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Love is Blind: Italy - Season 1 Episode 7 -
Chiudere per non soffrire
Chiudere per non soffrire
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00:00:00We tried to talk after the fight, but I can't just snap my fingers and make everything go
00:00:29back to the way it was.
00:00:34One day at a time, we'll keep on living together and see what happens.
00:00:38I'll take out the garbage.
00:00:40It's gotten pretty full.
00:00:42What about the other bags?
00:00:44Do you know where they are?
00:00:46What bags?
00:00:47To put the garbage in?
00:00:48No, those are for...
00:00:51This is for dry waste.
00:00:52Plastic.
00:00:53Yeah, I get it, but the other bags, now that I'm taking this out.
00:00:56Yeah, I'll take care of it when I...
00:00:58When you go down, I'll put them in.
00:01:01I met a certain type of person, and I was a certain type of person with him.
00:01:06But now, the situation is kind of tense and uncomfortable.
00:01:12I wish we could go back to the couple we were at the beginning, happy and carefree.
00:01:19Are you heating it up like that?
00:01:20Yeah, how else?
00:01:21Okay.
00:01:22Did you want to do it?
00:01:24No, I was only asking.
00:01:26No.
00:01:27No.
00:01:28No.
00:01:29No.
00:01:30No.
00:01:31No.
00:01:32No.
00:01:33No.
00:01:34Come on, we've got to get up.
00:01:40Come on, we've got to get up.
00:01:52Five more minutes.
00:01:54Five more minutes?
00:01:55Yeah, I'd like five more minutes, too.
00:01:57Five minutes.
00:02:01I really enjoy sleeping with her.
00:02:04Because we sleep well together.
00:02:06We rest well, we relax, we hold each other.
00:02:11Come on.
00:02:12Would you bring me a coffee?
00:02:14Yeah.
00:02:17Waking up with someone is always better than waking up alone.
00:02:23Good morning.
00:02:24I like kissing and everything, but we're not having sex.
00:02:31With a grin and a happy heart, I now take my leave.
00:02:34That's lovely, hon.
00:02:35See you later.
00:02:36It's so nice to wake up with you.
00:02:39A morning full of love.
00:02:41I'll give you a kiss before I part, my love.
00:02:47There's a lot of affection and camaraderie, but I wasn't looking for a best friend or someone to sleep next to.
00:02:53We don't have the kind of physical relationship we had at the beginning.
00:03:01It's not that I don't like her anymore.
00:03:02She's asked me that a bunch of times, and I always tell her that it's not that at all.
00:03:06I'm under a lot of stress, and I especially feel a lot of pressure to perform physically.
00:03:16I hope that being in Naples, under the sun, we can go back to feeling like we're on vacation, and all the feelings that we had when we were together in Morocco will make their way back.
00:03:29Bye.
00:03:29Bye-bye.
00:03:30I'm happy to be going to meet his family, to try his father's excellent cooking.
00:03:37Maybe in Naples, he'll get a little excited.
00:03:43Let's hope we have some sex.
00:03:44So, this is where I grew up.
00:03:55I have to say that it's actually much better.
00:03:57I mean, growing up in a place like this instead of the city.
00:04:01Yeah, in the middle of nature.
00:04:02You know, it's something else.
00:04:04Anyway, now we're going, basically, when I was a kid, I mean, imagine that there was almost nothing here.
00:04:12Yeah.
00:04:13There was just a boat shed and a forest at the end.
00:04:18Hmm.
00:04:19Bringing Yoni here, introducing her to my parents is a big, big step.
00:04:42Here they are.
00:04:44Hello.
00:04:45Hello.
00:04:46Hi, nice to meet you, Yoni.
00:04:47Nice to meet you.
00:04:47My parents separated when I was 10 years old.
00:04:54They are an example of a different kind of love, of a real friendship.
00:05:00But I don't know if they think about marriage like they used to, as a goal.
00:05:06Cheers.
00:05:07Cheers to that.
00:05:09Everything go well.
00:05:10Yeah.
00:05:10So?
00:05:11So you experience in a month and a half what usually takes ages.
00:05:15And in the end, you get married to someone.
00:05:17If you find the right person.
00:05:20Right person.
00:05:20Person?
00:05:21Who?
00:05:22Yes.
00:05:22But it's a real marriage.
00:05:23Who's right for you.
00:05:23Right?
00:05:24Yes.
00:05:25But it's a real marriage.
00:05:27Yeah.
00:05:27It's a real marriage.
00:05:28Is that it?
00:05:31Honestly, I wouldn't have done this experiment.
00:05:33So, what do your parents think about all this?
00:05:38Well, my mom already knew where and why I was going.
00:05:42Oh, your mom knew.
00:05:43Then my mom finally decided to tell my dad about it.
00:05:47Why hadn't she told him?
00:05:48She hadn't told him because she was scared of how he'd react.
00:05:52Because he's a Korean man.
00:05:53Through and through.
00:05:55What do you mean?
00:05:56That he's traditional.
00:05:56Really traditional.
00:05:57He's very strict.
00:05:58Very structured, right?
00:06:00He was in the military.
00:06:01There you go.
00:06:02So, it's even worse.
00:06:03Korean and in the military.
00:06:05He was really worried.
00:06:07What if you don't like him?
00:06:08Oh, that's weird.
00:06:09I don't get it at all.
00:06:10That's so strange.
00:06:11Why was he so worried?
00:06:13This is normal.
00:06:14It happens every day.
00:06:17You hear about people meeting on the internet or they meet on the apps.
00:06:24But this situation is totally unique.
00:06:28You stay here.
00:06:28We'll clear the table.
00:06:30If they're happy and they're sure about it, well, I wish them all the best.
00:06:37All the very best.
00:06:39So, what do you think of her?
00:06:41She's nice.
00:06:42And you two seem great.
00:06:44But.
00:06:44The thing is.
00:06:50Yeah, go on.
00:06:52Tell me.
00:06:52Take it easy.
00:06:54Go on.
00:06:55Go on.
00:06:56Tell me all your doubts.
00:06:57No, no doubts.
00:06:58No, I have no doubts about you and her.
00:07:02You guys are great together.
00:07:03You're a good match.
00:07:05The whole thing.
00:07:06I can read the question on your face.
00:07:09There are no questions, Alessandro.
00:07:11You know, I only want you to be happy.
00:07:14Your whole life, I've always told you that.
00:07:18I don't care what you do as long as you're happy.
00:07:20If you think that it's not just the enthusiasm about the situation, the adrenaline, you know, everything is great at the beginning.
00:07:30But then you have to figure out if you're actually able to grow with her long-term.
00:07:35No one can help you.
00:07:36I can listen to you, but I can't help you.
00:07:38He raised me.
00:07:40And he's seen every decision I've made.
00:07:42He's seen the mistakes.
00:07:44In this case, I think I might be rushing things a little bit.
00:07:47And I get it.
00:07:49I'm scared of this, too.
00:07:50Everything is happening so fast.
00:07:52But everything is going so well that nothing really makes me doubt it.
00:07:56I have no idea what to cook tonight.
00:08:17Babe, it's on you, okay?
00:08:18Let's brainstorm.
00:08:20No, it's not just up to me.
00:08:21We both have to decide what to cook.
00:08:26What if we made guacamole?
00:08:28Yeah, okay.
00:08:29Sounds good.
00:08:30You need to get lime and some avocados.
00:08:32Get the ripest ones, obviously.
00:08:34I'm basically your errand boy, huh?
00:08:36Come on, don't complain.
00:08:40So far, living together has been getting better and better.
00:08:45I'll get a melon.
00:08:48A melon?
00:08:49How can we eat a melon?
00:08:50Two mangoes?
00:08:52Strawberries?
00:08:53I've never seen fruit in an appetizer.
00:08:55No, it's for later.
00:08:57Oh.
00:08:57It's not for the appetizer.
00:08:59Or asparagus.
00:09:01If you boil the asparagus, huh?
00:09:02If you start making fun of me, I'm going to get pissed, okay?
00:09:05I think that living together is bringing us closer and closer.
00:09:08Give me a hand, please.
00:09:10Okay?
00:09:11Okay.
00:09:12Here.
00:09:12It's nice to see him in this role.
00:09:14It's more like...
00:09:17We're a family.
00:09:18It's really nice.
00:09:24Here we are.
00:09:25I didn't introduce myself.
00:09:26No, let's give each other a hug.
00:09:27Parmi, so nice to meet you.
00:09:29I didn't get your name.
00:09:30Parmi, like Parmesan?
00:09:31Parmi.
00:09:31Oh, it's easy.
00:09:32Oh, I like it already.
00:09:33I'm curious to see Gargana's world.
00:09:36It'll help me get to know her better.
00:09:39Hi, you guys.
00:09:40Good evening.
00:09:42Nice to meet you.
00:09:42Now I feel comfortable.
00:09:43Nice to meet you.
00:09:44Don't mention it.
00:09:45This is my future husband.
00:09:47What?
00:09:47What do you mean?
00:09:50Well...
00:09:50And in the near future...
00:09:52No.
00:09:53What's going on here, guys?
00:09:55Bam.
00:09:57Wait, is this a joke?
00:09:59Okay.
00:10:00Okay.
00:10:01All right.
00:10:02You're getting married, but how long have you known each other?
00:10:05Well...
00:10:06No, let me get this straight.
00:10:07No, you should be the one to tell them.
00:10:08No, no, no.
00:10:09No, you go.
00:10:10Come on.
00:10:10Yeah, I mean, it's a whole story.
00:10:12Have you already met the family?
00:10:13No.
00:10:14No.
00:10:14Oh.
00:10:15Right.
00:10:15So meeting us is the first step.
00:10:17Yeah.
00:10:17Can I ask how old you are?
00:10:1934.
00:10:2034?
00:10:20Sorry, can I ask what your zodiac sign is?
00:10:22I can't handle this.
00:10:23That question, I won't answer.
00:10:24No, no, no.
00:10:25Maybe at the end.
00:10:26Maybe.
00:10:27At the end.
00:10:27It's super important.
00:10:28At the end.
00:10:29At the end.
00:10:29We'll see.
00:10:30And the spark that made you say, it's her.
00:10:32The key word in our relationship is effortless.
00:10:36Of course.
00:10:36In fact, I didn't tell her about my Indian background because...
00:10:39You got a bit paranoid.
00:10:41I wasn't paranoid.
00:10:42I was going to.
00:10:43I was going to.
00:10:44You were going to do it?
00:10:44Oh, why did you hide it?
00:10:45If you let me talk, I'll say it.
00:10:47Just let me get my sentence out, please.
00:10:49Why did you want to do this experiment?
00:10:52Were you really looking for love or did you do it out of boredom?
00:10:55So basically, I was looking for love.
00:10:58So you would like to...
00:10:59But I didn't believe in it.
00:11:00You didn't believe in it because you were hurt in the past?
00:11:03Or because you just don't believe in it, period?
00:11:07I'm going to finish answering his question first.
00:11:09He's so stiff.
00:11:10I mean...
00:11:11Jeez.
00:11:11Meanwhile, I'm having an issue with when Nicholas...
00:11:13No, no, no.
00:11:13I just get confused, you know.
00:11:14I don't think he's an Aries.
00:11:15He's too stiff.
00:11:16Go on.
00:11:17What don't you like about her?
00:11:19No, no.
00:11:20He's kind.
00:11:20Actually, it's one of the qualities that...
00:11:22But it can be negative, too.
00:11:24Yeah, but I have to say it.
00:11:25Otherwise, I mean, this gets...
00:11:27Come on.
00:11:27All right, guys.
00:11:30I'm sorry.
00:11:31Sometimes I notice this.
00:11:33Almost repressed bad temper, you know?
00:11:36I mean, what do you think your life will be like with her tomorrow?
00:11:40When she's old?
00:11:41I mean, can you picture a future with her?
00:11:43Can you imagine yourself as someone who...
00:11:45Oh, in the actual future.
00:11:45What do you mean?
00:11:46Because if you tell me you're getting married in two weeks, I mean, you have to see how it's
00:11:51all very nice, but...
00:11:52He's Sicilian, you know.
00:11:53All right.
00:11:53I'll let her answer this question.
00:11:55It was a nice evening.
00:12:06I mean...
00:12:07Right?
00:12:07They're so nice.
00:12:08Yeah, very.
00:12:09They're a nice group, and you can tell that.
00:12:12They are.
00:12:13They wanted to see you so badly, we couldn't even finish a conversation.
00:12:17Well...
00:12:17We went on a thousand tangents.
00:12:18You have this way of behaving that I'll always criticize.
00:12:21I'll always let you do that, but I won't change it, and...
00:12:24That's not a good thing.
00:12:25I have to say.
00:12:27It's true.
00:12:28I mean, it's not a good thing.
00:12:30Okay, what behavior are we talking about?
00:12:32Like, when she was laughing, teasing you a bit, interrupting you, I mean...
00:12:37Oh, my God, yeah.
00:12:38You know?
00:12:39Chill out.
00:12:40I mean, she was just trying to joke around with you.
00:12:42We were talking.
00:12:43I got interrupted 18 times.
00:12:45At a certain point, I was trying to assert myself.
00:12:47Why does it annoy you so much to be interrupted?
00:12:50Because I can tell that you're annoying.
00:12:52I don't understand.
00:12:53And that's how it came across to them.
00:12:55So much so that I made a face like, oh God.
00:12:57I don't understand how this comes across as aggressive or mean.
00:13:02I mean, I don't get it.
00:13:04If anything, when I think back to it, I thought I was being sociable, laughing, I was joking around.
00:13:10And this is how I am with everyone, okay?
00:13:14But it bothers you, and apparently it bothers your friends.
00:13:19You're the only ones.
00:13:21Well, maybe I don't understand why you get like this.
00:13:24I mean, that's what we're doing here, right?
00:13:26Getting to know each other.
00:13:28There will be things about me that bother you, too.
00:13:30For example, right now, I feel like it bothers you that I just criticized you.
00:13:34It makes me kind of sad.
00:13:35It doesn't bother me.
00:13:36If this makes you sad, Parmy, imagine a situation when we actually have a big fight.
00:13:42You always see the good in the bad.
00:13:45But today, we're looking for the bad in the good.
00:13:48Sometimes I also see things that I don't really like that much.
00:13:51Fine.
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:53Great.
00:13:55Tell me everything, okay?
00:13:58You're better.
00:14:00It's you against me.
00:14:04Okay.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:06It just seems to me that, in a way, she isn't able to accept the love I give her.
00:14:13Take your time.
00:14:15Good night.
00:14:19Between my job and my things, my life, I was never really able to give much of myself to other people.
00:14:27And today, I wanted to dedicate all my time to her.
00:14:33I wanted to give her all my attention.
00:14:37And apparently, it didn't even make her feel good while I was trying to impress her friends.
00:14:45Georgia needs to see who I really am.
00:15:15When I talk to her about the Roman prince, the castle, she has to start understanding that this is my world.
00:15:22And I can't wait to see her world too.
00:15:25I'm really happy.
00:15:26I'm so happy to be in Rome.
00:15:28And to see another side of Joe.
00:15:35Welcome to my kingdom.
00:15:39My offerings?
00:15:41Please, come in.
00:15:42Will you give me a kiss?
00:15:43Yes, I'll give you one.
00:15:45Welcome to Rome.
00:15:46I was curious to see the house.
00:15:51Here it is.
00:15:52All yours.
00:15:57Oh, here's the pigeon.
00:15:59The peacock.
00:16:05Nice.
00:16:05It's a bit morbid, but it's okay.
00:16:09I like it.
00:16:09It reminds me a lot of my grandmother's house.
00:16:12It definitely represents him.
00:16:13Because that's who Joe is.
00:16:15He's a person who needs to be noticed.
00:16:17Hi, guys.
00:16:18Welcome.
00:16:19Hi.
00:16:20Hi, I'm Judita.
00:16:21Georgia.
00:16:22Nice to meet you.
00:16:23Hi.
00:16:23I miss you so much.
00:16:25They are my dearest friends.
00:16:28The ones I share my greatest nights with.
00:16:30They're all artists.
00:16:32Everyone, this is Georgia.
00:16:33Georgia, nice to meet you as well.
00:16:36I'm happy that she's in Rome and in my world because it's important she gets to see it.
00:16:44Let's toast to new encounters.
00:16:48Let's toast to old friends.
00:16:50Let's toast to love.
00:16:52Cheers.
00:16:53Always.
00:16:54Cheers.
00:16:57You sort of know where and how we met, right?
00:17:01Yeah.
00:17:01We were always separated by a wall.
00:17:04It was heart-wrenching.
00:17:06Think of the lies you told to get her to change.
00:17:08No, I mean, it was crazy.
00:17:10The real issue is that at the end of this month, we will be getting married.
00:17:14What?
00:17:16So it's a sure thing.
00:17:17We're getting to know each other right now.
00:17:19And then you'll decide.
00:17:20Yes.
00:17:21Let's move on to the tough questions.
00:17:22Yeah, come on.
00:17:24It's time for the Inquisition.
00:17:26Are you done?
00:17:27The fear.
00:17:28Oh, no.
00:17:28Ready?
00:17:30Are we ready?
00:17:31The first tough question is...
00:17:32Let me drink.
00:17:32Let me drink first.
00:17:34Confess.
00:17:35Why did you decide to get married?
00:17:38Not to each other.
00:17:39In general.
00:17:40For me, there's no difference between choosing to be in a relationship together and getting married.
00:17:46Getting married, the wedding, is just an event meant to create a beautiful memory.
00:17:50Georgia takes marriage sort of, I don't want to say superficially, but for her, it's like getting married is no big deal.
00:18:00It's like any other day.
00:18:02One day we're living together, one day we're getting married.
00:18:05And this is what I absolutely don't want in a relationship.
00:18:08So it's not that big of a deal to you?
00:18:10Living together or being husband and wife, if you choose to be with that person, what's the difference?
00:18:15Giovanni thinks these things are very important.
00:18:17You know, I'm a spiritual person.
00:18:19It's a special moment when you consecrate a union.
00:18:21It's not just, let's have a wedding, let's party.
00:18:26And what about sexual chemistry?
00:18:29Oh, finally.
00:18:29What I told her is that when I want to have a real relationship with a woman, I try to wait to have sex.
00:18:44You know, I want there to be a deeper chemistry, a deeper connection.
00:18:48Otherwise, it goes away.
00:18:52Thank you, Giovanni.
00:18:53And you, Georgia, do you agree?
00:18:54No.
00:18:55Oh, you don't?
00:18:56No.
00:18:56So you would have wanted to experience it.
00:18:58It's really important to me.
00:18:59I want to wait.
00:19:00No.
00:19:01I have a question.
00:19:02The fact that he has this point of view, does it give you a sense of security or does it make you feel like there's something wrong?
00:19:10Something not quite right?
00:19:12The latter.
00:19:13Oh.
00:19:15Talk to us about that.
00:19:17His friends are weirded out by the same things that weird me out.
00:19:22It's a topic we argue about a bit too much.
00:19:24Yeah.
00:19:25Because of this, sometimes we...
00:19:26You argue about the specific topic?
00:19:28It's because they don't make love, guys.
00:19:29You could have some great makeup sex.
00:19:31Come on, start making love, so...
00:19:32After the wedding.
00:19:33I like your friends because you basically tore him apart for the same things I told him.
00:19:39No, I have something to say.
00:19:40That's what friends do.
00:19:41From zero to ten, how important is sex in your life?
00:19:47You answer, Joe.
00:19:47Ten.
00:19:50No, but I have to say...
00:19:51Georgia?
00:19:52Me?
00:19:53Eleven.
00:19:54I'd say a hundred, so...
00:19:57Oh, my God.
00:19:58I think I did great.
00:19:59I fit in well.
00:20:00I got along with everyone.
00:20:01So, good luck, and long...
00:20:04Cheers to the briding room.
00:20:08We'll see.
00:20:10I didn't feel left out or alienated from this world.
00:20:14The opposite, actually.
00:20:15It's...
00:20:16It's Giovanni who didn't believe I could fit in.
00:20:18Tired?
00:20:27A little, but...
00:20:30Nice.
00:20:32A nice evening.
00:20:34You have nice friends.
00:20:36They definitely grilled us tonight.
00:20:37That was clear.
00:20:39Well...
00:20:40I don't think they expected to meet the person that I'm supposed to marry in two weeks.
00:20:44It's obvious that...
00:20:46Yeah.
00:20:47It's getting serious now, right?
00:20:49It's getting serious?
00:20:50Just like marriage.
00:20:52It's getting serious?
00:20:53I think marriage...
00:20:55Living together is fine.
00:20:56Who cares?
00:20:57That's not exactly what I said.
00:20:59I mean...
00:21:00Well, God, that's what it sounded like.
00:21:01That's not true.
00:21:02In fact, my friends, who know how much it means to me, were like...
00:21:05What?
00:21:07Well, your friends also brought up sex, since we're on the subject.
00:21:10What do you mean?
00:21:11Yeah.
00:21:11Come on, let's hear it.
00:21:12Speak up.
00:21:12It made me happy to see that your own friends had the same observations that I did.
00:21:17What do you do about that?
00:21:18I have no problems with sexuality.
00:21:20Okay.
00:21:21Understand?
00:21:22If you say so.
00:21:22Okay, if you say so.
00:21:23What's that supposed to mean?
00:21:25I have no problem with sexuality.
00:21:27I have a problem with you.
00:21:28Oh.
00:21:29Apparently, you're blinded by sexuality, aren't you?
00:21:32We have to have sex.
00:21:33We have to have sex.
00:21:33No, no, I never said that.
00:21:35I never said that.
00:21:36I never said that.
00:21:37For me, it's a hundred.
00:21:38What does that mean?
00:21:39Do we have an infomaniac here?
00:21:40What are you talking about?
00:21:42How can you talk like that?
00:21:44You're always trying to find something wrong with me.
00:21:49Why did you choose me then?
00:21:50I chose you.
00:21:51Why are you still here, Joe?
00:21:52Georgia, I chose you because I want to get to know you.
00:21:55Why are you still here with me?
00:21:58Since apparently nothing makes you happy.
00:22:01You keep saying in front of everyone that you want to get married when that's not true.
00:22:07Joe, I do want to get married in life.
00:22:09But not with me.
00:22:10I need to understand if I want to marry you exactly.
00:22:12Not with me.
00:22:13I need to figure it out.
00:22:13How am I supposed to find out, Georgia?
00:22:15Because you keep finding excuses, Joe.
00:22:16So you can say, I tried.
00:22:18See?
00:22:18I tried.
00:22:19I am trying.
00:22:20Are you kidding, Joe?
00:22:21This is not trying.
00:22:22This is not trying.
00:22:24This is not trying.
00:22:25This is being a bastard.
00:22:26Because I want to try until the end.
00:22:27No, you want to come out of this looking good.
00:22:30That's different.
00:22:32Yeah, sure.
00:22:32So what does trying look like?
00:22:33Now I fucking had it.
00:22:34Okay.
00:22:35Oh, just like that, huh?
00:22:41It's gotten to the point where he's constantly turning situations around on me.
00:22:46Because he needs to come out on top.
00:22:48So he tries to sink me.
00:22:50And I won't stand for it anymore.
00:22:51And he keeps insisting that we're getting married in two weeks.
00:22:56We'll be married.
00:22:58I mean, why is he still feeding into that idea?
00:23:00What's the point of him continuing to say something like that, when clearly his actions are louder than his words?
00:23:06Seeing her leave, what I felt the most was disappointment, because in the pods, she won me over by saying that she had certain values.
00:23:21If they're not here, I don't know what I can do.
00:23:28So won't you show me, show me, show me the way I need to know now.
00:23:38Oh, if you hear me pray.
00:23:44Hi.
00:23:44Last night before going to bed, I asked him, do you want to buy a lint remover tomorrow?
00:24:06You're so energetic.
00:24:18The lint remover is like a little electronic gadget that removes lint.
00:24:23And sometimes I use it to vent, like in life.
00:24:27If I'm frustrated or I need to let out steam, I take the lint remover and I start removing the lint.
00:24:32That's it.
00:24:33So she said she's buying me two tomorrow.
00:24:36Do you want some face cream? I have some left.
00:24:38You mean, you mean right now?
00:24:40Yeah, just stay there.
00:24:42Oh, no.
00:24:42Come on, please.
00:24:43No, wait a sec.
00:24:44No, not first thing in the morning.
00:24:45Just a little.
00:24:46Wait, let's eat.
00:24:47We're always so good together that it doesn't feel real.
00:24:52My life has always been so full of problems.
00:24:56What do we have to do today?
00:24:57Today, you have to come with me to the consulate for the marriage license.
00:25:06Oh.
00:25:07Look, I can't wait.
00:25:11About the consulate, not the wedding.
00:25:13Yeah, I thought so.
00:25:15I agree, I agree.
00:25:16Okay, I can't stand arguments.
00:25:19I remember my grandfather used to scream a lot.
00:25:22I remember people shouting a lot at customs.
00:25:26I remember being questioned.
00:25:29And when I got out of there, I peed my pants.
00:25:31There's also this being able to go on a walk together on a Saturday with Tina.
00:25:54It makes me feel good.
00:25:57It makes me feel at home.
00:25:58Like a family.
00:25:59Yeah, I really like it.
00:26:04There's a bunch of small things to figure out, but we're getting there.
00:26:07I'm not afraid of the things we need to sort out.
00:26:10I'm sure that...
00:26:11What do you think those things are right now?
00:26:14Well, for example, when I went to visit my parents, since it was the first time I talked to them about the whole thing,
00:26:21I didn't tell them about your son.
00:26:23But, you know, at the end of the day, this life is between you and me, so I can't wait to meet him.
00:26:34And I'll wait for you to be ready because that's the right thing to do when you feel sure.
00:26:40I'll be ready.
00:26:41Well, meeting my son means understanding who I really am.
00:26:48It's a very important step.
00:26:50I mean, you'd really become a part of my life.
00:26:54And you have to understand that in order for this to happen, and for real, and forever.
00:27:01We need to take steps forward in our relationship.
00:27:04You'll also have to take responsibility and realize that you can't hide something so important from your mother.
00:27:14You understand?
00:27:15It's too important of a thing to hide and not tell her for fear of her reaction of what she might say.
00:27:21I don't think it will be long before I tell them, because I really do want to tell them and take this step forward.
00:27:32Because I think it's amazing that you're a mom.
00:27:35I basically just have to find the right moment to tell them.
00:27:42But I think it will be really soon.
00:27:45Don't rush it.
00:27:45No, no, no.
00:27:45When you feel 100% sure, we'll do it.
00:27:49I'm not in a hurry, really.
00:27:50Yeah, I know.
00:27:53The fact that he feels ready to take this next step is definitely reassuring.
00:28:00Emotionally and psychologically to open up to this relationship and create something that is actually more stable.
00:28:08All the kisses.
00:28:09Yep.
00:28:09I mean.
00:28:10Hi.
00:28:11Oh my god, look at her.
00:28:13Well, take it easy, because I'm not in a hurry to meet his parents if I'm also not ready to introduce him to my son.
00:28:22You're becoming more and more a part of my life.
00:28:24I'm happy.
00:28:25It's a strange feeling because I've never felt so strongly, but I feel like I really need you.
00:28:32If only we could just turn it back to the start.
00:28:37Would we know how to change?
00:28:39Because knowing that, that I feel is fine.
00:28:45My man.
00:28:50What's up?
00:28:51All good.
00:28:52All good?
00:28:52So that's the big pup?
00:28:53That's the big pup.
00:28:54You hadn't met him yet?
00:28:55No.
00:28:55Tyson.
00:28:56Who is it?
00:28:57Hey there.
00:28:57Who's here?
00:28:58Hey, buddy.
00:28:59That's Parmy.
00:29:00You stink.
00:29:01Oh, he's got his bone right over here.
00:29:02Yeah, it's Parmy.
00:29:03Hey, I got to vent with him a bit, trying to get a different point of view.
00:29:07I always told you.
00:29:09I'm looking for a girl who gets me, where there's mutual understanding, who's on my side, who I can talk about anything with.
00:29:15Instead, after we have these fights, we don't talk about anything.
00:29:18I liked everything about Aliza.
00:29:21We're really 100% compatible.
00:29:23But these fights, these arguments had never happened before.
00:29:26We hadn't experienced them, so we never had the chance to understand how we both deal with conflict.
00:29:33I'm so much more guarded than I was before.
00:29:35A lot more.
00:29:36I haven't been able to get over what happened the other night, you know?
00:29:41But every time you sat down to talk about it, did it always end badly?
00:29:44Yeah, always.
00:29:45Every single time?
00:29:45Yeah.
00:29:46I'm really trying to work things out with you, to listen to you, trying to figure out what's wrong.
00:29:52I'm putting in a lot of effort.
00:29:54But if you just want to keep making me look like the bitch here, well, fine.
00:30:00Whatever.
00:30:01But only up to a certain point.
00:30:03She never manages to find a compromise.
00:30:08No, because I tell her I don't know.
00:30:09I say, I didn't like this thing.
00:30:12And she says, well, neither did I.
00:30:14You should talk to the others, you know.
00:30:16I have messages from Ludo on my voicemail.
00:30:19But if things are going badly, then I don't want to talk about it with her.
00:30:22I keep it to myself.
00:30:24But I talk to Davide and he tells me what's going on.
00:30:26I talk to Giovanni and he tells me what's going on.
00:30:28Listen, if you need to beg about me and to other people, do it.
00:30:30What the fuck do you want from me?
00:30:31What the fuck?
00:30:32I don't want to be forced to talk to people if I can handle my own shit.
00:30:35It pisses me off that you have to judge me on how I should interact with other people.
00:30:38Who's judging you?
00:30:39You still think that I'm judging you?
00:30:41Well, that's just how I feel.
00:30:43All right?
00:30:44I think you need to try to find those sweet moments again, when you were both being vulnerable.
00:30:49Yeah, exactly.
00:30:50We need to find those moments.
00:30:51And use those moments to communicate, to tell each other the hard stuff.
00:30:55Like, look, I have needs.
00:30:57I know you do too.
00:30:58You're vulnerable.
00:30:58I'm vulnerable.
00:30:59I mean, can we grow together?
00:31:01You know?
00:31:02It's definitely the right way to look at it.
00:31:04We have to try to relax and calm down, separately and with each other.
00:31:10And go back to being happy together.
00:31:11I want to go back to the feeling, when it was more than the dreaming, now we're just doing the same thing.
00:31:21I decided to sleep in a hotel room.
00:31:26Because after what happened last night, I think that our paths should part.
00:31:41Hello?
00:31:45Where are you, Joe?
00:31:47At a hotel.
00:31:48How are you?
00:31:50I'm fine, Joe.
00:31:52I mean, I think we both reached the same conclusion, right?
00:31:58So...
00:31:58Joe, what are you talking about?
00:32:00Since I have to...
00:32:01You're at my house.
00:32:02You're in Rome.
00:32:03In my city.
00:32:04You're my guest.
00:32:05And you pack your bags and go sleep at a hotel.
00:32:08Yeah.
00:32:09What is this?
00:32:10Some kind of petty revenge?
00:32:12What is this?
00:32:12Can you accept the fact that...
00:32:15I came to my own decision?
00:32:18I summoned half the city to introduce you to my world.
00:32:21And you...
00:32:22You don't care.
00:32:23You just walked out.
00:32:24I...
00:32:25I'm not...
00:32:25I'm not gonna stay with someone who treats me like this.
00:32:30No way.
00:32:32I've had enough of always feeling like there's something wrong with me.
00:32:36You're not attracted to me.
00:32:38So what is the point of staying at your place since there's nothing between you and I?
00:32:45You should have said it to my face if you had the guts.
00:32:47There's no point in saying it to your face because every time I say something, you always misinterpret it.
00:32:53We could have said, okay, Joe, we tried.
00:32:55No hard feelings.
00:32:56We could have hugged and that would have been the end of it.
00:32:58Why do you care that I don't want you?
00:33:01Why did you stay?
00:33:02Because I told you that I liked you.
00:33:04I told you in a million different ways.
00:33:06But I'm not gonna keep wasting my time fighting something I can't change.
00:33:10Are you kidding?
00:33:11I stayed because unlike you, I really care about you.
00:33:14You're the one who doesn't give a fuck.
00:33:16Tomorrow I'll go to Malac.
00:33:17Because that's how you see me.
00:33:18I'll get my things and we'll go our separate ways, Georgia.
00:33:21You wanted to do this over the phone.
00:33:23I didn't expect this from you, but fine.
00:33:26Goodbye.
00:33:28I mean, are you for real?
00:33:32I'm fading.
00:33:35A little dangerous.
00:33:39Just taking.
00:33:41I really...
00:33:43I didn't think she'd let me down like this.
00:33:50You can give it back to him.
00:33:53He'll give it to someone who he deems worthy, who's polite, who knows how to be with other people, who he's attracted to, and who he respects.
00:34:00I got to a point where I said enough.
00:34:11I want to be in a relationship that makes me feel good.
00:34:14And I can't put up with a situation like this anymore.
00:34:17Anyway, I really think that being handsome is hard work, you know.
00:34:29I can't even say handsome, rich, and single anymore, because now I'm going to get married.
00:34:34So, there's nothing I can do.
00:34:47I'm really happy I'm going to see my parents, because I know they need me.
00:34:51We are not a traditional family.
00:34:55My parents split up when I was very young.
00:34:58Are you nervous, babe?
00:34:59I'm anxious.
00:35:01Now I'm feeling a bit anxious, too.
00:35:02What?
00:35:02You, too?
00:35:03Well, yeah.
00:35:04I haven't seen my parents in a long time.
00:35:06Don't leave me by myself.
00:35:08Well, anyway, don't worry.
00:35:09Just be yourself.
00:35:10Yeah, yeah.
00:35:11They're really chill.
00:35:13Thank God.
00:35:19Where are they?
00:35:21There were years when I didn't have any contact with my mom.
00:35:24And for a few years, I didn't see much of my dad, either.
00:35:27I lived with my grandparents.
00:35:29I really didn't live with my parents for long.
00:35:31Hello.
00:35:32Hello.
00:35:33Hi.
00:35:33Welcome.
00:35:33Hi.
00:35:35What are you wearing?
00:35:37A hairnet?
00:35:37But now that I'm older, they rely on me.
00:35:42Especially now that my mother has just recovered from cancer.
00:35:47Hi, Dad.
00:35:48Hi, sweetie.
00:35:50Hello.
00:35:51Are you nervous?
00:35:52Hello.
00:35:53Nice to meet you.
00:35:54I'm Dr. Dan.
00:35:54Hello.
00:35:55Nice to meet you.
00:35:56I'm Roberta.
00:35:57Hello.
00:35:57Hi.
00:35:59You look so chic.
00:36:01How are you?
00:36:02Everything's good.
00:36:03All good.
00:36:04Are you nervous?
00:36:05To be honest, you, too, seem nervous.
00:36:07I'm really...
00:36:08You're relaxed?
00:36:09Calm.
00:36:10Relaxed.
00:36:10Ludovica is a bit anxious.
00:36:12I'm a bit anxious now.
00:36:13Listen, I got a bottle of red.
00:36:15I hope that's okay.
00:36:15Great, great.
00:36:16That's perfect.
00:36:16Let's start with a toast.
00:36:17Let's make it out of the drink too much because it's quite...
00:36:19It's quite a strong red, yeah.
00:36:21To the first...
00:36:21To meeting for the first time.
00:36:23Exactly.
00:36:25So, how did your parents react to this crazy idea?
00:36:29Well, I have to tell you the truth.
00:36:31My mom didn't want me to go until a week before this whole thing started.
00:36:36Like you.
00:36:38I didn't want her to go because I thought, how much are they really going to get to know
00:36:42each other?
00:36:42I chose him because I felt this strong familiarity, as if I already knew him.
00:36:57I mean, from the beginning, I felt that it would be easier to fit into each other's lives.
00:37:03That's how I felt.
00:37:07Yeah, we're definitely still getting to know each other.
00:37:10But our feelings for each other are really strong.
00:37:15Be careful, because these insurance salesmen, they...
00:37:19They sell themselves.
00:37:20They can be brutal.
00:37:21When they're good at their job, they can sell ice to Eskimos.
00:37:24I know, that's what worried me.
00:37:28Okay, but...
00:37:32Marriage?
00:37:33How do you feel about it?
00:37:35Did you try this?
00:37:36It's good, you know.
00:37:38So, marriage.
00:37:39What do you think?
00:37:40Pluto, the egg.
00:37:41They made it just for you.
00:37:42I can't do this.
00:37:43Come on.
00:37:43What do you think about me getting married?
00:37:46Well, it's definitely a different approach.
00:37:50It's unique.
00:37:51And seeing how fast you have to choose a partner and make a decision...
00:37:55I mean, you have to be able to...
00:37:56It's not enough time.
00:37:57...meach the relationship potential right now.
00:37:59Yeah.
00:38:00You can't be sure about something you...
00:38:02Of course.
00:38:03...haven't tried yet.
00:38:04No, I agree.
00:38:05It's something we definitely have to figure out, her and I.
00:38:08I always said to Ludovica, if one day you decide to get married,
00:38:12you have to live together for at least a year,
00:38:14or I don't want to know anything about...
00:38:16Of course.
00:38:16Maybe a month isn't enough.
00:38:17It might seem crazy from the outside,
00:38:20but on the other hand,
00:38:21we can't ignore how much we've shared along the way.
00:38:25Can you tell me what you think?
00:38:27What I think?
00:38:28Yeah?
00:38:28Do you like him a little bit?
00:38:30I mean, he seems like a normal, regular guy.
00:38:33I have fun with Ludovica.
00:38:34She's a very nice girl.
00:38:36She's fun.
00:38:36So...
00:38:37She's lively.
00:38:37I hope that...
00:38:38Yes.
00:38:38Even too lively.
00:38:40A little too lively at times.
00:38:41I don't know.
00:38:42He thinks I'm a little immature because he doesn't know all of me yet.
00:38:47At least not 100%.
00:38:49They don't.
00:38:51But I'm trying to gradually open up.
00:38:54There's definitely something good between us.
00:38:56It's a good match.
00:38:59But I mean, if I get married, will you be happy?
00:39:01If you decide to get married, I'll trust you.
00:39:06I'm happy with anything that makes my daughter happy.
00:39:09Whatever she decides to do.
00:39:11Good.
00:39:12I'm on her side, and I support her, as I always have.
00:39:15Thank you for doing this for me.
00:39:18Our kids are pieces of our heart.
00:39:20I was skeptical at first,
00:39:22but now I'm leaving with a different perception.
00:39:25I'd be happy if they end up getting married.
00:39:31To us.
00:39:31Fingers crossed.
00:39:56Yesterday you went to work and told me you'd be back at five,
00:39:59but you came back at eight.
00:40:00And you came in, and you looked upset.
00:40:02So I asked you, what's wrong?
00:40:03I came back, and I sat there because I didn't want to argue.
00:40:06And I asked you, are you sure you want to go to my father's?
00:40:09Because my father is the most important person in my life.
00:40:12I told you I didn't want to go.
00:40:14I told you, no, if we're like this.
00:40:16No, you said, while we were on the couch, you said yes.
00:40:18Because we were.
00:40:19Because we were fine.
00:40:20And so I was happy, and I was excited.
00:40:21Let me just bring something else up.
00:40:22Yeah.
00:40:23I've been trying to do things together for the last two days.
00:40:26Like what?
00:40:26To take the edge off.
00:40:27I took you to my favorite restaurant.
00:40:29The first thing you said to me was, do we have to go to your dad's?
00:40:33Like, you were disgusted.
00:40:34No, no.
00:40:35No, no, no.
00:40:35Disgusted.
00:40:36Don't say that.
00:40:37Yeah, because we had a fight.
00:40:38Because we were so happy.
00:40:39Because we had a fight.
00:40:40And then you threw shit at me.
00:40:43I'm just sorry I wasted my time with a mean person like you.
00:40:45All day playing PlayStation and fooling around, playing PlayStation and wasting your time,
00:40:50and not doing a fucking thing with your life.
00:40:52What the fuck do you know?
00:40:53You don't even know me.
00:40:54I know a lot more about you than you think.
00:40:57You don't know anything about me.
00:40:58Who would want to get to know you?
00:41:00I don't want to get to know you.
00:41:02Who would want to get to know you?
00:41:04Exactly, exactly.
00:41:05A dickhead.
00:41:05That's what you are.
00:41:06And they still love me.
00:41:07I show the real me.
00:41:08What are you even saying?
00:41:08I'm not a fake, pathetic poser like you are.
00:41:10Right, I'm a pathetic person.
00:41:11Okay, that's real nice.
00:41:11Because when we were here at the beginning, you told me everything that I wanted to hear.
00:41:16So I would relax and behave the way that you wanted me to.
00:41:19And then when you saw that I started to get comfortable, you treated me like shit, like you usually do.
00:41:24Sweetheart, I'm not the boy who's 26 and still has a lot of growing up to do.
00:41:27No, you're 30, and you still have a lot of growing up to do.
00:41:30That's the problem.
00:41:31I'm just fine.
00:41:31Every time we have an argument, it ends up with insults and humiliation and bringing up mean stuff to hurt each other.
00:41:45That's not the way it should be, but that's what ends up happening, unfortunately.
00:41:51It's over, right?
00:41:52There's no point in going on like this?
00:41:53You think we're on the same page, right?
00:42:01Right?
00:42:13I'm feeling incredibly disappointed, very disheartened.
00:42:19I don't feel good.
00:42:23I need a second.
00:42:27And I'm sorry for how it turned out.
00:42:31I'm sorry we realized we're so incompatible.
00:42:37But in my own way, I always tried to do what was best, which clearly wasn't the best thing, but I tried.
00:42:49And I don't believe in him anymore.
00:43:04I just, I'm just sorry if I disrespected you, because I know I did.
00:43:10And if I offended you, I'm sorry that you did that to me as well.
00:43:15I'm sorry that we didn't treat each other with respect like we said we would.
00:43:21I'm sorry, really, I am sorry.
00:43:34I'm sorry about all of this.
00:43:36I really care about you.
00:43:37I mean, I never wanted to hurt you.
00:43:40I'm sorry it came to this.
00:43:44I'm really sorry.
00:43:45Oh, the signs that I should have seen
00:43:52You're staring right back at me
00:43:57Burning a violent red
00:44:00Like you're still in my head
00:44:06I believed in us from the very beginning
00:44:15Otherwise, I wouldn't have
00:44:18I wouldn't still be here
00:44:21Tyson, let's go, honey
00:44:23Come on, let's go
00:44:25Get your leash
00:44:26Come on
00:44:28Let's go
00:44:29Let's go, buddy
00:44:33Bye, bud
00:44:33Bye
00:44:34Take care
00:44:35You too
00:44:36Bye, handsome
00:44:50Come on, sweetie, let's go
00:44:52Bye
00:44:54Bye
00:45:05I tried really hard
00:45:07I tried to put myself out there
00:45:08To talk
00:45:09To explain myself
00:45:10To move on
00:45:11To get back to the feelings we had in Morocco
00:45:13The vibe was great
00:45:15And we were really in love and everything
00:45:18But
00:45:18There's no room for words anymore
00:45:21There's nothing left to say
00:45:23Hey, baby, good morning
00:45:36Good morning
00:45:38Wow, baby, look
00:45:40There's the mountain
00:45:42You can see the mountain
00:45:44You can see the mountain
00:45:44The mountain
00:45:44I'll go get my phone and take some pictures
00:45:47Oh, yeah, you can actually see it
00:45:51Wow, that's cool
00:45:52Can I see?
00:45:55Such excitement
00:46:01Such excitement
00:46:01I share Yoni's enthusiasm about everything
00:46:06I'm also this way
00:46:07I like a person like that
00:46:08Who gets up and takes pictures of mountains
00:46:10I didn't do it because she got there first
00:46:14So
00:46:18My parents can come, so
00:46:21Your parents can come?
00:46:23That's great, baby
00:46:25They just texted me
00:46:28I'd say show me what they wrote, but
00:46:30Yeah?
00:46:31I can't imagine
00:46:31My parents texted me and said
00:46:37That they can come to our wedding
00:46:40I haven't seen my father in two years
00:46:42Are you calmer now?
00:46:45I don't know if I'm calmer because
00:46:47Yeah, I'm
00:46:49Happy they're coming
00:46:52But I'm still pretty anxious
00:46:53It makes you more anxious than relaxed
00:46:56Yeah
00:46:57Alright
00:46:57There
00:46:58I'm happy to see my dad again
00:47:00But I'm a little afraid of his reaction
00:47:04Marriage
00:47:06Is a very important event
00:47:09In one's personal life
00:47:11We have the cutlery
00:47:12There's only one thing missing
00:47:14Let's take a picture
00:47:22You taking a picture?
00:47:25Go
00:47:25Like this
00:47:28It's so nice, Al
00:47:51It's so relaxing
00:47:52A beautiful house
00:47:54With a wonderful terrace
00:47:56Well, there's a lot of them here
00:47:58You know, I never thought I'd want to
00:48:00Want to live here
00:48:03But
00:48:03You want to live in Romero?
00:48:05Yeah, obviously
00:48:06It's the best neighborhood
00:48:07It really was good for us to both come down
00:48:11And spend some time here
00:48:12Ah, it's so beautiful
00:48:14Hold on
00:48:16One
00:48:17Like a little kid?
00:48:18And three
00:48:18Thank you
00:48:19Yes, my love
00:48:21You're my little girl
00:48:22We've finally made love
00:48:24Well, are you happy?
00:48:26Yeah, I'm happy
00:48:27I'm really happy
00:48:28I'm meeting your parents
00:48:29I'm really curious to find out
00:48:33What the vibe will be at home
00:48:34I'm sure they will be welcoming
00:48:36But I'm also interested to know
00:48:39What my parents will think about all of this
00:48:41Good morning
00:48:47Good morning
00:48:48May I come in?
00:48:49Good morning
00:48:49Hello
00:48:50Hi, nice to meet you
00:48:51Ludovica
00:48:51Nice to meet you
00:48:52Louisa, hi
00:48:53This is a gift for you
00:48:54Thank you
00:48:55Thank you, hi
00:48:55Nice to meet you
00:48:56Calla Lulis
00:48:58Hi, nice to meet you
00:48:59Hi, nice to meet you
00:48:59Little Vica
00:49:00How are you?
00:49:02Good, you?
00:49:03Good, and you guys?
00:49:04Hey, Dad
00:49:04What's up?
00:49:05All good?
00:49:06Thank you, Ludovica
00:49:06Hey, buddy
00:49:07How are you?
00:49:08Thank you so much
00:49:09Sorry to disturb you
00:49:11This can go over there
00:49:12Don't worry about it
00:49:13It's a pleasure
00:49:14Don't mention it
00:49:15Can I take your coat?
00:49:16Yes
00:49:17To be honest
00:49:18I didn't think that Davide would get married
00:49:21So out of the blue
00:49:24Shall we make a toast or wait for Roberta?
00:49:26No, I want to
00:49:27Wait for Roberta?
00:49:28Let's wait for Roberta
00:49:29In the meantime, I'll show Lula
00:49:30Of course
00:49:31We just need to go to the bathroom
00:49:32Go ahead
00:49:32Yes, then we have to go
00:49:33These are some of the pictures, see
00:49:34Of Davide, Piero
00:49:36I know this one
00:49:37I saw it in Davide's room in Milan
00:49:38Oh, yes, yes
00:49:39Yes
00:49:40That's the one
00:49:41This is me
00:49:41Me and Piero
00:49:42This is
00:49:43This is him when he was very little
00:49:45So handsome
00:49:46You were blonde
00:49:46Yeah, I was
00:49:47Yeah
00:49:47They always considered marriage as something very important
00:49:50And they still do
00:49:52That's him when he was born
00:49:54So cute
00:49:55He was a beautiful baby
00:49:57So cute
00:49:58And especially the love they have for each other
00:50:02And that they showed towards me and my brother
00:50:04Yes, it's really wonderful
00:50:06Bye, buddy
00:50:06See you later
00:50:07Yeah, we'll see each other later
00:50:09Sounds good
00:50:10Bye, thank you
00:50:10I'll see you soon, right?
00:50:11I'll come to Milan soon
00:50:13Perfect
00:50:13Don't worry
00:50:14Bye, PMP
00:50:14Bye, Mom
00:50:15It makes me happy to see such a close-knit, loving family
00:50:18I mean, you could feel the love as soon as you walked into the house
00:50:21It's even more of a confirmation of what I like about him
00:50:24What he's made of and who the important people in his life are
00:50:28We're really similar
00:50:29It's true
00:50:31In all the positive ways, I would say
00:50:33Of course
00:50:34And in the negative ways?
00:50:36Are you similar in those two?
00:50:38Well, yeah
00:50:39Well, pretty much, yeah
00:50:40Usually
00:50:41Here she is
00:50:41There she is
00:50:42You go
00:50:43Here she is
00:50:43Go, Daddy
00:50:43She made it
00:50:44She made it
00:50:45Wow
00:50:46Hello
00:50:47Hello
00:50:47Hello
00:50:48Hello
00:50:49Hi, Robbie
00:50:51How are you?
00:50:53Hi
00:50:53This is for the host
00:50:56Thank you
00:50:57Hi, nice to meet you
00:50:59Roberta
00:50:59Give me a kiss
00:51:00My darling
00:51:02Finally
00:51:03So sorry
00:51:04How are you?
00:51:05I'm late as always
00:51:06It is alright
00:51:07How's it going?
00:51:07Can I take your jacket?
00:51:08Yes, please
00:51:09I'm really happy that Roberta is here today
00:51:12She's my best friend
00:51:13She's like a female version of me
00:51:15Thank you
00:51:16I'm definitely interested in talking to her
00:51:19And seeing what she thinks of Maria Ludovica
00:51:22So what was it about him who got you interested?
00:51:25He was the only one that could get me to be quiet
00:51:27Because you're a chatterbox?
00:51:29Yeah, I talk a lot
00:51:30Mmm, it's delicious
00:51:35Ludo, you like to cook?
00:51:38Yes
00:51:38She steams everything, Mom
00:51:40But I cook really healthy because I cook for myself
00:51:43Okay, well
00:51:45Okay, during the week
00:51:45But you know how it comes
00:51:47Be honest
00:51:51No
00:51:52Yeah
00:51:52If we need to know something, we need to know it now
00:51:54Paolo needs to give me some lessons
00:51:56Dad, if I get married, I would ask you to cook at my wedding
00:52:02He's excellent
00:52:04So guys, what's the next step in all this?
00:52:09Well...
00:52:09So on the 17th, I have my wedding dress fitting
00:52:12If you want, we can go together with my mom
00:52:15And we can choose it together
00:52:17And we can choose it together
00:52:17Yes
00:52:17Oh, well, I have to double check my work schedule
00:52:21Then on the 20th, there's the bachelor party
00:52:25Oh
00:52:26In Milan as well
00:52:30Yeah
00:52:30Yes, in Milan
00:52:31We're doing everything in Milan
00:52:33Of course
00:52:33Of course
00:52:34When is the wedding?
00:52:36Well, between the...
00:52:36If you are getting married, right?
00:52:38If we get married
00:52:38Uh, around the 26th or the 28th
00:52:42Yeah, the 28th
00:52:43This month
00:52:43Oh, this month?
00:52:45Yeah
00:52:45I can't make it
00:52:46Getting married is not a simple decision
00:52:49Also because it's not like they've known each other for a long time
00:52:53And they can say, okay, but we've known each other for years
00:52:55We've been living together for a while
00:52:57But obviously, you're drawn to each other
00:53:00Yeah
00:53:01That's a good starting point
00:53:02A good base
00:53:03Besides that, I don't know
00:53:05There's no recipe
00:53:06But there is
00:53:06Because you are living proof of that, right?
00:53:08I mean, you've been together for a long time
00:53:10But I don't really know what to...
00:53:12It just ended up happening this way
00:53:14You know, we're always there for each other
00:53:16We always have been
00:53:18Exactly
00:53:18And obviously now, after almost 40 years of marriage
00:53:23Plus eight years of engagement
00:53:25How many years?
00:53:2640?
00:53:27Almost 48
00:53:27Only?
00:53:28Yeah
00:53:28Wow
00:53:29I mean, I can't imagine my life with anyone else
00:53:33I really never imagined it
00:53:35I'm happy Ludovica got to meet my parents
00:53:39And it was just further proof of what I always tried to tell her
00:53:42Which is that my values, my family values, my ideas about love, they're all very strong
00:53:48It's a lot of emotions all at once
00:53:50You're right
00:53:51But I don't want you to cry
00:53:52I'll get a hold of myself
00:53:53Oh, come on, let me give you a hug
00:53:55Did you get emotional, Ludo?
00:53:58Aw, girl, you're a sweetheart
00:53:59You're a sensitive person
00:54:01Yeah, that's a beautiful thing
00:54:02Darling, don't cry
00:54:04I opened the floodgates
00:54:05Your feelings
00:54:06And now I'm always crying
00:54:08I'll go to the bathroom
00:54:10It's okay
00:54:11Okay, go ahead
00:54:13Don't worry
00:54:14All this talk about love, the pictures, and all the rest
00:54:18It makes me cry
00:54:19So cute
00:54:22I got emotional
00:54:23She is?
00:54:26What happened?
00:54:28Was she crying?
00:54:30I don't know
00:54:31Go and see
00:54:32But I don't think so
00:54:35Where did she go?
00:54:37Hey, is everything okay?
00:54:39No, I got all emotional
00:54:40Why?
00:54:41Because I was already holding back tears when we came in
00:54:44I saw the pictures, I mean
00:54:45Why did...
00:54:47Why did that make you emotional?
00:54:51Because they're so nice
00:54:53One minute, your mom was talking about love, all these things
00:54:56And so what?
00:54:58It's just a very emotional time
00:55:01That's okay
00:55:01I feel bad
00:55:05I'll go check on her
00:55:06But it's a good thing
00:55:09I mean...
00:55:09Yeah, I got that
00:55:10But you know, your mom told me when I saw the pictures
00:55:12When I came in the house
00:55:14They're just super nice
00:55:15A beautiful family
00:55:16It makes me happy
00:55:18Thank God
00:55:20I'm happy
00:55:21Ludo?
00:55:23Let's go
00:55:24You know
00:55:25She got emotional
00:55:26I'm alive, yeah
00:55:27Yeah, I'm good
00:55:28Aw, you're so sweet
00:55:30All this emotional stress in such a short time
00:55:34It's a lot
00:55:34Yeah, but in a good way
00:55:35For sure
00:55:36You're right
00:55:37Come on
00:55:37It's a lot
00:55:41Of course, it's a little too soon to make a decision
00:55:45But although sometimes it all happens quickly
00:55:49People meet and they date for a short time
00:55:52And then they spend their whole lives together
00:55:54Thank you so much for having me
00:55:56Thank you
00:55:56Thank you
00:55:58Thank you
00:56:00I love you.
00:56:30I came here on my own, and I'm leaving on my own.
00:56:38I'm really disappointed.
00:56:40I'm angry, and I'm mad at myself, because I let myself be fooled by someone.
00:56:55When someone tells you they care about you, they don't treat you this way.
00:57:00I love you.
00:57:06Hey.
00:57:13Do you believe in spirituality?
00:57:15The energy of the universe, things that are kind of mystical, spiritual things, yes.
00:57:20That energy brought you here. Are you aware of that?
00:57:22Yeah, of course.
00:57:23Are you nervous?
00:57:25Yeah, a little bit.
00:57:27Federica and I share the same sense of aesthetics.
00:57:31Wow. Nice skirt.
00:57:33We talked about it in the pod.
00:57:35I really held back because of the age difference.
00:57:38How does it feel to see me?
00:57:40It's weird.
00:57:42Yeah?
00:57:42In a good way.
00:57:44Georgia really hurt me.
00:57:46Talking about her is like touching an open wound.
00:57:49I promised myself that I would never let anyone treat me that way, ever again.
00:57:57The way he treated me.
00:57:58Why did you feel like calling me when you got out of the pods?
00:58:03By the way, no one knows about this.
00:58:06About what?
00:58:06I mean, I didn't tell anyone. No one knew I was talking to you.
00:58:10So I'm angry with myself, because if he did it, it's because in a way I allowed him to.
00:58:16Well, I actually wanted to talk to you and invite you out tonight, so I could at least see you.
00:58:21Put a face to a name.
00:58:23I really believe that I gave it my all.
00:58:28To new acquaintances.
00:58:30To what?
00:58:34I try to go beyond my comfort zone and beyond my fears.
00:58:42Shall we go to a museum?
00:58:45I can't live hoping that Giovanni will suddenly change.
00:58:51The question I have to ask myself is,
00:58:55Georgia, do you really want to be with someone who allowed himself to treat you this way?
00:59:01Come with me.
00:59:02Trust me.
00:59:03We'll run away.
00:59:14All right, enough.
00:59:16I can't do this.
00:59:16I swear, it's over.
00:59:21I swear, it's over.
00:59:22I swear, it's over.
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