
13:01From what I understand, it stimulates the median nerve.
13:04It goes up to the brain.
13:05Kind of like deep brain stimulation, but not deep brain stimulation.
13:09Yes.
13:10Not invasive.
13:11I think this device could be revolutionary because it's not conventional.
13:15When you have DBS, you have actual wires that are connected.
13:18And if you're a self-injurious Ticker Tourette patient, there is that chance that you are going
13:23to pull and prod.
13:24So this device that sits no differently on your hand like a watch seems so promising to me for that reason.
13:32What could be life-changing for Tourette in general, honestly?
13:35I think you should explore it.
13:37Hmm.
13:38Even though new pulse is not even available in the US, I feel like now would be a great time
13:45to get a hold of this team.
13:47Because even though Baylen's doing a great job forging her path into the world, this device
13:53could potentially make her everyday experiences easier, possibly.
14:00Tell me, baby, if I'm all that you desire, what's your rain and fire to get you back to me?
14:09Colin.
14:10Yeah.
14:11What type of dress do you think I'm going to be in?
14:14White.
14:16Sure.
14:17If you...
14:18That helps you sleep at night.
14:20I mean, part of it is coming from my traditional values.
14:24Well, let me tell you, with your traditional values, it is not a skimpy dress like you want
14:29me to be in, so...
14:30I just said flaunt what you got.
14:33Colin, describe if you could put Baylen in any wedding dress, what would it look like?
14:37What's...
14:38Nipple covers.
14:39No.
14:40Just kidding.
14:41In a veil.
14:42Nipple covers in a veil.
14:44I'm not where I want to be to try on dresses, but there's alterations.
14:51Today is wedding dress shopping day, and if my mom didn't set an appointment at the wedding
14:57dress boutique...
14:58That wouldn't have happened.
15:00And my mom and my sister are on their way up from Roanoke.
15:04They're going to go with Baylen wedding dress shopping.
15:07So this time around, I'll try on white dresses.
15:10You're welcome.
15:11Love you.
15:13Have you done everything you need to out here?
15:15Have you done the child proof in the past?
15:17I did everything yesterday.
15:19My sister is bringing her littlest up.
15:23She's about one and a half.
15:25And I volunteered to watch her one and a half year old daughter.
15:29But I am excited though.
15:32You got that baby fever going on.
15:34No.
15:35Yeah.
15:36No.
15:37Don't lie.
15:38God's watching.
15:39I don't have baby fever.
15:40I just want kids.
15:42Yeah, now.
15:43Not now.
15:44In a year.
15:46It's just being a dad at like a younger age, you can do more with your kid.
15:52And I would like to have kids sooner than later.
15:56What do you think baby fever means?
15:58Colin's really moving up the timeline here.
16:01The last conversation we even had about kids, you basically almost fainted in the bowling alley.
16:06We've been dating for a little over a year now.
16:09As far as future goes, what do you see?
16:13I'd like to have kids before I'm 25.
16:16You'd like to have kids in the next four years?
16:18Yeah.
16:19Well, yeah, because it was different at that point.
16:28We weren't engaged.
16:29We didn't live together.
16:31All I'm saying is we get adjusted to the new lifestyle and we get into a rhythm.
16:36Then we can get into the lab and maybe start cooking something up.
16:40What?
16:41Yeah.
16:44I didn't want to say, yeah, let's go to pound town.
16:48Well, you just did.
16:49I'm about to go wedding dress shopping.
16:50I need to be in the wedding dress shopping zone.
16:54This is a conversation for another time.
16:59That's them.
17:00Back up, back up, back up.
17:01Hello.
17:02Hey.
17:03Watch out, Fluff.
17:04Hi, baby, Willie.
17:05How are you?
17:06Good.
17:07Good.
17:08How are you guys?
17:09Good.
17:10Good.
17:11So how was it getting up here?
17:12It was pretty good.
17:13Did she sleep at all?
17:14No.
17:15Rough.
17:16Not at all.
17:17I feel a little nervous about Colin watching Willie.
17:20I feel a little nervous about Colin watching Willie.
17:23I feel a little nervous about Colin watching Willie.
17:28Because she's definitely got that fiery, feisty toddler attitude.
17:33So I don't know how she's going to react.
17:37But I know she's going to give him Colin a run for his money.
17:40For sure.
17:42She eats regular food.
17:44Just still make sure you cut it up into the bite-sized pieces.
17:47Dick.
17:49As far as her diaper, where am I doing that at?
17:54Like, do you got something I can put her on?
17:56Right here are, like, doggy pee pads, essentially.
17:59Lay her on that.
18:00Do you have gloves in there?
18:01No, I do not have gloves.
18:03You do it bare hands?
18:05Why would I have gloves?
18:06I use wipes.
18:07I don't get anything on my hands.
18:09She's not, like, scraping it with her hands.
18:11Yeah.
18:12You just wipe it off.
18:14This is a big responsibility.
18:16And when I offered to babysit Lily, I didn't realize how much pressure is on me for everything
18:21to just go correctly.
18:23All right, bye.
18:24I know.
18:25I know.
18:26See ya.
18:27I know.
18:28Love you.
18:29Love you, too.
18:30Oh, God.
18:31Oh, God.
18:32I have no idea what I'm doing.
18:37It's going south already.
18:39Lily, it's OK.
18:40Breathe, girl.
18:41Breathe.
18:42Oh, Lord.
18:43It's going to be a rough day, isn't it?
18:45Yes, it is.
18:46Come on.
18:48Oh, yeah.
18:49I'm so excited.
18:50Today, I'm pretty pumped.
18:52I like the extra color underneath it, like the nude.
18:54So extra.
18:55Oh, wow.
18:56Yeah.
18:57I can barely hold it together thinking about Baelen possibly finding the dress of her dreams.
19:02My oldest daughter.
19:03Yeah.
19:04Woo-hoo.
19:05Woo-hoo-hoo.
19:16We're here, you guys.
19:21All right.
19:22You ready?
19:23Let's go.
19:25Hi.
19:26Hi.
19:27Hi.
19:28I'm so excited, but I'm so nervous.
19:32I know.
19:33It's OK.
19:34Don't be nervous.
19:35Hi.
19:36Today, I'm pretty pumped about wedding dress shopping, but I'd be lying if I didn't say
19:41that I had some nervous energy, because I just know how Baelen is feeling about her
19:46body right now.
19:47I can't do this by myself.
19:49And I don't want the most beautiful day to turn into a negative event for Baelen.
19:55Hi.
19:56Hi.
19:57Oh, my gosh.
19:58We're waiting for you.
19:59I'm coming.
20:00Hi.
20:01I love your pose.
20:03Oh, my God.
20:04Are you so excited?
20:05Yes, I am.
20:06Hi, girl.
20:07Yes.
20:08Good to see you.
20:09I'm so excited to be a part of this special moment with her.
20:10She gets to literally play dress up for her wedding.
20:12Let's go.
20:13Okay, lead us.
20:14There we go.
20:15All right.
20:16No worries.
20:17And despite Baelen's weight game, Baelen is beautiful, and she just could use a little
20:22reminder of that.
20:23My name's on this card.
20:24Stop.
20:25Yes, it is.
20:26My name's on the card.
20:27Oh, wow.
20:28Hi.
20:29Hi.
20:30Hi.
20:31Hi.
20:32Hello.
20:33Hi.
20:34We're so excited to have you today.
20:35You're going to follow me.
20:36We're going to head into the showroom, and then we'll get started shortly.
20:38Great.
20:39This way.
20:40Perfect.
20:41Oh, look.
20:42I am a little bit nervous to try on dresses because I just want to feel like a princess.
20:48But putting on 18 pounds for my medication makes it really hard.
20:51So I'm definitely going to latch on to all my lovely people that I brought with me today
20:56because I really need their support.
20:58Oh, I like that dress, too.
21:00All right.
21:01Baelen.
21:02My name is Taya.
21:03Hi, Taya.
21:04Nice to meet you.
21:05Welcome, everyone.
21:07Dildo.
21:09Um, so what we like to do is kind of get to know the bride, get to know what your sort
21:12of vision is.
21:13Oh, boy!
21:14My dream dress?
21:17I don't really know what I want.
21:19That's even better.
21:20Yay!
21:21That means you are open to, like, trying on different silhouettes, different necklines,
21:25and hopefully lead us to, like, the one.
21:27I don't mean to interrupt.
21:28I don't mean to be rude.
21:29At what point should we FaceTime Sammy?
21:31When we're in that first dress mode, I think that would be perfect.
21:34So we are going to have you take a look at our showrooms, point out three gowns that you
21:39think you like to get to a really good place.
21:42I definitely want to try it at that one.
21:44It's very pretty.
21:45And remember, you don't have to go with white.
21:48Oh, I know.
21:49Grandma.
21:50I don't know.
21:51Colin knows, too.
21:52Oh, my God.
21:53He's like, let's do a more tradition.
21:55Oh, my God!
21:56Oh, my God!
21:57Come here.
21:58Oh.
21:59Yay!
22:00Oh, my God!
22:03Hi, buddy!
22:04Oh, my goodness.
22:06Oh!
22:07Yay!
22:08Oh!
22:09I don't mean to, like, pat myself on the back, but this is, I mean, it's...
22:17I don't have words.
22:20This is the best surprise ever.
22:24So how'd you get here?
22:25Um, Dad brought me here.
22:27Wait, Dad flew there and came back?
22:28And came back with me.
22:29Oh.
22:30What a good owl.
22:31I know.
22:32Good owl.
22:33What a good owl.
22:34I couldn't ask for two better daughters, and that one of them is willing to put all of
22:39her struggles aside because she knows her older sister would love her here and that she
22:44wouldn't miss it for the world.
22:46She's all I needed.
22:47Yeah.
22:48Yeah.
22:49I'm over the moon.
22:50I'm over the world.
22:51Sammy's not only my sister.
22:53She is my best friend.
22:56Sammy's my best friend.
22:57I'm ready now.
22:59Oh, my God.
23:00It's important for me to be here because I think she trusts my opinion a lot, which makes
23:05me want to be here.
23:07We can get started.
23:08So remember, just take a walk.
23:10Let me know what you want to try on and we'll take you there.
23:13Sweet.
23:14Okay.
23:16Yay.
23:17All the jewels come together and they form a different color.
23:22I don't mean to have, like honestly, to even like bring your Tourette into this at all,
23:26but I worry about stuff like that.
23:28And if you're pulling on any of this, if you-
23:29Oh, wait.
23:30Is see-through at the bottom?
23:31No.
23:32Grandma, it's see-through.
23:33Grandma, move on.
23:35Oh, wait.
23:36This one's gorgeous, too.
23:37I really like this one.
23:38You're gonna think I'm crazy, bae.
23:40I bet.
23:41I really want you to try this one on.
23:43I love this.
23:44Hey, Mom.
23:45Yep.
23:46How about this one?
23:48I like the extra color underneath it.
23:50I like the nude.
23:51So extra.
23:52Oh, wow.
23:53Yeah.
23:54I feel very honored that she wanted to include us because not all my in-laws to be get a chance
24:00to do this.
24:01Doesn't have to be the first dress I try on.
24:03And knowing Collin, I think he would probably prefer a form-fitting dress.
24:07Yeah.
24:08I definitely agree.
24:09But none of my opinions or feedback is based on Collin.
24:13It's not about Collin.
24:15It's about Balin.
24:16But I do appreciate that she's considering a total white dress because that's what Collin
24:21wants.
24:22This one's getting tried on.
24:24This one.
24:25This one?
24:26Yeah.
24:27Oh, look at that.
24:29Oh, my gosh.
24:31I'm aching for Balin to find the one or something close to the one.
24:36All right.
24:37So everyone get comfortable.
24:38Have a seat.
24:39We're going to do a little fashion show.
24:40We're going to start putting gowns on.
24:41She's going to come out and you'll get to see her in a wedding gown.
24:44Yeah.
24:45All right.
24:46Are you ready?
24:47Let's do it.
24:48Sweet.
24:49I can barely hold it together thinking about Balin possibly finding the dress of her dreams.
24:56Like, I don't know.
24:58It's just surreal.
24:59My oldest daughter.
25:01She's still back there.
25:02You know, she's still back there.
25:03She hasn't left.
25:04She hasn't left.
25:05Oh, my God.
25:06I'm obsessed.
25:07Oh, I hear the dress.
25:08Oh, it's moving.
25:09Oh, she's moving.
25:10I hear the dragging.
25:11Oh, my gosh.
25:18Oh, my God.
25:19Oh, she's moving.
25:20I hear the dragging.
25:21Oh, my gosh.
25:22Oh, my God.
25:23Oh, my God.
25:28I hear the dress coming.
25:29Oh, my gosh.
25:40I hear the dress coming.
25:41Tip, tip, tip, tip, tip.
25:44Aww.
25:49Oh, my gosh.
25:53Wow, that's epic.
25:59I feel like a little cupcake.
26:06I feel like a cupcake.
26:07Love it.
26:08Love it.
26:09The veil.
26:10Oh, the veil.
26:11I love the veil.
26:12Yeah.
26:13I don't even want you to try it at night.
26:15It's gorgeous.
26:16It looks so good on you.
26:17Yeah.
26:19Aww.
26:20That is very pretty.
26:22Aylin getting married, that's, like, the true, like, rite of passage almost into...
26:29not being under our wing anymore.
26:32I love the pockets.
26:33I love the corset.
26:34Okay, I was gonna say.
26:35I like the corset.
26:36I mean, you look this big.
26:37I love it.
26:38Yeah.
26:39You look insane.
26:40It does look really good.
26:41Seriously.
26:42You guys are sweet.
26:43No.
26:44You look insane.
26:47I feel like Rapunzel.
26:48I can't believe how much I loved the first dress.
26:51I was like, holy , I'm actually getting married.
26:53I love it.
26:54I love it.
26:56It's just a little too plain.
26:58Do you want to try Sammy's pick next, which is gonna be a very different look?
27:01Very different.
27:02Yeah?
27:03Yes.
27:04Yes.
27:05All right, let's go.
27:06Is it completely different than the two?
27:07Completely different than both of those two.
27:08Good.
27:09Good.
27:10The dress is not enough for Baylin.
27:11I think the tiara gives the dress, you know, that little bit of sparkle, but Baylin is
27:16just full of sparkle.
27:17And I want to see what else is hiding back there.
27:21How was the baby?
27:22I don't know.
27:23I haven't heard from a while.
27:24So...
27:25Call him.
27:26All right.
27:27Maybe I should give him a call.
27:28We're gonna need a phone call.
27:29Yeah.
27:30Hey.
27:31Shut up.
27:32Hey.
27:33How's it going?
27:34Um, it's all right.
27:35I mean, she's down for a nap right now.
27:38She cried a lot.
27:39Tried to give her food.
27:40That wasn't going well.
27:42I even set the plate on the ground.
27:45And thought that she would come over and just grab it whenever.
27:49Don't grab it whenever.
27:51She's won.
27:52She's won.
27:55She's moving too much.
27:56I don't want her to get up.
27:57He's like, please.
27:58I don't want her to get up.
27:59Cut the phone.
28:00Cut the phone.
28:02Well.
28:03No, no.
28:04Well, good luck.
28:05Just try snacks when she wakes up.
28:07Y'all have a good time.
28:08Okay.
28:09Bye, Colin.
28:10You too.
28:11Bye.
28:12Bye.
28:13Oh, no.
28:14Like that was from his heart.
28:16Yes.
28:17That was.
28:18It's not easy.
28:20No.
28:21It's not.
28:23I hear the dress.
28:24Oh, brother.
28:25Okay.
28:26Yeah.
28:27Oh.
28:28Hey, guys.
28:29This is like a little dance theme.
28:30This one we can get down in.
28:31Yeah.
28:32I love the scarf.
28:37Oh.
28:38I love the dress Sammy picked.
28:40I love the texture and like how flowy it was.
28:44It's beautiful.
28:45Oh, my.
28:46It's absolutely beautiful.
28:49I love the different, like, layers.
28:52So pretty.
28:55Stunning.
28:57I'm trying to be in love with it.
28:58I feel like the sparkle's missing a little bit.
29:01Yeah.
29:02Where it's like, hey, it's like, it's so like, I'm going out to dinner and I look amazing.
29:06Not like.
29:07Yes.
29:08I'm walking down the aisle.
29:09Yeah.
29:10Yeah.
29:11I love it, but.
29:12I love it as like a dancing.
29:13That's exactly what you're talking about for the reception.
29:15Yeah.
29:16And not go in the aisle dress.
29:18Reception.
29:19I like it.
29:20I personally really do like this dress.
29:23Let's try another one.
29:24Yeah.
29:25Sweet.
29:26Let's do it.
29:27Yeah.
29:28You can tell that she feels confident and that she is really like enjoying how she feels in
29:31the dress.
29:32And I think that is beautiful.
29:33Gorgeous in every single dress.
29:35Yeah.
29:36I'm happy that this appointment is going way better than what they expected though.
29:39Oh my gosh.
29:40Yeah.
29:41Yes.
29:42Oh my God.
29:43This is gorgeous.
29:44Like I'm getting married.
29:46You're the dry king.
29:47She's a moving.
29:49She's climbing.
29:51Oh.
29:52Oh my God.
29:53Oh my God.
29:54Oh my God.
29:55Oh my God.
29:59Oh my God.
30:01Oh my God.
30:02Oh my God.
30:03Oh my God.
30:04Literally.
30:05I've already lost it.
30:06Yeah.
30:07I feel like.
30:08Yeah.
30:09I feel like.
30:10Yeah.
30:11Oh my God.
30:14Oh my God.
30:16Oh my God.
30:20Oh my God.
30:23Wow.
30:26Wow.
30:27Oh my God.
30:29Oh my God.
30:34Like, it's literally, like, that dress is, like, made for you.
30:39I'm loving this.
30:45What do you guys think Colin would say?
30:47It's, you look unreal.
30:48Speechless.
30:49Speechless.
30:50There's nothing that he would say.
30:53This is me.
30:54It's beautiful.
30:55This is me.
30:56You can just tell that it makes you feel confident, you know?
30:58Like, you can just tell that it, like, makes you feel good.
31:02I love it.
31:04I see a princess.
31:06Exactly what I wanted to be on my wedding day.
31:11Oh, babe.
31:13I really just don't have words.
31:14I'm sorry.
31:15It was a big moment to see really just how joyful she felt when she put on something that made
31:22her feel like the Queen of England.
31:25F*** this kid.
31:26F*** them kids.
31:28Oh, my gosh.
31:30Honestly, in reality, it's not a bad tick day.
31:32My tics haven't been triggered by the dresses.
31:35It was just the veil.
31:37Sorry.
31:37Would you like it on or should I take it off for you?
31:39Will you care if we take it off?
31:40No, if you care.
31:41That way you can see it all sort of out.
31:42Because it was touching my head instead of touching my hair, if that makes any sense.
31:46Like, it was really in there.
31:48And I think that you knew, too, before you even, like, fully saw yourself in it.
31:54But I would like to come back before I purchase it.
31:59Yeah.
31:59Yeah.
32:01I want to see if I keep thinking about it.
32:03Because if I keep thinking about it, then I'm just not going to try it anymore.
32:06I'm just going to come back and buy that one.
32:08All right.
32:08You've got the floor.
32:09Careful.
32:09Okay.
32:10I'll take you back and you can get dressed.
32:12And we can come out here and chat.
32:13I love that she found something that was, like, bomb.
32:17Like, Balin bombshell.
32:19Oh, my gosh.
32:20Oh, my gosh.
32:21Was that cringy?
32:22Okay.
32:23What a good day.
32:25Today was phenomenal.
32:27I'm not going to lie.
32:28I came in here very anxious because I've gained 18 pounds and I'm not confident.
32:33But thank you guys for coming because I wouldn't be able to pick out my dress without you guys.
32:38It meant everything to have my closest people there.
32:41Bye.
32:41Oh, thank you for inviting us.
32:43They can tell me, oh, they wouldn't miss it for the world, and I know that.
32:46But they deserve to know how thankful I am that they were there for me.
32:52Bye.
32:53I love you.
32:54It means everything.
32:55Hey, guys.
32:56Thanks for coming.
32:57You looked beautiful.
32:59I love you.
33:00Love you, too.
33:01Well, let me sit on my throne.
33:03On my throne?
33:03No, I'm just kidding.
33:05What do you think?
33:06I just picked the perfect people to be here.
33:08Honestly.
33:08We're not good liars.
33:09You're going to leave a little bit of room open to maybe try some more on, or the favorite
33:15is the favorite?
33:16My favorite is the favorite.
33:18I'm still willing to come back and try more dresses on.
33:22What would be a reasonable time that you would be able to be back here?
33:25Do you have anything tomorrow?
33:29Yeah, you and Colin are going to Boston.
33:32Yeah, we have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, so...
33:34With Dr. Flaherty.
33:34Don't...
33:36Because it would have to be in a month.
33:38It would have to be, like...
33:39Oh, I could do a month.
33:40I just need a little bit of time to...
33:42We know.
33:42To come back.
33:43We know.
33:44Yeah.
33:44I don't know.
33:49Sounds crazy.
33:50Yeah, that's so funny.
33:51It doesn't sound crazy.
33:52It's called anxiety.
33:53And you started therapy, which is a huge step, too.
34:00You're doing the right thing.
34:01I was resistant to a therapist before because I was thinking that I could just fix it myself.
34:09But ultimately, my OCD and anxiety, I got to a point so bad of, like, why I wanted to
34:14go to therapy was because, like, I couldn't walk out of a room.
34:18Because I couldn't put, like, one left foot down and then one right foot down.
34:23So it feels good to talk to somebody else about it and not be shamed or not be...
34:30Embarrassed.
34:34What I didn't know about therapy and after my first session of it was the validation
34:39that I would feel.
34:41Baylen's, I feel like she's definitely spot on when she says, like, she's a prisoner in
34:45her own mind.
34:45It's like, yeah.
34:47I was just finally ready to focus on me and what I needed.
34:51I feel like I'm starting to learn I can only control certain things.
34:57You can control dick.
34:58I can't control if a plane falls out of the sky.
35:02I love that Sammy's focusing on herself and her health.
35:06My girls have morphed into the most amazing adults.
35:12And it's...
35:12Well, we had you as a mommy.
35:14It's like really like being with your very, very best friends.
35:18If it's helpful for somebody to fly with you, we'll always make that happen.
35:21You forgot your dildo in the airport.
35:24Ow!
35:26Okay, wait.
35:27Hold on.
35:28Yeah, mom needs a minute.
35:29She's never heard dildo out of your mouth.
35:30She needs a minute.
35:31Hold on.
35:32Mom needs a minute.
35:34Dildo!
35:35Hi!
35:35I'm on the struggle bus with the dildo tech.
35:40We're not even just saying it.
35:42We're screaming dildos.
35:45I think she was holding it in from also Colleen and Marlene.
35:49She was holding what in?
35:50Oh, my goodness.
35:50You're tired?
35:59You're tired.
35:59We're exhausted.
36:00Oh, my bum hurts.
36:01Sitting on this.
36:02Oh, we're...
36:02Whoa.
36:03I just drank a lot of champagne.
36:05Today was awesome, but I'm exhausted and I'm ready to go home.
36:09I wonder how babysitting went, to be honest.
36:11Hopefully it was birth control, because he needs to stop that baby fever.
36:16Oh.
36:18Hey, mom.
36:19Hey, babe, what's up?
36:22Currently traveling to Boston.
36:24Having Colleen in the car, now is the perfect time to reintroduce New Pulse to her, because
36:29he will make sure that she talks to Dr. Flaherty about it.
36:34Let's just add it to the list of things we need to talk to Dr. Flaherty about.
36:38I actually have a question for the doctor.
36:41There we go.
36:49We're out of business, you motherf***ing Marlowe bitch.
37:02It said Marlowe's was going out of business.
37:04What do you want me to do?
37:05It was right in front of my face.
37:06Oh, my mom's calling.
37:09Hey, mom.
37:11Hey, babe.
37:12What's up?
37:13Currently traveling to Boston.
37:15Good little trip ahead of us.
37:17Oh, my gosh.
37:17Are you excited?
37:18I am excited.
37:19Colin's more excited than me, personally.
37:22He should be.
37:22This is, like, his first time into the doorway of Baylen's crazy doctor visit.
37:28Yes.
37:29Life.
37:30Yes.
37:31I'm excited about going to a doctor's appointment for the first time with Baylen, because the
37:36torch or the responsibility of taking care of Baylen is kind of being passed down, and
37:42I feel good about that.
37:44So, I think while you're there, it would be a great time to ask her about the New Pulse.
37:51The device.
37:52The wrist device.
37:54Okay.
37:55I've been wanting to talk to Baylen about my lunch date with Anita, but I know with having
38:00Colin in the car, he will make sure that she talks to Dr. Flaherty about it.
38:06I think it would be good to get her opinion.
38:09She's such a scholar.
38:10And if she doesn't know anything about it, that means it's not a good thing.
38:13This is true.
38:15Okay.
38:16I love you.
38:17I love you, and I will talk to you soon.
38:19Okay.
38:19That sounds good.
38:20I'll let you know when we get there.
38:22Okay.
38:22Bye.
38:23Okay, bye.
38:25I'm glad my mom brought it up.
38:26Yeah.
38:27I was actually with Baylen when she was told about New Pulse, so at least we can find out
38:32if and when it might be available in the U.S. and if Baylen can benefit from it.
38:38Let's just add it to the list of things we need to talk to Dr. Flaherty about.
38:41I actually have a question for the doctor.
38:46Do we have?
38:49How your medications would work when you're pregnant?
38:56What part of not pressuring me to have kids before a wedding isn't clicking?
39:05I wasn't pressuring you.
39:08It's good knowledge to have.
39:10Good knowledge for who?
39:12Good knowledge for who?
39:12For me.
39:15For the future.
39:18You got a mind of your own.
39:19I'm so frustrated between wedding planning and Colin's career change.
39:27We can't add a baby into this mix.
39:30We're not talking about this right now.
39:32We're not talking about this right now.
39:44Miss it, bitch!
39:50Oh, my God.
39:52Josh, tell me you're thinking about getting the real estate.
39:54Yeah, I am.
39:55More than 80% of people who get their real estate license stop, you know, in less than five years.
40:02It makes me worried for Colin because there is so much potential to succeed in this field,
40:07but there's even more potential to fail.
40:10There's this device I heard about called New Pulse that helps her tics.
40:15It's not available here.
40:16If you did want to try, you'd have to go to the UK, I'm afraid.
40:19Yeah.
40:20So she's basically like, give it a go.
40:23Except for it's in the UK.
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