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Married at First Sight (2014) Season 19 Episode 14
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00:01This is my life.
00:05This is my life.
00:08Woo!
00:09I love Britney.
00:11Yeah.
00:12So good.
00:13Hi, honey.
00:14Hi.
00:15Hi.
00:16How are we doing?
00:17Good to see you, man.
00:19Tonight it's the Married at First Sight must-see reunion.
00:23There's just like so much they don't know, you know?
00:26We had the most yeses on Decision Day in Married at First Sight history with all five couples saying yes.
00:34He's the light of my life. God knew that we needed to meet.
00:38I was on cloud nine. This is probably the best we've been.
00:42It's time to face the truth and each other.
00:44I was in a tailspin.
00:46Stand up and be a man and just say this is what I want. Here we go again.
00:50Here comes the moment that you've all been waiting for. Are you still married?
00:56Are either of you dating?
01:01If you want me to tell my side of the story, then shut up.
01:09Hello, everyone, and welcome to the Married at First Sight Season 19 reunion.
01:13I'm your host, Kevin Frazier, and I want to thank all of you for being here.
01:17This season has really had it all.
01:19From post-nups to barking pups.
01:23From communication errors to night terrors.
01:27From no move in plan to hell no for Burning Man.
01:32It's been a year and a half since all five couples deciding to stay married on Decision Day.
01:36And now we are dying to know what's been going on.
01:39Just want to say hello to everyone.
01:41And I want to thank all of you for being here.
01:43We're going to have a lot of fun.
01:44Nice.
01:45Love it.
01:46I heard that you and the ladies have become really tight through this.
01:49Explain that relationship and how it's blossomed.
01:53We're all really close.
01:55You know, all of us are really close.
01:57Brittany and I work out at F45 all the time.
02:00Chad and I are very close as well.
02:02I work underneath him.
02:04He helps me on real estate stuff all the time.
02:06And I'm close with all of them.
02:07We all love each other.
02:09That's great. That's great.
02:10We have the women on one side and now the men on the other side.
02:14And throughout this reunion, we're going to reveal who's still married and who is not.
02:19Jalen and Josh, I want to start with you on your wedding day, Jalen.
02:22You got from Josh a ticket for Burning Man.
02:26Did you use it?
02:27Yeah, I mean, I got to see Josh and his element.
02:31I understood why he was passionate about it.
02:33And I had a good time.
02:35I looked good too.
02:36It was up till 6 a.m.
02:38Great ass.
02:39Josh, tell us about the Burning Man experience with Jalen.
02:42I mean, that experience was really important to me.
02:46Being able to experience that with her and see her really give in to that and enjoy it.
02:51It meant a lot to me.
02:53We were really mostly by ourselves for most of it.
02:55So we bonded a lot.
02:57Okay.
02:58Let's take a look.
03:00All right.
03:01We're heading into the Burning Man gates.
03:04I'm still a little mind blown that you actually came.
03:07I don't know what I was thinking.
03:10It's Jalen the Builder.
03:15I cannot say I'm not adventurous ever again.
03:22I've just been living off Celsius and hand sanitizer.
03:27Come on.
03:28You gotta keep going.
03:29You gotta build it up.
03:30I've been running away.
03:31Uh-oh.
03:32I'm gonna have to tell you.
03:33All right.
03:34I adapted to his life.
03:35I wore the outfits.
03:36I had my ass out.
03:37Like, I was living it.
03:38I was up till 6 a.m.
03:40Jalen, I'm sorry, but I just looked at your finger and I noticed that big sparkly ring that you got on the honeymoon from Josh isn't there.
03:59Jalen and Josh, are you still married?
04:04We are no longer together.
04:07Um, we broke up three months ago.
04:10Wow.
04:12And yeah, it was very out of nowhere.
04:19I was in shock.
04:21Um, we were on vacation and he looked at me and he said,
04:28I don't feel connected to you anymore.
04:32I want to break off.
04:33And I was just like, whoa.
04:37Like, what's happening?
04:39Like, you've never expressed that you were unhappy ever.
04:43I was just like, what, where is this coming from?
04:46I don't understand.
04:47Like, how can you one day just decide you're done with the marriage?
04:52Josh, what happened for you?
04:56What changed for you?
04:57Well, first of all, we didn't break up on vacation.
05:00We broke up at home.
05:01So, that's not true.
05:03Oh.
05:04Well, actually, he broke up with me on vacation.
05:06I begged him.
05:07I said, I'm, this is the first time I'm hearing that you're unhappy.
05:09Can we please work it out?
05:11And he said, that's fair.
05:12Yes.
05:13Then, three days later, we were out at a concert.
05:17I'm insecure as fuck right now.
05:19This man just broke up with me out of nowhere.
05:21I'm walking on eggshells, trying to like, not push the envelope.
05:27I'm trying to like, be happy with him.
05:29And a girl came up to us, which he knew a lot of people there.
05:32He was there a lot.
05:33And she looked at us like she knew him, but, and like, they knew each other.
05:37It was weird.
05:38And so I was like, oh, who was that?
05:41And he goes, I'm not sure.
05:43I don't, and I was like, what do you mean you don't know?
05:46And I'm like, did you have sex with her?
05:48Was that all it was?
05:49I would like to change that.
05:50Cause the immediately, as soon as I didn't have the answer for her, she looked at me.
05:54She just said, did you fuck her?
05:56Did you fuck her?
05:59Maybe I said, fuck big deal.
06:01I don't care.
06:02Did you fuck her?
06:03And you're like, you look at me and you go, we're leaving.
06:06Okay.
06:07We get in the car and I'm like, Hey, I'm sorry.
06:10I'm feeling really insecure from what's happened.
06:13I said, I don't know why you're acting so cold.
06:15He said, I'm not acting cold.
06:16I am cold.
06:17You need to pack your things tonight.
06:19It was 12 o'clock.
06:21This conversation is not going.
06:23In your favor.
06:24Remotely normal.
06:25Okay.
06:26Hold on.
06:27Correct.
06:28No, it is.
06:29Let's hear what you, in your opinion, what happened.
06:31We talked about halfway home without a single word in the car.
06:33And she says, look, I get it.
06:35You don't want to be with me anymore.
06:37And I said, you are right.
06:38You should pack your things when we get home.
06:41That's what she just said.
06:43It was like a flip of a switch.
06:45It was out of nowhere.
06:46It was crazy.
06:47I thought we were just so happy and fun.
06:50And so I said, like, what has happened?
06:52Like, what have I done?
06:53He said that I'm a level two on the adventure scale.
06:59And he's a 10.
07:00I understand if I was a level two when you met me.
07:03Yes.
07:04But I have gone to five raves.
07:07I've gone to Burning Man for 10 days.
07:09Every festival I said I wouldn't do, I did.
07:13I did it all.
07:14And that blew my mind.
07:15I rode a shark.
07:16Like, I'm a level two still.
07:19And he said he realized it was happening when he bought a new motorcycle and a new truck.
07:28So I was confused.
07:30And he said, I make impulse decisions when I'm unhappy.
07:34You know, to make this work, I wanted to give it literally every single last bit of my being to make sure that I made it work.
07:43And I think that there's nobody in this room that can say that I didn't love that woman right there to the best of my ability.
07:50The reality is I lost myself in doing so.
07:53And once I realized that, I knew I had to do something about it.
07:58When you say you lost yourself, and I'm just trying to understand, what were you missing out on or what were, you know, how did you change?
08:04The thing was, is we weren't missing out on the things that I enjoyed doing.
08:07But I just realized that some of these things were so important to me that I wanted my partner to have that same love for them.
08:17And I can't say that she had even remotely as close to the same passion for it as I did.
08:23Of course not.
08:24We knew that.
08:25Okay.
08:26Yeah.
08:27And I wanted somebody who I could share that with.
08:31I think he kind of chases these highs, and then it falls.
08:35I think he needs a constant rush and, like, shiny new objects.
08:40And I think I fell into that.
08:43By the way, Will, you keep making these faces.
08:45You're killing me.
08:46What's going on with the faces you're making right now?
08:48I'm not sure if I'm at liberty to be the one to speak on that.
08:50Hey, come on now.
08:52Uh, yes.
08:53I spoke with Josh a couple of times, and I'm trying to see things from everybody's side, but I don't know. I wasn't there.
09:01And I think that we can't fix everything.
09:04You know you can.
09:05Megan and Brittany, you all are very close with Jalen.
09:08What did you think when Josh broke up with Jalen?
09:11I was very shocked.
09:12Yes.
09:13Very shocked.
09:14I didn't realize that there were any issues.
09:17Because she tried so hard.
09:18Yeah.
09:19I feel like she did so much.
09:21You know, she really put herself out of her comfort zone.
09:24You know, even in the beginning with skydiving.
09:27You know, she went to Burning Man, like.
09:29She did go.
09:30She did go.
09:31And I will give her that.
09:33And I was going to go again.
09:34I will give her that.
09:35You guys were doing a lot of the things that you like to do.
09:39And so, for me, I just felt, like, shocked.
09:43She would always ask me, constantly.
09:46She would constantly ask me if I was happy, and I was.
09:49I really and truly was.
09:51And so, I would tell her yes.
09:53Until I finally realized that I wasn't.
09:57And I'm sorry, once again, for how abrasive and how abrupt it was.
10:02We had challenges.
10:04We had issues.
10:05Like, he lied about little things all the time within the last.
10:10Can I have an example?
10:11Give me an example.
10:12I would love one.
10:13I will give you the example.
10:14Okay.
10:15The biggest example and the most recent was,
10:17he had an assistant.
10:19And we were just in the kitchen, and I knew he was getting an assistant.
10:22I was like, oh, like, who is your assistant?
10:24And he said, oh, she's, like, a 40-year-old or something.
10:27And she wasn't 40.
10:29She's, like, in her 20s.
10:31And he purposely lied about that.
10:34That's nonsense.
10:35Completely nonsense.
10:36Well, let me ask you this.
10:37Since the breakup, have you been dating anybody?
10:40I have gone on a couple of dates.
10:42Mm-hmm.
10:43Yeah.
10:44Jalen?
10:45What's, okay.
10:47The faces.
10:48Let's.
10:49I just think it's, it's.
10:53What?
10:54Say it.
10:55I'm okay with, I don't care when Josh dates.
10:57How fast.
10:58He could have dated the next day.
10:59But.
11:00We got videos.
11:01They got videos of Josh all over someone.
11:04Which is fine.
11:05If that's his girlfriend, that's great.
11:07I don't need to see the videos, but they were sent to me of him with the girl all over each other.
11:12And to tell my friends to lie to me about you dating is weird.
11:16You're allowed to date whenever you want.
11:17I didn't tell your friends to lie to you.
11:18You said, hey, I think it would be really silly to tell Jalen.
11:22That's verbatim.
11:23I have a screenshot.
11:24That's fine.
11:25So I wouldn't.
11:26That's fine.
11:27That's called lying to Jalen.
11:28That's not.
11:29No, that's just not telling you.
11:30It's not lying to you.
11:31And that's how I view it.
11:32No, no, no.
11:33That's a really good friend.
11:34I would.
11:35They would probably go, oh my God.
11:36My best friend.
11:37I saw that with this woman.
11:38I would say, oh wow.
11:39My best friend.
11:40How is that, how is that me telling them to lie to you?
11:42But Josh, let, let's, let's understand this.
11:45If it was one of your dudes, you would expect them to come up and say.
11:49No.
11:50I actually, I actually personally.
11:52You would.
11:53You would.
11:54I personally wouldn't want to know.
11:55I just didn't want to hurt you more than I already had.
11:58Josh, at what point were you going to ever say, hey, I think I'm losing myself.
12:02Hey, I think I'm unhappy.
12:03Hey, I think something's feeling unfulfilled.
12:06You just like acted completely fine.
12:09We got a dog.
12:10And we were living together for a year and three months.
12:13We were looking to go to Burning Man again.
12:15I didn't act.
12:16By the way, who got custody of the dog?
12:18The new dog?
12:19Yeah.
12:20Me, my baby.
12:21Yeah.
12:22Yeah.
12:23The dog is with you.
12:24Yeah.
12:25All right.
12:26And he's the light of my life.
12:27And I think God knew that we needed to meet so I could have this dog.
12:32Because he's literally my child.
12:34So that is the biggest takeaway from our relationship is I am the proudest dog mom to the cutest
12:41dog in the world.
12:42No offense, but like he is the cutest dog ever.
12:45Mm-hmm.
12:46Well, glad you love the dog.
12:47And I'm glad that worked out.
12:48And you know what?
12:49Thank you guys for sharing because I'm sure it wasn't easy and the way your marriage ended
12:53was not easy at all.
12:54So thanks for sharing that.
12:56All right.
12:57Let's keep moving.
12:58Jalen, things may not have worked out for you, but in a very first for Married at First
13:02Sight, we had a mother-daughter duo and your mom also got married.
13:07Belinda and Chad, are you still married?
13:09No.
13:10Catch me up on what's going on.
13:28It seemed like you guys had a great emotional connection in the beginning.
13:32Mm-hmm.
13:33It seemed that way.
13:34It seemed like it was really good.
13:35We were together on our wedding night.
13:36Mm-hmm.
13:37So, showering.
13:38So, I mean, you can only get so comfortable, right?
13:41So, I mean, we were comfortable with that and everything was fine.
13:44And then, you know, honeymoon, everything was fine.
13:47And then we got back to the apartment and everything changed.
13:51What changed?
13:54Well, the intimacy level changed.
13:57On whose part?
13:59I mean, I'm not really an initiator for the most part.
14:04But there were times when I was trying to, like, tell him, like, hey, if you want to, you know, be intimate or something, we don't have to have the dog in here.
14:11Like, we can get the dog out, right?
14:13But it just wasn't, nothing was changing.
14:16And, I mean, I didn't get married to, like, be sleeping alone.
14:21Chad, was it just too much to come in and throw that dog out of the way or what was going on?
14:26No.
14:27I don't sleep.
14:30Very seldom do I sleep.
14:33I'm used to turning TV on or listening to music.
14:36And I sit there and I decompress.
14:38And normally I go to bed around 1, 1.30, if I fall asleep.
14:43But I feel like my biggest issue was the drinking.
14:49It got to a point every night, it was him sitting on the couch, drinking, drinking, drinking.
14:55There were times I'd wake up, like, at 2, 3 in the morning, and I would actually go move the glass from his hand because I was afraid it might, like, fall and break.
15:02And, I mean, we did end up having a talk at the end and, and I told him, like, I'm not the type of woman who will love someone and not hold them accountable.
15:17Belinda, you said yes to staying with Chad.
15:19What happened after decision day?
15:22Um, after decision day, I, um, was going to go move in.
15:26And, um, we kind of had a moment where Chad brought his cat downstairs, the cat that no one ever saw all season because she's, you know, anxious.
15:37My dog approached them.
15:40He didn't bark or jump on Chad.
15:41He already knew not to.
15:43She got spooked and kind of climbed on him and may have, like, maybe scratched him a little, so he got upset.
15:49He was yelling, saying the dog was being aggressive, and I told him he's just a curious dog.
15:55And then he yelled at me and said that the dog was untrained and didn't know how to behave.
15:59And I kind of just, like, froze because I felt the panic come up.
16:05And in that moment, I grabbed all my things from the kitchen table and I started loading up the dog into my car and I left.
16:12Chad, what were you thinking watching her walk out?
16:15You know, I'm human, and I've been dealing with anxiety issues.
16:19In times like that, it's not necessarily the rational person that's dealing with what's going on.
16:25I was in a tailspin.
16:27I'm gonna pause you right there for a second, Chad.
16:29We need to help our viewers understand what's going on here.
16:32We have some, uh, never-before-seen footage five days after decision day,
16:36which is also the day after Belinda moved out of Chad's place.
16:39The cameras kept rolling and the group gathered for a crawfish party.
16:43Let's take a quick look at this.
16:46Hi!
16:47Hi!
16:48This is gorgeous!
16:49Thank you!
16:50Hi!
16:51Hey! Oh, you look so pretty!
16:52I'm, like, slowly going through your whole house.
16:54Oh, yeah! Did you see it all?
16:55No.
16:56Well, I'll show you later.
16:57How are you, Mom? What have you been up to?
16:59I'm stressed eating.
17:03What's going on with you and Chad?
17:05I was supposed to move into Chad's butt.
17:07There was, like, a blow-up.
17:09It didn't go well.
17:11I mean, I've tolerated the dog for two months.
17:14I just got tired of it last night.
17:16And the anxiety, the cat dug her claws into my chest.
17:20It triggered me.
17:21The dog came up. I pushed his head down.
17:24And it just didn't go well.
17:26I mean, I'm only hearing it from your side right now.
17:29And so, you know, at the end of the day,
17:31I don't think that this is anything that you guys can't work through.
17:33That's up to her.
17:35And I'm not gonna play second fiddle to a fucking dog.
17:38I'm just not gonna do it.
17:39I'm the alpha in my house.
17:43It makes me sad you guys are having challenges.
17:48You guys have worked so hard.
17:51I think the dog is a trigger.
17:53Really?
17:54Yeah.
17:55Way over a dog?
17:56Yeah.
17:57Yeah, I could see it being a trigger.
17:59But I don't think that's, like, y'all's end-all be-all.
18:02I'm not seeing everything in front of fucking cameras.
18:04I'm just not gonna do it.
18:05And if that's where we're going with all the cameras,
18:08then y'all are gonna be disappointed.
18:10My thing is, is that you said the cameras were triggers,
18:13and your anxiety, and you said production was a trigger.
18:16Yeah.
18:17Well...
18:18So now it's not even that.
18:19Now it's just the dog.
18:20So anxiety can only be tied to production?
18:22No, no, no, Chad.
18:23That's not what she's saying.
18:24That's fine.
18:25That's why I'm here.
18:26Hold on a second.
18:27Hold on.
18:28Well, just wait a second.
18:29That's not fair.
18:30That's not fair.
18:31I'm done.
18:32I'm not talking about this anymore.
18:34Of course.
18:35Of course.
18:36Of course.
18:37No, no, no.
18:38Let's not do that.
18:39Your mom's got it.
18:41Fuck y'all.
18:42Get this mic off of me.
18:44I'm going home.
18:45That was bullshit.
18:46That was an ambush.
18:47Fuck y'all.
18:48Get this goddamn mic off of me.
18:53I want to give you a second to just address that.
18:59You okay?
19:02Well, first of all, thanks for bringing that up.
19:04A poquito sarcasm there.
19:09No, I know it was sarcasm, but what I'm going to say to you is that that moment, it didn't play well.
19:19If you want me to tell my side of the story, then shut up.
19:23Then let me tell my side of the story.
19:25Look, I don't want you to feel like we're here to jump on your back, but you got up and you cursed at everyone, and that's harsh.
19:38I understand the frustration, but when you speak to people like that, that sticks, you know?
19:44I agree.
19:45It was a culmination of a long, long, crazy time, and I'm sorry.
19:50I wish I could rewind it, but I can't.
19:52Sure.
19:53It's embarrassing to see yourself lose control like that.
19:57I judge myself harder than anybody in this room or anybody on that TV set, so.
20:03As somebody who did kind of act a little bit off the cusp, I think you felt ambushed, and then later looking back at it, you're like, damn, I could have handled that a little better.
20:15I wish I had handled it a lot differently, but I can't.
20:18Yeah, we can't. I mean, hindsight's 20-20, but you know, we learn from it.
20:21We're not our worst moments, none of us. We all had instances and moments where we just didn't know how to handle the moment.
20:28You're not your worst moment, okay?
20:30Why did you do the show?
20:33Well, nothing else had worked. I was hoping maybe this was divine intervention.
20:38And it seemed like it was working at first.
20:40It did. There was just so much going on. Not just with the show, but with everything.
20:46Mm-hmm.
20:48It just kind of got overwhelming.
20:50I got a lot of texts from Chad. You know, I knew he was struggling with production.
20:56But I also want to reiterate, you know, Chad has a heart of gold, and I think that he felt more and more cornered, and it affected him more and more.
21:07Mm-hmm. Okay. Belinda, how did this moment affect your relationship?
21:11I mean, as far as what we just saw, that is a turnoff. It's a turnoff when people treat other people rude or ugly. And I did tell him that I was triggered by that behavior.
21:22And you mentioned that, that something in your past concerned you when he raised his voice.
21:28Mm-hmm. What was that?
21:30Yeah, my previous marriage, we, you know, had those moments where he would blow up, and I was, like, seeing it again.
21:37I just felt like I was in the same position, where it's like, there's this person, and they're good, and they're fun, and everything's perfectly fine.
21:47And then all of a sudden, there's this blow up, and you never know when it's going to happen, and you're walking on eggshells.
21:52I could see my producers walking on eggshells at times.
21:54Mm-hmm.
21:55And he was trying to manipulate me into thinking producers were trying to do something when I knew very well the producers weren't doing anything to me or to him.
22:05I mean, they went out of their way to try to accommodate him, and that's when I started to take steps back.
22:11I started to get the feeling that the way he is treating them, eventually he'll treat me that way, and then he did.
22:18All right, let's get to the bottom of something else that went down.
22:23And, Chad, when you spoke with Belinda, you said that you exchanged texts with Josh about your frustrations with production and that Josh kind of agreed with you.
22:34However, Belinda said you were not telling the truth.
22:37What was in the text with your conversation with Josh that you pulled up and talked about?
22:41I don't recall the details of that, but, I mean, we used each other as a sounding board.
22:46Josh, do you remember that text, and were you guys talking about the problems that Chad was experiencing?
22:53I don't remember any text that came from Chad specifically about production.
22:59So, yeah, I think it did kind of catch me off guard a little bit whenever I was brought into that.
23:05And I personally don't feel like I ever had any issues with production interfering with my relationship.
23:11Yeah. I also did not feel like production was driving any wedges.
23:15We had a great experience with production all around.
23:18I mean, I knew that the requirements were going to be pretty heavy, and I signed up knowing that, you know, you sort of put your life a little bit on hold.
23:27Like, and you have to work around it, but you're signing up not just to do some weird reality.
23:33You're signing up to find your partner, and I think that's a bigger trade-off.
23:36So, that's the way I looked at it.
23:38Mm-hmm.
23:39Chad, is there anything you want to say?
23:41I'm terribly sorry that I hurt people, and I wish I could go back and unhurt people.
23:47Mm-hmm.
23:48But I can't, and you deserve to be happy, and I hope you can find it.
23:57For me, it's all said and done.
24:01Belinda, have you started dating again?
24:03I have.
24:04Yeah?
24:05Mm-hmm.
24:06I wasn't thinking I was going to actively be dating.
24:08I just happened to meet someone.
24:10Mm.
24:11Jalen, have you met the new guy?
24:13I have.
24:14What do you think about him?
24:15Tell me what you think about him.
24:16He's great.
24:17He's sweet, and he seems to be, so far, I mean, someone that I could see my mom with.
24:24So, I'm happy for her.
24:26Look, Belinda and Chad, thank you for sharing your story with us, and I know this wasn't easy for you.
24:30I know it, and I appreciate it, and I respect the fact that you sat here, and you talked about it, and you answered the questions, all right?
24:36I do, because this ain't easy.
24:39All right, look, let's switch gears and lighten the mood for a minute.
24:43You know, physical intimacy is a key part of marriage, but it's not just about the closeness in the bedroom.
24:49Sometimes it means learning truths that are downright embarrassing.
24:53These clips may have unlocked some of the things our couples were not prepared for.
24:58I don't know what's going through his head.
25:05I mean, is this weird to you?
25:10This is the intimacy box.
25:13What have you used before?
25:15Oh, you just pulled out everything you've used before?
25:19Yes.
25:20Woo!
25:21Uh-oh.
25:22Oh, man, okay.
25:23Nipple clamps.
25:24Does it hurt?
25:25It looks stupid, but it doesn't hurt.
25:27Tell me what you want me to do to your body.
25:33Wait, you're trying to actually hurt me?
25:36Megan, who do you think has had more sexual partners, you or me?
25:40You.
25:41All righty.
25:42That's awkward.
25:43I'm gonna drink.
25:44Get comfortable, dude.
25:46Damn.
25:47Hey, man, I don't want your beans in my face.
25:50He has cute little balls.
25:51Ooh.
25:53I used to pick my toenails.
25:55Like, rip them off?
25:56Yes.
25:58I have a confession to make.
26:00Uh-oh.
26:01I forgot your name.
26:03This is what happens when you have a 63-year-old on the show.
26:08Come on.
26:09Those were some fun, fun moments, weren't those?
26:12That your reaction to the toenail thing was classic.
26:15Did you pull, you know, the bed sheet back up and look at her toenails at night?
26:19There were a couple times he looked at my toes, and they were fine.
26:21I don't think he ever had any issues.
26:23They look great today.
26:24They look great.
26:25They look amazing tonight.
26:26I just wanted to tell you that.
26:28In your defense, Brittany, I do it.
26:29I do it, too.
26:30I don't know if that makes me feel like that.
26:34All right, don't move.
26:35We'll be back with more from the Married at First Sight reunion.
26:43Is it Maya she saw when I stood up or from Megan's?
26:45Yeah.
26:46I'm great.
26:47Ooh, Rhonda got the ears.
26:48Rhonda got the ears.
26:49Yeah.
26:50Rhonda got the ears.
26:51Dressed a little shorter underneath than I thought.
26:55My boobs are good.
26:57I'm good.
26:58Okay.
26:59All right, let's keep moving.
27:01Our next couple, she doesn't use sheets with her bedding, and he talked about the crusades
27:06on the night of his wedding.
27:08Brittany and Will.
27:10Will, I want to ask you right now, what is the current state of your relationship with Brittany?
27:15Uh, there isn't one.
27:18We haven't spoken in a long time.
27:19Really?
27:20Brittany, when was the last time you guys spoke?
27:23Like, over a year and a half ago.
27:26Because?
27:27We are no longer together, so we don't speak.
27:31After decision day.
27:33I left at evening, so I was gone for a week.
27:35Mm-hmm.
27:36Things didn't sit well.
27:37And so when I got back, I ended things there.
27:41Why didn't you say no on decision day?
27:44Honestly, it was in the moment.
27:46I do adore her.
27:48And I didn't want to see her sad either.
27:50She was crying.
27:51And, I mean, I know it made things more difficult by saying no, then saying yes, and then being
27:56gone for three or four days.
27:58Brittany, do you wish he had said no on decision day?
28:00Hmm.
28:01I mean, it's easy for me to say, like, yeah, if he really wanted to say no, he could have said no.
28:08But, you know, when he came home, I had an inkling that it was going to happen.
28:13Um, and I had prepared myself to have a conversation about it.
28:20Mm-hmm.
28:21But the way that it happened threw me off.
28:23He was overly rude, stern, and I felt very cold, like he was very cold.
28:28So I, in true Brittany fashion, I tried to fight it.
28:32Well, I mean, since you mentioned it, let's take a look at some never-before-seen footage
28:37shot a week after decision day from your breakup at your apartment and the aftermath that followed
28:43the next day at a group pool party.
28:46I think it was such an emotional week because we didn't have the opportunity to have a conversation.
28:53Like, after we needed to have one decision day.
28:55I don't know.
28:56You felt like it was the last worst.
28:58You were in me.
28:59You felt like you were in a new trainer and we didn't know I had a problem with it.
29:02You weren't such an emotional week too.
29:03I don't know what it is.
29:04You didn't have a marriage you know you were in.
29:07No?
29:08Yeah.
29:09You were acting right now.
29:10It's this crate.
29:17How's it going to?
29:18Can you tell me?
29:20It's not going to be out here.
29:22I'm not sure what you're talking about.
29:23I've got one question.
29:26We're not going to talk to you again.
29:27I'm not sure what you can do.
29:28we haven't seen y'all since decision day smells good i haven't eaten all day i just haven't had
29:40much of an appetite really why tricks of the trade you know life sucks you know i like that
29:48shirt oh thank you thank you i like the tigers giving real big lsu vibes chad how are you bro
29:56i'm alive i'm here good you want to move to the chairs yeah yeah let's do it
30:02all right you two you're sitting on opposite sides of the room well what's going on
30:08moving on with my life and figuring that out and how to do that and what's going on what have i done
30:14that's so bad to where you have to treat me like i'm nothing treating you like you're nothing well
30:20the way you talk to me am i allowed to speak can i speak now yeah you can speak thank you
30:24well just like that that's even i think that's just like not okay i was trying to respond and
30:29cut me off i was not trying to be hurtful i just wanted to make this stop i wanted it to be over
30:36like i was never able to be enough for her like no matter what i did it was never enough she was
30:40either running to tell someone that i wasn't being vulnerable not doing something but it just pushed
30:45me away so after that i just decided i didn't want this but i never said you weren't enough i said i
30:50don't know if i'm enough for you i never once said that you were just stupid i never once said that
30:55you were not enough for me i've never in my life said that because that is not true that's not how
30:59the conversation where you did say that you didn't feel anything you stated that well maybe if you
31:03don't like me doing things for you i'm not the person for you and that was enough for you to
31:07to want to divorce me really like all the issues that we've been going through that's enough for
31:12you to just say fuck it i don't want to be married anymore yes
31:14britney how hard was that moment i was difficult it was uh it was devastating you know i um
31:42yeah i mean it was tough i don't take pride or enjoyment out of being mean especially not to her
31:47but i think that i had to do that to be succinct why uh because i was told that when i'm softer with
31:55those mannerisms that it's giving her hope even though i'm telling her no uh so i just i think i had
32:01to be overly rude i was not trying to lead her on i wanted to make sure that we were at least concrete
32:06on that and i felt as if that was the only other that was the route to take in that moment i mean
32:12he made it clear that he was done he made it very clear that he was done and i i wanted to have a
32:19conversation i was persistent i wanted to keep fighting for it britney reached out a couple of
32:24times and some really rude things were said so i said bye and blocked her number after will blocked you
32:33did you continue to try and get in touch with him yeah i wrote him a letter and dropped off that
32:38letter you know i was still trying to fight for our our marriage in that moment i conveyed how much
32:45i loved him and like i don't feel like this is it's over it's not the end we didn't give ourselves
32:50a fair shake we didn't fight for it um
32:54yeah did you read the letter no i did not
33:00so what happened when britney showed up to drop it off
33:06i don't know i wasn't there and then there's a note on my door saying that she paid some visits
33:13i'm sorry they said that you'd been there more than once who was they i'd never know the only time
33:21that i was there was when i dropped off that letter okay perfect maybe if they've seen me
33:25it's because she lives there and i've been to her place a couple of times so you've been back to the
33:32building but you're there i've been back to the building because of jalen and that's as of recently
33:37considering that he didn't read the letter is there anything you want to say to him now
33:51britney is there anything you want to say to him now
33:54no
33:58no no no okay is there anything you want to say to her
34:05uh yes i apologize for not being present and doing a better job of trying to understand how
34:12to hear you and then definitely i can be too literal and that makes things difficult as well
34:20i just get lost sometimes i'm like
34:22why we need will for dummies sometimes
34:25sometimes it's a little bit over i was like sometimes talking to will and i'm like wait what
34:29are you saying i'm getting lost i'm so confused i think watching will explain the different types
34:34of love was probably the best thing i've ever seen in my life
34:37say that was incredible just kind of thought that the term love is kind of bastardizing people
34:41abuse it so i feel like you should be succinct and clear but
34:44wow again a will answer a will answer right but you clearly were speaking to me and i was
34:52taking it a different way than what you meant so thank you for that journey with me yeah no i
34:58appreciate that um i'm gonna change it i am gonna say something back go ahead um watching it back
35:05like i want to clarify not at any point did i think you're a bad person i don't think that you
35:10were trying to you know intentionally hurt my feelings and i don't think i ever questioned that
35:17you loved me i think what i was trying to do is just maybe dig for more but yeah i appreciate what
35:26you just said like it was all just a breakdown in communication thank you yeah would either one of
35:32you ever get married at first sight again the britney i am today yeah is that britney still a
35:39hopeful romantic like you said you were 100 percent wedding yeah yeah she's just a lot more calm
35:46she's a lot less reactionary and that's with a lot of prayer and a lot of therapy
35:52and my support system some of which that are here on this stage but um yeah i mean i'm never going to
36:00lose the desire to want to be married you know want to be the wife that i was trying to present
36:05myself as thank you guys for sharing because i'm sure it wasn't easy at all all right let's let's move
36:14on to our next couple ronda and pat
36:16are you still married
36:21no no
36:25why did you and pat officially break up well we were together nine months and then he had gone
36:36to europe for a month on his own he did invite me to go but i had taken off so much time last year
36:42and we we had a lot of we did a lot of trips last year um so he came back and he was a great listener
36:49that night did all right once for the next 10 days i was on cloud nine i was like we did all these
36:56things with friends i was hanging on and we were kissing i was just like i was feeling like this is
37:02probably the best we've been since the reception at our wedding like and then what what happened it was
37:07great so i wake up one morning and we were going to go on a bike ride that that day and he was at
37:14sitting outside listening to the meditation on anger and i was like what the fuck like really because i
37:19was like feeling so great about us so you know i waited for him to finish i mean coffee i went out
37:25there and i said hey and i asked him about it and i said are you angry and he said well i'm not
37:31you know really angry right now but i can feel myself starting to get angry and i said let me
37:37guess is this because we haven't had sex since you've been back the last 10 days
37:43he said honestly yes that's it and then we met for dinner and in the first two minutes i was there
37:52he said he was done and so i left were your physical needs being met i would have enjoyed more
38:00um so i would say no and it was something that i had felt for quite some time um we had been intimate
38:09um the wedding night it started off it started off literally a bang what happened i'll tell you what
38:15happened my experience of being in a relationship with pat was that he was very insecure and that
38:23insecurity was a complete turnoff romantically for example pat as you guys saw showed up on decision
38:32day and said he did not want to stay married and changed his mind he went from being this like
38:39i'm gonna say no to oh oh and it was just i was so confused i needed somebody to stand up and be a man
38:48and just say this is what i want and this is what i need and like it's like you know hunched shoulders
38:52and whining and like that just was like not a sexual turn-on for me but no matter what pat said
39:00i had made a commitment to give this a year i certainly wanted to see what our relationship
39:06would be like off camera and i tried to explain you know from my perspective that intimacy is more than
39:13just sexual and his response was i don't feel worthy or loved if i'm not having sex the way i
39:21received it was i i lost respect for you and i wasn't attracted to you and literally within
39:31a minute or two of that my switch just flipped off and when it's off it's off it's just off i feel
39:41like pat really came into this because he wanted a wife and i never felt like he wanted me he just
39:48wanted a person that was his wife i mean he came in looking for physical intimacy that i would assume
39:57he would hope would lead to a connection and i feel like i came in looking for a connection
40:03and the physical intimacy would be like the icing on the cake i just really struggled to for that
40:10connection i think because of that you never got to use that safe word huh pineapple right
40:16oh pineapple is pineapple right right um pat what did you learn from this experience
40:22i learned that i put other people before me to my detriment and learning and accepting
40:31to love myself you know i i i did the i took on the habit of saying to myself out loud and god this
40:43was awkward but i love you patrick and and did i slip up hell yeah i did but was i making the effort i
40:51really was i just didn't feel like it was being received ronda what did you learn i think being a
40:58single parent for so long i had to control the situation or there would be chaos and i think
41:04with pat i was trying to control the situation instead of letting it flow almost like a salmon
41:11swimming upstream you know against the current instead of just letting it flow and so i think
41:17i've learned to just like more surrender it's like you could have given him a little more grace
41:24yeah okay moving on to our last couple yes they have jokes derrick and megan they were so eager to
41:33make their relationship work but was a perfect set of abs enough to keep this marriage strong
41:39you know last time that we saw you two you both had said yes on decision day to staying married and
41:45you were actually preparing your house for a baby how are things going and how things changed since
41:52decision day um i had a miscarriage
42:03and i know that's something very hard to talk about having experienced that in my life
42:11i'm very very sorry to hear that it was uh it was very rough you know i i feel bad for anyone that
42:19has to go through that you know taking it back to decision day megan was pregnant we were excited
42:26we were on a high we said yes from our perspective it was like look this this worked you know we were
42:32really headed down that path we were family planning that's what we were thinking about and then you
42:38know soon after that's when we got the devastating news and it was it was extremely hard uh seeing what
42:47megan had to go through you know what we had to go through it was really really terrible
42:55megan and derek are you still married
43:00once we went through the miscarriage but you know everything changed for us you know we really
43:16just started to clash on some things derek's very stubborn i'm very stubborn there was a lot of give and
43:22take i was the one that was like let's get into couples therapy um but there was a lot of issues
43:33and if you don't work on those issues then yeah it's not going to work it was it was hard to talk
43:40about openly i mean it was it was deep stuff so then we had a really bad fight
43:47mm-hmm and when we were fighting
43:52i told megan i didn't love her anymore derek broke up with me over the phone and then moved out
44:00a week later and i haven't seen him since
44:03it was it was horrible and i mean the way that it happened was like dude that was so uncool
44:10breaking up is never there's never a good time to do it
44:17it's always going to be hard i knew
44:23that this wasn't the right person for me yeah i had to be true to myself i'd be true to megan
44:31when he broke up with me something in my head changed and i couldn't remember anything good
44:38from our relationship i don't i just remembered all the bad and then i watched and then i remembered
44:44all the good and that was hard because for like a year and a half i don't remember any of the good
44:49and then it all just came back floodgates everything i don't think derek's a bad person i don't think
44:56that he handled it well i don't think that was fair to me
45:00my question is do you think that he would have said yes on decision day if you were not pregnant
45:07i don't know
45:08i wasn't happy i don't think megan was happy
45:13i think whether we said yes or no on decision day i think the the eventual outcome would be the same
45:18wow one of us respected the other but it's not mutual
45:23i'm sorry i didn't i didn't think i said anything insulting there i think you're demeaning our
45:28relationship quite honestly that's fine you didn't think we'd work out that's really upsetting
45:34we were going to have a kid together i think you're kind of taking away from like all the good
45:39that we had and i really just don't i don't think that's really fair that's fine it feels it feels cold
45:44i mean now that i'm even thinking about it like i don't want to be with somebody that doesn't want
45:50to be with me do i have things i need to work on 100 do i hate the way that i reacted in things yes
45:57i look back at it and i will tell you i will be a better person i've learned a lot and i know i'm a
46:06catch i think megan is a great person and i think that i hope that she can find someone that
46:14really she falls in love with i mean she deserves it and i really hope the best for her and i mean
46:21that genuinely vice versa i mean i don't wish you bad at all i hope you find somebody and it's great
46:28generally you know i've had some fabulous dates you know and people that i connect with and this is
46:35going to sound like tit for tat and i don't mean it to be by any means i felt really seen on a lot
46:40of these dates like i felt like people saw me did you feel unseen in your yeah a lot of times yeah
46:47really yeah derek are you dating yes uh i've been dating someone for seven months okay it's going
46:56really well um i'm really really happy in it and she's excited to be a mom
47:02she really loves me and i love her we we do say i love you and um i'm i'm happy i was able to find
47:11that and i think i'm i hope that megan i hope you find someone that you can share that with too i
47:18really do i really do did you know he was dating but you haven't talked i mean i saw he was on raya
47:23two months ago he's been dating for seven months but he was on raya and i sent it to jalen and
47:28britney and that's not shade i'm just being honest i just like told jalen that that you're not still
47:37on raya no no okay no your girlfriend no you got off of ryan that's right okay all right all right
47:43um what have you learned from this experience i can be defensive and i can get in my head
47:49let's slow it down a little bit and you know i believe in growing i just want to be a better
47:56person i'm very happy that you're in a relationship and she appreciates you i think that's what all of
48:01us want in a relationship is to be appreciated to be seen um there's no ill will for me i i hope you
48:09have your three babies and i hope that they're great thank you you're gonna have more babies and
48:14you're gonna have your children too don't i promise you i promise you uh bernie and i always
48:20talk about we already picked the neighborhood we're gonna live in next to each other our kids
48:23are gonna take the golf courts right next to each other jalen's gonna be there too yeah i'm like and
48:27me and jalen's gonna be there too blend and i are gonna be traveling the world that's right us girls
48:33are like uh like a tribe like we all genuinely care about one another i texted all of these guys
48:39we we share a pretty close bond having gone through what we went through we're all really
48:43close all of us that's great that's great look this has been quite a journey and even though none
48:50of our five couples stayed together the friendships and lifelong bonds that have formed are truly
48:55something special and i am so grateful to all of you for sharing your stories with us tonight
49:01because it hasn't been easy and i know your marriages may not have lasted but i hope you all have
49:06learned something about yourselves that you can take forward as you meet new people that being
49:11said before we wrap up there's one more exciting announcement next year there will be an all new
49:16season of married at first sight the experiment will head to a new city with more couples than ever
49:21i want you to take a sneak peek
49:22i'm getting married and i can't believe it i want a wife i would love for it to be me someone else and my
49:34cat i'm ready i'm excited to meet my person
49:38it's obviously scary having someone else pick your wife for you
49:45i just walked down the aisle to a stranger who actually is not a complete stranger
49:54he's been on some shows before oh my gosh this is crazy
50:00i haven't really had like a serious long-term relationship oh ever yeah i see it as a red flag
50:16some of the best parts of life are on the other side of risk and i mean you can't get more risky
50:23than this
50:24that is awesome that is awesome that was great i'm kevin frazier and thanks so much for tuning in
50:40and never stop believing in love these people are going to find love trust me good night
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