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00:01OK, now I'm getting bugs.
00:05En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:11It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:17Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:20We've known each other for 16 years.
00:22Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:28Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:33Look at that rock on your finger.
00:35She just makes me basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:40The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:45I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:50Tom fully understands what I'm like and to be honest, joins me.
00:54Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
00:59The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:06I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:11We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:18Yeah.
01:20I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:26With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:44How you guys doing, alright?
01:47We're a good-looking couple.
01:49Yeah.
01:50You look lovely.
01:51Very lovely.
01:52Hi guys, you alright?
01:53Hey!
01:54Come on, love your show, it almost matches.
01:59Yeah, these guys look fit.
02:00One girl, a bit of you.
02:02I'm excited but nervous.
02:09Oh, I'm nervous now, yeah.
02:10Definitely nervous now.
02:12I'm so excited to be here.
02:14I really am.
02:15I am like, come on.
02:17Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need, it's just a real big push.
02:25Guiding couples on their journey.
02:27Hello, come in.
02:28Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:33Take a seat.
02:34I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:37So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:40I was terrified but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:45I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other that I wasn't complete.
02:51We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:02Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:04I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:07Mm-mm.
03:08I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:16When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:19If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.
03:29I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:42I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:46There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:51I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:54When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
04:00I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself.
04:05I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:09When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
04:13Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom.
04:19It was terrifying.
04:20The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:28It was so, so scary.
04:30He got really down, he obviously put on a lot of weight, because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:35Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that, it's basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:45You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:46Yeah, definitely.
04:47Definitely.
04:48It's like you're not going to get a hard-on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
04:58Hey, you're okay?
04:59Yeah, I'm good.
05:00I wasn't expecting that.
05:01Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:14The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path, and just let myself go.
05:19So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up.
05:32Which is kind of what Lauren wants, and I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:40It's what I want as well.
05:43Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:47I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap.
05:50And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
05:57Mm-hmm.
05:58And the same for women as well.
05:59Yeah.
06:00But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:04Sure, yeah, no, exactly.
06:05Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things.
06:09Starting with a good old party.
06:11Tonight is about taking the lead.
06:13Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:16I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:26This is about sensuality.
06:28That's about cuddles and touches.
06:32I want you to focus on one person.
06:35And I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:42Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:51And then, be open to things escalating.
06:57That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
06:59When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.
07:03Yeah.
07:04Right.
07:05Right, okay.
07:06It sounds really exciting.
07:07Beautiful.
07:08Yeah.
07:09Yeah.
07:11Yeah, yeah.
07:15Tom has a bit of work to do, because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:21So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like, and to be more embodied.
07:29If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:36Oh.
07:37I do worry for me and Lauren because if I can't if I can't do the the whole open
07:46relationship I feel like we go our separate ways I'm hoping it won't get to
07:51that stage previously on open house ultimately why we're here is to bring in
08:05another couple but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman what's
08:14at stake is Alana's like feelings and emotions I've been cheated on quite a
08:19lot I've seen women is more of a threat so we kind of want you to face that
08:25threat would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome that
08:32scenario wasn't in my head don't want to do it like I want to live if this is
08:38going to work it has to be the right person who Alex is sitting with now is
08:44Georgie he's gorgeous would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with
08:50us if it does go wrong is it something I'd be able to get over I did not think
09:05this is where we're gonna be on like our first night and you are this would have
09:08literally been my worst nightmare really if someone was like how would you feel
09:12about doing this I'll be like no you we didn't think that we would be in a hot tub
09:16with me how would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss
09:27how do you feel I'm okay yeah in that moment watching Alex and Georgie kiss I
09:44thought
09:45oh no
09:46how did that make you feel like fine I was like yeah look almost a bit turned on by it
10:13I really want you on me can I like can I like you on me I can't believe this
10:21are you proud of me yeah like what the hell yeah I've never seen Alana kiss another woman
10:36I knew it's part of her life like long long ago but to see that like reopen that
10:42door was such a huge tunnel for me to see that it was like really hot oh my god
10:49I'm obsessed stop it can we just take you home with us well it all flowed very naturally
10:58I honestly don't know what's happening right now I feel like this is normal I think like things are feeling good do you want to come back to our room I would love that yeah just
11:05explore fingers a little bit more yeah just take the next step we'll do baby steps
11:12let's do it I didn't think that was gonna be a thing at all to bring in like a single female I thought that would be way too intimidating
11:19I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up yeah
11:26yeah I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up yeah
11:31yeah like this has been insane honestly I can't believe what like it's such a change and you wouldn't
11:38can do anything and now we're inviting
11:41I just have to come back to our room
12:11oh my god that's social I know I did say my ass like eats them
12:18new arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night
12:22oh
12:28they'll be attending a sexy barn dance where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block when it comes to opening up
12:37opening up whenever we've dipped our toes into being open Tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really uncomfortable
12:49they've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience where the focus is only on foreplay
12:58okay
13:00it's fucking ridiculous
13:01with no pressure to perform the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion
13:07I do foresee hurdles the residents are all very beautiful the problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious
13:20if I went there on my own I think I'd probably walk straight back out
13:23how are you guys feeling
13:30haha yeah great
13:31haha shit scared
13:33haha shit scared
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14:06like let's just give it a really good go this is what we're here for first to meet them are
14:12married couple gem and daz what are you looking for then that's the question so for me you need
14:18i need that conversation yeah um and for you it's obviously just about feeling body confident
14:23yeah i'm a bit yeah yeah just lacking in confidence a little bit yeah oh you know it's
14:29really nerve-wracking if there's any environment where personality matters more than looks it's
14:35this environment we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey
14:39we're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling you know when
14:59someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared but when you have that you know
15:03responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression of the lifestyle you want to make
15:08it the best i used to be like we're like really like outgoing going gym seven days i used to have
15:13like the abs and i basically comfort eat and drink and of course i put on the weight now so you can
15:18just like kiss and you can like you can go down on them and you can touch and you don't necessarily
15:24just have the build-up but i think it is the power mentality you think you've got to go through that
15:28natural process olivia and gage they made me feel so like it just felt it just felt natural just
15:35talking to her after a confidence boost from gage tom moves on to single resident aaron who's no
15:42stranger to open conversation do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience basically
15:49have fun relax and try and let my hair down to a couple that's coming into the treat that are looking
15:55to open up i think the best thing they can do is talk to talk to us you know you've come here for
16:02the sex but don't forget that the sex comes from a person i'm a single guy i've literally just come
16:08out of a relationship with two women oh wow at the same time for two years 50 50 yeah there'll be days
16:16and weeks and months where i don't feel like i have the confidence and i'll go and play and i won't even
16:21get half but that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around that's that's what
16:27i'm that's so this is what we're trying to get through to talk speaking to aaron he made it easy
16:33for me to basically say i don't need my penis basically i've got my hands and i got my tongue
16:38and i think lauren really likes them as well aaron has given me fanny flowers
16:45so i've never had more than two men at once so my ideal situation would obviously be more men
16:52fresh from meeting aaron lauren feels it's time for tom to start deciding who to invite to their
17:03sensual soiree aaron because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard because i
17:09feel like he would understand you as well yeah and made me feel really at ease he yeah he was
17:17absolutely brilliant
17:17i'm so scared of the rejection mainly for tom rather than for me because is he then going to be really
17:26nervous going forward that little bit inside that if they say no it'll feel like shit yeah but
17:32you know um you just have to wait and see and see what happens we just want to know if you want
17:38to come back to him basically just maybe some games some teasing some cuddling if it escalates
17:45escalates if it doesn't it doesn't and that doesn't run
17:47okay guys i'm not gonna say that i'm gonna play
17:54it's for me at the moment i take a lot more to get to that point
18:01i was surprised by aaron because he said he didn't want to play
18:07aaron without being rude obviously we have to move along with being
18:11not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but for me i don't obviously want to put tom off
18:16even more with this process it's like rejection i'm just yeah i'm shocked
18:23right move all the things of the beds put them all on the here
18:33in their bedroom alana and alex are preparing to be joined by resident georgie
18:39are we going to be weird and going are you okay if we get protection just in case
18:43we'll just have it on the side they're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps
18:50towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap by having a threesome
18:55i don't know how this is gonna go seeing alex being with another woman with where we are now
19:04look i'm definitely open to just seeing how it goes but as much as this is a really big step for
19:13me it's also a really big step for him because he's gonna potentially be with another woman
19:20this is all new and it's starting to feel very real so my worries going into this is me being with
19:28another woman and how that might make alana feel i hope that it's the most amazing experience
19:32that we could have but equally it could not be
19:34it would be it would be devastating if anything went wrong here for sure
19:50so much better okay cool this is a bit more chill yeah don't mind i'm just gonna pick up the
19:58meds no let's just pick up when we left off
20:05the sexual chemistry was insane
20:13the fact that i could like just let go of everything and just really enjoy it like
20:20i never thought that would have happened in this experience
20:27the fact that i think it's what it would have happened in this experience
20:38oh
20:48But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.
20:59I think, like, I was overwhelmed.
21:10It was, like, from zero to 100, and it caught me off guard.
21:15Although I was, like, turned on an idea, I wasn't, like, turned on.
21:37I can't quite match that right now.
21:40I've had, like, the best evening, like.
21:55Yay.
21:56Give me a little kiss.
21:57Yeah.
21:58Bye.
21:59I think she's seen, I'll see you soon as well.
22:04Yeah, we'll see you soon.
22:05I'll see you soon as well.
22:06Yeah, we'll see you soon.
22:13I love you so much.
22:15I loved it.
22:16I genuinely loved every minute of that.
22:18There wasn't any part where I thought, I feel uncomfortable or, like, oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:24Like, I literally loved every single second of that.
22:28Did you enjoy it?
22:31I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.
22:34Yeah.
22:35I loved it.
22:41I always seem to get the wet patch.
22:43Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
23:01At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:05It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome, with a female resident, Georgie.
23:30You're so quiet.
23:31Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened, but I could feel there was something a little bit off.
23:50What are you thinking about?
23:54I'm just thinking.
23:55Processing.
23:56Are you sure you're okay?
23:57Yeah.
23:58When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:12I knew Alex was in his head a little bit, even at home, like, he can go a bit quiet sometimes, but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:25Hello.
24:30Hello, come in.
24:31Hello.
24:32Take a seat.
24:33Take a seat.
24:35Get comfy.
24:36Yeah, you're right.
24:37How was last night?
24:38Like, I'm really happy.
24:40Yeah.
24:41It just, it felt right.
24:43Beautiful breakthrough.
24:44Absolutely.
24:45Yeah.
24:46I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:53Mm.
24:54She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.
24:57And, like, I actually enjoyed watching it, which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:04What are you thinking, Alex?
25:06I don't, I don't know.
25:08I, I don't want to take away because I loved last night.
25:11Sure.
25:12It was incredible.
25:13But I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:18Okay.
25:19Yeah, tell me about that.
25:20I don't know, like, I don't think I was, I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like.
25:25Okay.
25:26So that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:27Okay, okay, okay.
25:30The couple thing I definitely want to do, but again, I don't know if I go all the way.
25:33So, that's where, I think, that's why I've been quiet this morning, because I wasn't sure.
25:37For me, there's, like, like, something missing, and I don't know what it was.
25:40I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection-based, like, when it comes to sex.
25:44Mm-hmm.
25:45Like, deep, deeper connections.
25:47Sure.
25:48Intimacy?
25:49Is that what you're seeking?
25:51Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:54I do find it better if there's a connection, and that's where I am right now.
25:59Like, I'm trying to figure that out.
26:02The thing that I want to understand is, how do you feel about that?
26:09Um, I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:15Sure.
26:16Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:19Like, what if you build, like, this really great connection with someone else that you then feel is, like, better?
26:29That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:33You're okay?
26:34Yeah.
26:35It's okay.
26:36You're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of, and stuff is coming up.
26:45Like, that's all about that.
26:46So that's scary to you right now, so let's just look at it in the face.
26:51Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:54I think it's definitely not, like, deep connection with what I have with you.
26:59It's a lot less than that.
27:01Okay.
27:02It's more familiarization.
27:03Like, you almost want to be friends with that person before it okay?
27:06Yeah.
27:07I've never been, like, a one-night guy.
27:10To be fair, like, yeah, even we didn't sleep together, like, straight away.
27:14Mm-hmm.
27:15So I get that.
27:16I know that's not necessarily, like, how you work.
27:20Mm-hmm.
27:21So what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:24Like, do you want to have, like, one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:31Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:35Like, what does that look like for you?
27:36We did say, like, it would be nice to have, like, one couple that we're, like, best friends with.
27:41Mm-hmm.
27:42And we get on really well with them and, like, play together as well.
27:46So what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want.
27:54But I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece,
27:58for you to actually go there and start making a connection
28:01and for you to feel, like, to figure out what it feels like when it's happening
28:05and spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.
28:07And then once you feel like you have a connection in place,
28:11then you can escalate things in your own time and take it from there
28:15and you see how it goes for you. How does that sound?
28:17No, that sounds good. You happy?
28:19Okay.
28:20Good.
28:21I'm fine with that. Are you definitely fine?
28:23Yeah, I feel relaxed.
28:24Okay.
28:25I think that the biggest thing off my chest was what we've spoken about now.
28:28That was, like, just something I need to understand.
28:33You're welcome. You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:34I'm excited to meet some couples today.
28:46But this moment, I don't know if I can go all the way.
28:51We'll have to see.
28:56We love each other, right?
28:58Yeah, we do.
28:59At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident Aaron.
29:20Let your hair down.
29:22Let my hair down.
29:23I'm going to make you line dancing.
29:24I'm not line dancing.
29:25That is not happening.
29:38Oh, my God.
29:43I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.
29:45This is what I used to really enjoy.
29:46So, I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
29:55When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.
29:58Yeah.
29:59And, like, the fact that he was just busting out the robot and, like, just having so much fun with it.
30:02And I was like, let's do this, let's do that.
30:04And he was just like, yeah, let's do it. It's the last.
30:12I'm buzzing. I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.
30:15He's so relaxed now.
30:24Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective, finding residence for a sensual after-party.
30:31I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.
30:32So, I think it's a lot more easier to invite people and to see if they say yes or no.
30:37You lead the way.
30:45Hello, welcome to my friend. Hello.
30:46I'm your shirt for tonight.
30:47Have you guys been enjoying yourselves?
30:48Yeah.
30:49But it was basically, we're just wondering if you'd like to be, to, like, come back with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.
31:08Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are. I'll be at the bar.
31:11I wasn't expecting that. I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a note.
31:16As Tom's confidence grows.
31:18And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.
31:21Yeah.
31:22Yeah.
31:23Yeah.
31:24Oh, wow.
31:25Yeah.
31:26So does the after-party.
31:28Wondering if you want to come.
31:30Yes.
31:31I love that. That's quick.
31:33That's so easy. Thank you.
31:36And the guest list swells to five.
31:38We were pleasantly surprised.
31:40And it actually feels kind of, like, nice, like, feeling, I know it sounds weird, but wanted.
31:46I would say I'm definitely attracted to him, for sure.
31:49They're a vibe, 100%.
31:51I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.
31:53Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet, as the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety and successfully open up.
32:08We're basically, we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.
32:15I'm not promising anything.
32:17I've still got them hurdles.
32:18I've still got them body confidence and all that.
32:21The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.
32:26Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up, Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples.
32:45Oh, this looks so cute.
32:49We're just looking for, like, good vibes.
32:53Obviously, going into the couple scenario is slightly different because it's both of us have got to have an attraction to two different people then.
33:01We'll see, you know, if it's the right people, then it will be there.
33:11Hello.
33:12Hello.
33:13How's it over? I'm Joe.
33:14Joe, lovely to meet you.
33:15How are you doing?
33:16How's it going?
33:17How's it going?
33:18Literally on the walk.
33:19Both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them, don't we?
33:23Yeah, they're definitely good looking.
33:24They're super hot.
33:25Who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then?
33:28I think coming here might have been more me.
33:30Did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady?
33:36What were you initially looking for?
33:38Connections with couples.
33:39Yeah.
33:40Is where we were looking at.
33:41The hardest part was obviously for me to kind of get over, like, insecurities with having another female.
33:47Like, being physical and, like, smash that on the first note.
33:52So we're like, yay!
33:53One thing I'd say is, oh, I'll do three things as easiest.
33:59You guys have actually done probably one of the harder things.
34:01Like, foursomes are sort of easiest.
34:03Everyone's got something to do.
34:07Hi, I'm Alana.
34:08Hi, Alana.
34:09Lovely to meet you.
34:11So, tonight?
34:13Today?
34:14Tonight?
34:15You're looking for a couple swap?
34:16Yeah.
34:17Just trying to, like, find our way into it now.
34:19It's definitely been a space that's just finding our, like, place.
34:22Big thing letting someone else into your relationship.
34:25But it's nice because, like you say, everyone's, like, scenarios are different.
34:30Well, it's about you guys.
34:31That's the thing.
34:32It's like, you're not here to please someone else.
34:34Yeah.
34:35It's what's best for you.
34:36I didn't know how I was going to feel about it.
34:39Yeah.
34:40But actually, like, I shocked everyone.
34:43Ended up being absolutely fine with it.
34:46Alex and Alana were quite attractive, actually.
34:49There was definitely a vibe there.
34:51I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us.
35:00Can I go for a chat?
35:01Yes.
35:05Hi.
35:07Good to you.
35:08Ooh, thank you.
35:14How have you found it?
35:15Um, like, it's been nice to speak to couples today.
35:20Like, obviously, that was what we wanted to do.
35:24For me, I feel like, um, Jem and Daz, I just feel like they would be, like, a really great couple to get to know.
35:30I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us.
35:35How are you feeling?
35:36Is there anyone that you felt like might have had a connection with?
35:44I've, like, um, honestly, at the moment, I just don't know right now if I can go any further.
36:00Okay.
36:01Like, how do you, how are you feeling about that?
36:05Um, yeah, like, I'm a little bit surprised.
36:10Um, what is it that's making you feel that way?
36:15Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?
36:20Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon?
36:24Like, it's just got a bit overwhelming?
36:27Uh...
36:29Maybe, I don't know, like...
36:33It's more of a me thing, this now.
36:38Like, for now, that's as far as I can go.
36:41You've hit, like, a bit of a wall with it.
36:44Yeah.
36:45Okay.
36:48I do want to redo this.
36:50Okay.
36:52Okay.
36:54That makes me happy.
36:55Okay.
37:05With Alex unable to continue, the couple's stay at the retreat has come to an end.
37:12Going forward, I do think opening up the relationship is for me and Alana, but it's going to take time.
37:23It will take more time for me.
37:25Um, I don't know, I feel, like, emotional now.
37:50What just happened then?
37:52I don't know.
37:55It's just the whole thing's, like, just very overwhelming, isn't it?
37:58Like...
38:02I don't know.
38:03I don't know what to say.
38:09It's just, like, a very emotional few days, isn't it?
38:14The future will, at some point, be a full open relationship, but at the moment, it's baby steps still.
38:25My house.
38:27It's just been a very overwhelming process, but, um, I don't want to keep crying, but, like, I'm actually really proud of myself.
38:38Opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought. Like, I really thought it was going to be a straight line, but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it.
38:47It's not easy, but, like, we've absolutely got the ability to do it.
38:55I absolutely love you to pieces and I'm happy and glad and I love you so much.
38:59I love you so much.
39:00I love you so much.
39:01It just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it. However, if you hadn't, then why is everyone saying yes?
39:19Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom.
39:24Even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff, it doesn't mean, like, you know, they see me and go, actually, no, what the fuck is that?
39:33It's what goes to my head.
39:35I know. So that's why we're going to go take it one step at a time.
39:40OK?
39:41Yeah.
39:43No pressure.
39:44They hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay, Tom will manage to get an erection, a stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up.
39:57I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about for my dick not to work.
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40:26Yeah!
40:27Oh!
40:28Yeah, I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now.
40:30Uh, I'm feeling shocked, to be fair.
40:33My biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable, because I will get naked and run around.
40:38Like, I am the complete opposite of Tom.
40:46I know I want to be open, and I'm not planning on changing that.
40:49I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle, and it's Tom that is.
40:54Should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy, guys?
40:56Oh, yeah!
40:57Let's do it!
40:58Yeah!
40:59Yeah!
41:00It's all over it.
41:01Just relax.
41:02Just put a blindfold on, man.
41:03Nice, nice, nice.
41:04Is there any areas that you genuinely want us to avoid?
41:07Yeah.
41:08It's basically just taking a top off.
41:09Mm-hmm.
41:10Mm-hmm.
41:11It feels weird that I can't see you.
41:14Mm-hmm.
41:16I definitely want to make Lauren happy.
41:18And we'll try anything.
41:20Like, jump this hurdle, basically.
41:22But once it's in my head, I can't afford it.
41:26I freeze.
41:27Once I'm in that rut, I can't get out of the rut.
41:30How are you feeling, mate?
41:32It's weird, but...
41:33You're getting worshipped.
41:34You're getting all the attention.
41:37This is my favourite thing.
41:41Despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay, Tom lets the ladies lead.
41:47Just out of step, but it gets a bit too overwhelming.
42:04It was putting shivers down my spine.
42:06I could feel everything.
42:08I feel absolutely petrified and sick.
42:23Next time on Open House...
42:26Are you ready for the next level?
42:29I feel absolutely petrified.
42:33Yeah.
42:35Is it okay to kiss?
42:38It's two guys!
42:40Back in the rut!
42:42I have identified as gay.
42:45Today, I don't know.
42:47I'm feeling very nutty.
42:50Never had any experience with gay main before.
42:54The worst case now would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting.
42:59This is out of my comfort area for sure.
43:02I am sorry for sure.
43:07In February, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2020, 2019, 2021.
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