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00:00Hey, Real Short fans, it's Rebecca Stoughton, and today on Real Talk, things are about to get explosive.
00:06I'm reuniting with the flirts, the heartbreakers, and yes, the saboteurs of love bombing.
00:12We are reliving the drama and finding out what really happened behind the scenes.
00:16Love, lies, and maybe a few receipts.
00:20Let's find out.
00:30Oh my gosh, you guys, it is so crazy seeing you all in the same room again.
00:42Look at you, you look gorgeous.
00:44It's good to be back with everybody.
00:47I miss your guys' faces.
00:49I know, right?
00:49Oh my gosh.
00:50I feel like we spent so much time together for such a, you know, so many consecutive days.
00:56It was like literally so weird, the like, not seeing you guys for 10 hours a day for a week's dream.
01:01Yeah, it was like the day after was weird.
01:03I was like, whoa, hold on a second.
01:05It was like a boot camp for you guys, yeah?
01:07Yeah.
01:07A little?
01:08A whole lot of trauma.
01:09A whole lot of trauma.
01:10Trauma bondage.
01:11Just in general.
01:12All right, you guys, let's go into day one.
01:15The swiping.
01:17Tell me, I'm going to go down the line here, tell me how you guys must have been feeling at the beginning,
01:21before you met each other, before you knew each other, going through that process.
01:24I can't even imagine the emotions.
01:26So Patches, I'm going to start with you.
01:28I'm looking for someone who has drive.
01:29I don't like people who are floating and have like no direction.
01:33I'm just that kind of person.
01:35There's no one that I really feel like a spark with immediately.
01:38I like somebody who's motivated, knows what they're doing, knows what they want to do,
01:41knows what they want their future to look like.
01:43Oh, Esha.
01:45No, I honestly like the swiping.
01:46It was kind of strange because I feel like a lot of people were like just stepping back
01:52because they didn't want to get rejected on camera.
01:55Like that's how I honestly felt about the swipe game.
01:57It's just like everyone, even if they wanted to say yes,
01:59if they saw the person kind of leaning backwards, they'd be like,
02:02like, you know, kind of thing.
02:04Yeah.
02:04My perspective also on the swipe game is I didn't really see anybody,
02:08but I was like super like, oh my God, like I want to, I want to talk to them.
02:11Like, you know, so for me, that's like, I was like stepping back most of the time.
02:16Yeah.
02:16But yeah, that's what was pretty much my experience with it, I feel like.
02:19How many times did you go up?
02:20I think I went up like four or five times.
02:23Yeah, damn.
02:23At one point I went up with Jude.
02:25We did, yeah.
02:26Sorry, Jude.
02:28I stepped back.
02:30That's my bad.
02:30Well, I did too.
02:31You're a great friend.
02:32You're a great friend.
02:33It was good.
02:33Right, right.
02:35Patches, let me ask you that.
02:36And you stepped back quite a bit.
02:37There was nobody you said you were interested in.
02:38Yeah, how many really caught my eye?
02:40Like, yeah, from a, because it was all physical.
02:42Like, at this point, we hadn't really talked to one another.
02:46Like, we didn't get to meet everybody.
02:47Like, it was literally just purely based off of, like, looks and vibes is what we had
02:52to, like, judge it off of.
02:54And you had more of a design, right?
02:56I think.
02:56Yes.
02:57I had, like, definitely, like, more of a look going on just because, like, I think
03:00our, like, our call time that day was, I think, like, 8 or 9 a.m.
03:05And the call time, no, I think it was 9 a.m.
03:07And the call time, the rest of the week was, like, 7 a.m.
03:10And so, I had, I only, I got to wake up at 6.
03:13So, I had, like, you know, not that much sleep, but, like, more compared to the rest
03:17of the week.
03:17So, I had more time to really, like, get it together.
03:20Like, you know, and also, that corset I was wearing the first day, it was so hot.
03:25It was, like, 84 degrees outside, I think, in Tarzana.
03:30Like, it was, it was so hot.
03:32Like, I, like, I remember, like, after I did, like, my confessional, I remember just,
03:37like, ripping it off before I even walked over to, like, my car to leave for the day.
03:40Because it was just, like, sweat.
03:42I think you looked absolutely stunning, though, honestly.
03:44It was a fire outfit for the first day.
03:46And nothing melted.
03:48Yeah, it looked great the whole day.
03:50I had no idea how that happened.
03:51I was looking at you throughout the day, and I was, like, I'm melting.
03:54Yeah.
03:55You, from day one, you were analyzing them physically to see if they could handle you
03:59behind the eyes.
04:01I was basically, it's very much, like, I just, you know, someone who matched my freak.
04:05Yeah, I just was someone who matched my freak.
04:07I love it.
04:07There is really no freak to be matched.
04:10There's also Rain.
04:11He was shirtless during half the time.
04:14The shirtless guy with the boobs.
04:19It's a no.
04:20Already?
04:21Damn.
04:22Wait for the countdown, girl.
04:24He told me to come dressed in comfort, so, you know, I came as is.
04:30Rain.
04:31Right, right.
04:31Yeah, he, um, I don't know why he decided to have his shirt off the whole time.
04:36That was a red flag for me already, off the bat, red flag.
04:39No, the red flag for me wasn't the shirt off.
04:41It was the, that, the bouncing.
04:44But the excessive bouncing.
04:45I think he does it, like, involuntarily.
04:49I'm not kidding.
04:49They have minds of, I'm not kidding.
04:51Like, when he gets, like, excited, I think, like, his, they just, they just move.
04:54Like, I'm sorry, but if you, if you want a good drinking game, just take a shot every
05:00single time he moves his pecs, and you will probably take, like, 200 shots.
05:04Yeah, don't do that.
05:05You'll end up in the hospital.
05:07Robin, let me ask you, since you said that that was a red flag for you, having the shirt
05:11off, but Biagio was not a red flag for you.
05:14You ready?
05:15I was born ready.
05:16I would love, uh, someone with a deep understanding.
05:19I, I, I'd like to have someone with, with similarities.
05:22If we can both have the same, uh, like, values or path, like, if we both are creatives, that,
05:27that'd be great.
05:28Hello.
05:28Hi.
05:29What's your name?
05:30Robin.
05:30What's your name?
05:31Biagio.
05:32Say it?
05:32Biagio.
05:33Biagio.
05:33No, well, when we first got there, like, you know, like, whatever call time, early in the
05:37morning, they had a sitting there for a long time.
05:39Something that I remembered that it was really kind of split, like, there was, like, a fountain
05:42in the middle, if you remember?
05:43And, like, there was, like, the people on this side, and there was the people on that
05:45side, and then I didn't really see anybody of the people on that side, and it was kind
05:48of, like, split, like, guys and girls, so I was over here with, you know, with the ladies
05:51and, like, you know, like, chit-chatting and talking, so I didn't really get to see a
05:54whole lot of them, but, um, just, like, from, like, the casual, like, glances across,
05:59I didn't see really anybody who, like, caught my eye.
06:02Like, like, as you said, like, it was all kind of, like, one, very, one, you know,
06:05brand of guy, and, like, that's fine.
06:09It's not our brand.
06:10Yeah, yeah, this is, like, fine, whatever, and then I remember, like, sitting there,
06:15and then, like, somebody walked in late, and he, like, walked by me, and I kind of clocked
06:18him, and I was, like, okay, so they got one.
06:20They got one guy that's different from all the rest that, like, could, like, you know,
06:25possibly, like, look nice, no offense, but, like, could be, like, really nice, and, you
06:30know, I learned later on that that was Biago who, like, walked in, he was, like, wearing,
06:34like, a sweater, and, like, his, like, jewelry that was, like, really cool.
06:37Yeah, it was very unique.
06:38Yeah, rather than just, like, you know, the, you know, too tight t-shirt and jeans,
06:42you know, the other guys were wearing.
06:45I'm sorry.
06:45I felt that was directed directly at you.
06:48Dude's, like, I did everything right.
06:49I was in the scope right there, yeah.
06:51I mean, all right.
06:52I was going to say, yeah, black t-shirt, the tank pants, like, yeah.
06:56Totally whack, am I right, ladies?
06:58Noted.
06:59So, for the guys out there, the girls want something different.
07:01We don't want a black t-shirt.
07:03We want unique.
07:04Not all of us mind.
07:04Not all of us mind.
07:05Not all of us mind.
07:07Okay.
07:07Yeah.
07:08Emily, let's talk.
07:09Let's talk about you during this moment.
07:11Yeah.
07:12Well, in the beginning, it was funny, because I walked in, I had the same sort of, like,
07:16oh, everybody here is hot LA.
07:18Right.
07:19Actor, model type vibe.
07:21Sure.
07:21I don't mind that vibe.
07:22Okay.
07:23I'm cool with that vibe.
07:24So, I walked in, and I was like, okay, cool.
07:25Everyone's hot.
07:26Great.
07:26But I do understand what you're saying about, like, you know, wanting a little something
07:31different.
07:32Yeah.
07:33But yeah, I didn't, I was cool.
07:34And this is the part that, like, I felt so bad about, but I came late.
07:39Whoops.
07:40And the girls were already all sitting at that one side, and the boys were on, were actually
07:45kind of all scattered around.
07:47So, the other side that ended up being the boys' side was more empty.
07:51So, I sat over there, and then eventually became the guys' side, and I'm just, like,
07:55the one girl talking to all the guys.
07:57And I was just like, damn, like, I look like such a pick-me right now.
08:00But I promise that was not, that was not on purpose.
08:05But yeah, so because of that, I got to talk to a few people before the matching, which
08:10was nice.
08:11But still, not enough time to be like, oh, yeah, I want to step forward for you.
08:14And you can only step forward for one person.
08:15So, do you think people were stepping back because they wanted to see all their options?
08:20Yes, or?
08:21You think that's a great question?
08:23That's a fantastic question.
08:24Thank you, Jude.
08:25Of course, yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:26I'd love to hear what you think about it.
08:28I, um, well, I just, I just think that overall, it was a huge, I think everyone's ego got in
08:33the way.
08:33Interesting.
08:34Everyone's ego got in the way, where it was like, you know, including my, I'm not separating
08:38myself from this.
08:38It was like, it was like, I don't, yeah, it's when you get in front of the lights and the
08:42cameras, you just don't want to be the one that says yes.
08:45Get rejected.
08:45You know, but, like, ultimate power to you if you're able to do that.
08:48Yeah, I feel like it's human nature, and I feel like that's kind of what we all fell
08:52under.
08:52There was a long time where everyone, there were no matches for the longest time.
08:57Everyone was really scared.
08:58Like, that's what, like, exactly.
09:00Like, it was ego and like, everyone just being scared to like, be the one rejected in front
09:04of the camera because you're afraid that clip is going to make it.
09:07Do you guys have any regrets with how yours turned out?
09:10Do you regret matching?
09:11Are you guys happy?
09:13No, I mean, I feel like I got pretty lucky.
09:15That was like the thing that I wasn't going into it, like, expecting to match up with anybody
09:20because like, you know, I looked around me and I was like, oh, whatever.
09:23But I remember like, as like, we're like waiting in line, I remember that, you know, the girls
09:27were going up, you know, pretty quickly.
09:29And then like, I was like asking, we're asking around on our side saying like, like, how
09:33many times have you gone?
09:33Like, like three, four times.
09:34How many times have you gone?
09:35Three, four, three, four times.
09:36And I'm like looking over on the other side and I go, there's some guys that I don't think I've
09:39seen step up to the plate and some guys who I've seen like multiple times.
09:43So I think that's another thing that the girls were waiting on is like for, you know, a full
09:47cycle of the guys to go because like, you know, the same, like, you know, four guys kept
09:51on going up, you know, trying to shoot their shot, which kudos to them.
09:56But, you know, they're, you know, taking up some time.
09:59But yeah.
10:00And then I think like it was Biagio's like second time up and then like, we hadn't like
10:05stepped in front of each other.
10:07Yeah.
10:07And then like, like everyone, all the girls were like, like, oh, like we've already like
10:10seen it.
10:11They were kind of like, you know, getting a little, you know, bored of this.
10:13And I was like, I might as well, you know, the worst thing that happens, he steps back
10:18and I could walk into the flaming fireplace right behind us.
10:21So that'd be cool.
10:22He came up and then, you know, I stepped forward.
10:23And he was like, like, hi, I'm Biagio.
10:26And I go, you're talking to me.
10:28Hi.
10:28Hi.
10:29Yeah.
10:29I didn't know we could, I'm like looking at like, can we do that?
10:31Can we speak?
10:32And so like, we're really like chatting a little bit and then I couldn't wipe a smile
10:37off my face.
10:37And, and, and he was, you know, smiling a lot too.
10:40And then, you know, they're like, okay, quiet down.
10:42And then they like said three and then we both stepped forward.
10:44And I was like, thank God.
10:46Cause then I, like how silly would it have been for me to like read it wrong just for him to play
10:52me, you know, and then I stepped forward and he's like, ha, ha, but I'm the first match
10:57too, right?
10:58No, we were.
10:59We're, no, me and Olivia were.
11:08Olivia walks up to me and she's a very like go-getter mindset.
11:11She walks up to me.
11:12She goes, she goes, we're matching and we're going to win this whole thing.
11:15She holds out her hand like this.
11:16I was like, okay, I was like, I was a little more shy to do it, but no, for sure.
11:20Yeah.
11:20Cause you guys were talking before, right?
11:22Part of that group.
11:22Yeah.
11:23Yeah.
11:23Yeah.
11:23We were sitting next to each other the entire time, you know, talking about whatever and
11:26stuff like that.
11:27Yeah.
11:27So me and Olivia ended up, uh, ended up matching.
11:30Yeah.
11:30Very first I was just, yeah.
11:31But I was like, I was like, I don't even know.
11:33Like, I don't, I honestly had no plan going into it.
11:36Wow.
11:36I probably should have maybe a little bit.
11:38Right.
11:38But we did end up actually, uh, Matt, you know, going up and I was like, yeah, I'm going to say
11:41yes.
11:41You know, cause how bad would I look if I, if I shook her hand saying we're going to
11:45match, but no, but she's, she's very beautiful.
11:48I was going to say she's hot.
11:49Yeah.
11:49Right.
11:49Right.
11:49Yeah.
11:49Yeah.
11:50But you matched with her mainly, you guys matched together to win, not because you felt
11:54an actual connection.
11:55That was, that was her thing.
11:56And I was like, I'm on board.
11:57And Robin, you, yours wasn't about money at all.
12:00No.
12:01I mean, there was like that hint of it.
12:04And then like, after we matched, like we went off and like, we started getting to know each
12:08other and I was waiting for the, you know, kind of the drop of the facade where, you
12:12know, he's like, like, okay, I'm just, I'm just in it for like, I know, like we were probably
12:15like, I'm just in it for, you know, the, the content.
12:18And I'd be like, sure, totally fine.
12:21But no, we were like, you know, actually like talking and like really getting to know each
12:24other.
12:24It really felt like, you know, you know, kismet just like, you know, us like talking.
12:28And then like, we like chit chatted like that whole time.
12:31Robin, I just really have to ask.
12:32How is it going?
12:33Because like, you guys stay together till the end.
12:36And I want to know how that's going.
12:40Um, nothing.
12:42Oh, nothing.
12:43I believe the term that the Gen Zs are calling it now.
12:47I've been ghosted.
12:48Oh, yeah.
12:50We, um, well, if I could go into it now, unless this is later on.
12:54No, please.
12:54Um, uh, on the fourth day, third date, when I'm in the pink dress, um, after shooting
13:03that, because like the couples were only there for, you know, the, um, the filming of like
13:07our date.
13:08And then we got to go home, you know, like we stole some lunch.
13:11Who's that like?
13:11We got to go home.
13:11I know.
13:12You guys have to stay the whole day.
13:13That's why I'm like, I'm really like, I just know what I did.
13:16That's why I want to see what you guys did, because I didn't see your guys' dates.
13:20I didn't see what you guys were talking about.
13:21Yeah.
13:21Any of that.
13:22And they were being really, you know, um, like, like, don't go in there.
13:25Like, like be way away from that room because they're saying stuff.
13:28Like, I, I almost never got to see you guys except when we were on lunch.
13:31But, um, and, and even then, like, you know, Yaj and I really just like isolated ourselves.
13:35We were just over there yapping.
13:37But, um, yeah, on the, uh, third date, fourth day, uh, we were clocking out and we were
13:46like, like, like, you know, grabbing some lunch before we head out.
13:49And then, you know, he's carrying my bag to my car.
13:51Very nice.
13:52Very gentlemanly.
13:53And, um, he was like, oh, I have to like do these, uh, self tapes and I need to like,
13:59like film that.
13:59And then this is the first time you're hearing this.
14:01I, I, I, I'm just going to be more vague about it.
14:04But, um, so he's like, oh, I have to do these like self tapes at home.
14:06And I'm like, okay, cool.
14:07You know, I have like, you know, my hours long drive back to my house.
14:11So, you know, like, we'll like chit chat later.
14:13But, um, as we're driving, like, like he's driving in front of me and then like, I'm like
14:16behind him.
14:17And then he, like, I see him roll down his window and he does like this to like, like,
14:21cause he sees me behind him and I'm like, oh my God, that's so cute.
14:23Hi.
14:24And then we're on the freeway and he's like, he's like doing this and he calls me on my phone.
14:28And then like, you know, we're driving.
14:30I go, this is very dangerous.
14:32What do you, what do you need?
14:33And he said that like, oh, his friend who was going to help him cancel, who was going
14:38to help him with his self tapes canceled.
14:40Do you think he can be like my reader for like my self tapes?
14:42I'm going to come over to my house.
14:43And I was like, sure, absolutely.
14:45I'm an actor.
14:46You're an actor.
14:46There was no friend, by the way.
14:47It's like, yeah.
14:48I did think, I did think.
14:51He went like this out the window.
14:53Yeah.
14:53You know, that was that, that's the setup.
14:55Yeah.
14:55He's just setting himself up.
14:57Yeah.
14:57But, um, so I went over to his house, we did the two self tapes and then like, we like ate the
15:02lunch that like, you know, we had smuggled out of there, but then we spent the whole
15:06rest of the day just like talking in like, you know, like how like hours will go by when
15:11you're talking to somebody and like, like there's never like a lull in the conversation.
15:14I met his roommates and like, we're just like, you know, talking such a boy apartment, which
15:18is like, you know, but, uh, we just like gone to talking and, uh, uh, we just, I called
15:26it a night and I was like, it's like 10 30.
15:28We need to go back for like for filming again.
15:30I need to like, you know, look presentable.
15:32So, um, I call a night.
15:33He walked me to my car.
15:35He gave me another peck on the cheek.
15:37No, that was on the lips.
15:38The other car before we, we kissed on and off the show, which is, you know, why I was,
15:45I'm proud to say I caused the first one.
15:47You did.
15:49You did.
15:50And, uh, oh my gosh, that day, like I, I, I like drove home and like, I ran to my roommates
15:54and I was like, I kissed a boy today.
15:56It was crazy because I was not expecting it.
15:59Then like, it's like getting up to the time.
16:00Like I'm like with my friends, like my, my lead in was like, oh, I met your roommates.
16:04You know, I'm going out with my roommates.
16:05You can meet my roommates now, you know, that kind of thing.
16:08Uh, uh, but he like had canceled last minute.
16:11And then I had to like go to my, like my friends, like my roommates and be like, oh, the guy
16:14that I told you about, like, he's not coming.
16:16And I had to get these looks, the, oh, Robin, I'm sorry.
16:20And I'm like, oh, that's worse.
16:23That feels worse than just having him canceled.
16:25That feels worse.
16:26And then like, like the, the next, like, like two days go by.
16:30And then like, I offer again, like, like, Hey, like I'm ending like my work day in LA.
16:34I know you might be in the area.
16:35Do you want to get, grab some lunch?
16:37He came up with this huge more self tapes that he had to do.
16:39And then I was like, heard, heard.
16:42And then we hadn't, we haven't spoken since.
16:45And I never really got closure on that, but you know, and I mean, I think I said this in
16:52the, um, confessionals where like, if nothing comes from this, I'm just happy to have had
16:57a crazy fun week.
16:58And it was, it was really, really fun to connect with someone to have that spark.
17:02Cause I hadn't had that in a long time.
17:03And it felt nice.
17:04Like, I know we shouldn't get like validation from like men and such, but it felt nice to
17:08feel, you know, that somebody thought I was cute and funny and happy to talk to me.
17:12And like, and it was like really nice.
17:13And then now, you know, go be free butterfly, you know, go live your life.
17:19I only wish the best things for you.
17:20And I'm going to be over here, you know, living mine.
17:24Yeah.
17:24Such a positive attitude, Robyn.
17:26You honestly, wow.
17:27What a great, wow.
17:28What a great outlook on it.
17:30Cause it could go either way, but if you guys don't mind on that note, since it doesn't
17:36sound like the experience was miserable, let's relive some of it.
17:39What do you guys think?
17:39I'd love that.
17:40Yeah.
17:41I'm so excited.
17:42I would love that.
17:4440 singles.
17:46Oh my God.
17:47One goal.
17:48Hey.
17:49Hey.
17:49Oh, crazy.
17:50Oh, there he is.
17:51Stop.
17:51Stop.
17:52To find out who our lovely thought.
17:54Thanks.
17:55Okay.
17:55Thanks guys.
17:56I'm the dark home.
17:57Oh, they'll come to the front to meet the person across from them.
18:01If you like what you see, take a step forward.
18:04Big five saves lives.
18:05Oh.
18:08There's one guy.
18:09Sums it up.
18:09The step back on tiger lily is crazy.
18:11My friend is coupled up with him.
18:13Who?
18:14Jude.
18:15I know.
18:16Ah.
18:17There I am.
18:18Wait, wait.
18:19There's another guy too.
18:19Guy with glasses.
18:21I think he's cute.
18:22Really?
18:23Was that?
18:23That was you.
18:24Yeah.
18:25How do you feel about that?
18:26Wow, I didn't know.
18:27I had absolutely no clue because he was a part of the table we were talking to.
18:30You wish you would have matched a tiger lily instead now?
18:32Oh, I'm not going to say instead, but like.
18:35I'm trying to stir the pot a little.
18:36Oh my God.
18:38I'm so out of place.
18:41I look like a bitch.
18:42Look at that fire outfit though.
18:45You know, in the sun.
18:45So beautiful.
18:46How hot it was that day.
18:47Yeah.
18:49The look.
18:50Love the look.
18:51That look doesn't eat though.
18:52I do.
18:53That's one of my favorite outfits.
18:54It eats.
18:55You know, there's a lot of good things.
18:57There's a lot of good qualities about them.
18:58I think I would just shun those.
19:00Oh, I love Jude.
19:02Such a cutie.
19:05There it is.
19:06Hug.
19:07It's so awkward.
19:08Yeah.
19:08Hug, what are you guys doing?
19:09See, foreshadowing.
19:11Foreshadowing.
19:11Well, at least he didn't hump her.
19:12What were you feeling in this moment here?
19:14I was, it was very awkward.
19:16Awkward, being awkward was the most, um, I didn't want to like force myself onto her.
19:21Of course.
19:21I kind of want, you know, but then they said hug and I was like, I'm open, you know, ready,
19:24I'm ready.
19:25Hug.
19:25Yeah, right.
19:26Very gentleman-like.
19:27And I, like, turned away really quickly and said, like, don't get attached.
19:32Don't get attached.
19:35Wow, so cute.
19:36Aw.
19:37I think they're matching before they're matching.
19:40That's all right.
19:41Yeah, yeah.
19:41Oh, my God.
19:51Yeah, this is great.
19:51We know what's going to happen.
19:53We're still like, I know.
19:54Not the face, Rob.
19:56I was like, damn, is he going to kiss her?
19:58Yeah, right.
19:58Also foreshadowing.
19:59Oh.
20:00Robin, feeling, watching it back now, how are you feeling about this moment?
20:03Oh, my God.
20:04Is it his magical?
20:05I still have a smile on.
20:06His smile is killer.
20:08I can't imagine.
20:09Yeah.
20:10He outshone every other guy here.
20:12Oh, have you seen it?
20:13I haven't.
20:14You should look.
20:16Aw.
20:17First date before they even said yes.
20:19They were already.
20:20Yeah, literally.
20:22So fun.
20:23Yeah, right.
20:24So fun.
20:26All right, you guys.
20:27Now seeing that, I want to know a little bit more about the saboteurs.
20:34Hey, everybody.
20:35Hi.
20:36We're friends.
20:37Nice to see you, Bob.
20:38Yeah.
20:38So as you guys know, $2,000 was on the line.
20:41Were you guys excited to be saboteurs?
20:44Were you upset?
20:45What was going through your heads?
20:46I personally was super excited about it just because, like, obviously the idea of, like,
20:52winning, like, prize money.
20:53Because, like, at that point, like, we had figured, like, if you didn't match, like, you
20:57weren't coming back any of the other days.
20:59So we just figured, like, we were gone.
21:00Like, that's what was happening.
21:01So it was really exciting, like, that even though we didn't match with anybody, that we
21:06still had the opportunity to come back and be involved in the whole process.
21:12And then also, like, obviously it's not fun having to ruin people's dates and, like, you
21:18know, like, basically crap on their, yeah, on their love life.
21:22I don't know about that one.
21:25For the camera.
21:25For the camera.
21:26Yeah.
21:27For the camera.
21:28I promise I am not that much of a bitch in real life.
21:30I promise.
21:30I'm so sorry.
21:32Same.
21:32Like, we want to preference that it was all, like, um.
21:36We hyped it up, okay?
21:37We hyped it up because we had to hype it up to win two grand.
21:41That was what was on the line.
21:42It was just very exciting to know that we still had, like, a role in the show and it
21:46wasn't, like, over for us, essentially.
21:48Totally.
21:48Totally.
21:49Yeah.
21:49I mean, I, like I said earlier, um, I did have a connection with somebody, but we got
21:55brought back as singles anyway.
21:57Yeah.
21:57So, honestly, it was fun.
21:59I had no idea what to expect.
22:00I didn't know what it meant.
22:01I didn't know, you know, if it was a good thing or a bad thing, but I actually ended
22:05up now, looking back, I'm happy that I got brought back as a saboteur because we got
22:09to spend so much more time together.
22:11Totally.
22:11Because as a couple, you only got to go on the one date, you know, and whatnot, but we
22:16spent literally the entire day just kiki.
22:19And also just, like, because we watched every single date, like, on, like, you know, like,
22:23day two when, like, the first date's wrapping, we watched everybody's, you know, like, all
22:27the dates.
22:27And so it was just, like, watching, like, a live reality show was no cut.
22:31Yeah.
22:31Like, you know what I mean?
22:32Like, that's what it was.
22:33And, like, um, and in the room where we were watching them too, there wasn't, like, sometimes
22:37there, like, wasn't enough headsets for everybody.
22:39So you would just see people, like, cranking the volume all the way up and putting them
22:42next to each other's ears because some of the dates, like, were just so entertaining
22:46that you didn't want to miss a second.
22:47Yeah.
22:48Like, especially Rain and Megan.
22:50Oh, my God.
22:50Tell me.
22:51Those dates.
22:51Yeah.
22:52Had a whiplash.
22:54I was in there.
22:55Excuse me.
22:56Are you okay?
22:58Um.
22:58You can leave.
23:00I knew that if there was one couple that I could break up, it was going to be Rain and
23:03Megan.
23:03And only because I had the most in common with Rain.
23:07So the fact that I could really rain in on that, rain in on that, and really talk about,
23:12you know, just what our culture and our ethnicity, and I knew that that was going to be how I was
23:18the first date, um, I thought that I was going to be successful in breaking them up
23:23because, yeah, because you brought him in the room.
23:25I know.
23:26Rain, I took him away.
23:27And then he was watching the date from our room and was like, I need to go back and get
23:31her.
23:31And I was like, what?
23:33Why?
23:34She's in the other room with another man.
23:37Yeah.
23:37Like, anyway.
23:39I remember specifically, like, the first date we were watching, at one point, I was, like,
23:44watching the screen with the headset.
23:45And I didn't even realize they were right behind me in the room arguing because I was
23:50just so in, like, interest and, like, entertained that I was just, like, so captivated.
23:55And then I finally, it finally clicked for me that they were in the same room as me.
23:58And I was like, oh, and I took up the hits and I turned around one.
24:01I was always just, like, they were just so captivating every single time.
24:04When you were salvatorian, was there any part of you that wanted to break Rain up for
24:09the sake of getting Rain, or was it solely for the $2,000?
24:12It was for the money.
24:13But I will say, though, that a lot of the things that I said were true.
24:17Like, Rain and I do, we are the same ethnicity.
24:19The fact that he has a Laddie Stone tattooed on him, that's, like, a cultural thing from
24:23where I'm from.
24:24And he's visited the island next to where I'm from.
24:27Just the fact that he's been there.
24:29Because I think he's in the military.
24:30So there's a Navy base in Guam, so it makes sense.
24:33A lot of those things really did mean a lot to me.
24:35So, like, when I was talking about home and all of that stuff, that was all real.
24:39But in terms of, like, it was more, like, on a friendship vibe.
24:43But I wanted to learn it.
24:45So.
24:46You heard it here.
24:47At the end of the day, yeah.
24:49And Patches, you, I think you used the strategy of being a girl.
24:54I was like, yeah.
24:55I think, like, because for me, like, obviously watching, like, everybody go into these dates.
24:59Um, so, before we would, like, go into the dates to sabotage, like, um, we would get pulled
25:05aside and we would be, like, given, like, a thing, like, to, to go and do.
25:10Like, right?
25:10They gave us, like, a card, like, uh, like, try doing something like this, right?
25:13And so, I have, like, just seen everybody, like, going in and, like, sabotaging.
25:17And everyone was kind of using, like, that same strategy of, like, trying to flirt with
25:21the guy or trying to flirt with the girl.
25:22And I was like, that's obviously not working.
25:25Let me just try, like, getting in their heads.
25:28Like, let me just try getting in their heads.
25:29And then, I think it was, um, Rob who brought it up.
25:33He brought it, like, he was the one who brought up the first time, like, um, reading poems.
25:37Yeah.
25:37So, I was like, oh, yeah.
25:39Like, I got the goss attire.
25:41Like, I got the witchy vibe.
25:42Okay, I'm gonna, like, take a look over here.
25:44Okay.
25:44Your personality line.
25:45I'm seeing, okay, so there's, like, this one major line, right?
25:49And there's, like, a lot, like, kind of, like, branching out.
25:51Yeah.
25:52That's showing me, like, you're not very truthful.
25:55Oh.
25:56He's a liar.
25:57Like, I cannot read poems.
25:59I'm so sorry.
26:01I knew it.
26:02I knew it.
26:03It was all fake.
26:04And so, I was like, the astrology part, though.
26:07Nothing but negativity.
26:09That's all it was.
26:10No, but get this.
26:11Because the astrology part, I do know a little bit about astrology.
26:14And so, it's so funny.
26:15Because when I went into you and your Biagos date, specifically, and was like, oh, like,
26:19like, that sign's supposed to be a really good kisser.
26:21Like, do you want to test it out?
26:22I remember very well.
26:23It's a known fact that Pisces aren't good kissers.
26:28Maybe you should just stay with her.
26:30Ah.
26:31She should be the judge of that.
26:32Yes.
26:33Okay.
26:34She could be.
26:34I just admit that.
26:35Okay.
26:36I looked that up afterwards on Google, and he, his sign really was the top kissing sign.
26:56Like, that was not a lie.
26:57And that wasn't even intentional.
26:59What was his sign?
27:00Pisces.
27:00He's a Pisces.
27:02And so, um, but yeah, no, like, yeah, that's how that came about.
27:06Like, I think Rob was the one who told me originally, it was like, pretend to palm read.
27:09And then, like, that got taken into astrology and, like, witchy stuff.
27:13And so, like, I literally would just, anything I could use to get in, like, to people's heads
27:17and, like, make them doubt.
27:18Like, was the kiss your idea or was that people?
27:21It was Rob's idea first for, like, to palm read and be like, oh, maybe you can say something
27:26negative.
27:26But then after that, I kind of took it and was like, oh, now I'm in astrology.
27:30Reader, too.
27:30Now I'm this.
27:31And, like, and then I really was just, like, running with it, like, as much as possible.
27:35It was so funny because, like, um, when we had coins to, like, sabotage, Rob would pull
27:39me over and he'd be like, go read their palms.
27:41Go read them.
27:42So funny.
27:42I was like, okay.
27:44And I'd have to be like, oh, yeah, um, the heart line.
27:48Yeah.
27:48Like, you know, like, or I'd be like, oh, like, the commitment line.
27:52Yeah, there was low commitment issues.
27:54I don't know if you want to be with him.
27:56She was like, this line doesn't complete.
27:58It's broken, which means that he has commitment issues.
28:01And I was just like.
28:02You straight up called me a liar.
28:03Oh.
28:04You called me a liar.
28:06And I was like.
28:07To be fair, I'm pretty sure in that moment you had said something where, like, it kind
28:10of backed it up what she was saying.
28:12And I was just like.
28:13Did I lie?
28:13Was that my bad?
28:15You tell us.
28:16I'm pretty good at.
28:17Do you remember what it was about?
28:18Or I mean.
28:18I don't remember exact things, but, like, not just too much.
28:21I feel like I'm pretty good at improv.
28:23And so, like, whenever, like, Jude would, like, slip up a little and say something, I
28:27would just really take it and run with it.
28:29Like, I was running with it.
28:30I ran it into the ground.
28:32Like, I was like.
28:33Yeah.
28:33That's showing me, like, you're not very truthful.
28:36Oh.
28:37He's a liar.
28:38But.
28:39He's like, sober.
28:39It's kind of like the faults that I have as a human being bleeding into, to me trying
28:44to, you know, be my, like, 100% authentic self with a woman.
28:49I've learned to kind of cover those things up to be more successful.
28:54You did a great.
28:55Okay.
28:56I'll give you, I'll give you this.
28:57You did a great job at that because I felt so attacked.
29:01Oh.
29:01So uncomfortable.
29:02All three dates.
29:03I'm so sorry.
29:04As soon as it was going well.
29:05As soon as it was going well, me and Olivia actually getting to know each other, right?
29:09Here comes Patchy.
29:09Yeah, yeah.
29:11Rob goes, Rob goes, do your thing.
29:13Yeah.
29:13And she comes in and it's just.
29:15And I'd be like.
29:15Trauma.
29:16That's so funny.
29:17Yeah.
29:17Patches, I've heard you're an incredible improvisational actor.
29:20And you obviously were very successful.
29:23You won a ton of money on this, right?
29:24Yes.
29:25A couple.
29:25But also, so did Emily.
29:26Yes.
29:27Both of you, honestly.
29:28So you definitely knew what you were doing.
29:30Speaking of reputations.
29:32Let's talk about yours.
29:34So you said that you got attacked quite a bit.
29:36Yeah, yeah.
29:37But during the dates, I feel like I got a lot of the good things that were coming out
29:40of our dates were getting interrupted as soon as it was going well.
29:45You know, a little awkward at first, like Emily might agree with, right?
29:49A little awkward at first.
29:51No notes.
29:52And as soon as it starts to take off.
29:54Here's my defense.
29:55As soon as it starts to take off, someone like Paul or Patches would come in.
30:00Or me trying to give you a massage.
30:01Or Emily.
30:02Yeah, exactly.
30:03Yeah, yeah, yeah.
30:03One time.
30:03Don't let me down.
30:04Bye.
30:04Do you want me to give you a massage?
30:06A massage?
30:07I mean...
30:08Just a little taste test.
30:09Why not?
30:10Yeah.
30:10A little tester.
30:11Right.
30:11What are your intentions with the massage, I guess?
30:16What do you mean?
30:16I want you to relax and have a good time.
30:17Okay.
30:18Can I just sit right here?
30:19Yeah, you can.
30:19Of course.
30:19Okay, great.
30:20Yeah.
30:21And I just have to sit here and watch?
30:22No, no.
30:22I mean, we were kind of in the middle of a pretty connecting conversation.
30:27And I don't really want to ruin that.
30:28He's backsliding.
30:30Yeah, what was your intention about coming down?
30:32No, I just...
30:33You were talking about how you love quality time.
30:35You were talking about how you love physical touch.
30:37Those are my two main love language.
30:39Yeah, I know.
30:39But we were kind of both...
30:41And I think that you're really cute.
30:42So I just wanted to come down and let you know that.
30:45I think you deserve somebody who wants to spend time with you.
30:47And like actually, you know.
30:49Okay.
30:50Yeah.
30:50What are your thoughts on her barging in on our conversation?
30:56I mean...
30:56Well, you can speak for yourself, but I think he's pretty much telling you to leave.
31:02Yeah, I don't...
31:03In the most polite way.
31:04Yeah, it's...
31:05And I think I am going to tell you to leave as well.
31:07Uh-oh.
31:08I mean, that's fine if you want me to leave, but I was asking him.
31:13I was so annoyed.
31:14You said you were a masseuse.
31:15Are you a masseuse?
31:16No, I'm not.
31:18And I didn't say...
31:18There's no reason why I was going to do it.
31:19I didn't say that I...
31:20I wanted a good massage, you know?
31:21I didn't say that I was a masseuse.
31:23I said, I'm Asian.
31:25And Asians are good at massaging.
31:26Okay.
31:27It's true.
31:27Well, I believed it.
31:28But then, literally, you're like, I think I'm good.
31:31And then Olivia was like, yeah, get out of here.
31:32And I was just like...
31:33Okay, the walk up the stairs.
31:36You can see me walking in the background.
31:37And I was just like...
31:38And I went back in and I was like, I don't know what just happened.
31:40But I didn't like it.
31:42It did not feel good.
31:43I didn't mean to cut you off.
31:44Sorry.
31:45No, you're good.
31:46I'm sorry.
31:46To be honest, that I didn't...
31:48No massage for you.
31:49I was just confused.
31:50Once again, things were going well.
31:52You know, it was a little awkward position we were put in.
31:54You know, we were massage.
31:55She was massaging my back.
31:58How you doing?
31:59Doing good.
32:00How about you?
32:00Good, good.
32:01I'm so giddy.
32:02Look at me.
32:02I can't stop smiling.
32:04I don't know what you're talking about.
32:04The color is beautiful on you.
32:06All of my dates are at a 45 degree angle.
32:08Five feet apart.
32:08With seven people in lights, cameras, microphones.
32:11No, I'm kidding.
32:12It's so genuine, Robin.
32:14I love it.
32:14It's so you.
32:16Yeah.
32:16Well, it was genuine.
32:17You know, I think there was like a real connection.
32:20Yeah.
32:20And then like, as we're talking here, we had already like talked about everything like off
32:25camera.
32:25So we're just like rehashing this only now like more articulately.
32:28Right.
32:29Because we get practice beforehand.
32:30Like just like like chit chatting.
32:31I think he outshone every other guy here.
32:35True.
32:36There it is.
32:36Oh, cut, cut to.
32:38Oh, yeah.
32:39That's at the very end.
32:40That's at the very end.
32:41Yeah.
32:41Sorry.
32:43I, every time we kissed, I heard screams in the back.
32:46I was like, you guys.
32:48I heard, yeah.
32:50Was he a good kisser, Robin?
32:51Yes.
32:52Yeah.
32:52You see me like, when you guys had your first kiss, I was still standing behind you.
32:55You just see me going, I'm going to let myself out.
32:57Yes.
32:57Oh my God.
32:58Yeah.
32:59Well, yeah.
33:00Grandpa came over here to see us out.
33:04Grandpa's crazy.
33:05Who are you?
33:05Is this for me?
33:06Yeah.
33:06No, that's for you.
33:07Please, take it.
33:07No, that's so rude, man.
33:08Is this for you?
33:09No, I have my hands phone.
33:11You're Italian.
33:11It doesn't seem like you were interested at all.
33:14No.
33:15And like I said, literally nobody else like walking around that I saw was like even, you know,
33:21attempted.
33:21I think the reason why they brought Luca in because like he was like an older version of like
33:27Biagio in terms of like, you know, like the accent and all that.
33:30So I see what they were trying to do.
33:32And you had no idea they were all watching in this moment.
33:35No, no.
33:36I only, I only figured out that they were, there they are.
33:38Double trouble.
33:39I'm always.
33:41Hi.
33:41So romantic.
33:42So romantic.
33:43Good.
33:43How about you?
33:44Good.
33:44Yeah.
33:45Are you having a good time?
33:46What's happening here?
33:47What the fuck is going on?
33:48Nothing's happening.
33:49Oh, really?
33:49You can tell me right here?
33:50What?
33:50I was like, I don't want to leave.
33:52I'm so comfortable right here.
33:53Well, just tell me what, what is it that, that you like so much about her?
33:57About her?
33:58Have you talked to her?
33:59So much that closes you off to other people.
34:01I mean, that's a good question.
34:02But have you, if you spoke to her, I think it'd be a little easier for you to find that out.
34:05It's really easy to talk to her.
34:06I mean, out of, out of every.
34:07Oh, the montage.
34:09Yeah, the B-roll.
34:10But she has to be the easiest person to talk to.
34:13Yeah?
34:13Yeah.
34:14Oh, yeah.
34:14Look at her.
34:15She's like, oh, that's actually really sweet.
34:17She goes, that sounds smart.
34:18I think we just saw Emily crumble on her, on her sabotage.
34:22So what is your time?
34:24Before coming into this, what were you looking for?
34:27I mean, anything that moves.
34:29No, I'm kidding.
34:29I just, honestly, someone I could talk to, there's so much.
34:32Did you expect him to crumble in this moment, or did you not see him cracking yet?
34:38I don't think so.
34:39I think I was pretty good.
34:39You could see me standing there.
34:40I was like, had a smile on my face.
34:42I was pretty confident that like, she wasn't going to take him away from me.
34:45Because we had already, at that point, like, we, like, exchanged numbers.
34:48We were, like, texting each other.
34:50You know, like, we're giving song recommendations already.
34:52And then, like, again, like, we're, like, you know, already talking about, like, you know,
34:55first date stuff already.
34:57I think I know what's coming next.
34:59Ah!
34:59Oh!
35:01There it is.
35:02Okay, I'm really big into astrology.
35:04Ooh!
35:05And I would love to know what your guys' signs are.
35:08I'm, uh...
35:09He just said merch for Pisces.
35:10Is this, are we getting a sneak preview of this palm reading right now?
35:13It's my moon's going to go.
35:14I'm going to gas him up a little bit right here.
35:15Okay.
35:15Pisces, they're very emotional.
35:17They're very in tune with their emotions.
35:18They know what they're thinking a lot of times, and they feel very deeply.
35:21They're very empathetic.
35:22I will say, though, it's a known fact that Pisces are good kissers.
35:28I feel like maybe we should test this theory.
35:30On the fly.
35:31On the fly!
35:32I'm screaming, I'm screaming, I'm screaming.
35:33Look at me, look at me.
35:34I'm like, ah!
35:36Big smile on my face.
35:37I was like, hell yeah!
35:39Yes!
35:40Gimme!
35:41Yeah.
35:43Try to be coy.
35:44I feel like I'm getting, like, all, like, all over again.
35:48Well, because...
35:48Well, you'll see.
35:49You'll see.
35:54That's what...
35:55They're, like, faking out!
35:56On the first date.
35:58There it is.
36:02Look at my giddy smile.
36:05That was nice.
36:05Again, I heard the screaming, so I was like, so people are seeing this.
36:11Look at that big smile I have on.
36:13Wow.
36:14Yeah.
36:15Oh!
36:15Damn.
36:17And that was very nice.
36:18Oh!
36:18Feeling my things.
36:20Yeah.
36:20Again, I, like, ran home.
36:23I was like, I kissed a boy!
36:24Oh, my God!
36:26Are you open to a possibility of a second date?
36:31This is a lot.
36:32It's a lot.
36:33This is a lot.
36:36Absolutely.
36:37Everything's perfect.
36:38So, watching that.
36:42Yeah.
36:42Zero red flags for me.
36:43I don't know how you're feeling.
36:44If there was anything that happened as time went on that kind of showed you, maybe?
36:49No.
36:49I think that was, like, it was, like, so, we were so quick on the get-go of, like, getting
36:54to know each other really, really well.
36:56And then it was just so easy to talk to him.
36:57I felt like I, like, I had known him for, like, ever.
37:00And I met him, like, literally, like, at that day.
37:02Yesterday, I met him.
37:03And then it was, you know, so great to kind of have that connection with somebody that
37:08felt so natural and really, really easy.
37:11And, no, I think what I appreciated is that after, you know, the second time when I asked
37:18if he wanted to hang out and then he, like, made some excuse and then, like, we didn't
37:22really talk afterwards, I think I was, like, I was, like, talking about it with my roommates
37:26and then, like, I was explaining to them, like, everything that happened.
37:28Like, it was, like, such a crazy week for me.
37:30Like, this doesn't happen in my everyday life.
37:32Like, it was such a crazy, like, string of events.
37:35And then I was, like, asking my friends, like, was I more, like, really enjoying the
37:40connection that we had that was more, like, friendly?
37:43Did I read into it too much?
37:44Did he give off the vibe that he just wanted to be friends?
37:48But then if he did, why did he kiss me not on camera and, like, you know, you know, invite
37:52me over to my house, his house and, you know, talk literally until, like, you know, 1030
37:58at night or something like that.
37:59And, like, it was just so, like, easy.
38:01I thought, like, we had, like, a really good and, like, strong connection.
38:05And then nothing.
38:06And I think that that's also kind of what, you know, hurt a little bit is, like, you
38:10know, it was just so much, so an intense connection for that five days and then, like, dropped
38:17cold turkey, like, nothing.
38:19And I was, like, that was kind of, you know, not great.
38:22And I'm talking with my roommates about it.
38:23And they're, like, oh, you know, like, I think he really did like you.
38:26Just, like, like, something happened.
38:27You know, they're saying all the nice things.
38:29And I'm, like, yeah, I guess so.
38:30But you weren't there.
38:31But the thing is, I met you guys afterwards when we went out to dinner.
38:35And then I was, like, telling you the whole thing.
38:37And, like, it's not every day that you have people watching your first, second, and third
38:42day.
38:43And then I was, like, asking the girls.
38:44I was, like, I don't know.
38:45Did I read into it?
38:46And you guys were, like, no, no.
38:47It seemed like he really liked you.
38:49And I'm, like, good.
38:49Like, I don't feel, like, crazy anymore.
38:51And I wish that everyone could have that experience of having, like, people watch their first, second,
38:55and third date and then to get, like, feedback of, like, did I read this wrong?
38:59Was I coming off weird?
39:00Like, you know, stuff like that to have people watching it.
39:02But obviously not everybody can have that experience.
39:05Is there anything that you think that he owes you?
39:07Like, not really.
39:09Because, again, like, we literally met, like, five days ago.
39:12So it's not like, you know, I didn't feel like he was leading me on or anything.
39:18I think it was just, you know, we had a spark.
39:21And, you know, for whatever reason, he didn't want to move forward with it.
39:23And I guess it's easy to say, you know, like, oh, he's such a dick.
39:26Like, you know, blah, blah, blah.
39:27And, like, I kind of paint him as the bad guy.
39:29But, like, I have to acknowledge that he's his own, like, rich human being.
39:33And he has his own inner life.
39:35And, you know, he has his own things going on that, you know, whatever he decided to do,
39:39that was the choice that he wanted to make in that moment.
39:42And I have to respect that.
39:43And I think that that's, you know, it wasn't any, like, mixed messages per se.
39:48But it was just kind of like, you know, whatever we had, thank you for that.
39:52That was such a great, you know, time.
39:54What a crazy week that I had.
39:55That was like, and again, I think I make the joke and the thing where, like, that's something
39:59that I'll take with me to my grave.
40:01Like, I had a crazy week with, you know, a person who I really connected with.
40:05Maybe later on, we'll see each other in life.
40:07And I'll say hi, you know, you know, maybe we'll reminisce or something.
40:11But, like, overall, I think it was just a nice experience for me to have.
40:15And to have, like, what's the phrase?
40:18To have loved and lost is better to have never loved at all.
40:21You know, like, that kind of thing.
40:22Where it's like, I'm glad to have, I didn't mean to say the L word in that situation.
40:26I'm bobbing.
40:27Yeah.
40:27But I think it was nice to have that connection.
40:30And then, you know, I think I'm okay with, like, not getting closure as to, like, why that,
40:37you know, didn't move forward.
40:38Because now he's going on with his life.
40:40And then I can go on with my life.
40:41Do you feel differently than, Jude, from how things ended with you and Olivia?
40:45Um, I think it was just, it was really, it was just really on-screen messy.
40:50Yeah.
40:50So there wasn't, I feel like there was less spark.
40:54Yeah.
40:54I don't know if people were out to get us more.
40:57I don't know if that was the reason.
40:58I mean, there they are right there, right?
41:01I'm just kidding.
41:02But regardless, I understand why it would be more toward us rather than what they had going on.
41:07You know?
41:08So I feel like for that exact reason, I think there was just less of a general spark.
41:12You know, I'm just, I don't know.
41:13Yeah, just kind of how it happened.
41:14Yeah.
41:15Could have been the order of the dates, whatever.
41:17Yeah.
41:18Could be anything.
41:19Yeah, exactly.
41:19Yeah, that too.
41:20Yeah.
41:20Yeah.
41:21I love it.
41:22All right, you guys.
41:23How do you feel about transitioning to a little game then?
41:26A game?
41:26I love games.
41:29All right.
41:30The game is called Who is Most Likely To?
41:32Oh, I love this.
41:33Between the four of you.
41:34Okay.
41:35Hey.
41:35Oh, gosh.
41:36Do it.
41:36Okay.
41:37So, the first question out of the four of you, who is most likely to fall for someone
41:42already taken?
41:44Three, two, one, go.
41:46Yeah.
41:48Sometimes it happens accidentally, I will say, because people are not honest.
41:54Who's actually caught real feelings on the show?
41:57Finger, I just can't.
41:58Oh!
41:59Yeah, yeah, yeah.
42:00Oh, okay.
42:00I was just like, Jude, are you?
42:02I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, yeah.
42:03Yeah.
42:04All right.
42:04Who is most likely to be in a serious relationship one year from now?
42:09Oh.
42:11We all cry.
42:11Ooh.
42:12Oh, but who is most likely to date a walking red flag?
42:16Three, two, one.
42:17Yeah.
42:18Yeah.
42:19Dude.
42:20At least you know.
42:21Yeah.
42:22Who is most likely to give the best advice, but never take it?
42:26Oh, I was going to say one of us.
42:28Oh, my gosh.
42:29Yes.
42:30Who is most likely to call out toxic behavior?
42:36I feel like either or.
42:38They're very similar.
42:39Yeah.
42:40This is our last one, you guys.
42:42Who is most likely to stay friends with everyone, no matter the drama?
42:47All of us.
42:48All of us.
42:48I was going to say, I was literally going to say, you're pointing at themselves, you know?
42:51Cute.
42:51Yeah.
42:52For sending memes in the group, Chow or Kiki.
42:54Yeah.
42:54I feel like all of us, like, on screen, we might, like,
42:59especially in saboteurs, we might seem, like, a little bit mean.
43:01We might seem a little bit f***ed.
43:02But, like, in real life, I feel like all of us are such nice, lovely, and, like, warm-feeling
43:08people.
43:08Like, I don't know.
43:09I feel like all of us would stay friends with all of us.
43:12Because that was, I think, like, this is such a, like, a unique experience that not everybody
43:17gets to have.
43:18And so to even, like, be a part of it, like, I'm, like, forever bonded to you guys.
43:21Because, like...
43:22Drama bonded, yes.
43:22Drama bonded, yeah.
43:23But I, like, like, there's nobody else that I can, like, talk to, especially, like, you
43:27know, I was talking about, like, with my roommates, like, with, like, Biagio and stuff.
43:31And, like, they only get, like, my side of the story when I can talk to you guys about
43:34it.
43:34And you guys know everything.
43:36And I think that's, like, so, like...
43:37You didn't even have to tell us.
43:38I didn't even have to tell you.
43:40Yeah.
43:40In fact, you were telling me, like, this is what I thought when he said this.
43:43I'm like, that's so crazy.
43:44Anything that you guys want the fans to know, whether it was a favorite experience from
43:50this, a lesson learned, or a reputation you want to, um, kind of save yourself from?
43:57One thing that I want to say for sure is...
44:00So, actually, funny enough, the second day when I came back without, like, the goth makeup,
44:04I was by the crafty area.
44:06And Rain was over there.
44:07Like, and we were just, like, you know, grabbing a snack, whatever.
44:11And he, like, just looks at me, he's like, oh, like, I love the makeup today.
44:14And I was just, like, oh, like, thank you.
44:15Like, you know.
44:16And then he, like, goes and says, like, oh, like, if you would have worn that on day one,
44:21like, I would have said yes.
44:24And I was just, like, oh, like...
44:26And I forgot exactly what I said to him, but I said something, like, kind of sassy, and
44:31I just, like, walked away.
44:32Because I was, like...
44:33What a Rain thing to say.
44:34It's very much, like, um, if you don't like every version of me, then you don't like me.
44:40Yeah.
44:41Like, why would you, like...
44:42And so, that's a message I really want to tell people, is put your full freak out there.
44:48Put your full, like, personality out there.
44:50Like, be 110% of yourself in every situation where you're first meeting people.
44:56Because if they like you at 110%, then they'll like you at 30%.
45:00They'll like you at 40%.
45:00But if they only like you at 30%, who's going to say they're going to like you at that 110?
45:04Like, you know?
45:04Yeah.
45:05So, always make sure you're, like, fully your authentic self, like, to ward off, like,
45:09any situation like that where, like, someone might say yes to you and want to, like, date
45:13you, but then you want to do, like, you know, crazy makeup or something.
45:18It's like...
45:18And then all of a sudden, they're like, oh.
45:20Like, you know?
45:22Always just be 100%, like, authentically you in every, like, dating situation.
45:25And whether or not, like, like, you know, if you're hiding or not, it's going to ooze
45:29out into your everyday life who you really are.
45:32It'll come out at, like, some point if you try to hide it or not.
45:35So, it's only fair for the other person that you come, you know, as you are rather than,
45:39you know, anything else.
45:40I think that just all the reputation stuff aside, this experience taught me to, like,
45:44take more risks and, you know, to not, even though that was literally what we did, don't
45:48judge a book by its cover.
45:49Spend more time with people.
45:51Try to, like, go outside of your comfort zone.
45:53And, you know, date somebody, give somebody a shot that you feel like maybe you wouldn't
45:57have, you know, paired with in real life and in a normal circumstance.
46:01Because you never know.
46:02You know what I mean?
46:02Like, I feel like the relationships, friendships, romantic, whatever, that I personally made
46:07in this were not, like, I can even think of, like, Noelle, for example.
46:12I love Noelle.
46:13Damn.
46:14Like, no, I love him.
46:16He's so funny.
46:17He's so cool.
46:18Everybody's obsessed with him.
46:19He came, another thing, too, that's just so sweet.
46:21Like, I know not everybody could come, but, like, planning the birthday, they planned,
46:25like, a birthday surprise for me, too.
46:27Oh, my God.
46:27And Noelle ended up coming.
46:28He brought a cake and, like, a plant, a whole plant.
46:32But if I was looking at it from the first day, Noelle, like, just from what he was,
46:38you know, saying and how acting went on, I probably wouldn't have been like, hey, let's
46:41go hang out.
46:42You know what I mean?
46:43But now I'm like, oh, my God, could I imagine not being friends with Noelle?
46:45That's crazy.
46:46Noelle, I love you.
46:47I would say one thing I didn't, it kind of came across my mind, actually, during this
46:52little conversation we're having, was when I said I've never been in a relationship.
46:57I understand that's a red flag when people first hear that.
47:00You're young still.
47:01Yeah.
47:01That's what I'm saying.
47:01It's like, I understand I'm not a perfect human being, right?
47:05So I'm trying to work on that every day.
47:08I feel like I, like, you know, like, I learned two things on this fun adventure that we all
47:12had together.
47:13Like, one of the first things is that, that I kind of appreciate is, you know, when people
47:18show you who they are, believe them.
47:20And I think I take that in one way of saying, like, you know, I think he said, Biagio, I
47:26think Biagio said in the, in one of the episodes on one of our dates that he likes to plan things.
47:31He likes to take charge in the relationship.
47:32And then the fact that he kind of like, you know, left me on red, that's a cue to me to
47:37know that, you know, he's not just, he's just not that interested in you and that's okay.
47:40And I, I take that and I believe that there's no mixed messages there.
47:43I believe that.
47:44But then on the other side of it, when we were together and then we did have those good
47:47moments, we did have a spark.
47:49I believe that too.
47:50I believe that we did have a spark together and we did connect.
47:52And, you know, I'll believe, you know, when he said that, you know, he thought it was
47:55cute and charming.
47:56Like, I'll, I'll believe that because that's what he said.
47:58And I think I'll, I'll take it in both ways.
48:00And just, you know, that's just kind of how life plays out.
48:03And like the second thing that I think I've, I've learned on this is, you know, you know,
48:06how to say goodbye in, in a way like on my like first relationship, just kind of, you
48:11know, saying goodbye to what I thought my future would look like.
48:15I didn't think that I would be in the situation dating again, you know, after my long relationship,
48:19I thought I'd be in a, in a different place than I assumed that I'd be.
48:24And so just kind of learning how to like grieve that relationship and then move on, you know,
48:29like, like be at peace with what happened and how that went down.
48:31Same thing with Biaja being at peace that, you know, everything happens, you know, how
48:36it played out.
48:37And then it was fun while it lasted sucks that ends, but now we get to go on and enjoy life.
48:43And, you know, even though he, you know, left me on red, I get to, you know, take that for
48:47myself and I know how to like, kind of say goodbye to him, say goodbye to what we had and
48:52then move on.
48:53No hard feelings between the two of us.
48:55We're good.
48:56Yeah.
48:57I love that.
48:57Thank you so much for watching real short fans.
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