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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way S07E11
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00:00İzlediğiniz için teşekkür ederim.
00:30I got you some flowers, and I brought a vase, because I didn't know if Dylan had one.
00:34I actually haven't seen Patia in 11 years, but I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.
00:40So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:42Probably this week.
00:43You might have to keep an eye on her, Dylan.
00:45It makes me mad that she's already automatically inserting herself into our relationship.
00:50No, I've gotten better.
00:52Have you?
00:52Yes.
00:53Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business with his mom.
00:57I'm so damn sick of it.
01:00I'm very happy that you're here.
01:03Oh, well, thank you.
01:04It makes me happy that you're here.
01:07My sister, my mom, my dad, they assume Mano is starting ******.
01:12And Marie is like, you create drama with everyone.
01:15I'm like, wow, wow, wow, wow.
01:17Wow, wow, wow.
01:18Wow.
01:19Wow.
01:20Wow.
01:21Wow.
01:22Wow.
01:23Wow.
01:24I'm tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
01:26We're just making a buzz.
01:40from tomorrow onwards, please do come in.
01:43We made no money.
01:45They're handing out whole plates of food.
01:48All I saw was food going out the door and no money coming in.
01:54Dignity enrichment.
01:56We might as well be throwing money out.
01:59We might be stuck living with the family forever.
02:02Oh, my gosh, babe, I'm so excited for our night out.
02:26She's had a good time.
02:28It's been about a week since Patia arrived in Tasmania.
02:32Oh, is it like an Irish pub or something?
02:34Yep.
02:35And tonight I'm taking her out to one of the best spots in town.
02:41What do you think about this place?
02:42Different.
02:47It's not that busy.
02:49Well, it's only a Tuesday night.
02:51Oh.
02:53I did not expect to go out to an Irish pub.
02:55I'm like, Irish pub in Australia.
02:58And it's so quiet.
03:00We're all the people.
03:02We're a long way from Dallas and Vegas.
03:04Thank God we're going to be hanging out with his best friend Chris
03:06and his brother Glenn.
03:10Drink.
03:10I'll have a Moscato, please.
03:12Moscato, yeah.
03:12Do they have that here?
03:13I hope so.
03:15I'm not a beer drinker.
03:17Oh, nice.
03:19Patia!
03:20Chris!
03:20How are you going?
03:23I'm not me.
03:24I'm not me.
03:24Chris was with Thunder from Down Under.
03:28They were really, really close.
03:30Oh, my God.
03:31Glenn!
03:31Darling.
03:32Oh, my God.
03:33I'm not me.
03:35Oh, this is amazing.
03:37I haven't seen Glenn in 11 years.
03:39Glenn is a lot of fun.
03:40He loves to shop, loves to wine and dine, all in my category.
03:45Here's to Patia.
03:47To Patia.
03:47To new beginnings, to her new life in Tasmania.
03:50I cannot believe I'm here, seriously.
03:54I've been teaching this in Australian slang, too.
03:56What have you got?
03:57Bugger.
03:58Yeah.
03:58Yeah, yeah.
04:00And tinnies.
04:02I love the way you said it.
04:03Tinnies.
04:06Have you met the rest of the fam, like Dylan's mom?
04:09I met his mom.
04:10She came over the other day.
04:12Oh, she's a sweetie.
04:13She's such a sweetheart, yeah.
04:14So you got on well?
04:15Huh?
04:15You got on well with her?
04:16Yeah.
04:17Okay, cool.
04:20Me and his mom have a long history of not liking each other.
04:25But it's not something I want to bring out in front of his brother.
04:27Because Dylan always, like, tells me, oh, don't trust Glenn.
04:31He'll, like, be nice to your face and stab you in the back.
04:35Well, you've got to put a ring on that thing now.
04:37Ah.
04:38Yeah.
04:39I'm working on that.
04:40Thank you, Chris.
04:40I'm working on that.
04:41It's been, what, 12 years?
04:44Yeah, 12 years.
04:45Wow.
04:45It's been 12 years.
04:47We've had some issues to sort out first.
04:49Yes, we did.
04:50Well, that just got serious.
04:51What are the issues that you need to sort out?
04:54I don't know if now's the right time to bring them up.
04:56You know how many times we broke up, Chris?
04:59A lot.
05:01You know?
05:02Excuse me, guys.
05:03I'm just going to go to the restaurant.
05:04Okay.
05:07I love Patia and I love Dylan.
05:09And I know that they have a rocky relationship.
05:13I know that it's a very passionate relationship.
05:15The happiest Dylan has ever been is when he's with Patia.
05:20But then things happen.
05:22It's all very good now, but six months down the track.
05:26I don't know.
05:28Moving to Tassie.
05:30This is it.
05:31Yeah.
05:32It's crazy.
05:34Oh.
05:35Oh.
05:36What is going on over there?
05:38That young lady over there, Patia.
05:43I've written a song for her.
05:44I'm a little bit rusty, but sometimes I feel like I don't express myself properly to Patia.
05:51But if I can put it in a song, that's how I feel like I can get the message across.
05:57My heart was jumping around like a kangaroo.
06:04When I first laid my eyes on you.
06:07I never thought I could fall in love so fast.
06:13But then I gave you a ring and I took it right back.
06:18And I'm sorry for that.
06:22Welcome down under, baby.
06:25From the outback to the ocean, you got all of my emotions, and they're running like a river to your heart.
06:38Have you heard this song before?
06:39Have a nice day.
06:40If you're not coming, I'm not going.
06:45And I hope that I die knowing that we never spend another minute.
06:52And I promise to be more gentle with your heart.
07:01Thank you so much.
07:15Oh, baby.
07:18Hearing that song tonight makes me want to fight harder for a relationship.
07:21I want us to finally tie the knot, get married.
07:25I just hope we don't fall back into our old patterns and break up again.
07:29I honestly feel like I couldn't take it anymore.
07:33Oh.
07:52Maman, merci pour garder ben.
07:55Bye.
07:57Attends, j'ai le parapluie.
07:58It's a two-step walk.
08:00Come on.
08:00No, I have my beautiful jacket on.
08:04Okay?
08:06It's been a little bit tense at my parents' house because of the drama that I had with my sister.
08:12Marseille sous la pluie, c'est encore plus triste.
08:16We texted last night, and I'm fine with my sister now.
08:19It is what it is.
08:20But the dynamic with my parents attacking my character, like, it just really lit the fire in me to just get the head out of there ASAP.
08:28And Antonio and I, we actually made it really clear from the start.
08:31We were only going to live there just temporarily until we found a house.
08:35I'm so excited to see this house.
08:38Like, so freaking excited because it's exactly, 100% what I want.
08:47Today we are going to La Provence Verte, which is a very nice place in Provence, with lakes, waterfalls, a very nice small village,
09:00to visit a beautiful house that we found online that's for sale.
09:07It's only an hour and something away from the city.
09:11It's, I think, three, four or five bedrooms.
09:15I don't remember, but it's, like, just in what we need.
09:18There's the pool and the view.
09:20You, you are going to love the view.
09:24How much is this one?
09:25It's under our budget.
09:27375, this one.
09:29I mean, it's the highest, highest of our budget, yeah.
09:32We have the 25% down for that.
09:36And then it's just wiped out.
09:39Yeah, so it's a little, it's, yeah, but that's negotiation.
09:42We are in France.
09:43And if they want, like, a guaranteed French income, we don't even have an account at a French bank yet.
09:52There's even the option of renting.
09:54No!
09:55It's an option to rent.
09:59There will be a lot less worry when it comes to renting an apartment.
10:04Plus, we have the money to do that long term.
10:08Or even, like, buy an apartment if we really wanted to.
10:11We have that money.
10:13Oh, my Lord.
10:14Get me out of here.
10:16Get me out of the car now.
10:17Whoa, it's just an option.
10:19Antoni!
10:20Chill.
10:20I am not putting my money down the drain, and I am not living in an apartment.
10:25You will not put me in a cell jail.
10:29I am not living in an apartment.
10:30I've seen some pretty nice apartments.
10:32Good for you.
10:32Go live there.
10:33Go live in an apartment.
10:35I live in a house by myself.
10:36You're reacting as if I'm, like, saying we're getting an apartment or we're moving somewhere cheaper.
10:41If we can make getting this house happen, we'll do that.
10:55As long as we're in a good space, where we're not, like, in the s*** financially.
11:00Yes, I agree.
11:02But if I'm sitting here putting other options on the table, it's because those might have to be considered.
11:08No, I want to buy a house.
11:11I want to be out of Manon's parents' house just as much as she does.
11:17But there's options that we need to look at that are really what make the most sense financially speaking.
11:25And if that means we have to stay at her parents' place for a little bit longer,
11:28I feel like that's a small sacrifice to be made.
11:31You got, like, tunnel vision.
11:34I want to buy a house.
11:41I have no idea how to make this work.
11:53I'm doing my best, okay?
11:55There's a lot of costs involved, and you and Chloe are going to need a more solid plan.
12:04I'm doing all I can.
12:05We are doing all I can to figure it out.
12:08There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
12:11We need a ladder.
12:34It's okay.
12:35We can fix it later.
12:37Today is the first day of our actual business.
12:42Yesterday, we were successful in the ceremony.
12:45We already served the samplers to a lot of people, so we are hoping that they will be going to show it up again.
12:53It's the first big day, so we're going to try to make some money today.
12:56Whatever we spend yesterday, we try to recover as much as possible.
12:59All right?
13:01Assign yourself a job and don't say it idle, okay?
13:04Jenny, you go.
13:06You have a coffee stall.
13:08What do we do?
13:09You go.
13:12Yesterday, we made absolutely no money because we were giving it away for free, and I was just standing like,
13:19don't you guys understand the concept of business?
13:23I'm more worried about making money so I can get out of the house and go back into our own apartment.
13:29I want to make money.
13:30We need to make money.
13:34Yes.
13:35Excuse me.
13:37Coffee, huh?
13:38It was cappuccino.
13:40Cappuccino?
13:41Ah.
13:43Oh, I got to find the milk container.
13:46This coffee machine that we're renting is so cool.
13:54It's the real deal.
13:55I mean, it comes with the fresh coffee beans grinder and everything attached.
14:01There's nothing like it anywhere else unless you go to Starbucks.
14:04Okay, I don't know where that container, the milk container is.
14:10Ha.
14:12Find it.
14:13I've been put in charge of the coffee machine by the family, and Sri showed me how to use it.
14:23But I'm not totally comfortable with it yet.
14:26I mean, I can make coffee at home, no problem.
14:29But this thing, I don't even know where to start.
14:33Oh, I have to grind the beans.
14:41I don't know how to do that.
14:43Papa!
14:44I have a customer standing here waiting for his coffee, and I have no idea how to make this
14:50grinder work.
14:53Sorry.
14:53How, how, how, how, how?
14:59What did you do before?
15:01Sorry.
15:02New.
15:03I'm new.
15:04I know you are new, but...
15:06I don't know what I have to do.
15:07I have to go somewhere.
15:08Okay.
15:10I'm going to eat the time.
15:15I don't know if it's connected to electricity.
15:20Actually, it's not plugged in.
15:23We didn't plug it in.
15:31Come to find out, it wasn't plugged in.
15:34And that's why it wouldn't turn on.
15:38You want me to help you?
15:40Jenny.
15:42Yeah.
15:44No, no.
15:47What do you mean, no, no?
15:48That's how you do it.
15:51Okay.
15:52That's a bad sell.
16:01You did.
16:03Then you have to try to do very quick.
16:06You know what I can do?
16:07I can go home.
16:10That's what I can do.
16:11You're a part of Family Cafe.
16:12This is our idea.
16:14You know, first customer loss is a big loss.
16:18Yeah, just like yesterday giving away free food was a big loss too.
16:22I'm doing my best, okay?
16:24If this is best, then you need to do a little more extra.
16:27I feel like so worried, disappointed, so frustrated.
16:33We were preparing for such a long time, like our first customer, and we lost it.
16:39I'm frustrated with her, but at the same time, I don't want other people to get mad at her, because everybody in the family finally getting along.
17:04And I don't want the stress of the business to ruin that.
17:08Thank you so much.
17:32Earlier today, my mom and I went car shopping, and she kind of dropped the bomb that she's going to financially cut me off.
17:44Hello, hello.
17:46Good evening.
17:46Good evening.
17:47I thought you were a waiter the way you came over.
17:50I think in a way, my mom is trying to create shocking situations so I can just switch up and be like, you know what, mom?
17:55I'm coming home, but no, that's just not happening.
18:02So, how was the whole car lot thing?
18:05Did you find anything interesting?
18:06Any cars?
18:07The price point was much higher.
18:10We couldn't even get it close to the range that you had thought it should be at.
18:15Okay.
18:15It would be something that we would need to purchase on, like, the internet in order to get anywhere near that pricing point.
18:23Yes, that was a total fail today.
18:25But now we just need to find a plan B, because that's not going to work.
18:30Right.
18:31And I think at that point, it should just bring her car, maybe.
18:36I don't know that that's an option either.
18:37Because Chloe and I had a conversation, you know, that I wasn't going to contribute financially anymore.
18:49So, this is something that, you know, Chloe needs to work through.
18:53Right?
18:56Right.
18:59The thing about Chloe is that she's always been catered her whole life.
19:03Always had that safety net, so she doesn't really know the concept of money.
19:06You know, like, maybe it's a good thing that Chloe's mom is actually cutting her off.
19:11Because, you know, I think she needs a more sense of reality.
19:14And I feel like if she doesn't have the funds to just do whatever she wants,
19:18she's going to really have to think smart on what she's going to do next.
19:22So, like, I feel like now is a good time to see if she really wants this.
19:26And, like, who she really is.
19:29You know?
19:31Chloe's going to need, you know, a more solid plan.
19:34And you and Chloe are going to need a more solid plan.
19:38Yeah.
19:39You know, getting the worker's permit is a really big deal.
19:44What is needed to get them?
19:46Um, you, yeah, you have to pay for the first permit.
19:49How much do you have to pay for the first permit?
19:51$600.
19:53$600?
19:54Yeah, for the first permit.
19:55But if, you know.
19:55You have to pay, like, a permit every three months.
19:57But if a company signs for you, they pay it.
20:00Wait a second.
20:01$600 to $800 and you have to do this every three months?
20:04The other way to go about it is if Jonathan and I went to the office together and Jonathan sponsors me.
20:10How can he sponsor you if he doesn't own a company?
20:13No, this is a different paper.
20:15This is, like, a partnership paper.
20:17Hang on, partnership?
20:19What does that mean?
20:19Like, married partner?
20:21No, that's a marriage certificate.
20:23It sounds like you have a lot more obstacles, um, just with papers than I thought that you did.
20:28Maybe you're just not listening.
20:30I am listening.
20:32Clearly not.
20:32So what's hard about walking into an office?
20:34Right, there's a lot of costs involved.
20:35Why are you being so negative about the situation being like, oh, well, it sounds like you have so many obstacles.
20:40Well, I just, I wasn't aware of the high costs.
20:43But I'm not asking you to pay for it.
20:45And I've made it clear that I'm not going to.
20:46Exactly, so don't make it so, like, out of reach.
20:49Like, just trust me, like, she's going to do it.
20:51Enough of the drama, to be quite honest with you.
20:54It's not about drama, but, like, the stuff.
20:55I flew all the way out here, and you know what?
20:56This isn't the first time I've come out here, okay?
20:58I've invested a lot of money.
20:59I know, you've been here many times.
20:59Yes, I have.
21:00But stop making it out to be like that, because it's frustrating.
21:03If you're going to decide to move there permanently, then, you know what?
21:06We need to have these conversations, and I don't care if you're frustrated or you're not.
21:08And we're having them, but have it in the back of your mind, as in, like, okay, like, stop.
21:12I'm trying to give you some ease.
21:16Specific ease, okay?
21:17This is my job out of living in a foreign country.
21:20I don't want to make things up to make you feel better.
21:22I'm doing all I can.
21:23We are doing all I can to figure it out.
21:25I feel like a lot more could have been done up until this point.
21:28No, you have to get here to do it.
21:30It's not something you can do from home.
21:35Okay, if you say so.
21:39So, I said that I will not financially support any longer.
21:44700 times.
21:45Yes.
21:46Agreed.
21:46However, there is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
21:54A lottery?
21:56Trust me, I play every weekend.
21:58If you both moved to Boston.
22:12Immediately to the left, you will find the bijou of the house.
22:15Oh, I love it.
22:19I thought we were supposed to be playing it cool.
22:22Yeah, that's exactly what I've done.
22:24Oh, look at that view.
22:26I'm here.
22:35I'm here.
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23:37Ben, um, you have the first room here, for your guests, children maybe, if you have one kid.
23:43Or even an office space, because I do sometimes, like, remote work, so I'm gonna need a room actually for work for sure.
23:50Oh, yeah, okay, but no, there's multiple rooms, wait.
23:54And here you will find the bijou of the house, handmade, not standard, exceptional.
24:03Oh, look at that sink.
24:06I love it.
24:07I f***ing love it.
24:09Look at that bathtub.
24:09It is really nice.
24:11And then you can go to the left, to the first big room.
24:16And there's another shower.
24:17Yes, yes, yes, there are three showers.
24:21There are three showers.
24:22I thought we were supposed to be playing it cool.
24:28Yeah, that's exactly what I've done.
24:30You show them interest, you show them you're excited, so they are like, ooh, she wants it.
24:34Okay.
24:35Like, who's the queen of networking, like you said?
24:39Bibi right here.
24:41Who doesn't have any friends, doesn't have any network?
24:45You.
24:45So please, trust me.
24:46Whoa, I'm not on my own anymore.
24:48I've got my companion.
24:49His name is Ben.
24:51Well, he's a baby who doesn't speak yet.
24:53Speaks to me.
24:55Oh, my gosh, can you imagine waking up naked from your bed with your cup of coffee?
25:01You just took your shower.
25:02Here are the birds.
25:03Here are the birds.
25:04Oh, look at that view.
25:09Can I cry?
25:11Go ahead.
25:13It has charm.
25:15It's not a prefab, like you say.
25:16It's not the standard.
25:18You can go in the pool naked and no one see you.
25:21It's so, like, private and stuff.
25:24I love what I see.
25:26There's a lot of potential, even if it's not completely quite perfect yet.
25:30There's a pool, which I said it's what I want.
25:32And the piece of resistance is an hour away from my parents' house.
25:37Far, but not too far.
25:38Close, but not too close.
25:39You know what I mean?
25:41All right.
25:42The price at the moment is $3.75.
25:47You were looking for this house, so I guess it's in your budget, because I guess you already
25:53talked with the banks, I guess, or not yet?
25:55Not yet.
25:56Mm-hmm.
25:56And we have great history.
25:58I don't have any loan.
25:59I don't have any debt.
26:00Sure, sure, sure.
26:00Nothing.
26:01My husband is a stay-at-home dad.
26:03He's not going to work just yet, because he speaks English.
26:06He has to learn French.
26:08It's going to take time.
26:09On my end, I still have a little bit of source of income from my agency, because I do have
26:15a business on my own.
26:15What are you doing?
26:16What are you doing?
26:16I have a social media and digital marketing agency.
26:20We sold our house in Los Angeles.
26:23We sold our car.
26:23We sold everything.
26:24We have right now a total of like around $100,000 cash that we have.
26:31Okay.
26:32So based on your experience, do you think it's possible for us to get a loan through a French
26:38bank?
26:39I think with everything what you were telling me, I don't know that many persons today who
26:46has one third in cash immediately.
26:49So I think it's going to be doable.
26:52But there's a but.
26:53I'm going to be very honest.
26:55That's my job also.
26:56Of course.
26:56Because I'm there also to tell you everything in all transparency.
26:59I will do the same.
26:59So the place is perfect.
27:01The house is perfect.
27:02But there is in the roof asbestos.
27:07Oh, there's asbestos.
27:09So there are the works to do on the roof.
27:13And it's around $40,000 to $45,000 to do all the works.
27:16Oh, wow.
27:17So she is ready to deduct that from this price.
27:20Oh.
27:21So like $335,000 instead of $375,000.
27:24Correct.
27:24Correct.
27:26Manon really knows how to make a house a home.
27:29I can see the wheels turning in her head.
27:32But I'm sitting there thinking, how well is it going to hold up?
27:35And there is asbestos.
27:37This is the first house we're seeing.
27:39And I know that we could find something better out there.
27:43I just hope that she can step back and understand where I'm coming from.
27:48Because it always ends up in a fight or some type of argument.
27:51And I don't want to get into it.
27:53All right.
27:57Bon appetit.
27:57Bon appetit.
27:58Very tender.
28:00Let me get a little something on your head.
28:02I hope it's not kangaroo.
28:06Wait a minute.
28:07Is it really kangaroo?
28:08Oh my God, that's beautiful.
28:33Look at that lake.
28:34Have you ever swam over there?
28:35Yeah, I've swam in there.
28:36Better watch out for the old crocs though.
28:39You're not swimming there if there's croc.
28:41It's bull****.
28:42So it can bite your, you know, choo-choo.
28:47Tonight we're having a family dinner at mum's house.
28:50And I know that Batia can't stand my mum.
28:54But at the end of the day, my relationship with my mum isn't going to change.
28:59She's always going to be in my life.
29:01So tonight I'm hoping they can really bury the hatchet.
29:05Hello.
29:05Hi.
29:08Hi.
29:09Welcome, Batia.
29:10How are you doing?
29:11I'm good.
29:11What about you?
29:12Good, good.
29:12Are you settling in?
29:13Yes.
29:14Hi, Batia.
29:15Good to see you.
29:16You look gorgeous here.
29:17Thank you.
29:19Being at Jo's house, I'm putting on a little bit of a front.
29:22What a beautiful view.
29:24It's gorgeous, isn't it?
29:25Yes.
29:26Like, I really want to make a good impression.
29:29And I want her to accept me.
29:31But at the same time, I'm, like, really dreading to have to sit down and talk to her because I really deep inside don't like her.
29:39Why don't I do some cooking?
29:41You guys relax, and I'll let you know when it's ready.
29:44Okay.
29:45Where's my sous chef?
29:46Here.
29:46Hey, you look good with that apron on.
29:55I'm so relieved that Dylan's cooking because I have this phobia that if somebody else cooks for me and they don't like me,
30:02I feel like just the thought of them not liking me, that the food is going to be contaminated.
30:09Is that sausage you're cooking?
30:11Do you like sausages?
30:12Yeah.
30:12Good.
30:13My mum always taught me not to eat out of your enemy's hands.
30:18I'm surprised Dylan hasn't kicked off those dirty big boots, Dylan.
30:22Yes, ma'am.
30:23I will take them off right now.
30:25Good boy.
30:25You should know better.
30:27You've got a lot of wallabies running around.
30:29You end up with poo on the carpet.
30:30It's naughty.
30:32I feel like my mum and Patea are both kind of putting on a performance.
30:37Dylan, you didn't tell me that your mum collects elephants too.
30:40It appears we have quite a bit in common, Patea.
30:42Yeah, I know.
30:43I was like, crystals and elephants.
30:46It's like, I want to see them sort of get along and be friends, but they both need to be honest first and stop pussyfooting around.
30:54Come on down.
30:57It looks good.
30:59All right.
30:59Bon appétit.
31:00Bon appétit.
31:02Very nice.
31:06Yes.
31:08Very tender.
31:10Mummy, you've got a little something on your head.
31:13I hope it's not kangaroo.
31:18Wait a minute.
31:19That's not kangaroo, is it?
31:20I know it was a little mean, but I just wanted you to try it.
31:33And I knew if I said it was kangaroo, you wouldn't try it.
31:35And this is how we eat down under.
31:37I told him not to feed me kangaroo, and he fed me kangaroo for dinner.
31:44Tasted like, you know, steak.
31:46But still, when I look at the kangaroo, I'm like, oh my God, I can't eat you.
31:51It's actually really good to see you and Patia in the same space.
31:56I know that Patia sort of felt like we were sort of talking too much.
32:01You didn't like our relationship, that we were a bit close, did you?
32:05Well, I don't know.
32:07You can be honest.
32:08No, no.
32:09In the past, Dylan told me that you wanted him to marry somebody younger, closer to his age,
32:15and give him kids.
32:16It just made me so mad.
32:17I'm like, oh, I want nothing to do with her.
32:18I don't want to talk to her.
32:19I don't want her calling you.
32:21That's been embedded in my mind, and that's where the resentment with you talking to Dylan comes from.
32:33I've never said that.
32:34And you know what?
32:34I couldn't give a toss to back, grandchildren.
32:36Yeah, that's the only...
32:37Do you think maybe that was like just a thought, a fear that you had?
32:41No, no.
32:41You said it, babe.
32:42You said it.
32:43You were very mad, and you said that several times.
32:46Did you, Dylan?
32:46Because I've never, ever said that.
32:48I don't remember saying that, no.
32:50Okay, well, I've never said anything like that.
32:55Liar, liar, pants on fire.
32:57I feel like they're in cahoots with each other, and they won't admit that they said it.
33:01I mean, why would I make it up?
33:02I mean, I'm not crazy.
33:03Who makes that crap up?
33:06So that comment never happened.
33:07So aside from that, is there anything else underneath any of that?
33:12No, that's it.
33:12That's it.
33:13I can't believe it.
33:14Just sort of felt sometimes when Dylan's been on the phone,
33:17I've said, oh, hi, Patia, how are you going?
33:19Like, you know, I'm happy to engage, but I don't think you like that.
33:24No, it's because of what he said.
33:28I've never said to Dylan that he should be with somebody younger.
33:32I can't imagine Dylan saying that to Patia.
33:34I really can't.
33:37It's an odd thing to say.
33:39It's very odd.
33:39It is an odd thing to say.
33:41It just seems strange.
33:43Two and two's not adding up.
33:44I'm so sorry, Jo, really.
33:50It stemmed from that.
33:52Well, thank you.
33:53I really appreciate that.
33:54Yeah.
33:55Because all these years, I thought, God, I haven't done anything.
33:58I just, you know, I was happy for you.
34:00Really?
34:00Yeah.
34:01I've never, ever had an issue with the age.
34:03So he must have said that to try to make me mad or something.
34:06He'll say some hateful things.
34:08No, I know.
34:08Because he just lashes out.
34:11Yeah, I get that.
34:12But then he regrets it afterwards.
34:14Mm-hmm.
34:15Don't you, Dylan?
34:17Yes.
34:20Yeah, well, I apologise if I did say that.
34:22Let's move forward from that.
34:26Did you really never tell Patia that your mum wished you were with somebody younger?
34:32Hmm.
34:35I might have said that when I was angry,
34:38but I don't remember the specifics.
34:41It was a long time ago.
34:43So that's put to bed, all right?
34:45Finally.
34:45But now there's still the constant issue of me talking to my mum.
34:50And it's always a problem.
34:51Well, that's where it stems from, is the fact that you said that.
34:54I think that's a bit of a cop-out, really.
34:56No, it's not.
34:56It's like...
34:57No, it's not a cop-out.
34:59I just feel like us chatting on the phone every now and then
35:03is still going to be an issue.
35:04No, it's not going to be an issue.
35:06Are you sure?
35:07Yes.
35:07If you want to talk to Dylan as much as you want,
35:09then I'm OK with it now.
35:12Problem solved.
35:16I'm so mad at Dylan because I hated her, I resented her,
35:20and I held this resentment and hate for many, many years.
35:24Well, thank you for having us come over.
35:26You're very welcome.
35:28Now I'm looking at Dylan and I'm questioning my relationship
35:31because Dylan had been lying to me about it.
35:35I don't want to be in a relationship like that.
35:39It's going to take you so long to find a job here,
35:43and you're going to make pennies.
35:46It's very hurtful to hear her.
35:47It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for her.
35:50You are never, ever going to be able to make like I do.
35:54That was amazing.
36:17That was insightful.
36:20Today, Anthony and I saw a home for sale,
36:23and I'm excited just thinking about it.
36:26Oh, well, there's a lot to talk about, honey.
36:32Oh, my American boy.
36:34No, boy, I am a man.
36:37You're a man.
36:38Yes, you are my American man who I love so much.
36:43That went so well.
36:45He said he's confident we can make it happen, you know?
36:50I mean, I definitely think it's possible,
36:52but I think it's like looking at other stuff
36:54because you might find something else you like more
36:57that's not going to need a new roof.
37:00Okay.
37:01Honestly, I was really in love with the house.
37:05But there's asbestos in the roof.
37:08So I understand Anthony,
37:10and I'm kind of grateful for him nitpicking.
37:14But the good news that you talked to me
37:16about financials and everything,
37:18saying it's totally possible.
37:20So let's just go visit a little more,
37:22and maybe I can manifest actually my dream house, you know?
37:26So, like, a big thing I feel
37:29that needs to be addressed the most is employment.
37:34Mm-hmm.
37:35That's the next step.
37:36I agree.
37:36We cannot buy a house without income.
37:39If I build a business for a long time,
37:41I'm not going to be able to get a salary or to make money.
37:44So I don't know.
37:45I can find something else, too.
37:47Part-time, remote.
37:48But, you know, speaking of, like, working,
37:54I like where we are now.
37:56I know we're living with your parents,
37:59but Ben has been way better with you.
38:01Oh, yeah, I know.
38:02I love it.
38:02You've taken a lot more initiative
38:04with the food, with everything.
38:06You're, instead of, like, asking me if I need help,
38:08you're actually, like, doing things.
38:11I'm going to run some errands.
38:13Yeah.
38:13Yeah, I'm going to run some errands.
38:14It'll be time for his lunch soon,
38:16so you just bread, cheese, whatever.
38:18OK, I love you.
38:23I love you, too.
38:25We're starting to get the balance we need.
38:28But, granted, we're not working,
38:31but I'm starting to see the positive changes already
38:33in moving to France.
38:35But we cannot deny that in life, we are not rich.
38:38We don't have, like, money coming in from the sky every month.
38:42We're still going to need to finally come.
38:44I understand that.
38:45Balance or not, we're still going to have to.
38:47I'm just scared.
38:48that you are going to go over.
38:51No, no, no, why not?
38:53I know how passionate you get with work.
38:55And you're already talking about
38:57starting your own business here.
38:59And another thing about moving here
39:01was that you would step back
39:03and maybe I would take over the providing more, right?
39:05And now it seems like you're full steam ahead
39:08on you doing the solo providing again.
39:11It's because it's going to take you so long
39:14to find a job here.
39:15And even if you find a job here,
39:17you are never, ever going to be able to make like I do.
39:24Still, you don't speak French.
39:26How are you going to find a job?
39:28And what type of job?
39:30What type of job?
39:30Without speaking French,
39:31the only thing that comes to mind
39:32is speaking English to kids
39:35so that they can learn it.
39:36But you're going to make pennies doing that here.
39:40It's very hurtful to hear.
39:46She would love for me to be providing,
39:49but I'll never make as much as her.
39:52And the term I hate the most that she uses
39:54is that I would make pennies.
39:56I feel like it's not true.
39:58It just would take time for me to get to that space.
40:01And it makes me feel like
40:03I'm not good enough for her, essentially.
40:06I love you, and we moved here to stay together.
40:12I want to be married.
40:13I want our family to be together.
40:16I am just scared
40:17because I've seen how passionate you can get with work.
40:22If I work less, I'll be fine.
40:24Antonia and I want to be out of my parents' house.
40:30And I'm not trying to be harsh or anything, you know?
40:32Like, I know France, and he doesn't.
40:35I know the economy here.
40:37So I'm just trying to be practical.
40:39And me working may be our best shot.
40:42I don't want to survive in France.
40:46If I moved to France,
40:48it's to actually be more comfortable and thrive.
40:51Or I would have stayed in the U.S.
40:53So no way I'm just surviving here.
40:54Sorry, not sorry.
40:58Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
41:01All right.
41:03I know he's here to judge and to be negative.
41:08I don't trust him at all.
41:11You don't have chefs.
41:12Your parents are cooking food.
41:14Who does that?
41:15This is not a real business, what he's doing.
41:18It will be closed soon.
41:22No, I'm not going there.
41:24This is awesome.
41:25This is, like, all I've wanted to do since we've been here.
41:29Seeing Menone's reaction to the farm,
41:31I'm questioning my decision on the surprise.
41:34I found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday.
41:42I am absolutely pissed that Johnny was not faithful to my daughter.
41:48I can't even put into words how disappointed I am.
41:52If you can't trust somebody, you shouldn't be committing anything to him, let alone changing your entire life.
41:57Look at this.
41:59I had to move some money around.
42:04It was $2,000.
42:06Is this a good use of money?
42:07I don't know.
42:08I think I, like, give you a pretty good life, and it seems like you're always mad at me.
42:13Yes, I am.
42:14You always make me mad.
42:15You never make me happy.
42:17Exactly.
42:18So, like, what are we doing here?
42:20If this is anything like what our marriage is going to be, holy do we have problems.
42:25This isn't the life that I signed up for.
42:27F*** you.
42:28F*** you.
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