00:00Marry me.
00:04So you delayed the proposal.
00:06I mean, I didn't know what else to do.
00:08I was cornered.
00:10I wasn't going to say no.
00:11I didn't know what he was going to do.
00:12So text him now.
00:13Well, uh, I think maybe I'll just delay it.
00:17Why?
00:17Just end it with him.
00:18He's terrible.
00:19Yeah, but what if he does something?
00:21We should out him on the podcast.
00:23I don't want shots fired.
00:24Why not?
00:25I have nothing to hide.
00:26Bring it on.
00:27We should have him on the podcast.
00:28I don't want to be around him anymore.
00:31I'm just going to tell him I need a break and...
00:33Dana, you just got to pull the trigger, man.
00:35Once and for all.
00:38I don't know.
00:39What if he retaliates?
00:40How?
00:41I don't know.
00:41He could even make something up.
00:43He could say we're bad at polyamory.
00:45He could say you're an insecure, controlling asshole.
00:49I don't know.
00:49Daniel, I think you need to let Dana take the lead here.
00:51She knows what to do.
00:52This is what she needs to do to feel safe.
00:55Holy.
00:56Okay.
00:57Miss, I pushed her into this mess in the first place.
01:01I didn't push her into anything.
01:02She made her own choices.
01:03I made suggestions.
01:04Very heavy suggestions.
01:06She's a grown woman.
01:07She can make her own decisions.
01:08I don't want to see him again because I do not feel safe around him,
01:13but I also don't feel safe with him as an enemy.
01:16Enemy shmenemy.
01:17It's not like he's the mafia.
01:19It's social media.
01:20What are you afraid of?
01:32What do you think he's going to do?
01:35Um, well, he, uh, recorded me.
01:39What?
01:44When we were, you know.
01:46Well, so, you know, people make movies all the time.
01:50Oh.
01:51Okay, so, if someone put out a movie of you, how would you feel?
01:55Me?
01:55Um, well, I don't, I don't think I'd let them record me.
01:59Oh, so what people?
02:01Cardi B?
02:02No, but, you know, um, like, like, people.
02:07What people?
02:09Like, normal people.
02:10But not you.
02:12Why not you?
02:13I just don't think I'm comfortable with it.
02:15Well, I wasn't comfortable with it.
02:16I was fucking handcuffed.
02:18Oh.
02:19I didn't know that.
02:20No, you don't know a lot.
02:21What do you think?
02:22He's going to, like, threaten to release it if you don't marry him?
02:26I don't know what he's capable of, okay?
02:29Every time I talked to this guy, it would just get worse.
02:34All the more reason to end it now.
02:36So just give him ammo and piss him off.
02:39What are you going to do?
02:41Keep him in your life forever?
02:42Keep him in an arm's length?
02:44I'm considering it.
02:47But Dana, he's in love with you.
02:50I think he just wanted to control me.
02:56I think it was just a big power play.
02:59He didn't...
03:00He didn't really love me.
03:02Dana, whatever happens, I'm still here.
03:11And the rest of the world will just think I'm a whore.
03:14Let him.
03:18It's fine.
03:19I'll just marry him.
03:20I'm the wife of a very important, very well-renowned man.
03:38No one seems to know me for me.
03:41They know me as his.
03:43He is a jolly good soul.
03:46Nothing against him.
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05:43How's it going?
05:44He's putting up a strong fight.
05:48Oh, God.
05:50Well, stay strong.
05:52Yeah, I just want this to be over.
05:54Did you want something?
05:57Uh, no.
05:58No, it's all this.
05:59Never mind.
05:59Just keep fighting the good fight.
06:01No, what is it?
06:04Uh, I'm pretty sure Esther's going to break it up with me.
06:09Oh, why?
06:10We don't have to talk about this now.
06:13Oh, no, I'd much rather talk to you.
06:17I think I pushed polyamory too far.
06:22I was, like, trying to make sure she wasn't using me.
06:28I'm sorry, Bulba.
06:29I think I was just too impatient.
06:32Maybe you were just protecting yourself.
06:35You don't think she would have come around eventually?
06:37I think maybe she wanted to be with you until she met someone else.
06:44I mean, I guess she did that with me before, with Jack.
06:47I think it's hard for people to be alone.
06:52I guess it was worth it.
06:57Was it?
06:57I can't believe I slept on this couch for even one night.
07:22Move back in.
07:23So, what, you don't want to be friends anymore?
07:48What?
07:48Every time we try to be friends, it doesn't work.
07:56I can't be around you.
08:05So, you're just going to not talk to either of us ever again?
08:08It's a break.
08:20I don't know how long that means.
08:24But we didn't finish lost.
08:29You said it has a terrible ending.
08:32It's probably better this way.
08:34I hope you're going to get back from your break while finishing.
08:44Maybe.
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10:04Hello
10:34Dana.
10:52What?
10:54It says we're demonetized on Blippi.
10:56What do you mean?
10:57We're no longer making money on the platform.
11:04Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
11:10Rockin' around the Christmas tree at the Christmas party house.
11:16Mistletoe home where you can see every couple of tries to stop.
11:23Rockin' around the Christmas tree let the Christmas spirit ring.
11:29Later we'll have some pumpkin pie and we'll do some caroling
11:36You will get a sentimental feeling when you hear
11:42Voices singing, let's be jolly
11:47Death thaws with a hustle party
11:50Running around the Christmas tree, have a happy holiday
11:55Everyone dancing merrily in the new old fashion way
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